Thanks ❤ great points

This is an excellent video

Wonderful video, indeed, thank you for sharing! Is part 2 uploaded anywhere as well?

I’d love to see the video! How can I access it?

Perhaps I'm not understanding this or, this was missed in the video and that is - I've told my husband multitudes of times that I'm teachable, I'm coachable, willing to learn, etc. but he has to really soften his approach, not be so harsh and hard, hostile. Of course that rarely happens with him and when this happens, I don't want to do anything he suggests or says because he is so, so "hard", abrasive, etc. And so I feel I'm in the 'failure to accept influence' category and that might not be fair? again, maybe I'm not understanding this but my husband has me in tears so much with how he criticizes me.

@l.1273

4 жыл бұрын

I’m sorry to read about this situation with your husband. I want to share with you that I was told that I was like your husband. I can’t say by how much but because I grew up in an abusive household I grew up being loud and fighting and arguing and thought that normal for a very long time. In relationships this was not much appreciated as you can imagine. I didn’t realize the degree to which people were inwardly cowering around me. One friend expressed what you did, I needed to tone things down. We tried different things. One was whispering. I had to whisper. Well, this could bring on laughter which of course helped a lot. Another thing was writing things down instead of talking out loud. One needs to be somewhat calm to write clearly and easily. It also slowed down the interaction quite a bit making things more comfortable. Another was the ‘stop’ hand signal. Just putting up a hand and indicating stop. That way the intimidated person didn’t need to speak. When the hand went up it was a signal for me to back off. Because relationships can be complex, other issues began to surface when I slowed down and changed this behavior and one thing was the degree to which the other person wasn’t being assertive, not expressing their needs and surprisingly not able to very easily. So as things began to change it was found there were issues on both sides. Passive aggressive behavior came up as well from the intimidated person. It wasn’t one person being responsible for everything but it certainly helps when what is seen as aggressive behavior changes as it allows these other issues to emerge for the attention they need. I’d like to add one more thing. If your husband isn’t willing to try these things, well, that indicates a much deeper issue, that, in my opinion calls for more professional help. I was willing to change because I really cared and truly didn’t understand the affect I was having. I hope your husband is willing to experiment as well. I wish you both good fortune as you go forward.

@elliegonzaleza

Жыл бұрын

@@l.1273wow that’s so enlightening to me to read your advice and process! Thank you so much for taking the time to type it and post it and thank you for being so open kind and vulnerable with your message. All the best!

@l.1273

Жыл бұрын

@@elliegonzaleza I appreciate your kind reply.

Hey! Great video! Is there any way to watch the video clips or are those copyright protected? I feel like it would be so helpful to actually see the masters and disasters interacting. :)

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3 жыл бұрын

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Anyone know how I can find part 2 of this video? Really enjoyed this

@recamftdirector1243

3 жыл бұрын

Part 2 is only available to RECAMFT members. recamft.org

Hey, they cut out the dialog of the couples! 12:15

@watcherwlc53

5 жыл бұрын

yeah, I was waiting for that, and it never happened!

I'm fascinated by this content. A book I read with similar themes really shifted my perspective. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

The got an conflict blueprint part 2

@kated7829

6 жыл бұрын

Rosalie Hearn

Has anyone researched what false 'positivity' creates in a human? Women do it a lot to be "nice" and then they get sick and die young. Real positivity comes from the freedom to be fully expressed in this world and be known by those we love. Avoiding, ignoring, and dismissing, will make it hard and almost impossible to have real positivity for any length of time in an environment where we are expected to give sex, support the male ego, and go without our own needs being considered as equally valuable. Removing ones-self from the relationship and getting needs met is necessary for survival if a partner just wants positivity, which is really just asking for conflict to be ignored and they don't want to be bothered to do something hard for the relationship.

I gather they are not showing the video her audience sees?

The truth is couples need each other for having kids ...you always die alone

I think the not-so subtle digs against Southerners could be avoided.

@michellek6533

6 ай бұрын

? where was this?