The Golden Bachelor: Gerry on Picking Theresa, Their Live-TV Wedding and Life in the Public Eye
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Gerry Turner and his new fiancée, Theresa Nist, chat with ET's Denny Directo following their engagement on Thursday's 'Golden Bachelor' finale. The couple is already hearing wedding bells after announcing that they will exchange vows in a live, televised special on Jan. 4. They share details about what's next and where they plan to live after saying 'I do.'
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Congratulations to them both on their journey
Rare success for Bachelor because man picked the best suited for him and didn't get too carried away with fleeting feelings. Happy for them!
@TheSwisscanada
5 ай бұрын
but he said to many other ladies "I love you"....bla bla.... too easy with words
They seem happy together so congrats to both .
this season was so refreshing to watch. He seems like a legit cool caring guy. I wish Gerry and Theresa happiness in their upcoming marriage ❤❤❤❤
@bestofluckareeba4305
5 ай бұрын
Well he is not
They deserve each other! The lady with the horses wasn’t going to leave her home where her horse was buried. The other lady was too young and active for him. He picked the right lady for him.
@dianem7677
5 ай бұрын
...dont have a high opinion about him
@laurencreede591
5 ай бұрын
I used to love watching the golden bachelor but after seeing the finale they both made me feel sick😢
@Mariekr49
5 ай бұрын
For her to get up and leave her grand children she sees daily is absolutely sickening. Shows what kind of person she is.
@Mariekr49
5 ай бұрын
No longer needs to keep a secret,darn right your dirty Secrets came out for sure now lol. Gold digger. Using women to pay your rent.
@Angeleyez37tx
5 ай бұрын
Actually, Teresa said that she would not leave her family. It was Leslie that was willing to do so.
They seem lovely together. I hope it all works out for them.
Congratulations to both! That being said, I hope that Theresa’s heart is not broken, she seems quite genuine. Theresa is soooo smart and intelligent, I hope that her good heart is not taken advantage of! And I really hope she is smart enough to get a pre-nup!!!!!! Go ahead and fall for love, but don’t give up your family’s home and money to a man you hardly know (opportunistic men are a dime a dozen)!! I know I’m sounding like the doubting Thomas, I do live in the real world. Best to the both of you and your families 🩷
@julawa86
5 ай бұрын
I like your post Sally! It makes alot of sense!
No matter the age trust your instincts and listen to your close circle around you. Don’t fall in love with an idea as it rarely ends well. He reminds me of an older hustler. Almost too good to be real. She may be in love with the idea, the fantasy but once the move to SC and they live with each other she may quickly realize that bachelor was gold plated.
@GLeon-ov9yu
5 ай бұрын
Agreed - from what I read he is an old hustler.
@dn5582
5 ай бұрын
@@GLeon-ov9yu i honestly haven’t read anything about him or didn’t watch the show but picked up on snippets in the news. Interesting how some pick up on that immediately and others don’t. She seems like a very sincere and empathetic person and I hope he doesn’t play on her emotions, good will, and bank account.
@pkp6791
5 ай бұрын
HE is a total narcissist. Even in the interviews, he rarely initiates an answer or thought. He looks at her for cues for mirroring whatever she is saying--- a total narc, player move. Leslie and the other ladies deserve so much more. He is a liar, a busted player who picked the female who will be easiest to control. Leslie and Faith are KIND, GORGEOUS and emotionally mature. Unfortunately, most males are allergic to women like them because they require reciprocity and wont be controlled or manipulated. His games is so typical, it is almost funny. A broken down old hustler knows where his game wont work, so he wont even go there-- too scared. Lol!
@dn5582
5 ай бұрын
@@pkp6791 narcissists rarely if ever change and you are right. They know where to find their supply. Let this one play out it will be lesson for some golden bachelorettes too out there. But yeh immediate impression was charming, handsome. Then i listened and was like 🤔 that was an interesting non-answer. Love bombing, blame shifting, minimizing, all the other classic red flag signs. Her family better help her and watch out for her.
@elipotter369
5 ай бұрын
@@dn5582she's a manipulator too, so I wonder when she'll see through him and get out. She's best off NOT marrying him, as he'll be after her money tbe moment that happens and it's probably going to get messy and unpleasant.
All the best to Gerry and Theresa! You'll love South Carolina!
@dianem7677
5 ай бұрын
mhm
@sherriec5258
5 ай бұрын
What about SC? Did I miss something? Haven't watched this video. I'm from SC, so curious....
@frdjr2527
5 ай бұрын
@@sherriec5258 They said that they plan to move to the Charleston area after they get married. I'm also in SC.
@sherriec5258
5 ай бұрын
@@frdjr2527 Oh wow. I figured they would end up at Gerry's home, which I don't recall what state he's from. But that's nice. Thank you for replying.
@frdjr2527
5 ай бұрын
@@sherriec5258Gerry's from Indiana, Theresa's from NJ
I think their personalities are actually quite similar. Best Wishes! 🙂✌️❤️🦋🙏
I LOVE this couple. When you go on the show, only one can win. That's the consequence of being on the show. I knew from the beginning that Theresa was the one. They just blend well.❤ All of the ladies are GOLDEN. I enjoyed seeing the bond between each other. They brought hope and to keep love and marriage on the table after one loses a spouse. Now make Natasha the golden Bachelorette..THAT’S RATINGS. HELP A SISTAH OUT❤.
I am so very happy for you both!
Such a cute couple!
Congratulations on finding love again. Shows that you are never to old for love.
To the person reading this, even though I don't know you. I wish you the best of what life has to offer 🙏 🙌 😊❤
@therockbottom5256
5 ай бұрын
And I wish the best to you in return ❤
@visariosorino8034
5 ай бұрын
@@therockbottom5256 ❤️🤗
@DeboraF-hd7gl
5 ай бұрын
Same to you! What a beautiful thing to say.
@andreajones6840
5 ай бұрын
Same to you dear 🙏🏽
@visariosorino8034
5 ай бұрын
@@andreajones6840 🙏🙌😊👍
this show was so mature and so real that i do not even want to watch the youngsters because im like what experience do you have??
I really like you two and think you are a great fit for a second time at love and life together. Cheers to you and may you have many happy moments ahead, along with a partner through the hard days. ❤
I am very happy for them. I don't understand why people keep talking about the financial 🙄. She is very intelligent and loving. ❤❤❤
Yes, at our age we know what we want, we've learned some lessons, When you see what you want, why waste time and play games..good for them, they seem real honest about it and the same page 😊
I LUV that this show has "golden" age ppl!!!!
Wish them both the very best, a long lasting relationship, health and happiness. Even though my hopes were with Leslie I was shocked. I didn't appreciate him saying I love you to a few woman and getting their homes up.
Hopefully they are happy in their relationship. Hopefully it lasts, a lasting marriage/love/romance relationship.
Lovely couple
@dianem7677
5 ай бұрын
really? Why are you saying that? Playing for TV is easy, but this guy is fake
This dude doesn't sound like he has a life. He chose her for the ready made family and financial stability.
@TheSwisscanada
5 ай бұрын
Finally, somebody says what i was thinking.... don't trust that man...
I judt hope, and pray all goes well with theresa. Seeing how he flipped a switch with Leslie was a bit unsettling. It wasn't him changing his feelings it was the way he acted with her.
@pkp6791
5 ай бұрын
That 'switch' shows an emotional unavailability and lack of concern for anyone but self. He will LIE LIE LIE in the moment to get what he thinks he wants, then avoid any reasonable discussion of depth about it. He is a busted old player who can't help himself. Theresa looks like the joker. He picked the least attractive of the top three because he knows he will be able to manipulate her in a way he wont be able to with the others. I wish them the best.
@TheSwisscanada
5 ай бұрын
I completely agree with you, i didn't like his behavior at all, to play with a matured woman's feeling is not the way you do it. And so many "I love you" was a bit a putting off for me. My husband, 91 and myself 75, telling each other every day: I love you, but we mean it. In my opinion, he is a calculating man and with his soap story about his wife, and now he chose a copy of his wife. Well, good luck to the woman, she wanted it so badly, she got it.
@elipotter369
5 ай бұрын
@@pkp6791she's changed her lipstick thankfully. She's a manipulator too, so she'll hopefully get out from under his nastiness without suffering a lot. If I was her, I wouldn't be marrryong him - he's after her money.
@dianem7677
5 ай бұрын
....Theresa? She was manipulative from the very beginning. And Gary is a total liar.
@TheSwisscanada
5 ай бұрын
@@elipotter369 not only she changed her lipstick, she had injection, unfortunately one side is uneven.. she may get her money back.
Yay! Congratulations!
Leslie is an attractive, active, and exuberant woman. She will do just fine!
@dianem7677
5 ай бұрын
...I dont know how will she manage to be just fine. She is old and fell in love with that fake guy. Now she will suffer for a very long time.
@Maryaliece
5 ай бұрын
@dianem7677 old? I'm 63, a newlywed, physically fit, sing semi professionally, am in process of building a new home...My mom is 88, walks several miles a day, drives wherever she needs to go.... Don't label people because of a #, please.
@vbscp
5 ай бұрын
Leslie should be the Golden Bachelorette with younger guys.
@hallejohn7063
5 ай бұрын
@@dianem7677getting older is a blessing I hope to get to their ages.
@dianem7677
5 ай бұрын
@@Maryaliece ...I agree with you, I apologize for being so harsh. But that is the truth. You cannot make up your own scale. For me above 65 is old. Sorry. What you can bless is only, only ...your HEALTH....if you are healthy you can feel like young person in your 80 ties. I only referred to Leslie state of mind and feelings. I can imagine how does she feel every day when she gets up and when she goes to bed at night....No fun,. Why? Because that guy lied to her. We cannot excuse Leslie from her responsibility to remember that it was a TV show....but this guy told her that he loved her!
The moment was when she told him what she did for a living Lol….
Sweet, I just don’t thrive on the drama. Happy for them.
His number one was Leslie but as soon as Theresa spoke about her career he saw her as a cash cow. It's sad because Theresa seems very genuine and truly into him but it doesn't surprised me at all that all this bad press is coming out about him and how he is a fraud and isn't financially stable. He's a liar and his kids were in it too its so sick! I feel for Theresa because she is so brainwashed by him at this point. PRENUP THERESA!!!!!!!!!
@elipotter369
5 ай бұрын
I think she's a manipulator too, she played to win. So hopefully she'll get out soon when she sees how damaging and grasping he can be.
@dianem7677
5 ай бұрын
@@elipotter369 from the start I sensed that he is fake...She is also not better.
She tapped into his neediness from the car ride to the end…and on.
@aminah761
5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@user-fj4jc2zw2u
5 ай бұрын
He chose her for the ready made family and financial stability. They deserve each other.
They will workout just fine.
Well I’m his age, female and single. Something about him troubles me. He’s got all of the appropriate phrases but he doesn’t seem authentic. I wish them well, but….
I think she wowed him in the fantasy sweet- he couldn’t resist after that
HAVE A HAPPY LIFE TOGETHER,GERRY AND THERESA❤❤❤❤❤❤😎😎😎😎😎😎
Has Gerry dyed his hair? Well, Theresa dyes her hair, so..... As an older women who does not dye her hair..... I enjoyed seeing the many women on this season who are their authentic selves and let their hair be natural.
@suzanne296
5 ай бұрын
Me I'm starting to go salt and pepper
@GLeon-ov9yu
5 ай бұрын
It takes a lot of time and effort to keep up with coloring one’s roots every six weeks. For those willing to put the time in it looks fantastic!!! I’ve been coloring my roots for 20 years and I’m 54. I will never stop because I can’t stand grey on me.
@elipotter369
5 ай бұрын
@@GLeon-ov9yuI coloured for a while when the silver first showed up and it looked dowdy and I still hoped to get a new job and partner. But then I read the dye instructions again and realised it said keep off your skin and it goes all over your scalp, I'm done. After, I felt I'd missed out on my beautiful natural colour changing. It's ended up looking a paler shade of blonde when I gave up coffee (health issues) the pigment came back in a band around my face. It's the nicest hair I've had on decades, if ever, I'm in my 60s. My mother had dark brunette and her salt and pepper into steely grey was gorgeous. My father had golden blonde mixed with silver. It was lovely.
@dianem7677
5 ай бұрын
...no, pls, you will look old
@dianem7677
5 ай бұрын
@@GLeon-ov9yu ...I have gray showing, but I use my way coloring and I am not gray
I think they should move to THE VILLAGES in FL. and hob knob with all the other GOLDENS !!
When he realized she had 💰 money
@rhondaanthony1412
5 ай бұрын
Yep.
@maryfischer875
5 ай бұрын
If Leslie could buy a $60, 000.00 dress she must have some money also.
@GLeon-ov9yu
5 ай бұрын
He went for the money and someone who agrees with everything
@user-fj4jc2zw2u
5 ай бұрын
BINGO. Men always look for a ready made family and money to join.
@RioJudy
5 ай бұрын
YEP, I AGREE!
Rose, I agree with you! When he saw that horse and after listening to her!! He really had to give it some serious thought! I just think he should have sent her before! Faith was nice but definitely wasn’t going to uproot without her boys and horses. Plus she’s got a angry 😮streak!! Comes out fast!! Lmao 😂
Look they are all grown ups and they knew what they were getting into. What they did in the fantasy sweet is their business. Why even ask that personal ? As for the runner up they got caught up in the commotion and did and said things that know they may regret. But this is part of the process someone is going to be hurt and ladies are going to be jealous and family are going to say things what’s on their mind. Congrats and I hope they have a beautiful happy marriage forever.
@dianem7677
5 ай бұрын
..that was fair game, all ladies knew that they are not the one until the end. However, that guy was dishonest when telling two or more ladies that he loved him. He wanted to keep at least one , when smarter will discover his game.
He should not have told Leslie that she was " the one "
How old is gerry turner???
In reality you date someone , not proclaim your love and marry in a few months time , and sell your homes to move . Not very realistic or practical.
@elipotter369
5 ай бұрын
Yep. Theresa is a fool if she goes along with all that. Unless they pay her heaps and she has an iron clad pre nuptial.
Yes
She's so hard up, she grabbed that ring and put it on herself, no class!!
I'm gonna need the Golden Bachelor and his new love to take a nap. The show is over, and I enjoyed viewing it. Now, let's move on. No investment and please, no reality show!
Good luck girl..he doesnt seem real
Noooo, ugh... this was a spoiler... Glad they found love. I thought he was going to pick the other lady. As long as they are happy.
@TheSwisscanada
5 ай бұрын
he was playing the game, but i didn't enjoy how he played Leslie..... it will get back to him one day
@chrissychris1360
5 ай бұрын
@TheSwisscanada I agree, I truly liked Leslie and just knew he was gonna pick her. Wow, shocked. He said a lot to all of them, but he really hurt Leslie and the girl before. I couldn't think of her name.
I read about him and past relationships. Very controlling especially. With money. His last long term relationship he made the woman split everything with him.
@elipotter369
5 ай бұрын
What was truly awful about the previous relationship is he didn't tell her before she gave up her job and relocated that she would have to pay expenses. The hiding she was paying her own restaurant meals from staff was low. Kicking her out while limping was very very bad - and accusing her of deliberately hurting herself! Even if she had (which is extremely unlikely) kicking someone out and to a motel with an injury is truly horrible.
Ugh! I seriously didn’t like her from the beginning. She just basically agreed with him on everything and told him what he wanted to hear.
@jooliagoolia9959
5 ай бұрын
And that's the old school way of getting a guy........Soo glad it's changing. They are old school so I get it.
@mhmorris2018
5 ай бұрын
I agree! He also seems a bit shady
@pkp6791
5 ай бұрын
It will work-- until it doesn't. They deserve each other though. He is a narcissist who will control and manipulate her ( which wont be hard to do) and she is manipulative and cagey. This may be the 'way of catching a guy', but a real woman wont play these kinds of games because it more often than not ends up in heartbreak ( or an unhappy , dysfunctional arrangement that people choose to stay in out of codependency) when reality hits. Younger . more self assured women are refusing to play such games and are choosing to remain single unless an emotionally mature, decent man avails himself.
@jeanyu.1632
5 ай бұрын
She manipulated him to win, she's a great talker. They both are. Both manipulated each other. He lied, he's not a restauranteur, only owned and sold a burger joint in 1985, then worked as a handyman. He also had short & long term relationships. Did you read how he sent Carolyn to a hotel because he wanted her out of the house a week early? She had leg injury but he did not care! What kind of gentleman is that? So many lies! And the women were attracted to his integrity?
@pkp6791
5 ай бұрын
@@jeanyu.1632 Low vibrational females will always be more invested in competing for a louse male and winning out over other women rather than seeing the guy for what and who he is. In comparison to the other women who were top competitors, she is rather unattractive ( in physical looks and attitude). She would be a top pick for most males because they typically prefer women they can totally control and manipulate ( although they refer to it as being accommodating and feminine). It is DISGUSTING but true. Leslie and the others are better off without this bottom dweller. Im also happy that younger women who have a sense of self worth and healthy self esteem are wise to this game and are simply opting out of dealing with bottom dwellers-- which is leaving males lonely, crying and bitter. They STILL refuse to be willing to do the BASICS of what it takes to have an actual fulfilling relationship with a REAL person.
Recently there have been some discrepancies in his story that don’t match up with the presentation. And those words came out of his mouth. Initially l was team Gerry but not anymore.
I see my comments were deleted. Wonder why... 😅😑
@dae4553
5 ай бұрын
Omg what did they say
@sherriec5258
5 ай бұрын
@@dae4553 Sorry, it was on another video. Like this one. But I did find them. I said something not nice about Theresa. I decided it wasn't a nice thing to do so I was hunting the comments to delete them, which is what I did.
@dae4553
5 ай бұрын
@@sherriec5258 aww I get you props to you for doing the thing you felt was necessary I on the other hand probably should delete mine too but something about that woman seems off I didn’t like the whole issue w her and Kathy which ik she wasn’t very nice but she was playing victim and basically bragging about stuff w Gerry but that’s just me. But still props to you :3
@sherriec5258
5 ай бұрын
@@dae4553 I agree on what you were saying there about Theresa. She rubbed me the wrong way trying to make out to the other girls that he was in to her the most. Probably so. But her rubbing it in the other girls faces tells us so much about her under that fake smile. But thank you for the compliment. I've been trying to make better decisions and that was just one of them that haunted me. 🌺🌿
@dae4553
5 ай бұрын
@@sherriec5258 100% and of course :3 I get you on choices haunting you etc as I’m going thru it rn but I’m glad to make u feel a bit better about it you’re doing great bby
Am a bit wary of Gerry. It seems he is a bit glib, always knowing the “ perfect “ response. I wish them well…there’s lots of opportunity for fun ahead.
@TheSwisscanada
5 ай бұрын
agree with you about the man Gerry
Are reality shows real, though? They seem scripted to me. I bet she was chosen as the one before the show even started.
@Ash-jt8er
5 ай бұрын
Right but part of this one felt real as one of the last standing women broke down when she was voted off
@dragonlady6232
5 ай бұрын
Feels like they steered Theresa and Leslie towards him instead of the other women.
@noreenmccann8710
5 ай бұрын
❤
He sure wasn't looking for a beautiful woman.
I loved the show but with everything coming out about Gerry, I now don’t trust him. Theresa should run. He doesn’t answer the questions people ask about his retirement because it doesn’t add up to his profile. He just says he has so much positive right now that he doesn’t give it a thought of what people are saying RED FLAG. Anyways I really hope he makes her happy. I honestly think Leslie was his first choice but she didn’t have Theresa’s bank account. Can’t wait to see the Golden Bachelorette.
He chose her because she’s so tiny. It makes him feel macho to be with her. The crying, fake fake fake!
She made a bad mistake, She will soon regret
@mhmorris2018
5 ай бұрын
Agree!!!!
@hallejohn7063
5 ай бұрын
I can’t wait for her interview after they get divorced.
🏃🚴🚴🤸🤸❤️❤️❤️🚨🚨🚨🚨 🏌️🦻🦻🚨 hola mi gente bella, cuenten todo que tenemos hoy , mucho tiempo sin verlos
He chose the right woman. Best wishes, health and happiness to them. 🥂
Get a prenup Theresa!!!
"The Golden Crybaby" is a phony. Moving another woman in his home just weeks after his wife passed.... Shame on him.
You do know this man was lying about everything he was not. He has not been single since his wife died.M do you have a live in girlfriend up to three months before he got the golden bachelor and come find out they say he’s a little bit abusive and crazy today today. Hope she’s going to be get used to the case that he is not who he portrayed to be on TV so this was from several of his actors since his wife passed away
@dragonlady6232
5 ай бұрын
You do wonder if he kicked out the ex girlfriend knowing he was going to apply for the show.
@francinesanchez5402
5 ай бұрын
He never said he didn’t date. 🤷♀️
@dragonlady6232
5 ай бұрын
@@francinesanchez5402 He also didn't say he had a serious relationship.Someone living with you is more serious than just dating.
@thunderousapplause
5 ай бұрын
We dont know what producers said to do/say.
@mhmorris2018
5 ай бұрын
I agree with you - he’s sleazy
This guy is really a creeper! Yes, he did pick the right women...one with a lot of money. She is smart and she will figure it out, however.
Yeah making a mistake
🙄
Cringe…uggghh…no
He's a gold digger picked her for her money hands down.
So fake he is a better actor then her