A very important thing you forgot to mention: Neil Strauss said in the earlier parts of the book that in order to become successful in seduction and pick up, you will need to go through the pain and humiliation of failing. There is no other way around it. Later on, he went on to say that all of those approaches and opening and closing sets, seduction became second nature to him, that he "could see the matrix". Or as Bruce Lee said " knowing is not enough, we must apply.

@have_a_smile

Жыл бұрын

Bro that last line is awesome

@BestBookBits

Жыл бұрын

great comment

@robertlee9679

10 ай бұрын

💯

@MaximAlexandrr

2 ай бұрын

Honestly The Game is really outdated now, The Magnetic Edge by Daylo is 100x better

@DwyaneWadeCounty

2 ай бұрын

@MaximAlexandrr I don't recommend _The Game_ to anyone. What I STRONGLY RECOMMEND is _The Way Of The Superior Man_ David Deida.

Back in 2019 I read only the first few chapters, the next thing that happened is that I hooked up with the best girl in school. I remember all my friends were in shock and couldn’t believe it. Because I’ve never been the talkative guy, i’m very quiet and not fun. I have no sense of humor and I’m really boring tbh all Until I put on the mask.. thanks be to the book of Neil Strauss, it’s very effective and it boosts your confidence with 10x the first 2 weeks (if you’re able to get out of your comfort zone).

@BestBookBits

2 жыл бұрын

thanks for sharing James, how's your dating life now?

@FiggFig

Жыл бұрын

reeled in whom I saw as one of the best catches in school, then had threesomes with her best friend whom the entire school joked that were closer lesbians. then I come along and got them experimenting with eachother after this. it’s good shit

@jamestanny849

Жыл бұрын

@@BestBookBits I’m now married and waiting my first child. Things has escalated since the last time I posted this lol

@kira_yoshikage

Жыл бұрын

@@jamestanny849 congrats G 🙏

@lewislibre

11 ай бұрын

Liar

As a Worker in The retail industry, you learn some of these traits overtime, but it really does help to read books like this.

@BestBookBits

Жыл бұрын

Thanks very much

@vyrsh0

Жыл бұрын

Yup, I realised I already am using 90% of this. 1 thing new I learnt was the ultimatum thing, it hasn't worked in the past for me, but I had always felt that it was going to work Anyways, I feel I should read the book a bit.

Side effects of all NLP and metaprogramming: it lowers your opinion in a general sense. You see the truth behind the lie. This is a double edged knife which is a positive a negative impact. It is truly powerful.

@BestBookBits

4 жыл бұрын

very true

@JuanCarlosDiazJr

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed, use it for good

@samuelltlau641

26 күн бұрын

✔️

WOW! 😍OUTSTANDING Video. I want to know more about the book.the steps .

@BestBookBits

4 жыл бұрын

Coming soon!

Not to mention: Teaching women deeper insight into the game play of men in this scope does provide an upper hand for women to understand, recognize the signals, have their own power.

@BestBookBits

4 жыл бұрын

I think the whole pickup thing is silly, as a married man myself it's not something I have used before

@OZMus

4 жыл бұрын

@@BestBookBits I've never used it myself, I read for the sake of understanding road maps to the mind and the world :) I like your summaries~☆

@xWarghoulx

2 жыл бұрын

They hold all the power bro.

@Goku_Kiyosaki

2 жыл бұрын

@@xWarghoulx no they dont you give it to them, man is supposed to have power/lead

Thank you. Gonna be reading it this week so very excited

@BestBookBits

3 жыл бұрын

Hope you enjoy it!

Thanks for the summary👍 Easy to understand, good job.

@BestBookBits

2 жыл бұрын

thanks very much, if I can help you anyway on your dreams or goals. Happy to help and chat. go.bestbookbits.com/coachingcall

@theamalgamatedtheory

Жыл бұрын

Cant understand a darned word

Good book if you use it to find a partner to settle down with or to have fun. The information is real. And you can use it to make friends. I believe this book has been made from a sincere heart by Neil Strauss. He was just looking for a partner.

@BestBookBits

3 жыл бұрын

i believe so

@alanjohnson9336

3 жыл бұрын

So can i use this techniques in sales

I met Neil Strauss in 2017, he was really nice and a very bright interesting guy, although physically pretty unnoteworthy, he had a certain aura and presence. (Although maybe that's because I was a fan). I wanted to take about the game, and he seemed a bit disappointed and reticent about it. I think he is embarrassed about it to this day, it's a great story, but that's all it was intended to be. He didn't intend this tidal wave of men wanting to be manipulators or only seeing women as objects. It was a very psychologically damaging book.

@BestBookBits

Жыл бұрын

thanks for sharing

@clarity2115

8 ай бұрын

Lol, nothings more psychologically damaging than seeing my single friends get turned down by a mother of 2 or 3 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I’m on chapter 6 Create a emotional connection. Great book good knowledge for life with women

@MaximAlexandrr

2 ай бұрын

this book is outdated af, i'd recocmmend reading The Magnetic Edge by Daylo. it changed my life and perspective on dating

I've read the book and recognise the games men play. Great fun :)

@BestBookBits

4 жыл бұрын

I believe both sexes play games ;p

@joannadziokan3267

4 жыл бұрын

@@BestBookBits Defo 100%. And without games we are dead lol :)

@gustavocastroortiz7645

3 жыл бұрын

Great video content! Forgive me for butting in, I am interested in your initial thoughts. Have you tried - Millawdon Pulling Girls Trick (erm, check it on google should be there)? It is an awesome exclusive product for turning a friend into your girlfriend minus the headache. Ive heard some super things about it and my mate at last got great results with it.

@lenaescoto6759

3 жыл бұрын

Cheers for the Video! Forgive me for the intrusion, I would appreciate your initial thoughts. Have you ever tried - Millawdon Pulling Girls Trick (do a google search)? It is a great exclusive guide for turning a friend into your girlfriend minus the normal expense. Ive heard some incredible things about it and my mate after a lifetime of fighting got amazing success with it.

@gsusmakama

3 жыл бұрын

Appreciate video content! Sorry for chiming in, I would love your initial thoughts. Have you heard the talk about - Millawdon Pulling Girls Trick (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now)? It is a good one of a kind guide for turning a friend into your girlfriend minus the headache. Ive heard some decent things about it and my GF at last got great success with it.

It’s crazy that back then it was seen as an achievement to get a girl’s phone number.

@BestBookBits

Жыл бұрын

the days have changed

@TheWRLDOFMANi

29 күн бұрын

It still is tho

@a.artmaster8733

12 күн бұрын

But why wouldn’t it be? Getting a number is in many cases equal to getting an opportunity with someone. You have achieved momentum.

Ok so this subject matter aside there is some excellent material in this for how to navigate the real world. Controversially, the navigation associated in this shows a person how to manipulate others in order to gain control. What works, however, are the pieces in which one learns to read others, modify their own behavior, and shape their expressions to meet the needs of others (indicators of interest). The book can be a road map for any business interaction in the way that many arranged marriages were business transactions. NLP is highly useful information for navigating self improvement and the law of attraction in a general sense. I'm putting my two cents here because alot of people get the wrong idea about this type of knowledge, dehumanizing it as you note.

@BestBookBits

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah I agree I'm not into the whole pickup thing, a subscriber wanted me to do a summary on this book

Picking up Women and having one night stand is definitely fun for it's own sake. But, in the grand scheme of things, I think most Men would prefer to have a strong intimate relationship with one Woman and make her his queen. Of course I'm not saying that the Man has to simp and be a beta for her, but, he just wants a Woman he truly loves with his heart, a Woman he cares for deeply, and a Woman who respects him back in kind. That's the ultimate goal in Life, is to raise a Family with a Woman you truly love. Obviously, go out and have your Fun, but don't think that being a PUA is gonna be a fulfilling life.

Note: The book is a summary of his experiences, this summary did not mention this. Keep in mind this book is not a How To or method book but his journey in the life of Mystery and the pickup community. So for those that already have no issues with dating then it's a fun read about the journey.

@moeyusuf

2 ай бұрын

So what books would you recommend on the how tos?

@user-wm3fl5vr4v

18 күн бұрын

@@moeyusufdo you know ?

Hey brother can u please make a book Summary on the mystery method books and keep going bro u are doing a great work by making this types of videos god bless you brother

@BestBookBits

4 жыл бұрын

Will post the video in a few days

@BestBookBits

4 жыл бұрын

uploaded for you bestbookbits.com/book-summary-of-the-mystery-method/

Jim Rohn. Les Brown. Maya Angelo, Studs Terkel. James Baldwin, Malcolm X. etc.

@BestBookBits

3 жыл бұрын

will do

Can you please increase the sound, its hard to listen while commuting.

@BestBookBits

4 жыл бұрын

I can't once it's published but will do for next videos

@illusionistextraordinaire87802

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks :)

Here to learn about the games men play so I can beat them at their own game lol

I dated a guy who was in the pick-up artist group. I always felt he wasn’t 100% genuine.

It never really panned out as the 90s - 2000s fantasy of it had it. now we are in the last years before AR society and long after social media popularity. so PUA as imagined won't pan out directly. but something else might.

Can any one confirm if the book works for what it promises? -> getting you dates

@BestBookBits

2 жыл бұрын

i guess that is up to you to put into action just like life and all books, information is static

My favorite openers are do you go to X (school) and do you go to or work at X. Good conversation starter and always leads to a ton of conversation points.

Not gone lie.. i haven’t read the full book but I read a few chapters and actually used some of “the game” one night I was at the bar, and I had the baddest female in there sitting at the table talking to me all night.. didn’t have to buy her a drink or nothing. Just by using a (Opener, Neg, and conversation). My opener was “what your tattoo say ?”

Shoutout to the OGs who read this book back in the early 2000s. This was before these mens help mgtow channels were a thing . A lot of the shit like peacocking i didnt go with but the main message was helpful.

Are they still friends style and mystery???

@BestBookBits

3 жыл бұрын

no idea i just did the summary

This is just a step by step manual on how to become a psycopath.

@BestBookBits

Жыл бұрын

haha

@samuelltlau641

26 күн бұрын

💯

I wonded who those two jessicas are?

@BestBookBits

2 жыл бұрын

me too

ausie ausie ausie!!!! English PLeeeease

I did not read this book fully but it is slightly childish. Dislike. I think the books prefaces urges his family (especially his wife) not to read the book or forgive him if they do.

@BestBookBits

3 жыл бұрын

i agree, this was a request from a fan,, i'm personally not into the dating game thing as i have a family, but interesting stuff

@ramkumarr1725

3 жыл бұрын

@@BestBookBits Thanks. I have witnessed stories of women who are grossed out by this dating games and pick up artists.

@sambosco11

2 жыл бұрын

Look for the shogun method

@ramkumarr1725

2 жыл бұрын

@@sambosco11 Thanks. But I also have my own dog vomit and poop to clean up. Enjoy!

Was this video made by an AI?

@BestBookBits

3 жыл бұрын

thanks for the feedback but no I AM HUMAN ROBOT VOICE SPEAKING have a lovey day

@MrJoldroyd

3 жыл бұрын

@@BestBookBits hahah oh sorry dude, this was fun to watch. I think I was just confused at some points

this is just not a good summary. You are just giving definitions to the common PUA terms and giving a few key words from each chapter. You're not telling a story with it, there's nothing connecting the ideas. There's no big picture you draw, which makes the summary uninteresting and without gain.

Pipe dreams

Holy crap that some messed up accent...holly Scottish Australian wherever the hell is it from... lol

@BestBookBits

3 жыл бұрын

That's not nice

@mattcard8200

3 жыл бұрын

@@BestBookBits aahahahah dont take it personally bro! just making fun..... ahaha

This book ruined my life

@cayo2031

Жыл бұрын

How😅

@tadhg3

Жыл бұрын

@@cayo2031 it ruined my personality and relationship. This stuff works, and I worked my way up to a 10, but you have to be a fake person. And if you game a girl with a game personality, eventually your real personality comes to light, and makes things very complicated. This book should be read ironically. Read Models instead

@RJ-ps7ir

Жыл бұрын

@@tadhg3 Or modify the books content into your own instead of trying to mirror it exactly.

@Mixwell1983

Жыл бұрын

@@tadhg3 you missed the whole point of the book.. too many people with your mindset just puppet the actions.. the real lessons are be confident, interesting and funny.. Too many of the lame PUA wannabes copy verbatim the routines without any real substance.. Talk about not reading between the lines.... I read the book in the early 2000s and used some of the information like confidence, backhanded compliments while being light hearted to joke around. You can't be a dull person and expect longevity... I took info from the book to get me in the door but then everything else was my natural joking ability..

@evaluna122

10 ай бұрын

Bruh went bald because the book said so 😭😭😭