The four steps for expressing anger compassionately explained by Marshall Rosenberg (Audio only)

The four steps are:
1. Identifying the stimulus
2. Identifying the cause
3. Identifying the unmet need in ourselves
4. Communicating our unmet need and making a request in a way that maximizes the chance that the need will be met
Also in this clip:
Using guilt to manipulate people
Judgements
Shame
Need-serving emotions
How to ask for a time-out
How to start by showing empathy for the other person
Racism
Exercise in translating judgements into needs
Punishment and reward
The original source is available here: • Video
I am trying to contribute to and transform the original material by creating shorter, well-structured videos with clear titles, and explanatory text, with the intention to make Marshall's work more accessible and clear to an online audience.

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  • @radicalhonesty3628
    @radicalhonesty36282 жыл бұрын

    Let go of what has passed. Let go of what may come. Let go of what is happening now. Don’t try to figure anything out. Don’t try to make anything happen. Relax, right now, and rest.

  • @oliverbuc1307
    @oliverbuc13072 жыл бұрын

    I’m feeling angry because I need to receive this type of information without being interrupted by 8 separate commercials. Otherwise, I’m feeling grateful for this information being shared :)

  • @feyzacelik723

    @feyzacelik723

    Ай бұрын

    You are in need of continuity and progression, and possibly ease of process.

  • @jamesk2681

    @jamesk2681

    22 күн бұрын

    Premium!

  • @monishachauhan1953
    @monishachauhan1953 Жыл бұрын

    Very well researched and expressed..... very grateful for providing this kind of learning

  • @Jordyn_Roe
    @Jordyn_Roe4 ай бұрын

    Become aware of what alienating story it is that you were telling yourself which causes you to become angry

  • @aurelienyonrac
    @aurelienyonrac3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for making it available in its original lengh.

  • @aronmu
    @aronmu3 жыл бұрын

    For the sake of distinguishing between types of energetic opposing reaction - generalized as 'anger', here is a suggestion to use different words like; fury, wrath and anger (for example only, as some may see anger as milder than fury). Fury - Strong feeling of a necessity to rebuke a negatively viewed phenomenon, without necessarily losing one's head. Wrath - The energetically heated action generated by fury. Anger - Fury and wrath uncontrolled by reflection but driven by an uncontrolled pushing off a negatively viewed phenomenon with its accompaniments, without due consideration of the phenomenon's mechanism. While neither should be repressed when they surface, but be dealt with, anger (as interpreted here) needs to become a controlled fury by considering it's mechanism through the steps taught here. STIMULUS: strongly unwanted fact. CAUSE: mental attachment blinded by non tolerance of it's fact by refusing to think about a mechanism in which the fact is considered. ROOT: attempting to neutralize the unwanted fact by uncontrollably pushing away all around it including the messenger.

  • @Manaviecreations
    @Manaviecreations3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 😃🙋‍♂️❤️⭐️🚀☀️🥳🙌

  • @jesseleebeyette8142
    @jesseleebeyette81425 ай бұрын

    Thankyou

  • @aniewill4171
    @aniewill41713 ай бұрын

    Me ruñcl

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