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@scouts92

2 ай бұрын

thank youuuuu omg

@emptycinema

2 ай бұрын

And what if I don't win anything

@llynnmarks3382

2 ай бұрын

I have ADHD and got confused at the end when you asked if anyone knew Chinese philosophy. When was Chinese philosophy mentioned before? I know I should just watch it again. Also thanks! Great video!

@angusmcnay5449

2 ай бұрын

Starts at 3:00 ish

@angusmcnay5449

2 ай бұрын

Tara start putting time codes please

Ok hear me out...what if we just like, treated each other like complex multi-faceted human beings and stopped being weird about it lol

@Cloud_Gen

2 ай бұрын

literally 😭 like its really not that hard to just treat people like... people? just be a nice person

@wolliw_nosnah

2 ай бұрын

The straights aren’t okay they’re so weird about everything

@SCHEILLA11

2 ай бұрын

Mind blown🤯

@Nohandleentered

2 ай бұрын

lol, you’re ahead of your time

@atlantictiger

2 ай бұрын

What a concept 😂😂😂

“So whenever he’s telling you a story listen and ask questions” Babes… that’s called having a conversation.

@luna-p

2 ай бұрын

How was that not satire? Absolutely bonkers these people 😂😂😂

@ih2439

2 ай бұрын

@@luna-pthey are mentally stunted. I fear for the state of the world when Gen Z takes over…

@07Flash11MRC

2 ай бұрын

A conversation would be a dialogue, where both people get plenty of time to talk. What they mean is for men to talk endlessly and for women to only ask questions, never make statements.

@Didintle.Moleko

2 ай бұрын

🤯 wait what-

@BoringTroublemaker

Ай бұрын

@@07Flash11MRC sometimes during a conversation you have to practice your active listening skills- that’s when you just listen and don’t talk or think about the next thing you get to say, because the other person is telling a story. I know, it’s difficult to not get to open your mouth, but it’s just part of being a person that other people want to be around.

Oh boy... I am a biologist and this take an oxytocin and vasopressin is so astronomically stupid. First of all, oxytocin isn't just some sort of "love hormone". You secrete oxytocin in basically every human interaction. This includes hateful interactions. You could say that it strengthens any kind of emotional connection to someone. Not to mention that it works pretty much the same in men and women. Women just tend to produce more, especially during pregnancy and childcare. Vasopressin on the other hand is a hormone that increases blood pressure and retains urine. It is associated with sexual desire, but not only in men. In short: You don't want to pee during intercourse or in stressful situations. Also, the whole Yin and Yang thing is... pretty off as far as I can tell. Yin and Yang is not simply about opposite forces, but about cyclical change. Yes, Yin is associated with femininity (also with cold, winter, and stagnation), and Yang is associated with masculinity (also with heat, summer, and movement), but that doesn't mean that much. Also, the little dot symbolizes that every extreme also carries the core of its opposite within itself. But now about the so-called dating advice. I might not be the best example (autistic, demisexual, and demiromantic), but if a woman tries to stress me out or keep me at a distance, that basically does the opposite of what it's supposed to do. I don't feel attraction before I had the chance to get to know someone. Stressing me out will make me leave. Keeping a distance will keep me from developing any interest. Not to mention that I absolutely despise gender essentialist nonsense. Yes, I will take care of my girlfriend (or girlfriends in a poly context), but I expect the same in return. These are the same people who will push a man in need of support away because he is "feminine". Disgusting. And with all the entitlement and self-infantilization... I want a partner, not a child.

@Albinojackrussel

2 ай бұрын

Thanks for explaining. I was really struggling to work out what they were mangling to come out with vasopressin=love

@keptthekisses

2 ай бұрын

That's interesting to hear especially the duality or much rather versatility of oxytocin. It's also worth noting that love and hate share a lot of common neutral pathways too. PBS's Nova did a piece on recovering from hate which suggests to me that the main difference between a hate group and successful organizations is how information and social interactions are controlled/restricted by the hate group even though a lot of hate groups will exploit the notion of what people appreciate and love by framing it as something to protect and defend.

@Iamhere829

Ай бұрын

Thank you.. I'm tired of this femenine-masculine energy bs... I'm worried if I ever came across these 'energy' girlies because I'm an autistic tomboy and they'll get me beat up.. I used to get bullied when I was 5 years old by girls like these who will call me a boy and throw stones at me (they were 12 btw)...

@Al_ate_my_soup

Ай бұрын

Thank you! I’m studying psychology so I’m familiar with Oxytocin and what it does and immediately when people call it the “love hormone” my eyebrows go up. There was a book I read called “Arousal” which was about the endocrine system, something interesting I learned in it was that oxytocin does not cross the blood brain barrier meaning the amount of oxytocin in the brain and blood can change independently of one another. Afab individuals tend to be higher in oxytocin in their bloodstream (makes sense since oxytocin is involved in breast milk production and birth, it’s been shown that raising oxytocin in the blood does little to the brain though), but if i remember correctly it’s unclear if there are different levels in the brain (there’s probably more current research on that I haven’t read, there may be a consensus now about it)

@bb-3653

Ай бұрын

This is a golden comment!!

the way these people view relationships as inherently transactional and toxic is very depressing

@dirckdelint6391

Ай бұрын

“What do you bring to the table?” When you can’t distinguish between a date and a job interview. I honestly felt a worm of nausea creeping through me listening to that.

@Ryan-cb1ei

Ай бұрын

And it doesn’t even work and they don’t have proof. At least male pick up artists, if that’s what we’re comparing this to based off the title of this video, show video proof of their pick ups working with public interactions with women 😂 These girls basically just say “yeah bully him, it made him give more to me.” At least give proof 😂

"Mental illness? Babes,no, you're just in your masculine energy 💅🏻✨" STOP I CHOKED ON MY FRIES

@shizzlemywizzle1

2 ай бұрын

And then everyone on the train stood up and clapped

@twitchy_bird

2 ай бұрын

​@@shizzlemywizzle1 Oh yes, because choking on food during a startle response is so ridiculously rare, of course there's just no way that happened.

@stephe1506

2 ай бұрын

​@@twitchy_birdi think theyre just mad that no one has shizzled their wizzle lately

@twitchy_bird

2 ай бұрын

@@stephe1506 I believe you're absolutely correct lol

@journey7701

2 ай бұрын

God I want fries now just because you mentioned them 😂

These people act like dating is similar to building a character sheet in an rpg.

@materla4102

2 ай бұрын

You better put all your skill points into feminine energy with the next lvl up 😌

@bingonight1504

2 ай бұрын

the looksmaxxers and r/vindicta girlies literally call it leveling up or glowing up 🤕 it's so dorky

@iamjustkiwi

2 ай бұрын

@@bingonight1504 ugh, I spend hours on KZread every day and yet these people are somehow infinitely more online brained.

@K.C-2049

2 ай бұрын

no but literally it's like playing BG3 or Dragon Age Origins and looking up "how to romance so and so". they want to put in a certain set of inputs and get a guaranteed result.

@jarrellfamily1422

2 ай бұрын

This game sucks

Oh god, that one girl with "6 signs you're in your masculine energy" is saying she's a therapist. Fricken YIKES

@JustSaralius

Ай бұрын

Terrifying!!!!

@wweltz

Ай бұрын

This was my experience with therapy. I'm sure it's beneficial if you can find a good one, but I had too many experiences with "therapists" like that and just gave up lol

@stayglitteryqueen

Ай бұрын

@wweltz same, 15 min meditation in the morning and journaling to focus on the good did more than the sessions I paid for with incompetent licensed therapists. I think it's time to stop idealising therapy...

@wweltz

Ай бұрын

@@stayglitteryqueen I don't disagree but I do owe a lot to a friend of mine from high school who went on to become a psychiatrist and provided me what was better therapy than any therapist I've paid for lol. I'm still friends with her in my 30s and she completely empathized with my bad therapy experiences and recommended certain certifications I should look for and I literally could not find any that fit the requirements and were accepting new patients. So idk, I imagine the people who swear by therapy have found those "good ones" but the industry is overrun with quacks because a lot of the licenses/certifications are way too easy to obtain. Meditation rules though!!

@mynamejeff3545

24 күн бұрын

This is why you should try to get an actual licenced psychologist/psychiatrist if you can, because therapists aren't considered medical professionals and you don't need a degree to operate as one so any random bozo can call themselves a "therapist". Therapists are like chiropractors in that regard, I'm not saying they're all malicious quacks but there is a worrying amount of social media influencers pretending to be (what many people think are) medical professionals in order to push their harmful woo-woo beliefs on people who are in need of genuine help. On top of not always knowing wtf they're talking about, therapists without medical degrees are not allowed to formally diagnose you or give you medicine, they can only talk to you. If that's all you need, great, but I would still recommend discussing your problems an actual doctor lest you get stuck with people like the one from the video.

Notice how a lot of these people say they are a "trained therapist" and not a "licensed therapist"

@MonieThu

3 күн бұрын

Ooooh!!!!

Being tired and stressed all the time might have more to do with late stage capitalism than "having masculine energy" but what do I know 🤷‍♀️

@earthaforester3141

2 ай бұрын

Capitalism is the ultimate masculine energy lol

@ErinHonor

2 ай бұрын

Restore the divine feminine by dismantling capitalism ✨

@shikhasophia2784

Ай бұрын

​@@earthaforester3141 no it's not it's just patriachy nothing much

@Tentegen

Ай бұрын

....yep.

@yonidellarocha9714

Ай бұрын

Capitalism? Capitalism hasn't been a thing since the first world war. Do western people not read their own history or economic policies? You did away with capitalism when the private banks refused to finance the second year of the first world war, this is basic knowledge... Read your own economic policies, it's all state coordinated today.

watching these videos as a lesbian makes me wonder if im genuinely living on the same planet as these people

@prozierozie5692

2 ай бұрын

As a queer enby......same

@soupalex

2 ай бұрын

the whole "love hormones" thing had me thinking: so if you're a woman and you're not interested in men at all, if you want to get your partner to fall in love with you you just need to make her cum"

@arklestudios

2 ай бұрын

Honestly, I'm a cishet male and I agree with you.

@neurdogic8909

2 ай бұрын

as a bi trans guy...same

@jessfrisk3585

2 ай бұрын

same

It’s so funny to me how both sides are saying „men love bitches“, „women love assholes“ when no, anyone who is remotely mentally healthy does not love people who are behaving badly. It seems to me that people who say this either are the negative force in their relationships or they have seen many unhealthy relationships that didn’t get broken up for one reason or another and then just went ahead to think „ah, that must be the way to do it“. It’s not. Treat people kindly

@franciszekdo

Ай бұрын

I think some people feel aggrieved that they have xyz issues finding a compatible partner while these other people "get away" with being an asshole/bitch/mean person. But one doesn't actually want to be in those unhealthy relationships. Relationships without mutual respect don't feel good.

@ginger-ale7818

Ай бұрын

Part of me hopes the assholes will find the bitches and date each other, just to spare the rest of the world from them. If the thing you both desire more than anything is a mutually abusive situation, then hey! I found you a match! (Sarcastic (mostly))

@PropheticShadeZ

16 күн бұрын

Yea this is 100% true, watching your friends going through the roughest time ever, being jealous i think is the worst idea ever​

I hate this whole "act like you don't even like your partner" stuff. I have a girlfriend of 4 years and we are cringe and silly and sappy! I love being comfortable with someone- I'm very affectionate and I think it's wonderful to express that

All this is just giving off “the straights are not ok” energy to me.

@smokegaskickass21

2 ай бұрын

Pot calling the silverware black.

@prozierozie5692

2 ай бұрын

​@smokegaskickass21 not really yall are clearly......struggling, but it's all fine you have that right

@JackH_123

2 ай бұрын

@@prozierozie5692I mean it’s not like gay dating is any better

@prozierozie5692

2 ай бұрын

@@JackH_123 it's degrees better but with our own issues as well.

@liesideways

2 ай бұрын

More like white women are not ok

In my experience of black cats, black cat energy is: * Anxious / neurotic * Emotionally needy * clumsy, may put entire paw in a coffee cup * hates the rug, must kill the rug

@emisformaker

2 ай бұрын

spot on. also loves getting on the countertop

@Geospasmic

2 ай бұрын

*gets stepped on because invisible in hallway

@emisformaker

2 ай бұрын

@@Geospasmic or on stairs

@luna-p

2 ай бұрын

In my experience, it was violence and indifference, while being cute af of course.

@outofcake

2 ай бұрын

black cat energy is a nine pound ball of fur screaming at me because she wants me to come watch her eat her kibble, scrabbling at the door whenever it’s shut with her on the other side from me, claiming my entire lap the second I sit down, and racing to the door when she sees me pull into the driveway after work. so aloof, that cat is

Okay so heteronormative stereotypes but make it vaguely spiritual. Got it

This “masculine energy “ just sounds like being confident

@Joyride37

Ай бұрын

Welp that settles it girls, if you’re confident you’re too masculine. Ladies, assume the fainting position! Keep your eyes downcast and your body small. Never speak, or talk about what you want, don’t even know or think about what you want actually

@peonylarkspur645

Ай бұрын

Wait but if I have social anxiety then apparently mental illness also makes me masculine 🥴🥴

@BratzGyall

26 күн бұрын

It is.

notice how none of the people talking about "Chinese philosophy" are Chinese, nor philosophers

@CymruPhoenix

2 ай бұрын

it's very much giving orientalism

@sirrivet9557

2 ай бұрын

Nor seem to actually have read in depth into Chinese philosophy. Like it's cool to read Chinese philosophy there's some valid insights there but you can't take all of it as gospel.

@alst4817

Ай бұрын

@@sirrivet9557yeah cos the bible isn’t Chinese 😂

@lovrboi

Ай бұрын

it’s just a saying lol gospel = literal/ no nuance

@ANTSEMUT1

Ай бұрын

​@@sirrivet9557 which one we have so many?

as a guy i do like it when women are mean to me BUT only in specific, pre-planned, consensual environments, commonly known as "scenes"

@Nat_778

2 ай бұрын

Amen brother

@futuristicgirl14

2 ай бұрын

Like a consensual “step on me mommy” type situation 👌

@apollo298

2 ай бұрын

👀 same bro

@karimelupus

2 ай бұрын

Right? Consent is everything, AND fun.

@hearteu5260

2 ай бұрын

Just curiosity nothing else but why would you want someone to be mean to you as turn on. I'm genuinely curious.

vasopressin is the antidiuretic hormone, making you pee less to retain water; it’s also released in response to stress as a painkiller. so instead of stressing your man out so he stays, you could also dehydrate him!

@rx500android

2 ай бұрын

Great advice for the feminine girlies! Get yourself a stressed and dehydrated man😍

@normanclatcher

Ай бұрын

Oh man... I _would_ allow her to dehydrate me...

@agrenaschuler451

Ай бұрын

now that's some dating advise!

I went to visit my college friend and meet her new bf. She told me she was in her "black cat era", which for her meant being openly mean to both me and the guy lol

@keptthekisses

2 ай бұрын

That made me feel kinda sad, for you, the bf, and for black cats because black cats are usually very nice and loving when they trust a person and no one really deserves to be treated meanly for no reason 🥺😥

@mcbby7

Ай бұрын

@@keptthekisses agree 100%. Black cats deserve better. I think the personality is better described as: “cat”

@Joyride37

Ай бұрын

@@keptthekisses right they’re little round balls of the void full of love

You’ve been teasing us for years about the cow, I’m starting to believe she might not be real…

@samarchist74

2 ай бұрын

How very dare you!

@amethystdream8251

2 ай бұрын

No way she's just camera shy

@Raebo911

2 ай бұрын

Nah, she'll show up in the next one! Promise!

@utz2867

2 ай бұрын

I was thinking that too but that's crazy right!?

@YTmadeMeChangeMySensibleName

2 ай бұрын

I saw her at the grocery just the other day! Very real, I must rightly say

Yo these people just convinced themselves that their roleplay kinks are actually overarching universal truths

@chelscara

2 ай бұрын

If we could just accept consensual kinks as existing and ok, life would be simpler honestly

@heatweve

2 ай бұрын

LMAO this and the catholics

@tristanband4003

2 ай бұрын

Nah its not a roleplay kink

@dontmindmeimjustchilling

2 ай бұрын

@@tristanband4003 Yeah it is XD Its entirely role play and kinky gender performance

@erylaria398

2 ай бұрын

Thank you. I came here to say literally this.

glad to see women are catching up to men in the Bad Dating Advice industry

@alize7689

2 ай бұрын

lol my thought. i support women's rights and wrongs. 💀

@mynamejeff3545

24 күн бұрын

Society has progressed to the point where there are equal opportunities for bad faith grifters of ALL genders

@DaJackCracker

19 күн бұрын

There are centuries old textbooks intended for women to treat their husbands like violent beasts that they must tame and appease. Which may have been vaguely true for horrifically abused PTSD riddled rich kids who have to marry some broad they've never met for the sake of political bullshit, but, like... Still not good info.

This also feels like it completely breaks down in gay relationships. Like it's more clear how little it makes sense when you compare it to queer relationships.

@peonylarkspur645

Ай бұрын

Bold of you to assume these people care about or acknowledge queer people lmao

@polk-e-dot8177

Ай бұрын

@@peonylarkspur645 I'm not assuming anything? My point is their philosophy is incompatible with reality bc it completely stops working when you add a gay relationship to the mix.

@PropheticShadeZ

16 күн бұрын

Youve never heard about abusive gay people? Or problematic queer relationships? The narativisation of these relationships is the missing component

This is the same shit manosphere dudes say, but for women? Wild.

@tdelioncourt1268

2 ай бұрын

yes they are rebranding being active/passive as masculine/feminine

@luna-p

2 ай бұрын

It's weird

@jimhaverlock9784

2 ай бұрын

@@luna-p(yoko drop intensifies)

@keptthekisses

2 ай бұрын

Yeah it's led by the same circle of people. A lot of it recycles Russian/Right wing gender ideological propaganda using warped notions of masculinity and femininity that just point back to Tradlife/"conservative" standards with abdash of pseudoscience that poorly understood the fact that alpha pair designations among wolves goes to the most experienced care givers, aka the parents of the pack since most wolf packs are just one family anyhow.

@komal146

Ай бұрын

,yupp. wild how they don't find compatibility in each other and leave us multi faceted human beings alone.

masculine energy is when stressed, understood. I shall quit my job, frolic in the flowers, and max out my credit card with no care to the consequences to fully experience feminine energy

@veggiesnake4430

2 ай бұрын

No, um, actually, stress is simply the catalyst for the male love hormone, vasopressin, which _MAKES_ a man fall in love with you. So what you want to do is start dating, marry, or otherwise attach yourself to a man and then start sabotaging his life while remaining absent for the most part. This is key to maximising his stress/love hormone which will _MAKE_ him love you even more. Unfortunately, to hatch a plan on this scale, you would need to embrace a little bit of masculine energy in order to properly manipulate your partner and the situation, but that's okay if he's forcing you to do that to _MAKE_ you love him.

@lordghetsisofficial

2 ай бұрын

@@veggiesnake4430 the catalyst for deez nuts

@bradsalz4084

2 ай бұрын

That works for my wife ... which leads me to be more in my masculine energy, i.e. stressed.

@404maxnotfound

2 ай бұрын

Meanwhile oxytocin hiding in a corner pretending it does not also get produced when stressed.

@alexwyatt2911

2 ай бұрын

@@404maxnotfound Idk why they’re under the impression that men are immune to the effects of oxytocin lol

the same men that they say are dying to be the caretaker will use weaponized incompetence to not help with house chores and will overwork their partner

@AmandaVieiraMamaesouCult

Ай бұрын

And then they'll feel like their husband's moms

@skrunklycreationz

Ай бұрын

THIS IS ALL I COULD THINK ABOUT LMFAO big strong man until its time to do the dishes

@Halo6166

Ай бұрын

If they’re the one working , get your lazy butt up and clean the house without complaining. You’re adults

@Iamhere829

Ай бұрын

​@@Halo6166 what if both of them are working but the husband still refuses to do household chores since that's a wOmAn'S jOb? That is the current problem women are dealing with in alot of households.. Are you going to tell women to quit their jobs to do dishes? Moreover, women are physically weaker than men... Most men sit in air conditioned offices and work on PC's while an average SAH woman's job requires constant physical labour, like standing and cooking, doing dishes, cleaning the whole house, laundry plus taking care of children and they require constant supervision.. These jobs are required to be done everyday too... If an average man is to go out to look for a nanny, home cook and housekeeper.. he won't be able to afford all that in this economic situation.. The woman is doing all this labour for other people.. For free.. this situation already isn't 50/50.. Least he could do is take care of the children for a while or do dishes once in a while.. God knows, Even men's rights activists are encouraging fathers to spend more time with the kids so that the kids don't experience dad deprivation while the father works day and night and father could bond with the kids... Your missing whole chunks of your brain...😂

@Iamhere829

Ай бұрын

​@@Halo6166what if both of them are working but the husband still refuses to do household chores since that's a wOmAn'S jOb? That is the current problem women are dealing with in alot of households.. Are you going to tell women to quit their jobs to do dishes? Moreover, women are physically weaker than men... Most men sit in air conditioned offices and work on PC's while an average SAH woman's job requires constant physical labour, like standing and cooking, doing dishes, cleaning the whole house, laundry plus taking care of children and they require constant supervision.. These jobs are required to be done everyday too... If an average man is to go out to look for a nanny, home cook and housekeeper.. he won't be able to afford all that in this economic situation.. The woman is doing all this labour for other people.. For free.. this situation already isn't 50/50.. Least he could do is take care of the children for a while or do dishes once in a while.. God knows, Even men's rights activists are encouraging fathers to spend more time with the kids so that the kids don't experience dad deprivation while the father works day and night and father could bond with the kids... Your missing whole chunks of your brain...😂

The irony of their use of Yin-Yang is that within the Yang, there is Yin. And within the Yin, there is Yang. Thus, the black and white dots in the symbol. As it represents under certain conditions, the Yang can transform into Yin or Yin transforms into Yang. A person can be masculine (Yang) and feminine (Yin), where neither are mutually exclusive. Another example is a wave: the crest is Yang, and the trough is Yin. But they become both in a wave switching between the two. This aspect of Yin and Yang is a massive point these TikTok gurus are missing. This transformation between Yin and Yan is neither good nor bad. If you're interested in learning more about this duality, a good TedTalk goes into it (The hidden meanings of yin and yan - John Bellaimey). Also, I'm not an expert, but this is what I know as I'm still learning 🙂

Nothing i love more as a biologist than Tiktokers trying to explain hormones and brain chemistry to me. Tell me again which is the meow meow girly brain juice and the grr! boy woof woof signal??

@missinterpretation4984

2 ай бұрын

😂 I actually love you

@pluviophile._.j

2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂 me too

@keptthekisses

2 ай бұрын

It depends, is he an Alpha male, or is he on his Sigma Male grindset? *checks evolutionary biology notes* Oh wait, alpha males are the male wolves who were the parents of the whole pack that are usually alpha pairs because they're taking care of their pups... Hmmm where did this sigma grind set stuff come from again?

@CircusoftheMoon

Ай бұрын

As a scientist that works with vasopressin constantly I’m having a blast.

@romane9666

Ай бұрын

literally when they said vasopressin makes you fall in love i lost it

This is really reminding me of all those Classically Abby videos in that. If you constantly have to fight against the way you naturally behave in order to be in your "feminine energy", if you get to the point of policing how you walk, how you hold your shoulders, every move you make in a relationship, then gender isn't as built-in from birth as these people think it is. Like, if most women are doing femininity "wrong" according to these tiktokers, why doesn't that prove the opposite, that the Divine Feminine doesn't exist?

@salemsmith7085

2 ай бұрын

imo, i think it does, but it exsists in everyone. i think the essense of all genders exist in everyone and like what fits u fits u. for example, when i came out as trans masc and finally accepting myself as a man, i immedietly felt more comfortable in feminine things. i feel like i am a healthy balance now, and i can appreciate both my inner feminine tendencies and masculine tendencies. im married to a wonderful cis man and hes both feminine and masculine. my toxic father who craves male validation is also extremely feminine, but he rejects it because of trauma and fear and becomes toxic. my mother is extremely masculine, as in, shes a tomboy. theres also vibes of non bimary/agender/gender fluid in everyone. ive never met someone who doesnt emboy feelings of both (even when they fight it and are most extreme coded genders). idk, i just see it as like, it belongs to everyone and by just allowing urself to be nuanced u find more inner peace. however, im not an expert and these are my observations

@TheNotshauna

2 ай бұрын

The best way I have ever seen it put is that if gender norms were natural then you wouldn't need to enforce them.

@bluefox8011

2 ай бұрын

Sirens are screaming, you have broken the "energy" laws using logic, how dare you! Uuuoo0000oooo

@eternallustformedusa4844

2 ай бұрын

these cis women will police the way they exist and then say trans women are “acting” when they put on makeup.

@Waspinmymind

2 ай бұрын

@@salemsmith7085And they’re wrong. Please describe to me what ‘vibes’ are in an academic sense.

cackling at tiktok hets taking gay ass fanfiction tropes like the golden retriever/black cat i read on ao3 & immediately forget about as dating advice

@luffyyystrawhat

23 күн бұрын

exactly what i was thinking 😭

OK as a science educator I had to look up this vasopressin vs oxytocin thing, because they are definitely both produced by, and have an effect on, all humans of all genders. Best guess is I think there's probably some kind of misreading of this study from 2010, "The Challenge of Translation in Social Neuroscience: A Review of Oxytocin, Vasopressin, and Affiliative Behavior" (not going to link bc I don't know if that will get my comment nixed, but people can look it up). The author is a Dr Insel, which is funny. In this paper they talk about how there IS a gender difference in the effect of synthetic vasopressin on pair bonding... in males of a certain kind of vole. And not another kind of vole. And they specifically say have not found any similar gender differences among humans, and that the influence and interaction of these different neuropeptides is more complex when it comes to us. Science!

Lol "and you can just feel like a little girl" Ah, yes, when I'm in my feminine energy hunting for lizards in the yard and trying to show off by rescuing live bees from the pool with my bare hands

@bossyboots5000

2 ай бұрын

That whole "little girl" part TOTALLY squicked me out. Like sexualization of children isn't already a problem. And as if infantalized adults are "sexy." P.s. - my girlhood was similar, only we hunted for frogs not lizards, and there was some Barbie thrown in there.

@futuristicgirl14

2 ай бұрын

This is the actual feminine energy, people just aren’t ready to talk about women picking up bugs and trying to pet baby opossums

@Geospasmic

2 ай бұрын

I relate so much to this comment

@april5801

2 ай бұрын

I fell asleep under the kitchen table wearing a bathing suit and then I made a batch of "poison" from plants in the garden. Welcome home, babe. 💋

@k4nd1incyb3rsp4c3

2 ай бұрын

In my case that would be pretending to be a werewolf and climbing trees. And of course the classic barbies murdering each other games. Wow, so feminine...

As a guy, if exuding feminine energy means people will pay for my shit then count me in. Rent's due today lemme just exude my way to the building management office.

@futuristicgirl14

2 ай бұрын

Like can’t they just start an OF if they just want simps? Genuinely asking

@786valerie

2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@luna-p

2 ай бұрын

​@@futuristicgirl14No, no, no. That's work. They just want to sit on their behinds and grift a female audience like the podcast bros grift their male audience.

@audreydoyle5268

2 ай бұрын

​​@@luna-p Margarita Nazarenko has a wealthy husband, and started a business using the methods she talks about in her videos, by "receiving" her husband's money (which he was more than happy to give, it's how their relationship just works). She practices what she preaches. And it works for her and her own.

@missinterpretation4984

2 ай бұрын

I pay my rent in femenine energy. No joke, it’s a setting in Venmo 😂😂😂

I don't like that people see "feminine" and "masculine" things and immediately think dating. Being feminine doesn't have to do with your ability to attract the opposite sex.

I was so excited to go tell my already very caring husband that, as a woman, I am only supposed to receive love and he needs more stress to feel love. I also told him to go get me treats, and then massage my neck, and look more like a golden retriever in our photos!! And to not expect me to return the favors. He stared at me blankly over his coffee mug and said, “I won’t retain any of this.” and walked away… such a black cat. 🐈‍⬛

@texyp.856

Ай бұрын

Luckily he didn't knock off the cup, now that would be a real black cat behavior

Guys I saw the cow at yoga today, she says hi, she is real anyone who doubts the cow is a liar.

@disgoop

2 ай бұрын

the cow is infallible through absurdity

@ww3196

2 ай бұрын

I met her last week at a small-owned coffee shop. She's kinda a local legend, ngl. Very iconic.

@ih2439

2 ай бұрын

I saw her at the moooovies. She says hi.

@scoopitywoop

2 ай бұрын

She goes to another school

@d.b2370

Ай бұрын

Cow supremacy 😔✊️✊️

If this is the "dating market" I'd rather stay single, live with my cat in the mountains and fulfill my solo amish fantasy

@a.5326

2 ай бұрын

They always use it as an insult when in actuality, many of us are realizing being single can be pretty fantastic. Hanging solo with my cats? Don't threaten me with a good time.

@mikeymullins5305

2 ай бұрын

The Amish are not a fantasy they are an abusive regressive cult

@audreydoyle5268

2 ай бұрын

Honestly, a small, mountain side commune of cottages, made only to house either a single woman, or sapphic couples and their adopted children sounds like the ultimate post patriarchy dream.

@PeachyKins

2 ай бұрын

​@@audreydoyle5268I'm down and I don't even know what Sapphic means 😂

@user-lj4xs4gn8u

Ай бұрын

Me either. I want to know what that whole thought means? Mountain cottages,, post patriarchal. I’d like to understand any of that.

This feminine/masculine energy thing reminds me of the phrase "wome are from Venus, and men are from Mars" like....... no?? There's no such an easy way out of the dating crisis, the last thing that we need right now is making women and men see one another as different species, those people are helping no one dumbing down the situation. Making this out of the blue and just expecting people to believe it is just nuts. The acrobatics that are being made to get us back to the 1950's are insane. Just say we're in a capitalism/patriarchy crisis already! Stop trying to give the elephant in the room a gender reveal party!!

@sonofaspyder3000

Ай бұрын

You phrased this absolutely beautifully

The gendering of yin and yang is a common ‘western world’ misconception

Hey Tara, fellow Chinese here. Both Yin and Yang meant aspects of feminine in prehistoric texts, those symbols stemmed from celestrial worship in ancient matriarchal civilizations who created these text, so Yin means darkness and Yang means light, and it makes sense that they both mean women -- a self-described duality of women. Then partriacrchy came along and men stole Yang away from us, so in more recent historic text like Taoism, and in modern patri-losophy, you only get this sterotypical gendered bs like quoted in the video. Same with other symbolism in ancient Chinese, like Chinese dragon and Chinese phoenix both meant women (originated from coats of arms of different martiarchal tribes), but the dragon has gradually been twisted to symbolize male instead. When you look at any ancient civilization at length, you will relize that partiarchy is cultural theft and robbery against all women. They have had a few thousand years to bake the misogyny into the language and the symbolism created by women. Imported patriarchy is still patriarchy. Don't buy it, it is bogus.

@ricardojanate

2 ай бұрын

This is genuinely fascinating, I had heard about the patriarchy part but not the original matriarchy. Do you have anywhere I could look into this (even some Wikipedia articles work )?

@pinkxlulu

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this information!!

@user-dc4cm8nz1f

2 ай бұрын

This makes a lot of sense to me. Any advice how to find these prehistoric texts, in English? I'd love to read up on some prehistory.

@julienne152

2 ай бұрын

Thank you for this informative reply! I never knew about the history and meaning behind yin and yang pre taoism, or that they even existed pre-taoism! If it's not too much trouble, do you have any reading you could suggest to learn more about this topic?

@longshotomega4258

2 ай бұрын

Thank you for this reply! I learned something interesting today because of you! 💜

"working, planning ahead and taking control of my own life is draining and difficult, i don't like it" = "it is literally unnatural for me to be stressed at any point in my life". these women are blaming their problems on biology instead of realizing they are overworked and living in an inherently stressful world. "my friend forces me to be in my masculine and i hate it", no girl you're just frustrated that you have to pull her weight in the relationship. it's a normal human emotion. not to mention this is the direct continuation of 'girl math', '35 year old teenager' and similar trends. we need to stop infantilizing women on the internet before these bozos convince us that all we're capable of is nodding our heads and blinking prettily like a doll.

@Acinnn

2 ай бұрын

They always take something nice and twist into something bad. Like it's nice to be sometimes a bit childish in matters of hobbies and things we like to do. But they twist it into not being capable of providing for yourself, being defenceless, not being able to make important decisions...

@farklebeans4045

2 ай бұрын

Seriously. Because then we're just rolling backwards to the days when women could be hospitalized for "hysteria", for daring to disagree with our male partners, or not wanting to have enough sex. These women playing helpless don't REALLY want the society that treats us that way, they seem to just want an easy, happy life with little stress, and a partner that takes care of them. Ok, then seek that. BUT don't tell the rest of us to act like brainless bobbleheads.

@robertakeehl5250

Ай бұрын

Yes yes yes

@niarlatotepbasset

Ай бұрын

In either case, you will blame it all on men, as usual 😏...

babe wake up, new heteronormativity trend just dropped on tiktok

@TaraMooknee

2 ай бұрын

the heteros never rest

"She turned him into the golden retriever and he proposed within one month" yes coz that sounds super healthy and definitely the ideal outcome of dating someone who just came out of a long term relationship for less than one month

They're missing the most important masculine energy traits: 1. seeing something at the store, thinking "I could probably make that" and spending twice as much money and five times as much time to make a terrible version of the original 2. Seeing a broken car or other similarly complicated machine and thinking "How hard can fixing that be" and making the problem worse

@electronics-girl

2 ай бұрын

You clearly haven't watched enough Simone Giertz.

@mothmansuperfan7513

2 ай бұрын

She comes out on the other side of the project with a beautiful video, a cool thing and a truly well-put-together story. I come out the other side of a project with half a thumb and an anxiety disorder

@SometimestheY

2 ай бұрын

Well crap I already knew I was too much in my masculine energy after watching this video, but now you've just confirmed it.

@DaughterOfHelios

Ай бұрын

…I actually do look at thinks and wonder IF I could make that and wanting to try but am too broke and not motivated enough to actually do it… 😅

@DaughterOfHelios

Ай бұрын

…I actually do look at thinks and wonder IF I could make that and wanting to try but am too broke and not motivated enough to actually do it… 😅

A man on a dating app today asked me to come hunter/gather with him at a thrift store.... it was beautiful and reminded me that stupid gendered expectations are stupid gendered expectations. We can't take them, or ourselves, too seriously

@tiamat9360

2 ай бұрын

oh man if someone wanted to go to a thrift store as a first date, thats awesome

@tiamat9360

2 ай бұрын

i love thrift stores, thank you for the idea lol, next time i am on a date im gonna use it

@lewlavabra6811

2 ай бұрын

ok that is aDORABLE wtf

If I have to squish myself down for someone to love me, I don't want to be loved by them!

“Overthinking to the point of inauthenticity” Tara just casually dropping pearls of wisdom

"the more you stress your man out the more he'll fall in love w you" As a guy HELL NAHHH

@savagebeafy

2 ай бұрын

Yeah I would not want my partner to stress me out in any way, no thank you.

@aldenpartridge4773

2 ай бұрын

How will she explain it when I leave her due to her stressing me out?

@purrgundy

2 ай бұрын

I'm not a man but same. I mean, what's the point of being in a relationship if you have a panic attack at the thought of calling your partner or coming back home? Love is not fear.

@naomi9449

2 ай бұрын

Right? I was like babe that’s a human. I don’t know anyone who deliberately wants to be stressed out.

@futuristicgirl14

2 ай бұрын

I’ve read people who have relationship insecurity feel like they have “more chemistry” with their partners since the fear of abandonment fuels their sex drive. Maybe that explains it?

"Guys like when you're mean to them" If you're mean to me I may just cry and run away

@milikoshki

2 ай бұрын

see the mistake you're making there is being in your feminine. Just be in your masculine and it will all work out happily ever after! /s

stuff like this really makes me think straight people don't even like each other

Have we as a society gone full circle? We've gone from pick up artists negging women as a dating strategy, to tiktok women not talking with men as a dating strategy. All i can see in my mind is this pick up guy negging a TikTok woman who just. Doesnt respond. Awkward date

I used to teach a very basic unit in traditional Chinese medicine as a foundational study for massage students. I am by NO means an expert on the subject, but a fundamental principle is that the “yin” and “yang” energies exist in all people, it’s never been as simple as “men are yang/masculine energy and women are yin/feminine energy”. All this to say, these people presenting it as literal black and white are misunderstanding the entire concept, which doesn’t shock me in the least.

@bujustic

2 ай бұрын

the yin and yang being masculine and feminine are (barring translation) direct quotes from the dao de ching - they're still wrong but not as wrong as you're making out, I hope you found this clarification helpful - the dao de ching is actually really insightful and short and I do recommend reading it

@ashannaredwolf8485

2 ай бұрын

@@bujustic yes.

@earthaforester3141

2 ай бұрын

​@@bujustic Right, but I think the point is that both "masculine" and "feminine" energies exist in all people to varying degrees and at different times in our lives (as well as in nature / natural cycles). The entire concept is metaphorical. Calling something "masculine" or "feminine" - "active" or "passive" - is purely symbolic language. I think a lot of philosophical concepts are just thought experiments - abstract tools for understanding personal motivations and social behavior, and how they emulate or (dis)harmonize with nature as a whole. In fact, I think anyone who takes philosophy so literally just isn't getting it.

@bujustic

2 ай бұрын

@@earthaforester3141 I think you're being very dismissive of daoism as just a thought experiment - yes it's philosophical but that doesn't mean it wasn't meant to be taken as describing what's purported to be very real phenomena, like how it's been treated for thousands of years. Who's to say what the original daoist scribes thought, it was thousands of years ago but throughout all of Chinese history it's been treated as a religious doctrine as well as a philosophical one

@IshtarNike

2 ай бұрын

I mean it's in the goddamn symbol lol. It's embarrassing that these people are missing what's right in front of their eyes.

"Ladies you'll be miserable if you're not being provided for by a MAN" wow groundbreaking 🙄

@futuristicgirl14

2 ай бұрын

They should replaced “provided for” to “respected by” and then it would actually be true

WHY ARE ONE OF THE EXAMPLES OF FEMININE ENERGY A CLIP FROM AN SNL SKIT OML 😭

y'know, it's days like this, when I get shown what is happening on the internet outside of my spheres, that i am so very glad to be ace 🤣

@alize7689

2 ай бұрын

hell yeah 🖤🩶🤍💜

I had ONE SEMESTER of neuro bio and I still cringe at the casual mention of neurotransmitters followed by complete nonsense

@sharkofjoy

2 ай бұрын

Youre right tho....it takes such a small dose of learning and context to realize how full of BS these kinds of people are.

@hazellewinter7313

2 ай бұрын

I'm still in school and I cringed so hard when they mentioned that 😂

@JustSaralius

Ай бұрын

I literally face-palmed so many times.

@Ryan-cb1ei

Ай бұрын

@@hazellewinter7313 I mean you can just tell they’re capping so hard 😂 A child can deduce that

Whenever I hear about people wanting to be treated like a princess, I can't help but wonder if they actually want to be married off to someone they've never met in order to broker peace between houses.

@alexwyatt2911

2 ай бұрын

Obviously, yes. Then they don’t have to be so stressed by living a full life and being an actual person.

@missinterpretation4984

2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂 win!

@tristanband4003

2 ай бұрын

I blame the fathers in this situation. To any dads reading this: exempting your daughters from the rigors and stressors of everyday life does her no favors. Make sure she leaves home knowing how to clean gutters, how to unclog a toilet, check the oil in a car, and how to do any activity traditionally considered masculine.

@Joyride37

Ай бұрын

@@tristanband4003 Amen

@stayglitteryqueen

Ай бұрын

Hahaha that was funny 😂

this reminds me of a very annyoing coworker I had years ago who had very confident, very bad takes and once told me that she would never learn to drive because that's masculine, and women in general shouldn't drive at all for that very reason, I was so flabbergasted, and she was around 20 and not catholic or anything

calling naturally assertive and independent women masculine and insinuating it’s not natural is so gross. i’m very passive as a person and admire assertive women who know themselves and go through life with confidence.

This is so typical of how TikTok creates jargon and rules of thumb over how to present yourself in the ‘objectively best way possible’ reminds me of looksmaxxing….

@probablynotapelican5808

2 ай бұрын

Also how it assumes everyone else you meet is shockingly manipulative and not just another complicated person with like nuance and all that crap

“Deployed feminine energy” like it’s an army??? 🤣🤣🤣

@texyp.856

Ай бұрын

Also isn't feminine energy supposed to be receiving? So what are we deploying exactly? 😅

@llynxfyremusic

Ай бұрын

Or like a software solution for a business lol

@matheussanthiago9685

Ай бұрын

Not me storming Normandy with the girlies ✊😩💄💋

When has pulling a map out ever been a masculine vibe? Things have changed 🤣

@jaysea5939

2 ай бұрын

GPS and smartphones, cuz tech is 'masculine'

@Kira_Martel

17 күн бұрын

Right? What happened to, "Men never (need to) ask for directions."?

*_I googled vasopressin and got an antidiuretic diabetes hormone medication._* 💀

@LVX_

2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂 I knew I had seen it somewhere before! This made me laughed so hard!

8:20 As a neurodivergent girlie pop, I feel like she is explaining how to have a socially acceptable conversation lol

@grapebubblegum7663

2 ай бұрын

True 😆

@naomi9449

2 ай бұрын

lol and I barely adhere to that. I just be asking stuff keeps it interesting

@alexwyatt2911

2 ай бұрын

My neurodivergence is almost perpetually in “question mode.” I want to continuously ask people questions about whatever they’re telling me; there are so many things in the world to know. I actually have to reign in “question mode” a lot in a professional setting because (I learned, lol) people can perceive my questioning as a challenge.

@mariannacsinger788

2 ай бұрын

He?

@v_bunny

2 ай бұрын

@@alexwyatt2911i’m the same way!!!

i hate how autonomy is seen as masculine & interconnectedness is seen as feminine. i don't like the conflation of darkness with femininity & light with masculinity either. i don't see what purpose it serves other than to mystify a greater human condition, in ways that only benefit a select few.

@alexwyatt2911

2 ай бұрын

That’s the purpose it serves. Subjugation. Oppression. Consolidation of power. Booooooooooo

@PeachyKins

2 ай бұрын

❤ same. Spent years learning. It's rooted in nature. The elements. Fire & Air are masculine energy & Water & Earth are feminine energy. I'm pagan, witch & tarot reader. This tiktok crap is like tasting ingredients to a cake separately and wondering why it's gross

@PeachyKins

2 ай бұрын

Women's bodies are portals to the spirit world. Actual humans are formed in a woman's body. Sperm is just sperm (without a woman.) So there's that, too. But if you really want to know how this affects humans BEYOND GENDER a good place to begin is researching "wounded feminine" & "wounded masculine"

@hedgeyes6411

2 ай бұрын

@@PeachyKins Shut it, TERF.

The fact that vasopressin/ ADH is just useful for not making us dehydrated by not peeing and has nearly nothing to do with love, atleast not as much as oxytocin is so hilarious! Increased vasopressin would just prevent them from peeing more and increases their blood pressure

@normanclatcher

Ай бұрын

Mood

I googled vassopressin because that sounded like bullshit and the only source for that being a "love chemical" is a doctor who is also a life coach/love guru

@TaraMooknee

2 ай бұрын

we love science over here

11:05 This lady really made an entire series of tiktoks prescribing people in celebrity couples to either a 'black cat' or 'golden retriever' category based on whether or not they're smiling in a hollywood photo...

@emmao6578

Ай бұрын

reminded me of those weird posts you'd see on twitter where someone kept drawing coloured lines on photos of celeb couples and calling the men simps or alphas depending on whether or not they or their partner were leaning towards them or not

"He will fall in love with you in your absence." Yeah, when all someone has is their looks and a terrible personality, the less time they spend with them figuring that out the better.

most normal take on this ive ever seen. when did opinions without the crust become so rare? subbed

8:47. Oh my golly gosh. Basic politeness makes people not hate you. The bar is in hell

“Here are some VERY specific ways people are supposed to act according to their gender. Also, why are so many people transitioning these days?”

@idkhowbutimgay

2 ай бұрын

What do you even mean by this? This is so baseless

@Noirevert

2 ай бұрын

@@idkhowbutimgay It deserves clarification sure: Anecdotally, people who uphold rigid standards of gendered behavior, who suggest that women can be too masculine or that men can be too feminine, express incredulity about the sincerity of modern transition practices. Specifically when it comes to transgendered women, they accept that womanhood can extend beyond anatomy when it comes to “energies” but then ascribe ulterior motives to people AMAB who present or express feminine identities.

@eleanorsherry4620

2 ай бұрын

@@Noirevert hit the nail on the head

@idkhowbutimgay

Ай бұрын

@@Noirevert Ok, sorry for the misunderstanding and thank you for the clarification!

Girlboss Manosphere 💅✨

Glad to see my transition is going well and I’m embracing masculinity through *checks notes* being stressed

As a certified energy vampire, can confirm: you should definitely strive to purify your energy's gender. The taste is _much_ better.

The assumption made by the feminine energy crowd that all women want to be feminine. Also it’s all very the three humors side of science.

Ok, I’m starting to think the cow might be avoiding us.

@mayaraabreu6517

2 ай бұрын

She's the black cat

I really loved this video. I've been watching your stuff for a while now and I'm really happy to see you and the cow tackling these ideas from so many different angles. Keep it up you two!

The ‘what do you bring to the table’ stuff sounds like these ladies have been dating sociopaths or something. Almost just ‘how can I use you to attain my goals’. Terrifying

You nailed it on the head, Tara! As a cist-het man, all of these influencers trying to teach women and men how to act in "masculine/feminine" energy is so misleading. Pick-up artists and a lot of dating coaches already use a lot of patriarchy-enforced ideas to "catch and keep the attention of women". The idea of "masculine energy" taking initiative instead of "feminine energy" just sounds like rehashed patriarchal programming, but trying to give the impression that it is making it empowering for women. Women and female-presenting people, just like men and male-presenting people will have mixtures of both "energies". Really, it's all about the compatibility of each person's personality with their potential partners, and vice versa. It's also another thing if each person needs to be in therapy. If they have mental health issues, it's not because they're "using the wrong energy", it's because they have unresolved issues, insecurities, and trauma to sort through. If they each can't be honest with each other and both work hard for their relationship, then it won't work out. Not because of what kind of "energy" they're using.

"I don't know them personally, but I understand psychology..." Girl you know them better than psychology xD

AAA im so glad you're back!

This video makes me feel so much better about myself. I’m a straight woman, but I come off as a bit “masculine”/ tomboyish & always have as a kid because of my broad shoulders & not so petite frame. I feel comfortable in my gender thankfully , despite being told I give off “boyish vibes” growing up. I’m always unsure what to do cuz I don’t necessarily think I’m hurting anyone by being like this. But, I’ve never been asked out or dated & after repeatedly coming across these feminine energy content i have lowkey started believing it’s because I’m too masculine for a man to be attracted to me. And these beliefs were reinforced when some girls around me who really do have this “black cat” energy, have seemingly better dating lives. I’m now hyper aware of my lack of elegance & my naturally loud tone of speaking (a habit I picked up from the way I was raised) & my already low confidence really took a hit. Though I know it’s a pretty irrational train of thought for sure, I’m just saying this cuz this stuff really does get to you especially if you already have some insecurities in yourselves & are also slapped in the face with this kinda’ content every other day😅 ( thank you YT algorithm)

These women are UNHINGED. My god.

Why do people always have to try to force things that shouldn't be forced into boxes into boxes... This is a legitimate problem with Tiktok, where people think they can just categorize extremely nuanced subjects into all of these neat little boxes and think that because of their "helpful" organizing, everything regarding those subjects will become simpler and easier. At this point they're making more problems than solving problems. How can they not see that???? A lot of these women are self-proclaimed feminists too but it's like, why tf are you as a "feminist" trying your absolute damndest to enforce gender roles and even going as far as to project those same gender roles onto things that have absolutely nothing to do with gender????? Christ, it's truly tiring just seeing these people going around and around in circles. Like, do these women not realize that men are from the same species as themselves and even have some of the same thoughts and worries that they do? The sooner we all realize that we all are human and that we are all trying to get through the experience that is life, the better that experience will be.

Gurl I just freaking love your hair and style today! Looking GOOD!

The lip thing you did after meatball marinara line was amazing. Great video! Spot on!

Many people misinterpret the First Law of Thermodynamics. It was initially put forth as "energy cannot be exuded or sucked, it can only exist and move freely in its changing states".

It’s really weird how TikTok and other such groups peddle the narrative that “men are trash” while at the same time saying that you should want a traditional masculine man. So these dating strategies are meant to get you the same men you call trash?

@futuristicgirl14

2 ай бұрын

They’re trying to trap other women into the same horrible marriages they’re stuck in

@scorpieeeee

2 ай бұрын

It's female version of "podcast guys" who are hell-bent of complain on women but see access to women as a matter of survival. Perhaps this whole “divine feminine” nonsense is a reaction to Tate’s impact on young men and the “conservative turn” from the news

@franciszekdo

Ай бұрын

They're basically advancing the same gender roles and stereotypes. Instead of having a real critique of these roles they just hate men and date them anyways hetero-pessimistically.

The video is top notch as always, but also girly that dress looks so good on you, slayed on all the parameters

LOVING THE NEW HAIRCUT!

the reasons on why the cow cant be in the videos became a highlight for me, they are always so fun, she truly is living her best life

Sorry, the siren eyes got me to click. I am but a simple man

Just think of that one first person who found a study, skimmed the abstract, misunderstood it, but confidently started claiming they understand all the complexity behind vasopressin and oxytocin as it relates to sex, love, and gender. lol love that confident & unbothered femme energy!

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And then goes on to write an entire book on it called "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" 😅

I havent laughed out loud like this watching a youtube video in a long time. Thank you

This explains a lot. I recently watched an influencer‘s video. She is living abroad and she had to renew her visa. Apparently that meant she spent a lot of masculine energy (all the organising/formal stuff at the immigration office?🤷🏼‍♀). It was so exhausting for her as a female she had to spend the better part of the next day on her coach replenishing her feminine energy.

Ahahahahah that oxytocin/vasopressin shit is literally just PUA nonsense for women! You cannot quantify love like this what in the world

Love your energy in this, you are glowing