The Dutch culture (shock)... How to deal with the Dutch?

How to deal with the Dutch? Expats in the Netherlands about the Dutch culture... and Dutch directness.
Did you experience culture shock after moving to the Netherlands?
In this video: Dutch language students from different countries tell about their experiences with Dutch people, the Dutch culture, and Dutch habits.
What did they go through when they moved to the Netherlands, meeting Dutch people... Facing Dutch reality... #dutchculture
These Dutch learners tell about:
- Dutch directness
- The Dutch culture shock!
- How Dutch people put everything in their agendas
- That Dutch people don't like to share a lot
- The importances of speaking Dutch as a foreigner
- How to integrate?
There is 1 mistake in the video: 'Katrina from Greece' should be 'Katerina from the US'
Video made by Bart de Pau and Nicolas Balbontin and the students of the BLC Dutch Winter School.
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  • @saskibla
    @saskibla6 жыл бұрын

    "If you dont learn the language you're missing out"... I think that is the case in every country actually...

  • @Framlii

    @Framlii

    6 жыл бұрын

    saskibla nope.

  • @marjoleinvanharen4686

    @marjoleinvanharen4686

    6 жыл бұрын

    Its strange BC the dutch people are known for knowing a lot of langueses and trying speaking to a forener in their own langues :o

  • @Framlii

    @Framlii

    6 жыл бұрын

    Marjolein Van Haren yes in the shop or station. If you go to city hall and you don't speak Dutch ( in a Lot cases just basic is enough) they won't help you are act very mad and mean. The same with neighbours, you won't be accepted if you don't speak Dutch at all unless they are also foreigners.

  • @noname-ze1cb

    @noname-ze1cb

    6 жыл бұрын

    saskibla we only like to share alcohol

  • @zeeotter100

    @zeeotter100

    6 жыл бұрын

    v Framlii that's just false..

  • @MarcelPolman
    @MarcelPolman6 жыл бұрын

    some of the people have acquired a dutch accent in their English speech. Fascinating to observe

  • @vincentcampaert8497

    @vincentcampaert8497

    6 жыл бұрын

    Horrifying to listen to.

  • @dukkiegamer1733

    @dukkiegamer1733

    6 жыл бұрын

    lolhahalol2 and it sounds horrible. I'm Dutch too btw

  • @TheToneBender

    @TheToneBender

    6 жыл бұрын

    Even the canadian XD

  • @nanzers7785

    @nanzers7785

    6 жыл бұрын

    lolhahalol2 Ze germans have zhat too

  • @Fulkii

    @Fulkii

    6 жыл бұрын

    "Ferrie dutsj" bij sommige accenten ielghh

  • @seanl67
    @seanl676 жыл бұрын

    I think if you've only been to Amsterdam, you are not getting the full Dutch experience. Amsterdam is a tourist trap.

  • @yudycampbell6988

    @yudycampbell6988

    3 жыл бұрын

    you mean many pickpocket in amsterdam?

  • @dr.omeganebula1529

    @dr.omeganebula1529

    3 жыл бұрын

    Fryslân boppe 😳

  • @noyb8658

    @noyb8658

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hala Nesredin In Utrecht you’ll only see Moroccans

  • @casper6405

    @casper6405

    3 жыл бұрын

    I live in Arnhem and we got so much Beutyfull nature A great zoo Interesting history about ww2 Etc etc We got alot Amsterdam is just a shit stain

  • @siemvangaans2640

    @siemvangaans2640

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@casper6405 precies 026🎉

  • @Orlilover4
    @Orlilover46 жыл бұрын

    Best thing about being dutch is that you can curse a lot even on tv and no one gives a rats ass. if you do that in America everyone is in shook or it gets beeped out..

  • @dietraveler6214

    @dietraveler6214

    6 жыл бұрын

    Orlilover4 I think it stems from Puritan views from back in early history.

  • @krauterbaron360

    @krauterbaron360

    5 жыл бұрын

    hey from germany,but honestly that makes tv in nl not better than from uk or us.i mean we have in germany a lot trash tv as well just sayin.sure u have some decent shows like new kidz or popoz or from the 90s the flodders.btw l the directness is similar to us germans at the end of the day we r not that different in some points ,im from northrhine westphalia n dutch culture is closer to me than bavarian culture for example,peace

  • @jenster29

    @jenster29

    5 жыл бұрын

    It's very tacky though. They seem to think they sound cool when they talk like that but they don't.

  • @Saartje05

    @Saartje05

    5 жыл бұрын

    In Germany they dub EVERYTHING. Almost nothing is in the original language. So you see famous actors with German voice. That's the most irritating thing of German tv. It ruins everything. And imo it's an insult for the actors.

  • @hellokitty524

    @hellokitty524

    5 жыл бұрын

    Cursing is very vulgar and shows a lack of vocabulary and thought. Since moving to Holland, I have really become aware of this and try not to curse, since I now see how bad and low class it sounds.

  • @Annelies022
    @Annelies0226 жыл бұрын

    Me: is Dutch KZread: How to deal with the Dutch? Me: HELL YES I NEED THIS

  • @jolie._xxx

    @jolie._xxx

    3 жыл бұрын

    Annelies Pebesma i need help to even though im dutch though boiiii

  • @GHOS8925

    @GHOS8925

    3 жыл бұрын

    Teach me your language, please!

  • @jolie._xxx

    @jolie._xxx

    3 жыл бұрын

    Guilherme Oliveira that’s gonna take a while😂

  • @anastasiacorsica8623

    @anastasiacorsica8623

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @Eislog

    @Eislog

    Жыл бұрын

    Sws🤣🤣

  • @StefanVeenstra
    @StefanVeenstra5 жыл бұрын

    It's not that Dutch don't share a lot. It's just considered rude to expect more than you're entitled to. We rather negotiate than just take.

  • @riteasrain

    @riteasrain

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well said.

  • @tomodomo1000

    @tomodomo1000

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's all about the language. The Dutch language has fewer expressions than others. It's also about living. Dutch people need less on a normal basis. Not saying about faith, which sometimes brings you to another level. Christmas is another day off, not more.

  • @AudieHolland

    @AudieHolland

    4 жыл бұрын

    No, we Dutch are stingy by nature. Comparable people for that would be the Scottish. 'Going Dutch:' American saying (I think) meaning every member of a party, when going out for drinks or dinner even, will pay for him or herself. A pain for the poor waiters who are trying to come up with enough change. However nowadays that would be less of a problem, what with chipcards and pay via smartphone. 'Dutch Party:' also American. Everyone is invited but be sure to bring your own food and drinks.

  • @aldyleeson

    @aldyleeson

    3 жыл бұрын

    I disagree. It's not about expecting from the other, but the action coming from you. Other cultures share more, but I understand them, we have to be more careful in who we be nice to... LoL

  • @carladasilva6109

    @carladasilva6109

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@AudieHolland frugal, not stingy

  • @FarryEntertainment
    @FarryEntertainment5 жыл бұрын

    When I am with Dutch people, I like to watch the cat from the tree first.

  • @brisaquina8816

    @brisaquina8816

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yup that sounds very Dutch to me. Totally the way you translated it xD

  • @brisaquina8816

    @brisaquina8816

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@mariovanberneveld5802 Oh dear god xD

  • @Remmy81

    @Remmy81

    5 жыл бұрын

    Putting the flowers outside tonight.

  • @mathieumansire372

    @mathieumansire372

    5 жыл бұрын

    nothing on the hand

  • @koningwillemvanoranje1870

    @koningwillemvanoranje1870

    5 жыл бұрын

    Make dat the cat wise.

  • @17JMarino
    @17JMarino4 жыл бұрын

    i am portuguese and i lived in holland (Utrecht) for 2 years and i loved holland. Dutch people are the niceste persons i have met. In work they can be funny and professional at the same time, they are very organized as well. they give you value when you do a good work, very polite and good english speakers. i was 19 years old when i moved there and it changes me as a person. Thank you Netherlands.

  • @annemariecandyflip6531

    @annemariecandyflip6531

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!! 👍😘🇱🇺

  • @FXHazardproductions

    @FXHazardproductions

    2 жыл бұрын

    You lived in Utrecht for 2 years and still call it Holland, something went wrong there🤣

  • @17JMarino

    @17JMarino

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@FXHazardproductions i remind tou that i lived there in 2004. But only once, a dutch guy i used to work with, told me that Holland was wrong. that its the name of one of two regions in Netherlands. Holland north and south. But only one person. Now every time i find someone from Netherlands i say it correctly.

  • @babakfakhriloo2313

    @babakfakhriloo2313

    2 жыл бұрын

    Portuguese people are also nice

  • @connormyron.5366
    @connormyron.53666 жыл бұрын

    goed verhaal, lekker kort ook.

  • @Dayfitnl

    @Dayfitnl

    6 жыл бұрын

    doen we niks mee...

  • @adoifhitier5276

    @adoifhitier5276

    6 жыл бұрын

    Wie wil mijn mooie raket zien?

  • @martijnhoogesteger4466

    @martijnhoogesteger4466

    6 жыл бұрын

    Connor Myron. Dumpert mailde net of ze hun 2009 grapje terug mogen....

  • @connormyron.5366

    @connormyron.5366

    6 жыл бұрын

    boohooohooo, zeikstraal.

  • @martijnhoogesteger4466

    @martijnhoogesteger4466

    6 жыл бұрын

    Connor Myron. Ja en daar mag jij je mond mee spoelen... Gelijk dat gescheld allemaal 😴

  • @icu81mi46
    @icu81mi465 жыл бұрын

    The culture shock I experienced was seeing how so much diversity being widely accepted and respected. I had people willing to translate our conversation into 2 other languages so we could all speak together. Very kind people, efficient, polite, helpful. I cant wait to go back again! Lol learning dutch to help, Duolingo is pretty decent for beginners too

  • @LOKI77able

    @LOKI77able

    2 жыл бұрын

    How long did you stay there for?

  • @Blueberryminty
    @Blueberryminty5 жыл бұрын

    as a belgian from the flemish region I can only say that this confirms that we share the same language, but our cultures are miles apart...

  • @GUITARTIME2024

    @GUITARTIME2024

    4 жыл бұрын

    not so much as you think. i lived in the Randstad, but also lived a long time in the Antwerp area, and i'm not sure I saw huge differences. (and I do speak Dutch). Both groups don't smile enough and many seem depressed, though its true the Randstad people are more direct.

  • @mariadebake5483

    @mariadebake5483

    3 жыл бұрын

    But people from the south of the Netherlands are closer to you in mindset I think

  • @dimrrider9133

    @dimrrider9133

    3 ай бұрын

    Valt best mee hoor, ik kom uit Breda en werk regelmatig in Vlaanderen en het enige verschil is dat de bazen ook weten dat ze de baas zijn terwijl dat hier veel minder is en dat verschil weten ze ondertussen wel als wij hun kassen weer moeten herstellen want dan krijgt het werkvolk ook gewoon koffie ;p

  • @elvarieH
    @elvarieH5 жыл бұрын

    The Dutch are VERY opinionated (love giving you their opinion) and are not as open minded about other opinions as they claim to be. They love discussions! Everything is very well organised and they won't spontaneously invite you over for a drink or dinner. Yes, it is a culture shock!

  • @byyr3

    @byyr3

    Жыл бұрын

    they are fake and dirty

  • @mohammadmo1789
    @mohammadmo17893 жыл бұрын

    I have lived in the Netherlands for six years. I lived in Nijmegen, Arnhem, Zwolle and Weert, as well as small villages. I speak Dutch fluently C1 and to this day I have not succeeded in getting close to people and making friends. Now I really gave up and return to speak English and will go to randstad to be close to foreigners because it's more easier.

  • @annemariecandyflip6531

    @annemariecandyflip6531

    3 жыл бұрын

    You're right. I hear that often from people. It's hard to make friends with the Dutch but once when you're befriended with them it's okay. Do understand your move for the Randstad, people are less reserved over there. I hope you will find a nice place to stay and good people around you. Good luck! 👍

  • @renatapazzini-461

    @renatapazzini-461

    7 ай бұрын

    They don't like to make new friends!

  • @ihsahnakerfeldt9280

    @ihsahnakerfeldt9280

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@annemariecandyflip6531"Once you're befriended with them it's ok" How do you get there if they're not willing to make that step too though?

  • @boukeboor9889
    @boukeboor98895 жыл бұрын

    One thing you should never do in 🇳🇱: visit people without them expecting you to come. When you do, you interrupt someone’s day completely and they will be mad at you😂 At least, I’m always mad when people suddenly stand in front of your door.

  • @GUITARTIME2024

    @GUITARTIME2024

    4 жыл бұрын

    just dont answer the door

  • @Dutchreview
    @Dutchreview6 жыл бұрын

    Singing Hazes at 4 o'clock in the morning is sometimes as spontaneous as the Dutch get :D - nice video!

  • @exoticgirl1

    @exoticgirl1

    6 жыл бұрын

    DutchReview I love how he fallen Andre Hazes Andrea lolol

  • @adoifhitier5276

    @adoifhitier5276

    6 жыл бұрын

    Zelfs ik hou van Andre Hazes. We hadden zelfs nummers van Hazes afgespeeld bij onze parade. Je had het moeten zien haha. Onze nieuwste raketten kwamen voorbij op bloed, zweet en tranen.

  • @adoifhitier5276

    @adoifhitier5276

    6 жыл бұрын

    Jullie Nederlanders hebben echt goede ideeën. Kan je iets met een vlieger in combinatie van een raket ontwikkelen?

  • @miesya1137

    @miesya1137

    6 жыл бұрын

    i hate hazes

  • @adoifhitier5276

    @adoifhitier5276

    6 жыл бұрын

    Adolf here, im living in North Korea to. Kim is now busy with rocket science. Miesya, why you don't like hazes? You know he's a ubermensch?

  • @frituurvlieg
    @frituurvlieg6 жыл бұрын

    I really liked the 'respect for eachothers time' quote, cause thats exactely why some Dutch people can get ignored by more southern cultures. To me for instance, being on time is more important than being 'well dressed' for instance. Not being on time is not having respect for my schedule (and thus my commitments to other people that day).

  • @ek5891

    @ek5891

    11 ай бұрын

    I don't give a fuck about some others time. I don't life a stress life like you.

  • @TubeMeChannel
    @TubeMeChannel6 жыл бұрын

    Wat ik mij afvraag, waar wonen deze mensen? Het klinkt alsof ze in de randstad wonen. Klopt dat? Geloof me er zijn delen van Nederland, waar je direct wordt uitgenodigd, volgestopt wordt, mee kan eten, je onuitgenodigd langs kunt komen, zonder Hazes spontaan gefeest wordt 🍾🎉😊

  • @LearndutchOrg

    @LearndutchOrg

    6 жыл бұрын

    Deze video is opgenomen in Drenthe. Sommige mensen in deze video wonen in de Randstad, maar anderen in de provincie. Het grappige is dat de meest typische uitspraken die hier in de commentaren besproken worden, juist van de mensen zijn die niet in de Randstad wonen.

  • @ZerokillerOppel1

    @ZerokillerOppel1

    5 жыл бұрын

    Natuurlijk allemaal meteen naar A'dam gegaan. Voor de gemiddelde Amerikaan is Amsterdam hetzelfde als Nederland hebben gezien... And for our American friends: Ofcourse they went straightaway to Amsterdam. Because for the average American going to Amsterdam is like seeing the whole of the Netherlands...(or Europe for that matter)

  • @Saartje05

    @Saartje05

    5 жыл бұрын

    Het is inderdaad een GROOT verschil of je naar Friesland of Groningen gaat of naar het zuiden waar het veel bourgondischer is en waar bij wijze van de deur altijd open staat. Ik kom van oorsprong uit het westen, geboren in Rotterdam maar woon nu in het oosten. Ondanks dat ik hier nu langer woon dan in het westen heb ik nog steeds de westerse grondslag. Ik ben veel directer, we praten wat makkelijker met anderen terwijl hier in het oosten iedereen echt totaal dicht kan slaan als er iets is of als ze domweg de pest in hebben. Ipv uitpraten gaan ze een week zitten mokken.

  • @froggylegspeople

    @froggylegspeople

    5 жыл бұрын

    Saartje05 😂

  • @xIpodTouchGoeroex

    @xIpodTouchGoeroex

    5 жыл бұрын

    Nederlanders zijn niet zo gastvrij

  • @globalman
    @globalman5 жыл бұрын

    I love the Netherlands and most of the people. I was born and grew up in NYC a long time ago and for me going to live in the Netherlands 2012 was like going home. The candid no nonsense way of speaking and being plus their sense of social responsibility is unique and the opposite of USA. I've lived in 10 countries and now speak 5 languages including Dutch. A great language and country. I never felt as free and comfortable as in the Netherlands. Their level of tolerance, acceptance and understanding is more than anywhere I've lived and quite the opposite of the USA, which like the British is never saying what they mean and being quite hypocritical. The Dutch do not beat around the bush. Obviously there are exceptions in every country.

  • @Sikke_Kok

    @Sikke_Kok

    5 жыл бұрын

    Aren't New Yorkers more straightforward compared to other Americans? I always felt like NYC has a no nonsense mentality, similar to Holland.

  • @lienbijs1205

    @lienbijs1205

    5 жыл бұрын

    I think we Dutch people are all a kind of autistic people, some less, some more, but all are living too much according schedules. Too much incisting on first doing tasks, chores, and then only pleasure. Everything is even scheduled in free time. Sleeping, eating ( even a lot of people have a fixed dinner on days of the week) , visiting friend and family, housekerping, just name it. Going to cinema the first satyrday of the month for example, or always going to a fixed day of the month doing the big shoppings. If you call somebody to ask if you can come for a visit then don't be surprised to hear something like " Sorry, I can't because I always do the shoppings at the second tuesday of the month in the afternoon.

  • @AirborneVisualsNL

    @AirborneVisualsNL

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@lienbijs1205 Gotta be honest tho, I think it is why our country is doing so well

  • @chaoticatinynoises7894

    @chaoticatinynoises7894

    5 жыл бұрын

    globalman And that’s how it is❣️👏🏻👍🏼

  • @GUITARTIME2024

    @GUITARTIME2024

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@lienbijs1205 Lien, you are so right! I laugh with my Belgian wife that so many Dutch seem borderline autistic! (even a fair amount of the North Belgians) That is so funny.

  • @jannefrijns5417
    @jannefrijns54176 жыл бұрын

    how to deal with us: simple. be practical: if we don't apologise because we crash into you on the way to the entry of the bus, don't apologise either and maybe even start running a few steps. Nothing pisses dutch people off more than having to wait a few seconds longer. Never expect people to pay for you when you go out, we're Dutch, money is our everything. If you want to connect to people, complain about the weather, we do it all the time. actually just complain about anything and you'll be fine lol these are really the most annoying things about the netherlands, and that's coming from someone who has lived here all her life

  • @024DoubleA

    @024DoubleA

    6 жыл бұрын

    Geniaal 😂

  • @jannefrijns5417

    @jannefrijns5417

    6 жыл бұрын

    Alies Alies helemaal waar, alles praktisch, niets op gevoel.

  • @user-dq6hs4ry6z

    @user-dq6hs4ry6z

    5 жыл бұрын

    Janne Frijns damn way to stereotype your own country. Though I must say you are a good complainer

  • @erikpoephoofd

    @erikpoephoofd

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ik weet niet waar jij woont maar ik kan me hier totaal niet in vinden.

  • @christoffelmiddel6663

    @christoffelmiddel6663

    5 жыл бұрын

    I can't stand your face, I can't stand the weather, I can't stand the garbage, I can't stand feyenoord winning over AJAX I can't stand the way you're cycling YOu're driving to slow! Go faster! Stop going on your phone while cycling or driving!

  • @LearndutchOrg
    @LearndutchOrg5 жыл бұрын

    Wie kijkt dit filmpje als Nederlander? Geef je mening! Beantwoord 7 stellingen: eens of oneens: www.learndutch.org/wat-vinden-nederlanders-over-zichzelf/ (resultaten komen in een nieuw filmpje)

  • @dybetje678

    @dybetje678

    5 жыл бұрын

    learndutch.org hoi ik ben Nederlands en ik weet niet wat ik hier doe

  • @BimBamB00m

    @BimBamB00m

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ik ben niet van Nederland maar van België. Het is correct als je het mij vraagt XD. We zijn inderdaad direct in wat we zeggen. Over het altijd plannen ben ik het niet altijd eens, maar dat is misschien meer iets voor de Nederlanders idk. Het was wel interessant om te zien wat buitenlanders van ons vinden 😀.

  • @Ahmed_0303

    @Ahmed_0303

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ik ben nederlands en dit was in mijn recomendation ik weet niet waarom ik clickde

  • @theluxraysquad735

    @theluxraysquad735

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ik heb geen nederlander maar een Belg, telt dat ook? XD

  • @robinmlmd2562

    @robinmlmd2562

    5 жыл бұрын

    Het is ook nog eens waar wat ze zeggen xD

  • @kobjgdewschucrvtubnkm
    @kobjgdewschucrvtubnkm6 жыл бұрын

    most of them sound like Dutch people speaking english 😂

  • @rianne5088

    @rianne5088

    6 жыл бұрын

    Terkas haha, same!

  • @twanrozendal4

    @twanrozendal4

    6 жыл бұрын

    He he he

  • @lazycrazy9709

    @lazycrazy9709

    6 жыл бұрын

    I know this is off topic but i like your profile picture of the silence lmao

  • @moonlightdrown9366

    @moonlightdrown9366

    6 жыл бұрын

    Cosplay4Life it is! Run! Dont look at it we can't forget what we know!!

  • @kobjgdewschucrvtubnkm

    @kobjgdewschucrvtubnkm

    6 жыл бұрын

    Cosplay4Life Huh? What profile picture? It's a picture of my cat :/

  • @gijsyo
    @gijsyo5 жыл бұрын

    Dutch guy here. One of the most difficult things for me is to find out what people truly mean in indirect cultures like the UK's.

  • @annemariecandyflip6531

    @annemariecandyflip6531

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hoffelijkheid en beleefdheid is iets waar de Engelsen goed in zijn (Nederlanders niet). En zij brengen slecht nieuws op een manier zodat je de persoon die het over zich heen krijgt de pijn wat verzacht. En soms wordt de keiharde waarheid niet verteld om iemands gevoelens te sparen. Ik ben ook Nederlandse en ik ben absoluut tegen liegen en om de waarheid heen draaien maar Nederlanders gooien dat op een onhandige manier bij iemand voor de voeten. Engelsen ergeren zich eraan en dat kan ik wel een beetje begrijpen: je kunt negatief nieuws ook op een vriendelijker manier brengen. En het is toch ook mooi dat er mensen zijn die geven om je gevoelens en daarom sommige, relatief onschuldige maar wel vervelende zaken besluiten niet te bespreken uit een soort respect voor jou. Rotnieuws is nooit leuk om te brengen. Natuurlijk moet je bij belangrijke en ernstige dingen nooit zwijgen! Nederlanders denderen over de Engelse manier heen zonder erbij stil te staan dat hoffelijkheid ook heel belangrijk is, we zeggen immrrs wel eens: het is niet wat je zegt maar hoe je het zegt. Dat wordt bedoeld met indirecte culturen. Maar dat klopt ook niet helemaal: alle westerse werelddelen zijn vaak directer dan de rest

  • @Christel12dd
    @Christel12dd5 жыл бұрын

    'how spontaneous Dutch people aren't.' Hoe eerlijk! Lovely.

  • @TheKeystoneChannel

    @TheKeystoneChannel

    2 жыл бұрын

    We are spontaneous in our directness 😂🤣

  • @renspolak6154
    @renspolak61546 жыл бұрын

    Wie is er hier nederlands

  • @walterrijke3295

    @walterrijke3295

    6 жыл бұрын

    #gewoon alseenbaas ik XD

  • @adoifhitier5276

    @adoifhitier5276

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ik ben een Oostenrijker, maar kan ook Nederlands praten.

  • @amberveronique913

    @amberveronique913

    6 жыл бұрын

    #gewoon alseenbaas hallo, ik ben er!

  • @walterrijke3295

    @walterrijke3295

    6 жыл бұрын

    zo u bent oud

  • @nanzers7785

    @nanzers7785

    6 жыл бұрын

    #gewoon alseenbaas Nog beter : ik ben Hollands Nederlander kan tegenwordig iedereen worden dankzij merkel

  • @RagicaltheUnhallowedKnight
    @RagicaltheUnhallowedKnight5 жыл бұрын

    You kinda missed one as well. This might be part of our directness, but we do like to complain about everything and when we don't have something to complain about, we will complain about that. Not to mention our sarcasm rivals that of the Brits

  • @BrianDagame

    @BrianDagame

    5 жыл бұрын

    Glad to hear from someone else about our sarcasm. The Brits are notorious for it, but I believe we can be masters of the cheeky arts as well..

  • @XgruenaugeX

    @XgruenaugeX

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sounds like home to me. Direct, pragmatic, prepared for every eventuality, don't waste time, complain about everthing (especially the weather) and make sarcastic comments about politics. Greetings from Germany ;)

  • @BrianDagame

    @BrianDagame

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@XgruenaugeX Hahah, all of this is so true. Greetings right back at you :)

  • @chrisczajasager

    @chrisczajasager

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@BrianDagame the worst NL sarcasm is "Schadefreude"....they find falling down very funny and hilarious if you hurt yourself! They lack poetry, a sense of the absurd and have a limited daily vocabulary: leuk, heerlijk, geweldig etc. And a lack of fantasy......and the sound of northern Dutch is grating to the ears.Give me Flemish....please!

  • @SnooLuna
    @SnooLuna6 жыл бұрын

    Are we really that direct?

  • @CK88NL

    @CK88NL

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yes, but I personally like that (a Greek living in Den Haag)

  • @richarddawkins3098

    @richarddawkins3098

    6 жыл бұрын

    Apparantly, you didn't notice it any more.

  • @kiylo

    @kiylo

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ja

  • @atheistje761

    @atheistje761

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ovi, YES we are that direct. We Dutch are honest. Not like those F.... lying foreigners.

  • @corbeau-_-

    @corbeau-_-

    6 жыл бұрын

    typical xD

  • @kyrav527
    @kyrav5275 жыл бұрын

    Me: *watches this video* Me: ‘why am I watching this? I am Dutch, I know Dutch people.’ Also me: ‘I don’t think I’m Dutch anymore.’

  • @barnbersonol
    @barnbersonol5 жыл бұрын

    My friend spent a year in Amsterdam ...and came home having learnt about 5 words of Dutch but with an astounding American accent !!!!!

  • @Matty-yq5sx
    @Matty-yq5sx6 жыл бұрын

    in augusus ga ik naar enschede, nederland voor mijn MSc.. En soms voel ik me een beetje onrustig. de cursus is in het engels maar ik ben bezorgd dat ik problemen zal hebben in het socale leven. maar misschien zal het makkelijker zijn als nederlanders heel direct zijn... ik kijk uit naar om een nieuwe cultuur te verkennen XD

  • @PornflakesNL

    @PornflakesNL

    6 жыл бұрын

    Don't be! Enschede is very fun and almost everyone speaks English perfectly!

  • @frisianmouve

    @frisianmouve

    6 жыл бұрын

    Netherlands is first on the english proficiency index, don't expect a language barrier. And judging by your comment you know Dutch pretty well. En hier ga ik weer natuurlijk, soms moet ik mezelf even herinneren om buitenlanders die Nederlands willen leren ook in het Nederlands toe te spreken. Instinctief ga ik dan over naar het Engels

  • @TheXerxes249

    @TheXerxes249

    6 жыл бұрын

    Je Nederlands gaat al lekker pik! Maak je niet druk, studenten zijn over het algemeen heel gemoedelijk, join een gezelligheidsvereniging met een subject van jouw keuze en je hebt geen problemen met het sociale leven!

  • @walterrijke3295

    @walterrijke3295

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ricky L XD

  • @npigwnl

    @npigwnl

    6 жыл бұрын

    Komt goed!

  • @LearndutchOrg
    @LearndutchOrg6 жыл бұрын

    Do you AGREE or NOT? 1. Dutch people are direct. 2. Dutch people are not spontaneous, they plan everything. 3. Dutch people don’t like to stand out. 4. Dutch people are easy going & open minded. 5. Dutch people are (a bit) greedy. 6. Dutch people don’t like be told how to behave. 7. Dutch people feel responsible as members of society. These items summarise the video. What is your opinion?

  • @henk_69

    @henk_69

    6 жыл бұрын

    learndutch.org Yep im dutch and that describes me

  • @marcelberry784

    @marcelberry784

    6 жыл бұрын

    about "the importance of speakin dutch as a foreigner". i don't know anyone who doesn't have compassion for any foreigner not speaking dutch. i've heard more complaints of people who've always lived here and are grammaticaly at the age of 6 than about a foreigner that doesn't (or badly) speak dutch.

  • @neroquin

    @neroquin

    6 жыл бұрын

    1. No 2. No 3. Yes 4. I guess 5. *Yes, I will never share my food! D:* 6. Yes, but if it's by a teacher or something, I will do it anyways. I won't like it though! 7. No

  • @jetaddict420

    @jetaddict420

    6 жыл бұрын

    oxideer ofzo smh

  • @OO7RX7

    @OO7RX7

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dutch people are stingy bastards

  • @jalenec
    @jalenec6 жыл бұрын

    One thing I learned there is no one cares about accidental pushing and shoving in close quarters. Down south in the US people are very nice and apologize, in the north people might say something. But in Amsterdam no one cared! It's not that they aren't nice, but it happens so often that it's not a big deal I guess!

  • @yt-mca

    @yt-mca

    6 жыл бұрын

    Amsterdam is not the Netherlands. In the same way NYC is not representative of the US.

  • @jalenec

    @jalenec

    6 жыл бұрын

    It's not, but at the same time it is. NYC isn't necessarily a spokesperson for all the US, but its cultures and customs are representative.

  • @henkoosterink8744

    @henkoosterink8744

    6 жыл бұрын

    In Amsterdam there are more foreigners than Dutch people.

  • @ganjah.e.r.bdinosaur5638

    @ganjah.e.r.bdinosaur5638

    6 жыл бұрын

    True this, amsterdam is nothing like the real netherlands.

  • @davevd9944

    @davevd9944

    6 жыл бұрын

    We always say in Amsterdam you hear 100 different languages...And Dutch ain't one of them. They have roughly 800-900ish thousand citzens and 17 million tourists each year....So yea Amsterdam is anything but a accurate representation of our little nation.

  • @house_of_stars_3578
    @house_of_stars_35786 жыл бұрын

    i'm half Dutch half Welsh and grew up in Holland, but travelled and lived in other countries a lot also. Main part I lived in Holland, in all different cities and towns. Up to this day, almost always when i meet a very open, low barrier, easy to make friends with person, they are not Dutch. There are always from another country, including the English. I once had a very good Australian friend who tried living in A'dam for a year and she became almost depressed soon, and i totally understood her. She was used to very warm, sociable mentalities, and making friends very quickly everywhere. The outdoorsy lifestyle seems to resonate with the mentality. The Dutch to me are very withdrawn and reserved, it takes years before they ' come out of their boxes' ...I don't want to attack anyone, but i just think it's very striking!

  • @martinroelofse966

    @martinroelofse966

    Жыл бұрын

    I don' t know where you get the idra that Dutch people are withdrawn I'm Dutch and we live inthe most free country in the world and people don' t talk to you is probably you don't have say anything and you maybe look like a bore or are you an expat bragging about your job showing off how much money you make ,yeah Dutch don't like that I've been to many countries and seen a lot of people Sorry to say but for me I'm always happy when Im back home again

  • @RealityAlwaysWins
    @RealityAlwaysWins5 жыл бұрын

    Dutch people at the nicest people in the world in my experience, there’s not another populous like them :) I live with my Dutch hubby in Holland and can say these words 110% truthfully!

  • @amazonionavalon8252

    @amazonionavalon8252

    2 жыл бұрын

    I love my Dutch friends, and they really appreciate when I make the effort to write and speak to them in Dutch!

  • @LisaMichelle98
    @LisaMichelle986 жыл бұрын

    Nice to have found this. I hope more people who come to the Netherlands will learn Dutch. As a Dutchie who has to commute to Amsterdam every morning, I hardly ever hear people talk Dutch on the metro. (It gets quite annoying: it's like I'm the foreigner). Lately the trend also seems to be: one person from another country in class? Let's do the lesson in English! Although we're also at fault for always talking back or starting conversation in English, I hope people will not take 'easy' advantage of this anymore.

  • @dietraveler6214

    @dietraveler6214

    6 жыл бұрын

    Lisa Michelle I understand your point of view. I think it's because English is just the international language right now. However, when it isn't anymore, then there may be another language that dominates in most countries. That's just the way it goes now.

  • @drunkensailor112
    @drunkensailor1126 жыл бұрын

    I would like to point out that people south of the rivers are totally different. I moved from the north to Nijmegen and it's like a different country. I will never leave this place now.

  • @chrisczajasager

    @chrisczajasager

    5 жыл бұрын

    absolu, de lui 'zuid van de rivieren' zijn veel charmanter !

  • @mariadebake5483

    @mariadebake5483

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ja wij zijn gewoon veel leuker (ik ben Brabants) 😄

  • @carlos0180
    @carlos01806 жыл бұрын

    I bet they all went to Amsterdam

  • @royhoeksema5720

    @royhoeksema5720

    5 жыл бұрын

    Carlitooo Nope

  • @Orbitinbloom19018

    @Orbitinbloom19018

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol goed voor mij want ik woon in amsterdam, but lets be honest amsterdam is gwn haast een ander land qua cultuur dan de rest van nederland

  • @rubberducky.youretheone

    @rubberducky.youretheone

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Orbitinbloom19018 Idk ik kom uit Zeeland

  • @fleshbuttbongos

    @fleshbuttbongos

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ja, after all I went for the stroopwafels and red lights. Only to leave soaking my fries in mayonnaise and calling them patatje.

  • @robertheinrichvonseyfenste267

    @robertheinrichvonseyfenste267

    4 жыл бұрын

    I think to EmsterdEm, GoddEm

  • @nicolekyoko5585
    @nicolekyoko55856 жыл бұрын

    Well when you go to their house they just bring a jar with cookies and give you 1 and put the rest away. When you ask for more, they say its finished even though there was a whole jar.

  • @amelia8361

    @amelia8361

    6 жыл бұрын

    nicole kyoko haha true

  • @rutgervandemerwe4106

    @rutgervandemerwe4106

    6 жыл бұрын

    you just dont ask for more, that's rude man, coming from a dutch person

  • @nicolekyoko5585

    @nicolekyoko5585

    6 жыл бұрын

    Rutger van de Merwe miss voor gierige mensen

  • @ishitarawat9475

    @ishitarawat9475

    6 жыл бұрын

    nicole kyoko it's totally opposite in my country India. We feed our guests until they are totally satisfied.

  • @Xeyal1001

    @Xeyal1001

    6 жыл бұрын

    Dude you know how rude it is to just ask for more cookies. I mean like, people always say Dutch people are greedy. That's not true we just have common desency for our country so you should respect them.

  • @AirborneVisualsNL
    @AirborneVisualsNL5 жыл бұрын

    its so funny to see what everyone else thinks of our culture :p I knew we are direct, but never knew it was that noticeable. I love to see how actually nobody really hates the dutch culture, good to know it is loved by many :) And ofcourse, alot of love back from The Netherlands. or like we would say: het ga je goed

  • @moongloss9243
    @moongloss92436 жыл бұрын

    My summary: PROS: - quite direct (they say what they expect of you) - very welcoming, showing genuine interest in other cultures - they're great in speaking / knowing English - if you ask for help, they will gladly help you CONS: - sometimes cold, robot like (people in administration) - not providing enough of food - just finger food while you're guest on a birthday party (probably just cultural difference I'm not accustomed to) - some are cycling like maniacs cutting my way or cycling in my lane (Dutch students mostly, lol)

  • @lisapetri3616

    @lisapetri3616

    6 жыл бұрын

    Limburg really is a country of it's own. My boyfriend's grandmother always gives us food. Not just party food but self cooked dinner. And she expects us to eat it. And when we're leaving she always gives us a bag with cola, chips and for the vitamins some fruit

  • @moongloss9243

    @moongloss9243

    6 жыл бұрын

    It's nice to hear that. Grandmas are like that, mine were also like that, always providing lots of food. ;)

  • @royhoeksema5720

    @royhoeksema5720

    5 жыл бұрын

    Moon Gloss Yeah, that’s not viewed aa cycling like maniacs. As long as you don’t fall they’re cycling fine.

  • @PapierVersnipperaar
    @PapierVersnipperaar6 жыл бұрын

    In a lot of countries people just talk because of talking, in Netherlands this is different. Especially men are very problem solving oriented, I think this is the directness. So a man will actually adres the problem, while the foreigner only wanted some small talk, and is suddenly confronted with a solution or a remark that they didnt knew that was coming.

  • @Flippokid
    @Flippokid6 жыл бұрын

    In my social circles we always keep talking English for as long as we have a foreigner in our midst. Although some people can switch back to Dutch when you don't seem to be listening anymore, or they have a hard time translating to English. But most people speak English pretty well, so those people aren't that common.

  • @gbultimate

    @gbultimate

    6 жыл бұрын

    N7Mith it's not so easy when you're drunk. At some point someone says something dutch and then everyone is speaking dutch again. Until you remind them to switch back.

  • @geraldinel.2190

    @geraldinel.2190

    5 жыл бұрын

    It's rare enough to be applauded :) Can I be your friend 😂

  • @qquwert

    @qquwert

    5 жыл бұрын

    @TheWeeaboo You hit the nail on the head, Weeaboo. Many Dutch people do overestimate their command of English to a cringe-worthy degree. Their vanity may indeed serve a certain lazyness. But vanity is not the only cause -- their poor English is often also due to their poor command of their own Dutch language. Veel Nederlanders geven geen zier om hun taal. Hun Engels is vaak een gebrekkige weergave van hun gebrekkig Nederlands.

  • @chrisczajasager

    @chrisczajasager

    5 жыл бұрын

    The Nederlander is one of the best linguists in the world.I lived 29 years in Nederland, became a naturalized Nederlander and met only two people in all the 29 years who could not speak English.In fact many Nederlander speak better English than Americans.They don't say 'like' after every third word....................Most of my acquaintances spoke at least three languages.Where in the USA is that capacity? Over manners, there is a bit to be desired......

  • @GUITARTIME2024

    @GUITARTIME2024

    4 жыл бұрын

    yes, im American and i noticed that too. Dutch is my second language so I found myself switching a lot too, since some Dutchies/Belgians actually like practicing their American accent.

  • @jeffreyvisser8628
    @jeffreyvisser86284 жыл бұрын

    For people who feel annoyed about being with Dutch people around that speak shortly English but start speaking Dutch again for a while, I am very sorry to hear that. I think it depends on people, it also happened to me when I was with Chinese people and my friend when he was with Italian people. I think it depends on how people feel Comfortable and sometime they don’t realise how bad it can feel to people that cannot join the topic because of a different language. I always speak English even with my Dutch friends if there is a person that speak English, even when I don’t know them well I try to make topics and try to make them feel Comfortable.

  • @nancymesek
    @nancymesek5 жыл бұрын

    This is so funny, and spot on. I lived there almost 20 years. Ik hou van Nederland❤️

  • @sietzevandeburgt8998
    @sietzevandeburgt89985 жыл бұрын

    Well quite a good description of our directness, but also keep on trying and you will integrate quite well !!!

  • @grumpgremlin7695
    @grumpgremlin76955 жыл бұрын

    I love to watch this as a Dutch person myself 😂 I really can relate to some things. 🇳🇱🇳🇱

  • @matthewhendricks5712
    @matthewhendricks57125 жыл бұрын

    I am moving to Bocholt Germany from Cape Town South Africa. I speak German almost fluently as well as Afrikaans. I will have to make trips to the Netherlands everyday from Germany so I am trying to familiarise myself with the culture and the language. Quite an interesting culture I must say. I am excited for the experience. hahaha. Gaan heel leuk zijn. Hope that was correctly expressed XD

  • @MentalRaptors

    @MentalRaptors

    5 жыл бұрын

    Very close, we would say "gaa*t* heel leuk zijn".

  • @liodemirror1775

    @liodemirror1775

    2 жыл бұрын

    Gaat* heel leuk zijn

  • @benw9949
    @benw99494 жыл бұрын

    I've never been to the Netherlands, but the more I see and hear, the more I like it. There are sometimes little (or big) differences in national character, courtesy, outlook, behavior, things like that. They go with what makes a language or culture its own unique thing. The two comments about learning a language to really know the people and the culture, the reasons why, I really liked that. The comment on the ad, "Fit in to stand out," illustrates how Americans want to be unique and individualistic, where Dutch people (and many others) want teamwork, fitting in. (Americans also want to fit in, but in another way.) I'm interested to learn Dutch.

  • @cold-as-ice-007zero9
    @cold-as-ice-007zero96 жыл бұрын

    i would say that the only correct thing in this video that really describes us dutch people is the directness, we say what we think and are straight to the point, but thats actually not all dutch people i would say that only goes for north holland south holland and utrecht the rest of the provinces kinda have their own way of living and diff values and upbringings, its actually quite logical:P that the people from the big cities are more direct and to the point cause they dont like to waste time, while the people from the east are more ... how u say it.. they live on a slower pace? idunno but there is deff a big diff between them and us, while the other points in this video dont really describe ''the dutch'' its more personalties of diff people and upbringings, as for us speaking english.. in my experience in most of all the big cities literly everyone speaks english and very fluently, ofcourse there are some dutch people that still speak broken kinda english, but all in all most of us speak english pretty decent i would say

  • @elvarias9730

    @elvarias9730

    6 жыл бұрын

    93270 They really don't mean it in a bad way , but sometimes the best thing to do is getting straight to the point. You don't waste time and the person you speaking too understand it too, and of course you can always say what you think about something, depends on the circumstances. The Dutch in general always mean it in a good way.

  • @kwando472

    @kwando472

    5 жыл бұрын

    Tourists only visit Amsterdam they don't know how the Dutch actually are.

  • @ellen9865
    @ellen98655 жыл бұрын

    as a dutch person, people here are really individualistic and seriously dont care about other people, we're assertive and efficient. we hate to be slowed down and all live our lives fast and alone. personally i find it better than people being slow and involved with eachother.

  • @annemariecandyflip6531

    @annemariecandyflip6531

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ellen, nu overdrijf je wel heel erg hoor, vind ik......Nederlanders doen wel alsof ze geen ene moer geven om wat een ander van ze vindt maar dat is alleen oppervlakkig. Er is geen mens ongevoelig voor de mening van anderen, al helemaal als iedereen op je let en het niet met je eens is en daarnaar handelen: dan ben je wel voorzichtiger!

  • @ellen9865

    @ellen9865

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@annemariecandyflip6531 ja lol dit was 2 jaar geleden idk wat ik allemaal zei

  • @aeroyrhwrdd4314
    @aeroyrhwrdd43146 жыл бұрын

    Yes, Tom, absolutely. And I'm from UK also and my partner is Dutch and its been very liberating and really feeling healthier for not being as reserved.

  • @andyj639
    @andyj6395 жыл бұрын

    The levels of English of Dutch people in general is very high. As a native English speaker trying to get over that and converse in Dutch is really hard especially in Amsterdam, although not so bad in the provinces. My advice if you want to learn the language would be to live in another town/city that isn't Amsterdam.

  • @LearndutchOrg
    @LearndutchOrg6 жыл бұрын

    Your suggestions please! We will record a new series of interviews... we'll ask expats in the Netherlands about their experiences with the Dutch. Which topics should we cover?

  • @agent9809

    @agent9809

    6 жыл бұрын

    Millions of immigrants in America and no formal education plus no post high school education after that, no English in 100 years ? How are going to make it? Immigrants live off the Uncle Sam dime plus charities(welfare) and food banks

  • @neroquin

    @neroquin

    6 жыл бұрын

    We will always complain about the weather. When It's cold (it won't be that cold but yeah) we want it to be hotter, when it's hot we want it to be cold again. I also hate rain, snow or anything like that.. Actually, I think I hate all sorts of weather we got here!

  • @geraldinel.2190

    @geraldinel.2190

    5 жыл бұрын

    workplace, food, money, 'the circle of death' (it wasn't mentioned in your friendship video)

  • @hellokitty524

    @hellokitty524

    5 жыл бұрын

    Racism and why there is still a colonial hangover amongst the Dutch. Folks of different color and ethnicities would be shocked about how "white" Dutch feel about them and what say behind their backs. I know since they have told me in clear words, due to their bluntness. They don't even bother to find out if what they say is offensive to anyone around them who is hearing it. They are rude, narcissitic, unempathic and unable to walk in the shoes of others, self-centered, selfish, and greedy. When I have tried to point out the error of their ways, especially regarding racism, they attack me. As people have mentioned here, they hate to be corrected. However, they need to learn that their racism is not right.

  • @aravindaravind1379

    @aravindaravind1379

    4 жыл бұрын

    You can try to cover region-wise , English proficency

  • @DONTxTALKxSHIT
    @DONTxTALKxSHIT6 жыл бұрын

    "They don't like to share a lot" --> sooooooo true! :p they don't!

  • @Fearl0ck

    @Fearl0ck

    6 жыл бұрын

    Johnno Raiselis but i do! Just not to you

  • @zb1haobin

    @zb1haobin

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I know, we're just skeer :P

  • @MrBargeres

    @MrBargeres

    6 жыл бұрын

    hell yes we dont share shit, I,HIM,HER worked for it why give it to someone else?

  • @Eric26lux

    @Eric26lux

    6 жыл бұрын

    go to the coffeeshop

  • @Wrecker3D

    @Wrecker3D

    6 жыл бұрын

    Strangers don't share, friends might share a tab after a while... If your friends don't share the tab, broaden your horizons and look for new friends (not necessarily replacements)

  • @esmeedeboer4580
    @esmeedeboer45806 жыл бұрын

    It's so fun to see how people view us :)

  • @GUITARTIME2024

    @GUITARTIME2024

    4 жыл бұрын

    I view NL as reasonably polite but kind of cold. Charm isnt really considered a plus there. I speak Dutch (but Im American) and I wish the Dutchies had been more open and fun, and not just when they drink. I think its the weather and the "everything must be rational" mentality.

  • @aerodaan
    @aerodaan5 жыл бұрын

    Try to interview Dutch people who live abroad and how they experience this compared to how things work in The Netherlands.

  • @TheLineCutter
    @TheLineCutter6 жыл бұрын

    I think that Dutch people are either really agreeable or they are/think of themselves as very assertive and dont like people waisting their time/being out of the ordinairy. It's actually pretty polarised that way. I do think we speak our minds. But I've met English people that speak their minds as well. So whether any stereotype holds up in the end ... I doubt it actually xD. Still I do think we are the nicer version of a German though. That is: we run things efficiently and try to stay ahead of the pack but we do try to be accommodating when we can.

  • @johannalange802

    @johannalange802

    6 жыл бұрын

    finsclapping interesting description even though I won't subscribe to this. I am southern german and used to live for many years in northern Germany. From my experience there is a huge divide in history, culture and social behaviour. Northern seemed germanic, distant and not very socially inclined. In the south we are more tribal and clingy, alemanic bavarian celtic. It is hard to keep your distance here. Protestant vs catholic. You see this even when you take a look on the forms of rural settlements. So you will find more likely simply more hospitable people down south while of course they also exist up north and east and west. Same goes for nederlands people. Not all of them are dutch and compare a South England bred person to a Yorkie. These stereotyes won't do any justice. Society works on a very small level.

  • @Skies133

    @Skies133

    6 жыл бұрын

    finsclapping I don't think these traits should be viewed as something negative. In fact I think there are moments that they can be celebrated! I moved to the Netherlands as an extremely insecure young lady and the Dutch culture taught me how to efficiently communicate my feelings while remaining assertive. I have a thicker skin today. Ik hou van Nederland❤

  • @TheLineCutter

    @TheLineCutter

    6 жыл бұрын

    Good on you :) Being strongminded and capable is to be celebrated no matter what. I don't think I paint assertiveness as negative in what I said. But maybe you did rightfully pick up on a hesitation to be overly celebratory, and it is because there is a flip side to having a society that is fairly deterministic. One that almost blindly follows the established trajectory or even pathologies(patterns of behavior) of a community. In the Netherlands and in business we have lots of that. Which is why you have to be articulate in your approach, especially when your ideas differ from those of the group. But we're not unique that way. And I perhaps wrongfully associate assertiveness with the tendency of some to simply follow with blind devotion, enthusiastically. But that's wrong. Being assertive is great, and it is what we do with it that is what is important and probably where my personal irritations/fascinations surface.

  • @neroquin

    @neroquin

    6 жыл бұрын

    I'm the person that hates it when people waste my time or if they are just being like.. *Really* stupid (I'm talking about the people that will make you sigh at their stupidity). Even though I'm being slow all the time!

  • @amyyychelse

    @amyyychelse

    5 жыл бұрын

    I like the ‘nicer version of a german’ 😂😂

  • @silenichathasaigh9127
    @silenichathasaigh91276 жыл бұрын

    Nice video, although I would have added far more more extreme examples. I'm Irish and speak fluent, Dutch with a noticeable, generic Flemish accent because I had spent time in Flanders. It had gotten me into all kinds of confusing situations in NL as they did not know what to make of me! My experience has been working as a substitute teacher in local secondary schools (not international schools), as I live close to the Dutch/German border. The Dutch have their merits, no doubt, but, there are many things I struggle with and just do not like about the way they do things! The more you understand their cultural nuances from within, the easier it is to deal with, however.

  • @fionafidela
    @fionafidela5 жыл бұрын

    I have had a bad experience with how direct Dutch people can be, to the extent that sometimes to me they can be totally mean. I have been friends with a Dutch man for almost a year now and one time I decided to follow his friend on Instagram and he followed me back. I thought things were okay, nothing was wrong until when my friend literally said on my face that I was just befriending him to flirt with his friend. First of all his friend and I haven't even talked, we just basically said hi. When I said ofc not you made me sad/cry and he replied that he made people cry every time. (??) But most of times I love them though, they are genuine and kind people, except that moment which is just ERGH I don't get it like it's normal thing to do here. I unfollowed his friend.

  • @lisareenen1086
    @lisareenen10865 жыл бұрын

    for the girls at 3:21 : the netherlands is a country that adjusts very quick to other cultures and languages, thats because of the trade in the middle ages. like in cities, you will not be adressed in dutch, but in english,german or sometimes even french. in germany or spain for example, maybe 1 or 2 will adress you in english

  • @Tom_pr
    @Tom_pr5 жыл бұрын

    You can be pretty direct if you do it in a respectfull way.

  • @MrOreo-oi2zh
    @MrOreo-oi2zh6 жыл бұрын

    Put everything in their agenda? More than half never even uses one lol

  • @Max-tb6fz

    @Max-tb6fz

    6 жыл бұрын

    Team Resurrection - NGME-PROXIMUM Ik doe t wel altijd. maar dat is puur omdat ik vergeetachtig ben hahaha

  • @Ozymandias1

    @Ozymandias1

    6 жыл бұрын

    I put most things in my smart phone diary. Agenda is the Dutch word for diary, agenda means something sinister in English like "they have an agenda" means that they are following a secret plot, usually politicians/the illuminati/powerful merchants.

  • @MrOreo-oi2zh

    @MrOreo-oi2zh

    6 жыл бұрын

    no shit sherlock, still doesnt change the fact almost noone actually uses one. I am dutch, in college maybe like 10% actually uses one, in business the majority doesnt use it either.

  • @Lila7495375

    @Lila7495375

    6 жыл бұрын

    Volgens mij heb je het over 12 jarigen...

  • @MrOreo-oi2zh

    @MrOreo-oi2zh

    6 жыл бұрын

    agenda gebruikers bedoel je? laatste keer dat ik iemand er een heb zien gebruiken was toen ^^

  • @bbinc.6918
    @bbinc.69186 жыл бұрын

    So nice to hear from others what they think about our country

  • @ikstijn28
    @ikstijn285 жыл бұрын

    ''It all boils down to the level of respect that people have for each other's time'' -> -> This is a very accurate definition of the social standards in the Netherlands, as i live there too. Very well said

  • @AB-kt6oy
    @AB-kt6oy4 жыл бұрын

    Dutch give you 1 biscuit when they invite you for a tea and their tea is awwwwfffuuuuul man

  • @samashinvale7368
    @samashinvale73685 жыл бұрын

    As i living here for almost 3 years, the Dutch people are amazing, Smart , Sweet, Very honest, Friendly, Have big heart, Love them work so far , like to have fun... and more more nice things they have Ik hou van Nederland

  • @SerenexFirefly
    @SerenexFirefly4 жыл бұрын

    My bf is very dutch, very direct. I brought him to Indonesia once to meet my mom. You guys can imagine how that escalated quickly.

  • @pleiadesdragon1391
    @pleiadesdragon13915 жыл бұрын

    Good luck people wish you all the best ...you're so nice about the dutch

  • @ilse7240
    @ilse72406 жыл бұрын

    As a Dutchie, I can say this is really accurate

  • @anqiwang3169
    @anqiwang31693 жыл бұрын

    I was so shocked by my boyfriend who's Dutch at the beginning of our relationship because of his directness. I'm from China and Chinese people are more likely to not to say things too directly, for me, I also sometimes like to say things in a more hidden way, then he can't be able to catch my meaning, so he got annoyed by that. Meanwhile, I got upset because of his directness as well...but gradually I'm becoming more direct than I used to be because I realized that it really saves a lot of time.

  • @annemariecandyflip6531

    @annemariecandyflip6531

    3 жыл бұрын

    Honey, speaking in mysteries never works unless someone is having and using his/her intuition....and you must learn it and train it

  • @novitaz8041
    @novitaz80415 жыл бұрын

    When I first arrived in Netherlands I falled in loved with all Marco Borsato song and sing keihard "Binnen" 😂

  • @gv1lle
    @gv1lle6 жыл бұрын

    Excellent video!

  • @ESCStroopwafel
    @ESCStroopwafel5 жыл бұрын

    One thing I didn't see in this video, we Dutch people LOVE to complain. Think about how much backlash the NS gets each day for trains being late, even if there are very clear reasons. xD

  • @moncarateez
    @moncarateez6 жыл бұрын

    It’s funny how in almost every video I’ve seen about “the Dutch”, everyone says we’re really direct and always speak our minds. I can partly agree to that, actually. But I do find the directness more in the big cities and in the Northern parts of the Netherlands. In the South we are much more laid back I guess.. But that’s my opinion lol. I’m Dutch myself and I’d rather have people say what they really think than lying to my or someone else’s face

  • @therubstar7671
    @therubstar76715 жыл бұрын

    Well im a dutch guy and i really apreciate what you guys tell. : dutch: ik ben een nederlandse jongen en ik respecteer dit heel erg wat jullie vertellen over nederland. Cheers from holland

  • @GerbenWijnja
    @GerbenWijnja5 жыл бұрын

    I'm Dutch and this video is spot on. :-) It's a bit generalizing of course, but I hope people see through that.

  • @fmagalhaes1521
    @fmagalhaes15216 жыл бұрын

    Hoi Bart: bedankt voor deze video. Ik ga voor de eerste keer in juni naar Nederland. Ik heb kaartjes voor een concert met het Nederlandse groep Golden Earring.. Groetjes

  • @eriksluter9594

    @eriksluter9594

    6 жыл бұрын

    Beste Nederlandse Rock band ooit samen met Wild Romance (Saturday night) Luister maar. :-)

  • @AnaisAzuli

    @AnaisAzuli

    6 жыл бұрын

    Tof! Veel plezier!

  • @kaasmaster8892

    @kaasmaster8892

    6 жыл бұрын

    Veel plezier

  • @eTorotradingnetwork

    @eTorotradingnetwork

    6 жыл бұрын

    Veel wijven neuken he

  • @nanzers7785

    @nanzers7785

    6 жыл бұрын

    fmagalhaes1521 U spreekt beter Nederlands als een hoop "stadsgenoten" van mij kan ik u niet ruilen tegen een buslading van hen?

  • @quenchfeline9951
    @quenchfeline99516 жыл бұрын

    Ha ha how to deal with the dutch mmm i think the dutch (the real dutch) deals with you

  • @martijnvanderlinde7002

    @martijnvanderlinde7002

    6 жыл бұрын

    Quench Feline hahaha i Saw that.. lol

  • @OsmosisHD

    @OsmosisHD

    6 жыл бұрын

    True that. -Source I am dutch

  • @adoifhitier5276

    @adoifhitier5276

    6 жыл бұрын

    Osmosis, Als je mocht kiezen tussen een lampenkap en een zeep, wat kies je dan?

  • @Patrick_The_Pure

    @Patrick_The_Pure

    6 жыл бұрын

    FFS, here i thought i was going to leave a clever comment only seeing this one :P

  • @adoifhitier5276

    @adoifhitier5276

    6 жыл бұрын

    Oke 3r5 dan wordt jij een lampenkap.

  • @scorchedearth1451
    @scorchedearth14515 жыл бұрын

    Better to be direct, than waste your time with not saying what you want. Life is precious. Spend your time well. It might end sooner than you expect.

  • @Kirstenfleur23
    @Kirstenfleur235 жыл бұрын

    I live in the Netherlands. Our country is very small but our culture really depends on what part of the netherlands we're talking about. I personally live in the mideast, where we really don't put anything in our agenda, we just memorize our days mostly. Plus, I live in a city with a lot of expats and we talk english very well. Almost every city in the mideast has a secondary school with the so-called program TTO, which is basically bilangual education. A lot of people apply for TTO. So yeah, when in a conversation about the Dutch, you should really also meantion the area. However, with most of the other aspects, I fully agree :). Nice vid btw

  • @cheburaschkabeer1712
    @cheburaschkabeer17125 жыл бұрын

    I'm a German and don't have a clue how I ended up here

  • @ikbengiso8503
    @ikbengiso85036 жыл бұрын

    Im currently living in dutch and this is my 2nd time here.I think its not so easy to build a real friendship with the dutch people.Bui think when u finally get a one friend then it will be for a lifetime friend. In the dutch society u have to bell them over in phone than docking in their door even if they just live upstair in ur house. Well every ducth knows andrea hazes even me i like "zij geloof in mij" . They really like to speak english even if u start with hoi ans they answer u back hello. They love their doggies,and they always prepare a small plastic in case their doggie pop in front of the neigbor house. During birthday dont expect like u are in other countries where u blow candles in the cake and many food in front of u,well in the dutch always expect to have apple tart and koffie with klein blocks of white sugar. In the end dutch people are nice if they dont like u they they will say nothing at all than saying bad about u.Sometimes descrimanation is part of the dutch well i think every country does. Weather here is mad sometimes rainy,windy and sunny but in the end they love their sun and everybody likes to spelbuiten or etenbuiten,sometimes like everybody does people here complain about their weather.

  • @ikkelolnl

    @ikkelolnl

    6 жыл бұрын

    Regina Thee i wonder where you are from? Or where did you go in the netherlands? i myself always get happy when i meet someone that tries to learn the culture and the language, met someone from norway and someone from australia a few weeks ago, norwegian lived here for 7 years, aussie 3 years, had an awesome time with them trying to speak dutch/english. You just need to find the correct people. Maybe by going out. it depends on where you go in our country because people aproach "people like you" diffrently everywhere. But all around its not tooo bad

  • @ikbengiso8503

    @ikbengiso8503

    6 жыл бұрын

    ikkelolNL/BangUrDead iTB ja i guess depends to people u meet here in nl.I dont know if dutch people happy meeting with other asian or black people ,dutch sometimes have two faces u know.But above all not so bad i still love holland and dats belangrijk.Amarayts? 😅

  • @ikkelolnl

    @ikkelolnl

    6 жыл бұрын

    Regina Thee lol. yeah it does depend but most people i know would be curious and helpfull. what is your native language?

  • @ikbengiso8503

    @ikbengiso8503

    5 жыл бұрын

    ikkelolNL/BangUrDead iTB filipino

  • @Kirstenfleur23
    @Kirstenfleur235 жыл бұрын

    It's so funny to hear them say that we switch to dutch very fast when talking to foreigners while we are known for always trying to talk their language when in a conversation while they actually wish we talk dutch to them, so they can learn and adjust.

  • @Bramsche12
    @Bramsche123 жыл бұрын

    ik denk dat was een goede informatie... ik ga nog nooits naar nederlands but actually ik kan iets van deze video leren

  • @ronnie9187
    @ronnie91875 жыл бұрын

    Living as a dutch for a long time abroad, I learned that when people criticize their guest land, it tells more about themselves actually as about their guest land. People tend to see their own culture als "absolute" and measure all other cultures on that. Once when you understand that it is easier to adapt and accept instead of judging. It can also be very fun to look at your own culture with a different perspective.

  • @WimvEvert

    @WimvEvert

    9 ай бұрын

    I' dutch myself, and I figured out that the meaning of the word "respect" says a lot about the culture you're from. second, being direct or not so is connected to this. they talk about you when they are in your company but they don't say it in your face, thy don't want to hurt you. for me this is mean.

  • @maeelle3364
    @maeelle33646 жыл бұрын

    Als nederlander vind ik dit echt naar om te zien.. hebben meerdere mensen dat? X

  • @ChrysanthemumLelie

    @ChrysanthemumLelie

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ja soort van

  • @MartijnWnltz

    @MartijnWnltz

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hoezo?

  • @tomislavprpic2569
    @tomislavprpic25692 жыл бұрын

    It was the same for me,from the moment I came to Netherland It felt like home,it helped a bit that I was a very passionate weed smoker and evan more passionate bike rider for 15 years

  • @remcovanwoerkom9546
    @remcovanwoerkom95465 жыл бұрын

    I was born and raised in the Netherlands and im often described as direct by my friends.. I wonder how that would play out if i lived in britain or something

  • @dream-67

    @dream-67

    3 жыл бұрын

    In the UK they would probably laugh with you or call you rude in working class areas, in middle class areas they would ignore you or change the subject..... Your name is cool btw

  • @selvmortsydd
    @selvmortsydd6 жыл бұрын

    They put everything in their agenda? I don't even have one..But if you mean, they make an appointment for everything, that's correct. I hate it when friends come to my house unannounced..

  • @ItsameAlex

    @ItsameAlex

    5 жыл бұрын

    interesting

  • @thedon8572
    @thedon85726 жыл бұрын

    2:53 "you observe and you watch" - pauses the vid at 2:53 - looks at his eyes - nough said 😂

  • @Flippokid

    @Flippokid

    6 жыл бұрын

    LOL I thought I was gonna see stoner eyes but this is even better :P

  • @holandischnotsolive3325

    @holandischnotsolive3325

    6 жыл бұрын

    How is he even observing things like that? :'D

  • @thewitchpolyglot6625
    @thewitchpolyglot66254 жыл бұрын

    Despite not being a common nationality, I love how this channel talks about the Dutch Some other channels don't do the same with Germans nor other nationalities

  • @buddhastaxi666
    @buddhastaxi6665 жыл бұрын

    been twice to Netherlands from country West Australia and like speaking to people in upfront way...its living in the now, reality and without ego

  • @TheRealTricky
    @TheRealTricky6 жыл бұрын

    Well just come into the group on a cold snowy day, when you feel like you're frozen and the icicles are hanging on your nose, and have a nice hot Dutch Pea Soup. It's at it's best when you stick a spoon it without having it falling. Yeah, that stuff is hardly liquid. Served with 'roggebrood met katenspek', and maybe also a hot chocolate with a large "mountain" of whipped cream, and it will be very "gezellig".

  • @CM-kr3rj

    @CM-kr3rj

    5 жыл бұрын

    TheRealTricky erwtensoep 👍😊

  • @yootantonystark2738
    @yootantonystark27385 жыл бұрын

    *Lol Canadians and Dutch are the two polar opposites in the kind of people. Trust me I'm Canadian and I have been to Netherlands for few weeks. I have never felt so non existent in my life :D*

  • @chrisczajasager

    @chrisczajasager

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Daniel M that sums it up: sarcasm alla nederlands

  • @san-010
    @san-0105 жыл бұрын

    Dan voel ik me een trotse Nederlander.. een nog trotser Rotterdammer de denken durven doen stad...erg leuk dat mensen van een ander land zo over ons denken..Nederland is the place 2 be gewoon❤

  • @Nicole-mr8po
    @Nicole-mr8po5 жыл бұрын

    I have a dutch friend (they're living in the US for now) and I wish I saw this video when I first met them :)

  • @23Daaann
    @23Daaann6 жыл бұрын

    So... according to this video I'm not Dutch then... where the fuck am I from?

  • @jackjackson4013

    @jackjackson4013

    6 жыл бұрын

    Maybe from Holland? lol

  • @russiane.lection-hacker2057

    @russiane.lection-hacker2057

    6 жыл бұрын

    Windmillistan?

  • @annanas1418

    @annanas1418

    6 жыл бұрын

    I have that to. Im dutch but i do not all the things they say, i do none of them

  • @jalledira
    @jalledira5 жыл бұрын

    How spontaneous the dutch people... arent🤣🤣🤣. True true true😂

  • @jonathankotterink1754
    @jonathankotterink17546 жыл бұрын

    I love this!! So much love

  • @Michael-nu9fj
    @Michael-nu9fj6 жыл бұрын

    André Hazes liedjes zingen tot 4 in de ochtend... Hahaha geweldig!! 👍👍

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