The Dark Truth About Adultery: Consequences Revealed

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Adultery and sexual immorality is a very real risk if you are a disciple seeking to make disciples. You are on the front lines and will find yourself under attack. A common area of attack is sexual purity, and, if you are married, the temptation to commit adultery. Here is a strategic way to protect yourself.
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  • @12Church
    @12Church3 жыл бұрын

    What is your strategy for protecting yourself, your ministry and your family? Whether or not a tool like this one appeals to you or not, please be sure to have some kind of plan.

  • @donnasimmons2241

    @donnasimmons2241

    Ай бұрын

    My plan is simple to never commiting adultery. Firstly...,There is nothing or no one or any pleasure worth losing my salvation for. Jesus died for my sins and paid the price for the privilege of my eternal life. Nothing on this earth is worth jeopardizing that gift. Secondly.., I would never do anything to break my husband's heart. He trusts me and I promised I would forsake ALL others till death do us part. There is no temptation worth more than eternity with Jesus and the love and respect of my husband. Life isn't that hard really. Let Jesus be your example and never break a promise to anyone you love. That includes Jesus and your spouse. Pray everyday!

  • @Countdown-ct7iv
    @Countdown-ct7iv6 ай бұрын

    Don't loose your family by committing adultery, you might loose everything, it's not worth it, follow the law of God. Don't be filled with regrets like me. Jesus is truth and the way.

  • @Countdown-ct7iv

    @Countdown-ct7iv

    6 ай бұрын

    And life.

  • @12Church

    @12Church

    6 ай бұрын

    Proverbs 5, 6, 7 and really expand on the harsh outcomes of sexual immorality.

  • @JesusChistLovesYou
    @JesusChistLovesYou9 ай бұрын

    This includes lust in the eyes and heart as Jesus said, if a man looks upon a woman with lust he has already committed adultery in his heart. So remember that looking lusting, thinking of it, PORN is destroying your wife, your family, your salvation it’s sin against your wife family God yourself. Don’t do it. It’s so painful it’s horrific and it destroys marriages. ❤

  • @angloaust1575
    @angloaust15752 ай бұрын

    Even marriage has its problems Troubles of the flesh Best to stay single and pure Become a eunuch!

  • @leonseva4980
    @leonseva49808 ай бұрын

    Do not be deceived, those who practice such things will not inherit the Kingdom of God.

  • @jacquelinedotson9970
    @jacquelinedotson99702 ай бұрын

    Sad to say my husband's adulterous affairs for over 35 years has not caused him harm but it has caused all problems in my life as well as our children. Our two sons are serving time in prison I suffered mental emotional and financial burdens So my husband's affairs caused harm to his family whereby his life goes on untouched. I love The Lord and will continue to serve Him.

  • @nina-raedelong158

    @nina-raedelong158

    Ай бұрын

    Sometimes the devil allows sinful people to live a life free of trouble, because he doesn't want them-such as your husband- turning to God. Since his life is comfortable, he doesn't see a need to leave an open jail cell. One day, it'll be too late.

  • @Mamaohhh04

    @Mamaohhh04

    Ай бұрын

    Sorry

  • @efthimios
    @efthimios2 жыл бұрын

    My wife had affair 2019 it was traumatizing we married 20 years beautful family daughter was 12 at time- a home wrecker manipulated her I forgave and loved and had a good fight 2019 and 2020, her ap got married 2021 and was very angry and abusive. By 2022 we succumbed to resent unforgiveness and anger. She never showed remorse or tried at all, I did it all, trips, gifts, love but was too hurtful. Hurting children is the most God forgive us. I lost my family because my wife cheated , and I even tried and still lost her I can’t believe it

  • @12Church

    @12Church

    2 жыл бұрын

    Very sorry to hear about this. "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit."

  • @efthimios

    @efthimios

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@12Church thank you God bless you fur your love and prayers

  • @reachhonduras8955

    @reachhonduras8955

    9 ай бұрын

    I don’t understand your post. Did your wife re-marry?

  • @nicolapetersen1633

    @nicolapetersen1633

    5 ай бұрын

    Typical of this type of people. It's never them.

  • @margekeler3112

    @margekeler3112

    2 ай бұрын

    Consider listening and reading the website and podcast of Rejoice Marriage Minstries. Not all hope is lost. God Bless.

  • @andreaguenther5207
    @andreaguenther52073 жыл бұрын

    There is no such thing as a private sin. Everything has consequences. Even the "thoughts" of sinning cause us to lose our personal and public joy. It's like shutters that start to dim the sparkle in our eyes. This sparkle is so very attractive to both believers and the lost. I know that this sparkle is a direct result of being free in Christ. No current regrets or blatant sin. I want this!!! Thank you God that you give us a "re" button that is called forgiveness. Thank you for consequences that if remembered or thought about help us to cling to you in the battle. Thank you for Godly friends or family that are able to speak into our lives and help us hold fast to what we want and know to be truth. Thank you for Daren's awareness of his need for you and others to keep "Sparkling" openly for you! Show us how to fight personally, privately and professionally sin that hurts all relationships and our ability to love and share your love...Amen.

  • @efrainbrown1

    @efrainbrown1

    9 ай бұрын

    Thoughts or desiring that which is not yours is coveting!!! Yeshua spoke about the sin of coveting it is the sin of the heart.

  • @edwindrewlo1990
    @edwindrewlo19902 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for talking about our vulnerability in this matter, Daren. Those are very powerful questions that can help a lot in resisting this awful kind of temptation.

  • @12Church

    @12Church

    2 жыл бұрын

    It's something we've got to be intentional about.

  • @edwardroberts1297
    @edwardroberts129729 күн бұрын

    That is true Jesus told me don't have sex im divorced no sex since 2014 victory in Jesus name

  • @donnaweiss3268
    @donnaweiss32682 күн бұрын

    What am I doing to protect myself is go to Jesus and pray to my Lord to Keep me from Temptations and keep me from evil and He has taken my sins away, because I believe in Lord Jesus finished work and His power in Heaven that I can do all things through Christ and that is hear His words to keep me from the wilders of the evil one and Lord Jesus has my back and keeps me from it all! I trust in His Faith to keep me safe at all times. I don't rely on other people, I rely on Lord Jesus in prayer to keep me away from those Temptations, and He has since I walked away from evil life, I was living almost 24 years ago. I love my Lord and Savior and know He is my first love and my last and soon He will be coming to rapture us up to that Manion in the sky, with my brothers and sisters and being Happily living with Lord Jesus Christ for eternity!

  • @teresat6876
    @teresat68762 ай бұрын

    I have had more issues that I do not even know where to start since my x has been in so many adulterous affairs over the years so I have suffered and my children

  • @RyanREAX
    @RyanREAX2 ай бұрын

    Adultery = divorce and remarriage too

  • @Thomas116-m2n

    @Thomas116-m2n

    2 ай бұрын

    It depends upon the situation. 1 Cor 7:15=abandonment by a nonbeliever. Matthew 19:9-Adultery by the other spouse.

  • @nina-raedelong158

    @nina-raedelong158

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@Thomas116-m2n if abandoned by an unbeliever, remarriage isn't mentioned. It just says to let the unbeliever go. Also, "sexual immorality" means fornication (read KJV), not adultery.

  • @RyanREAX

    @RyanREAX

    12 күн бұрын

    @@Thomas116-m2n no. Those only pertain to DIVORCE.. its not a license to remarry.. you're blind.

  • @achildofthelight4725
    @achildofthelight4725Ай бұрын

    How many breakups does one have before they tie the knot? Why is it so different after? I think were missing the point in trusting God somewhere!

  • @Guidance777
    @Guidance7774 ай бұрын

    Can you please pray for my husband salvation?

  • @12Church

    @12Church

    4 ай бұрын

    May his eyes be opened and may he turn from darkness to light and from the power of satan to God, may he receive forgiveness of sins and a place among those sanctified by faith in Christ Jesus. (based on Acts 26.18)

  • @jeanniemacdonald5916
    @jeanniemacdonald59163 жыл бұрын

    So good! …what is the billy graham rule?

  • @12Church

    @12Church

    3 жыл бұрын

    The nutshell is that he would avoid spending time alone with a woman other than his wife. And there was, and is, a lot of pushback against it, even from Christians.

  • @johnknop6825

    @johnknop6825

    2 жыл бұрын

    Billy Graham went even further in that he was not even alone with his daughter - as to not even give the appearance of impropriety. This rule will - for the most part - keep you safe. But even Jesus was so liberal as to drink and to be left (almost) alone with a woman. My wife and I take a different view in that we have a 1 Cor 7 definition of marriage. This being if the marriage fails then celibacy for life.

  • @deborahgloria3867
    @deborahgloria38672 ай бұрын

    Makes me cringe!! Horrible evil to DESTROY OTHERS LIVES!

  • @francesbernard2445
    @francesbernard24452 ай бұрын

    2 people each from the opposite sex who agree to marry are not committing adultery when doing so if one or both sets of parents are against that man's choice of mate. It says in the bible that is true. Time will tell if a man in that situation will be able to withstand Satan's attacks against his marriage more so than towards other marriages because he wants to keep Christian communities negave in malice divided.

  • @ksdueckforming218

    @ksdueckforming218

    5 күн бұрын

    Jesus expanded on that in Mathew 5:27-28.

  • @efthimios
    @efthimios2 жыл бұрын

    Being away from your wife a week? makes you vulnerable geez how high is your drive ? I can see months or more okay..

  • @shaneryan9040
    @shaneryan9040 Жыл бұрын

    I have a strange lump on my scrotum.what should I do Jesus?

  • @bobleglob162

    @bobleglob162

    Жыл бұрын

    The scriptures say, "If your eye offends thee, cut it out" So maybe apply that to your scrotum.

  • @shaneryan9040

    @shaneryan9040

    Жыл бұрын

    @@bobleglob162 thanks lord.from both me and my scrotum.

  • @reachhonduras8955

    @reachhonduras8955

    9 ай бұрын

    The LORD rebuke you!!

  • @shaneryan9040

    @shaneryan9040

    9 ай бұрын

    @@reachhonduras8955 is that like a referral?

  • @shanezurcher1787

    @shanezurcher1787

    6 ай бұрын

    Go to a Dr immediately! Testicular cancer survivor here...get checked out