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  • @bangladesh52
    @bangladesh52 Жыл бұрын

    আমি তোমার মতো একজন প্রবাসী ।থাকি লন্ডনে। আছি প্রায় ৪৫ বছর ধরে। যখন এসেছিলাম তখন ছিলাম তোমার মতো বয়স। আমিও তোমার মতো অনেক ভুগেছি , ঠিক একইরকম অভিজ্ঞতা আমার হয়েছে। শীত কাল মোটেও ভালো লাগতো না। ডিপ্রেসানে ভুগতাম। একটাই পরিকল্পনা ছিল এই দেশ থেকে পালাবো । সেই পালানো আর হলনা। ফেলে রাখা সেই দেশ কালের বিবর্তনে অন্য রকম হোয়ে গেছে । দেশ নয় দেশের মানুষরা। সে গল্প আর একদিন বলবো যদি শুনতে চাও । আমি সেই অভিজ্ঞতা নিয়ে লেখা লেখি আরম্ভ করে দিয়েছি।

  • @jafrinreza1084

    @jafrinreza1084

    10 ай бұрын

    Amr ooo tai minay hoi ai desh kobay jaboo r literally kanna korii monay hoi ami akta planet assi kau Amr nai ai desh 🥲🥲

  • @aliabraralhaque2939
    @aliabraralhaque2939 Жыл бұрын

    One of the best 15 minutes you have ever produced, filled up with facts and reality rather than some cheesy myths about the coolness of alien life. Kudos to you.

  • @ibrahimjubayer8373

    @ibrahimjubayer8373

    Жыл бұрын

    Well described ❤

  • @Alvee016
    @Alvee016 Жыл бұрын

    What a fantastic content!! Simply pointing to harsh reality & struggles ; also trying to solve those. You've definitely earned a subscriber in just 15 minutes! 👌

  • @saydiakhan-dr7dw
    @saydiakhan-dr7dw Жыл бұрын

    মা, তোমার ভিডিওটা আমার অনেক ভালো লাগছে। আমার অনেক দোয়া থাকলো তোমার জন্য। তুমি এভাবেই নিজের অভিজ্ঞতা আর পরামর্শগুলো শেয়ার করে মানুষের উপকার করে যাও।

  • @navarene
    @navarene Жыл бұрын

    Lived in a German speaking country for long 17 years, and then I felt like enough was enough! It was time to reshuffle my life and to regain my lost identity. Now I back to my beloved Bangladesh and live peacefully.

  • @solaimanbinakter8526
    @solaimanbinakter8526 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for putting such informative videos. You showed the most vital section/phrase of what many people skips unfortunately.

  • @_sadiqahisthinking
    @_sadiqahisthinking Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the much needed reality check❤️

  • @mamun430
    @mamun430 Жыл бұрын

    I watch your videos, and I really admire the authentic information you provide. I think this video is one of your best videos so far because it debunks many myths people have about living abroad. Some people believe their life will instantly become heaven as soon as they land in a foreign country - which is nothing but a huge lie. Life is difficult wherever you go.

  • @dianasdelish7791
    @dianasdelish77917 ай бұрын

    Thank you. ❤

  • @Dhrubo
    @Dhrubo Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video. You've made some excellent points, and I share your realization about the importance of prioritizing relationships in our lives. Having a few close friends with whom we can regularly hang out and have deep, meaningful conversations is truly a blessing. I'd also like to add that being physically active during the winter can be incredibly helpful. It's a good idea to start engaging in winter sports or activities, such as hiking, snowshoeing, skiing etc. This way, we can actually start enjoying winter and looking forward to it, rather than dreading it and wishing it would be over. Well wishes from Ottawa 🍁🇨🇦

  • @tomarahman008

    @tomarahman008

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your kind words

  • @mohammedbinmominul

    @mohammedbinmominul

    Жыл бұрын

    Tnx apu🥰🥰

  • @khalidhasan2624
    @khalidhasan2624 Жыл бұрын

    This video was truly amazing. Thanks Frozen queen!

  • @rakeenrahman3486
    @rakeenrahman3486 Жыл бұрын

    never stop making videos for us, these videos are going to help our peers or seniors that are planning to fly to Canada or are struggling to survive in Canada. This gives us the courage to take decisions. Even though you aren't directly connected to hundreds of us but these videos supports us to a great extent!

  • @absharif8146
    @absharif8146 Жыл бұрын

    You just earned a subscriber for telling truth.

  • @didarulops1273
    @didarulops1273 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks sis, you help us to look before we leap. Everything has its own pros and cons. I owe you one.

  • @tajninrahman6474
    @tajninrahman6474 Жыл бұрын

    I can connect each and every words of this video since I have been gone through this phase for a long time. It will be really helpful for those who are planning to shift in Canada. You are doing an awesome job. May Allah bless you.

  • @ahmedalmarouf6509
    @ahmedalmarouf6509 Жыл бұрын

    I am here in Canada for last 1 year and all your points are very much true. Keep making this types of informative videos.

  • @dr.r.chowdhury6539
    @dr.r.chowdhury6539 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this excellent topic. This should be a must-see video for everyone in Bangladesh who wants to study abroad or migrate to North America or to Western Europe.

  • @MotuDaaduBhai
    @MotuDaaduBhai Жыл бұрын

    Awesome video! Keep making em more!

  • @ummakulsumromana3842
    @ummakulsumromana3842 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing such kind of information.

  • @santanudas3142
    @santanudas3142 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Toma Di to share with us too important informations for the international student in abroad. ✌✌🙏🙏👍👍

  • @rajc1382
    @rajc1382 Жыл бұрын

    Great video!!!! All the very best!!!!

  • @nazmoonhafsa7237
    @nazmoonhafsa72377 ай бұрын

    just brilliant apu! Mashaallah!! Thank you for the Information.

  • @ahamedfaruk5002
    @ahamedfaruk5002 Жыл бұрын

    Simply wonderful, awesome & greatly informative

  • @rajislam3115
    @rajislam3115 Жыл бұрын

    My dear, you are the woman with golden heart.thanks a lot.......

  • @Spider_Gwen3
    @Spider_Gwen3 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much apu. This is the first time I’m watching your channel & this video helped me a lot . I also showed this video to my mom & she has learned a lot of new things too . May Allah Subhanahutaa”la bless you.

  • @valamanush
    @valamanush Жыл бұрын

    Apu apnar videos er topic gula best! Apni amar onek doubts clear korte help korsen. I thank you a lot for that. Keep making these types of detailed & informative video. It helps us a lot🖤

  • @rokiaislamrisha3779
    @rokiaislamrisha3779 Жыл бұрын

    Such a genuine & humble person you are...respect & love❤️❤️❤️

  • @jenferdous3786
    @jenferdous3786 Жыл бұрын

    The way of expressing the inner talks would be helpful for thousands. Impressive.

  • @_predebut_6733
    @_predebut_6733 Жыл бұрын

    Onek shundor kore explain korsen. Nothing i didn't know and nothing i'm not willing to go through, but loved hearing it from your perspective.

  • @bappy25
    @bappy25 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much. Helped a lot.

  • @joyeetaskitchen
    @joyeetaskitchen Жыл бұрын

    My dear, I'm watching your vlog first time and I do agree with your points. I could connect myself with your experiences and discussion. A few years back I was in london for study and have had some difficult time ever in my life. I think if people can shift abroad in their young age (rather than in middle age) they can cope up with new context and associated challenges, hardships. Usually young people are more resilient on getting the residence permit. Thanks for having such a candid discussion. Stay blessed always ❤️🤲🌹

  • @saajeeb
    @saajeeb Жыл бұрын

    Exactly Toma, thank you for sharing all the true facts. I think, if any Bangladeshi studying in a cold country, specifically girl, who is studying in self funding and completed her study is a fighter. I salute them, thanks!

  • @rezaerabbi4466
    @rezaerabbi4466 Жыл бұрын

    one of the best 15 minutes ever on youtube.

  • @ashfaqchoidhury4869
    @ashfaqchoidhury4869 Жыл бұрын

    Straight Talk. Appreciate.

  • @ahamedfaruk5002
    @ahamedfaruk5002 Жыл бұрын

    Wishing you the best to come!!!

  • @monirahmed1221
    @monirahmed1221 Жыл бұрын

    Dear Sister. Thanks for your valuable informations. I think this video most worthy & full facts & realitty.

  • @passion0812
    @passion0812 Жыл бұрын

    Friendly speaking, very helpful, advice from experienced person Thanks! Keep sharing your thoughts and experience with us..❤

  • @md.mahbuburrahman8680
    @md.mahbuburrahman8680 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much ❤ you are 100% right .

  • @amiakhan1385
    @amiakhan1385 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for speaking the facts. It was a great video. When I try to discuss these issues or risks of going abroad with my friends, they are always like " desher baire jawar por egula manush shamlaye ney "

  • @azrafsami

    @azrafsami

    Жыл бұрын

    And they're right. Adapt kore newatai manusher jibon. comfort zone theke beroy aste na parle tar jonne abroad life na.

  • @texasuncle1500
    @texasuncle1500 Жыл бұрын

    One of the best 15 minutes you have ever produced, filled up with facts and reality rather than some cheesy myths about the coolness of alien life. Kudos to you(2)

  • @lamianoorjahan3933
    @lamianoorjahan3933 Жыл бұрын

    What a quality content with great presentation 🎉💕

  • @thomasshelby2846
    @thomasshelby2846 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for kindly sharing your experiences

  • @utshosalekin3206
    @utshosalekin3206 Жыл бұрын

    Firstly i see this kind of honest review video.hats off u.ato sundor explanation. Thnx

  • @yasinmozumder5661
    @yasinmozumder5661 Жыл бұрын

    Was really searching for such kind of video ,thanks apu

  • @muhammadshovon6718
    @muhammadshovon6718 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you apo for helpful advice. It's really helpful . May ALLAH give you inner peace and good heath ,stay safe.

  • @mdrobiulislampial837
    @mdrobiulislampial837 Жыл бұрын

    This video really helped me to come to a decision about living in abroad

  • @jannat2374
    @jannat2374 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your advice

  • @mk_annan22
    @mk_annan22 Жыл бұрын

    This felt immersive. A lot of those arguments I've been saying long before I came abroad from 🇧🇩.

  • @Tomalexplore
    @Tomalexplore Жыл бұрын

    Best video ever apu❤ Thank you so much ❤️

  • @bluebell2260
    @bluebell2260 Жыл бұрын

    This is a best experiential and informative video. You tried your best to explain the true facts. I also live in abroad and I agree 100 percent and pity on Bangladeshi who things BD has more problems, Problems will be everywhere and in advance countries the problems are more advance or at different level. After you come abroad you 1st time understand that, nothing is there to show off. fear is more that fashion.

  • @mahbubulhasanlitontutorial
    @mahbubulhasanlitontutorial Жыл бұрын

    awesome.. thanks a lot

  • @HamidurRahman
    @HamidurRahman Жыл бұрын

    Good explore and advice to all, thanks sister- একাকীত্ব দূর করার জন্য আল্লাহর স্মরণ করা তাকে বেশি বেশি ডাকা উত্তম সমাধান পাশাপাশি অন্যান্য কাজ করলে lonliness দূর হয়

  • @SohanaSiddiqua
    @SohanaSiddiqua Жыл бұрын

    আপু, মাঝে মাঝে কি করি জানেন? অফিসে, কাজের ফাঁকেই, earphone দিয়ে আপনার ভিডিও চালু করে মোবাইল স্ক্রিন কে উপুর করে দিয়ে শুনি কথা গুলা। কলিগদের তো আর জানাতে পারবনা যে কাজের ফাঁকে অন্য কাজও চলছে আমার 🤣 কেন করি জানেন? ভাল লাগে, মটিভেশন পাই, কাজে মন লাগে। jazak Allahu khair. আল্লাহ আপনাকে উত্তম বদলা দিক।

  • @Aman_Visualss
    @Aman_Visualss Жыл бұрын

    I'm Not that Person Who lives in abroad, but to me everything you talk about its just so damn true, even if you are in Dhaka city far from parent's you will feel kinda same way. I'm Glad that i'm watching you for the first time. Almighty bless you

  • @Aman_Visualss

    @Aman_Visualss

    Жыл бұрын

    ছাগল একটা, কথাগুলা বুঝতে পারছেন কি বলা হইছে!!

  • @dieheartfancr07
    @dieheartfancr07 Жыл бұрын

    samuel's video make student greedy. you make us awake. presenting the myth and truth

  • @rusenmurmu8521
    @rusenmurmu8521 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your suggestions. It's great help for students

  • @diginto76
    @diginto76 Жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah toma , may Allah swt bless you.

  • @ih8537
    @ih8537 Жыл бұрын

    Some Outstanding but crucial information apu, Tons of thanks🥰!

  • @EduTech360NEWS
    @EduTech360NEWS Жыл бұрын

    Thanks a lot ❤️

  • @saifur2709
    @saifur2709 Жыл бұрын

    One of the best video as i ever seen,,,This is the actual figure of canada

  • @abdussalamtushar9741
    @abdussalamtushar9741 Жыл бұрын

    A great video indeed. Hats off apu...

  • @mohammadarshadullah42
    @mohammadarshadullah42 Жыл бұрын

    Assalmualaikum WA Rahmatullah wa Barakathu. EXCELLENT. speech.

  • @firozsharif1900
    @firozsharif1900 Жыл бұрын

    Very much effective n important video.

  • @kazimeshkatulislam5069
    @kazimeshkatulislam5069 Жыл бұрын

    So informative ❤️

  • @xobayerahammed960
    @xobayerahammed960 Жыл бұрын

    thanks for your valuable info sister. take love

  • @swift965
    @swift965 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your valuable suggestion.

  • @Brotherschannel123
    @Brotherschannel123 Жыл бұрын

    Onek sundor keep up the good work sis

  • @aimanfahim9360
    @aimanfahim9360 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the Video

  • @sugarfree7695
    @sugarfree7695 Жыл бұрын

    May be 1st time like দিলাম এবং comment না করে পারলাম না। অসাধারণ। এমন ভিডিও আরও চাই।

  • @ibrahimjubayer8373
    @ibrahimjubayer8373 Жыл бұрын

    Filled with quality information time worth spending gaining knowledge of which is actually true and important to know

  • @shonto3337
    @shonto3337 Жыл бұрын

    Thank u so much appu

  • @pickachu9222
    @pickachu9222 Жыл бұрын

    Hey TR, you were looking cute. Mashah Allah. 💕 Anyways, Don't focus on specific 1 or 2 people in terms of making priority. Try to make it at least 6. But not more than 10. The smaller circle you maintain, the bigger expectations you will have from them. Which may not go to your favor for various reasons. So that will hurt you much. And yaah. Keep in touch with your family members as much as possible. Family connection will make you feel stronger. Although BD-Canada time gap is a problem. But still ... YOU CAN DO IT !

  • @dr.monir97
    @dr.monir97 Жыл бұрын

    well said apu Hats off

  • @MasudRana-hz6xp
    @MasudRana-hz6xp Жыл бұрын

    Fantastic, dear sister ❤. May Allah bless all the time. Thanks

  • @shamsulislamchowdhury9386
    @shamsulislamchowdhury9386 Жыл бұрын

    Every points looks 👌

  • @jobowhistlin
    @jobowhistlin Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much ❤️

  • @ratulstalking3200
    @ratulstalking3200 Жыл бұрын

    best one. Reality 💖

  • @SarifulIslam-te2tm
    @SarifulIslam-te2tm Жыл бұрын

    এই সুযোগে কয়েকটা রচনাসমগ্র শেষ করা যাইতো। কিন্তু সারাবছর এমন থাকলে জেলখানা মনে হয় আদর্শ।

  • @hasanzafrul6990
    @hasanzafrul6990 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for telling the truth... ❤️🇧🇩💙

  • @55rumy
    @55rumy Жыл бұрын

    Toma..liked your vlog and immediately subscribed your channel, your vlogs are very positive and inspiring... keep going, my blessings and support are with you 💖💝

  • @pershasanjana8233
    @pershasanjana8233 Жыл бұрын

    Great video

  • @MdRuhulAmin-cp4zr
    @MdRuhulAmin-cp4zr Жыл бұрын

    Thank you apo.

  • @nusratjahanafrin1803
    @nusratjahanafrin1803 Жыл бұрын

    You are doing great apu. Many blessing for you

  • @ricettadirecette
    @ricettadirecette Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for true information.

  • @laptop21000
    @laptop21000 Жыл бұрын

    পড়ালেখা বা চাকরি করতে, যারা ঢাকায় অন্য অঞ্চল থেকে আসে।তাদের জন্য খুব এই tips গুলো খুব কাজের।ধন্যবাদ আপু

  • @tomarahman008

    @tomarahman008

    Жыл бұрын

    Ji vaia narir tan is a real biological thing. We all feel that no matter where we are.

  • @hoomanAdnan
    @hoomanAdnan Жыл бұрын

    Taito ami kokhono abroad jete chaina 😪 Bangladesh e na kheye morleo valo achi alhamdulillah❤️ atleast comfort zone e thaka tao kharap na🙌🏼

  • @ImplicitShadehindi
    @ImplicitShadehindi Жыл бұрын

    Great video of all time.

  • @mdminhazulabadin8717
    @mdminhazulabadin8717 Жыл бұрын

    so much helpful to me.

  • @ostadfiha4225
    @ostadfiha4225 Жыл бұрын

    খুবই শক্ত এবং খুবই বাস্তব কথা। এটা তাদেরই গায়ে লাগবে যারা ওই দোষ গুলো ধারন করে। এগিয়ে যান।

  • @ShahadatHossain-um4vz
    @ShahadatHossain-um4vz Жыл бұрын

    Everyone always talks of mythological knowledge about abroad but few people disclose the harsh but hidden realities but you expressed it neutrally that will eliminate all nightmarish dreams and prepare us for the tough journey!

  • @monjurulhossain5519
    @monjurulhossain5519 Жыл бұрын

    ❤️ for your lovely speeches

  • @prashantachakraborty3653
    @prashantachakraborty3653 Жыл бұрын

    sad but real truths....thanks.

  • @mhassan2592
    @mhassan2592 Жыл бұрын

    #Toma Rahman .... You are good human being along with compassion.

  • @subrinahaq
    @subrinahaq Жыл бұрын

    Kotha gulo khub valo o shundor chilo. Normally evabe kew bole na. And also gender roles gula bolay aro valo legeche. Lots of love for you ❤

  • @tasinchowdhury5007
    @tasinchowdhury5007 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much.

  • @fahimredwan
    @fahimredwan Жыл бұрын

    Love from melbourne🇦🇺🇧🇩❤

  • @dipankar3942
    @dipankar3942 Жыл бұрын

    wow.....amazing.

  • @mahdihassan5239
    @mahdihassan5239 Жыл бұрын

    So informative video, thanks for sharing apu

  • @tahseenali3116
    @tahseenali3116 Жыл бұрын

    Erokom bastobbadi Kotha Khub kom manush e Bolte pare. Thanks a lot on behalf of everyone. May ALLAH bless u.

  • @potherpacali4923
    @potherpacali4923 Жыл бұрын

    apu ami fst time apnr vdo dekhlm..but upokroto hoilm..thank you