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আমি তোমার মতো একজন প্রবাসী ।থাকি লন্ডনে। আছি প্রায় ৪৫ বছর ধরে। যখন এসেছিলাম তখন ছিলাম তোমার মতো বয়স। আমিও তোমার মতো অনেক ভুগেছি , ঠিক একইরকম অভিজ্ঞতা আমার হয়েছে। শীত কাল মোটেও ভালো লাগতো না। ডিপ্রেসানে ভুগতাম। একটাই পরিকল্পনা ছিল এই দেশ থেকে পালাবো । সেই পালানো আর হলনা। ফেলে রাখা সেই দেশ কালের বিবর্তনে অন্য রকম হোয়ে গেছে । দেশ নয় দেশের মানুষরা। সে গল্প আর একদিন বলবো যদি শুনতে চাও । আমি সেই অভিজ্ঞতা নিয়ে লেখা লেখি আরম্ভ করে দিয়েছি।
@jafrinreza1084
10 ай бұрын
Amr ooo tai minay hoi ai desh kobay jaboo r literally kanna korii monay hoi ami akta planet assi kau Amr nai ai desh 🥲🥲
One of the best 15 minutes you have ever produced, filled up with facts and reality rather than some cheesy myths about the coolness of alien life. Kudos to you.
@ibrahimjubayer8373
Жыл бұрын
Well described ❤
What a fantastic content!! Simply pointing to harsh reality & struggles ; also trying to solve those. You've definitely earned a subscriber in just 15 minutes! 👌
মা, তোমার ভিডিওটা আমার অনেক ভালো লাগছে। আমার অনেক দোয়া থাকলো তোমার জন্য। তুমি এভাবেই নিজের অভিজ্ঞতা আর পরামর্শগুলো শেয়ার করে মানুষের উপকার করে যাও।
Lived in a German speaking country for long 17 years, and then I felt like enough was enough! It was time to reshuffle my life and to regain my lost identity. Now I back to my beloved Bangladesh and live peacefully.
Thank you so much for putting such informative videos. You showed the most vital section/phrase of what many people skips unfortunately.
Thank you for the much needed reality check❤️
I watch your videos, and I really admire the authentic information you provide. I think this video is one of your best videos so far because it debunks many myths people have about living abroad. Some people believe their life will instantly become heaven as soon as they land in a foreign country - which is nothing but a huge lie. Life is difficult wherever you go.
Thank you. ❤
Thank you for this video. You've made some excellent points, and I share your realization about the importance of prioritizing relationships in our lives. Having a few close friends with whom we can regularly hang out and have deep, meaningful conversations is truly a blessing. I'd also like to add that being physically active during the winter can be incredibly helpful. It's a good idea to start engaging in winter sports or activities, such as hiking, snowshoeing, skiing etc. This way, we can actually start enjoying winter and looking forward to it, rather than dreading it and wishing it would be over. Well wishes from Ottawa 🍁🇨🇦
@tomarahman008
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your kind words
@mohammedbinmominul
Жыл бұрын
Tnx apu🥰🥰
This video was truly amazing. Thanks Frozen queen!
never stop making videos for us, these videos are going to help our peers or seniors that are planning to fly to Canada or are struggling to survive in Canada. This gives us the courage to take decisions. Even though you aren't directly connected to hundreds of us but these videos supports us to a great extent!
You just earned a subscriber for telling truth.
Thanks sis, you help us to look before we leap. Everything has its own pros and cons. I owe you one.
I can connect each and every words of this video since I have been gone through this phase for a long time. It will be really helpful for those who are planning to shift in Canada. You are doing an awesome job. May Allah bless you.
I am here in Canada for last 1 year and all your points are very much true. Keep making this types of informative videos.
Thank you for this excellent topic. This should be a must-see video for everyone in Bangladesh who wants to study abroad or migrate to North America or to Western Europe.
Awesome video! Keep making em more!
Thank you so much for sharing such kind of information.
Thank you so much Toma Di to share with us too important informations for the international student in abroad. ✌✌🙏🙏👍👍
Great video!!!! All the very best!!!!
just brilliant apu! Mashaallah!! Thank you for the Information.
Simply wonderful, awesome & greatly informative
My dear, you are the woman with golden heart.thanks a lot.......
Thank you so much apu. This is the first time I’m watching your channel & this video helped me a lot . I also showed this video to my mom & she has learned a lot of new things too . May Allah Subhanahutaa”la bless you.
Apu apnar videos er topic gula best! Apni amar onek doubts clear korte help korsen. I thank you a lot for that. Keep making these types of detailed & informative video. It helps us a lot🖤
Such a genuine & humble person you are...respect & love❤️❤️❤️
The way of expressing the inner talks would be helpful for thousands. Impressive.
Onek shundor kore explain korsen. Nothing i didn't know and nothing i'm not willing to go through, but loved hearing it from your perspective.
Thank you very much. Helped a lot.
My dear, I'm watching your vlog first time and I do agree with your points. I could connect myself with your experiences and discussion. A few years back I was in london for study and have had some difficult time ever in my life. I think if people can shift abroad in their young age (rather than in middle age) they can cope up with new context and associated challenges, hardships. Usually young people are more resilient on getting the residence permit. Thanks for having such a candid discussion. Stay blessed always ❤️🤲🌹
Exactly Toma, thank you for sharing all the true facts. I think, if any Bangladeshi studying in a cold country, specifically girl, who is studying in self funding and completed her study is a fighter. I salute them, thanks!
one of the best 15 minutes ever on youtube.
Straight Talk. Appreciate.
Wishing you the best to come!!!
Dear Sister. Thanks for your valuable informations. I think this video most worthy & full facts & realitty.
Friendly speaking, very helpful, advice from experienced person Thanks! Keep sharing your thoughts and experience with us..❤
Thank you so much ❤ you are 100% right .
Thank you so much for speaking the facts. It was a great video. When I try to discuss these issues or risks of going abroad with my friends, they are always like " desher baire jawar por egula manush shamlaye ney "
@azrafsami
Жыл бұрын
And they're right. Adapt kore newatai manusher jibon. comfort zone theke beroy aste na parle tar jonne abroad life na.
One of the best 15 minutes you have ever produced, filled up with facts and reality rather than some cheesy myths about the coolness of alien life. Kudos to you(2)
What a quality content with great presentation 🎉💕
Thanks for kindly sharing your experiences
Firstly i see this kind of honest review video.hats off u.ato sundor explanation. Thnx
Was really searching for such kind of video ,thanks apu
Thank you apo for helpful advice. It's really helpful . May ALLAH give you inner peace and good heath ,stay safe.
This video really helped me to come to a decision about living in abroad
Thanks for your advice
This felt immersive. A lot of those arguments I've been saying long before I came abroad from 🇧🇩.
Best video ever apu❤ Thank you so much ❤️
This is a best experiential and informative video. You tried your best to explain the true facts. I also live in abroad and I agree 100 percent and pity on Bangladeshi who things BD has more problems, Problems will be everywhere and in advance countries the problems are more advance or at different level. After you come abroad you 1st time understand that, nothing is there to show off. fear is more that fashion.
awesome.. thanks a lot
Good explore and advice to all, thanks sister- একাকীত্ব দূর করার জন্য আল্লাহর স্মরণ করা তাকে বেশি বেশি ডাকা উত্তম সমাধান পাশাপাশি অন্যান্য কাজ করলে lonliness দূর হয়
আপু, মাঝে মাঝে কি করি জানেন? অফিসে, কাজের ফাঁকেই, earphone দিয়ে আপনার ভিডিও চালু করে মোবাইল স্ক্রিন কে উপুর করে দিয়ে শুনি কথা গুলা। কলিগদের তো আর জানাতে পারবনা যে কাজের ফাঁকে অন্য কাজও চলছে আমার 🤣 কেন করি জানেন? ভাল লাগে, মটিভেশন পাই, কাজে মন লাগে। jazak Allahu khair. আল্লাহ আপনাকে উত্তম বদলা দিক।
I'm Not that Person Who lives in abroad, but to me everything you talk about its just so damn true, even if you are in Dhaka city far from parent's you will feel kinda same way. I'm Glad that i'm watching you for the first time. Almighty bless you
@Aman_Visualss
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ছাগল একটা, কথাগুলা বুঝতে পারছেন কি বলা হইছে!!
samuel's video make student greedy. you make us awake. presenting the myth and truth
Thanks for your suggestions. It's great help for students
MashaAllah toma , may Allah swt bless you.
Some Outstanding but crucial information apu, Tons of thanks🥰!
Thanks a lot ❤️
One of the best video as i ever seen,,,This is the actual figure of canada
A great video indeed. Hats off apu...
Assalmualaikum WA Rahmatullah wa Barakathu. EXCELLENT. speech.
Very much effective n important video.
So informative ❤️
thanks for your valuable info sister. take love
Thanks for your valuable suggestion.
Onek sundor keep up the good work sis
Thanks for the Video
May be 1st time like দিলাম এবং comment না করে পারলাম না। অসাধারণ। এমন ভিডিও আরও চাই।
Filled with quality information time worth spending gaining knowledge of which is actually true and important to know
Thank u so much appu
Hey TR, you were looking cute. Mashah Allah. 💕 Anyways, Don't focus on specific 1 or 2 people in terms of making priority. Try to make it at least 6. But not more than 10. The smaller circle you maintain, the bigger expectations you will have from them. Which may not go to your favor for various reasons. So that will hurt you much. And yaah. Keep in touch with your family members as much as possible. Family connection will make you feel stronger. Although BD-Canada time gap is a problem. But still ... YOU CAN DO IT !
well said apu Hats off
Fantastic, dear sister ❤. May Allah bless all the time. Thanks
Every points looks 👌
Thank you so much ❤️
best one. Reality 💖
এই সুযোগে কয়েকটা রচনাসমগ্র শেষ করা যাইতো। কিন্তু সারাবছর এমন থাকলে জেলখানা মনে হয় আদর্শ।
Thanks for telling the truth... ❤️🇧🇩💙
Toma..liked your vlog and immediately subscribed your channel, your vlogs are very positive and inspiring... keep going, my blessings and support are with you 💖💝
Great video
Thank you apo.
You are doing great apu. Many blessing for you
Thanks for true information.
পড়ালেখা বা চাকরি করতে, যারা ঢাকায় অন্য অঞ্চল থেকে আসে।তাদের জন্য খুব এই tips গুলো খুব কাজের।ধন্যবাদ আপু
@tomarahman008
Жыл бұрын
Ji vaia narir tan is a real biological thing. We all feel that no matter where we are.
Taito ami kokhono abroad jete chaina 😪 Bangladesh e na kheye morleo valo achi alhamdulillah❤️ atleast comfort zone e thaka tao kharap na🙌🏼
Great video of all time.
so much helpful to me.
খুবই শক্ত এবং খুবই বাস্তব কথা। এটা তাদেরই গায়ে লাগবে যারা ওই দোষ গুলো ধারন করে। এগিয়ে যান।
Everyone always talks of mythological knowledge about abroad but few people disclose the harsh but hidden realities but you expressed it neutrally that will eliminate all nightmarish dreams and prepare us for the tough journey!
❤️ for your lovely speeches
sad but real truths....thanks.
#Toma Rahman .... You are good human being along with compassion.
Kotha gulo khub valo o shundor chilo. Normally evabe kew bole na. And also gender roles gula bolay aro valo legeche. Lots of love for you ❤
Thank you so much.
Love from melbourne🇦🇺🇧🇩❤
wow.....amazing.
So informative video, thanks for sharing apu
Erokom bastobbadi Kotha Khub kom manush e Bolte pare. Thanks a lot on behalf of everyone. May ALLAH bless u.
apu ami fst time apnr vdo dekhlm..but upokroto hoilm..thank you