I’m gonna break the “overweight, depressed, poor, bad parenting” chain :)

@strangerthingsfan6049

2 жыл бұрын

So ur going to be skinny, happy, rich, goddess parent good for you

@pi_da_ras17

2 жыл бұрын

@@strangerthingsfan6049 I think this person meant they're gonna not have any children.

@strangerthingsfan6049

2 жыл бұрын

@@pi_da_ras17 oh possibly

@Maria-up2yv

2 жыл бұрын

You sound like a spoiled brat

@greens253

2 жыл бұрын

Same here

I’m from India and I’m breaking the “rough talk” “harsh love” and “you should only study hard” for my kids.. so I’m being rejected by the uncles and aunts of my family but my husband is supportive so we moving forward 😋❤️

@thevespertineoracle

2 жыл бұрын

Proud of you ❤️❤️❤️

@izzy-ky9yz

Жыл бұрын

south asian sister here! i’m so so proud of you for being strong & taking a stand. and i’m proud of your husband for rejecting patriarchal standards & beliefs & supporting you. i wish you both endless success, happiness, contentment & love in every way♥️✨

@EvaHolly.L

Жыл бұрын

yasssss my queeeeeeennnnn 🤩

@KatSuki_Wuki

Жыл бұрын

❤️

@Alex23_bubbles

Жыл бұрын

I am from India to!

My mom broke her "bad and toxic parenting" chain in our family and I'm proud of her

@rainbowpuppet77

Жыл бұрын

how did she break it if she had you???

@luanunes14

Жыл бұрын

@@rainbowpuppet77 By not being a toxic parent. She raised me without being harsh and ignoring me in favour of other things, she also taught me that I should do what makes me happy, not what my relatives expect from me

@N0b0dy1mp0rtant

Жыл бұрын

Same!! My dad broke his to

@danielamorales8570

Жыл бұрын

​@@rainbowpuppet77 breaking a cycle is being different and changing not not having kids

@rainbowpuppet77

Жыл бұрын

@@danielamorales8570 yeah but that solution is very rare so most of the time to break the cycle people just dont have children

I’m gonna end the “I beat the discipline into my child and emotionally abuse and manipulate them” cycle

@tokyoMHAkc6js

5 ай бұрын

me too

I'm gonna end the "getting pregnant and marrying at a young age" generation😆

@uryuniverse

2 жыл бұрын

Me too! My mother had me at 17, and when I was that age I was so scared because I thought i'll end up like her. But i'm 20 now and still single so I think i'm safe.. for now.

@karubaki_nag_6239

2 жыл бұрын

@@uryuniverse , yeah, same. I'm at the age when my mum had me. While she handled an infant, her studies , in-laws and household chores, my greatest concern at this age is the transition from online back to offline classes. We both still laugh about it. 😁

@thevespertineoracle

2 жыл бұрын

@@karubaki_nag_6239 okay but that transition is traumatic 😭

@Daeneiracorn

2 жыл бұрын

I plan on having a kid at 30. Its reasonable and i'm not "wasting" my 20s

@SantasFavoriteReindeer

2 жыл бұрын

I'm 18 and my dad's mom asked me when I'm gonna have kids 🤦🏻‍♀️

i'm breaking the "going into the military is a must" and the "therapy makes you weak" and don't forget the "you'll want children when you're older" chain. if i ever do want kids, i'll have them and you will NEVER catch me dead telling them "you'll want kids eventually" if they have specifically told me "i don't want kids"

@stellaaj5474

2 жыл бұрын

I believe at some point in your life you need someone around and a close person

@punyashloka4946

2 жыл бұрын

@@stellaaj5474 actually traumatized people specially the one who suffers from trans generational trauma likes to live alone and in isolation harsh but true.

@Kitkathere

2 жыл бұрын

Gosh I hate the "You'll have kids eventually" thing. Like, I've proven I would never be a good mother, and I don't handle pain or discomfort well at all, so getting pregnant is out the window, so stop bugging me about it XD

@ritub4425

2 жыл бұрын

I wish my mom was anywhere near as open minded and supporting as you.

@stellaaj5474

2 жыл бұрын

@@punyashloka4946 hmmmmm i love to live alone but not now

I'm so glad there are others who can see the problems I do, my mom constantly preached about breaking the cycle yet being a part of it. I plan to really break the cycle like she says, I was raised spiteful. To the cyclebreakers, I wish you luck ❤️

@christeltaljaard1329

11 ай бұрын

Thank you. Good luck to you fellow cyclebreakers

Everyone in every generation likes to say they're "breaking the cycle" but 99% of the time, they end up either acting just like their parents, going the opposite extreme and traumatizing their kids another way, or being only slightly less toxic but still mostly the same. If more people were self-aware and put ourselves in our kids' shoes, then that leftover 1% can grow bigger. All we can do is hope this will be the case.

@Fedya_Svetlaya

11 ай бұрын

Да.. все так считают Моя мама всегда говорила, что она не будет такой, как бабушка, получилось плохо И вот сейчас у меня дочь, вроде все нормально должно быть, психология, 21 век и тд И я впадаю в истерику, когда слышу от себя даже интонацию похожую на ее Очень сложно, ведь как по-другому нас никто не учил, а большую часть жизни мы видели именно такой пример И именно эти люди нас учили говорить и действовать Грустно

I'm gonna end the "depression is just a phase", "verbal and physical abuse is the way to teach a child", "struggling in a 9-5 job is the goal" and "a woman's life is can only have fulfillment by marriage" in my family... I'm gonna do everything thing I can to shock them by doing way better than they could ever

The grandma getting hit with the book- 😭

@cinnamonroll906

2 жыл бұрын

r.i.p 💀

@thecutefacedbookw9wgxcq535

2 жыл бұрын

I see her mom is asian

@jellycookie685

2 жыл бұрын

IKR- 😭

@dumdum6829

2 жыл бұрын

lmao💀

@yarielyzsierra6123

2 жыл бұрын

✋💀✨

im breaking the chain of parents not understanding their children and thinking its disrespectful for their child to be depressed

@Bacon_XDiop

Жыл бұрын

You will think the same if you are A parent.

@marytheautistic

Жыл бұрын

​@@Bacon_XDiop maybe not, people can make things differently, so they problably won't do the same thing

@Bacon_XDiop

Жыл бұрын

@@marytheautistic ok so you become a parent and Saw Your Kids Favouriting low afford AI song

@Bacon_XDiop

Жыл бұрын

@@marytheautistic ok so you become a parent and Saw Your Kids Favouriting low afford AI song

The cycle in my family is pretty clear: The firstborn gets used, abused emotionally, and kicked out of the house at 18. It happened to me, my father, and my grandfather. One by one. I am raising my child in a household devoid of violence and with mutual respect. I am breaking the cycle. Therapy was a must for my father and for myself. The reverse cycle is working. I started therapy first and reconnected with my father who then started therapy to cope with being unable to reconnect with his father. We are healing our family.

@skyblue_jayyy

10 ай бұрын

That’s amazing to hear 😊

I felt so bad for the grandma getting hit by the book, no one deserves that. I know it’s fake but it happens in real life too 😩

@asifmetal666

2 жыл бұрын

Grandma getting hit by the book! We r beat by the freaking belts in our ass!! WTF is wrong with u people. Parents didn’t schooled u n didn beat u generation produced more fucked up soy boy ever

@thatthatilikethatbabe4398

2 жыл бұрын

Yes poor woman

@Yurovishna

Жыл бұрын

Oh dear.

@elizebeths.8880

Жыл бұрын

True, no one deserves to have religious Bible propaganda beaten into them!

@saturn6563

Жыл бұрын

@@elizebeths.8880 If the video and comment were more the popular, the Christians would’ve come storming at you 💀

I'm the cycle breaker of "running away with boyfriend, marrying and getting pregnant at young age, don't study" generation in our family

@corylee88

Жыл бұрын

That was my mother and I broke the cycle of being the first gay one in our lineage 🤣

@alexandermuller950

9 ай бұрын

​@@corylee88me too lol

i'm breaking the "mental health makes you weak," and the "asian beauty standards" chain.

@S0M4IY4

Жыл бұрын

Same

Omw to break the “I invalidate your feelings bc your a child and I dismiss your trauma as you being dramatic” cycle

@dekippiesip

Жыл бұрын

In some cases, that is because the parents legitimately had worse experiences during their childhood and feel their children should overcome their relatively mild struggles.

@Lunna_612

2 ай бұрын

Isso realmente me atingiu,me faz lembrar da minha infância.

I hope to break the cycle by being either a good parent or a good aunt to my nieces and nephews. Not to say all the parental figures in my family are bad, but we all went through shit.

@thisisaverylongusername

2 жыл бұрын

You could be both right??

@kimberlyakin8908

2 жыл бұрын

It is so Hard. My Mother was abused. it was said that in her family they only Liked Boys. she was treated Like crap. then she married and Had 5 Kids. But her Husband went NUTS really He was diagnosed with Schizophrenia. she she Had to divorce Him then Married My dad who got her pregnant 4 More times. { Youngest of nine} But I was the Last Nail In the coffin. she didn't like Me and didn't want me. thus she a overworked Poor woman trying to feed clothe and House 9 kids she didn't give a fig about me. So I was Hit kick pushed around and generally treated Like a House elf by My siblings I tried to Be a Better Mom and a better wife. One child thinks I did great and thinks the One who is a jerk was Just a a Hole and spoiled. But did my Lack of parenting to me did Not give me the skills I needed to Be a Better Mom to Him? probably But I still take the blame for his ........ anger and pain But his actions are His own

@hannahdoesacting5820

Жыл бұрын

My mom wasn’t treated badly but her dad had to go the hospital when she was ten because he got Alzheimer’s and she never saw him again then 4 years later he died. My grandmother on my moms side was from England and lived there during the war so her house got bombed and she was forced to move away from her parents later she had very serious PTSD. My grandfather on my moms side (yes the same one that got Alzheimer’s) lost his entire family (even his 1 year old brother) during the war and he was forced to join the army luckily he survived but as I said earlier in my comment he did die of Alzheimer’s and last but not least my moms oldest brother died at 2 months old so my family went through a lot (namely grief and suffrage) just not abuse or narcissism.

To my fellow cycle breakers , have a good day

@Houskeepeen

Жыл бұрын

Why tho what’s the objective

@honey_167

Жыл бұрын

Thank you ❣️

@Mystery_minder

5 ай бұрын

I am breaking the "I'm out of country to earn money for you", "learn chores", "get married+have kids" and "strict parents" chain by not having kids at all. Living a life with a roommate, earning your own money and having a stress free life with no negativity.

@ajlack

5 ай бұрын

@@Houskeepeen to not abuse ur kids? LMFAO

I saw this on another one of these so im gonna leave it here “You cant end the cycle” “Then I’ll end the bloodline”

I’m Nigerian and I’m breaking the “I DONT CARE IF U CRY I WILL BEAT U -O”AND IM BREAKING THe.*laughing when ur child cries and mocking them” IT SO HARSH TO LIVE IN MY HOUSE

I'm also breaking the cycle of narcissism from my mother, it ends here. I'm happy you made a video about this, thank you and I hope you are healing from a parent like that.

@thevespertineoracle

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤️ I’m glad the video found you. You’re the exact audience I made this for ❤️❤️❤️

i'm gonna end the "eating nothing for the perfect body" generation. If i ever have a child i will not control what they eat or how they eat. as long as they stay healthy❤️

@thevespertineoracle

2 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

@lamar_xoxo6855

Жыл бұрын

Yas!

@stoopyrosekrewfan

Жыл бұрын

YESSS SLAY 😁

I'm breaking the "Family always supports you so you should also be like them and continue" chain Edit 1:- Thankyou for the 101 likes. And I wish that who ever is going through some difficulty. I hope you get more strength to face your struggles and I wish you a beautiful future. Love y'all

“Recife, Brazil” omg, I’m so happy, my city 💗

@wallsonrodrigo7669

Жыл бұрын

Também

@hannahpinkkda7671

7 ай бұрын

Meu país ksksksk

I’m breaking “marrying a husband” generation

@IvyTheAmazingSerene

Жыл бұрын

Samee

@winter5444

Жыл бұрын

Same here dude

@may4short

Жыл бұрын

Nahh not for me 😭

@thefriendlyleaf

Жыл бұрын

Samee my sister will finally do something important in our family (I ain’t marrying a man she is)

@sushmitabanerjee82

Жыл бұрын

Same here lol

This is the first of these I've related to. And a part of my laughs about the Brazil and Boston because that's part of my story. Great job.

To breaking the generational truama ✊

Ima break the “Body shaming, Drinking, Bad parenting, and Abuse” chain! 😊❤

"breaking the cycle" yes, at last!

@powdery.Monica

2 жыл бұрын

What she's waving in her hand at last??

For people who are confused about the lyrics: it's "The mother has a daughter who gets married to the brother of *a* mother" means there are two mothers. It is about how a rich family keeps multiplying their wealth by marrying other rich families and keeping their money within their family. It's NOT about incest. Song name: Thumbs by Sabrina Carpenter

@elizebeths.8880

2 жыл бұрын

I didn't know that needed to be clarified...? Some people don't get it? That's kinda wild.

@pancakesxoxo1064

2 жыл бұрын

@@elizebeths.8880 frr but you don't know how many people were going around saying stuff like "she marries her uncle"- 😭

@elizebeths.8880

2 жыл бұрын

@@pancakesxoxo1064 Yeah, saw it afterwards.... Decided not to comment on those chains...

@pancakesxoxo1064

Жыл бұрын

@@stitch4065 haha it's okk. Btw your pfp is so cutee!!

@sanjanameena771

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the song name

I’m breaking the “go to the military” “domestic violence and psychological abuse” and “get married+have kids” generational chain. I’ve spent most of my life trying to please others so I won’t wind up hurt, but more pent up anger has lead me to say enough is enough. I want to pursue my own goals and ambitions and will fight for the life I choose to live

My parents broke the toxic chain they had suffered before and i am so thankful to them for breaking the gender norms and raising me a lot more better than how a daughter used to be. Specially the third ones

Well, it’s gonna be my turn to break it too. My parents broke the “having kids at a young age” cycle but it’s my turn to end the trauma cycle.

@Sophie052010

2 жыл бұрын

Yea

@pupperssong4778

2 жыл бұрын

Same for me

Cycle breaker of alcoholic mom's who abandon their children. I don't drink anymore and my daughter is 7 and I'm still here 😊. She has a little brother now too.

I'm gonna end the stereotypes of the world and start the women's rights as they can do what they want and shouldn't be controlled by their parents especially by their mothers!! -from a Indian girl with a single mom

"Recife,Brazil" thanks!!

@amelieblanche920

Жыл бұрын

Why?

@lucysantos4571

Жыл бұрын

​@@amelieblanche920 É uma cidade do Nordeste brasileiro

My mother broke the chain. I'm happy I didn't grow up the way she did. She still has issues but not as bad as my grandmother and her mom. I am so grateful.

@AJazzzy

Жыл бұрын

@TheasGfx My great grandma was verbally abusive to my grandma, my grandma was verbally abusive and gas-lighted my mom, my mom had my sister and I and decided she wouldn't raise us like that. That's how she broke the cycle.

@ziqrek2314

Жыл бұрын

​@TheasGfx breaking the cycle doesn't mean not having kids. It's means not passing the trauma down to your kids. Yeah some decide to just straight out not have them, but you can also heal yourself and be a healthy good parent.

Omg my mom is literally from Recife Brazil! 🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷

Damn the 18s and the 19s were so strict 😰

I love this as it brings out all the struggles through the cycles of pain, thank you for bringing this out, we appreciate you 💗

@W1ll0W_W4S_H3R3

2 жыл бұрын

This runs down my family TOO MUCH- And I'M thr next generation! I think-

@handycandy6969

2 жыл бұрын

@@W1ll0W_W4S_H3R3 mhm!

I love how you added the years and places!! It’s amazing but the timing is a bit off, besides that it’s amazing!

I saw someone write "oh, I'm just on my last reincarnation. I don't need to leave anything behind" and I'm all for it! ❤️

Grew up in the classic narcassistic family dynamic and i was the scapegoat. As a result, i developed general anxiety, eating disorders, ocd, and also had adhd. I have managed these and successfully treated some on my own after years of dealing with them. Now im living up to my potential and out of my childhood house, a whole state away. Im building a happy future for myself. Recovery is possible!!!

I'm gonna end the "Anxiety issues that result in sh1tty relationships and abuse" cycle 😅 (Mom denied the fact that she had anxiety and wouldn't take meds for it til earlier this year, resulting in her abusing my dad and me verbally for several years- now she's on medication and life is so much better)

Breaking generational curses of suicide, porn addiction, Law dominated religious spirits, etc. I’m interested to see more people talking about generational curses. My aunt told me about them when I was a child from a Born again spirit filled Christ believing perspective, so to see generational trauma get talked about is awesome!

Oh shit. That's too close to home for me 😂

Im gonna break the unfairness, favorotisim, doesnt believe anything the child sais, and hit when angry cycle. Wish me luck!

My mom was born when my grandma was 16, i was born when my mom was 20. I'm 15, and we're doing just fine. You can break the cycle whilst still having kids, I would know. We've broken 2, i would say mainly of abuse, and seeing the rest of my family, I'm learning that I don't want to end up like that, i haven't gotten into any fights, and i don't plan on dropping out anytime soon. I plan to go to college and be an ER nurse, and I've learned from them, don't do drugs and don't drink kids!

My mum was the one who broke the cycle, she is so strong (my grandmother was mentally abusive). I just hope to carry on her legacy. ❤️

I’m breaking the ‘ get perfect grades and push yourself past the brink and be great at everything and don’t ever be not perfect’ cycle, getting an average doesn’t mean I spend hours fixing it

as someone from Brazil, glad that you include it in the video

Breaking the cycle of traumatising your children as a form of punishment

I am gonna break the generational trauma and narcissism.

my momma broke the "having 5-11+ kids" chain while i broke the "behaving like an actual girl" chain.

Sometimes you're the one your bloodline was waiting for....and if you're lucky enough to do what your mother couldn't, you could give her what no one gave her, you can give her what you just gave yourself. Won't change the memories, won't heal everything, and it certainly doesn't mean you're required to remain in a toxic persons life either.

I'm breaking the chain of abuse, body shaming, tough love, trauma ❤️

I have nothing to break and I should be grateful. Good luck to the cycle breakers I'm hoping for the best outcome and to push through the cycle! I am going to be the only LGBTQ(aroace) girl in my catholic family and I am the second one who (hopefully) gets a Ph.D. and becomes successful!😊❤

This lady deserves an Oscar

@XimenaAtilano

10 ай бұрын

Yes 👍🏻😅

"I'm breaking the shaming, insulting, depressed, bad parenting, bodyshaming, forceful, Homophobic, and embarrassed to be around you, full of Anxiety and dress to what your gender is and never having hope" chain :)

@thevespertineoracle

Жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️❤️

@celestialkoala3164

Жыл бұрын

That's amazing! 💓

You kind of messed up the mother to daughter transition

@Shtickyaight

2 жыл бұрын

I mean it must be kinda hard to do

@thevespertineoracle

2 жыл бұрын

Did I mess it up? Or did I just get too stressed by looking at myself dressed as my own mother to care about anything anymore? I’ll let you be the judge 😂

@elleriam-19273

2 жыл бұрын

@@thevespertineoracle yep

@bloodreina1828

2 жыл бұрын

@@thevespertineoracle well it has nothing to do wid the editing..

@dontreadmyprofilepicture2635

2 жыл бұрын

This girl tried hard

I always told my friend, Its only make sense all the depression anxiety and other mental illness. You alone fighting for a whole centuries of generation. You doing great by trying, may we will be able to give newer generation a better cycle.

I am gonna break the "marry a man" chain in our family!!!

Me being the cycle breaker ending up communicating healthily and not speaking manipulation or narcissistically and my whole family getting mad at me because I'm on a different level and they never expected me to stand up for myself 😅I'm a different breed 😂

@thevespertineoracle

2 жыл бұрын

Relatable goddess

Pov: This is 5th time you are seeing this kind of trend but u still like the song

@theyadore.neecee

2 жыл бұрын

It dobe like that sometimes

@theyadore.neecee

2 жыл бұрын

Indeed

@user-en3ty4sc8h

2 жыл бұрын

do you know whats the song? I kinda like it

@Visteira

2 жыл бұрын

What is the song?! Lol

@yuh2102

2 жыл бұрын

@@Visteira thumbs by Sabrina carpenter

Generational trauma SUCKS!!! My whole family has problems because of a horrible thing my grandfather did. My sister and I are planning to not have kids and I hope my brother does the same so we can break it

@The_GenderLiquifier

Жыл бұрын

Good for you, I am sorry what your grandfather did though. Good luck with life🫶

I’m breaking the cycle of “ not monetising purpose and passion & speaking the truth “ ❤

The cat is so cute I’m dying

This was actually a great representation of the stories I heard about my family in the past.. I'm just here to break the cycle

I am the only one in my family who broke * "toxic and bad parenting"* chain in my family and i am very proud of it ☺

My mom broke the “rude strict forcing” chain i lover her so much and im so grateful that she did that❤

I feel that I am in this circle too, as my duty Is to break It, starting from myself.

Gonna be breaking the cycle of generational parental abuse/trauma when I have kids. My kids will know that they are valid, respected and loved

@thevespertineoracle

Жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️❤️

My mom has ended the messed up cycle going on but I'm glad to say she's even more proud of me. Because I don't and will never have kids. I'm ending this blood line with me.

My mother broke the chain by educating us and i will be the one to break the chain of abusive parenting. So we are all breaking the chain and making life a little easier for our next generation

I get kinda sad when "breaking the cycle" is always not having a child, you can break it being a good parent too, I've seen a lot of those videos and none of them has this version.

@kittylol2241

2 жыл бұрын

You know not everyone what's to have kids

@kokokolala

2 жыл бұрын

I don't know why but, some of people have traumatize for a not good parenting. So, they will be childfree instead of being a parent to spend their whole life.

@frogee5790

2 жыл бұрын

I simply don't want kids and technically that is ending the cycle

@frogee5790

2 жыл бұрын

@@kokokolala it's because they're afriad of becoming their parents

@kokokolala

2 жыл бұрын

@@frogee5790 yes, i see this in real life. And disney put this toxic perfectionism/generational trauma into their animated movie like turning red and encanto.

My siblings and I still plan to have kids, we plan to go easier on them than our parents did with us, make sure they know they're loved and a negative thought never crosses their mind Edit: Okay, before I get anymore stupid comments telling me shit I already know. My intention is to raise my kids knowing that they're loved while not giving a damn about what anybody says to them, my parents have always compared me to them when they were younger and talked down on me just because I didn't have to put up with as much as they did, but I actually AM because they're the ones I'm putting up with, making me feel like shit, I will *NEVER FUCKING EVER* make my child feel as worthless and hurt as me, I will give my life to make sure they never have thoughts of hurting themselves or if I don't love them, I'll never make them feel like the world would be better off without them... But I'll still make sure nothing a stranger says to them, or a friend, or a toxic family member will get to them, I'll make sure they are emotionally strong and confident, and yes, I'm aware that life will get to them, but it happens, it happens to everyone, we can't control it, but I will be there and make sure they are comfortable enough to talk about what they are feeling and know they have a shoulder to cry on, and because someone said it *YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE HARD ON YOUR KIDS TO TOUGHEN THEM UP* .... THAT'S ABUSE... As a parent, it's your JOB and RESPONSIBILITY to love and care for your child and never put them down because you're not happy or satisfied with the way things are going... Children who know they're loved and secure, and you've talked with as they grew will not go doing something stupid you disapprove of... Being raised with 6 siblings and mentally abusive parents who fail to speak to their kids, I've watched it 3 times now, it DOES work that way and it's on YOU to prevent it from happening. I'm probably gonna get a shit ton of hate, but idc, I may not have kids, but I've watched enough of my siblings grow up and become depressed and broken (myself included), and know what could've been done to prevent that, I'd take my knowledge and time travel with it to help my parents be better. People look down on younger generations for being the way they are, but for over half, it's their parents to blame. I'm not gonna be that parent, never

@innovativeberry6098

2 жыл бұрын

That's not as easy as it sounds. When you grow older, you're ideals and emotions change and when you see your child that you've raised so hard does dumb stuff, it is natural to feel pissed. I'm not saying that you'll be a bad guardian but that you would later understand how a parent feels it difficult to deal with their offspring and that they're only mending us to be better people even if we don't like it.

@Divine_1018

2 жыл бұрын

@@innovativeberry6098 You don't think I know this?

@ForeversGlitch

2 жыл бұрын

@@innovativeberry6098 I’m sure this person means they want to care for their child or children more than their parent(s) did for them

@Marley_Zoe123

2 жыл бұрын

@@Divine_1018 yes but u realize they will never know let down till they grow up then they’ll have trouble surviving in the real world. They have to have some criticism otherwise they’re going to think they’re perfect and have trouble understanding that somethings they do isn’t right. They’ll grow up and realize that the way u raise them ( not letting negative thing going through there mind) that when a negative thought does in the future they can’t handle it. You have to prepare them and not let them be soft bc u were to them. Otherwise they will be ruined in the future. You have to be hard in them shown out of love.

@taylorb1342

2 жыл бұрын

@@Divine_1018 They are just showing another perspective, chill out dude...

The grandmother as a mother is very beautiful 😍

Breaking the toxic cycle in my family. I really hope I'll achieve that goal someday

The great grandma is literally slapping/hitting her child with the holy bible

@rahimahmathusin4800

2 жыл бұрын

True

@akshitabiswas463

2 жыл бұрын

@Catherine Victoria Barlian oh well that's pretty normal in asia lol

@nickylawson993

2 жыл бұрын

So ture

@sandthistle

2 жыл бұрын

It's also a bit like how slaveholders would go to churches, be Christain, and recite the bible while beating slaves...

@elizebeths.8880

Жыл бұрын

@@sandthistle Thank you for figuring it out.

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR PUTTING PORTUGAL IN THIS, most people don’t even know it exists “I’m Portuguese” “Oh yeah, from Brazil!” Gurl no 😑

@yngridsilva6130

Жыл бұрын

I thought otherwise, in my opinion Portugal is a better known country than Brasil

@anthonyjrgensen4207

Жыл бұрын

@@yngridsilva6130 every time I would say “I’m Portuguese” as a child it was always met with some variation of the answer “oh my gosh I love brazil!” I’ve even had someone say “you’re portugish?” After I said “I’m from Portugal” Just my experience though

Amen! I'm being a chain breaker myself. Its time for generational trauma to end!

i’m gonna break the chain. I will never hurt my child for being upset. I will always tell them i’m proud of them. I will always hold them when they need me.

Hello, Faye Cursebreaker here! Just want to remind you that no matter what, you're doing amazing, as long as you wake up every morning and try to do your best and that someone cares for you. Keep up the good work, okay? ^w^

PORTUGALL!! Hugs from Portugal 🇵🇹💛🌷 This is actually my first time watching this trend buahah Pretty cool! ✨

“Lisbon, Portugal” Thank you very much!!! 😭

I love the great transitions

I really like that the things that got repressed in their childhoods were what they forced on to their daughters, its very realistic!

this is very relatable ps: i love how you added captions to demonstrate how they go about things

My mom worked so hard to break the cycle. I can't describe how grateful I am for the way she raised me ❤️

Im gonna break the „you can’t be this and that because of this and that“ chain!!

Yes! We have to break this cycle, after all it can generate a lot of trauma in children!

Omg that cat😍

Im a cycle breaker and got my mom to become one to! We used to fight all the the time but now we have a great relationship ^^

i going to break the " cheating on person with sisters boy friend"

“The mother has a daughter that gets married to the father of the mother” WHAAAT?!!

@ignotuz4836

2 жыл бұрын

It's 'married to the brother of a mother'

@Avery-ct4ow

2 жыл бұрын

BAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

@hopeehasz8366

2 жыл бұрын

"Married to the brother of the mother" That's worse!!!!!!!

@florecoessens4001

2 жыл бұрын

@@hopeehasz8366 A mother has a daughter. The Daughter got married to a brother of a mother. Which means the daughter has a sister-in-law.

@Avery-ct4ow

2 жыл бұрын

@@hopeehasz8366 LMAO I THINK THE SINGER FORGOT THE LINES LOOLLL

I love it! Amazing acting!

@thevespertineoracle

2 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️❤️aww thank youuu

I'm breaking the "mental health is just an excuse"

i may not be perfect but i’m working on myself to break the cycle! i don’t want my kids to go through the same thing i went through

My husband and I broke the cycle of giving no support to our passions. Our dgt just got her masters in what she loves

"How many times have you watched this?" Me: Yes