THE CORD

The Cord. Online premiere.
Director Olexandr Bubnov.
This animation film is about blind maternal love, overcare, that doesn't let the son grow into a man, but makes his inner child stay helpless and infantile for ages.

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  • @Bangtan4Life13
    @Bangtan4Life139 ай бұрын

    I cried out so hard because this story completely represents the story of my life. Every second of it, the mother being manipulative acting like she was dying (yep my mom) and sadly that’s a type of psychological violence.

  • @gpstoysgamesandmore6511

    @gpstoysgamesandmore6511

    2 ай бұрын

    What a very selfish mother

  • @MichMeister16

    @MichMeister16

    2 ай бұрын

    🥲

  • @amid610
    @amid6103 жыл бұрын

    I have seen this many times with single moms. They sacrifice everything for the child, and at the end expect the child to do the same. They live with guilt toward their moms and if they get married they end up divorcing and going back to live with their mothers, and maybe become single parents themselves perpetuating the cycle. Parents have to learn that more than protecting parenting is about giving your child wings.

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    @marcusfilm1387

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @julietaoiguan1691

    @julietaoiguan1691

    2 жыл бұрын

    Mothers must know that their son must have their own life to live no matter what.

  • @legalfictionnaturalfact3969

    @legalfictionnaturalfact3969

    Жыл бұрын

    Sons need to take responsibility for their choices as adults.

  • @user-fh2wt8cf6t

    @user-fh2wt8cf6t

    Жыл бұрын

    Csehddergg😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @AnhLe-li2fm

    @AnhLe-li2fm

    Жыл бұрын

    "l

  • @Tokuijin
    @Tokuijin3 жыл бұрын

    Basically, due to the mother's overprotection and over attachment to her son, they both lost out in life. The way I interpret some of the scenes is that the mother has some resentment. I mean, because her son shied away from her interest, she felt like she couldn't pursue that relationship and, in turn, she kept her son from pursuing any relationships and a life separate from her own because, to her, her son was the reason why she can't have a life, either. Now that she's gone, the son doesn't know what to do or how to take care of himself because his mother never let or taught him.

  • @ChungNguyen-lu5wp

    @ChungNguyen-lu5wp

    3 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @tajshaikh342

    @tajshaikh342

    3 жыл бұрын

    That is true point

  • @kittenpie3696

    @kittenpie3696

    3 жыл бұрын

    True

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    @marcusfilm1387

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @user-dl5cz4eb7b

    @user-dl5cz4eb7b

    Жыл бұрын

    Эта драма доводит до слёз

  • @TheCristinatania
    @TheCristinatania3 жыл бұрын

    The movie is so deep with so many details. I am wondering if you guys are psychologist. There was a moment thar the little kid thought the dog was his fellow. The dog had a cord too. Interesting how the cord was getting shorter as they were getting older. But the most excruciating terrible thing is his desperate screaming when the death cut the cord. And it was a new born baby cry. I saw a new born baby inside of an old body😢

  • @marcusfilm1387

    @marcusfilm1387

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the feedback!

  • @zanjabilaasiah7555

    @zanjabilaasiah7555

    3 жыл бұрын

    Indeed. The cry gives me chill

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    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @louisewardell4098

    @louisewardell4098

    3 ай бұрын

    So was that new life beginning again for the son?

  • @PurpleSparklesHeart
    @PurpleSparklesHeart2 жыл бұрын

    I feel like not enough people are talking about the scene where the mother pretended to be dead. The son finally stands up for himself and tries to break it off, and the mother manipulated him into feeling bad for wanting to be independent. That’s gonna haunt me for a while-

  • @triciaboca

    @triciaboca

    Жыл бұрын

    Or maybe she fainted out of shock😶😕

  • @HappyGlobe

    @HappyGlobe

    Жыл бұрын

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  • @fungustheclown666

    @fungustheclown666

    Жыл бұрын

    @@triciaboca as someone whose mother tried to keep me relying on her as long as she could, its most definitely what the original commenter suggested imo.

  • @Adashofhawtsauc3

    @Adashofhawtsauc3

    Жыл бұрын

    That really was a messed up scene

  • @Izzytheninja

    @Izzytheninja

    Жыл бұрын

    I didn't think anyone would have noticed that

  • @Hadeel_Alshammari
    @Hadeel_Alshammari3 жыл бұрын

    My mother passed away two years ago and I still feel confused and lost as the final scene displayed, she had a narcissistic codependent relationship with all her children including me, some turned into narcissists themselves and others suffered codependency, it wasted years of my life and my siblings’ lives too, turned everything into toxicity and bitterness, you guys did a great job here, so relatable and hard to watch at the same time, great job again.

  • @marcusfilm1387

    @marcusfilm1387

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your sincerity

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    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @baker8002

    @baker8002

    2 жыл бұрын

    I dont know how old you are or anything but can i ask you for advice, because i am in the same situation as u were only thing is the im the only child so 100% of her attention goes twords me, i really dont know what to do

  • @marcusfilm1387

    @marcusfilm1387

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@baker8002 This problem can be solved by competent specialists. Consult a psychologist who specializes in separation issues. Together you can choose the course of action.

  • @baker8002

    @baker8002

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@marcusfilm1387 thank you

  • @sleepydeaths
    @sleepydeaths Жыл бұрын

    he couldnt even live his own life the way he wanted because of how controlled, manipulated and gaslighted he were and she always kept him attached to herself. its heartbreaking that some mothers do this to their own kids for their own benefit, not even thinking about their kids or their future, how their kids would live if they werent in their life anymore.

  • @claraqiyun3761

    @claraqiyun3761

    Жыл бұрын

    exactly true

  • @lilil7351
    @lilil73513 жыл бұрын

    That's easily one of the best animation short films I've ever seen. Very deep, creative and unsettling.

  • @marcusfilm1387

    @marcusfilm1387

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @Galaxy_World

    @Galaxy_World

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well u haven't seen anything if u think this is the best

  • @Galaxy_World

    @Galaxy_World

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@marcusfilm1387 your welcome

  • @lilil7351

    @lilil7351

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Galaxy_World "ONE" of the best!

  • @Galaxy_World

    @Galaxy_World

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lilil7351 fair enough ig

  • @catinarezi
    @catinarezi3 жыл бұрын

    Today my mom pretended to be dying EXACTLY like this when I told I couldn’t bear anymore. I almost called an ambulance.

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    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @rainysummerday2243

    @rainysummerday2243

    2 жыл бұрын

    Elders scaring their grown up kids with their death is so hard..and toxic yet it hits us in our chest cause we already know that they wont be here with us forever..

  • @y.t.1320
    @y.t.13202 жыл бұрын

    The scream at the end of video was really effected me from heart. I heard same thing from my dad when my grandma died and my son when he came to world.

  • @jacksonhastings701
    @jacksonhastings7012 жыл бұрын

    The narcissistic mother’s ideal life.

  • @anuradhasingh4061

    @anuradhasingh4061

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agree

  • @anthonyruiz6365

    @anthonyruiz6365

    Жыл бұрын

    @Organic Elephant that’s not even being a strict mother but a selfish narcissistic psycho mother

  • @shoh1149
    @shoh11493 жыл бұрын

    5:05 I feel bad for him because he wanted to start a family of his own but his mum didn't let him! :(

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    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @shoh1149

    @shoh1149

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@marcusfilm1387 ok thxs

  • @FahadKhan-wy9en

    @FahadKhan-wy9en

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's not good man

  • @FahadKhan-wy9en

    @FahadKhan-wy9en

    2 жыл бұрын

    😢😢😢😢😩😩😩

  • @nothingbuttruth803

    @nothingbuttruth803

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly my mom

  • @sonnyca
    @sonnyca4 жыл бұрын

    Codependence on a parent whether mother or father inhibits personal and emotional growth. I know that for a fact.

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    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @manuelcohuo4746

    @manuelcohuo4746

    Жыл бұрын

    ... no entiendo inglés xdxdxd

  • @user-ll2nn9mt6q

    @user-ll2nn9mt6q

    Жыл бұрын

    @@manuelcohuo4746 Google вам в помощь. Я тоже не понимаю по английски, но он мне перевёл ваш комментарий 🙂

  • @mintstar3703
    @mintstar37033 жыл бұрын

    This is so sad yet so symbolic. I’m already 21 and I still live with my mother. I try my best to become independent but it’s a bit hard to me. My mother means to me very much and I don’t know what would I do if I lost her.

  • @amiistad

    @amiistad

    3 жыл бұрын

    hey just want to let you know it’s ok to live with your parents! you’re still very young and it’s very challenging to live on your own. :)

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    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @Jacky-fs9gg

    @Jacky-fs9gg

    2 жыл бұрын

    hey, living with your parents is not shameful, and being independent doesn't mean you have to be separated with the ones you love, the important thing is knowing what you really want and when to say no.

  • @Zaiderita

    @Zaiderita

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Jacky-fs9gg what did u learned from this short show ?

  • @sakusaku973

    @sakusaku973

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi MintStarVideo, this is called as Mother-Child Addiction. The best way to cure is counseling. You are too young and very lucky to sort it out at that age.

  • @sirmr6597
    @sirmr65972 жыл бұрын

    To shelter and sequester your child is the worse choice one could make. You sabotage 2 futures at once.

  • @Kai-fy1en
    @Kai-fy1en Жыл бұрын

    Mothers need to learn a lesson from this, and that is when a child gets a certain age, It's time to let go and let that son, or daughter grow up. You can not keep mothering your children forever. I myself have this same problem as well. I live with my mother and brother, and I am 38 year old, and it sucks. I for one would like to be on my own. I for one am 38 yr old and felt that I have missed out on a lot. Lucky for me I have a job and trying my best to save money.

  • @sparkwill5337

    @sparkwill5337

    Жыл бұрын

    You can do it. I had the same situation with 2 younger brothers (I’m the oldest) I got so fed up that I moved out during the pandemic at 31 been on my own ever since. I’m still working on creating boundaries but its good don’t be scared.

  • @thelmaflauto
    @thelmaflauto3 жыл бұрын

    Love ? This is a personality disorder .The video is excellent,the situation in there is awful and very sad.

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    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @somethingbetter4801
    @somethingbetter48013 жыл бұрын

    This is one of the most beautiful things i have ever seen in my life.

  • @marcusfilm1387

    @marcusfilm1387

    3 жыл бұрын

    thanks a lot!

  • @thelowlyant6990

    @thelowlyant6990

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why?

  • @marcusfilm1387

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    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @morningkizz8210
    @morningkizz82103 жыл бұрын

    This is my relationship with my mum. At 22 i moved away cause i realized how toxic she can become. I realized i never actually know how to cook or clean

  • @ikigal1

    @ikigal1

    3 жыл бұрын

    Bro

  • @ikigal1

    @ikigal1

    3 жыл бұрын

    Whats ur snap ill teach u

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    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @zarabanna3205

    @zarabanna3205

    2 жыл бұрын

    You doing ok now?

  • @Bella-ml5rt
    @Bella-ml5rt3 жыл бұрын

    Codependency at its finest. This short animation deserves a 10/10!

  • @marcusfilm1387

    @marcusfilm1387

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

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  • @men_del12
    @men_del122 жыл бұрын

    That ending sound is very haunting.

  • @kidsIIIII009

    @kidsIIIII009

    4 ай бұрын

    Howie Scream

  • @MC-kb5lk
    @MC-kb5lk3 жыл бұрын

    This is selflishness we should let our children grow and find their ways in life unless there is no mental health problem.If there is, we should care them all life through against any bullying or cruelty..As life is a cycle if we care them well they may care us too in our old days but you will never know what life brings..

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    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @despertandoparaosomprofess522
    @despertandoparaosomprofess522 Жыл бұрын

    I can relate to every second of it. I come here times to times, to remember how strong I am for understanding my relationship with my mother before it is too late and mostly to prepare myself to change the end of my story. Everytime I want to explain to somebody what a narcisistic mom is, I just send them your animation. Thank you so much guys for this brilliant masterpiece. ❤👏🏽

  • @Just_marvel.
    @Just_marvel. Жыл бұрын

    No matter how much you are attached to someone, or if you want to get it, the 'strong bond' between you and that person will somehow disappear... Because that's the reality of life, the universe is built on it ... My favorite animation channel!!

  • @Evangelista54
    @Evangelista542 жыл бұрын

    Y ' all need to do part 2 I want to see him grieving and raising his family

  • @HappyGlobe

    @HappyGlobe

    Жыл бұрын

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  • @anthonyruiz6365

    @anthonyruiz6365

    Жыл бұрын

    Did he even have a family of his own after words?

  • @Evangelista54

    @Evangelista54

    Жыл бұрын

    @@anthonyruiz6365 idk

  • @delitebarroslemos6097
    @delitebarroslemos60973 жыл бұрын

    A importância de cortamos o cordão umbilical nas nossas relações, caso contrário as neuroses se instalam. Parabéns pelo filme.

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    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @gigisinternationalkitchen6094
    @gigisinternationalkitchen60942 жыл бұрын

    This shows how an unhealthy attachment of a mother and son can lead to sons inability to have his own happiness and loneliness and eventually lack of oxygen supply he was getting through the cord (unhealthy attachment). Mothers should learn to let go of their sons as they grow into young adults

  • @rhenegamezyt695

    @rhenegamezyt695

    Жыл бұрын

    Yep

  • @xrc7445

    @xrc7445

    10 ай бұрын

    It's not only mothers with their sons though. It is also mothers with daughters, and fathers with daughters (and also sons). It is insane how much the man-babies become "the suffocating parent" to their adult daughters, esp. when the wife is out of the picture (divorce, death, etc.). They tranfer their mommy needs to their wives, and their to their daughters. Ask me how I know 🤦‍♀️

  • @leilagetman8671
    @leilagetman86714 жыл бұрын

    Ребята здорово показали! Молодцы! Классный фильм! И это не только про мальчиков. Живём с оглядкой на детей и родителей, чужими жизнями, избегая ответственности и прикрываясь "пуповиной". Забота о близких это про другое? Это про чем помочь, а не про куда пошел? Кто делает что-то нужное для себя, своего счастья, не взирая, как на это посмотрят родители (в основном мама) или ребенок? Большинство скажет: да нет, это не пуповина, эта забота о близких и прочие отговорки. Это и есть пуповина. Без нее Вы не тащите никого больше в свои отношения с другими людьми, неважно, общественные или романтичные. От слова вообще. Просто эта пуповина у кого-то подлиннее. Да я и сама грешна и как дочь, и как мама, хотя все порываюсь порвать, но как же без контроля-то! Тут пишут: "Про мою свекровь", а я больше чем уверена, что на зеркало неча пенять. Ребенок на пуповине сможет найти только такого-же пуповинного ребенка, чтобы было на кого свалить свою личную безответственность. Поэтому, если хочется свободного - стоит обрезать свою пуповину, тогда на другого и не потянет. Свободные люди создают свои общие узы и сразу движутся, куда хотят, там и родители не в обиде, и сами выбирают свой совместный путь без оглядки, и дети тоже просто в любви, а не под контролем. Те, кто еще связан с мамками пересекаются по пути мам, но потом у каждой мамы своя дорожка, и все разрывается, каждый же за собой пару тянет. А если пуповина длинная и не расходятся в разные стороны, то без конца выясняют отношения, о чью же мамку они споткнулись. А потом в этот клубок добавляются ещё и свои пуповинные дети, ну, надо же хоть где-то почувствовать себя властным. Как сейчас говорят, токсичные отношения. Кстати, ребята, возьмите как идею для нового фильма, денег не надо, буду рада, если просто в титрах упомянете. ;)

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  • @xrc7445
    @xrc7445 Жыл бұрын

    This also exists with fathers with their daughters. The cultural misogyny that encourages men's entitlement towards women's bodies, makes a lot of fathers hating the idea of their daughters getting into relationships. My father is a prime example, he really tried all he could to consiously sabotage my personal life. He is a 5yo in an adult's body and, in his mind, I had to take my mom's place after she died when I was 14, and take care of him and stay with him.

  • @fauzianalwoga1002

    @fauzianalwoga1002

    10 ай бұрын

    Recently lost my mom and I really don't want to stay with my father coz he's awkward

  • @marcytk

    @marcytk

    9 ай бұрын

    emotional incest

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    @marcusfilm13873 жыл бұрын

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  • @user-ir2xv4kr6s
    @user-ir2xv4kr6s3 ай бұрын

    This video right here. Thank you for posting this. This video was the light at the end of my tunnel, the spark that started my awareness of the dysfunction I had gone through and today, I can tell you I made it to the other side, where the sun shines everyday and birds chirp in the morning. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

  • @AnnaGrace603

    @AnnaGrace603

    Ай бұрын

    Im stil in the process of cutting the damn cord. How can I heal from this? I feel like I abandon my poor lonely mother who has no one but me

  • @lis6502
    @lis65024 жыл бұрын

    That was deep. This is what priests should be teaching future parents, as problem isn't just related to mothers in my opinion.

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    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @Cha0t1c_Fr13nd
    @Cha0t1c_Fr13nd Жыл бұрын

    “I’m not crying my eyes are just doing a play!”

  • @ltmmoviereviewsharrison3462
    @ltmmoviereviewsharrison3462 Жыл бұрын

    This short scares me yet is somewhat relatable for me.Because the thing is that I am on the autism spectrum and sometimes it’s hard for me to fit into the world like make relationships or even learn to take care of myself.Which means my mom had to help me with most things.But as a grew older.I started to become more independent.I start to become better with how the world works and how I am able to socialize and start relationships on my own without my mom babying me around.I’m glad I didn’t end up like this kid because if I was to have a mom who didn’t let me become who I am today,I would have not gone anywhere and it would have been a lot harder for me to learn and explore on how this world functions.This short needs to be seen by everyone and is very underrated.

  • @SKUIBTHEALIEN
    @SKUIBTHEALIEN2 жыл бұрын

    The baby crying at the end is soo sad :(

  • @HappyGlobe

    @HappyGlobe

    Жыл бұрын

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  • @serhiiKu
    @serhiiKu4 жыл бұрын

    О!!! Да просто вдребезги расплющило! Просто невозможно прекрасный фильм!!! Ну всё: сама пронзительная и до страшного типичная история. Трагедия и любовь в одном флаконе. И кАк это рассказано! А какая графика Sergiy Maidukov! Спасибо всем в пояс!

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  • @Lyutianski
    @Lyutianski Жыл бұрын

    Госпади, сколько душевной боли. Даже на слезу пробило 😔 Этот фильм просто шидевр. вы большие молодца.

  • @lisastarlove7429

    @lisastarlove7429

    Жыл бұрын

    Liutianski

  • @foilmew
    @foilmew2 жыл бұрын

    I'd personally say this is the epitome of being overprotective parents.

  • @nashikara
    @nashikara3 жыл бұрын

    This video needs more exposure. It needs to go viral.

  • @marcusfilm1387

    @marcusfilm1387

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! You can help us to share )

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  • @elenalazari8451

    @elenalazari8451

    Жыл бұрын

    🧕👫

  • @seanstark4312
    @seanstark43122 жыл бұрын

    Not gonna lie, the mom in this short looks absolutely adorable

  • @frostyfrix4066
    @frostyfrix40662 жыл бұрын

    I’m a teenager now and my mom doesn’t even lemme go in the drive way myself so I can relate to this alot

  • @interlop3r
    @interlop3r3 жыл бұрын

    This hit extremely close to home it's terrifying, but I'm working it out on therapy. Thank you so much for this piece of animation. Marvelous.

  • @marcusfilm1387

    @marcusfilm1387

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks!

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    @marcusfilm1387

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  • @baker8002

    @baker8002

    2 жыл бұрын

    Any advice u can give im pretty much in the sane spot

  • @sakusaku973

    @sakusaku973

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@baker8002 Counseling is the only way to sort it out.

  • @elenalazari8451

    @elenalazari8451

    Жыл бұрын

    Each of you will have to make sure that you have the right number of people who want you and your business to make your life better and you will be able to get a 6 5 for your business. If you have any ideas or questions. Please let me know what you think and if 3 will help with the stars!

  • @poisonedavacado4062
    @poisonedavacado4062 Жыл бұрын

    This was phenomenal and deserve more recognition.

  • @aaronneabril20
    @aaronneabril204 ай бұрын

    Love isn’t controlling or egotistic. Sadly many people mistake love for control and toxicity. Oftenly forgets that love also needs FREEDOM. 😢

  • @sakusaku973
    @sakusaku9732 жыл бұрын

    This is called as Mother-Child addiction. It can be sorted out with counseling. This happens when: 1- The mother dies before baby gets 1 year old 2- The mother does not let the baby to decompose from her which starts when the baby is 6 months old If you have this problem because of one of the above conditions, I do strongly advise you to counsel a psychologist (a good and reliable one...).

  • @annlhishani5688
    @annlhishani56883 жыл бұрын

    I can relate to this a lot. But just a bit different. The thing is that my mother let me and wants me to go out, have friends, be independent and all but then it's me, who don't want to do these things as it doesn't excite me. I had best friends before but then they all left me eventually. I can be my myself around her only and doesn't need change myself like I need to be infront of others. I'm glad to have a mother like her. And even if one day she leaves me I still will and can be alone. Because people always dissapoints. This is a very mindful video. Kudos to the creator. I liked it alot. ❤

  • @marcusfilm1387

    @marcusfilm1387

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks a lot!

  • @1pluggrs

    @1pluggrs

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow I think I relate to you

  • @annlhishani5688

    @annlhishani5688

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@1pluggrs 🙌

  • @Blue-Mo0n

    @Blue-Mo0n

    Жыл бұрын

    How old are you?

  • @annlhishani5688

    @annlhishani5688

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Blue-Mo0n 21 this year

  • @soskika419
    @soskika4192 жыл бұрын

    Best filme ever made about parental narcisism, not only the mother is, but where is the father of this child? Abandoment is also violence.

  • @victorious521
    @victorious521 Жыл бұрын

    My sister and her sons. She told them that if they ever got wives or girlfriends, left home, then that meant they didn’t love her

  • @AVBubnov
    @AVBubnov4 жыл бұрын

    Гениальный фильм! ...вдвойне гениально, поскольку тема давняя в искусстве и литературе… и новизна тут, и традиции, и преемственность стиля, и элементы авангарда…

  • @user-bv5fp2qs9y

    @user-bv5fp2qs9y

    4 жыл бұрын

    это не я сам себе дифирамбы пишу, это мой двойной тёзка! :)))

  • @testowykana1763
    @testowykana17634 жыл бұрын

    To anyone that likes this animation, I recommend you documentaries from Marcin Koszałka.

  • @joeshow8815

    @joeshow8815

    3 жыл бұрын

    thank you for the hint

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    @marcusfilm1387

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @NothingHumanisAlientoMe
    @NothingHumanisAlientoMe2 жыл бұрын

    Dude Jordan Peterson would have a field day with this lol

  • @rajpootsamaj6158
    @rajpootsamaj61583 жыл бұрын

    मां और बच्चे की रिलेशनशिप बहुत ही गहराई में दिखाई गई है । बहुत ही अच्छी मूवी है । यह कहानी से हमें यह सीख मिलती है कि मां से बढ़कर कोई चीज नहीं होती । बीवी बच्चे दुनिया यह सब झूठे साथी है । मा ही बच्चे की असली साथी है

  • @khalo75

    @khalo75

    3 жыл бұрын

    thank you )

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  • @intricatelycaptivating2943
    @intricatelycaptivating29434 жыл бұрын

    👏 A wise message deserving millions of views!

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    @marcusfilm1387

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  • @zarabanna3205
    @zarabanna32052 жыл бұрын

    Found this on tiktok and am here to see the whole story

  • @Plutosvanity

    @Plutosvanity

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yea me too but it kinda sucks that the person who uploaded it to TikTok didn’t even give credit. Now the TikTok has 2 million likes and the one who made the animation does even have 1000 subscribers

  • @snowflakepanda8135
    @snowflakepanda81352 жыл бұрын

    I think that the cord symbolizes the mother's protection or "attatchment" to her son, since at the first parts, the son was bullied for being treated pike a baby in my opinion. Attatchment is not bad at all, but everything should be in moderation.

  • @user-ll2nn9mt6q

    @user-ll2nn9mt6q

    Жыл бұрын

    Пуповину - слишком огромную привязанность, рано или поздно придётся разрезать, т к выросший ребенок должен и имеет на это право, жить своей жизнью. Очень жаль что некоторые мамочки не хотят разрезать пуповину....

  • @Aiii_me6682
    @Aiii_me6682 Жыл бұрын

    This is incredible and in an animation WOW it has deep meaning tears ran down my eyes after learning how we mothers sacrifice and expect so much from our kids but in the end we should just let them leave their lives and be happy for them but first we need to be happy for us

  • @interlop3r
    @interlop3r3 жыл бұрын

    If you guys are interested I recommend the Canadian animation "Old Fangs" (2009). It's another point of view, and this time, about a father-and-son relationship. Along with this one, my favorite short animations ever.

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    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @julianhernandez6216
    @julianhernandez62162 жыл бұрын

    Sadly I have to admit this is me at the age of 44 still with the cord attached to my mom... not good at all

  • @ioannaoikonomidou6315
    @ioannaoikonomidou63153 жыл бұрын

    Bravo to the people that were inspired and created such a piece of art reaching most depths between the mother/child relationship.

  • @marcusfilm1387

    @marcusfilm1387

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

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    @marcusfilm1387

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @visalakshik.raman.6278
    @visalakshik.raman.6278 Жыл бұрын

    The mother isn't over protective but rather selfish and insecure. 🤣 She wants to keep someone under her control lifelong, someone to put on a leash and drag around like a pet animal. She denied him of his education, the companionship of other kids, a girl friend, a wife and a family of his own. I have seen parents who manipulate, blackmail emotionally and control their children lifelong. The invisible chord cleverly used by them is depicted here by the visible umbilical chord. We give birth to children but they are not our personal property nor our possession nor a pet 🐕 or 🐈

  • @claraqiyun3761

    @claraqiyun3761

    Жыл бұрын

    👍

  • @myyy3640
    @myyy3640 Жыл бұрын

    Wait nooo, I wanted a happy ending for him 😔

  • @Salisilsan
    @Salisilsan6 ай бұрын

    이 영상을 보고 아주 많은걸 느꼈습니다.. 삶에 대해서 다시한번 생각해보기도 했고 저의 과거를 돌아보고 부모님과의 관계 여러가지로 생각이 많아지게 하는 영상인 것 같습니다.. 6분 길다면 길고 짧다면 짧은 시간동안 저에게 잊혀져있던 감정과 기억, 추억을 떠올리게 해주셔서 정말 감사하고 또 이러한 복잡하고도 심오한 감정을 느끼게 해주셔서 이런 영상을 만들어 주셔서 진심으로 감사드립니다. 항상 응원합니다..!❤🎉

  • @Itz_atoms654
    @Itz_atoms654 Жыл бұрын

    So because of moms overprotection they both lost life’s, son didn’t even got married, mom died (because she got old) But I just have a question: why did mom pretend being dead?

  • @Kai-fy1en
    @Kai-fy1en Жыл бұрын

    Hope everyone sees why it is so important to cut the ambilocal card from the child, just look at what the child missed out on.

  • @axelgolubtsov6721
    @axelgolubtsov6721 Жыл бұрын

    Who would do that but thats a life hack in reality you really have to cut the cord

  • @evatayga305
    @evatayga3054 жыл бұрын

    Ребята, не останавливайтесь на психологических темах! Очень показательно! И очень понятно даже особо тупым. Я про свою мать, которая держит брата на такой пуповине. У неё была истерика после просмотра. Ну конечно, в своём глазу брёвна не хочет видеть.

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  • @kingamaciejewska6645
    @kingamaciejewska66454 жыл бұрын

    Fajna animacja, dźwięk idealnie wpisuje się w ten klimacik. :)

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  • @UyPhan-qx5re
    @UyPhan-qx5re8 ай бұрын

    Mỗi bậc phụ huynh sẽ mãi luôn yêu thương và nuôi dạy con cái của mình một cách hoàn hảo nhất. Nhưng khi người con đến một độ tuổi trưởng thành cần phải biết tự giác, có tính tự lập tốt,..... chính vì điều này người con sẽ tạo được sự yên tâm cho bố mẹ. Vì thế mỗi gia đình cần phải giáo dục, rèn luyện con cái của mình biết được những đức tính và kỹ năng sống từ rất sớm, để sau này người con có thể báo hiếu được cho bố mẹ và tự xây dựng cho bản thân một mái ấm gia đình nhỏ và từ đó chu kỳ này vẫn sẽ luôn được tiếp diễn 💪❤

  • @navajyothisciencestream4757
    @navajyothisciencestream47573 жыл бұрын

    Umm, what just happened ? She's so possessive, poor boy.

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  • @kennydarmawan13
    @kennydarmawan133 жыл бұрын

    The cord's just a metaphor for the possessive yet toxic attachment the two have with each other. The lack of independence in either's life leads to trouble in the end. And I got the feeling the mother's long dead and he already sees it himself the moment the last string is used. Not to mention, he was able to buy an adult magazine and got away with it.

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  • @manikbhure4436
    @manikbhure4436 Жыл бұрын

    It showed my whole life , my parents did the same never let me go free , and didnt had any choice to remain due to money problems

  • @NikoletaIvanova
    @NikoletaIvanova3 жыл бұрын

    So true ... Many parents are obsessed from their childrens. Sad.

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  • @Corgi_cutip
    @Corgi_cutip Жыл бұрын

    THE CORD we all have cords when we were born

  • @mnstpkrg_7
    @mnstpkrg_73 жыл бұрын

    I love the animation style! Also its has a good meaning behind it! Good Job! Tbh I also kinda experienced that feeling at 2:43 lol

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  • @Vitalya100
    @Vitalya1003 жыл бұрын

    Життєвий мультик українського режисера Бубнова!!! Просто супер!

  • @marcusfilm1387

    @marcusfilm1387

    3 жыл бұрын

    дякуємо!

  • @iettadacus5383
    @iettadacus53832 жыл бұрын

    My son sent me this video he is 14 years old and I also have a two-year-old son I am guilty of this and I’ve read some of the comments and it describes me and my relationship with my children I don’t know what to do to let them go. When they go away for the weekend to spend time with family or friends I have anxiety attacks I tried to tell them everything to do and I think it’s parenting but in many ways I am very overprotective of my kids because of things that has happened to me in the past and because I feel like if something was to ever happen to them I don’t know if I can live without either of them if there is something that can help me without making me feel like I’m not a mother I would love for someone to help us or to give me some advice

  • @kimnganle9447

    @kimnganle9447

    2 жыл бұрын

    Being an overprotective parent has way more harmful effects than benefits on your children. It will suppress your children from developing normally by discovering this world through trials and errors. It will leave deep, permanent scars in your children’s life and your relationship with them. You can learn about your fears, insecurities and find a better way to educate your children rather than prevent them from doing almost everything. Hope this help.

  • @user-bu3bv6fj7c

    @user-bu3bv6fj7c

    2 жыл бұрын

    You should consult a therapist please!!!!!

  • @harpiyon

    @harpiyon

    2 жыл бұрын

    Your job is not to protect your children forever, but to prepare them for the world. Yes they need a lot of protection at the start, but as they grow older, you need to let them fly more & more. If you keep them dependent on you, you'll destroy their lives, as well as yours. There's tons of literarure on the topic out there, or you go to a consultant / counseler / therapist. Good luck.

  • @dididirt

    @dididirt

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi Ietta, hope you are well. First of all you don't have to feel bad or think you are a bad mother, you are trying to raise your children and this is the most important. After seeing this video if you feel reflected to some behaviours you might find some help/psicologist, not only for your children, but for you too. You are the most important person and if you are good your children is gonna be good too! Try to focus more on you and what do you like to do than your children (of course you have to take care and love your baby haha) Hope this helped

  • @pipandlou

    @pipandlou

    Жыл бұрын

    Making our children an extension of ourselves is about us, not them. To fully love them best - let them be them.

  • @solanacarmona9164
    @solanacarmona9164 Жыл бұрын

    Incredible, my congratulations to all the people who worked on this amazing creation 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @rayart9298
    @rayart92982 жыл бұрын

    Masterpiece....the message is deep.

  • @SabinaAkmalovna
    @SabinaAkmalovna Жыл бұрын

    O‘zbekistondan shunaqa onalar borligi uchun oilalar ajralmoqda yaxshi narsa chiqaribsizlar rahmat!

  • @arian12300
    @arian12300 Жыл бұрын

    A life changing animation! A masterpiece!

  • @legalfictionnaturalfact3969
    @legalfictionnaturalfact3969 Жыл бұрын

    I cut off my in-laws for having this situation going on. The mother isn't even single. We can't have it around our own children.

  • @ritadeamorim
    @ritadeamorim3 жыл бұрын

    é assustadora a realidade deste filme. E em muitos casos acontece também com a filha, essa dependência umbilical. amedrontante explicativo sem uma unica palavra

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  • @phantomasuras
    @phantomasuras2 жыл бұрын

    This is a beautiful video, thanks for sharing found it on Facebook but I had to fin the good quality version without some annoying caption.

  • @thetransferaccount4586
    @thetransferaccount4586 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks to the youtube algorithm, I discovered this masterful short film

  • @jotarokujo312
    @jotarokujo312 Жыл бұрын

    Did anyone come here from the RESPECT video?

  • @stellagriffith3696
    @stellagriffith3696 Жыл бұрын

    As a mother this makes me cry so much. Realizing my son will one day have his own family and I’m scared he won’t visit or call much I want my baby

  • @leonardogabrieltrevinoloba2377

    @leonardogabrieltrevinoloba2377

    Ай бұрын

    Didn't you learn anything about what you just saw? You must let him go. He's your son, but not your property.

  • @AnnaGrace603

    @AnnaGrace603

    Ай бұрын

    He will if you love him (not smother him) and if you will grand him freedom and autonomy and create a healthy feel good relationship with him.

  • @liudmilat9125
    @liudmilat91254 жыл бұрын

    Дуже важлива і не проста тема. Дякую!

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    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @Gabrielgygy25
    @Gabrielgygy252 ай бұрын

    I cried so much bc of this story just has a lot to it but i also feel bad for the kid bc he could not live his life like he wanted to and that his mother sadly died 😢 dame i feel bad 😢😢😢😢 i have so much to this video im a pretty sesable person

  • @UrMom-ks8ld
    @UrMom-ks8ld3 жыл бұрын

    It is very deep and meaningful a mother that did not want to be seperated from her child great animation it makes my heart melt 😢♥️

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  • @Eleganc85

    @Eleganc85

    Жыл бұрын

    Stole his whole life!

  • @brokenprose7579
    @brokenprose75794 жыл бұрын

    I loved it. You deserve more love. ❤

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  • @toghraghaemmaghami8189
    @toghraghaemmaghami8189 Жыл бұрын

    An excellent depiction of morbid dependence which does not allow neither Mom nor child to live fulfilled. A double tragedy.

  • @anieningsih9724
    @anieningsih9724 Жыл бұрын

    I actually cried watching this video but because of, if the mother actually dies the son has no one keeping him company for a few examples, the scene when the mom finds a strand of white hair, and the scene when they were both watching tv and the son suddenly left, to me, the mom looked very sad and just wanted to have quality time with her son but he suddenly left. I do agree that the mom should've just cut the cord but yea. And at the end it looked that the mom was struggling very much and if she did cut the cord she would'nt have any one to take care of her. Anyway that's just my opinion soo..

  • @parappafan2010
    @parappafan2010 Жыл бұрын

    This clearly represents a mother who wants to hold on to her son forever unlike in most cases, the son would want to rely on HER forever. 1:44 Ayo 😳

  • @SkyBombNoodles
    @SkyBombNoodles4 жыл бұрын

    Hello an English comment.

  • @hailey4083

    @hailey4083

    4 жыл бұрын

    dis is also an English Reply

  • @brokenprose7579

    @brokenprose7579

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hello

  • @sorenlou

    @sorenlou

    3 жыл бұрын

    hello luz noceda

  • @marcusfilm1387

    @marcusfilm1387

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @indahfauzi6849
    @indahfauzi68494 ай бұрын

    My hubby has this type of mother, my mother in law. She always control my hubby behavior and commenting every our move even our vacations. She always criticizes us, makes my hubby being drunken person after confusing for loving his mother and his wife equally. Those lead him to our peak moment when his mother always pretends to be his hero and loving him in manipulation ways such as encouraging him to be alcoholic (as I never agree about it, I agree him for being casual drunken) when it’s clearly damage his own life just to take me out from his life. So I do it now, we were separated.

  • @pumabear2724
    @pumabear27243 жыл бұрын

    I loved watching this so much! It was was engaging from start to the end! A wonderfully done animation!

  • @marcusfilm1387

    @marcusfilm1387

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @marcusfilm1387

    @marcusfilm1387

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @huitzil1106
    @huitzil11064 жыл бұрын

    Excelente video para trabajo en clases o escuela para padres. Saludos desde Mexico

  • @marcusfilm1387

    @marcusfilm1387

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @tamarioreed2720
    @tamarioreed2720 Жыл бұрын

    We need a part 2

  • @myofficeon
    @myofficeon Жыл бұрын

    In the end, the son became a complete psycho in a mental asylum because he never had any family of his. And the stress and depression took a troll over him. The end scene shows how he was banging himself with the walls and furniture.

  • @justice1872
    @justice1872 Жыл бұрын

    Im 18 male. Still living this life. I to this date have not seem the outside world by myself. I have never been on my own outside the house. My mom never let me and now i have no friends and im still behind in school which i attend online. Idk when i will be free.