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@swetlona

2 жыл бұрын

Hiiii, love you

@toridoesit

2 жыл бұрын

Sup bozo

@vionarudkoley

2 жыл бұрын

Hey Bailey🥰

@kaylaamorelli-lacock7293

2 жыл бұрын

Haha hey there bozo 😂

@MiaTheBun

2 жыл бұрын

"women dont love me, all they want is money" brought to you by the man who, after his mother died, immediately sued his dad for money.

@paisleesheppard5629

2 жыл бұрын

😅

@jhko5439

2 жыл бұрын

i hate when rich men say this. the girl can easily flip it and say, “you only want me for my looks” i bet everything i have if Iana wasn’t pretty, he wouldn’t be with her

@orealleigh702

2 жыл бұрын

@@jhko5439 this reminds me of the marilyn monroe scene where she says exactly this in a movie. it’s 100% true. so many men demonize women for having “shallow” desires when they do the exact same

@quickchris10

2 жыл бұрын

Well I do think those women were after his money; I don't see any other appeal. They all deserved each other.

@jaelmao2214

2 жыл бұрын

@@quickchris10 he can’t complain abt iana liking his money when all he did to win her over was spend crazy amounts of money on her. like u cant buy a woman a condo & a car & then complain that she likes u for ur money.

Blake: "I'm poor" ☹ Also Blake: "Condos for everyone!"

@qbrown8367

2 жыл бұрын

😂

@aliciaveal1284

2 жыл бұрын

Right, thought the same

@bkliin

2 жыл бұрын

well he was '6 million' poor 😏

@kaallleeee

2 жыл бұрын

@@bkliin at least he got a small loan of $6M

@bkliin

2 жыл бұрын

@@kaallleeee lol yes!!

"All that money, you'd think he would've gotten a therapist." Best quote that is applicable in a lot of situations.

@stopthephilosophicalzombie9017

2 жыл бұрын

Money insulates people from their psychiatric problems also.

@Ace1.O

Жыл бұрын

yeah

@MalO.ver1.0.x

Жыл бұрын

But that would require self-awareness, which a lot of dipshits like him lack.

@nancydavis4618

Ай бұрын

A therapist can’t help a homocidal psychopath

Olga should have filed a lawsuit against the Police Department for ignoring her the first time and then for going there to check on Yana and leaving without actually physically seeing her alive! She'd gotten cash from that lawsuit then waiting on Blake to pay up cos he never would.

@meganl1738

10 ай бұрын

So true! Sounds like Olga was trying to get in at the same time her daughter was still alive. So very sad that it went down like this!

@sharonsmalls6846

2 ай бұрын

Olga received 41 million dollars from Blake’s family.

@nancydavis4618

Ай бұрын

Olga and the girlfriend were both being supported by Blake.

The first wife was so blessed that she was abandoned by Blake

@SeventhHouseandOak

2 жыл бұрын

I’m sure she definitely realized how lucky she was that he decided to walk away! That’s one of those blessings in disguise!!!

@Ipleadthefifth

2 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯

@GoddessSirenade

2 жыл бұрын

She was just to busying hating Lana to realize smh

@lolastclaire3062

2 жыл бұрын

He only killed Yana because he thought she was a mail order bride… e.i him saying women only want him for his money

@ChrundleTGreat

2 жыл бұрын

Blessed, fortunate, lucky, whatever it is she needs to count her lucky stats daily for the rest of her life. And if it was me, I’d take the opportunity to live my life to the fullest.

A mother's intuition. EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.

@higgsboson9509

2 жыл бұрын

Literally!!

@AuntyLeelee

2 жыл бұрын

👏 👏 👏 👏 yessss momas

@rifataramoma5934

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!

@nikkikragt5244

2 жыл бұрын

Imagine if the police actually did a welfare check the first time she called, maybe Iana was still alive

@pinkimietz3243

2 жыл бұрын

@@nikkikragt5244 Thank you for spoiling, Nikki! 🙄

I'm just glad the tiny baby was with grandma, I cant imagine what that monster would have done to such a tiny defenseless baby. I'm so relieved shes ok. I'm sure grandma will tell her how beautiful and wonderful her mom was when she grows up.

Her mother absolutely broke my heart. She was trying so hard to save her daughter!! 😭😭

I appreciated you defending her reason for not "just leaving" him. Abusive relationship are so hard to leave. The addiction to their love is so real and sometimes they convince you that no one else could love you

@cameliathomas9452

2 жыл бұрын

Especially because they love bomb you so it makes you addicted to those love bomb moments. When they stop love bombing you feel like your yearning that love bombing again. Narcissist people are the worst

@jimwilliams4532

2 жыл бұрын

Bailey is for real! She knows people and she knows what's up! That's why we all love her work!

@sukai121

2 жыл бұрын

I was so thankful that she said that

@jacquelinebarrera4430

2 жыл бұрын

555th like

@Mr.Sp0cK

2 жыл бұрын

Well... but she got very quickly pregnant... Hope she wasn't a GD

I cannot imagine how Olga felt knowing her daughter was in danger but no one would help her. I would die.

@blackqueen4737

2 жыл бұрын

Right cops are so ignorant sometimes

@aeronalex8007

2 жыл бұрын

Well her daughter died.

@noni6903

2 жыл бұрын

@@aeronalex8007 ????

@kamogelomaile

2 жыл бұрын

@@aeronalex8007 …she could’ve been alive still had the police just done their job?

@sarahriddle499

2 жыл бұрын

The fact that she was a foreigner (and a woman) probably factored into the police not taking her seriously

I can’t imagine how it looked like she was peacefully sleeping when cops first arrived - with portions of her face and most of her hair missing?!

The way Bailey tells the story is like sitting with a friend who’s spilling the major tea

@reallyjustmetho

Жыл бұрын

Welcome to MMM

Personal opinion: Anyone that smiles in their mugshot is not only guilty of the crime but they are proud of what they have done.

@Ipleadthefifth

2 жыл бұрын

💯💯

@alexfischer855

2 жыл бұрын

My ex has a smiling mugshot. Even made it his pfp. Definitely true.

@lulusfunvideos7071

2 жыл бұрын

@@alexfischer855 🤯🤯🤯

@purplerain2314

2 жыл бұрын

They love to bulge their eyes in mugshots too I've noticed.

@dachellmcghee8901

2 жыл бұрын

I couldn't agree more

It's awful to hear she was alive for 8 hours after being scalped. What if she was still alive during Olga's initial pleas?!? The police should have helped immediately. They should have insisted on seeing her like they are supposed to do.

@mandy4898

2 жыл бұрын

I don't think she was alive because her mom's intuition felt when her daughters soul left her body. Just my opinion as to why her mom KNEW something was wrong AT that time of that exact day.

@leviacronym6770

2 жыл бұрын

That particular thought did cross my mind. Yana could have still been alive at the time, after all. If the police had demanded more strongly to see Yana then maybe they would have found her still alive. It's happened several times where a mother or other relative or friend got this bad feeling and was ignored by the police and others. Some of the time the victim could have been saved. It's sad.

@fbiagent3998

2 жыл бұрын

@@mandy4898 how is that proof she wasn't alive? She could have well been alive except slowly succumbing to her injuries. It legit said she was alive for 8 hours

@solomeaquinn4708

2 жыл бұрын

@@mandy4898 please….just don’t. BABY NEEDED MILK.

@maryammunir9567

2 жыл бұрын

@@mandy4898 p o p

Bailey, I can see how this reporting of monsters can get you down. But please remember you're not just a storyteller but also an educator. A lot of us have benefitted from your insights, and have learned to take a closer look at "charming" people, to think twice, to be skeptical instead of gullible. No one knows how many lives you have saved. We thank you and we love you.

@kimberlymartin5653

Жыл бұрын

Ty I really do try to be wrong... but generally in mind only?

Wow Bailey actually wanted the death sentence for once. You know it's bad.

Genuinely trying to understand how they said she looked “peaceful” after the description of what her body looked like.

@tea013

2 жыл бұрын

Same thing! That was going through my mind the entire time Bailey was describing the state of Jana's body...

@moriahschoech9894

2 жыл бұрын

I can only imagine if she bled to death that she was loopy and out of it. I hope that she was kinda "high" and just drifted off.

@angryotter9129

2 жыл бұрын

@@moriahschoech9894 um. As someone who has almost bled to death, you can absolutely feel pain still. It’s not as peaceful as the media depicts it.

@PiXie232

2 жыл бұрын

@@angryotter9129 oh goodness! I’m so glad you’re ok!♥️ That must have been absolutely terrifying…

@jimwilliams4532

2 жыл бұрын

I thought the exact same thing. How does a person with no scalp and a face missing pieces look peaceful. That was a weird observation.

Whenever Bailey starts to use family and friends’ descriptions of someone (smart, beautiful, always happy), they definitely die shortly after in the story.

@sugarbritches9745

2 жыл бұрын

I was thinking the first wife would be the victim but then she started talking about how the family described Iana and I said “oh… 😞 this isn’t gonna end will for her “

@sukai121

2 жыл бұрын

Every tc doc ever 😣 I always know who will die bc they always use past tense

@itsKalinko

2 жыл бұрын

Happens in movies too, if a character talks about how they want to see their family and they miss them, they die

@livyh5618

2 жыл бұрын

Nah she also uses past tense words like “was” and “would” it’s not really hard to tell

@purplenurple6278

2 жыл бұрын

Sometimes i think it's because evil people want to take away the brightness in someone else..

I feel so bad for Yana's daughter. Growing up knowing your father did that to your mother😢💔 May her life be bright and beautiful🙏🏽

@sarahissersohn5495

4 күн бұрын

That’s really gotta be the worst. My parents didn’t get along when I was younger, and any time I felt close to one, I would feel I was being disloyal to the other - def has made relationships super challenging as teen and adult.

"You could be an adult and take care of it but just ghost them it's easier" Bailey is my spirit animal 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@eej1983able

Жыл бұрын

I went woohoo!!! Lolol

Parents- say “no” to your kids. This guy obviously was never told no and was never disciplined as a child

@guineveremoonmist1060

2 жыл бұрын

WORD.

@yona4121

2 жыл бұрын

YUP YUP YUUUUUP

@munginosal2135

2 жыл бұрын

Yup like it's fine to spoil them but never let them be a spoiled brat

@509wildflower

2 жыл бұрын

@@munginosal2135 a spoiled brat into ADULTHOOD

@UrrmmWut...

2 жыл бұрын

In this generation of parents i swear saying no to their kids they feel is a form of abUSe. 😂😂 lol I'm just joking (for those Karen's out there who don't know what joking is)😒

“rawdogging it… i think im using that term right…” BAILEY. IM DYING.

@tghneim3319

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@vkngwmn6636

2 жыл бұрын

Bare backing it...

@kelseyhess2561

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! I about spit my drink out laughing so hard!!!

@TiffanyStarr2141

2 жыл бұрын

I literally can't stop laughing over that

@baileywidener3860

2 жыл бұрын

SPIT MY COKE OUT EVERYWHERE, LET ME TELL YA

the poor girl and her mother shes just left to take care of the baby of the man who brutally killed her daughter without him even showing any signs of guilt or even paying for child support i cant even begin to imagine and the fact this all couldve been avoided if the police just listened to her its so sad.

He killed the one that could of got away. Ladies, when you leave, LEAVE!

Shout out to Bailey for addressing the "why didn't she jst leave" thing EVERY TIME! 😏😏 Proud of you x

@JDM-is-my-name

2 жыл бұрын

Same, it makes me feel strangely safe. Like even if someone asked this of me, if I was in that situation, I feel like Bailey at the very least would understand

@carrie9960

2 жыл бұрын

Yes I love her for that!

@sfspurri

2 жыл бұрын

Basically a relationship involving domestic abuse is like being in a gang or a cult and wanting to leave it - and you’re the only member. So all the abuses endured by cult members (see: people trying to leave Jonestown) and gang members (beat downs and torture and sometimes death, but the “leader” has no one else to focus their attention on but their victim). I really wish I could understand why this concept is so difficult for people to wrap their heads around. I’m more of a product of this type of toxic relationship than a direct victim so I don’t know if that plays into it but I was 7 when my mom finally left so I wasn’t even old enough to understand the dynamics at the time.

@maggiekarabel123

2 жыл бұрын

YESSSS normalize talking about this!!! Bailey always does and it’s important to say. She also never tolerates victim shaming.

@velocitygirl8551

2 жыл бұрын

YESSSS

Me: **waking up and watching Bailey** My Boyfriend: "aren't these a little dark for 6am?" Me: "nay nay, I say"

@juliedavis2996

2 жыл бұрын

Totally me too !

@leviacronym6770

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed. I watch these on my work breaks (which are on the morning)

@danimcdonnell4283

2 жыл бұрын

I listen at 5 AM on my way to work 😂

@vannessaherron-blunt4599

2 жыл бұрын

🤣😂 My husband thinks I shouldn't be watching!! Don't wanna give me any ideas!

@deannaduarte7910

2 жыл бұрын

Never too early lol

What I love most about Bailey’s videos is that you can literally tune in at any time stamp and you’ll know everything that’s going on and you’ll know everybody’s name she’s just so very detailed with all these stories and I really appreciate it

$18,000/month in allowance, the millions of dollars for the sell of his mother's two homes and $6 million from his mom's estate. I feel like no parent should ever split up their children. They should have shared custody of their sons, not one parent take one son and the other take the other son. I do not understand how they thought doing this would help their son's grow into productive members of socitey...

It's so interesting that the police officers were able to leave without seeing Yana. When social workers on crisis teams go for wellness checks we HAVE to see the person/client/patient we are checking on as a part of our assessment and duty of care - we literally cannot leave until we see the client.

@ElviraN.

2 жыл бұрын

But this brat was super rich so they probably took his word. It makes me sick to see how they handle rich people differently!

@NotIfWhen

2 жыл бұрын

Money.

@dallasbeelek4470

2 жыл бұрын

@@ElviraN. money is the root of all evil 🤷🏻‍♀️

@dawnpalmby5100

2 жыл бұрын

Should b a standard in every police department to have social workers and the standards described there in the original comment!! Unsung heroes that literally save lives! 💙

@erikaalbert929

2 жыл бұрын

It probably became standard after this.

She lived for 8 hours after that...I can't imagine the horror she went through...

@KerrieStarr

2 жыл бұрын

Ya, that was one of the things that made my eyes bulge . Poor thing

@amberwieck6732

2 жыл бұрын

Not to mention the cops were more than likely there that first time as she was sitting there, scalped and tortured, slowly dying…

@Bisexualdragon4042

2 жыл бұрын

The part that gets me is that mom might have been able to stop if the police Just Listened to her. She might still be alive if police just took women more seriously. (ㆆ_ㆆ)

@malissahenry5105

2 жыл бұрын

This truly disturbed my spirit....😩

@clarethorogood8381

2 жыл бұрын

I felt sick at this point. If only the officers hadn’t left on that first visit - she may have been saved.

I hate it when moms get hurt. It just hits different when you've been the mommy to a newborn. They need us so badly, there is so many victims when one mom gets hurt.

30:00 Thank you for saying this part about "why didn't she just leave?" - It's sooo true with the brainwashing and becoming addicted to a person. Never understood it until it happened to me!! Attachment trauma, power dynamics and manipulation are a serious poison cocktail!!

The only thing that makes Monday bearable ❤️

@gabbygordon73

2 жыл бұрын

Factsssss

@namantherockstar

2 жыл бұрын

*SARIAN* is my inspiration!! My mom said that if I got 30k subscribers!! She definitely buy me a professional mic!! *begging you GUYS alot* literally begging.!..

@kagamine-rin

2 жыл бұрын

@@namantherockstar I think your mom is scamming you

@StormSongs7

2 жыл бұрын

Ain’t that the truth.

@shannontallent6324

2 жыл бұрын

Yesssssss

Wait a minute . The cops come out for a wellness check and leave because HE says she’s alright ??? That’s what a wellness check is for . They aren’t supposed to leave till they talk to her .

@showchoirvideos3930

2 жыл бұрын

Yea my ex sent the cops for a wellness check on me but I wasn't home and the cops wouldn't leave my house until my mom called me and they talked to me

@lorrainearmstrong7587

Жыл бұрын

THESE cops did NOT do their jobs well

@michellemybelle6853

Жыл бұрын

They should be charged with negligence at the very LEAST

@peacefulmonkey7368

Жыл бұрын

When you’re rich and powerful, cops often look the other way. 😕

@alexandriamyers5978

Жыл бұрын

Same thing happened with Gabby Petito’s case when they were pulled over a week or so before she went missing. Bystanders who saw him screaming at her at a gas station or restaurant they stopped at on the road ended up calling the cops on him. The cops caught up to them and Bryan managed to not only talk his way out of suspicion of abuse, but framed it to the cops that SHE abused HIM - AND THEY CITED HER. All the footage is on the internet if you search, but it just goes to show how much the ol blue boys club care less about the word of a woman…it’s sad and costs women their lives in situations like this.

"Being evil little rodents;" "you need to take care of me, I'm the baby;" love Bailey girl's quote.

The fact that he like had married someone was engaged and then had a side chick and said he loved her then literally killed her without thinking how the baby’s going to grow up this was more sad then like just how I normally react😭

unrelated but i really hope bailey is feeling better, i know for a minute she was really drained doing these videos week after week. im glad she takes a week off a month 💞

@greeenishblue

2 жыл бұрын

Same!! We love you Bailey! It’s probably best we get a break too sometimes!

@klpiatt1972

2 жыл бұрын

I love your channel and if you need a vacation you should take it. Take a month if you need it.

@skylerfelverartwork8954

2 жыл бұрын

If you take off i just binge all your videos!

@mamamaria6206

2 жыл бұрын

I believe she took a month off seems like a couple months ago.

@bookssolitude6519

2 жыл бұрын

@@mamamaria6206 yeah she did.

Thanks Bailey for the “Why doesn’t she leave” convo! Abusers break you down, one piece at a time. With control, isolation and dependency you literally feel like the Abuser is all you have in the world. Don’t judge, instead try supporting and understanding, and of course advocate the abused by providing a safe place for them. This a tough subject to tackle. And by opening up a dialogue, Bailey made it all just a little easier to talk and understand.

@madhatter7328

2 жыл бұрын

agreed. this is an odd comment considering the content of your message, but your picture is warming to look at. I am injured and can't ride right now, so it's nice 😔🌥️

@love-in6hk

2 жыл бұрын

not only that, it’s easy to excuse someone’s behavior when you love them. she deserved better :(

@LMCSM

2 жыл бұрын

Were you married to a guy names Tom by any chance?

@cyndymcfarlin8537

2 жыл бұрын

@@madhatter7328 ?????

@TallulahFoxxx

2 жыл бұрын

@@cyndymcfarlin8537 they’re talking about the horse in the photo lol 👌

Bailey I love you 😭 thank you so much for saying that about people in violent /toxic relationships. It is most definitely weird and hard and it does feel impossible. It’s legit brainwashing. Cause after going on four months I’ve gotten a full time job my own house and am supporting my two young girls ✊🏻💪🏼 we CAN do it y’all ❤

@sarahissersohn5495

4 күн бұрын

Go Mama Go!! You’ve saved all 3 of you- now just add a dog (if circumstances allow) and you’ve got a beautiful healthy home 💜⚡️

“Hey Bozo” - The only person that makes me smile when I’m insulted

For wellness checks they HAVE to see the person. Those police officers didn’t follow procedures.

@jacquelineoconnell2833

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@lifeisweird7459

2 жыл бұрын

I was gonna say-

@donnahodges5596

2 жыл бұрын

Imagine that! SMH ! UGH 😡

@paranormalelizabeth

Жыл бұрын

I thought that was how a wellness check worked.

I literally GASPED when Blake closed the window in front of the Mom. The AUDACITY!

@rinottaaustin

2 жыл бұрын

I would have gotten a rock and busted it looking for my daughter

Your commitment to self care has inspired me more than you’ll ever know. I love that you unapologetically take time to keep yourself from becoming too bogged down with the heavy content. Thank you for doing what you do!! Ily ❤

Thank u for giving awareness on how tough it is to just leave such relationship

“They said she looked almost peaceful” - missing eyebrow, skin town down to her chin, completely scalped, bite marks on face, ear missing 🥴

@AdrienneAJ

2 жыл бұрын

My thoughts exactly!

@sukai121

2 жыл бұрын

Right???

@shay2218

2 жыл бұрын

IKR!? Also your emoji choice was on point. 😋

@JennyShuttleworth

2 жыл бұрын

Not what happened as it’s horrific but this comment made me laugh your right on ! I dread to think what a non peaceful person looks like to them

@gaynorbrooker9037

2 жыл бұрын

ALMOST peaceful.. perhaps they meant there was no look of terror on her face, and those missing parts happened after...

I really appreciate Bailey commenting about how hard it can be to leave a toxic relationship. People make that comment all the time like it’s so easy. But then when the victim dies suddenly it’s a different story.

@YS-nr8ys

2 жыл бұрын

Right? As a new mother, with no ties or steady income of your own, you're not going to just up and leave the (extremely wealthy) father of your child just because of some relational issues, not to downplay the clearly toxic behavior..

@missycz2196

2 жыл бұрын

I think people say this to feel like that would never happen to them. Oh I would just of left. When in reality people don't know what they would do until they are in those specific circumstances. It makes people feel like they have the control over their lives to protect themselves from becoming a victim. I always see victim blaming as a type of denial people have over how vulnerable we all are in reality. It's an easy go to, but really it doesn't help anyone. I'm glad Bailey is wise enough to try to shut it down.

@Stephanie-yv5lb

2 жыл бұрын

@@missycz2196 couldn’t agree more. Even some of the strongest people get caught in these toxic, violent relationships.

I cried so much during this video. Imagine how her Mum felt? And that little baby grows up without her Mama.

This story was the most upsetting you have talked about. I found myself wanting to cry for Ayana (sic). I hope her mom is able to enjoy her grandchild. She was at least left a part of her daughter after that monster took her baby from her.

Worst part is that she was probably still alive when her mom was trying to get the cops to go into the apartment the 1st time.

@katiemechenbier4172

2 жыл бұрын

@hsweety hilton Hundred percent. My mom was my wakeup call for my last bf. She said he was uninvited from her house forever because she didn't feel comfortable around him, and that was the day I started looking for a way out. I knew he was bad, but the idea of her being like "hey, you're an adult and I can't stop you from marrying this guy but he's never going to be part of our family" was absolutely the push I needed. Parents just know, you know?

@QueenKristiana

2 жыл бұрын

This actually made me cry.

The fact that there are people in the world that are capable of things like this just walking around is so chilling and makes me want to be a hermit in my room chillin w my cat and never come out

@ThirrinDiamond

2 жыл бұрын

Thats called agoraphobia and don't do yourself like that sis, get a therapist + protective equipment (defense spray, r*pe alarm etc etc) 💗

@AlmahaJedna

2 жыл бұрын

Same 😣 even though I live in a safe country

@reactionx1041

2 жыл бұрын

Be glad most of them never act on their inner evilness

@agnimaya...

2 жыл бұрын

same, girl

@GrandmaCathy

2 жыл бұрын

100%

I totally love how you talk normally like we are having lunch and are best friends. You don't sensor. For the most part. You probably have to hold back some language anger. You are you.... love that. 🤗

still on my bailey binge😆💗

The police really failed this poor woman. They just left and took Blakes word that she was ok! SERIOUSLY!!! I hope that monster rots in prison for what he did.

@carnuatus

2 жыл бұрын

It's sadly so common.

@JustTanya.

2 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately, the justice system fails a lot of people, except maybe other cops. 🤷🏻‍♀️

@blcksvvan

2 жыл бұрын

Classic mysoginy

@hot5nack520

2 жыл бұрын

Do u guys think she was still alive when they visited the first time that's sad the cops are useless

@tori_girlonline800

2 жыл бұрын

@@hot5nack520 that's what I wanted to know!!

important note: you don't have to wait 24 hours to report someone missing, especially if you think they're a victim of foul play. police may say this but this can vary depending on the department, not the law

@funsizedi88

2 жыл бұрын

In my state, they issue gold alerts for missing "at risk" adults within 4 hrs. So if they were upset/have a history of self harm, mentally ill or disabled in anyway. I really like that, as it has helped people be found before something happened, or after something happened but in time to save them. A lot can happen in 24 hrs, and I cannot believe the police try that bs.

the greyhound bus case gave me hella nightmares

When you talked about toxic relationships circa 28 min, perfect description. Thank you for consistently putting words to things that can be impossible to describe.

When she starts talking about the “why didn’t she just leave” it literally made me tear up because she’s right it’s so hard to explain and she explains it to the best of her ability which I think is so true. Been there.

@dejavoodu521

2 жыл бұрын

I grew up in an abusive home. I feel your pain.

@kellydedman1720

2 жыл бұрын

I think most women can resonate in some way sadly

@MaikasCooking

2 жыл бұрын

Me too. I feel you.

@breeshealove

2 жыл бұрын

You and me both sis. Unfortunately being in toxic relationship is very hard to leave. It’s more of the fact you’re afraid of being alone more so but then again I can’t answer for everyone it’s always different reasons and if you haven’t been in one you wouldn’t understand but I completely get it. We are all human Edit: might I add I hope you’re ok x

@irmamarie52

2 жыл бұрын

Gaslighting is very real 😞

I'm here for Bailey Sarian low-key admitting to being a survivor of narcissistic abuse

@Amartinez84

2 жыл бұрын

It's sad how you can always tell just by the look in someone's eyes....even more sad when it's because you yourself have had that look or have it when u speak of it.

@MakeupbyRyno

2 жыл бұрын

@@Amartinez84 100% wishing anyone who has gone through this recovery and healing and that you never allow yourself to experience that again nor taint your future

@chanellejade6206

2 жыл бұрын

True that! We don’t ever have to experience that again.

@sickgurl138

2 жыл бұрын

I felt her so much during this...too many memories brought back 😕

@Anonymous-54545

2 жыл бұрын

Not all emotional abuse is narcissistic. Clinical narcissism is a very specific thing and there's been way too liberal use of that term on the internet lately. I agree that Blake seems like he has it based on him "throwing fits" and stuff (vulnerable narcissism), but that doesn't mean Bailey's abuse was that.

Thank You for your comments about Yana and why she didn’t just leave. I had to see two therapist, just to breakup with my last boyfriend. He called me a month ago, after two years and I saw him. Then I realized he hasn’t changed and I deserve more.

That blue stuff that lights up the blood is called Luminal! It’s a chemical that activates with the chemical components in blood. Love your videos!! 💕💕💜💜

I was was with a narcissist for 7 years, we had two kids, and yes, they absolutely make you feel like you need them, or you’ll be nothing without them. I’m out and safe now, but this could be anyone in a narcissistic relationship. So scary!

@thamaragomez69

2 жыл бұрын

This happened to my mom, it took her 20 years to leave my dad (a clear narcissist) and she was the one providing to the house not him and even in a situation like that were they don't even provide financially they still make you think you need them and is super hard to leave them. I'm glad you're safe and I totally relate

@doodles1331

2 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that you're safe now - take care ((': 💛

@kb5552

2 жыл бұрын

And in every case it's them that needs u

@amsel_in_defense

2 жыл бұрын

Same same same.

@pamhenley7488

2 жыл бұрын

So true

Blake: "I'm the only one who ever loved mother! " Everyone else: Mother was the only one who loved you.

@MrCheeryeah

2 жыл бұрын

I don’t think so, his wives definitely loved him

@Lust2004Life

2 жыл бұрын

@@MrCheeryeah they loved his money. not him. he even said it himself.

"He only got 6 million dollars" Oh no what a tragedy.

Horrific. I can't even comprehend that level of evil. Brings tears to my eyes.

Why do women almost always blame each other for a man cheating? Like, he clearly is not loyal and isn’t going to change for you. Poor Iana, may she Rest In Peace.

@ladycobrana852

2 жыл бұрын

I believe it’s because we are taught that they are our everything and that other girls are competition.

The scratches and cuts on his face for the mugshot make me cry because it just show that she fought for her life

@srijonibardhan8083

11 ай бұрын

Man he ordered food while she was dying in the other room...

@neeltjeschmidt

8 ай бұрын

@@srijonibardhan8083and let her BLEED OUT for several hours until she died… I can’t even begin to imagine the excruciating pain she must have endured 😢

@bethtinx

4 ай бұрын

@@srijonibardhan8083if only the delivery person had heard screaming or become suspicious of Blake and called the police before she died 😣

That blue makeup is so pretty on her!!

Her castify add is like a comedy bit I've literally never felt happier in the morning like she should get paid extra for how Gold that was. ''People with out a case are rawdogging it, they're wild be wary if you meet one'''' hahaha

Bailey: Reviews murderers for a living.. Also Bailey: " you ever see someone without a phone case... that persons wild .. that persons DANGEROUS!"

@mangamama9881

2 жыл бұрын

I don't have one... I ain't dangerous. I just noticed when I put a case on my phone the battery suddenly drops 20%. That's why I don't use one

@JennyShuttleworth

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

@alyh9970

2 жыл бұрын

Blake def didn't have a phone case.

@christymarie6291

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah me freaking out now because I haven't had a phone case for about 3 weeks now. I swear I'm not dangerous. My phone can only charge on a charging pad. I so need a new phone. Lol

@DaiNoShoujoNoYami

2 жыл бұрын

I feel personally attacked lol 😆

“Dumb little rowboat” - my new favourite insult.

@stephanieracicot5916

2 жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same thing

I've been in odd situationships when I was young and yes sometimes there are things in the middle that make you want to stay despite the toxic relationship...thankfully I've always has a very strong character and always just walked away without looking back 😅

Can you imagine being the post mates delivery person and you find out you delivered and interacted with a guy while his victim was still alive?

I remember this story. He scalped her and after that, she fought him for hours, she fought hard to get out. When her mum came to the door she was still alive, when the police did the welfare check she was still alive. He was an animal. I can't remember who I watched telling this story but I think it might have been Stephanie Harlow or That Chapter. That poor girl, I hope she is resting peacefully.

@alysbaah-danso5278

2 жыл бұрын

Wow, I’m surprised she survived all that but sorta not with the description of her character about being a fighter. No wonder there was a lot of blood around the apartment

@dofriday

2 жыл бұрын

I thought that maybe that’s why he had all those barricades because the poor woman was trying to get out

@hvymtlangel

Жыл бұрын

Wait, so does anyone know his motive? I’m so confused.

@laughingcorrpseholly4136

Жыл бұрын

@@hvymtlangel yeah I was confused about the motive too. My only thought was that he lost it and went insane or something when she left him. But I just don’t understand what happened what possessed him to call her over and telling her sorry he wanted to be with her… like how long was she over there before he attacked her? Did they work it out and then he attacked her anyway? Did they not work it out and argue and she just was like no no, I’m done and he lost it? Like… what… he sounds like a man child with greed who’s controlling and narcissistic but what made him snap like that?? Like what happened in between him texting her to come back and talk and then him attacking her? 😳 this is going to keep me up tonight…

@fehyndana7725

Жыл бұрын

@@laughingcorrpseholly4136 persecutors said he was angry that Iana paid too much attention to their newborn daughter and less on him. It’s common that men get jealous of a new baby but he’s an extremely sociopathic case!

I understand why Bailey takes time off because I started tearing up when she started describing the state of that poor girl. I had to pause the video for a breather. Whew!

@1800badbiz

2 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way, while most of her videos are by no means easy to listen to, this one really hit harder. Made me sick to my stomach in a way I haven’t felt in a while

@QueenKristiana

2 жыл бұрын

@@1800badbiz same. I think it’s because we know she was slowly dying while her mom tried to get to her

The police not following through with the wellness check SENT me 😡 Like clearly something is wrong with the guy being all sketch and on top of that why would a new mother go MIA on their 3 week old baby?!? Ugh!!

Oh man and the mom tried so hard to save her

He cut off her scalp and face... her BEAUTY. Her beauty that made her a living before he came along. And with him a narcissist, her beauty was likely the only reason he was with her since they were "opposites" otherwise.

@gabutterfly2855

2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree.

@Cassandrareads

Жыл бұрын

She was a former prosecutor in Ukrainian before coming to US. She was more than beautiful

“Just ghost them. Ghosting them is easier” Love that Bailey

20:28 hey bailey! i know you probably weren’t talking about people with trauma when you were talking about “i hate you, don’t leave me” behavior. i grew up in a very toxic household(narcissistic abuse from my father and really unhealthy relationship with my sister) and growing up in that environment when i was gaslit and blamed for basically everything i developed Borderline Personality Disorder(BPD) and this is one thing we often do. it’s caused by black and white thinking, which is the only way my brain knows. something so minor can happen with a loved one and we split, which means we lash out in attempt to protect ourselves from abandonment(which we have great fear of), whether it’s rational or not, and often push people away, only to wake up the next day or calm down down after a few hours and realize that we just argued with someone for what seems like no reason to most people. we feel extremely guilty afterwards. it pains us probably twice as much as it does the other person. people with bpd live through emotional agony constantly. no medication helps, because it’s the way our brains are hardwired due to persistent neglect and/or abuse. i just wanted to let you this because i have experienced this with my loved ones, it’s not always intentional. i loathe myself for the pain i put my closest friends and family through. it’s not easy for anyone and this whole explanation probably sounds like manipulation but it’s how i live and it’s so hard. also i’m not saying that this was the case for blake, but saying that people should cut off those type of people is harmful as it’s not a choice for people with Borderline Personality Disorder.

I feel they should remind prisoners to not smile before the picture because sometimes its just instinct to smile when your picture is being taken . A too don't know if I could ever go to my mom funeral because I'm traumatized. I have very vivid dreams every night deonding in what I did and such, so id have nightmares for days,weeks,months. I don't know if I can do that man. I think of death often and its been something thats bothered me and I wish I could be normal and wanna go to the funeral ,but I just can't handle it. I went to my dads at 9 years old and im 23,still traumatized

This is SO wrong. When there’s a wellness check, the cops must see and speak with the person. Totally inept.

@caldehh

2 жыл бұрын

Nat really. Many times wellness checks are completes hours upon hours of the call amde because they are placed in the back burner. Police try to run out the clock and many cases are not really followed up. Police don't have a mandate to do so.

@Yes-iu3kr

2 жыл бұрын

Imagine for a moment, you have an abusive ex. You finally get away. The person keeps lurking around your new house trying to stalk you. They start calling you nonstop and then knock incessantly on your door day after day. That person calls and requests a welfare check - says they are your parent and they know you are being beaten inside the house. The person goes near your house and waits. The police show up. They knock. You don't want to answer. Could be because the toxicity of the relationship has trained you not to tell police. Or maybe you don't like police. Whatever it is, you stay quiet. Your roommate tells them you're fine. The whole time, the ex is hidden, waiting to get a glimpse of you. The police know they have no legal grounds for entering the home. So thry have three choices - (1) accept that you dont want to speak to police, note that there were no sounds of distress, and leave (2) leave now but follow up later if possible (3) insist on speaking directly to you, wait hours until you decide to exit the house for work, ignore the many other calls for help that thry are needed for, and end up with your roommate calling to place a formal complaint that the police are stalking and harassing you both because they won't leave. This type of situation isn't a one off. There is a reason that police have to walk a thin line between the rights of an individual and the power to knock down a door to check on them.

@ambereyedbabygirl

2 жыл бұрын

You're right. The excuses given above may be true but they aren't right and are still incompetent

Olga is an icon of a mother. Everything she went through for her daughter ❤️

@chesleighjensen7380

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed. I was sick imagining what she went through while listening to that in the courtroom.

@musicariess29

2 жыл бұрын

I can’t stand the fact that she tried to report her missing and the police just didn’t care… :( just makes me so sad. I hope Olga knows she did everything she could

@Rachel-fi4sc

2 жыл бұрын

I just really hope that, with her limited knowledge of English, Olga didn't understand the details of what happened.

blake is absolutely vile. i feel sick. i feel so terrible for Iana, imagine going through all of that

How could they say that she almost looked peaceful she was SCALPED, missing an ear AND an eyebrow??!!

Makeup is flawless. We expect nothing less from the multitasking queen.

@oliannabishop

2 жыл бұрын

@@paulwaltersheherfeministvl521 Be the 3rd and dye your hair blonde. Problem solved🥱

@maggiemccormick6088

2 жыл бұрын

Meanwhile my makeup will be all over the place

@Noellevrr

2 жыл бұрын

It’s pure wizardry ✨

@kenzahcarstairs5417

2 жыл бұрын

666

@alexxxajones

2 жыл бұрын

When you watch old videos, she has LEARNED an amazing skill to talk and makeup ~*flawlessly*~

The worst part of this whole thing wasn't even mentioned... the neighbours could hear screaming and crying through those 8 hours. And they did nothing.

@jessicaemmit4062

2 жыл бұрын

😳 WHAT THE F**k

@SouthernGoddess777

2 жыл бұрын

🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺😢😢😢😢😢😢

@Yumnitroglycerin

2 жыл бұрын

Shawty how is that the worst thing

@LuViS4eVer20

2 жыл бұрын

I hadn't even thought about that

@partiprocanada

2 жыл бұрын

I was wondering about that! Wondering how nobody heard anything. I guess they did then eh. How awful

Olga should have sued the police department. I don't know if it would have worked but still. They didn't listen and it may have been able to be prevented had they listened.

He told the police that he didn't know she was dead but was clearly missing a scalp, ear, and eyebrow??

Me : gotta go sleep Bailey : hi friends, how are you today? Me : nevermind sleep

@namantherockstar

2 жыл бұрын

*SARIAN* is my inspiration!! My mom said that if I got 30k subscribers!! She definitely buy me a professional mic!! *begging you GUYS alot* literally begging.!..

@GH0STMIILK

2 жыл бұрын

Hi bakugo

@roceliacaraballo7770

2 жыл бұрын

Priorities…I get it

@cherrybomb1386

2 жыл бұрын

Time to go to work Bailey: hey Bozo Me: ok I'll be there by 2 gotta watch this video

@swetlona

2 жыл бұрын

@@GH0STMIILK hi saiki k

Olga knowing where her daughter was and being unable to just walk into their condo is the worst feeling ever of helplessness. I got anxiety from the imagining Olga standing with the cops holding her granddaughter and telling her she was fine and to go home. Like, what?!?!?

@feliciaroseantonia

2 жыл бұрын

Right??? Like, the whole time I was wondering to myself "Soooo... Where are the repercussions for the cops who brushed off Olga & failed to do a proper wellness check for Yana...????"

@Happypotato917

2 жыл бұрын

@@feliciaroseantonia literally

@SeventhHouseandOak

2 жыл бұрын

I feel like it isn’t a true wellness check. I thought you had to lay eyes on the person and hear their voice. Had to be his privilege!

@Angelica-Pickles

2 жыл бұрын

@@feliciaroseantonia I feel like they should be charged with manslaughter tbh

@beaagustin6951

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah right like where are the police when you need the most!! Some of them!!! You know I think when you want to become a police officer you should have conscience! TO protect and TO serve - the people not MONEY!!

literally in 2023 ima need for people to get out of abusive situations fr. Love is NEVER disrespectful.. NEVER...

No but fr his mugshot has given me nightmares 😭 his eyes are so wide and his smile screams satan

I feel like the only “punishment” for cold blooded killers, is if they die the exact same way, their victims had to die.

@PhoenixLyon

2 жыл бұрын

Not punishment. Justice.✌😸

@merryEngland

2 жыл бұрын

Eye for an eye. Yes.

@jessicamickel5224

2 жыл бұрын

That’s how I feel about murderers/molesters. Eye for and eye mfker. Period. And if they KNEW that was gonna happen to them, maybe they would think twice.

@bellakitty2755

2 жыл бұрын

If only they could die numerous times ( the total number of their victims)

@rhiwillow8090

2 жыл бұрын

Fr. I believe we shouldn't test on animals, instead test on these fkrs

I feel so bad for Iana and her family, she didn't deserve this BS. Also it breaks my heart that the neighbours didn't report her screams or anything during her hours-long ordeal. RIP ❣️

@dead1line

2 жыл бұрын

@@NOBODY-fz3im slowly too. They should take their time with the torture.

@kyle11704

2 жыл бұрын

That's what I was thinking the whole time!! How did the neighbors not hear anything going on??

@TheJessicahammerly

2 жыл бұрын

I was wondering like could no one hear this?!

@Emily_Burgess89

2 жыл бұрын

Did they live in a really remote area? Because if not, I feel like there's no way that NOBODY could hear all of that going on...

@XoxoxShelbs

2 жыл бұрын

@@Emily_Burgess89 she said it was in their West Hollywood apartment .. so sad

I normal don't get bothered by cases but this one really disturbed me

16:57 loved it when you said, "I was about to say 12,000" lol I feel ya, we peasants aren't used to money in large sums.

nobody: bailey: “rawdoggin their phone” me: “😂 bailey i don’t think you’re using that term corr-“ bailey: “i think i’m using that term correctly” me: “…i stand corrected. 😂” gotta love this queen 💕

@tink2247

2 жыл бұрын

you are so beautiful 🤩🤩🤩

@brandynettleton1658

2 жыл бұрын

Without protection?? I think it was a really out of the box use of the term! 😂 😂 😂

@bellaboopixi

2 жыл бұрын

I'm at work and I doubled over laughing at that 😂

@kerryspeck6875

2 жыл бұрын

I had the exact same conversation with myself!! Jinx! I owe you a Coke

@foreverlondon22

2 жыл бұрын

@@kerryspeck6875 😂😂😂 i love cokes!

Anyone else almost burst out in tears when they heard lana was alive while being scalped? I can not even imagine.

@NancyDiaz-BeautyforMatureSkin

2 жыл бұрын

That was the worst part of this story. Wish I could un hear that! Poor woman!

@ambrosiacanelo9014

2 жыл бұрын

My jaw literally dropped amd I was horrified

@QueenKristiana

2 жыл бұрын

I never shed actual tears during true crime videos. But learning that not only was she alive during that, but probably while her mom was trying to get to her... I can’t

@miyukiD.

2 жыл бұрын

I cant imagine how horrifying it is. 😫😫

@TiaraGirl98

2 жыл бұрын

This. When she described the scalping I had to pause and just shuddered and assumed/hoped that she was already dead because how could anyone possibly endure that? Then Bailey confirmed she was alive for 8 hours and I had to stop for a couple of minutes, I’ve never been so affected by a true crime story 😖

I’m wondering if the police went in to the place the first time if they could have done something.. like what if man..