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The Church's Oldest Vocation: Life as a Consecrated Virgin

Michelle Piccolo was consecrated as a virgin in the Archdiocese of Detroit by Archbishop Vigneron in October 2020. She explains her journey to this rare and beautiful vocation - living in the world and committed to the Lord.
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My name is Michelle Piccolo and I was consecrated as a virgin living in the world by Archbishop Vigneron on October 24th, 2020 at my home parish of Our Lady of Good Counsel.
So in the fall of 2009, my mother became sick with cancer, and I decided to move back home to Cleveland, and that’s really, like, the catalyst. That’s really when I started getting more involved in my church and exploring my faith more in-depth than I was previously. She was such a faithful Catholic woman that, when she passed away, it was just on my heart that, like, “I want to go where she is and I believe she’s in heaven and I want to get there, so how do I become a prayerful person like she was?”
During the timeframe of this discernment I went on lots of young adult retreats and encountered lots of people, lots of young adults who had this personal relationship with the Lord, and it became really attractive to me. And I discovered something called Theology of the Body, which is my passion, my thing, and that’s where I first heard the term “consecrated celibacy,” “consecrated virginity.”
I enlisted the help of a spiritual director and started my journey here towards the Archdiocese of Detroit, because there’s quite a few consecrated virgins in Michigan. I started exploring this vocation more in-depth, living as if I already was consecrated, to see if I had peace in my heart, I did, and it became a reality, an answered prayer.
In the moments right after consecrating, you know, we’re taking pictures and people are coming up to me during the reception, a long-time parishioner came up to me and had tears in his eyes and was like, “This is like heaven.”
Some people think it’s new, it’s actually not. It’s the Church’s oldest vocation. We consider Mary to be the first consecrated virgin. So as a consecrated virgin, we promise to pray for the Church everyday, so I pray the Liturgy of the Hours.
So, my day is centered around prayer as much as it can be. Because we are also in the world, right? That’s our official title. We still have our regular jobs. The ring is the only outward sign that we wear to indicate that we are committed to the Lord.
I feel like the Lord is calling me to just spread joy and peace, and pointing people back to him. So I’m looking forward to just seeing more of those opportunities, to find the lost sheep, to - there’s plenty of people to bring into the fold - to just bring as many people to him as possible.

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  • @iamnemoo
    @iamnemoo4 ай бұрын

    not gonna lie, even though i'm happily married, i'm kinda little jealous of this vocation. Something about it is so beautiful and special.

  • @mariemunzar6474

    @mariemunzar6474

    21 күн бұрын

    Well I think that with each vocation you gain something special while sacrificing another life you could have lived. It's just the balance of life.

  • @lynnpester6582
    @lynnpester65823 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations. I was consecrated 10 years ago here in England.

  • @muriguestherwambui6992
    @muriguestherwambui6992 Жыл бұрын

    I am Esther from kenya. I really admire this vocation. I am a teacher and love doing good to people and have a passion for the mission.

  • @amircruz9161
    @amircruz9161 Жыл бұрын

    "Our hearts are restless until if find rests in you". God be with you always, In nomini Patris ef Filio et Spiritua Sancti.

  • @manuelnobre6681
    @manuelnobre66812 жыл бұрын

    You are an inspiration. I'm too old to consider consecrated life. All I can do, while having to for a living, is pray in my bedroom, recite the rosary, practice lectio divina and contemplation, Adore the Sacrament, follow devotions, read the lives of saints...there's plenty I can to live a religious life I can, in my own terms.

  • @KR-ms6km

    @KR-ms6km

    Жыл бұрын

    And yours is not less worthy!

  • @michaellasims8116

    @michaellasims8116

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@KR-ms6km 0k

  • @elizabethheim1130

    @elizabethheim1130

    9 ай бұрын

    An inspiration? No no no. She is the SAVIOR. For God will come back for a second time, but he can only do so through a Virgin. Mary our sacred mother, pick her as your vessel so that Christ can save humanity again!

  • @amandadelassus2128

    @amandadelassus2128

    9 ай бұрын

    @@elizabethheim1130 Mary is the mother of Our Savior, not the Savior.

  • @elizabethheim1130

    @elizabethheim1130

    9 ай бұрын

    @@amandadelassus2128 but had her holy loins not spread to birth our savior, we as humans would not exist. Therefore Mary helped to save the world. This young lady before us today making this sacred vow must pray incessantly that Mary chooses HER sacred body to do just as Jesus intended: to be saved only for Christ’s second coming!

  • @HelloNewMoon
    @HelloNewMoon Жыл бұрын

    I love that there is whole “wedding” for the consecration!

  • @jatnarivas8741

    @jatnarivas8741

    9 ай бұрын

    The sacrament of marriage has more reasons to have quotation marks around the word wedding than this. Read up.

  • @jonascastejon5888

    @jonascastejon5888

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@jatnarivas8741Correct, it is a *real* wedding as much as the regular ones or that of the sisters and nuns, except their bridegroom is Christ. The only "weddings" with actual quotation marks are those of women "marrying themselves" which is not only ridiculous but sad.

  • @blesseddaughter7622
    @blesseddaughter76222 жыл бұрын

    I didnt know there was such a thing as a consecrated virgin. So cool.

  • @AyakoTachi
    @AyakoTachi Жыл бұрын

    Wow I have never even heard of this in my decades in the church!

  • @alicegates9838

    @alicegates9838

    11 ай бұрын

    I never heard of it either!

  • @jennbi1627
    @jennbi16272 жыл бұрын

    This is nice... hearing it for the first time!

  • @davidtombs7385
    @davidtombs73856 ай бұрын

    What a wonderful, wonderful thing. If you bring one person closer to God then it is a truly great way to have lived your life. The video was beautiful.

  • @andreamayer1255
    @andreamayer12553 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations, Michelle!! Beautiful video & story. God bless you!!

  • @freshbrewedasmr3378
    @freshbrewedasmr33783 жыл бұрын

    I vowed to God when I was little that I would be consecrated to Him, but my local Bishop says I must wait until I am 30. Nowhere does it say I must be that age to say my vows. I would like to be a consecrated virgin and a diocesan recluse. Please of you have any advice or know of any Bishop who would let me say my vows, I would be immensely grateful. God bless.

  • @sme7385

    @sme7385

    2 жыл бұрын

    NO ONE should exclude you at any age.

  • @freshbrewedasmr3378

    @freshbrewedasmr3378

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sme7385 thank you. It’s very discouraging but I try to keep hope

  • @ugomariapablo

    @ugomariapablo

    2 жыл бұрын

    I strongly believe you were ill informed about this whole business. I suggest that you should open yourself to marriage or approach a Monastery or Convent if they will still have you. This video is actually against the Tradition of the Church. The Church didn't retain everything it did. Even though it seemed as though the Church did this, the Church certainly abandoned it and quite discouraged it through out its history after the early Church. It was dug up from the grave by the Post Conciliar Church after Vatican II. Science and the Catholic Faith stands against this life. You were certainly ill informed. I'm so sorry.

  • @freshbrewedasmr3378

    @freshbrewedasmr3378

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ugomariapablo You are the one ill informed Have you ever even read the Catechism?

  • @cxthsripps691

    @cxthsripps691

    Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful 😊😊 check out the information packet for consecrated virgins, there's a pdf online. And since you mentioned recluse, there's also a manual on eremetical life by cardinal Raymond Burke. I got it printed. I'm in the same boat, though I'm male. I have to work to save up enough money to eventually become a hermit. I wish consecrated virginity was open to males also, atleast because of the gender issue: like how there's female saints who have mystical marriages to Jesus, there's also male saints who've had mystical marriages to Our Lady. So atleast something along that line. Anyway pls pray for me. Thank you

  • @justina6075
    @justina60753 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful and beautiful!

  • @edwardgorman9930
    @edwardgorman9930 Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely beautiful! God bless you!

  • @triciaworld
    @triciaworld3 ай бұрын

    So beautiful ❤❤

  • @charleswoollard2942
    @charleswoollard2942 Жыл бұрын

    What a Nice Beautiful Inspiring Person , Such a Lovely asset to The Church , God Bless🙏🙏🙏

  • @anaestrada7172
    @anaestrada71726 ай бұрын

    So beautiful, please pray for me and my husband and our marriage also my four sons and daughter and grandchildren

  • @TyranyFighterPatriot
    @TyranyFighterPatriot10 ай бұрын

    The fact of never having been touched by anothrr Human Being. The sense of innocence is strong.

  • @CatholicSaintsBeatoFelipe
    @CatholicSaintsBeatoFelipe3 жыл бұрын

    beautiful and inspiring

  • @honorineoussou7686
    @honorineoussou76862 жыл бұрын

    Awesome thank you for answering your call

  • @silvestromedia
    @silvestromedia3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for posting--I have reposted the link to all of my social media-- using the Share function. 🙏😇🕯⛪💌⏳

  • @Angel-Main3
    @Angel-Main33 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful!

  • @LovedbyJesus23
    @LovedbyJesus23 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful!💖💖💖

  • @charlesdeepenlakra4049
    @charlesdeepenlakra40492 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations....Praying for you...

  • @willb48207
    @willb482073 жыл бұрын

    God bless you!

  • @doveboyz857
    @doveboyz857 Жыл бұрын

    Blessings to you sister in Christ Jesus 💕❤️🙏👍🇺🇲!

  • @BronxCat
    @BronxCat Жыл бұрын

    I consecrated myself a celibate for the kingdom 8 1/2 years ago,with no bishop

  • @insanelogic9471

    @insanelogic9471

    Жыл бұрын

    Bless you daughter for the true kingdom of Christ lives within you. Be steadfast in Our Father, for many trials are yet to come.

  • @jatnarivas8741

    @jatnarivas8741

    9 ай бұрын

    Then it is laudable, but not quite the same :)

  • @jck6920
    @jck6920 Жыл бұрын

    God bless you!!

  • @jyotiminz8389

    @jyotiminz8389

    9 ай бұрын

    Hi Sister, nice to hear from you of consecrated virgins life. I'm an Indian, wants to be a Consecrated Virgin but here in my place not known about this so

  • @kellyanna94
    @kellyanna942 жыл бұрын

    I have the same Ignatius Bible! :)

  • @danacaro-herman3530

    @danacaro-herman3530

    Жыл бұрын

    @Bijan C. So do I!! 🙏

  • @sme7385
    @sme73852 жыл бұрын

    This is wayyyyyyyyyyy cool. I think consecrated virginity is a lot easier than being a nun. Beautiful lady.

  • @karinacruz2836

    @karinacruz2836

    Жыл бұрын

    It’s way harder.

  • @oldsoul4762

    @oldsoul4762

    Жыл бұрын

    We don't have the support of a religious community like a lot of Religious do. We have to support ourselves.

  • @oliviaschwickerath4082

    @oliviaschwickerath4082

    7 ай бұрын

    It really isn’t.

  • @rosawisteria
    @rosawisteria4 ай бұрын

    Love.

  • @jesusitrustinyou6900
    @jesusitrustinyou69003 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful!😂

  • @user-ht9fr6eh9u
    @user-ht9fr6eh9u2 жыл бұрын

    Love you +

  • @Stephen937
    @Stephen9376 ай бұрын

    I wish there was a vocation like this for men.

  • @josephonwhidbey
    @josephonwhidbey6 ай бұрын

    Is this also available for men apart from being in a holy order ?

  • @deb9806
    @deb98062 ай бұрын

    Sometimes a woman doesn't feel drawn to a convent, active or not active. It's hard to give up all autonomy and get up at 5 everyday for example and ask like a child must, to go home for time off or buy some deodorant. I understand the rules although priests don't have them, but there are many ways to live out a vocation. Not everyone is drawn to the same thing

  • @marybethfrancis1204
    @marybethfrancis1204 Жыл бұрын

    I may have missed a post but i didn’t see a post about male consecrated virgins…anywhere. Kind of begs the question, where are they?

  • @georgepierson4920

    @georgepierson4920

    Жыл бұрын

    I looked that up once, apparently, it does not exist.

  • @gretaweiss6802

    @gretaweiss6802

    Жыл бұрын

    In their mother’s basements. Lol 😉

  • @jatnarivas8741

    @jatnarivas8741

    9 ай бұрын

    They are in the same place as women priests. Women can't be priests and men can't be consecrated virgins, because women can't be bridegrooms and fathers and men can't be brides and mothers.

  • @catholicmeditation1560
    @catholicmeditation15602 жыл бұрын

    Can guys also do this?

  • @gray_mara

    @gray_mara

    2 жыл бұрын

    No, consecrated virginity is a female vocation.

  • @nevillefernandes6893

    @nevillefernandes6893

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes. It can be done. There is even a Congregation in the Catholic Church ------- if you wish to explore

  • @vaderetrosatana625

    @vaderetrosatana625

    2 жыл бұрын

    how , ?

  • @jatnarivas8741

    @jatnarivas8741

    9 ай бұрын

    Not as a consecrated virgin. You can be consecrated and a virgin, you can consecrate your virginity in private to God, but you can't be consecrated a virgin to be a Bride to Jesus and a mother to the Church when you are a man.

  • @waeulbr
    @waeulbr Жыл бұрын

    What if I'm not a virgin and was married? Can I do that?

  • @georgepierson4920

    @georgepierson4920

    Жыл бұрын

    In the Catholic Church, a consecrated virgin is a woman who has been consecrated by the church to a life of perpetual virginity as a bride of Christ.

  • @joshyman91297

    @joshyman91297

    Жыл бұрын

    Mo

  • @jatnarivas8741

    @jatnarivas8741

    9 ай бұрын

    No. You can become a nun, or a sister, if you are a widower AND of your children are all grown. I think there was a way, I don't know if there still is, for married people with independent children if both are entering consecrated life, but I'm not sure.

  • @rosminmathew483
    @rosminmathew4833 жыл бұрын

    Help me please 😞

  • @sarahrei4530

    @sarahrei4530

    2 жыл бұрын

    What do you need help with?

  • @Scpr.ValerieMay
    @Scpr.ValerieMay Жыл бұрын

    Consecrated Lay Discernment life of prayer ? May will be done that It is also me I'm an altar server

  • @Scpr.ValerieMay

    @Scpr.ValerieMay

    Жыл бұрын

    Can a harrassment victim Be one too? I had a background. But I'm still strong

  • @catholicfemininity2126
    @catholicfemininity2126 Жыл бұрын

    There are those that want this, and that's amazing. But for those that don't want this and want marriage it feels like something is wrong with us.

  • @mariemunzar6474

    @mariemunzar6474

    Жыл бұрын

    Why does it feel that way to you? Did somebody tell you the married life wasn't good or was less than? Marriage is beautiful.

  • @KR-ms6km

    @KR-ms6km

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mariemunzar6474 And marriage is of equal worth and beauty!

  • @zelie1155

    @zelie1155

    Жыл бұрын

    Both are good and beautiful **callings** from God.

  • @oldsoul4762

    @oldsoul4762

    Жыл бұрын

    Nothing is wrong with you! 💜 Marriage is just as beautiful a Vocation! You give us our spiritual children to love and pray for! 💜🙏💜🙏 Be sure of my Prayers!

  • @jatnarivas8741

    @jatnarivas8741

    9 ай бұрын

    Actually something is right with you. Marriage is the image of the reality of this vocation. Now, it may also be that you are "fighting" your true vocation. Celibacy IS indeed a higher calling. Not all have it.

  • @catherinejohnston4371
    @catherinejohnston43713 жыл бұрын

    What if God is calling you to be with him in your 50 or 63 give everything you have to the church What do you say no nun is saying you don't belong because of your age will you not except her because of her age because she not good enough ? How do you feel when you say no What would God do when you tell her no?

  • @catherinejohnston4371

    @catherinejohnston4371

    3 жыл бұрын

    Can you please give us a answer 🙏

  • @gray_mara

    @gray_mara

    2 жыл бұрын

    Very few convents will accept an aspirant of mature years. This is because older women are set in their ways and are not flexible enough to completely submit themselves to religious life. Obedience is a virtue outside religious life as well. If the superior says no, and gives you valid reasons why that will not change, then you should accept that and seek a different congregation that is more closely tailored to your needs. You should see in the superior the will of God, and know that He has something greater planned for you, out of His great love for you.

  • @Jacquiandteddy

    @Jacquiandteddy

    2 жыл бұрын

    It's not because you are not good enough, far from it. But you can still consecrate yourself to God privately, as an individual, or by joining a third order. You can commit yourself to Him and pray the office every day, either for a particular intention like priests for example, or offer your prayer for the world - and my goodness is it needed! If God is calling you, then find ways to live out the life he is calling you to and ask him to show you what He wants you to do.

  • @allykat5899

    @allykat5899

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@gray_mara obedience is not a virtue. If that where true then every soldier who helped carry out the holocaust who was just following orders was virtuous and that is ludicrous.

  • @gray_mara

    @gray_mara

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@allykat5899 Your understanding of obedience is incomplete, resulting in your flawed conclusion. A Catholic is required to be obedient, but there is a hierarchy of obedience. If someone on the street tells us to slap our mother in the face, we do well to ignore them, because a) they have no authority to give us that order and b) we have a higher obedience to honour our mother. If your mother told you that skipping Sunday Mass without a good reason is not a sin, you would commit a sin of disobedience if you did what she told you. This is because while you owe her obedience, she does not have the authority to contradict the laws of the Church, to which you owe obedience. The soldiers who committed atrocities were disobedient because obedience to God is the highest obedience. We cannot obey man and disobey God, doing what we know to be wrong, and call it obedience.

  • @anthonylangford7797
    @anthonylangford7797 Жыл бұрын

    Some married people live in celibacy!

  • @jatnarivas8741

    @jatnarivas8741

    9 ай бұрын

    In continence, not celibacy in the strict sense that the Church uses the term (which means unmarried)

  • @tomy8339
    @tomy8339 Жыл бұрын

    How on earth was Mary a consecrated virgin? Scripture clearly states that Jesus had siblings, other children after Christ was born. The book of James is written by a literal brother of Jesus. Stop making nonsense up.

  • @gracey5512

    @gracey5512

    Жыл бұрын

    I heard that, according to the church tradition, Joseph was a widower with children from his first marriage when he married Mary. And, back in the days, many young women died during childbirth, so it was fairly common for a widower with children to seek a new wife. So that would explain how Mary could remain a virgin and Jesus could've had siblings.

  • @tomy8339

    @tomy8339

    Жыл бұрын

    @@gracey5512 Church tradition or scripture? There's a vast difference. The problem with what you say is that it's plainly countered by the scriptures. At the end of John, when Jesus is on the cross, he speaks to John and says, (about Mary), "behold your mother". Meaning, as scripture states, he took Mary into his home and looked after her as his mother. This referred clearly to Mary. So this church tradition is invalid.

  • @amandadelassus2128

    @amandadelassus2128

    9 ай бұрын

    Lol….study the early Church Fathers instead of Jack Chick, and you might come to a different conclusion.

  • @tomy8339

    @tomy8339

    9 ай бұрын

    @@amandadelassus2128 How about you study the plain scriptures instead? Jesus clearly had siblings. Anyone calling themselves Christian and not knowing that needs to go back and study the Bible.

  • @jack_daddy_mack
    @jack_daddy_mack Жыл бұрын

    Forgive my ignorance; but literally married to Christ? Would that make him a polygamist?

  • @renee187

    @renee187

    10 ай бұрын

    No, Christ is God and our ultimate destiny is to be one with God for all eternity, married to Him. Marriage is a symbol of that union in Heaven that God calls all of us to. Consecrated virgins are a sign to the world that there is more than just this life.

  • @jatnarivas8741

    @jatnarivas8741

    9 ай бұрын

    No because His Bride is the Church, and the Church is One, and is His own Body. It is as though we are cells in His Body. All His Members, we the faithful, make up His mystical Body.

  • @ErnestoMuratori-db8cu
    @ErnestoMuratori-db8cu6 ай бұрын

    ⌚👑🇮🇱👍⌚The King of juifs for you ⌚💐⌚

  • @allykat5899
    @allykat58992 жыл бұрын

    I find the idea that virgins are closer to God kinda ridiculous their is nothing to my knowledge in the Bible to indicate such a thing.

  • @kellyanna94

    @kellyanna94

    2 жыл бұрын

    Have you read your Bible? Paul writes about this more than once in 1 Cor 7. He writes how he wishes everyone were unmarried as he was, so they can devote themselves to the Lord in a way married people cannot. :) It's not that virgins are "closer" in the sense of excluding married people, they just have much fewer distractions to keep them from fully embracing and plunging into the Christ life. Read the entire chapter!

  • @allykat5899

    @allykat5899

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kellyanna94 I don't consider Paul to speak for God though so I don't take his words as authoritive.

  • @happy777abc

    @happy777abc

    Жыл бұрын

    Virgins have more time to draw close to God. They don't have to think of taking care of a spouse.

  • @allykat5899

    @allykat5899

    Жыл бұрын

    @@happy777abc virgin and married aren't the same thing.

  • @happy777abc

    @happy777abc

    Жыл бұрын

    @@allykat5899Yes, that is obvious. Being a virgin and being married are not the same thing. Consecrating oneself to the Lord and remaining a virgin( or (celibate) gives space to offer up sexuality to the Lord, and also gives more time to think upon Him and serve His church. Being married plays out in loving a spouse in a union that symbolizes the union w our Lord, while serving Him, but not having as much time to serve Him, as one has to be concerned w the needs of the spouse more, as Paul states.

  • @derekdurst2146
    @derekdurst21466 ай бұрын

    There is no greater or higher calling a woman can have than to put her body, and her mind, to the purpose for which they have evolved. Motherhood may not be the easiest, but it is the most important, job on earth. Not to say that she should be popping out babies as fast as she can. NO. The raising and shaping of our children from birth to young adulthood is critical as it shapes, not only the next generation, but many generations to come as the baton is passed from mother to daughter and from generation to generation. Women are meant to be the keepers of the race, the guardians of the future. The world is in shambles today at least partly because women have largely dropped the ball. By thinking they should be corporate CEOs and politicians, or even imaginary "virgins" as part of men's religious fantasies is absurd and perhaps even vulgar. Those women who choose to stay at home and to raise and shape our babies, our children, our young men and young women into good, responsible, caring, respectable adults deserve our highest respect, our thanks and our gratitude. They certainly have mine.

  • @goalisheaven
    @goalisheaven Жыл бұрын

    Kindly Accept open challenge by Dr zakir naik .. Islam is the only Deen from the beginning of this world.. check out what prophet Ibrahim teached, the same thing prophet Muhammad SAW explained and Jesus will come back to stand with Islam too .😊

  • @amandadelassus2128

    @amandadelassus2128

    Жыл бұрын

    No thank you.

  • @jyotiminz8389

    @jyotiminz8389

    9 ай бұрын

    Hi Sister, nice to here from you of consecrated virgins. I'm from India, wants to consecrate my life for God. But here in my place not not known about consecrated life. So I would like to ask you how and where can I go?

  • @goalisheaven

    @goalisheaven

    9 ай бұрын

    ​​@@jyotiminz8389 you don't need to go anywhere..just serve the humanity. Stand with justice, spread the message of almighty. Read and research about the unchanged truth of Almighty, words of God Quran..

  • @wabisabi6983
    @wabisabi6983 Жыл бұрын

    Doesn’t live in a community. No other community members to care for her when she’s sick or gets elderly. What if she looses her home or job? So sad. So weird. Why not just be a sister or nun in a convent? Sounds like she’s antisocial and afraid of intimacy on all levels.

  • @DethBy3ToeSloth

    @DethBy3ToeSloth

    Жыл бұрын

    ? Why can’t she have any friends or people to take care of her? I’m sure there are plenty of people in her parish who are willing to help her out if she fell on hard times. You are making a huge assumption. Be better than that.

  • @jatnarivas8741

    @jatnarivas8741

    9 ай бұрын

    The best reason not to be a sister or a nun in a convent is not to be called to do that: you don't feel called to their charisms, you don't feel called to their kinds of service, you don't feel called to their kinds of community. Getting into a congregation out of fear of being alone, or fear that God may not provide for you otherwise, or due to fear, at all, is not a good idea.