one of the best videos put up by josh talks. one of the best 20 minutes ever spent. probably the only video one wants to see on relationship advice. loved it.

In a nutshell: 1. Value systems have to match. 2. Mutual Respect is more important than love. 3. Be open minded about gender fluid roles.

@oldie-american

2 жыл бұрын

And don't let your husband and family watch Ekta Kapoor serials or Bollywood movies.

@nehasrivastava4857

Жыл бұрын

Each individual is different One has to face and emerge out more matured in any relationship So become a role model for others

The clarity in explaining the things is awe-inspiring

@Bonobology

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks!

@sm9305able

5 жыл бұрын

@@Bonobology hey! Google *Matthew Hussey* you might find his videos helpful. All the best 😊

there r many different dimensions & angles in her notions which was really not as usual.. really appreciate it. in fact it's very rare to get such kind of learning!!

Wow! I can't believe this is from 5yrs ago. It's incredible and I absolutely do not believe enough people have been offered such a clear perspective with a bonus suggestion to start making changes that could lead people in the direction of more fulfilling relationships. Thank you so much for this.

This is what I wanted to hear, and all these days I was reading it only in quora.

@Bonobology

6 жыл бұрын

Cheers!

@pintubhai5752

5 жыл бұрын

Gm sir I am hemant.i want to with u 7051767982

@pintubhai5752

5 жыл бұрын

Talk

Way too awesome. The ending especially about men cooking n women learning abt IT is literally needed

This is exactly what India needs today.

Respect is something which is mandatory for all who really deserves that and mam the way you trying to letting us understand is fab. Thank a lot and all the very best for your future aspects

Best advice on relationships. Thank you so much!

An amazing talk! So very very true. Respect is all you need. Women ought to believe in themselves. Thank you for this

Thank you so much ma'am & Bonobology team for your Noble Work. Hats off! 🤗😍

Huge respect mam.. Just a reality of today's world what we really face..

Very good.. Every word touched and thinkable!!!!

Its like explaining a so difficult concept in such e nice and easy way..thanks for all your precious advises mam.

An excellent explanation of millennial couples and how things have changed very fast. There always have been a successful couple prototype that has been set up the society and looks so much relatable to every person but this is not actually the case. Every generation has its own virtue and vows to fulfill. And as a matter of fact the millennial couples are standing at a stage where things have changed all over in a drastic way which is i think is at a much faster pace as of our parents and grandparents times.

I am a CA by profession.....and I appreciate the way you explained 360° view in terms of partner roles and expectations.👌

@calalitaswani4510

5 жыл бұрын

Same fraternity 😊

The best video to handle the love relationship...worth watching the video...

A video compelled me to stay this long. Greatly explained.

Things suddenly seem clearer and better :)

Amazing from begning to end, much needed Vedio for today's society

Superb mam , your speech has cleared all the doubt I had

Both must love and respect must be in an equal proposition. Some people misinterpret Love as over protective, over providing and over possessive. Your lover or spouse is not pet. You can't love them like what you do to your pet. Some silly people are over biting each other all the time in the name of fun. It will end up in a disaster too. Everything has to be moderate.

@edwardlawrence8448

5 жыл бұрын

Mam mere se dosti karlo bohat Khushi dunga

The way u express everything mam is awesome if agree hit like

"Marriage" has come down to a research topic... GREAT ....

Great job maam ...you helped a ton

I totaly loved the video ..but i think and request you guy to have such video in hindi too and some videos where she talks to parents about how the youth has change and they should also start understanding and accpecting the change.

Hi, in this talk you have touched many of those issues in relationships. But I think you left one important point which is more worse than before 50 years, that is no matter if they are SO CALLED MODERN PEOPLE, ALL ARE WITH VISIBLE OR SECRET WEAPONS TO ATTACK YOU IF YOU ARE FINDING A MAN , NO MATTER WHO THE HELL HE IS!!! Another thing I want to tell you that now I am in my mid-40s yet I am so lucky that my parents were extremely protective but never ever were forceful to make useless compromises. Neither me nor my parents handed us with COMPROMISE LISTS. Yes, they used to think that we are giving you education not to earn for us and they wanted the man will take care BECAUSE IN THE HOUNDING SOCIETY WE ARE LIVING IN .

@artisisodia6613

5 жыл бұрын

nandini nk

This was so helpful.

It really need courage to speak your heart, all the best. Bakul Valambhiya

Speechless......

Very presentable speech. Thank you

Top Notch Research. Most contemporary issue to be dealt with.

Very helpful😍

Very helpful video mam I think only we and our point of view make relationship complicated which is actually very smooth

@sandhya2970

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah right

This lady clearly nailed it... 👍

Hi I think we are still missing one point here....we are human and we grow... means the decision and commitment we make changes with time... no matter how many discussions we do before marriage, after 10 yrs point of view of those discussions will change.... Over all lots of respect to for this video.. As you said ma’am.. respect is more important than love...

That was a great message.

Thanks to josh talk gratitude all inspirational videos . I learned lots of things

Well explained..

Very very factual and excellent content

Brief and apt to the Tee! 👌

Best Un biased video I've seen so far Ty

very interesting vedio! great!

Raksha mam ....you're doing a great work☺👍👍👍👍👍

Thts the gud thing in my boy bcz i know him frm childhood nd m 4 years older thn him everything everytime i helped him to understand whats right and now he is totally different person he is just 18 only but he is much matured much mordern much respectful i know he is the best guy as a bf or husband now nd i can't afford to loose him but still i had make a freedom btwn us tht he can tell me anytime whnever he feel like he got someone other n it made our relationship more healthier nd happier.

Good research update

Ted Talks, Today Gave us ,A Nice Relationship Dispute Solution Video, Very Glad to listen her, Some of her topic touch the life of Mumbai-Delhi-Banglore Only, But other 80% Topic is useful for all. Thanks Ted Talks & Raksha Bharadia.

@faalgunithakur2124

5 жыл бұрын

Nilay Patel Josh Talk

@abhishek0o7

5 жыл бұрын

@@faalgunithakur2124 😂😂😂 Great reply

Wow...... Awesome

Thank u dear... luv u

I just hitted like after here words in 5:07 min.....so well said

This is wonderful! So aptly put.

@Bonobology

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks Naina!

Great.

Superb

Nice and Simple explanation..!! THE FACT. @Raksha Bharadia

Superb Mam....

Worth watching

Just woow ... Keep it up

So nice ma'am😘

You made us understand very easily in English language as well as Hindi ❤

Not relevant to this talk but Ma’am you look amazing for a mom with a daughter in college.

Just loved the video 😚😙

Nyc lecture

Wow....nice n so true

Raksha.. i think you have figured it all out.... that was an amazing video... u should definitely come on ted talks India. 😊

So true nice video

Awesome

Inspiring words but men will be men.. always dominating. No matter how educated or qualified a girl is she is the one who will do all the compromises and sacrifices because these words don't exist in a men's dictionary. Easy to talk good but life is not so easy to be good. Before marriage a man desires for a Modern Educated girl but after marriage he wants to transform her into a illiterate village girl who nods her head to everything he says even if he is wrong. Before marriage man say they don't want to marry a cow who nods her head to everything but after marriage they prefer a deaf,dumb and blind cow. Your process of trying to bring a change is inspiring but Indian society will remain same. I have lots to say but it will take too much time and now days people don't have time to listen, they are not good listeners. Stay blessed and healthy

@sowjanyasondi3692

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely true

@flanker23

3 жыл бұрын

ohh poor "Girl". Your biased is visible in your words: Men vs Girl, why not Men vs Women, for how long you want to consider your self a "Girl". Why get married? Do not do that in the first place !!

@oldie-american

2 жыл бұрын

You mean Indian men

@oldie-american

2 жыл бұрын

Indian men somehow have been made to believe that they are the their woman's keeper

@shikhakumari5990

2 жыл бұрын

So true

Can i write this on my Facebook page under your hashtags! I Want more people to learn this.

Awesome mam

Good one

Very seriously researched but presented light way.

she is looking young at her age she is also inspiration for fitness

pls consider the caption so as to understand in all languages, great video Josh Talks

All these tvf, tsp, filtercopy are creating a new and distorted picture of relationships like Bollywood did in last decades

Hats off ma'am

Opposites never attract!

Shaadi kar k kya hona hai Doing everything Giving everything Became victim of DV and still on suffering

Spot on!

Think again

Best josh talk 😆

This is the best video on josh talk

@edwardlawrence8448

5 жыл бұрын

Ham se dosti karlo bohat aap ko khus rakhunga

Confident..

beautiful ! :)

👌

I m 25 n yes I do feel so

👌👌

It really ULTIMATE .... 😍 Thank you . Your hair is so cute. ....😘😘😘

I remember my ex would hit me, abuse me, break my things and next day he would say, “you know naa i get angry sometimes, but i love you na” and obviously I dumped him after months of the same abuse. For him, there was nothing wrong in his behavior because he said “gussey mein toh ye sb hona normal hai, sab kartey hain” he normalized abuse.

@QueensCurryKitchen

5 жыл бұрын

Whatevs so proud of you for loving yourself more than anyone else

I read one chilling story in bonobology where husband slept with others when wife was pregnant and marriage continues with deep hidden lies. Lakhs of such cases

@abhishek0o7

5 жыл бұрын

Same goes to both genders... Don't be skeptical !

13:22 pr its actually starts

Kehna kya chahti he?? What exactly is takeaway? What exactly is conclusion??

@abhayshah6618

5 жыл бұрын

Smiley Jay sahi he... Kuch Samaj me.... Nhi aya sis

@SamPatel-xd5rc

5 жыл бұрын

@@abhayshah6618 She is trying to change Indian culture in such a way that.... Indians culture is history now.... Do be a Indian just be western to be happy and comfortable

@SamPatel-xd5rc

5 жыл бұрын

@@abhayshah6618 Forget about bible... Forget about Geeta and quran.... Just enjoy... It's life according to her.... And many Indians are like her and they are right

Love is nt enough... u need respct... datz crct...

Spend enough time with each other before actually going for commitment...

@pureevil4509

3 жыл бұрын

in day time or night

She didn't explain how women can overcome their hypergamy in this world of "equality". Pushing women to compete with men is the best way to eliminate population and increased control by NWO. When times are hard, men are incharge, when times are rosy (food abundance, social security etc.), women become 'strong and independent'.

I love your hair

5:23

You have to make room for hate in love. Just wow!

Welsaid

Great