The Best Way to Win a Negotiation, According to a Harvard Business Professor | Inc.
Deepak Malhotra, Harvard professor and author of 'Negotiation Genius,' shows you exactly how to approach and win any negotiation.
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After watching this video, I was able to close a deal with my mom about whether me or my sister should wash the dishes.
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9 ай бұрын
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I'm blown away by his content! Engaging. Simple. Powerful.
I'm not sure I've ever seen a more comprehensive KZread video I've needed to log in my head.
One of the most profitable and sensible presentations I've seen recently.
This is so insightful to winning in life and not just business.
I'm bowled over by his knowledge, engery and enthusiasm. Thankyou for this session.
This is pretty insightful, and enlightening even after five years. Thank you so much. This is a huge help.
very clear . story telling type . precise to the type . gifted teacher . keep up your good work .
My negotiation professor from 15 years ago at HBS! Amazing insight here. One thing that always stuck with me from his course is that the best way to improve your position in any negotiation is to improve the quality of your alternatives. I've tried to incorporate this throughout my career. If I have a deal in the works (or new job, new investor, etc) I try to find at least one similar alternative option that could be compelling and work that deal as well. The process of working multiple similar deals simultaneously helps to expose blind spots in deal structure and also provides real leverage in a negotiation because you have a real alternative option.
@user-ux9bg4ue3r
Жыл бұрын
great solution
@god-son-love
9 ай бұрын
How to apply this to buying a car? Paying cash doesn't seem to work anymore.
Probably the best talk on negotiation I’ve seen
Truly mind blow, so happy to break my conventional idea of a successful negotiation
A great presentation
The negotiation tweaks: 1. Hold a negotiation strategy meeting 2. Don’t reward people for coming up w/ the right strategy; reward people for good arguments 3. Asses what happens to you if there’s “no-deal”. Focus on what happens to them if “no deal” 4. Negotiate process before substance 5. Normalize the Process 6. Think about all the questions you need to ask the other side. Then add 10 more to the list 7. Ask the right questions. Asking “Why?” is 10x more important than asking “What?” 8. Prepare in advance for the toughest questions they may ask you. 9. It has been said that “whoever makes the first offer loses”. I completely disagree. 10. Never let you offer(numbers)speak for itself. Always tell the story that goes with it a. We are asking for X because ... b. We are asking for X, here is our model, analysis, assumptions c. The richer the narrative, the story the more the number sticks 11. Label your concessions. a. Zoom out - as negotiator manage the attributions made of you 12. Avoid mindless haggling ... by negotiating multiple interests simultaneously 13. Next time, don’t make an offer. Consider making multiple offers simultaneously 14. Initial reactions matter. If their offer is unacceptable, waste no time in conveying this. 15. Understand & respect their constraints. Why might the be rejecting your legit demands? 16. Beware. What looks like irrationality is usually ignorance or interests you don’t understand. 17. Write their victory speech for them. 18. Ignore ultimatums, 19. Only make ultimatums if a. You will follow through b. You’ve exhausted better alternatives. 20. Don’t let negotiations end with”no”. They should end with yes, or with an explanation fo why not. 21. Follow phone calls and meetings w/ emails to a. Confirm b. Reframe as needed - us more language around your perception c. Gather more information - what the process is, with whom to talk next etc. 22. Always tell the truth.
@bravemind8152
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your comprehensive summary. Well done!
@kwesidadze4239
2 жыл бұрын
Life owes you one
@keng4560
2 жыл бұрын
@@kwesidadze4239 kwesi, Yaw dey here some the guy save ma life 😂
@dr.amalarathna570
2 жыл бұрын
👍
@sendjudahfirst22
2 жыл бұрын
Awesome!
Fantastic...Just Fantastic!! Man this needs lots of practise!!
Powerful and effective techniques presented in a easily comprehensible manner. Thanks Prof.
This was excellent information. I could’ve used tip #19 last week. But I did use tip #14 and I had to respectfully decline a job offer. Thank you!😊
It almost feels like when negotiating, there is a science and a knowledge for it. I feel as if you impacted the person you negotiated with (human interaction), in such a way, where the person loves what you said, and because of so, reflects and remembers, and also sincerely accepts your offer (because of successful business interactions/negotiations)- these qualities seem to be a good foundation for negotiation. The science of it seems that a human and another human interact (human interactions), until they negotiate. This would lead me think that human interaction is important to study and understand because it applies for both parties and unusable if one party does not come to an agreement in regards to the negotiation.
Very insightful - thanks for sharing
Practicality is awesome 👌
Very insightful
Great talk and the prof has excellent communication skills
this was great
Good seminar. Thanks
Loved the session and lesson
Love the presentation. Learnt a lot
Great presentation..!!! Well done. Easy to comprehend especially people who works in negotiation fields 🙂 I somehow echo each and every business operations have negotiation paths.
Excellent
Good. Not only economic or monetary but other considerations too may drive negotiation. Language both verbal & non-verbal is very important in negotiation. Also,one coming out of negotiation doesn't mean loosing credibility.But breaking legal bond or contract may cause one to loose his/her credibility & even invite legal dispute
Very interesting discussion!
SUPERB
Very insightful presentation
@miss-kwellnesspractitioner5211
Жыл бұрын
What is this professors name??
Very nice content!!
What an interesting material!
Excellent information.
Awesome advise . Very logical .
Amazing
Thank you 🌷
To summarize, he says negotiation is little business but more psychology
Great representation
Hi Tai, I enjoyed your "Jungle trip". Just celebrated my 92 birthday and still think about how to make a good living. I was in the rental business, flower shop, and restaurant businesses. I didn't know anything about running a business, but had a lot of fun doing it. I found out that having money does not bring happiness. I still dream about making lots of money, but I'm thankful to bath and dress myself. I enjoy reading, writing and cooking. Sincerely, Irene (Nye,Ogden) Poletti
Great 👍 Negotiation
Awesome
I was a getting a constant feeling that it was Alpacino speaking than DM....! ... Incredibly quality stuff though!
thank you
Very Informative . Negotiation requires lots of preparation , before you get in Negotiation.
Always make a plan
1. Make multiple options 2. Always make a plan 3. Always think from the opposite site and find the flaws in your offer 4. Make it about them not you 5. Always think and understand what if we dont get what we want 6. Do not consider the opposite side irrational
@majoroldladyakamom6948
2 жыл бұрын
The opposite siDe? Site is a geographic location, also a legal term for a Case Citation, citing legal precedence, etc. Thanks for the grammatical giggle... 🤣
Great
Art of the deal :D
Indians are Geniuses !!!
A bit fast in the beginning... But appreciate it 🙏
Start watching from 5:20
Good
Hi.. I think the problem is we need to make it a win-win situation; as we all hv our needs.. BASICS, etc.
For sure they be looking at if you are bending or not.
This is a $1M worth video. And you are going to understand only years later...
Can someone tell please. How do negotiations happen when one party has ulterior motive and are being completely deceptive and taking positions just for shock value !!?? Thanks.
What Is A Mind Set? Explain Word?
WOW
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substantive choice republic
Toronto Night College,English
Hey Share your unique selling and negotiation experience with me 😇
Toronto Night College, PhD
What Ciused Domation . How Many Year Had We Working , Are They Denied.
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Define "better", better implies a moral universe. Moral universe implies moral maker.
@nickjames7914
3 күн бұрын
No it doesn’t. Hierarchy of value does not automatically assume morality or a moral “maker”. It can be based on the mechanisms of evolution and the reproduction of genes.
@kellyjohna
3 күн бұрын
@nickjames7914 Where does hierarchy of value come from ? " If there is no God, then everything would be permitted, Fedor Dosteyevsky. Without God, there is no hierarchy. There can be no hierarchy without intelligence and no intelligence without design and no design without a designer.
What if the other guy watch your KZread too??
he teaching us Negotiation is a Negotiation lol
Did they hired a better "sound man" ?
Naa at first he says there are no right answers, but there are. That's just saying "No" By bringing arguments meaning there are no right answers?
Neelam Shahzadi
9 mins
Wy tAnes mAne tA lme
Why wear a jacket if you're then going to leave your shirt out?
What they dont teach you at harvard business school
how much you are worried about your hair lose?? does it bother you every morning when u look in the mirror or you are ok what u hav
I feel like people balk at this whole “Harvard” thing as inflated knowledge and we idolize trivial knowledge because on a game show anyone can win big. But there’s something to be said about knowledge that is rich and comes from many experiences. I guess Harvard doesn’t have a reputation for no reason, they really do hire some of the best.
Or you can have tea. The power of tea. A time, ritual, set aside to connect as humans. I can negotiate with everyone except Americans. I'm American. Neuroticism dominates American style of business.
Harvard professor on negotiating business ?
Define evil. Define good. Define Compassion that you want gained of you. Not related to SEX that you want to hand to your father or mother.
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Two years later, post-posting, and only a few likes from the YT creator(s)? Disengaged KZreadr? Yup. Engaging with his or her audience? Nope. 😪 Really? Yup.
Very irritating ads
Dear god turn down the stage monitors. Is the audio engineer fucking dead back there?
Dear, "Experts" I might be an Idiot, my Perspective is following: We don't "Win" a Negotiation, as the Aim of it is to reach an Agreement as Good as Possible for All parts/actors!! If We enter a Negotiation with the Aim of "Winning" I'm unsure we really have Negotiated at all!???
Good to talk, but I bet he never bought an expensive horse.
All If You Are Not Have A Wise . What Do Yiu Meen Golf? I will Talk To You As You Are Talking . I will Talk As Yiu Talk To Me Nite That . But Humanitarian Has Nit Behavior As You Acting . Peaple Are Like You . Go Direct Don't Turn Cycle . .
@majoroldladyakamom6948
2 жыл бұрын
If you learned to complete a sentence properly structured, in English, American YT channel!) that makes some sort of sense to anyone, you might get more YT followers, n'est pas?
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Deepak Malhotra, Harvard professor YOU SHOULD HELP INDIA & PAKISTAN NEGOTIATE PEACE. INDIA & CHINA ETC....
Ever met a demon, wanting HEAVEN. No idea of HOW to gain of the hearts given. And have a human heart and body, combined?
Too general
@ttzzaa
2 жыл бұрын
This isn’t a book it’s not meant to be full detail.
Extremely well spoken. Too much complex material being presented in a very short time. Can’t process the things he is saying because he rapidly moves on to something else. And something else. And something else. I challenge anyone to repeat the 22 suggestions he has after listening to this..without going back and listening a second or third time or looking at your notes. What 22 things does he suggest? List them outloud after listening to this once. See, you can’t. He offered up too many things too quickly.
My,PhD,,tube.
GET TO THE POINT!!!! ;)
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Жыл бұрын
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Жыл бұрын
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Why? Define. Whatever. Call inclusive and/or exclusive. What gains you most when your body must die? Who many have you known that have passed away from this life on Earth? Why do you want to be them MOST? Not me.
What your discribing sounds like negotiating with a truculent child.