THE 3 WORD METHOD

I thought it would be fun (and helpful) to do a video all about the 3 WORDS and how to find them! I have done many videos on IG and TT but this is basically a culmination of all the necessary info that you need to find your own 3 words and define your style!
In this video, I help Grace find her 3 words and give a step by step guide on how to find yours.
All of this and SO MUCH MORE is in my new book and I am SO excited to share with you!!! Pre-order below… you are going to be OBSESSED!!!!
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  • @claremagee2592
    @claremagee259211 ай бұрын

    Allison, I love that you made your subject matter expertise available at affordable price points: free (social) and ~$25 (book). This kind of socioeconomic inclusivity is refreshing and appreciated.

  • @ScrapHappy
    @ScrapHappy8 ай бұрын

    I could watch you go through this process with 100 people... it's so good!

  • @kelseyyarnell5983

    @kelseyyarnell5983

    7 күн бұрын

    Yes, please make more videos like this! So so fun.

  • @oliviacurzi4124
    @oliviacurzi412411 ай бұрын

    Please make these a series!! This was so helpful and fun to watch!

  • @heatherframpton9693

    @heatherframpton9693

    2 ай бұрын

    Yes! 😊❤

  • @JocieFire
    @JocieFire10 ай бұрын

    Please make many of these! Helping people find their 3 words and dressing them up in outfits that fit them.

  • @Jaimihyde
    @Jaimihyde11 ай бұрын

    I love this video so much! It’s so refreshing to not hear the same capsule wardrobe talk and see people express themselves in their unique way ❤

  • @radiantmasterpiece5649
    @radiantmasterpiece564911 ай бұрын

    These are my favorite kind of videos I watch on repeat!!

  • @acec8

    @acec8

    11 ай бұрын

    Same. Moooore please lol

  • @kimmaguire3621

    @kimmaguire3621

    11 ай бұрын

    Me too! Also book is preordered. 🎉

  • @vinccimoraless
    @vinccimoraless11 ай бұрын

    The 3 word method is an absolute GAME CHANGER. The things I have purchased since exploring my 3 words have been amazing additions to my wardrobe!

  • @nalachincuanco
    @nalachincuanco25 күн бұрын

    i think mine would be 1. casual/comfy 2. polished 3. eclectic !

  • @anitafischetti1746
    @anitafischetti174611 ай бұрын

    Love this kind of video 😍 Please make it into a series 🙏🏻 And I'm really looking forward to reading your book, I already preordered it!!

  • @wrendor9465
    @wrendor94653 ай бұрын

    Layered/Timeless/Authentic ❤

  • @Stacyparris
    @Stacyparris11 ай бұрын

    This was so helpful! Please do more!

  • @CattLovins
    @CattLovins11 ай бұрын

    Love this concept and loved seeing the process! Can’t wait to read the book!

  • @debrajane7622
    @debrajane762211 ай бұрын

    This was SO fabulous!!! 😍😍😍 More videos like this, please!! Can’t wait for the book as well! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @juliettepsvy1026
    @juliettepsvy10269 ай бұрын

    This is amazing ! I love to watch these as I organize my cothes and closet. Please make more, a series is definitely called for !

  • @susanb3192
    @susanb319211 ай бұрын

    ✔️Book preordered! 😁 So happy to support your great work even in a small way. Thank you, Allison!

  • @marionannmacredie
    @marionannmacredie11 ай бұрын

    That corset with pants looks amazing! This is so helpful!! I struggle with exactly this … minimal AND fun 💞

  • @jilll934
    @jilll93411 ай бұрын

    Love this. Omg I need to make a styling session. I have different issues but totally get every thing she struggles with. ❤

  • @_andreamakes
    @_andreamakes11 ай бұрын

    Loved this video so much! It is definitely super inspiring to watch the whole process. Thank you for sharing and I hope to see more videos like this. Can‘t wait for your book!!

  • @hazelwhitefoot3977
    @hazelwhitefoot397711 ай бұрын

    I love these videos I always learn something new from Alison I’m going to start thinking about my 3 words and I’m preordering the book so looking forward to receiving it 😊👏

  • @mirandamirandamirandamiranda_
    @mirandamirandamirandamiranda_11 ай бұрын

    So enjoyed this! And i love the way you engage with your clients- so open-minded/ encouraging whilst still helping to guide/ inspire!

  • @bentleylicious
    @bentleylicious7 ай бұрын

    Love these videos - you need your own show! And I've pre-ordered the book. Can't wait!

  • @barbb1672
    @barbb167211 ай бұрын

    Already pre-ordered your book after I discovered you here on KZread. Looking very much forward to receiving it!

  • @nancytrobaugh1424
    @nancytrobaugh142411 ай бұрын

    Love everything about this video! I find myself trying to find my three words. Almost there!! Thank you!

  • @MissNickkieJ
    @MissNickkieJ10 ай бұрын

    I appreciate the communication and how expressive this process was. This was SO helpful.

  • @bridgetfernando5854
    @bridgetfernando585411 ай бұрын

    Fantastic video - so fun, and practical, and helpful to those of us struggling to find our personal style and build a cohesive wardrobe. Absolutely loved it!

  • @TatianaTaninaNo1
    @TatianaTaninaNo111 ай бұрын

    Love your methods! Can't wait for the book already ❤

  • @e.machocolat775
    @e.machocolat77511 ай бұрын

    Allison this was such a big help, I preorder you book as soon as you mentioned it, and i can't. Thank you

  • @denisekirshenbaum7798
    @denisekirshenbaum77984 ай бұрын

    The book is amazing. An incredible resource.

  • @AthalieM
    @AthalieM11 ай бұрын

    I loved this format and hope to see it again. It was really helpful seeing your strategies in real time with a 'regular' person (though maybe not that regular....Grace has some amazing pieces!).

  • @karinefrommontreal
    @karinefrommontreal8 ай бұрын

    I just bought your book « wear it well » cannot wait to define my style and make my own stylish identity❤🇨🇦

  • @yasminastyle
    @yasminastyle11 ай бұрын

    uuu I loved this video! also, that feeling when Allison mentioned the book, but I've already pre-ordered 😎 I'm sooo looking forward to it!

  • @sukaicosmica
    @sukaicosmica19 күн бұрын

    These series are gold. You are really a genius at analyzing every bit of the process of helping people distille their style.

  • @tinasteiger-lee284
    @tinasteiger-lee28411 ай бұрын

    Thanks so much, Allison. I love your videos and styling tipps and also just preordered your book to support you.

  • @AllisonBornstein

    @AllisonBornstein

    11 ай бұрын

    Yay! Thank you!

  • @BrunaBarbosa-xp8yv
    @BrunaBarbosa-xp8yvАй бұрын

    Read your book and had such a hard time deciding my 3 words. This was SUPERRRR helpful. Can't wait to see more of these.

  • @Heather.C.ButterflySage
    @Heather.C.ButterflySage10 ай бұрын

    Practical. Aspirational. Emotional. Love this.

  • @sophiachalkley9839
    @sophiachalkley983911 ай бұрын

    LOVE LOVE LOVE!!! ❤❤❤

  • @faithowan2680
    @faithowan268011 ай бұрын

    Missed seeing this kind of closet video. Please do more!!

  • @adcoriginal
    @adcoriginal11 ай бұрын

    Just preordered. 😊 Hope you post more because your videos are always so fun.

  • @AllisonBornstein

    @AllisonBornstein

    11 ай бұрын

    Yay! Thank you!

  • @mmmvillalobos
    @mmmvillalobos11 ай бұрын

    definitely going to buy ittttttt

  • @AllisonBornstein

    @AllisonBornstein

    11 ай бұрын

    Yay! Thank you!❤❤❤❤

  • @pchinn4373
    @pchinn437311 ай бұрын

    I discovered you recently via Alyssa Beltempo. Although I am old enough to be your mother I still enjoy your styling concepts and just tweak for my age. Especially liked your Closet Edit and I pre-ordered your book so I can learn more from you.

  • @seeit.sewit.sorted6255
    @seeit.sewit.sorted62557 ай бұрын

    I already use a similar process that I got from another fab book, Style Statement - Live by your own design, Carrie McCarthy. They base your style on 2 words though. I found it really helpful. Great video, I agree would be good to see more like this.

  • @jaimielevesquesteel7695
    @jaimielevesquesteel769510 ай бұрын

    Book preordered! Can’t wait. I need help 😂

  • @katerobinson6226
    @katerobinson622611 ай бұрын

    LOVED this !!!

  • @aleksachyzynska
    @aleksachyzynska11 ай бұрын

    Nice video idea ! The 3 word method is super interesting, I loved how you show the process of "researching" these words with Grace, it is really helpful how you proceed. the only thing I personally am less fan of are the outfits, they look great (the appearance isn't the "issue" at all and besides what is pretty to someone is subjective), but I find that these outfits are something we see everywhere, it is very cliché if I may say so, like a "cute" dress with a leather oversized blazer and chunky shoe...or a fitted top and oversized pants... I mean you see it everywhere, it would be nice to see eg a 3rd more original proposition.

  • @karinefrommontreal
    @karinefrommontreal11 ай бұрын

    Im so buying the book! Maybe for my Christmas wishlist

  • @kristinagrom2270
    @kristinagrom2270Ай бұрын

    This is so inspirational ❤ I even tweaked a bit my three words to make them feel more personal, I went from “casual, classic and bohemian” to “casual, elegant and soft”. Thank you very much now I feel like my 3 words will help me to shop better 🤗

  • @KatieRosebraugh
    @KatieRosebraugh11 ай бұрын

    Okay I love your dress and boots look!

  • @baebald1842
    @baebald184211 ай бұрын

    i love your videos so much-- i'll definitely be preordering your book!

  • @AllisonBornstein

    @AllisonBornstein

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @bum7201
    @bum720111 ай бұрын

    love this! cant wait for the book!!! pre ordering now

  • @AllisonBornstein

    @AllisonBornstein

    11 ай бұрын

    Yay!! You are going to love it!!!

  • @stargazerbird
    @stargazerbird11 ай бұрын

    This really works. Loved the looks.

  • @dilettagazzaroli2904
    @dilettagazzaroli290411 ай бұрын

    Looove your YT video! Please do more ♥️

  • @kelly.smith22
    @kelly.smith2211 ай бұрын

    My favourite kind of video 👏🏼

  • @dcoughla681
    @dcoughla6819 ай бұрын

    I love these videos. I can’t wait for the book! I

  • @martynakubajewska6974
    @martynakubajewska697411 ай бұрын

    I can't wait your book! ❤ I hope that it will be available in Poland someday 🥰

  • @AllisonBornstein

    @AllisonBornstein

    11 ай бұрын

    It is! 🎉

  • @Androgynary
    @Androgynary11 ай бұрын

    This method changed the game for me. I apply it not just for my fashion but also for my interior design style as well!

  • @AllisonBornstein

    @AllisonBornstein

    11 ай бұрын

    I love that!! I do too!!! It really helps

  • @katieodea5378

    @katieodea5378

    15 күн бұрын

    The first thing I thought when I saw her living space was “warm and inviting”

  • @audreynadou1181
    @audreynadou118111 ай бұрын

    I can’t wait to buy the book!!!!

  • @SallyRuckerllamalady
    @SallyRuckerllamalady6 ай бұрын

    Can't wait to read the book.

  • @katiet1739
    @katiet173911 ай бұрын

    So enjoy this! This video helped me whittle down my three words 😊

  • @AllisonBornstein

    @AllisonBornstein

    11 ай бұрын

    I'm so glad!

  • @karenburns8387
    @karenburns838711 ай бұрын

    Really looking forward to your book.

  • @AllisonBornstein

    @AllisonBornstein

    11 ай бұрын

    Me too!!!!!🎉

  • @heatherframpton9693
    @heatherframpton96932 ай бұрын

    Brand new subscriber here ...by recommendation of Christina Mychas! Thanks Allison, for the content! 😊❤

  • @dianehutchinson9257
    @dianehutchinson925711 ай бұрын

    I am extremely late to the party because I only found out about you in the last few months, but I've binged all your content! I recently redid my closet using your method and it was brilliant!! I will definitely buy the book!

  • @AllisonBornstein

    @AllisonBornstein

    11 ай бұрын

    Yaaay! Welcome!!!!! I’m so happy to hear this!!!

  • @StefanieZoe
    @StefanieZoe3 ай бұрын

    Hi Girl! I am just loving you work, that fresh approach. It is a pity you didn't put out any new video for quite some time. I am glad for you to be busy a lot with your job. I was wondering if you would consider to film a video about fixes of outfit. You know... To put on a "regular" look you see women around to wear. And after do a fix so we can see what we are doing wrong.

  • @stephaniex8776
    @stephaniex877610 ай бұрын

    just foun dyour videos, so helpful!

  • @Kp1sCreations111
    @Kp1sCreations11111 ай бұрын

    Excellent presentation ❤❤❤ very very interesting video ❤❤❤ great work ❤❤❤ have a wonderful day ❤❤❤

  • @hijlaa
    @hijlaa11 ай бұрын

    I think I have my 3 words down and since I started narrowing that down, I feel like my summer style is coming into its own more now than it has ever done. It´s still not my favorite season to dress for, but I feel less distracted

  • @filipaazevedo8706
    @filipaazevedo87062 ай бұрын

    O melhor vídeo explicando o método das 3 palavras. Super!

  • @elisavioletta
    @elisavioletta11 ай бұрын

    love it! she had already a great style though

  • @denisekirshenbaum7798
    @denisekirshenbaum779811 ай бұрын

    So interesting!!!

  • @veesvoyages
    @veesvoyages3 ай бұрын

    Just been recommended this video from YT and I love the concept! The final looks are gorgeous!

  • @marionannmacredie
    @marionannmacredie11 ай бұрын

    OMG is that a fellow New Zealander!!! So cool to see this!! ❤❤❤❤❤💞

  • @sonyafby

    @sonyafby

    11 ай бұрын

    Pretty sure she’s Australian

  • @rlavelleSLP
    @rlavelleSLP11 ай бұрын

    Congrats on your book- I’m excited to read it! Could you please say where your dress and boots are from? 🖤💫

  • @AllisonBornstein

    @AllisonBornstein

    11 ай бұрын

    Dress is vintage and boots are Khaite x

  • @rlavelleSLP

    @rlavelleSLP

    11 ай бұрын

    @@AllisonBornstein Thanks! So cute 😊

  • @thesarahcandice
    @thesarahcandice11 ай бұрын

    Can you do a video just on jewelry? How it can change the tone of an outfit. I need some tips in the department :)

  • @laraizdo
    @laraizdo11 ай бұрын

    im dying to read your book 😭💘

  • @AllisonBornstein

    @AllisonBornstein

    11 ай бұрын

    Soooon!!!!

  • @JanGlow
    @JanGlow11 ай бұрын

    Just preordered your book and entered the giveaway 😁

  • @kimidoodles
    @kimidoodles11 ай бұрын

    Could this method still apply if you have a very limited closet? Weight loss, plus a new baby, plus decluttering has reduced what I have to a very small amount and it’s all basically boring. I feel boring when I wear it. Definitely going to preorder your book!

  • @AllisonBornstein

    @AllisonBornstein

    11 ай бұрын

    YES! Of course! You don’t have to have a lot of clothes to have style

  • @sierrasmith8722
    @sierrasmith87225 ай бұрын

    practical , aspiration, and emotional.

  • @sierrasmith8722

    @sierrasmith8722

    5 ай бұрын

    my three are: B&W, polished/feminine, and baddie

  • @lolawho8676
    @lolawho86763 ай бұрын

    wow!

  • @Piddeaux
    @Piddeaux6 ай бұрын

    casual/classic/relaxed

  • @user-en7sn6ml2l
    @user-en7sn6ml2l10 ай бұрын

    I love this- watched it twice! (You spelled "aspirational" wrong though.

  • @lynndaniels4935
    @lynndaniels493511 ай бұрын

    I have to 👍 before watching

  • @stephaniex8776
    @stephaniex877610 ай бұрын

    your face reminds me of whitney port and hailey bieber (i mean this as a compliment!)

  • @szfrj
    @szfrj11 ай бұрын

  • @careerfoundryex.1.786
    @careerfoundryex.1.78611 ай бұрын

    Great video! Thank you so much!!! 😍 I have a question but I don't know if you want to answer it because rightly I should book a session... ahah but I'll try anyway 😅 I chose as a third word confident but actually what makes me confident is wearing my regulars so I feel I'm missing something with the third word. maybe I should be more ambitious? Thank you even if you don't answer😘

  • @AllisonBornstein

    @AllisonBornstein

    11 ай бұрын

    It sounds like the word “confident” is just reminding you to have some of your regulars and faves in the look! Which is good! As long as it is making you feel like yourself and feel confident, it’s working !

  • @careerfoundryex.1.786

    @careerfoundryex.1.786

    11 ай бұрын

    @@AllisonBornstein Thank you!

  • @kathyesargent9088
    @kathyesargent908811 ай бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @elisabettaandreella3212
    @elisabettaandreella321211 ай бұрын

    ❤brilliant

  • @2alexwest
    @2alexwest11 ай бұрын

    Love this method! Allison, where is your black dress from? I’ve been looking for something just like it

  • @AllisonBornstein

    @AllisonBornstein

    11 ай бұрын

    Vintage ❤

  • @christinez371
    @christinez37111 ай бұрын

    Would love to see a video for styling when it's super hot out

  • @stephallen9819

    @stephallen9819

    11 ай бұрын

    She's got a KZread styling herself for summer and also some tik toks. Personally in Australia they are more Winter/ autumn ideas 😂

  • @jerrabomberra1
    @jerrabomberra111 ай бұрын

    I’m curious about how the three words can work if you take off a jacket inside for instance and then you’re left with the 1 item which in its own doesn’t really represent your style? How do you fix that?

  • @AllisonBornstein

    @AllisonBornstein

    11 ай бұрын

    Each look doesn’t have to have all words at all times. But i usually call on accessories for this !

  • @lindajoy23
    @lindajoy238 ай бұрын

    Love this Allison ❤ Just a note *ASPIRATIONAL, not *ASPERATIONAL on the overlay 😊

  • @amiesparkle00

    @amiesparkle00

    7 ай бұрын

    Thank you! Spelling errors drive me nuts lol

  • @playtheukulele4flores200
    @playtheukulele4flores20011 ай бұрын

    Ladies I need help , I have a hard time defining my first word . Basically my regulars consist of : Vintage 501 , plain tee shirt or vest top , oversized shirt, cachemire sweaters in winter . Boots in winter , chunky sandals in summer . What do you think ? Classic ? Nineties ? 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @stephallen9819

    @stephallen9819

    11 ай бұрын

    I like the word efortless for basics 😊Have you binged all of Allison's early tik toks? She had some great different ways to find the words and ways some of her friends did it too (a bit different to how she explains it now -1. Describe regulars , 2. Aspirational, 3. Feeling

  • @playtheukulele4flores200

    @playtheukulele4flores200

    11 ай бұрын

    @@stephallen9819 thanks for your reply :) yes i have , but come to think of it , I guess it might depends where you are from . But yes effortless is definitely a great one for me !!

  • @purplecat84491
    @purplecat8449111 ай бұрын

    Straya 🇦🇺

  • @mclainhunter
    @mclainhunter2 ай бұрын

    Mine makes so much sense. Comfortable. Femme. Otherworldly.

  • @saraccoronado
    @saraccoronadoАй бұрын

    my three words are: modest, undone, charming/seductive

  • @kateleeder7191
    @kateleeder71917 ай бұрын

    Really missing your you tube videos …. R u done with your channel here?

  • @leahlums
    @leahlums10 ай бұрын

    Laidback comfort and clean

  • @user-pk1rm3sn4v
    @user-pk1rm3sn4v3 күн бұрын

    Had to say hi, hello nice to meet you and your friend she is cool so are you. ❤❤❤coolcat dan

  • @davidsorenson3265
    @davidsorenson32652 ай бұрын

    How does pants dragging on the ground work in real life?

  • @annakirpicheva3119

    @annakirpicheva3119

    Ай бұрын

    They get dirty immediately. I avoid my pants legit touching the ground when I am standing up/walking, unless its black denim

  • @cariosab
    @cariosab2 ай бұрын

    Where you at gal?!

  • @user-pk1rm3sn4v
    @user-pk1rm3sn4v3 күн бұрын

    You both are so amazingly beautiful so which one of is single

  • @nae4830
    @nae483011 ай бұрын

    Maybe the regular pink sandals would make her feel more realistic?