2:13 They have abundance / perceived abundance 5:42 The Ability to walk away 7:54 Care about something else more than about her

It really boils down to confidence. If you have confidence, then you walk away easily. You know you can go into most situations and start a conversation with a woman. Once you have that you have to be able to create an emotional connection with a woman, which is done through teasing and flirting initially. Then, it’s down to whether you have real compatibility. Good luck!

@SpeCialeDDoC454

21 сағат бұрын

Something more than that tho. Hasn't everyone tried " just be confident?" What is "cringe," or "ick?" Basically, when you "just have confidence," that an observer doesn't think you deserve.

I have such an abundance mindset with women that they are the ones walking away. That's how good i am

What I appreciate about this channel, and I watched your vids years ago, and for better or worst I am here again after a long relationship. Is that unlike most (in my very limited experience) you really do emphasize the ethical and conscientious aspects of finding relationships. Which I think in my eyes gives you a lot of credibility. Thanks for the video.

You're talking about stuff I've experienced myself firsthand. You're talking truth.

@exxie1

27 күн бұрын

Same... some shit still haunt me and make me feel bad. That's why I think hooking up and having these "situationships" are pretty draining in the end. I learned a lot, and it is fun doing it. I'm still doing it right now. But I just want a relationship with a woman and have a family with her in the end. And I want to find her while I'm still in this process and just gain experiences that will make me better

@Doug5614

25 күн бұрын

@exxie1 it can be draining, yes. Especially if you're dealing with multiple women. That's why I stepped away from it all a few years ago. But every now and then, I dip my toe back in when I feel the need.

This is great advice. Those guys, if you put them together. You create a man who puts himself first, respects himself, focuses on his vision that is important to him, has a good circle around him, and talks to people to enjoy social time and has fun. Living a great life that people want to be part of. He doesn't care if you are here or not because he's winning in his own life. Which woman wouldn't pick him? He automatically stands out because he has things going on in his life. On top dress really well, take care of yourself, and build your finances. You have a winning product.

Thank you, Lloyd. I've never liked the idea of deceiving people; it feels like it does attack your soul. However, I do want to get better at talking to people, especially women while staying true to myself.

@ShyMplsMale

26 күн бұрын

So true my man.

Gotta love the thumbnail.

Good advice.

Hey Lloyd, have you ever read the book magical tactics

Wait for summary guy.

@StruffyTheClown

28 күн бұрын

I gotchu

@fede_ponz

28 күн бұрын

Have abundance/perceived abundance. You need to be able to walk away. Put yourself first/have goals greater than her

Wish I could do this but don’t have a lot of money

@TheSingleGuy

28 күн бұрын

Yes it's way better to do this when you have money but I learned how to do it when I was broke

@Bentoto97

28 күн бұрын

@@TheSingleGuy Is it okay for a male customer to socialise a female worker that he likes for 10 or 15 minutes? Or will the female worker get in trouble by her boss because she is suppose to be working in a job right now and not socialise customers?

I hope you'll read this because you're one of the few people online that I think is actually competent with girls and genuine enough for me to bother writing this. You presented the things that work but you talked too generally. We would all appreciate it more if you gave an actual plan on how to take action and incorporate them into our personality and how exactly these tactics work with examples of an interaction with a girl from start to finish. For example you just suggested to approach girls more and become better at it and in the video you showed yourself talking to women in the street but how will that help you get perceived abundance at all? You just approached random girls, talked to them for a bit and went on with your day. Even if the interaction was good it's not like you had an audience. The next girl you meet 5 minutes later doesn't know anything about it so how is it supposed to help? It could make you better at talking to people but it does nothing for abundance. You also didn't go into enough detail about what exactly does it look like for a man to be able to walk away. I mean if the girl doesn't like you and is disrespecting you, she'll be happy if you leave by yourself. I mean you should probably walk away anyway if she starts disrespecting you since like you said if you don't, you'll lose all respect in her eyes but I just disagree that if you do, it'll make her more attracted. She'll just let you leave amd won't care. It's the same thing for when people say act like you don't care and "play it cool". If you act disintrested and don't talk to her yourself, she won't notice that you're not giving her attention and want it more, she'll never even realise it and forget you existed in the first place. These 2 tactics are similar and do work but as far as I've seen, it only does when the girl already wants your attention and doesn't want you to completely cut off all ties by walking away. That's when if you take it from her or start walking away it'll make her panic and want it more and try to do things for you to grab it again. I just don't know yet if there is a way you could leverage them to gain more attraction even if the girl isn't into you yet. And for your final point I agree that having a goal you strive for is very masculine and attractive since it shows that you are competent and actually have a life but in reality I know a lot of motivated and hard working guys that women don't give a shit about. Even I myself have always had an extremely high drive and great work ethic but I never really feel it contributed to my dating life that much. At most I think it helped me to put my foot in the door since I wasn't a bum and mostly later on helped me once we were already in a relationship and they saw how competent and handy I am but it didn't help me in the same way it helped you. You said that it helped you to sleep with multiple people at once and helped you to keep them but my goals never helped me to get or maintain friends with benefits or something similar. So in conclusion elaborate more on how exactly in practice and in real life example these specific tactics helped you to get more and better results with women. Give exact examples of the times that they helped you in a way that if you didn't use them and exactly how to use them so we could better understand what you mean when you're talking about these topics. These information won't be actionable if you only talk about them generally. The best thing you could do which I'm always confused about how I don't see more often is for you to film a video of you interacting with girls and using the tactics that you're talking about or even better to have some of your viewers who aren't good with girls and who want to improve come and you have them use the tactics. I've never bothered to write my criticisms of men channels aince they're almost all just incompetent or scammers looking to exploit men who are trying to improve themselves but I believe you actually read comments and are a genuine person who wants to help men improve so please consider the things I said.

@TheSingleGuy

23 күн бұрын

Hey man I didn’t read everything. But some of clips I have might not be as relevant as they are selected by an editor. In general tho women will notice you being social with women at an event less so for cold approach. As for going into exact detail. It is subjective and depends on the person watching. This is why I work with guys individually so they can do this. If you want an exact plan that works for you from a free KZread video. That is asking quite a bit. Hope this helps and I’d love to help you personally at some point.

The single guy Can you make a video on 7 sign that women give men

Why the title is Lloyd 15 3

@TheSingleGuy

28 күн бұрын

I changed the title but I think it hasn't updated yet. It's These 3 Attraction Triggers Create Deep Desire In Women

@VivekKumar-fg4qc

28 күн бұрын

​@@TheSingleGuyBro do Girls loose attraction or interest if a Guy wears a hair system. Please make a video about this Insecurity.

The single guy Can you make a video on how to get young women in your 40's

That's why I got a lot of girls when I was younger. I was surrounded by girls!

It's really interesting how many other dating coaches (not Lloyd!) fall into a survivor's bias. They talk about men who have "abundance mentality" and get girls, but omit men who have "abundance mentality" and not get girl. The presence of the second group might indicate that the causal relationship is reversed - you don't get abundance mentality and then get girls, you get girls and then get abundance mentality. Lloyd correctly indicates that this is a marketing tool, and no amount of "abundance mentality" will bring you abundance. It goes from outside to inside, not vice versa.

Yeah if getting shallow broken women is your goal

can you make a video on how to have a one nite st@nd and get friends w/ benefits

It shouldn't be a surprise... women don't need to know or learn any particular skills or behaviors in order to have men want to date them or to get men to be attracted to them, just be attractive and available... But men have to demonstrate value right from the beginning in many ways - so we as men have to end up having to working on ourselves a lot more than women do just to get dates and be able to attract the other sex. So yeah, when people and Society say that women have to learn skills or learn behaviors or how to communicate or how to talk a certain way in order to get men attracted to them, that women also have to learn how to meet men or how to get a date, how to meet men, how to get a boyfriend, it just makes me laugh and cringe and I just find it very stupid, it will never make sense to me as to why women have to learn or know dating skills when they don't have to do anything during the seduction or courtship phase. Just go out and show up or simply just be there. Especially since the way the man talks or behaves in a conversation or in an interaction between a man in a woman is what usually determines or influences if the woman is going to be attracted to him or not, not the other way around. I remember one guy only pissed me off more when he said that he has had plenty of women say things to him in conversations or interactions that have turned him off and that have caused him to not want to sleep with them. Well to each their own and I'm sure there are tons of men in the world that are like that but I'm sure it is a lot more common for women than it is for men to get turned off during conversations or interactions between the 2 sexes than the other way around. Because taking the lead and men having to lead the woman, approaching and hitting on, reading a womans signs of Interest and non interest, is obviously a skill that has to practiced and learned, done repeatedly in order to get better. Women just have to passively exist and do nothing and they can still get into a relationship or attract men and that obviously doesn't require any skill or any learning and when people say that it does require skills or learning on women's part, it just mind boggles me and it makes me mad and pisses me off. So yeah men have to do all of the learning and learn all of the skills and behaviors in order to attract women but women just have to exist and do nothing and they still get guys, that's why I get very annoyed that there are even dating coaches and relationship coaches for women.

To get women to like you you have to get other women to like you? I don't get it.

@michaeljeacock

27 күн бұрын

Make female friends. You don't have to try to sleep with all of them. Just go chat to groups about how their day/night is going.