When you don’t have a social circle because you don’t have any friends and we’re in quarantine 🥲

@mocro15A

3 жыл бұрын

Same girl

@siobhanroberts8627

3 жыл бұрын

Right with you 😕

@wileyann9449

3 жыл бұрын

;)

@ViWiHH

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@marisakadlec6927

3 жыл бұрын

True!

He must be kind, empathic, emotionally mature and ambitious! This in my experience roots out toxic, lazy, Narcissistic people.

@Maarten8867

5 жыл бұрын

A person who is very emotionally mature, isn't going to be very ambitious, because they will already be very content with who they are, and will have different priorities.

@mybtsarmyculture9623

5 жыл бұрын

@@Maarten8867 Seriously?

@stephsenglishchannel

5 жыл бұрын

@@Maarten8867 This is pure BS. Emotional maturity and ambition are not mutually exclusive.

@jessiewattenhofer8583

4 жыл бұрын

Those are the same as mine. You took the words right out of my mouth!

@josef.torrealba6992

4 жыл бұрын

Many thanks, I have been researching "to seduce a man" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Fiyadeline Masculine Magnetation - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my co-worker got great results with it.

Like attracts like!! Trust your instincts ... be your best self and right place right time 💕 smile and have good energy!!! 🙌🏻

@dybusmariusz

4 жыл бұрын

No. It's the opposites that attract. Women and men are opposites. Likes make a relationship last longer.

@emanuelafs9958

4 жыл бұрын

Kudos for the Video clip! Sorry for butting in, I would appreciate your initial thoughts. Have you tried - Lammywalness His Happiness Guide (should be on google have a look)? It is a smashing one of a kind product for understanding what men really want without the headache. Ive heard some awesome things about it and my mate after a lifetime of fighting got astronomical success with it.

@kq1777

4 жыл бұрын

That's right. Like attracts like. If the woman is not attracting quality men, then chances are that she herself is not at the quality level of the man. A low quality woman won't attract a high quality man..and vice versa.

@springrain1076

3 жыл бұрын

True

@ummesalma1037

3 жыл бұрын

I'm afraid I don't believe this to be in totally true, yes within context. There are many good people attracting people who seem to recognise gullibility... Narcs and selfish folks go after good people, as they see the potential of they can steal from them by manipulating.. they see thier soft hearts as easy targets..that's is the ugly nature of many...Too many selfish human beings, not enough high quality people that is our problem...its about having decency for others feelings..sorry we are a mess.. I've seen men who come across as high quality, can fool people on the surface level, only through relationships do their true colours show..as relationships challange what other relationships necessarily don't and are more intimate in nature... So yes, there is a group that will attract the like.. and then theres another group that will attract the contrast due to the manipulative nature of the other people ...we seem to just dish out one dynamic as if that is all that exists.. and then everyone forgets to observe or even speak up because noone wants to go against a rhetoric narrative and look like a fool..there are bad people who will and have taken good peoples for a fool, and we can't deny this fact..we call them players,aloofs, womanizers ( if we just talking about men) ..today was told about the word gallis..from a man who admitted he was one..and through our conversations I learnt alot more about the face of such guys (and even women who play the same game and have no intention of respecting one relationship at a time.) If its consented that's between the two, but most are not honest about there intentions... I've never been left more disappointed and confused about men..or maybe accepting this is how that shallow men are by nature and instead of reaching a higher morality...even if its being honest ..most just having ' fun' and say what needs to be said to get what they want with good women and then lagging off to another.. noone is really being honest about the mess we are all in...

Forget online; 90% or more are just looking for sex either FWB, affairs, or casual hookups. Coffee shop is ok. Others are the hotel bar for business travelers, the grocery store, the gym (or sport activity like a running club or pickup soccer league where the guy:girl ratio is like 10:1). And the single best place in my opinion - Home Depot or Lowes! Keep the initial contact light, fleeting, almost indifferent. Most important tip of ALL - ask for help. At Starbucks: "Can you help me with my computer wifi connection?" Hotel bar: "I'm here alone on business; do you know this area for places to eat?" Grocery: "Can you help me reach that item at the top/back?" Gym: "Can you show me how to use this machine?" At Home Depot: just about ANYTHING depending on the aisle. Pick aisles with do-it-yourself preppy guys with ringless fingers - lighting, grilling, storage, hardware tools, and light yard equipment. Don't pick blue collar stuff like cement blocks and lumber. (Grocery especially after work hours so you can see how they dress for work. also the risk of running into a married guy doing grocery shopping is minimal unless you see tampons in his cart)

@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

4 жыл бұрын

I like the music store and car shows. Guy asked me out at the music store in like 5 minutes. Probably thought I was going to buy his way, though. Too young to have any stature in life.

@LeFleur80

4 жыл бұрын

Dang you got a lot of experience! Thanks for the tip!

@Asafo.

3 ай бұрын

I’m capturing this comment for reference, thanks

You will find most successful people that are successful for extended periods of time are usually humble and warm people. The reason is, to stay successful requires one to be honest with themselves, recognize where they're falling short, and work on their weaknesses.

@PtolemyXVII

4 жыл бұрын

William Jeffreys humility is so attractive in men ❤️

@williamjeffreys2980

4 жыл бұрын

@@PtolemyXVII Women too.

@GeorgePenton-np9rh

2 ай бұрын

This is the mantra that everyone repeats but that everyone knows isn't true. Warm and humble people are thought of as losers by women and by people on the job. The proud and the arrogant may be pains in the butt bit at least they get stuff done and they attract all the women.

My sister met her now husband online! They have been married for 10 yrs now, they have a lovely daughter of 4yrs and they are very happy.. so...there are quality men also online

@maryterezk8657

5 жыл бұрын

Which app was it? :p

@bab1374

5 жыл бұрын

I met my wonderful bf online single fitness. We both match each other instantly. We both are nurses, love outdoor. He is so commited to our relationship, honest, loving, caring, generous and kerp his words. His actions talking for him who he is. He is truly high value quality man . People who is online are usually are busy with their profession, work...they so not have time to go to circle to circle ..And hanging around with social circle with "high value quality men.", you usually think of men with career, educated...but they forget high quality value men are the one who live with intergrity. How many are there today? But if you define high value quality men due to his society status is a big fat no..I have been working as a nurses for more than 26 years, there are some doctors ,I would not even send my cat to them, don't talk about dating..They have very urgly personality...so, who cares to date them...

@anoukc6928

5 жыл бұрын

@@maryterezk8657 If it was 10 years ago, it wasn't an app but rather a dating online website. Back to 2008, smart phones didn't exist. I met my partner online but it was in 2000, there were quality men on these dating sites (mostly geeks).

@majormediaproductions

5 жыл бұрын

@@anoukc6928 what site was that? 😊👍🏾

@galaxyride4944

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly

I am a super connector, graduated from tech and MBA, host neighborhood events, frequently go to professional events, and am also part of a sailing club. It hasn't worked.

@evamaria644

4 жыл бұрын

I don't want to come off rude but the truth is you have too much male energy and you haven't leveled up in your appearance and dress enough to elude feminine energy. I heard a Rabbi tell a lady who was a lawyer but wasn't able to find someone to marry to quit her law position and take a job as a pre-school teacher. She did and months later she was dating someone and getting engaged. You are competing with the men whether you know it or not. Asian woman is usually very good at looking extremely feminine.

@rehanemohamed8221

4 жыл бұрын

Hello I'm single and looking for love

@LilBrownieD

4 жыл бұрын

@@evamaria644 This is honestly ridiculous advice

@LisaGemini

4 жыл бұрын

@@evamaria644 That does sound ridiculous. A woman can be a lawyer and still have feminine energy. She doesn't need to quit her job and become a teacher instead.

@evamaria644

4 жыл бұрын

​@@LisaGemini Just because you wear feminine clothes doesn't mean you are feminine. Just because you can dress and act feminine doesn't mean you have the quality and men know the difference, especially, an Alpha man. Have you ever held a masculine position? Well, I have I was a Sergeant in the Army with men under my authority. You don't ask men to politely, get into formation you COMMAND them to obey you with force and aggression. It's the same way in the court room or any negotiations. You're NOT trying to nurture your opponent you're trying to break him. You can stay in make believe world with your artificial feminism but I live in the real world and that just isn't how men and women relationships are.

These are my thoughts too! So refreshing to hear about a community based approach to getting to know a quality guy and be in a super relationship!

It’s simply amazing how you pour your heart into these videos... Greatly appreciative of your input on how important it is for one to know what they’re looking for.

For me trust and loyalty are the most important, and I find so many people have things like being good looking, money, good job etc. but fail in the trust and loyalty bit

@dybusmariusz

4 жыл бұрын

It's always about traits of character not external fleeting physical features.

@That-Wanderer

4 жыл бұрын

I feel your pain for sure

@Deb_deCoder

Жыл бұрын

If he has money and also is good looking.. why he needs to be loyal ? He can get any gal

Where will I be in my 90s? Living life like betty white.

@mariagarcia-ys3oo

3 жыл бұрын

True. He says your suppose to ask yourself what type of man you want when your 90. Probably 98% of the population will be 6 feet under. Lol.

As a guy who works in tech I love how hard he is shilling for our industry in this video lol. It's very true though, I know a lot of smart, friendly guys who make a lot of money and could use a girlfriend...

@alwayswell6119

2 жыл бұрын

Where do those guys hang out at? Also, which country are you in?

@sabrinaasl

Жыл бұрын

You where u from

Love everything you said! This has definitely helped me to know where to go to build my network of high quality people

This is the most unique and intelligent advice I've ever found on this topic. Brilliant! Thank you.

Thankyou for your advice, I always think about less my self before, I’m not deserve to get high quality men. I always repair my self to become a next quality women for my future men. Every single day I improve my self to be an amazing women to be proud him and then I will same with him, exactly superior people 🙏🏻hehe

1_So i believe that iam perfect 2_i think about who is the perfect match and will be for 30 years later 3 _ i will think what is his personality and go to places you would think they go 4_ make friend with asuper connecter ( thise people who know alot of people ) 5_ say a complement from your heart and honest 6_ be "super connecter" 7_ host people and invite them to event 8_ make event like pick venue and call someone who talk in this event and post it DID I UNDERSTAND IT ,??

That is so amazing! Thank you, I think that really is a good advice, one of the best when you're searching for a quality man.

Thanks this is really great actionable info. Way better than the texting scripts and manipulations that most dating coaches use.

This video frustrates me becauss I am am introvert. I dread social situations

@ninagarza4118

4 жыл бұрын

I feel that way too. There’s all kinds of reasons that an individual is not comfortable socializing, such as social anxiety, being introverted, withdrawn from being bullied or abused, a form of Autism, etc. However, don’t listen to people, like the one who commented 6 months ago that “something is wrong if you can’t socialize” because that’s not true. Regardless of the reason you may feel uncomfortable in social situations still doesn’t change the fact that you are a wonderful person at heart ❤️

@moneytree385

3 жыл бұрын

Same

Connection = like minded nd understanding people it doesn't matter whether they are successful or not! Connection is everything

Ah, fuck, there's no getting around it: i actually have to *talk* to people

Usually I'm the one being chased and discerning when a guy is being manipulative in his ways with charm is my GREATEST asset!

THIS...is some of the BEST advice I've heard in a LONG TIME! thanks for sharing!

Love this! 15mins well spent. Thank you

Wow!!...what an amazing video! Like many women I struggled to meet high quality men, kept attracting the wrong man. I am sick of the online dating world, thus I like, agree 100 % with your perspective. I'll put these strategies to practice soon, fingers crossed I'll meet a quality man soon enough :)

@cfa5912

2 жыл бұрын

High quality men is out of proportion to high quality women...

...downloads meetup app! I mean...of course! So simple! GREAT advice.💜

I appreciate your insights! Your channel is very helpful and has changed my perspective on attracting my future partner. THANK YOU! 🌟💛🙌🏼

You always provide great value! very interesting ideas and creative suggestions - thanks so much!!

From a quality man: At the gym, at the grocery store, at the mall, at a salsa/latin dance class, at college. Gym: The man is trying to take care of his health and has goals, this is already a good signal that he has a dedication to something and it carries on to other aspects of his life. Grocery Store: A young man shopping by himself? Filling up the cart? Yeah, he definietly needs a nice woman like you spending his money and filling up the cart for him. Get busy finding a single man at the grocery store rather than being busy with your work and school (you can always do that later). The Mall: Once a gain, single guy walking around by himself. Sure he has better things to do, but he is hunting for a woman like you. It doesn't hurt to make yourself approachable to him and figure out his status and what he's looking for. Dance classes: Hot guys love to go here to find hot dates. Please don't waste his time just to get attention and recognition/validation. Actually GO OUT with one or two of the guys you meet there to make men feel like you are making an active effort as well. College: Don't run away when the guy who you have been eyeing you trys to sit next to you. Just hear him out, and if he totally pisses you off for invading your space and sitting next to you, then walk away (kinldy).

Awesome video! Just what I needed because I was thinking about not renewing my online dating site. It just doesn't seem to be working!

Can you please make an updated video on how to use the same techniques but post pandemic? That would be so helpful!! Thank you 🙏

One of the greatest advice I got! Thank you, Jason! You gave me a direction. )))

@mikeandrew9270

3 жыл бұрын

Hello my name is Mike Andrew from the United States of America and you I really hope we can be friends and get to know each other

Thanks for the tips! I live in the northwest suburbs of Chicago!

Introverts who do not navigate towards large events, crowds, groups, or gatherings. Excellent advice for extroverts.

You are such a lovely person - thank you for your video. :)

Thank you so much for the practical advices! I have a unique situation and appreciate your insights. I’m a young Chinese woman living in Germany since 2 years, I’m well educated and come from wealthy family, but my German is not good and I don’t have many friends here. Finding a quality man is challenging even for women who are in their home countries. I also have to deal with language and culture differences, which become big problems for me to connect with people around me. how could I connect with people better, and potentially meet a quality man in new foreign country?

@dominique4359

5 жыл бұрын

You'll be fine right now White men are looking for Asian women. Try being an African-American female in America the dating is way more layers of trying to find love outside of racism. colorism, social class, environment, education, and values are the hard part of finding an equal in America. And as a Black woman more challenging due to racist values that place stigmas on you as a Black female in a Whtie dominate nation...well hell maybe we have more in common, but you still have more shot because the world is obsessed with colorism is where you win your lighter which makes a difference in a country of Whites or light skin people.

@aussiejubes

4 жыл бұрын

@@dominique4359 that's the most grossly dismissive & narcissistic thing to say to a POC. Do you think only black people experience discrimination & racism? Do you think America is the only country that has issues with this? You guys live in such a bubble & from an outsider looking in let me tell you to get some perspective & have some tact for starters. What you did here was barrel over someone's experience with your own as if yours is so much worse & the only important one when you have NO IDEA. totally lacks perspective, knowledge, empathy & maturity.

@jamiemiller9268

4 жыл бұрын

@@aussiejubes 👍👍 Straight up.

Those of us who are highly introverted can either learn the traits of an extrovert and use them at will as more of our arsenal of skills, or whine about how difficult it is with our personality to go out and meet strangers. We can empower ourselves by accepting that we need to learn some new skills, or we can disempower ourselves by using our personality as a lame excuse to not do anything toward getting what we say we want. It's a choice, and we're responsible for our choices. Is it easy? Of course not. Who said it's supposed to be easy? You get to be the victim or the heroine of your own story, and you get to decide what role you want to play.

To be honest online or offline.. men have one thing on their mind, and commitment isnt it.. its how many sexual partners to feed their ego.. there are very few high quality men who infact have a level of respect for ladies and don't toy..

@Ponnu8863

Жыл бұрын

True

I know a woman who met the love of her life in a laundry mat, because by chance they both needed to wash some clothes unexpectedly long story and they both ended up going into this laundry mat to try to do some clothes really quick when they were both out of town and they met each other, and a laundry mat

@mikeandrew9270

3 жыл бұрын

Hello I like your comments hope we can be friends and get to know each other

@zararoyce319

3 жыл бұрын

@@mikeandrew9270 hii

@mikeandrew9270

3 жыл бұрын

@@zararoyce319 hello dear I really hope we can be connected on Instagram and get to know each other more better

@hannielordadjadeh9579

3 жыл бұрын

@@mikeandrew9270 Hi please you single still?

@barbarawiedmann528

3 жыл бұрын

I'm a cowgirl barrel racer yeehaw

Really appreciate this video. You've given me an idea: my brother and I are taking care of 15 rural acres inherited from our parents, where we grew up. We're planting and supporting wildlife using permaculture, to bring the water table back up (catastrophic fire, climate change and water shortage are huge here in the west), evolving irrigation-free land that thrives on rainfall alone. I'm inviting various local and regional sustainable living groups here. I want to host events about these things, which I care deeply about, and which will possibly bring like-minded men around. Thanks!

Where will I be when I am 90? ALIVE?

@atulpandey455

5 жыл бұрын

haha, We all gonna die to that time.

@optionsspecialist1214

5 жыл бұрын

Looks like 70 years from now for you.

@anjavanherwaarden9711

5 жыл бұрын

Read your post by than...

@tamarasmith1706

4 жыл бұрын

Lol

@fairytaleprincessevents4251

4 жыл бұрын

Ha ha I was like hopefully not

Thanks for this knowledgeable video may God bless you now i am ready to follow this procedure in order to have my soul mate once again thanks

Your point around 4:00 is everything! Need to start thinking about my 90 year old self rather than fulfilling temporary pleasures

The first few minutes is so important. Thank you :)

@jasonsilveryt

6 жыл бұрын

You're welcome. Thanks for the comment!

I'm looking forward to expanding my social circle I just moved to ATL and I met a man who seemed nice at first but he was one of the bitcoin obsessed guys. I'm an illustrator and he made it very clear that he didn't respect my career so I stopped talking to him and then decided to get a "friends of museum" pass. You get access to special events and a professionals social circle that's open to people exactly in my dating age range. That way I can meet someone who respects what I do and has similar interests.

I have to say this is ONE of the BEST videos that you have.

@ivanarkady9837

3 жыл бұрын

Are you single, is that you?

Im not a very social person but i love to hear you speak im learning i do not have a father o brother to teach me that and when i listen to you is like to have a brother or friend, God bless you

@ivanarkady9837

3 жыл бұрын

If you're not a racist you can date me I'm a black single that's my picture right there

I really love this video! Excellent quality.

Tjisnis good advice for people who have time. Not easy if you work alot and do t have time such as weekends

He got the real juice for those girls out there. These are bomb advices! Not only in dating life, but this improves your social skills and be that classy lady who knows a lot of people. Guys would chase after y'all girls for sure.

@jasonsilveryt

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks Ree!

@butterflykisses6842

5 жыл бұрын

So Guys like girls who know a lot of people??

@reecat9846

5 жыл бұрын

@@butterflykisses6842 well not exactly. But this can help you have a larger social circle. In dating life, it could give you more options of men to choose from.

@butterflykisses6842

5 жыл бұрын

@@reecat9846 what if you're more of an introvert. Not interested in a large social circle. So men won't be attracted to someone who is not popular?

@reecat9846

5 жыл бұрын

@@butterflykisses6842 not true as well..tbh less men would be attracted to introverts but I'm sure there are methods for them..all I'm saying is that you'd have more options if you improve your social skills

Woah! You’re a high school dropout?! You should do a bio video sometime. How did you end up being a dating coach?

I would love to expand my social circle!

This is amazing advice. Great channel.

@jasonsilveryt

6 жыл бұрын

This is an amazing comment. Thanks Olga!

Good points. Thank you!

Online is the best way . You can pin point exactly who you want to deal with .

I don’t have anyone around me who is of high quality or who can get me connected to men of high quality

@vasilicacojoc5586

3 жыл бұрын

Me too..

You are humble. Great men can be self educated, so don't believe it has to be some ivy league college...of course, you've made your way and don't need to hear this.

I LOVE all your advice 💕

great video thanks man!

Where do I start if I don’t know a super connector?

I'm excited to meet my man

Jason I live in Wheaton and would love to know where I should go! I took a Powerboating Certification Class It was amazing but no single men :/ I loved it just for myself but now is such a hard time to meet people

How do you change your social circle during the pandemic?

You are an excellent mentor. Tfs 💕

I enjoy your channel and this is the first one I could hear music in the background. It was distracting.

Ok, now I’m listening.

@jasonsilveryt

6 жыл бұрын

😃

I am shy and have had a few bad relationships my problem is I am billable and give to much time in relationships instead of going with my gut instead I listen to their words which were lies not true love and I have waisted so many years it is very hard to trust and to find a great guy like back in the olden day one word respect everything after that will fallow can someone tell me how to find a man like that

Ya that doesn’t work for introverts

@jasminepolanco3454

5 жыл бұрын

And introverted Mama's.

@natcaro6829

5 жыл бұрын

So.maybe it is time to be outgoing ..step by step ... that's what I did ..and it's working !

@tamarasmith1706

4 жыл бұрын

This video pisses me off for that very reason.

@leahveal9501

4 жыл бұрын

Introverts need tools, techniques and a safe space to practice their communication skills in order to help them along for sure.

@ImmortalKron2

4 жыл бұрын

If you stop giving yourself titles on what/who you are, you unlock a world of possibility.

Loved your content..!!

Hi! I am 30. I have been working in companies since I was 18. I have dated great men but it didn't work out into something concrete. I haven't dated anyone for 17 months, that's because I have lost two jobs since, so I've put off dating because I feel I don't have much to give in a relationship. I have had only 4 months of employment in last 17 months, all my savings are now exhausted obviously, and I have to live with family (which is okay in my culture). I hope I am making the right decision of keeping dating on the back-burner until I get my career back on track. Sometimes I really do want to go out on date again but can't because I am broke and I don't want men to think less of me because I don't have a job right now. Thought I had a question for you, but I am just ranting now hahaha Thank you for reading!

@Fay1106

6 жыл бұрын

Shruti Singh I think you should still date because it's good practice and you won't get rusty and you might miss out on a great guy because of something so small like a job. Most men of quality don't care if you have a job or not and if you don't they would even be willing to help! I was in a situation like that once and I became vulnerable and told the guy I was dating that I had been looking and he actually knew someone that could help me out! Don't shut yourself off from the world for things like that unless you emotionally need time off for yourself. A lot of men don't care about your job trust me! If they like you they will look past that and might even want to take care of you! And if you feel that uncomfortable just don't tell them you don't have a job it's not their business anyway!

@ya__basic

6 жыл бұрын

Yours sounds like a great advice, now I just have to convince myself to it. I think it's an ego issue. Quite nice of you to take the time out and write all of that. Thank you so much!

@80s4everever

6 жыл бұрын

Shruti Singh If it were me--speaking for myself only--I would put off dating until I were more comfortable or happy with myself or situation. How I'm feeling on the inside attracts or repels the opposite sex, depending on how I feel. Confidence is sexy; it's like a magnet. Lacking confidence attracts guys I don't like or no one at all. Whatever you do, the best of luck to you, and trust your gut instincts!!!

@ya__basic

6 жыл бұрын

80s4everever That's precisely why I've been putting off dating. Thanks for your input!

@1maybeline

6 жыл бұрын

Shruti Singh You should use your situation and go out there and Network with others in the industry you're looking to work in. Organize & plan your calendar with events you could attend (networking, speaches, volunteer, gym, etc). This will help you with making career connections and who knows - you might also meet someone that you're attracted to. Just don't stay home emailing resumes until you find a job - get out there and meet people! Make sure you make it a point to show the good qualities in you like being kind, courious, conversational, drive, etc. Your chances of finding a "good job" is easier when you're referred than when you send out a resume/CV. Just make sure you know what's going on in the world (what people are talking about at the moment) so that you can converse about it with others. There are many groups online like www.meetup.com and others that you can search for events that interests you.

Excellent Advise!!!

@jasonsilveryt

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks Katherine!

Great video!

by the way, can u define what is high quality people? coz each person has their own definition of high quality person.... for me God will give the right person at the right time....just always pray He knows wht is best for you....God will not give what we want, He will give what we need...

Great advice

We need something like ...........A center for adults only! Game rooms,........crafts,.......comfy sections to drink anything!.......Discussion groups, dance lessonsect. You can mingle all day, evening possibley dancing at night!...Come and go as you want! Hard to explain typing.lllSomething for all! I hear laughing......lol!

I'd very much like to know how I could become a super connector.

Hi! I am in my 40’s! I am lucky, in that I believe that I have a natural charisma! I’m very grateful for it! Now, having said that! I tend to be kind-hearted( which I love)! But, I attract broken people, because I truly care about people! I’m going thru my 2nd divorce. I want to find someone who deserves someone like me! I’m not being big-headed, I just am aware of my faults, as well as my positives! Being over 40, do you have any advice gauged specifically toward my age group? Do I need to start plastic surgery? How thin do I need to be? Etc! Please please help?

@kayleighsmith8580

2 жыл бұрын

Men are visual so anything improving your appearance that makes you feel like a million bucks is worth it. Study how to be more emotionally mature if you're attracting the wrong types

so awesome you lost some weight got healthy and did a yoga instructor course :)

Hi my name is Stan I am 32 year old been single a year I looking special woman what is a best group of dating and meeting new people

I like the way you approach them if they be willing to...

Good advice!

I am kind of super-connector however - i am solo for many years now

Jason! I am an EXTRAORDINARY woman. Really! And I maybe attracting less than extra ordinary men... What about me am I not connected to?

The Problem is how the Other Person takes the Compliment because of their Cultural beliefs. Usually in Latin American most people take Compliments pretty well and Appreciate it. But in the USA a Lot of People take compliments the wrong way, and they don't even bother asking what the person meant, they just get offended easily. Like for example, in Latin American women take flirt and compliments coming from a Men very differently than women in the USA and Europe.

@Red0660

5 жыл бұрын

Men aren't allowed to flirt with women in the U.S. It is best to not look women in the eye or stare down at the ground. Also be sure to not "manspread" when seated.

This is total practical genius! Great going, Jason :)

@jasonsilveryt

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks Anne Marie!

Great vedio sir hope find for me man good for me I'm interested this vedio

I moved to an area I probably shouldn’t have - because very low chance of quality people around. I don’t know many here so super connector is just not happening. So seems like I need to move out of central Florida lol. What are the prospects for women in their late 40’s?

@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

4 жыл бұрын

Get a badass car and go to car shows. The right demographic. Not losers. Cars take money. And they can fix stuff. They're usually the right age.

Your wife is lucky 🍀

I'd like to learn more how to become a social connector

This video was obviously NOT made with introverts in mind. I have to make friends with a super connector, get to know their friends and then their friends until I meet the right friend group for me to date within? I honestly don't have the energy for that much socializing! In fact, I'm tired just from watching this video! Too many people for me! 😔

Ooh yes, I love art and technology. 👩‍🎨💻 However, technology kind of got me into trouble. So I discard going to any tech scenes sadly. Unfortunately in mid west America, those men who are into technology do not care about themselves or their appearances and are some of the most insecure people you'd meet. I was accused at one point for leading on this programmer dude so I stay away from tech scenes. 😅 The scenes I'd love to get into would be filled with well-groomed business-minded men in suits! I'd love to find someone who I am attracted to and he attracted to me and we can help each other out with our businesses! ❤

@sam12587

5 жыл бұрын

On the tech guys, Amen! I am in the heartland and 90% of tech guys are usually immature basket cases. Best avoided. Look at where men like you want tend to hang out. In my town it's usually at the opera house or more refined cutural events like wine tastings, etc.

What if your an introvert and dont know a super connector?

@Mywatercrystaltv

5 жыл бұрын

Become one.....

@anoukc6928

5 жыл бұрын

even if you are introvert (which I am too), I'm sure you know at least one super connector. Think about a family member or a coworker. But becoming a super connector yourself can be hard if you are an introvert as it will require a lot of energy, which is hard as introverts refuel their energy when they spend time alone.

@danielrrjd

5 жыл бұрын

Hi, maybe we can connect

@CatEyedGoddess

5 жыл бұрын

@@Mywatercrystaltv easier said than done when you're a introvert.

@anjavanherwaarden9711

5 жыл бұрын

@@CatEyedGoddess I AM extravert and many Times Just to direct . That's not so easy as well. Do not make problems. ...... Hi hi see what I mean

Hi Jaso Thank you for all of your insightful videos. I am DEFINITELY a social butterfly--I enjoy getting people together as much as possible; however, I want to be a super connector. My natural personality is one of being a "complimenter" (did I just make up that word? Lol) but I would greatly value any insight you have to improve my skills to grow my social circles. Time is valuable and I would like to streamline my understanding within your field of expertise. Please reach out to me when you have the time. Many thanks and much appreciation, Amy Headings

@amyakanicole

5 жыл бұрын

And Jason, I'm not sure what happened to the "n" in your name...hmmm...today's mystery. -Amy

To me he must be God fearing i mean God fearing,submissive to God's ways, sacrificial when it comes to a healthy life and atleast 50/50 caring or even more.

@daphniefarkas5703

2 жыл бұрын

We are looking for the same unicorn 😁 My top quality is that he must love Jesus and others more than himself, and be kind, caring, and compassionate with a servant's heart. Also he must be mentally, emotionally, and financially stable/healthy. I'm an apologist, so being a true Christ follower, not just a cultural Christian is important to me. We must have the same core beliefs and values. If he is as far along on his faith walk as I am that is a big plus. It's also really hard to find a man nowadays who respects the fact that he is not going to get the milk without buying the cow first.

Honestly, as somebody who actually has a background in organizational communication by chance, I do not think that this is good advice at all. For several reasons I say that. Firstly, this video is not really saying anything other than find well-connected people kiss their ass with some made up a stupid compliment and then try to wiggle your way into their world in order to social climb off of them. Secondly, it’s just not a very good method anyway to go about this approach, and there’s nothing unique about the suggestions here, everybody knows the whole idea of trying to get in good with well-connected people so that they can connect you to other well-connected people and all of that. Also, most people in high positions of power are extremely used to social climbing attempts and kissing ass tactics and they are very unlikely to be phased by it in most cases. If anything, it’s going to make such individuals more suspicious of you. Also, you can meet all kinds of people in all kinds of places.

@abaddierey

4 жыл бұрын

You missed the point of the video

Great tips =)

Lol. Never met anyone in real life except my kids dad. In high school. And that didn't end well lol.

@jaimecca6259

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@ivanarkady9837

3 жыл бұрын

Hey

that's high quality advice :)

@jasonsilveryt

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the high-quality comment!

Good luck to us who are extremely introverted and get tongue-tied in public

Hello I enjoyed this video and would love to learn to be a superconnector, I meet lots of cool people doing amazing things that I'm interested in,but maybe not an expert or knowlegeable, but am willing to learn.