That's Not A Healthy Relationship | Therapy Thursday | Issac Curry
If you have to lose yourself in order to secure that relationship, you may need change directions. Because you can't self-abandon your way into a healthy relationship.
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He preaching here. Just ended my relationship the beginning of this year. I had to repent for trusting man over God. God is just so forgiving and so gracious to me. This is the most peace I’ve had in five years. Ladies, take God at his word. He’ll never leave you and what’s coming is better than what’s been.
@vinnieedwards9699
2 ай бұрын
You are not by yourself, this is my last time setting, I will wait, even if it never comes it’s better than heartbreak 💔
@neveling67
2 ай бұрын
I also ended my relationship earlier this year. This video captures all of it. I still miss him but we couldn’t continue as I was sinning. I’ll pray for you and please pray for me 🙂♥️ God bless
@ExpressionsofanInspiredHeart
2 ай бұрын
I'm grateful for THERAPY THURSDAY!
@ExpressionsofanInspiredHeart
2 ай бұрын
I'm proud of all of you all Being Intentional about your life and growth!!
@melaniedaly4321
2 ай бұрын
Amen my sister 🙏 I was there about 3yrs ago and God is gooooood
You know the relationship is not healthy… 1. When you have to force the relationship. 2.When there is no relational direction or clarity. 3.When you can’t trust your partners word. 4.When your character is compromised. 5.When you need to be in control. 6.When there is no self control. 7.When there is no trace of Gods presence.
U knw it's unhealthy when u cnt recognize u. Mmmm thts DEEP 💯
Man, you be punching me in the face everyweek and I keep coming back😂❤
@iamissaccurry
2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 that's what you call growth! May God bless you with great big blessings. I pray you experience intimacy with Him like you've never had before.
@ryansmith7721
Ай бұрын
FACTS!!!
You cannot self-abandon your way into a healthy relationship🗣🗣🗣🗣‼️‼️
@ginamanuel3289
2 ай бұрын
This!!!!
This needs to be preached! Alot of women in the church are getting in TERRIBLE relationships not centered in God. Including myself, bc of wanting a husband n children. N it never ends good! This touched my spirit! Nothing not centered in God, ever works out! Learning to trust God!
*Hallelujah 🙌🏻!!!!! The daily jesus devotional has been a huge part of my transformation, God is good 🙌🏻🙌🏻. I was owing a loan of $49,000 to the bank for my son's brain surgery, Now I'm no longer in debt after I invested $11,000 and got my payout of $290,500 every month…God bless Mrs Christy Fiore ❤️*
@HallCampbell-bx4wf
2 ай бұрын
Hello!! how do you make such monthly, I’m a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down of myself 😭 because of low finance but I still believe God
@AdamsThompson-qq4gs
2 ай бұрын
Thanks to my co-worker (Alex) who suggested Ms Christy Fiore.
@kasandraiehelton
2 ай бұрын
She's a licensed broker here in the states🇺🇸 and finance advisor.
@kasandraiehelton
2 ай бұрын
After I raised up to 525k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my son's surgery….Glory to God, shalom.
@DorothaIsabelle
2 ай бұрын
Can I also do it??? My life is facing lots of challenges lately
Ended the toxic relationship in January. That pain/heartbreak was so intense during/after the relationship. I lost sight of me but God never did. Even though it still hurts most days, I needed to hear this word as a reminder of where I was and where the Lord has me today.
This is better than my therapist. Tuning in every week! Life changing! It’s so needed. I’m ready!!!
@RhenaLoveTarot
2 ай бұрын
Yea, because this is healing your spirit 😊a therapy can't do that
@rosannacrouch7581
2 ай бұрын
I can surely agree... I haven't been to mine in months since watching Therapy Thursday
This message really spoke to me. It’s like I feel real comforted and strong while receiving the word, but I still struggle daily to apply these very things. I’m 40, single, and I don’t have any children. No lie, it gets hard. I pray that I don’t make an idle out of a man or the idea of marriage. I struggle in my flesh with sex (fornication) at times. I don’t want to keep living in sin. Yet, I do understand that marriage is more than sex. I pray for peace and God’s will in this area of my life.
When you find that thing that’s off limits to God you’ve found your idol. Jesus keep us free from idols. Let us stand bold in our need for you and only you!
This was incredible and no coincidence I came to this. All God. I was actually coming back to an older sermon about heartbreak and Gods timing after experiencing my own heartbreak with the same man again. Knowing already we are in an unhealthy relationship for many reasons. This was the live topic for today. Amazing
@UndeniableGrace
2 ай бұрын
This isnt just in marital relationships!
@ladennayoung2939
2 ай бұрын
Yeah. We have to choose to know our worth and identity in Christ. Jesus took everything that HE took for us because we have value. A lot of people need to get free from codependency, abandonment issues, rejection issues, or whatever the case may be. I pray your strength in the LORD in JESUS' name. I pray that you choose from this day forward to see yourself as GOD sees you IN JESUS' NAME. THE NAME ABOVE ALL NAMES. AMEN. ❤❤❤
@ladennayoung2939
2 ай бұрын
THE JOY OF THE LORD IS YOUR STRENGTH. AMEN.
This was goooooooddddd I cried the entire time. Marriage is in shambles and God just removed more layers off of me to do something with the information given. Thank u pastor
We live in a generation where there’s no accountability whatsoever I would not be surprised many people commenting on these comments section are the reason of the toxicity in their relationship but lack self awareness. People just assume that the other person is the problem maybe some therapy Thursday on accountability would be great too. If you toxic and lack self awareness watching this video does not make your partner toxic, it’s feeding your ego. ACCOUNTABILITY
@alexdelhierro8914
2 ай бұрын
This is the best comment here
@eddyngoie5846
2 ай бұрын
@@alexdelhierro8914 thank you! It’s sad though.
@keelahcovington4185
Ай бұрын
This comment though, facts; I always ask myself “what part did I play?”. A relationship takes two. It’s always easy to see the others side & their faults, but it’s odd & rare to look at your own faults. I believe a lot of people see their faults or the part they played. And some may truly not. But, it’s just easier for some to push all the blame on the other. Bc true accountability causes for you to look at yourself & uncover the parts that even you might not like about yourself or the hand that you had in it. You have to see the whole picture to really take accountability. And what I’ve come to find, is that many are not capable of doing this or don’t want too. True accountability is taking account for yourself, you can acknowledge their role. But you won’t point fingers bc you know theirs 3 more pointing back at yourself.
@eddyngoie5846
Ай бұрын
@@keelahcovington4185 absolutely
When relationship not healthy 1. When you have to force the relationship 2. When there is no relational direction and clarity 3. When cannot trust your partner words 4. When your character is compromise 5. When you need to be in control 6. When there is no self control 7. When there no trace of Gods present You can’t loss yourself into a healthy relationship Choose You!!
I can not express how groundbreaking these sessions are for people around the world. I’m tuning in weekly from Honolulu Hawaii and I appreciate this therapy Thursday ministry so much! God is moving thru you both you Men of God in real time. Helping people like me to make sense of who God created me to be
@iamissaccurry
2 ай бұрын
Wow! Praise God for this! Both Pastor Jerry and I are grateful to you!
First time, and I thank God that I am here.
@Nanas.secretLa
2 ай бұрын
Welcome, I'm proud of you for seeking something to feed you positively this afternoon. God Bless 🤍
This is my 1st time streaming
@vinnieedwards9699
2 ай бұрын
Welcome
@reginalove6201
2 ай бұрын
Welcome 🎉🎉
@ladennayoung2939
2 ай бұрын
Welcome. You are now one of the cousins officially. LOL. God bless. ❤❤❤
Wow. This really ministered to me. I just ended a bond with my ex boyfriend of 5 5 1/2 years. We both did the same patterns. I had to make a choice, God first, or this destructive behavior. I ask prayers of strength.
@davilynreid9394
2 ай бұрын
5 and 1/2 years
First time. Thank you Lord for leading this video my way. I'm ready!!! Please pray for me! I'm ready!!!
GOD MEET ME AT THE PLACE OF MY GREATEST VOID!! ❤🔥🔥🔥 that hits deep. A lot of us avoid going here with God… that’s where the work is done in us
Goodness. This really pierced my heart. The Lord is working because this topic has been surrounding me. I’m so glad I tuned in to the Lord who led me here. PRAISE THE LORD.
1st time streaming. I'm ready!
@vinnieedwards9699
2 ай бұрын
Welcome
When someone has to do all the work, that’s not healthy! Unmet expectations were unexpressed, that’s not healthy! Impatience will have you settling for substitutes!!!!!!😮 Help Me Lord!!😢
BEST video I have seen so far! I struggle with this so much! I put God in control now and the amazing things I am seeing happen. I've been stuck in this nasty cycle for the last 3 years. AMEN. "THIS IS NOT HEALTHY".
Was in so deep in this relationship that I was blind but the holy spirit speak to me.
Realizing almost all my relationships are unhealthy. Abandoned myself so much I don’t even know where to start picking up the pieces.
@nattechan
2 ай бұрын
This!🙏🏾
This is my first time watching this and I ran across it while laying in the bed all day depressed because the man I was totally in love with blindsided me by just up and walking out on me the day after he said he’d marry me. Confusion and betrayal has literally crushed me. There’s nothing left of me. I don’t have the desire to eat or drink or move out this bed. I want the pain to stop. You have a powerful message here though. ❤️ And I plan to watch the therapy videos!
I know I’m in an unhealthy relationship but I’m chained and cannot get myself out. I have tried over and over. God bless you - thank you for this message.
@vinnieedwards9699
2 ай бұрын
🙏🙏💪🏾💪🏾
@Kaaayia.kaayia
2 ай бұрын
I pray that God leads you exactly where you’re supposed to be. Exit is on the way, health is on the way. Love peace & kindness are on the way. I love you. God loves you & he’s right there with you no matter what.
@SweetTreatsBy_Marie
2 ай бұрын
🙏🏾Praying for God to break that Soul tie .
@sonjahassani7902
2 ай бұрын
Thank you ladies. Your goodness touches my heart deeply. God bless you.
@VonDolo-fn2cy
2 ай бұрын
You’re right, YOU can’t get yourself out, but God can. Don’t limit God and don’t say those things over yourself. It may seem hard, trust me, but don’t allow for your circumstances to ignore the promises that God promises you like the Israelites did in Exodus when facing cruel slavery (Exodus 6:9)
My 1st time here...I'm on a spiritual journey and trying to heal alot to things and I want to learn about God ❤
it’s not my first time, but i’ve been watching and learning and God has been using y’all for my therapy!! You’ve helped me so much and God is SSSOOOO Good!!❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
I listen every Thursday.. I love it here ❤
JESUS LOVES YOU ALL KEEP SEEKING HIM BROTHERS AND SISTERS
I am so grateful tonhave listened to this today. I want a healthy relationship, and I am willing to wait for what God has for me. Lord, help me not to settle, help me to be manipulative, or be manipulated. I pray for myself and all who are watching to obey and honor God. Keep God first in all we do! Thank you for this message.
I'm in this right now, please pray for me to leave without looking back
@jokikem1
Ай бұрын
I’m in this right now as well.. my GOD please give my sister the strength and the grace she needs to step away and keeping her eyes forward in JESUS NAME AMEN
@annemeca2115
Ай бұрын
@@jokikem1 Thank you! I pray that you walk away and heal too, in Jesus name amen
Perfect timing thank you
I am soooo grateful for this message, because it confirms that my boyfriend and I are in fact in a Healthy God-Led relationship🙏🏾 HE is our foundation and I am so thankful to see Biblical proof of what our past relationships were and to have clarity of a healthy relationship. Thank you Pastor
Thank you Mr Isaac Curry for this most profound and real word on unhealthy / healthy relationships. This revelation of scripture was most insightful and healing. I needed it! Thank you Jesus for blessing us with a word of transformation and healing and deliverance. God Bless You greatly @Redefined
I praise God He's bought me from all these things to standing in Him alone. I've been a solo parent co parenting with Jesus for 2.5 years and now I'll be staying in God's path for me. It's the only place true love and freedom is found.
Preaching because this was me, thank you man of god for helping me through it
This is my first time streaming
@mzyawna5763
2 ай бұрын
Aren't you glad you tuned in
First time here 🙏
@jokikem1
Ай бұрын
Welcome sis
First Time Here
@jokikem1
Ай бұрын
Welcome
Thank you for this message. This is growth for me and reflection. Holding myself accountable! Working on healthy !
This message was directly for me Bro. Isaac..🙏🙌🏾
It's not worth it. I cannot lose myself into a healthy relationship. I tried it. It will not work. I want healthy. Today is the day I leave you for me.
Thank you for this. Thank you for breaking it down. I need this Therapy Thursday!!!!!!
I’m ready.❤
This is my first time streaming. \o/ I was introduced to Therapy Thursday just today by a good friend. Watching and listening with expectation. To God be all the glory.
You shouldn’t have to abandon me for them.❤
This is My 1st Time Streaming.... Watching from Nairobi KENYA 🇰🇪🇰🇪 East Africa 🙏🌍
@ladynature5
2 ай бұрын
Welcome 🙏🏿
@suenderi5835
2 ай бұрын
@@ladynature5 Thank you 🙏
This is so good and right on time. Thank you my brother for this message right here.
Thank you for this ! I love therapy thursday! It’s going to be hard to move on but I definitely needed this word.
Amen. I touch and agree.. I needed this message. THANK YOU FOR BEING A WILLING VESSEL.
I'm ready I'm ready let's get to the WORD. I'm ready to grow. Amen.
i’m ready
I’ve changed more thru these sessions in months versus years of seeking counsel in my own community
Amen!
Thank you for this. This brought me to tears because you did not hold back. You were clear and I heard you sir. Thank you
Thanks Pastor Curry for delivering a powerful message!! 🙏❤️ Genesis 38:11-25
This was extremely powerful! Thank you 🙏🏽
I Want Healthy I Desire Healthy Lord🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
I needed this!!
Yes LORD
Jesus, I needed this
I’m READY
Hallelujah praise God 🙌🙌🙌🙌
Amen
Thank you 🙏🏾
God knows I needed this!!
All I can say is wow and thank you
YES...I am going to grow...thx be to GOD
I'm ready 🤲🏼
Thank you, Brother Curry!
Amen 🙏
This message blessed me. Thank you for being called to share His Word with us in such a compelling manner.
AMEN to all of it!!! Exactly why I’m getting a divorce.
Sooo good! Thank you, Jesus!!❤
Right on time, I really needed to hear this and I've ended that toxic relationship
Wheehhh chille I just got out of a relationship just like this I needed to hear this 😮
This is good!! ♥️ You are speaking truth! Work on self worth…and self control will follow! Amen
Talking about Gods timing !❤
I’m Ready
I’m ready!!!
Thank you thank you Lord for this word.
I am ready!
This was so good. Phew. God help everyone working through all these dynamics and keeping God first.
Speak Lord!!!!! 😩😩😩😩🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Pastor thank you for this and breaking it down!
🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽Come on u betta preach!!! It’s NOT worth it!!
Oouuu "impatience will have you settle for substitutes" mannnnn hit the hammer on the nail with that one!
First timer ❤
@jokikem1
Ай бұрын
Welcome sis
I’m ready!!
First time streaming. Been watching Jerry flowers and found this along the way. Been dealing with a heartbreak. Thank you the message. ❤
This is an impactful word.
Great word wow I cant wait till Gods timing..
You are speaking to me, it hurts so bad I'm trying to move on but can't let go of the memories. May God give me peace of mind and strength to move on forgive and forget.
Thank you for this
Powerful 💖
Lord display to us what HEALTHY IS ❤🙏🏾