Texting That Makes Girls Excited To See You

Texting is a huge hurdle for most guys in game. It seems like every number flakes... even the girls that really liked you. What can you do about it? Well here are a few little expert tricks worth testing out.

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  • @ajunaibi99
    @ajunaibi994 жыл бұрын

    Titles that make her can’t resist clicking on the video

  • @ajunaibi99

    @ajunaibi99

    4 жыл бұрын

    Rond Lewist UAE not Oman

  • @strawhatluffy1880

    @strawhatluffy1880

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ahmed Al Junaibi Nice profile pic, brah.

  • @loonah714

    @loonah714

    4 жыл бұрын

    Proof that text game is strong

  • @ayushsenseisama

    @ayushsenseisama

    3 жыл бұрын

    *him

  • @Akilleezv2
    @Akilleezv24 жыл бұрын

    Todd speaks facts. Hardly any girls hit me up in my home town. I Just went to Vegas and posted the fun time I had at pool parties/clubs. Now 6 girls wanna hangout when I get back!

  • @cody8938

    @cody8938

    4 жыл бұрын

    The real proof is when you get with a woman and get into a commitment. Then everyone knows you're not full of it when you brag.

  • @keepingfitness727
    @keepingfitness7274 жыл бұрын

    In order to run game, 1 must turn away from the lane of shame.

  • @SammyCee23

    @SammyCee23

    4 жыл бұрын

    What do you mean, sir

  • @asdfasdfwae

    @asdfasdfwae

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wise ass ,you are

  • @vsslsmchlks

    @vsslsmchlks

    4 жыл бұрын

    To avoid shame or to don’t care about being ashamed?

  • @santim270

    @santim270

    3 жыл бұрын

    Remain in frame insane dames can give brain quick if you train your slick.

  • @KalkiAvatarATWAR
    @KalkiAvatarATWAR3 жыл бұрын

    "Have a good life"

  • @josuastangl7140
    @josuastangl71404 жыл бұрын

    Todd, you were the first PUA I stumbled upon, who got me into game and also many other PUAs, but now you're the last one I still follow. Thx for everything, you're great, you changed my life.

  • @sheldon6307

    @sheldon6307

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @Tim_Sviridov
    @Tim_Sviridov4 жыл бұрын

    "Use your own name." Shit. Is that what I have been doing wrong?

  • @unosheem6210
    @unosheem62104 жыл бұрын

    One thing I’ve noticed is your lessons don’t work for younger girls my age so I find myself trying to translate the stuff you tell me basically dumbing it down for them lol

  • @pdors94

    @pdors94

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah younger girls are definitely a hassle..tsk...their brains haven't fully developed..

  • @jonathanramos9156

    @jonathanramos9156

    4 жыл бұрын

    Haha I feel you. Which is why I game girls older than me

  • @Kdot96

    @Kdot96

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol I just said that to myself while scrolling through the comments I’m 21 and this shit would get me ignored cause it’s more on the mature people side

  • @The20_er

    @The20_er

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Kdot96 so true man. This "alpha male" approach only works with women who have years of experience with dating men. If you try this alpha stuff with Younger, inexperienced chicks, she'll think you're not interested and move on. I've been burned quite a few times.

  • @Mentosfresh132

    @Mentosfresh132

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ya know something. Tis true I always noticed sober I am way better with women older than I. But when i'm drunk i'm way better in my age group/younger than I. Because when im drunk im more direct, more retarded and more fun. When sober, I'm witty, spontaneous, leading and charming. As a general overview in life, It kinda feels like the way I game my age group MUST be different than the way I game girls above 24

  • @monicamccoy8791
    @monicamccoy87913 жыл бұрын

    I wish a guy WOULD text me to be appropriately excited for his call! Too funny!!

  • @MrDominic600
    @MrDominic6004 жыл бұрын

    Unfair? That’s my kind of language

  • @russbob3796
    @russbob37964 жыл бұрын

    Send her a video introducing yourself... it always works

  • @gold7790
    @gold77904 жыл бұрын

    What are some actionable steps for escalation in the negative? I understand it verbally “we will not have sex tonight” but action wise is a little bit more difficult more me to understand.

  • @Jpriest13
    @Jpriest134 жыл бұрын

    Not mentioned, but obvious. I see a Bass guitar behind him. "Hey, can't meet the next two nights because of band rehearsal, but free after that." Or the obvious, "I'm a Bass Player, wanna go out?" 😂

  • @Mark-rd3jm
    @Mark-rd3jm4 жыл бұрын

    Todd uploads. Cut what I’m doing and Watch .

  • @samprice6791
    @samprice67914 жыл бұрын

    There is a lot of information about getting the first date. Assuming the first date goes well. What does texting look like to get a second date (or hook up). When should I text? What should I be saying or not saying?

  • @agee7777

    @agee7777

    4 жыл бұрын

    When you leave the date tell her to message you, if she does then ask her when she's free to meet and arrange another date. if she doesn't then forget about her because she's just not into you.

  • @Monferno123

    @Monferno123

    2 жыл бұрын

    you plan the second date during the end of your first date! this worked very well for me! so basically during the date when you feel that it's going towards the end you just ask her: "hey, I had a great time with you and wish to see you again! what day would be convenient for you?"

  • @sck7282
    @sck72824 жыл бұрын

    Hey Todd, I dont know if you are aware of this but your voice sounds like N0thing(pro gamer).

  • @bozgaming333
    @bozgaming33317 күн бұрын

    The music at the end is great. Do more relationship game. Think like 2 years into seeing someone game.

  • @kostasgoulas3625
    @kostasgoulas36254 жыл бұрын

    Use your alarm at 6am and send this message. Hey I am going for a Dawn patrol surfing. Let's go for a morning coffee after I finish my session. Of course u continue the sleep and check your messages at 10am

  • @chrisjfox8715

    @chrisjfox8715

    4 жыл бұрын

    The problem with this is that when we meet up, I don’t want to pretend like I actually went when I know I didn’t. Whether I have to fake excitement, boredom from it, or even just indifference, me being uncomfortable with pretending is going to affect the vibe I have with the girl. I’d rather actually have something to do in the morning and tell her to meet up with me after

  • @Seductive15

    @Seductive15

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@chrisjfox8715 Kinda accurate...well what KOSTAS said might work if you send her this type of message: hey, im going to have a drink today...let me know if you want me to take you with me. If she accepts cool if not is her loss(i like to think that way) Either way you are going to have a drink so she is not doing you a favor for coming with you, in her mind you'll go anyway. she knows that you did not depend on her response You can go have a drink or not and if she asks you its not a big deal you simply tell her you had a good time with some friends and dont have to fake anything because it was just a drink

  • @chrisjfox8715

    @chrisjfox8715

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Seductive15 not kinda, it's 100% accurate for me. My whole point is that I'm not comfortable pretending I did some activity that I didnt do. The entire basis of his premise was to claim where he was headed then to go back to sleep anyway.

  • @Seductive15

    @Seductive15

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@chrisjfox8715 I see his point and your point bro, don't worry... Just do what works for you. Personally it doesnt affect me at all, Just see it this way... you dont pretend, you improvise. I do this shit all the time, being creative and making stories out of nothing and laugh my ass off and it works for me... the problem is not "pretending" , it's you being uncomfortable with pretending

  • @chrisjfox8715

    @chrisjfox8715

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Seductive15 😂 and if I'm uncomfortable with it then i won't be doing it. That's all I'm saying.

  • @MrHav1k
    @MrHav1k4 жыл бұрын

    I usually love all of Todd's content, but in my experience calling the girl has never worked for me. Maybe for him being a bit older it works, but every time I've called a girl as opposed to just sticking to text it has never gone anywhere as far as meeting up. Just throwing my 2 cents out there. Maybe it will work for you guys!

  • @chrisjfox8715

    @chrisjfox8715

    4 жыл бұрын

    He said it wasn’t a perfect example. Replace “call” in his example with something else if you’d like

  • @mekudu-man3804

    @mekudu-man3804

    4 жыл бұрын

    don't call them randomly, call tzem when you already text about somdthing that needs clearence

  • @Tonayez

    @Tonayez

    4 жыл бұрын

    Worked for my girlfriend I have now. Shows you got confidence

  • @walkingalive1093

    @walkingalive1093

    4 жыл бұрын

    Just call and if they don't pick up say "hey just called but you weren't there, when are you free this week?" Or something similar. Don't rely on them calling back or anything just text. Even just calling them without them responding conveys confidence

  • @walkingalive1093

    @walkingalive1093

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Rond Lewist You are right he should leave a text

  • @houndofzoltan
    @houndofzoltan4 жыл бұрын

    Great, more actual examples would be great.

  • @SseriousGgamer3
    @SseriousGgamer34 жыл бұрын

    Anyone else poured thousands of hours in into improving socially and still suck? Me too

  • @itselliott2766

    @itselliott2766

    4 жыл бұрын

    Luis Leal where you from? Location matters even in different parts of the US.

  • @SseriousGgamer3

    @SseriousGgamer3

    4 жыл бұрын

    Its Elliott in some small village in south Texas.

  • @itselliott2766

    @itselliott2766

    4 жыл бұрын

    Luis Leal my assumption would be girls are not exposed to game so they’re intimidated by you. You always have to adjust. I’m too lazy to type out what I mean lol

  • @rushpittsburgh4
    @rushpittsburgh43 жыл бұрын

    Bass in the background=credibility lost

  • @djf4135
    @djf41354 жыл бұрын

    Hey Todd, great content as always, you are really helping me out a lot. Thanks for that. Anyways I have a question and would like to know your view of it. A girl from my college wouldn't respond to my texts or snaps a lot and she wouldn't even go on a date with me, but every time I see her she is flirting with me. How can I interpret that? Thanks in advance.

  • @talldarknindian3695

    @talldarknindian3695

    4 жыл бұрын

    DJ F she’s using you for attention, don’t be mean to her but move on from her.

  • @BoomerSlovakia
    @BoomerSlovakia4 жыл бұрын

    QUESTION: Hey Todd. Any tips on effective winging? I've a lot of friends who would like to meet girls but are scared to do it alone. When I try to wing, often what happens is that the girls end up liking me more than them. I'd really like to help them, but I must be doing something wrong and simply being uncool/boring on purpose (to make them shine) seems stupid to me.

  • @someone-eo1zf

    @someone-eo1zf

    4 жыл бұрын

    Be dumbass nice like extra nice so a female looks at you as needy instead of coming off as charming

  • @gallants4527

    @gallants4527

    2 жыл бұрын

    Pretend to be the wing-e

  • @thegrimspartan2806

    @thegrimspartan2806

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ever find a good answer? I'm in a similar situation.

  • @BoomerSlovakia

    @BoomerSlovakia

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@thegrimspartan2806 This has not been given to me by anyone but the best answer I can come up with is to just not be there. If your friend needs help breaking the ice, setting up the frame, do that and then disappear. Most people have trouble with the opener anyway, by helping him through that, you've done him a great service. After that, it's on him. You can drop by and "check" on him from time to time, but otherwise, find something else to do. Take with a grain of salt, as I haven't actually winged in a while :)

  • @KingPiercter

    @KingPiercter

    Жыл бұрын

    My advice: pretend to be a beta and try to get her to put you in the friend zone, while simultaneously making your friend seem like a celebrity. This opens the door for your friend to “steal” her from you.

  • @tjz6202
    @tjz62024 жыл бұрын

    I much prefer interacting with the girl face to face, talking over the phone feels weird to me.

  • @jgstallions
    @jgstallions4 жыл бұрын

    Hey Todd. How do you break the barrier of sending a text, it going south (she doesn’t respond for whatever reason), then you want to start it back up again and get back her interest when things seemed to be going well beforehand ?

  • @nardinit

    @nardinit

    4 жыл бұрын

    no text back memes, bro. thank me later

  • @bigdog9785

    @bigdog9785

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nardinit don't text memes?

  • @hamzanocap

    @hamzanocap

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@bigdog9785Are you a man or 14year old boy?

  • @user-or2uu8mc7s
    @user-or2uu8mc7s4 жыл бұрын

    little help for a brother from far away whose mother tongue is not English. " Hey its Todd from wherever. look forward to talking to you soon. please save this number so you can be appropriately excited from my call." Did I get it right ? it would be delightful if the videos are with subscriptions. other than that, its just not possible to be unsatisfied with the contents of him. which simply means: perfection . Cheers bros.

  • @jimmyrustles9036

    @jimmyrustles9036

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah you got it bru

  • @BatmanthePoet

    @BatmanthePoet

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hey its Todd from wherever. look forward to talking to you soon. please save this number so you can be appropriately excited for* (not from) my call. Obviously, say your name instead of 'Todd' and don't say you're from 'wherever' 😉

  • @iokera

    @iokera

    4 жыл бұрын

    @3:15 "Hey listen, I'm kinda busy tonight I 'll probably be with friends but ??? from not"

  • @SammyCee23

    @SammyCee23

    4 жыл бұрын

    A fellow Korean, aye

  • @lihletyandela9898
    @lihletyandela98982 жыл бұрын

    “And use your own name”😂😂😂

  • @danialranjbar9805
    @danialranjbar98054 жыл бұрын

    how can I ask todd? does he have email or something?

  • @mdlusopp
    @mdlusopp4 жыл бұрын

    Do a video on being rejected by a girl and having to see her again in same class!!

  • @bouhipaul638

    @bouhipaul638

    4 жыл бұрын

    move on, stay confident, try to not care

  • @mdlusopp

    @mdlusopp

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@bouhipaul638 i got rejected by 3 of her friends all in same social group haha everyone at uni knows now cuz they all talk shit, WORST part about is we have ONE ON ONE placement together throughout this year; ahh well guess you're right have to learn now to not care for the next 2 years lol

  • @ahmadabdul9133

    @ahmadabdul9133

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@mdlusopphappen to me during 2nd year of med school

  • @ahmadabdul9133

    @ahmadabdul9133

    4 жыл бұрын

    Happened*

  • @JB-bt6cw

    @JB-bt6cw

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kimbo uwin give it a couple months you gonna get use to rejection and it will build up your confidence, you’ll just stop giving a fuck, you will be natural at getting girls.

  • @jbdmb
    @jbdmb3 жыл бұрын

    "...and use your own name" lol

  • @chestermcgoo7462
    @chestermcgoo74624 жыл бұрын

    Peavey makes good basses

  • @diogofurlin8066
    @diogofurlin80668 күн бұрын

    What about making her chase updated ? Only saw some posts about 3 years ago

  • @AskToddV
    @AskToddV4 жыл бұрын

    Is there a way to turn weak phone numbers into anything? Is there a way to get a higher percentage of your strong numbers to turn into dates? Beyond these tips, the secret is to have an amazing first interaction, for which you can find tips here: systembytodd.com

  • @boxlover191
    @boxlover1914 жыл бұрын

    What to do if you open a walking girl and She starts to Walk quicker?

  • @boxlover191

    @boxlover191

    4 жыл бұрын

    Gibran Escobell Well it depends my friend. I mean is it anything i can do to flip it?

  • @kraventm
    @kraventm3 жыл бұрын

    Game, trial and error guys, your first time you will make a fool of yourself. I did at least and tbh i dont give a shit im actualy proud i did and dint just stood there looking at those girls like "*drowling* they so hoot omagawww" like the other guys around me were doing.

  • @barty116
    @barty1164 жыл бұрын

    Good content but it did make me laugh about Soho house being high-level. It might be different in NYC but in London, it's a straight indicator that you're low level, new money or a chav.

  • @kendawg44
    @kendawg444 жыл бұрын

    Biggest thing about text game is having the convo two sided. Doesn't matter what you say, if you're always the one initiating the texts and carrying the texts forward. Which is a lot of the times the case for OLD these days. If you are one of the fortunate ones where this doesn't happen, then you don't even need any of these rules to begin with. just sayin'

  • @SammyCee23

    @SammyCee23

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wait, what are you saying, that if the guy is always the one initiating, its a bad sign?

  • @bucketbucket4027
    @bucketbucket4027 Жыл бұрын

    Orrrrrr you can type your letter on your phone and Text a Letter app will print it and ship it (learned this this year)

  • @dominiks.7861
    @dominiks.786122 күн бұрын

    Can someone comment Todd's lines from this video please? It's a little bit hard to understand.

  • @dr.feelgood.m
    @dr.feelgood.m4 жыл бұрын

    1:32 - Then you can do over the phone all those things you didn't get a chance to do in person - Phone Sex son, that's the only thing you can't do in person XD

  • @kacperkepinski4990
    @kacperkepinski49903 жыл бұрын

    Any ideas where dating during rain? I mean first date

  • @Mr0LJ
    @Mr0LJ4 жыл бұрын

    todd, been watching for a little now, straight to the point no bullshit- refreshing compared to some other stuff, question for you tho, have been talking to this girl about 2 weeks now everything great flirty sexual " the ideal example" went round hers last tuesday and we chilled, sex, sleep and even morning sex, i had to leave and go to work the following day, even after that was still great arranged another meetup but she flaked (babysitter couldnt make it) re scheduled few days later flaked again "she crashed" im in a spot of a "mind fuck" on what happened, between her first flak and 2nd she went on a girls night out, and ever since went from smitten phrases like i miss you, cant wait to see you etc , tooooo cold shoulder almost, barely talking, i would like to continue with this girl, but she isnt really giving me much to work with, any advice ???

  • @1bosstv

    @1bosstv

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Mr0LJ Delete her and move on. She found someone better.

  • @SlimboShagginS13
    @SlimboShagginS133 жыл бұрын

    If i had a good life i wouldn't need to approach random succubus'

  • @alexcruzship3683
    @alexcruzship36834 жыл бұрын

    What do you do when you know the girl likes you but is playing hard to get?

  • @BK-gz3gh

    @BK-gz3gh

    4 жыл бұрын

    She doesn't like you, you're a backup option

  • @alexfxlll

    @alexfxlll

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yh in same position, she could be getting over someone

  • @1bosstv

    @1bosstv

    4 жыл бұрын

    She doesn't like you. So delete her. She doesn't see you as alpha, only on the scale of beta or useless.

  • @fistbomb3368

    @fistbomb3368

    4 жыл бұрын

    Don't listen to this guy's lolol... Approach her...show her that if she delays in showing u her interests in u...she will lose u... Have a big frnd circle ....be good and charming... She'll be desperate lol

  • @ShaddyRaddy

    @ShaddyRaddy

    3 жыл бұрын

    be hard to want

  • @TheLounge-1
    @TheLounge-12 жыл бұрын

    What if you don’t have friends

  • @amkool6135
    @amkool61354 жыл бұрын

    Todd reminds me of Jared leto

  • @ItsRaitisLV

    @ItsRaitisLV

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's the hair and eye sockets

  • @gabeb1331

    @gabeb1331

    3 жыл бұрын

    He speaks like Ben Shapiro

  • @BrucePain-_-

    @BrucePain-_-

    3 жыл бұрын

    how? i see nothing Leto like

  • @Tonixxy
    @Tonixxy4 жыл бұрын

    Texting guide?

  • @lucassoares4084
    @lucassoares40844 жыл бұрын

    Simple question, but I bet you have an interesting answer. What are the game fundamentals?

  • @kingartifex

    @kingartifex

    4 жыл бұрын

    This I saw in another video of his: you need to know how to maintain a conversation with a girl. Some other stuff too but don't remember lol

  • @JoseMiguel-yi5ur

    @JoseMiguel-yi5ur

    4 жыл бұрын

    just think of yourself as a high-value man so you can actually approach girls with a nothing-to-lose mentality. you can do it through working out, doing what you're supposed to do as a man, working on your own success, etc. always think of a rejection as her loss, not yours

  • @kingartifex

    @kingartifex

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Walter White 😂

  • @Trump-A-Bad-MF

    @Trump-A-Bad-MF

    4 жыл бұрын

    See the fundamentals in Karisma King channel

  • @cialaisvis2113
    @cialaisvis21133 жыл бұрын

    Been Soho member for last 3 years, not inviting anyone, just bragging

  • @latenightthinker4737
    @latenightthinker47374 жыл бұрын

    *use your own name*

  • @np494609
    @np4946094 жыл бұрын

    This is a lot of work and effort to get a chick out good grief be on your purpose crush it in life and these broads will come to you

  • @np494609

    @np494609

    4 жыл бұрын

    Alpha Strong42 you make some good points I can't argue

  • @abracadabruh1313

    @abracadabruh1313

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Alpha Strong42 Exactly, just look at that Tech Lead guy on youtube. Crushed it in life, but his wife abruptly left him out of the blue.

  • @vishavjeetsingh7862

    @vishavjeetsingh7862

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@abracadabruh1313 da fuk the last video I watched was of Tech Lead😂

  • @mehdiuchiwatv2185
    @mehdiuchiwatv21854 жыл бұрын

    I suffer from a bad reputation on girls from my environment. How can I change it and turns thing up.

  • @lakbar8164

    @lakbar8164

    4 жыл бұрын

    Work on yourself. Go to the gym

  • @Kingarthurjohn

    @Kingarthurjohn

    4 жыл бұрын

    mehdi uchiwa tv I agree with lake bar just improve yourself and your general charisma

  • @wangking4259

    @wangking4259

    4 жыл бұрын

    mehdi uchiwa tv What’s the reputation? Are you known for having done a strict social taboo? Is it just low status? Are you known as bad pickup artist and/or fuckboy wannabe? We can’t help you unless we know your problem! Go to the gym, because everyone should be hitting the gym. However, I don’t mean to be a damper, but under most circumstances of having a bad reputation, having a better body or going to the gym won’t help. Not unless you wanna spend years on developing your body and halting your progress in dating for the meanwhile (if you decide to not game while at the gym). All that being said, by learning this you’re already in the top 10%. Work on yourself and hit that top 1%! You can do it.

  • @wangking4259

    @wangking4259

    4 жыл бұрын

    mehdi uchiwa tv I have friends that are 6’2’+, ripped, handsome, blond, who have jobs, have awesome hobbies, are working on their education, *but are blue-pilled, don’t have any Game, and are STILL virgins.* And I’ve also seen ugly, filipino, midgets (like me) who got beaten up in high school, learnt Game, and now get more pussy than a New York train station. Hit the gym, but understand that looks and being buff don’t matter that much at all. Instead ask people questions, learn Game, because *you can do it, Game is a skill like anything else, and you CAN learn it.*

  • @mehdiuchiwatv2185

    @mehdiuchiwatv2185

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you guys. My reputation is that I played with a lot of girls and flirted with every girl I know every hot girl and messed up. So the other girls know from my reputation that I’m not a valuable man even if it isn’t true anymore and worked on myself

  • @devez007
    @devez0074 жыл бұрын

    What's the music at the end of this video?

  • @sooriya931

    @sooriya931

    4 жыл бұрын

    Darude Sandstorm

  • @devez007

    @devez007

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@sooriya931 no it's not darude sandstorm

  • @BarChordA
    @BarChordA Жыл бұрын

    I made a rookie mistake and accidentally gave her Todd’s name

  • @ironchump1501

    @ironchump1501

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh, well. Now your name is Todd. 🤣

  • @patrickbrio2896
    @patrickbrio28964 жыл бұрын

    I keep hearing Todd talk about online game but can't find any vids on it

  • @emanuel_soundtrack
    @emanuel_soundtrack4 жыл бұрын

    If you have friends for tonight , Internet to watch this, and a girls number why do you need such videos? Thats all.

  • @Trump-a-Tron
    @Trump-a-Tron4 жыл бұрын

    _The other thing you can do is ... uhh.. have a cool life.."_ Ohh! Just that! How come I never thought of that! Maybe also _"be attractive, don't be unattractive"_ Damn. This dude is a wellspring of good advice!

  • @lanceromusic

    @lanceromusic

    4 жыл бұрын

    Trump-a-Tron 6000 It’s the reality of life. I suggest you read Rollo Tomassi’s - The Rational Male. He summarizes and explains this and the nature of women thoroughly. No amount of game works if you’re not some how attractive to her. Building the best version of yourself is always step 1. Cheers.

  • @naitsirk32
    @naitsirk324 жыл бұрын

    Also please please do have the plan if you choose to go for the tendative planning opener. Remember you need to conway your life. If you use it just because it seems like you have a fun life and actually dont. Big nono. That is f needy. And if thats the case you have to start building up a social life and abunance first. Other than that I like the tip

  • @willmiller9981

    @willmiller9981

    4 жыл бұрын

    Dude the more numbers/Snapchats I have the MORE anxiety I feel about it. Now I don't just have to figure out what to say, but WHICH girl to say it to. And then sometimes one starts hitting me up while I'm talking to a different one. Shit gives me a headache. Pick up guys act like abundance makes you more chill but for me it is just more stress.

  • @veggydishwasher16

    @veggydishwasher16

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kristian I like to tell girls i’m a lifeguard and often go surfing waves early in the morning to get my day started right even though nothing is true. So what? They still find it attractive and my weewee gets sucky sucky

  • @naitsirk32

    @naitsirk32

    4 жыл бұрын

    Veggy Dishwasher yes but you fundamentally set yourself up for failure because you dont live it and you dont embody it. So without even asking I know you are not able to keep these girls around for long because that is how it works. You need to comway your life and if you cannot it comes of as fake. You basicly are telling me you want to push away who you really are just to impress instead of building up who your really are and show that instread. That only works to a level there buddy. You need true development.

  • @naitsirk32

    @naitsirk32

    4 жыл бұрын

    Will Miller you are right it can be very scary and it should also be in a sense that you push your comfort zone. That generally is making us humans scared otherwise we are inside it instead. And if you are uncertain about what brings you value because you just do alot of different stuff to chaise abundance then you actually arent. Because it is alright to try stuff I encourage you to, but you should also have the selfawareness to know what you should keep and should leave behind too. Thats very important. So it seems like you choose some stuff which gives you more stress than joy. So look at what you are during already. Truelly honestly consider what of those things are just to be crazy? Skydiving is insane and would push most peoples comfortzone but does it means you should for abundance? No if it is not for you dont stick with it. Gym can work for some other hate it. Again go through the things you do and see what you actually do because you love them and remove the things you dont. Alright buddy hope it helps

  • @michaeljeffery7466
    @michaeljeffery74667 ай бұрын

    Interesting.

  • @ray.gene.bowner
    @ray.gene.bowner4 жыл бұрын

    I was blown off three times before I saw this. But I was on a dating app, so it didn't matter anyways

  • @Frederick0220

    @Frederick0220

    4 жыл бұрын

    Dating apps are AIDS. Even a 5/10 is getting about 50 swipes per day. A 9 doesn’t even get approached during the day in real life.

  • @carlosbravo2971

    @carlosbravo2971

    4 жыл бұрын

    You can do it Mineta..... Plus Ultra!!!’

  • @mekudu-man3804

    @mekudu-man3804

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Frederick0220 yeah man, that's why approaching them irl is a cheatcode. Todd also talked about why and how you should do it. PLUS ULTRAAAAAA 💪😤

  • @willmiller9981

    @willmiller9981

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Frederick0220 I've matched with some pretty hot girls on tinder, it's all about building a good profile, utilizing boosts, and having a good messaging script. I have so many phone numbers and Snapchats in my phone from tinder girls it's crazy. It really isn't as bad as they say it is.

  • @Frederick0220

    @Frederick0220

    4 жыл бұрын

    How many matches converted to dates though? A lot of girls will match then ghost before the date since they’ve matched with thousands of men.

  • @niinjaslayer6394
    @niinjaslayer63942 жыл бұрын

    If you have to do that much work to talk to the girl, move on. You shouldn’t be talking to her or justifying it. If you’re trying to build chemistry out of “nothing”, you’re wasting your time.

  • @LeveragedFinance
    @LeveragedFinance4 жыл бұрын

    Want to hear a joke? Knock knock

  • @ericfisk4935

    @ericfisk4935

    4 жыл бұрын

    Who's there?

  • @andromedagalaxynebula5751

    @andromedagalaxynebula5751

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ericfisk4935 That's the joke bro. Ghosted.

  • @wesleypipes2715
    @wesleypipes27154 жыл бұрын

    Have a cool life? Damn. I’m fucked.

  • @ultimatecodmw2
    @ultimatecodmw24 жыл бұрын

    This is fuckin genius hahahaha

  • @TheTiger881
    @TheTiger8814 жыл бұрын

    I sent a message to the girl after a phone conversation when she said “can I call You back?”. So I said ok. Then about 10 minutes later I messaged her that I have an actor friend who invited me to the Oscars (NYC) I’ll talk to her later. Which was true. I was invited out from my friend. I’m a busy boy. I don’t have all day to sit and wait for a chick to call me back LOL!!

  • @axelarcuri5525

    @axelarcuri5525

    4 жыл бұрын

    Everyone who asked is currently on Mars

  • @kifacorea

    @kifacorea

    Жыл бұрын

    Nice but "chick" is antiquated

  • @nathan8472
    @nathan84724 жыл бұрын

    It’s at a four year school so she can be snagged by someone else. We don’t have class together just met.

  • @nathan8472
    @nathan84724 жыл бұрын

    I just landed a 9.5’s number and need help with text game.. thnx bro

  • @johnsmith-wx5fb

    @johnsmith-wx5fb

    4 жыл бұрын

    Text her and say "I CANT BELIEVE I BAGGED A 9.5!!!!! A 9.5!!???!! IVE NEVER HAD A 9.5 BEFORE!!!". It will be a nice compliment.

  • @SunsetLights

    @SunsetLights

    4 жыл бұрын

    don’t put her on pedestal and be yourself bro !

  • @willmiller9981

    @willmiller9981

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@johnsmith-wx5fb just let the man be happy.

  • @johnsmith-wx5fb

    @johnsmith-wx5fb

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@willmiller9981 of course.

  • @johnsmith-wx5fb

    @johnsmith-wx5fb

    4 жыл бұрын

    @V K yes you are right, it was but a little joke.

  • @matrixman5507
    @matrixman55074 жыл бұрын

    What to do if a girl says ”you are too old?” Or What if you open a girl who later Turns out to be underage

  • @veggydishwasher16

    @veggydishwasher16

    4 жыл бұрын

    Who cares if she’s underage? If she wants to that’s all that matters.

  • @lzi9452

    @lzi9452

    4 жыл бұрын

    Veggy Dishwasher uhh

  • @lzi9452

    @lzi9452

    4 жыл бұрын

    Abögöst Plömönburg you’re boned

  • @t0tallyz3n

    @t0tallyz3n

    4 жыл бұрын

    Back the f down or you will end uo in jail lol

  • @thevisygoths7794
    @thevisygoths77944 жыл бұрын

    Click bait

  • @greenjewelrysparkle1940
    @greenjewelrysparkle19404 жыл бұрын

    So....he calls women numbers

  • @user-gz3rb7uw6z
    @user-gz3rb7uw6z4 жыл бұрын

    Hey Todd, a 13 Reasons Why analysis would be awesome. With needy clueless protagonist Clay with Hannah and Ani in season 3, Justin and Jessica and plenty of other characters with their different kinds of approach, mistakes would be interesting to break down. Cheers

  • @dudleylandsberg1747
    @dudleylandsberg17474 жыл бұрын

    Does this work on an ex 😂

  • @Kingarthurjohn

    @Kingarthurjohn

    4 жыл бұрын

    Dudley Landsberg yes

  • @VictorKariuki-dm6yg
    @VictorKariuki-dm6yg Жыл бұрын

    This guy doesn't even have a girlfriend 🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦

  • @sami.m6564
    @sami.m65644 күн бұрын

    I don't agree

  • @kingades1013
    @kingades10132 жыл бұрын

    0:54 1:04

  • @kingades1013

    @kingades1013

    2 жыл бұрын

    1:45 1:56

  • @kingades1013

    @kingades1013

    2 жыл бұрын

    3:01

  • @kingades1013

    @kingades1013

    2 жыл бұрын

    4:31 4:37

  • @johnsmith-wx5fb
    @johnsmith-wx5fb4 жыл бұрын

    Seriously todd i have to ask what happens when the girl finds out you are a Machiavellian sex puppet master? Isnt this off putting for her ?

  • @companyinformation7066
    @companyinformation70664 жыл бұрын

    Dont text .. straight up . End off. Your old school bata

  • @dzllz
    @dzllz4 жыл бұрын

    The Toddfather! Thanks

  • @tomace7423
    @tomace74234 жыл бұрын

    If you have a poor interaction with a girl, why bother texting them afterwards at all. Silly advice

  • @smv-tv
    @smv-tv4 жыл бұрын

    This channel is the biggest coping content. Men who have success with women don’t put all this time in thinking what to text

  • @ninjamlu
    @ninjamlu4 жыл бұрын

    Wake up in the morning and listen to Todd V.

  • @mr.alcatraz3148
    @mr.alcatraz31484 жыл бұрын

    my man

  • @isaacstetson5720
    @isaacstetson57204 жыл бұрын

    Anyone see the video of this guy failing hard in NYC and never leaving those girls in the park. Super cringe.

  • @SuperYouthful
    @SuperYouthful4 жыл бұрын

    Why do people play these games with each other??? What purpose can they possibly serve???

  • @Seljhbff

    @Seljhbff

    4 жыл бұрын

    Courtship, it ensures you get the best partner possible.

  • @johnsmith-wx5fb

    @johnsmith-wx5fb

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Seljhbff best partner ? By pissing around for months

  • @SuperYouthful

    @SuperYouthful

    4 жыл бұрын

    Everyone in this world loves me - except for young women. Can’t young and beautiful and fertile, feminine girls take a social cue from everyone else? I missed many developmental milestones in my life of sacrifice and ambitions. Learning game is harder than learning rocket science! And I am good at rocket science. It’s easier for me to be famous - which I am - than for me to learn to talk to young and feminine and fertile girls. Why are they like this!!!??? They are stupid!

  • @SuperYouthful

    @SuperYouthful

    4 жыл бұрын

    No... fuck this last comment. You need to learn game. I was married for 10 years. And I treated my ex-wife with so much mutual respect like how another man would love to be treated under the greatness of both my ego and matching competence level in life. That’s not what women want. Women don’t actually want respect and status within an intimate relationship - like how a man wants to be treated. Keep learning this from Todd. I can talk with so much confidence and ease and seduction before a large crowd of people - because I had to learn public speaking in order to get what I want in life. Also, this ability comes so naturally to me. In fact, I get energized and turned on in life by large crowds of people. Well, I guess everyone has their own distinct weaknesses in life. Just like people can learn from me, I have to humble myself and learn from these experts on “double womb speak.” But it’s so fucking stupid! I hate playing games in life. I am just always real in life who simply speak my mind everywhere I go. And people appreciate who I am for just being myself. Who I am is simply enough in this world. If I am forced to play games in life, it is usually political games that involves a lot people - else it’s just not worth it! Well, young women obviously don’t think so... That’s why I secretly hate them. Who I am in this world is enough! I don’t need to prove myself and my value to you - or to anyone! Who the fuck do you think you are, bitch! Go look me up on the internet and read my fucking resume and do your own research on me and my legacy in this world - if you want understand my SMV. Why can’t I just be me? Why do we have to play all of these stupid games??? I am always real with everyone. And who I am is enough!

  • @SuperYouthful

    @SuperYouthful

    4 жыл бұрын

    I am speaking my truth. This is how I really feel. It truly doesn’t help because I was very handsome when I was young. And I was always surrounded by cute girls. And I fucking put them all to work to “serve a higher purpose” (my ambitious purpose in life). And things have obviously changed after 10 years of my failed marriage. I don’t look as good as I use to. And young girls have stopped paying attention to me at this point. Girls used take turns just to stand next to me - waiting for me to talk to them. I had hot and cute blonde girls following me in the library, where I usually command and delegate everything. They used to want to actively talk to me about what I am thinking - like history and shit! They would listen for hours while I rambled on about history of wars. Those were smart girls (and cute blondes) who came from families where their parents were mechanical engineering professors at University of Pennsylvania. I don’t know why I don’t like blondes - you know, happy and fun and chatty blondes. (I have a fucked up love blueprint in life for these dark, mysterious, bitchy, petite and skinny, mean girls.) I had this blonde sorority girl in my lab who constantly called me up on Friday night to ask me to take her out to an art museum. And I used to work so hard and sleep in my office. And young girls would constantly come to visit me in my office to talk to me while I am still sleeping on my sofa - naked under the sheets. Yeah, in fact, young and tall, skinny girls got me my job in the USAF that changed my entire career because, then, they got to spend more time with me. These girls tried to write something funny on my white board every day. Nothing was ever funny from these girls. But I simply enjoyed their feminine hand writing where they put little hearts to dot their “i’s.” And everything I used to say was so fascinating to all of them! I used to take this blonde girl from my office to lunch, and she would listen to me talk with those big, wide, and green eyes for hours as I lose myself in my own thoughts. Oh yeah... I absolutely love to listen to myself talk with myself. I just needed another warm feminine human body to sit there to listen to me as I reasoned with myself from different angles of attack. And sometimes, we would go with colleagues to fucking argue some more. And she would squeal with joy when I always win these debates (and always wanted to come back for more to watch us argue with each other). And those hot young Southern Belles were absolutely fascinated and totally immersed in my own fantastic and genius-level conversation with myself. Simply begging me to take them to the university’s mall was a privilege for these blondes. And eventually, I learned to always agree to waste some of my time with them to take the girl to the mall - esp. because I slowly figured out that other young engineers would see us walk down the street together into the mall. And that would instantly increase my credibility and influence over these young men. I used to take this petite blonde girls out on dates on Saturday night (because blondes are all they had in the South) and talk about combinatorial mathematics and Myer Briggs and listen to her prove that 1+1 truly equaled 2. It’s actually the most important proof in theoretical mathematics. (Oh yeah, this mathematical proof was finished by a Chinese mathematician during the Cultural Revolution after he got purged and sent to the country side.) There was so much to talk about in mutual fascination with each other where both of us forgot to eat our food and lost track of time and had to get chased out of the restaurant by waiters upon closing. When I dropped her off at her dorm late at night, these other HKN engineers (just happened to see us kissing) were burning with jealousy and envy and learn to respect and obey me. I learned this in college. Pretty girls are status symbols to keep around to give you scientific credibility and influenceS. Oh yeah, that pretty little blonde wanted to work in cryptography. And I helped introduce this petite little blonde into working for the NSA because the technical recruiter and manager was a family friend who went down to Georgia Tech to look for graduates. And he was a Jew! There are a lot of Jews living next to the Chinese in Ellicott City. (I didn’t want to work with the NSA because there was way too much math. What you learn in school is not nearly enough. If you decide to work with the NSA, where this girl has a degree in computer science and mathematics, they have to teach you all of their “own mathematics” in the NSA - regardless of your background.) What the hell happened to my life? What the hell happened to all the smart girls in this world? I had constant and instant access to IEEE’s president to influence this Asian girl (as well as HKN’s president). I like to bypass all the bullshit democratic meetings of yapping and go straight to the source of power from behind the curtains. Girls absolutely loved me back then and constantly validated and enabled my personality flaws. “All smart people are lazy in this world. So don’t worry, we will give you the class notes and let you copy our homework and the lab results. We even have all the answers to the next exam right here - if you want to look them over.” “All smart people are stubborn, bad tempered, and like to be alone to think. So it’s OK if you don’t want to come to our party. But we really, really want you to come!” And etc... And especially these little hot petite Asian foreign girls studying abroad in America, they were always so nervous around me that the only thing that they can talk about under their anxiety was their research in “face lock loops.” And that was a long and truly confusing conversation because I misinterpreted what she said as circuits for “phase lock loops.” When these Asian girls get jealous, they immediately switch shit up on me. They become these god damn super goody two shoes in “enforcing tight regulations” on what is the “proper behaviors” in life and become these god damn pain in the asses who follows me around telling me, “that’s not gentlemen behavior.” Oh yeah, one time, I took a bunch of liquor to our initiation ceremony and these motherfuckers drunk with me - best time ever! We had so much fun where my table was surrounded by hot white girls - some of them not even club members. I was drunk. But I remembered talking to a bunch of blonde hair-stylists. That wasn’t right. This was an initiation party for engineers only. We got so wild and rowdy at my table that our club got fined by the Resturant. That was when the Chinese bitches took their revenge on me - and tried to force me to pay the fine personally because these envious communist bitches don’t know how to have fun in America. Dude, bitches, I bring in all the money for this organization! Who the fuck do y’all think you are??? I thought we were friends... Girls are NOT supposed to be like this! They are NOT suppose to be this fucking difficult and confusing. They are all suppose to be easy! And I did some very, very naughty things with one of the blondes that would definitely have had me meToo-ed in today’s climate. I had her put some fruit in her vagina and crawl around like a dog to humiliate herself in front of me on the roof top of this tall building that only I had access to (because I picked its locks). That’s also where I prayed early every morning while watching the sun rise! I need to go back to the high-IQ environment that I used to know and had control over and to repeat exactly everything that I was doing right in my early 20s. I look alright these days. But I need to look like how I used to look in the past! I need to find young college girls - smart and hot, skinny college girls in elite schools! I didn’t even need pick up lines in my past to approach girls on the street. Instead, those hot girls had really exciting pickup lines to instantly catch my attention when they approached me with their friends. “I always wanted to be a porn star. But my tits are too small. That’s why my daddy sent me to engineering school instead. Do you want to go clubbing with us?” Dude... whatever you are doing, that will instantly catch your attention! What else??? “I want to pass my genes of having natural blonde hair and blue eyes to my children. But I will make an exception in life just for you.” I don’t understand at this point what has happened? Why is everything so confusing and reversed? Aren’t young and hot, fertile girls supposed to approach me in life instead and do exactly what I tell them to do - just like before??? Things weren’t like this!!! I am enough in this world just to be me and minding my own business! And girls are supposed to approach me and tell me things like, “I went rock climbing this weekend and almost died. That’s one advantage to be a single girl for now. People don’t have to worry to death about you all the time with all the wild things that you do. You wanna come with us the next time we girls go on these suicide missions?” Oh yeah, I have never learned to cook for my entire existence. And as a young man, I was always hungry - especially when I worked late at night. I would crash into these little bitches apartments - not to rape them - but to make them cook something for me on demand in the middle of the night. I was fucking hungry! Oh yeah, I have also never gone shopping for cloth for as long as I have lived - I think. And on my dates, I would make these little blondes studying mathematics at Georgia Tech take their needles and threads with them to sit there and be feminine and sow up my torn cloths while we talked. And every time, as a reward, I gave her an apple for patching up my clothes.

  • @zyroneesguerra5263
    @zyroneesguerra52634 жыл бұрын

    I just wanted to say that Thank You! so much Todd because i am in college and i made a girl ask me to be her BF because of your Advices/Teachings I'm still thinking because she's a 7 but i will make her my GF because i don't have any experience so i will Grab the Opportunity. Thank You! So much ToddFather.....💓.

  • @kamikaze6387

    @kamikaze6387

    4 жыл бұрын

    no don't make the mistake if it's 7 fuck off man

  • @johnsmith-wx5fb

    @johnsmith-wx5fb

    4 жыл бұрын

    A 7!!!??? Not bad.

  • @zyroneesguerra5263

    @zyroneesguerra5263

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@kamikaze6387 But bro this is the 1st time that i have the Opportunity to have a GF. What should i do?....

  • @zyroneesguerra5263

    @zyroneesguerra5263

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@johnsmith-wx5fb I am actually scared right now because i don't know wha'ts next......😅😢😂. Haha

  • @johnsmith-wx5fb

    @johnsmith-wx5fb

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@zyroneesguerra5263 marriage?

  • @bryant8647
    @bryant86474 жыл бұрын

    HEYO

  • @jukebox1138
    @jukebox11384 жыл бұрын

    Lame

  • @johnsmith-wx5fb
    @johnsmith-wx5fb4 жыл бұрын

    Todd you're talking way way to fast in your semina. Are they paying by the word?

  • @johnsmith-wx5fb

    @johnsmith-wx5fb

    4 жыл бұрын

    *too😝

  • @sallysmith3885

    @sallysmith3885

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's video. Watch it over and over until you get it.

  • @johnsmith-wx5fb

    @johnsmith-wx5fb

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@sallysmith3885 i hear him fine and i get it . i hope he doesnt talk like that with women

  • @thevisygoths7794
    @thevisygoths77944 жыл бұрын

    Wtf there is a reason some guys wont be able to breed. Catchy title guys seriously this is basic social skills in every young man social development omg

  • @claychandler3468
    @claychandler34684 жыл бұрын

    Dude you look sketchy in this video nothing personal looks like you're afraid to look at the camera I don't get it I'm out here

  • @OneManCanStopTheMotorOfWorld

    @OneManCanStopTheMotorOfWorld

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good thing nobody really asked you right? lol project much?

  • @glockbabe9601
    @glockbabe96014 жыл бұрын

    Little corny

  • @unosheem6210

    @unosheem6210

    4 жыл бұрын

    All you have to do is translate it to the type of girls you’re gaming if she’s younger switch out his words with something we actually say cause remember Todd’s older

  • @johnsmith-wx5fb
    @johnsmith-wx5fb4 жыл бұрын

    Be appropriately excited for my call😵🏃🏃🏃👀dude no! Just nope! No siree.

  • @sallysmith3885

    @sallysmith3885

    4 жыл бұрын

    LOL! I think most of my girl friends would like it. I would. Just the right amount of cocky.

  • @theplayaifyer

    @theplayaifyer

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sally Smith would you prefer to be challenged just a little bit instead of being treated “with respect”? if you know what I mean

  • @johnsmith-wx5fb

    @johnsmith-wx5fb

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@sallysmith3885 ha ha well there you go. What do i know. Why are you here if you are one of them female things? Isnt this for men?

  • @johnsmith-wx5fb

    @johnsmith-wx5fb

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@theplayaifyer are you talking bdsm? That is a no no josh. Big no no.

  • @sallysmith3885

    @sallysmith3885

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@johnsmith-wx5fb My little brother is a man and he is on here a lot.

  • @mikekumar9308
    @mikekumar93084 жыл бұрын

    This is the worst video by todd v I've ever seen. Considering it's the only actual horrible video I've ever seen by him, I'll just pretend this doesnt exist!

  • @iGhostr

    @iGhostr

    4 жыл бұрын

    same, I didn't understand it very much.

  • @Kingarthurjohn

    @Kingarthurjohn

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mike Kumar why’s it bad?

  • @ghosthusler
    @ghosthusler4 жыл бұрын

    Who calls in anyone in 2019?

  • @andrewadami3920

    @andrewadami3920

    4 жыл бұрын

    I hope you are joking. But your comment seems sincere.

  • @ghosthusler

    @ghosthusler

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@andrewadami3920 Do you also send letters via mail lol. Welcome to the world of the millennials mate

  • @sallysmith3885

    @sallysmith3885

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ghosthusler I'm a woman, and I much prefer a guy to call. Texting is okay, but too many men hide behind it because they lack the social skills to actually call.

  • @ghosthusler

    @ghosthusler

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@sallysmith3885 I'm also a woman. Calling someone you've just met is not something common in 2019. Definitely not with young girls. Most people who uses a smartphone use it just text, and rarely calls strangers.

  • @photonman54

    @photonman54

    4 жыл бұрын

    People getting laid. That's who