Telling our Family that We're Adopting a Baby!
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Welcome to our adoption journey! Here are a few glimpses!
@lucifur6921
3 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy for you two and Ollie and Harry … it will be exciting too watch you and your growing family
@lyndsaysrebornnurseryoffib4241
3 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy for you guys I’m crying happy tears!
@peppermintwoman2049
3 жыл бұрын
Will you be doing an open or closed adoption? Curious only bc I'm both adopted and a birth mother
@bettersecret1499
3 жыл бұрын
Guys do the TBRI training!!!! It's veeery helpful. Suggestion by an adoptive mom
@darlenehaley6781
3 жыл бұрын
I am so Happy for ya'll! My husband and I had 6 grown children. And we adopted our grandson. We first got him 10 years ago. He is 15 now. And through my illness he has helped me grow in my faith as much as I have him. We didn't know how things would go for either one of our health issues. But God got us through joyfully. God bless ya'll 🙏🏻✝️
I'm so happy for you guys. I cried when Mary said "God is making me a mommy". That is so true. This process and decision is a true miracle from God; He is blessing your family and our hearts. Congratulations again.
Baby room decor section about the whale stuff. Mary: "we'll have to see?" Me: "you mean 'Whale have to see' right?" 😆
@devonhanson4038
3 жыл бұрын
I had the same thought !! Haha
@queengrey4054
3 жыл бұрын
No: "Whale have to sea"😂
@epohmp4
3 жыл бұрын
WHALE have to SEAAA
Mary’s laugh giggle is the greatest.
Mary's giggle every time she announced it is everything! God bless your adoption journey.
Mary and Peter , this journey will never get old. I’m sitting here watching this and crying like a baby. I’m a mother of 3 and a grand mother of 8 and I know the joy of having a baby in your life. LOVE FROM GRANNIE IN TX.
"God is going to make me a mommy" aaaand I lost it!!!! 😭😭😭😭
@sheilablackwell6785
3 жыл бұрын
👩🏼🍼Awwwwwwwwww👩🏼🍼
I've been sobbing for three days straight now. Just about the time I stop y'all post a new vlog. So so happy for you guys!!!
Congratulations again you guys! As a chronic illness Mama who was told I would never be a mom, and am now a mom of twin boys…I will tell you it’s not easy. But nothing that is easy is ever worth it. It is beyond worth the tired days and long nights. No greater joy. Can’t wait to see you guys flourish as parents. 💛
@misq8n686
3 жыл бұрын
I love your comment! You are so strong, JaimeStylez. I also hope you feel better, considering that you have a chronic illness.
I am a birth parent(genetic parent) myself and I encourage you to really look into open or semi open, not for the genetic parents’ sake but for your child. It’s much easier on them so they don’t have to go through the “finding my parents” thing. It’s worked well for the parents and family of the son I placed.
As an adoptee, it makes me so emotional watching your video and imagining my parents going through the whole process so many years ago. I’m so excited for you!
Family: No way! Mary: Way! 😄😂😆😍 I'm currently binge-watching The Frey Life and all those sweet heart-warming vids 😅
When we built David’s (my son) crib for the first time, we made it up with bedding, turned around, turned back and Major, our German Shepherd at the time, had jumped in! The joys of expectant parenthood, whether natural or via adoption! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hi guys! I couldn’t think of 2 more deserving wonderful people to adopt! So happy for you guys.
I already see Mary as a mother. It’s crazy how fast Mary got that glow!!! I couldn’t be happier for the two of you!!!
More years. Ollie watching the transformation of the nursery, priceless. That crib is beautiful.
I just love that when you announced to friends and family that you were adopting that the reactions were no different than when someone announces a biological child they are expecting 🥺🥰🥰🥰
We had a huge apricot standard poodle when we had our babies and he was the best big brother. We joke that our daughter’s first language was dog.💕🐾
What a blessing this baby is going to have being apart of your family. Y’all are going to be wonderful parents. Congrats
I’m so happy for you. This journey will be such a fulfilling one for you. Ollie senses something. A rocker is a must for a nursery. Thank you for taking us along .
It's fantastic that you have been dropping clues to "The People" all along. For example, moving the study, getting a dr. exam, notarizing and more. Wow. Congrats!
Congratulations!!! How exciting! Seriously, who is not crying? I definitely am. I have been a huge Frey fan since you both started on KZread. Continued prayers.
Wow CONGRATULATIONS! I have been following you for about 5-6 years and it's just incredible to look back and see the beautiful milestones you guys reach in your life together. So happy for you!!!
so very excited for you all. I can't stop crying - happy tears.
I'm just over the moon thrilled for the 4 that includes Ollie and Harry! Looking forward to hearing about the continued blessings as the you embark on this journey of parenthood!
Ollie's like "Rearranging another room again" & Harry's like "What's going on?". But every video this week about you adopting has had me smiling from ear to ear. I'm so happy for you guys. You're gonna make awesome parents. This beautiful baby is gonna be blessed to have you as their parents.
i've been fighting depression so, so hard and this is the first time in a long time that i've cried tears of joy. thank you. i can't wait to follow along, your strength amazes me and i identify as an atheist but i listened to your whole podcast video about the process of adoption and i have to say a wave of peace washed over me. i don't know what that means, but thank you for the peace i've felt today and the joy i've felt for you, for the first time in a long time. all my love.
I'm so happy for you both. I've been following you guys for a while now. You both have reminded me to keep hope and faith in my spoonie journey. I can't wait to see your adoption journey. You might want to create a journal/scrapbook to keep papers, documents and pictures along the way.
My heart is so full for y’all 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️
Congratulations! This is so exciting and I can't wait to see where this journey takes you! Best of luck!
Congratulations, you two! I almost started bawling when I saw the first video title making the announcement. And I really cried when I saw your long video where you talked about the journey of getting to the point where you made the decision to adopt. I love you guys, and I couldn’t be happier for you! God is giving you the desire of your hearts. I’m really going to enjoy the next several vlogs hearing Mary’s squeals of pure delight!
Watching this brings back so many memories. I remember how daunting and exciting the process was. We had four months to get all of our stuff together and it seemed to fly by.
Ollie and Harry are going to be the most adorable big brothers! I just have a feeling we're going to see so many videos and pictures of them all snuggled up with "their" baby. I am SO excited for ALL of you!
This is so exciting and I'm so happy to be here for it. Thank you guys for sharing this journey with us. I can't wait to see you guys with a baby and watch you two be the wonderful parents you were molded to be. So much joy within your household and within your community, we all are running towards baby!
I was adopted when I was 10 months from Guatemala and this makes me so thankful seeing how excited you both are. Praise God for loving people like you who open their hearts and home to someone. Thank you from the bottom of my heart, God bless
Awe!! Congratulations!! I'm so happy for you!!! You will be absolutely wonderful parents!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I always wondered what parenthood would look like for you guys with Mary’s condition. I’m so happy for you guys. Being parents was always in the cards for you, you’ll be awesome
What a blessed baby he/she will be! Don't forget to secure that bookcase to the wall for that inquisitive tyke!❤️
Yayyyyy! We adopted our daughter from birth from Massachusetts. She’s 6 now!! What a blessing!! Be 100% open with your baby about their adoption and talk about it with them often :-) Congrats!
This makes my heart dance!! This made me cry happy tears of joy for y’all!! I can’t wait to be on this journey with y’all! I have been watching y’all for a few years now!! Y’all will make such great Parents!! And the Fur Boys will make such good Fur Brothers!!
amazing, you have almost reached your goal! Everyone is so happy for you. We all want this to happen very soon for you. Love is in the air!
I am so happy for all 4 of you.saw yesterday’s thumbnail in hospital have a lot to catch up on.
The new joy in you two looks good. Taking the next steps and feeling the deeper love for one another just as you didn’t know there could be more. Thanks for sharing what it’s been like. We’ve here through the highs and lows. Be strong walking hand and hand through it all.
Ohhhh. I have so much joy from hearing this news! Congratulations! We too went through all you are going through about 19 years ago. My heart just about burst when you announced it. All the emotions and all the tears. It is all worth it and our son is a miracle in our lives. He has added so much to our lives. The wonderful family and church family is invaluable. So, so happy for you both! The Lord will bring you the perfect child to call your own, as He has planned it from the beginning of time. He loves you so, so much!
Clicked so fast! Congrats! Wonderful news!
Hi Peter! Hi Mary! I just wanted to take the time to say thankyou, im saying thankyou because a couple of years ago i went through some stuff that made me the coldest/meanest most negative version of myself- I was always angry and could never see the good in anything and i refused help. I started watching you guys somewhere and 2016 and honestly i thought “How can these people love life and continue to stay so strong through this illness.” and im gonna admit that it annoyed me a little. but NOW in 2021 I’m back and ive been binging every single video, I cannot even begin to express the positive vibes that radiate from you two. I am SOSOSO thankful for your inspiration and motivation to always remain positive and see the good in things.
I can't take the anticipation!! I'm so excited for you!
Ollie’s going to be a big brother!!! I’m crying watching your videos, soooo happy for you both! I’ve been watching your channel since before your first dose of that miracle pill! It’s amazing what that med has done for your life!!!
My parents did foster care. You need baby gates at the stairs top and bottom. You will also need child safety locks on all the cabinets. And a key lock on Mary's med supply closet. Best child locks for cabinets are the magnet key locks.
I’m so happy happy happy for you! I think the nursery just needs all of Mary’s artwork. Perfect nursery decor.
Over the moon excited for you both! You both will be such loving parents. What a blessed baby she or he will be.
I’m adopted and I am absolutely thrilled for both of you. The Frey family is the absolute best place to be loved and nurtured!! God has some amazing plans for you and your little one. He has blessed you immensely, and knows His child is in the best hands and heart to take care of in all the days ahead for all of your lives together as a family. Congrats to Mom and Dad! Your time has come and it’s pretty exciting!!! So happy for you guys!! Much love and big hugs!! 💖
Can’t even express how happy I am for you!! I will love going through this journey with you!!
Oh so excited for you guys! Been watching you for years and was so surprised the other night when I watched your announcement. You two will be such great parents! Lucky kid, lucky kid!!!!
I am so excited for both of you! Nothing but tears of joy the past three days for this news!
Thanks so much for letting us share in this wonderful news! What a blessing !❤️🍼
It's so great to hear everyone so excited. I wish I could've seen all of your parents faces when they heard the news.
Congratulations. I know you guys are beyond excited. I prayed everything goes great for your family
That is so wonderful that your little family of 4 is about to become 5. SO exciting for all of you. Congratulations
The most special thing about you two is your honesty, never showing off or trying to wow us with some trip or purchase or beauty tip. My only experience with my adoption is my psychologist who adopted 2 children. It seemed to me to definitely be a venture largely for the very wealthy who could afford what is needed to accomplish it . So when you mentioned there was a group to help with that for more regular folks I rejoyced.
I loved the way you phrased it to the kiddos "God is going to make me a Mummy!" So cute! Sending love and best wishes for this next adventure from Australia
I had not gotten notifications for awhile so I decided to check in on your channel hoping everything was okay...and saw all of the adoption news! So exciting! Congratulations to your little family getting bigger. ❤
Rewatching the last couple videos again and again. So happy for you!! 😍
Hi Mary and Peter. I'm still shocked this is real that you guys are going to be parents soon. Yes, love that channel I been watching both of her channel for a long time and her family is the cutest and the best. Congrats again. It was so fun watching you guys tell your family.
I am so excited for yall! And I can't wait for this next chapter in y'all's lives.
Sobbing! So happy for you guys!! That baby is already so loved!!
as an adoptee that has followed you guys for at least 5 years now (that i can remember)……. this makes my heart smile in ways you guys can’t imagine. i’m so happy for you. wow.
I don’t even have words! Just so very happy for you all! ❤️
I’m tearing up with joy for you guys! Adoption is such a beautiful thing to see. God bless!
I’ve been watching you guys on and off for probably about 3 years, starting when Mary’s health was starting to decline and I was actually really worrisome for her in my own life, and I remember you guys saying that a child wasn’t ever going to be an option with Mary’s health, and let me tell you when I was SHOCKED when I saw this huge announcement! I’m so happy for you both and the part where someone’s child said “Peter is going to be a dad!” It just warmed my heart so much and I’m balling over here in Ohio! Do what you think you can’t do, right?! So so happy for you and your future child. I’ll be watching!
I always find it odd the process that people have to go through to adopt a child, but if you get pregnant, you're good to go. No home study, no interviews to make sure you're able to care for a child, etc. This statement is by no means anything negative about the 2 of you, obviously, you will pass with flying colors. That is going to be one very lucky little boy or girl.
As a spoonie and mom of 3, (and now new Grammy of 2!), I can tell you this will be the BEST times of your lives! It's not easy, but it's SO worth it!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I don’t think I cried so hard. “ Peter’s gonna be a dad” oh my gosh my heart is so full. 😭😭 is there a such thing as a tissue delivery service cause I need more.😭❤️❤️ so incredibly happy for you guys. I know this when you are blessed with a child, they will be so lucky to have you as parents ❤️❤️🥰
I've been following you guys since Scotland and I can't express how excited I am for the both of you. Children are such a blessing from the Lord. Praying for you guys! Xo
Congrats you will be amazing parents and can't wait to meet them when they come home
So happy for you Mary and Peter!
I have been watching you guys for years and I am so happy for you both!! Mary and Peter your story gives me so much encouragement every single day. Thank you for sharing your story. Again I am so happy for you. God is Faithful. ❤️
Im so excited for you guys! As an adopted child myself im so glad to see this happening for you guys
Rachel i was so excited for her reaction 😭 love you guys!!! 😍
Just checking off all the boxes. I love you all so very much. This baby is going to be so blessed.
I'm so flipping excited!!!!! You guys deserve the world ♥️♥️ This is a crazy, amazing journey and I'm so grateful that you are letting us all join along on this ride 🥰
Im gonna cry so many tears of joy for you watching your journey to becoming parents
I am so excited for you both 💜 I have been keeping up with your journey for a few years now and when I saw you were adopting, my heart just jumped for joy for you both. You both are going to be such wonderful parents and know that God is walking with you each step of the way! He is so good!
Not me sobbing with happiness and excitement for you guys. You're going to make such wonderful parents!
So delighted for you both! God is so good!
I’m so proud for you two!! You are so deserving and will be awesome parents!!
Ya'll, the tears I have shed the past couple of days have been tears of complete joy. I want you both to know that I consider it an honor to get to be a witness of this beautiful journey!
Got me crying Happy tears right at the beginning of the video😭😭😭❤️😊🤗. I'm so excited to watch this next chapter in your lives. Bless you.
I'm so happy & excited for you both!! Thank you for sharing your journey with all of us!! 💙
Mary, Peter, i am so happy for you two. I was adopted and adoption is a wonderful thing. I cant wait to follow everything and see how it all works out. You two deserve it. Congratulations!
There's not going to be aa shortage of parents who would love for them to adopt their baby ❤️
Totally loving this new chapter of the vlogs!! ❤️👶🏼👩🏼🧔🏼🐶🐱❤️
I am so excited for you. I wondered where you all have been. Yahoo!
As a newborn adoptee 50 years ago, I have to say that everyone won in this situation. I have had amazing parents and 10 years ago located my birthmom. Good had a plan for all of us and how lucky I was to be and feel so much love for my entire life! I'm so excited to follow your journey😆
Congratulations Mary and Peter! U2 will make great parents!
i have never been happy for someone on youtube whom i don’t even knoww god bless you guys
My heart is filled with so much joy and happiness for you both. I can’t stop crying and smiling as i watch this video. I will always keep you in my prayers.
JUMPING WITH JOY FOR YOU GUYS!! 😭❤️❤️
I’m so happy for you! I’m crying. You will be amazing parents ❤️
Mary and Peter congratulations on your decision to bring baby into your home and life! So many great years ahead of you! God has blessed you both!