Telling My NIGERIAN Dad I'm getting Married + My SHOCKING Igbo BRIDE PRICE LIST| STORYTIME & FOOTAGE
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Hey KZread Family, Sending love and positive vibes. This video/vlog is another juicy storytime gisting you all about how i told my igbo dad i was getting married + my introduction and ridiculous bride price/Dowry list. what a time. Let me know what you think & if you like these kind of videos.
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Its called “ikuaka in Igbo”-introduction in English. Whereby the two families meet and get to know each other well,whereby you point the man you want to marry,also discuss the way forward with the marriage date,bride price etc. congratulations vivikoks nwa❤️❤️❤️
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Trueeee! Thank youu ❤❤
@sandraudechukwu3751
Жыл бұрын
Hello Ogom! I’m a subscriber, love to see you here . ❤
I just love how you're free with the whole process. It feels like I'm the one getting married, I'm so excited for this new journey 😂❤️. Congratulations again 🎉
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
I’m trying 😂. Thank you ❤
There is someone coming to pluck a ripe flower from your compound,that is what every parents wants to hear and will make their day always🙏🙏🙏. Your father is legit is the best dad because that is the first question every parents should ask👌👌👌.
I really want to attend an Igbo wedding. Their culture is so rich ❤. I love to see it
Most times our parents pretend like they don't know anything until when it comes to the matter of the heart 😁.. The kind of questions they ask will shock you😂.. God bless your beautiful union.
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Ikr?! 😂😂 Thank you 🥰
This video makes me want to get married but I’m just 21 😭😭😂
@maryammohammed7906
Жыл бұрын
You can still get married if you are really ready to settle
@aimaohi2667
Жыл бұрын
@@maryammohammed7906 I’m not oh 😭😂
Just see me smiling from ear to ear!!!!
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Alma 🥰❤️
✨ *Congratulations baby girlllll* 🎉 My mum always say that once they’ve done the plucking flower thing “Iku-aka” which is introduction then you’re officially taken, and wedding ceremony can happen or not 😊 So, our favorite Vivikokz is Married y’all 😢 Omg Congratulations babezzzz🎉🎊🍾
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Yes oh! Thank you 😂❤
@griselleisara3799
Жыл бұрын
Congrats. I always said. To myself. When is Viví getting married. She will make a beautiful bride ❤️
Awnnn first wedding in ur nuclear family 💗💗 Congratulations May ur wedding pave way to more weddings in your family 😉☺️☺️☺️ Yes o we want sit down videos🥰
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Amen! Thank you 🥰
Indeed God works in mysterious ways, I tap for marital breakthrough
Your facial expressions after "Do you love him?" 😂😂😂😂 Congratulations sweet girl ! ❤️❤️
Is the marriage story time for me. I am looking more on the marriage series. From the how we met, to the wedding , settling down in ur hubby house♥
I am having flashbacks to my own wedding. This bride price list caused me annoyance like for real I was so annoyed by the whole thing. Also if your husband is not Igbo, there is a different (more extensive) LIST! OMG My Edo husband certainly suffered. I fought with people this whole wedding process. It's too much. Maybe in the future I will laugh at it. But I am so happy for you and I am glad your process seems seamless so far!
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
I totally understand you. It’s very tricky & annoying sometimes. Thank you ❤️
I’m just blushing! Makes me remember my elder sister’s wedding! It’s the part where the umunnas and umuadas that you’ve never met get to have the largest share on the list.. lol
Congratulations Vivi-koks! So glad that you are showing your cubbies this process. I believe Nigerian weddings are beautiful & I'm looking forward to seeing what you are willing to share.
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
Okay, I'm so excited! Hay God! I can't wait for your outfits! Hay God! This excitement is tangible, body just dey sweet me. Lemme go before everyone will think I'm a lunatic. Oga di kpo kpo! Okay, bye.
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Ahhh 😂😂😂💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
Not Village Elders, you should call them your *Dad's* *kinsmen* . Anyway, congratulations to you!!!🎉🎉
Finally something to make us happy in Nigeria at the moment 🫶🏾🎉
@followGreatness
Жыл бұрын
Haha... What of the igbo one that brought his American "Bestie". God help us ooo.
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
❤
Congratulations ViviKoks!! Honestly, the Igbo tribe should re-evaluate this bride price practice. A woman is not for sale. No wonder some men think marrying you is buying you smh.
@thetruth6396
Жыл бұрын
The same way a man who doesn't pay your bride price would not value you and can easily dump you and move on with next.
@maryammohammed7906
Жыл бұрын
@@thetruth6396 God almighty will bless you
@uzorrachel8645
Жыл бұрын
No one is complaining
I’m happy you’re finally getting married
Those questions there asked you is very important just to be sure you know what you are getting in to marriage no be joke ... Congrats dear 💃💃💃 the list no be here 🙊 here I was thinking that my own list way too much.
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Ikr? and I didn’t even read everything 😭😭😭
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Ikr? and I didn’t even read everything 😭😭😭
Exactlyyyyy GOD WORKS IN MYSTERIOUS WAYS!!! Ok vivikoks we ready! Serve Us!
much love from Kenya. The bride price is interesting wish we could know it all.
The issue here is, those items will be used for entertainment during the ceremony
I’m so happy for you. I’ve been following you for years now so it’s amazing seeing the changes in your life. Congratulations again🎉
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
So beautiful🥺🥺. The main ceremony hasn’t happened and you’re all glowed up. Marriage will really be good on you🥳… I can now call you Mrs Vivikoks😉😁
Such beautiful traditions, thanks for sharing!...there's nothing like an African wedding ❤
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🥰
I love simple introductions. I am ready for the wedding series, I pray God blesses the preparation and make your big day memorable.
It’s always weird to discuss these kinda stuff with fathers 😂 I don’t even know how to start the conversation 😂😂
I’m Zambian, this was interesting to know. Thank you for sharing and all the best with the wedding preparations and blessings to your home
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
I’m glad! Thank you 🥰
Thank you, Vivi 😍. This is something to lighten the mood cos my head is throbbing from all the news concerning the election that I've been seeing so far.
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
My dear 😢
I love how you simplify that bride price is the real deal, ceremony is for the people. Congratulations!! Nice to know more about our cultures and traditions.
Always here for the background music👌
Your dady is happy that a man wants to come pluck a beautiful flower from his blessed home. So happy for you vivikoks. Congrats girl. 😆vivian don't bite your tongue speaking igbo
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Hahaha! Thank you 🥰
Lol congratulations on your introduction, during my wedding ,when they brought the list and I saw it,I asked my mom ,those Keke riders and bike men who have wives are you saying that they paid everything completely ? She was like no you can negotiate the list and I was relieved and all . Well we later took some things off, Like my list had 100 tubers of yam and after the negotiations it was reduced to less than 50
Congratulations dear. 🎉Tap in from your blessing. This will be me sharing mine soon
We are so happy about the new phase omgggg🎉🎉🎉🎉 Yess and we can’t wait for wedding plans Please take us along 🧎🏾♀️
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
You bet 💃🏾
Congratulations Vivi koks i tap from your blessings 🥰🥰🥰
Once I heard hat, walking stick , I just laughed out cos my dad is definitely not using those😅😅😅
I enjoyed this story time …. Congratulations 🍾 we have a wedding to plan yipeeee 💃
Congratulations darling , Abia state my State. 🤗🤗 But the list shaa
I'm enjoying this marriage episodes.... I love it, Vivian, and congratulations again
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Glad you are.. Thank you 🥰
My new KZread obsession ❤❤❤
Congratulations again, Vivian! You’re glowing and you look so happy. I am enjoying your sit-down videos. It shows a different side of you. I’m loving it!❤
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Ayye! Thank you 💃🏾🥰
God really works in mysterious ways, and to think that peeps really bombarded you with the marriage questions in your last Q&A.
I love it and as a married woman cant wait to see all the juicy stufss
awwwww see me smiling so big i enjoyed every bit of it sis. congratulations once again sis
Lol reminds me of when my sister was getting married. Very exciting sturv. Ours is a list for the father and the mother. Listening to what’s on your list, una like to shayo oooo😭😂😂 It’s just drink, ours was outfits and outfits and etc. the mother’s list was similar, alongside stockfishessss. And no, it’s not a taboo to share the list.
Congratulations! God Bless your union and home.
Can’t wait for ViviKoks’ wedding videos 🥹❤️
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Ayye! 😂😂❤️
I loveee how you’re carrying us along & allowing us share in your joy. 🎉🎉❤️❤️❤️ I’m excited for future videos! Congratulations again 💃🏽
I know that feeling when you want to break that kind of news to an Igbo father
Congratulations on your engagement. The guy is a lucky man to have you.
Omo as an igbo girl I know that bride price list dey always choke. God will help us. Congratulations nwunye nmadu💃💃💃💃💃💃💃
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Like!!😩😭 Thank you 🥰
Opens KZread and this video pops up.....I like what I see....amazing content. You can welcome your new member 🤗
😁😁😁😁 your igbo is funny sha. The eeh ( yes) sounded more hausa than igbo…but the message was passed 😂 that’s what matter. Congratulations vivikoksy (my version of your nickname)
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 Wow!
Were there elements on the list for the bride herself? My culture has majority of things that a woman uses on the brideprice and only some money and cloths for the mother and father and sons
You n my culture we also have the tradition of paying bride price but I will say that the fact that people who didn’t contribute to your upbringing get to request things is crazy. Congratulations again
Married woman ❤so happy for you darling
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Thank youu 🥰
That intro song by flavour is just.a religion...he use to crush on yemi alade until onyezie kiss si ya jide..
The list merit it oooooo makana ichapuru achapu!!! Congrats once again vivikoks
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
No lies 😂😂. Thank youu ❤️
You marriage is blessed. Abia bride price can be very ridiculous omo. Anambra calls it ikuaka.
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Yess 😂
Hahahaa the she goat!!! Love this, the igbo culture is beautiful !!
I'm so happy for you, I would like to attend your wedding 🥰
The output of this mic💯
✨Vivikokz if I no come your wedding I fit sick ohhhh😢 This one wey you don do lowkey introduction😢 Don’t play with me like that oh💔
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 You’re in Dubai now 👀
Knew you from Em Etetim's videos then (your trip to Mauritius) so happy for you ❤️❤️ I love weddings and can't wait to be part of this one
@deborahshemang967
Жыл бұрын
Congratulations 🎉🎉♥️♥️ Viv!! Am so happy for you and am wishing you the very best 💞.
Congratulations! It's the bottles of morning rose powder for me
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
😂😩
Wow. You’ve come a long way! Congratulations hardworking Vivian 🎉❤
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Yes, thank you🥰
Watching from Botswana and I’m 📝..your culture is a bit similar to ours.
You are the beautiful, glowing, flourishing flower they've come to pluck 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 I love you Vivikok I'm soooo elated right now Congratulations once again
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Aww Thank youu 🥰🥰
Very interesting, I’m going to be charging bride price for my daughter oh.. imagine family’s with many daughters.. wow
Congratulations babe welcome to club of married women
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Haha!! Thank you o 🥰
She's soooo happy guysss Tears Happy tears🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
Clockinggggg in🎉🎉🎉🎉
Ndi Abia nah Ndi Imo sharing almost the same Traditional List ... That's called "Ikuaka in Igbo"Introduction... The way I'm smiling ehnnn ❤️❤️❤️The story dey totori my belly ... Congratulations Asa Nwa and I pray Heaven perfect all that he alone started 🙏🙏🙏🙏... See me laughing out loud when you said ,you don't even know those men (Elders of your community)😅😅😅. Honestly we don't know them but once it's "Ikuaka"Introduction and collection of List ,you will see them 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅... I'm glued here Vivian ,keep them gist coming ,so so happy for you ....
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Amennn!! Thank you 🥰
I so so love how you recounted the whole experience. Makes me at ease for when I’d experience it too. And that’s good.❤
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
I’m glad! Thank youu 🥰
Congratulations Vivikoks God bless your home
Omo!!!! Your list na die. I was complaining my list was expensive it's well oh. Well I still love our culture
Congratulations vivi❤️ Super happy for you 🎉 You saying the elders words in Igbo got me. 🤣🤣🤣and brought back memories of those days 😅
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 Thank youu
I just got a line😅 “Daddy there is this man that says he wants to marry me, he wants to meet you 😅” Let me save it for the future
Congratulations Viv 🍾🍾
Congratulations Vivikoks.
Congratulations nne
Congratulations 🎉❤ THEEEE LIST 😂😂😂 Tradition is really funny
I’m speechless so teary watching this😭💙 so happy for you
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Aww Thank you 🥹🥹
Congratulations Vivkoks❤❤❤❤❤. Your home is blessed❤. God bless you
Heii Look who will soon be a MRS 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽☺️
Congratulations Vivian
🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 I am legit smiling from ear to ear... I am so happy for you Vivikoks... I really am 😍😍😍😍♥️
Congratulations 🎊 dear
Vivian, you're so excited and I'm so happy for you. Thank you for sharing the journey with us. Please know that we're genuinely happy for you and praying with you ❤❤❤
My heart is doing me Totori🥰😍😂💃💃💃💃💃💃
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
😂😂
I like this new Vivian with all the tea
Congratulations sis... Tradition is indeed a funny thing. Imagine elders who weren't even there during your were about/ growth suddenly comes to take all the Glory🥺😩😁 (I saw A Similar thing when my elder Sister was about to marry)
This is so nostalgic for me and lovely. Happy married life VivyKoks
Congratulations Viv, I wish you a beautiful marriage of bliss
congratulation vivikoks, your joy shall know no bounds...i'm soo happy for you seriously
@VivianOkezie
Жыл бұрын
Amen! Thank you 🥰
Congratulations Vivikoks
Congratulations Vivikoks....God has beautiful things in store for you babyyyyy🥰💃🎉