Since the discussion remains so necessary - let's keep it going! Thank you!

I literally love this video! As a Black female, professional living in NY city and in general a lover of people, I find these awkward conversations happen so often. I love this new platform and way to discuss and consider race talks! Thank you Jay!

@laurieberry4814

2 жыл бұрын

We are all working here.

@laurieberry4814

2 жыл бұрын

Simone, why put you’re race down? I put down refuse to answer.

@southbayjay2540

2 жыл бұрын

@@laurieberry4814 your*

Jay Smooth is asking us to address racist comments by focusing on what the person SAID... not what the person is. well intentioned ppl make mistakes... lets talk about (and not avoid) these conversations... it will help us reach common ground and build understanding/awareness. this is constructive, thoughtful advice... thanks Jay Smooth.

Amazing! His wisdom and comical delivery kept causing explosions of "Ah-ha!" and "Wow!" moments for me. Thank you, Jay!

Refreshing and relevant to the current conversation. Thank you for this perspective!

such an honest and refreshing talk with a kick-ass name...need to get this thing more views.

This video literally changed my life. I'm writing a blog about it right now. I'll share it here when it's done, if anyone's interested. Thank you Jay Smooth! You're awesome. You're Incredibly patient and empathic toward people who are not empathic toward you.

@honestwanderings4032

9 жыл бұрын

***** it's honestwandering.wordpress.com, I write poetry and prose about personal growth, spiritual growth, nature, and occasionally, a little bit of politics. I haven't posted that piece yet, but I'll make a comment here when I do :)

Please, Jay Smooth for president. I won't have it any other way.

@GadSammit

8 жыл бұрын

I'll start the fundraising!

@afrohealer

8 жыл бұрын

+GadSammit Jay is to real to be president .. the establishment wont allow a brother that down to get there.

@GadSammit

8 жыл бұрын

+afrohealer WE are the establishment, and if we decide to work our asses off for something, we can accomplish it much more easily than we think.

@afrohealer

8 жыл бұрын

+GadSammit yes .. but ets be carefull about that which we want to integrate into. E.g if you have a sick system, you dont want to integrate into a sick system. I am more inclined t a re-imagining of our positions in this planet that is centered around our interdependence and not around the nations sates .. I think you will appreciate this essay andrea366.wordpress.com/2013/08/14/the-problem-with-privilege-by-andrea-smith/

@juliamckay5032

5 жыл бұрын

So amazed how much his voice SOUNDS like Obama! I heard him without seeing him at first and thought he was Obama... ;-)

wow, blew me away by the depth and the simplicity of the explanation at the same time.

Beautiful, brilliant talk. Refreshingly insightful. So good. Thanks Jay.

"The belief you must be perfect in order to be good is an obstacle to being the best you be." wow

I watch this and thoughts start to take shape. That while the systemic structural issues that Jay Smooth speaks of towards the end of the video will always require our efforts and labor it is these social mines that he talked about in his videos that can teach us all something about ourselves and our work towards dismantling the larger structures. Conversations about things that are seemingly insignificant or ephemeral like John Mayer's racial preference, Colton Haynes blackface, or Justin Bieber and One Directions use of the n-word. These moments can provide us insight into nuanced, ingrained, unconscious racism and privilege we can study. How these individuals perform acts of subtle anti-blackness, not motivated by hate but sometimes ignorance and how our own prejudices can affect how or if we respond to them.

Thank you Mr. Smooth. I learned something from this. So even if someone doesn't get it now, they may get it the next, or the time after that. Never give up.

This is such a great talk! Looking for more videos by him.

You are my go-to person for all things dealing with race issues in America and furthering the discussion on how to have said discussion with civility. You're awesome and I love you for it. Keep it up, Jay!

Congrats to Jay Smooth on his speech at TED. It continues to be rewarding to see your work in live, raw footage. Seemed as though you maybe arrived at the bit about "racism in your teeth" live onstage. Whether or not, it was cool. Again, congrats.

i always love listening to jay

Being "good" is unreachable. You only can be better than you were yesterday.

Has taught me so much, and with humour and compassion! BEST. MAN. ONLINE.

@duhfisy

4 жыл бұрын

Jess Gee I am officially referring you to Tyler Fortnite ninja blevins, he is a strong competitor for that title

EXCELLENT talk, Jay! A super fresh topic to be discussed this way on TED. I hope you do more in the future

your words are music to my brain

A cogent case for negotiating such a social, political and emotional morass as race relations with more introspective caution and mutual understanding. Kudos Jay Smooth!

This was such a great speech. It's disappointing when greatness can inspire ignorance....

I absolutely love this video. Thank you.

This is literally the best response to this sort of blithering nonsense I have ever seen. I am going to save this and quote you forever.

His “batting 1000 vs. striking out every time” analogy makes me think of a John Steinbeck quote: Now that you don’t have to be perfect, you can be good.

very good speech. It's one thing to post an edited video and it's another to speak candidly in front of a room of people. I've always enjoyed your videos and respect your opinions and this just added a bit more to that. Very good job.

I want to meet this guy. He seems just so cool!

What an incredibly intelligent man. He has a gift! I gave such a huge crush on Jay!

Well said!

I Love you Jay Smooth!

This is amazing!

5:37-5:52 brilliant and that also needs to be shouted to holier than thou folk as well.,

WE LOVE YOU JAY

wonderful talk and god damn you are a good speaker

Thanks Jay, for nailing it. Do you run workshops?

This concept - that binaries can be more destructive than useful - is a fantastic concept that's true for so many -isms. Thanks :)

jay smooth is the man. very intelligent

7:48 tonsils paradigm ! brilliant 8:00 Crash ? LOL not to pick a favorite part, cause there are many. Thanks Jay Smooth .

This cat offers up some brilliant commentary...so glad he opened up the format...

@duhfisy

4 жыл бұрын

Onaj Ritchie where was the cat

This man is SO fucking brilliant I don't have the proper words to describe how fucking brilliant this man is.

Oh my, look at the sexy-as-hell brain on this man! Love it! I place Mr. Jay Smooth right up there with other modern brilliant thinkers/philosophers on the topic of race in America such as James Baldwin, Tim Wise, Nina Turner and Ta-Nehisi Coates.

Well said.

Oh my god! I watched one of this guy's videos on the "n-word double standard" a million years ago! He did SUCH a great job at expressing this thought that made so much sense. I _still_ reference ignorant people to that video when they bring up the so-called double standard.

@LastLightgg

9 жыл бұрын

Send me that video? I'm curious. I'm on his channel but not seeing it.

@transformersloverjon

9 жыл бұрын

Salocin097 Yeah, it's pretty obscure. A miraculous coincidence that I found it, actually. Here it is: vimeo.com/43636793

@believeskateco8545

9 жыл бұрын

transformersloverjon awesome video thanks for posting this.

Awesome talk

This young man is brilliant. He should be the King of these Disunited Mistakes.

What are a few of the most relevant resources for doing the dental hygiene work on racism that we need to do? In other words, what exercises can we do daily that will help us clean up our act?

Well said cousin.. brilliant....

beautiful.

What a Godsend!

I had my prejudice removed... I watched that movie Crash. lol

I wish I could upvote some of his individual sentences.

awesome.

Jay Smooth STRIKES AGAIN!!

Right, we sometimes don't see, how we truly are.

Love this: "we need to move away from the tonsils model to the dental hygiene model of discussing race"

The constructs were shaped by false science and dehumanizing. It was deliberate and purposeful.

Jay Smooth is so... smoothe.

Jay, you need your own TV show so you can reach the masses a la Jon Stewart.

does a transcription of this exist?

J Smooth = The GOAT

"Mulatto" is actually a term many mixed-race people find offensive (like me.) If you want to talk about his gentics please refer to him as "mixed-race." Thanks.

@donluchitti I think the key is in the context. strangers in a social setting who lead with "what are you?" aren't anthropologists tracing gene codings for outward race expression. They want to know how to treat him, so he says "how about you treat me as the most dangerous thing you can think of, and we see how you do."

@jimmytrouser Watch the video again; it wasn't about strategies for talking about race or even "a person should not take offence to another person stating they are racist". He says not to take offense when someone suggests something you DID was racist, because that itself is not an implication that you are a racist. He was specifically targeting the false dichotomy between either being a racist or a non-racist.

@jimmytrouser Watch his youtube channel where he goes more into those types of situations. This was a higher level discussion. The focus was deliberate.

Who can help me explain about tonsils paradigm and dental hygiene paradigm in this TEDx Talk ?

Prejudice and racism are not the same thing. It would have been useful for the speaker had defined terms at the beginning.

@DrDoom-wo8hb

7 жыл бұрын

Thank you! I was thinking the same thing. I have a prejudice against the Packers, hot weather, Yugo cars (if they still exist). If a cop has a prejudice against me, I can end up dead. This video is too glib for me.

@Cikeb

5 жыл бұрын

Isn't it more like racism is a form of prejudice? You base your notion of a person on superficial things (consciously or unconsciously), which is prejudiced. When it comes to racism these things tend to be skin color, language or other attributes that do not necessarily tell you anything about personality. While racism might be built into a society, it's still based on prejudice which has led to bigotry, and then systematic bigotry, which is often defined as racism. Right?

@anthonyfox477

5 жыл бұрын

​@@Cikeb Indeed. In short, racism = prejudice + power

@twinqletwinqle Bingo. And at times, calling someone racist is considered more egregious than the fact of that person's racism. They act like you said something nasty about their mother when you point out that they are behaving in a racist fashion.

I just want to understand the dichotomy of being 'black' vs. 'being biracial'. I notice jay says he's a black man of mixed ancestry. Note, I recognize that there seems to be no overarching rule as to what people describe themselves as. I always thought identifying yourself as 'black' meant two black parents, and being 'mixed' was a term for biracialness.

"The race constructs that we live in in America were shaped specifically by desire to avoid making sense. They were shaped for centuries by a need to rationalize and justify indefensible acts. So when we grapple with race issues we’re grappling with something that was designed for centuries to make us circumvent our best instincts. " The same can be said about Speciesism. As with racism, which is discrimination based on race, speciesism is discrimination based on species; both are biological forms of discrimination. The SPECIES constructs that we live in in THE WORLD were shaped specifically by desire to avoid making sense. They were shaped for centuries by a need to rationalize and justify indefensible acts. So when we grapple with ANIMAL issues we’re grappling with something that was designed for centuries to make us circumvent our best instincts. The species constructs are our cultures, traditions, and religions. They have been shaped for centuries by a need to rationalize and justify indefensible acts such as slaughtering animals for fur or a double bacon cheeseburger. Our cultural, traditional, religious, and overall societal rationalizations and justifications make us circumvent our best instincts. Children do not have a natural instinct to eat animals, they are taught to eat animals, which animals, and when.

@thejuggler42 Well, the solution really is to be self-introspective and not assume that your beliefs are flawless. If someone calls you racist, sexist, or anything else along those lines, one should at least find out why they might have said that, rather than being knee-jerk defensive. It's not really the same as being humble. Being willing to evaluate your own beliefs in the face of criticism isn't the same thing (not being too proud about winning an award, while good, isn't related to this).

^^^^^ Best argument on KZread.

This philsophy needs to be applied to so many things. Things are not black and white. and 50 shades of grey is going hurt my analogy :'( There's a lot more than 50 shades, there aren't any lines whatsoever, its a spectrum.

Side note: did anybody else find the way he talks, with his pauses and emphasis on certain words, reminds you of Obama?

@anthonybabiasz2011

3 жыл бұрын

I thought the same thing about the way he pronounces his words

@commscompany1502

3 жыл бұрын

Same. I though the same

@BloodandthunderVII two well deserved top comments:)

@twinqletwinqle That's why you have racist right-wingers spout off embarrassingly racist things, but become genuinely offended when you call them that dreaded R-word. We've made enough progress to make people ashamed of the "racist" label, but not enough progress to make them actually ashamed for their racist beliefs.

Comedians have been these "dentists" for centuries. MLK tore down the legal wall, but comedians like Richard Pryor have done most of the leg work.

he actually gets to identify based on his experience and background, so he is a light skinned black man. note that i said 'based on his experience and background' and not some disingenuous bullshit, so don't respond saying you identify as a purple elephant or something.

Certainly great points... but it would be nice to have a lot more examples, both in terms of stories about specific times you realized you accidentally said or did something racist and came to terms with it, or examples of ways to tell other people they might have done so without putting them on the defensive. I think you've highlighted an important problem we need to solve, but not really given specifics as to how to solve it, besides "be more humble."

No worries. It's interesting how these things differ from country to country - I'd argue that in some ways Africans brought to the English colonies suffered more than those in the Spanish and Portuguese colonies if only because slavery lasted much longer there - so people in the U.S. tend to be more sensitive (and with good reason). Hey, this is exactly the kind of conversation Jay was talking about ;)

why can I like this but not dislike it??

@thejuggler42 I think what he is saying is way beyond race and we can find it in our daily lives. Think about a time when you or someone you know said something and someone took offense to it. How did you or that person respond? Was it defensive or was there a pause to actually understand how what you said caused hurt. People are so quick to dismiss or marginalize other people's feelings to maintain their own righteousness. It's silly. Because none of us is righteous We're growing every day

Thanks for the discussion about race as a social construct that makes no sense. I just did some research for one of my sociology classes and was introduced to Dr. Spensor Wells, Geneticists Dr. Wells researched our blood ancestry and informs us that we are 99.9% the same DNA (All humans). Humans are not inter-species, an old argument that the old anthropologists wanted us to believe.

@jonbowman7686

5 жыл бұрын

exactly. even though it's a biological fact, there are still some who argue that race is not a social construct. It's almost as funny as flat earthers and global warming deniers.

did anyone notice the "word" at the end ...

@jesuinthesky88 It's because, in their mind, "racist" requires someone to literally hate all black people (or whatever the race is). They believe that they're not racist because there are some black people they like. They also believe that society isn't unfair towards black people due to the fact that some are wealthy (though not understanding logic is the source of many other conservative beliefs as well). This is why it's virtually impossible to change minds on this issue.

Thank you, I had given up hope. I thought all youtube had was horrible racists and bigots, and then I saw your comment thumbed up over a hundred times

Well I'm Irish so I'm not hip to American racial sensitivities, so if I have offended you I am sorry. I studied the Spanish/Portuguese colonisation of the New World extensively in university and spent a fair bit of time in Mexico, Central America, and the Andes, and the term "mulatto" was not considered cause for offence by mixed European/African people there. But then again, referring to entirely black people as "negros" was likewise de rigueur, so perhaps I should have given it more thought.

@toke14 Yes he is!!!!

fuck, you are awesome Jay Smooth. is there a facebook page by any chance I'm already following him on twitter

@FrelanceEQ @FrelanceEQ interesting, but I still feel like my question wasn't answered or really addressed. I've been doing some investigating about the concept of 'blackness' and from what I've gathered the reason why people mixed with any African ancestry refer to themselves as Black is precisely because society, namely 20th and 19th century racist society labeled them that way. Staring me right in the face the answer was, I'm just feeling left out of this inclusive term.

Oh boy, a hygiene argument. That can't be loaded with accusations in any way...

Why is everyone so hung up about what Jay is? Because it's very simple, people: He's a Capricorn. Now shut up and watch the damn video.

How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love Discussing Race: ANIME. Yeah, I watched ANIME

@BenkaiDebussy "self-introspective" isn't really a word, is it? I think I should have just said "introspective" instead.

Owl Perdue Anyone?

Good speech. One mistake though. The concept of race in America wasn't "designed" over centuries. In early America, you had humans who had had very little common ancestry in the last 40,000 years interacting with each other. Because they had been separated genetically for so long, they looked noticeable differnt. As a result, people created the concept of race. However, it's important to note, the concept isn't a human invention, it's a genetic reality. Race concepts, are just human words describing that reality.

@iRockYouRock67

8 жыл бұрын

There is a certain truth in saying that it's human nature to assign understandable explanations that makes sense to us, to explain things that happen in nature. And that also goes along in humans finding aversion to things that do not make sense to them, or they do not find familiar to them. The colours of one's skin though, was never an issue UNTIL people tried to find a reason to justify these indefensible acts. Skin colour is JUST THAT. Historians have proven once, twice, thrice that relations between people, that burned bridges between people, could never be explained by an subconscious, proto-racist conception. Never. It was never a big enough player for you to write this lol

@samuelandrews3829

8 жыл бұрын

+iRockYouRock67 I agree. Race/genetic difference is real but we don't have to make it matter as much as we Americans do. At least I think that's what I think you're saying.

@leagail

6 жыл бұрын

Race is not a genetic reality. The degree of genetic difference between one racial grouping and another is now known to be less even than between individuals of the same race. But it remains a social reality.

@cadeholbrook2454

5 жыл бұрын

@@leagail Ok Einstein explain the Minnesota Trans-racial Adoption Study

"your uneducated".. hilarious

@duhfisy

4 жыл бұрын

maryandchild ironic that you’d use the wrong you’re

God! There's nothing sexier than an intelligent man. Mmmmm...

if you are just going to read something....just hand out a typed report

In other words, white people are more concerned with being called a racist than actually being racist.