I’m just hypnotized by the voice , I can’t stop watching and describe the feeling. I lost my father exactly one year ago and I regret not spending time with him being far away and not being close to him in any way . I will always carry this pain with me . Watching now you talking about your life decisions and your father made me cry and I don’t think I’m watching this video accidentally. Nothing happens by coincidence

@ReligionAndMaterialismDebunked

Жыл бұрын

:3 Shi Heng Yi explained how he feels Asian dads have a different vibe than others. Even if Shi was around his dad, and clearly disagreed with him, he wouldn't even hint that he disagreed, out of respect. He then laughed about it, since his dad has passed, and that was in the past. He had a lot of tension with his parents, but he stayed by his dad in his last year by living in Germany with him. I have heard by plenty of Asians how strict and backwards this idea can be to not question authority and how beatings done in normal parenting have counterproductive effects.

@andrewcairns-st9nr

Жыл бұрын

It doesn't happen by chance it is call Synchronicity. Keep believing and watching out for them!

As a former foster child, I am thankful to have had the opportunity to live a stable and overall happy childhood. It prepared me with the virtues to live thankfully, graciously, and sensitively toward others. I am now in my 50s, and I have always had a strong inner discipline and inner- affinity for the Eastern practice. I am thankful now for hearing your story, Master Yi.

The cat and dog and chips makes me smile .

“Respect and honour your line of ancestors where you have your mind and body from.” The greatest sentence ever constructed in modern day mere bliss.

@miroslavkruzlik9023

Жыл бұрын

My very good friend don't want forgive his father because he beats his mother and let them many time starve meanwhile he was with his mafia friends.

@nightcall7398

Жыл бұрын

This is the essence of Asian culture: Respect your parents and your elders!

Dear Shifu Shi Heng Yi, I couldnt help to comment on this particular talk because I could relate several topics you touched on, especially respecting elders. I have so much to say but would like to share my story and keep it short. I am now living in San Francisco, California. I am Vietnamese Chinese and settled in the US as refugee in the early teen in the 80's. I am the oldest child of 5 and would say I am probably the same generation as your parents. I was my parents right-hand child since I was a kid and was conditioned to respect elders. I have been blessed with many things including family, good family value, good education, meaningful career and Buddhist teaching. Looking back in my life, I lived through some major life changing events including the war, my parents passing before I was able to pay them back, my health, and 2 suicides (my youngest brother and my son). The most devastating moment in my life was my 14 years old boy suicide that happened few years ago. My soul was left broken in pieces that I did not know how to pick them up and carry on. One of the most impactful healing channels was the Buddhist teaching and prayers. From there, I grieved and found myself growth. I also found your teaching through Ted Talk and had followed most of your KZreads and read your newsletters since. I found them healing and soul soothing. It helped me tremendously to understand how human life works. Although I have so much to learn. I can say I am very content today. I will continue this path and I am looking forward to absorb your wisdom and teaching. Side note, I was in Berlin once for a scientific conference and hope I can visit your monastery and attend the retreat one day. Until then I wish you and the Shaolin Temple Europe well. Amitofo.

@Solastar

2 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry for your loss and I cannot even imagine how painful those events have been for you. I hope that in the times when your feeling weighed down by different things that you may not only have those you can reach out to , techniques you can apply and the universal embrace of Divine Love to comfort and stregthen you.

@bebegurl4724

2 жыл бұрын

♥️

@yvonneklaver6147

2 жыл бұрын

❤️

@slavicavukanic2780

2 жыл бұрын

❤️

@austinalbrecht8785

2 жыл бұрын

♥️♥️♥️

I respect this man. He is young but when he speaks he is wise. I hope to meet you one day. Thank you for all your videos I watch all the time.

Always respect the foundation

Thanks for sharing this.. I was also raised this way. ..my father..wisdom.. I thank my father for teaching me common sense....

I tried to get recognition from my dad all my living life time to no avail ,but never stopped loving him ! When he was in his last days of cancer . There was a car show, which he loved to see. I put him in a wheelchair and spent most of the day looking at cars. Afterward, on the way to the hospital, he sent me into a corner store to buy him two chocolate bars. When I gave him the chocolate bars, he gave me one. I told him I couldn't eat chocolate! Suprised, he said he always sent me chocolate for Christmas gift. Why haven't you ever told me that you can't eat chocolate? I said "yes and the family loved getting chocolate. I'm always thankful for the gift. That is when he stood up and gave me a hug saying "he loved me" I waited 52 years to hear those three words. He died the next morning. Rip.

“It can only mean I’d be taking something away from my own existence.” Well articulated. Well understood. Very mature.

One of the things he talks about is someone coming to the temple and asking him, "How do I forgive my parents?" He explained that he did not have an answer because he understood and appreciated the lessons his parents taught him. Even the ones taught with a bamboo stick. I have some wisdom- that admittedly is not my own. It was taught to me by my mother. You don't forgive for their sake. You forgive for yours. In forgiving someone you, let go of the negative emotions that are attached to their transgression. The anger, fear, sadness, and anxiety, will fester inside you. That only hurts you- not them. It accomplishes nothing but prolong the suffering. Forgiveness is a step on the way to healing, learning, and growing. Life is a learning experience. That is it's only true purpose. If you are evolving you are succeeding. Humbly submitted.

Thank you Shifu. May you be healthy Happy and Shifu much gratitude

Thank you Sifu. It is a blessing to have someone like you to look up to.

Thank you for sharing your wisdom

We are blessed Master U are influencing a lost generation...... U are making a big difference... In reforming the people of this sad sad world.. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

@satnamo

2 жыл бұрын

People like to make a difference in das world because he who feeds the hungers refreshes his own soul.

@c.kainoabugado7935

2 жыл бұрын

Truly hopeful now I'm learning from him. I do feel lost and disconnected from my mind and it's not a good thing. Now I'm seeing my body in a different way where I value myself. 😌 so grateful 🙏🏾

You asked “why I follow you”… in this talk you say your life’s work must resonate with your being and ideals over just doing a work for a certain salary. I feel this too. This is alignment with my vision for how I want to be in the world. I am very grateful for Internet and social media making it possible for me to receive this message and be a part of this conversation with you and other humans who feel like this🤗

My soul has strong communication with yours I watch your videos all day but your strength & influences on me I can’t explain, I still not practicing but I listen to your wisdom & u have upper capacities than normal people on earth & u ll b very famous the world need your vibration very very much

Thank you Shifu. Happy Father's Day

謝謝你 - thank you so much. I have lost my shifu and felt like I will be missing the mental and physical training for Kung Fu. I so much missed my beloved teacher, we all did. But now I found you.

This is a tough talk to hear. But now I respect this man as a Shifu and can easily follow him. Yes the intro with the chips was a nice touch.

@jacksnstaffs8293

2 жыл бұрын

I didn't think it was a nice touch. I was quite shocked. That food is really bad for animals.

@RobertBardos

2 жыл бұрын

@@jacksnstaffs8293 cats won’t eat anything they don’t wanna. Best practice , no. Super big deal if cat has a crisp? I dunno. It seemed like playful cat stuff to me.

Dear Shi Heng Yi, Thank you for having the flexibility of thought & deed, to bravely venture beyond stagnation & tradition, in order to share your compassionate teachings in these changing times. Your timing seems impeccable. These changes are welcomed & needed right now 💥🙏

Das essence of Chan Buddhism is to become my true self because what I am I must be since otherwise I will be miserable until I die.

If beauty doesn't save the world, a sense of humor will save it. (Chips paprika 😎)

@satnamo

2 жыл бұрын

Beauty matters because beauty is das greatest seducer of mankind.

@EYONPROJECT

2 жыл бұрын

I love paprika chips

Beautiful way of life. Nothing , but consciousness and simplicity . What a blessing.

@satnamo

2 жыл бұрын

Pleasant speech is das highest blessing.

You are a incredible teacher thank you

To walk the path of enlightenment is to see everything in love😍 to respect to honour🤲🏻to accept without judgement🙏🏻this is the path of ascent and mastery 💫 the path of the soul✨to its origin- unconditional love💛💫✨ I like you so much Shifu🙏🏻and your voice is so peaceful 🤲🏻🕊️and touched my💗 ..😍🙏🏻💮💫✨

Master Shi, you are the sunshine in all our family members life. ☀️🌞🌻🌼

@satnamo

2 жыл бұрын

You great star! What would your happiness be Have you not those For whom you shine ?

Yeah, that was how I was raised too. I rebelled, & life was a harsher teacher than my parents. Respect for elders, parents, teachers is valuable. Well done, Teacher.

Hello Shi Heng Yi your teachings are rich in assisting how to raise children and to respect our parents. I am a believer in God and Jesus Christ. I am open to listening to your teachings of Bodchita. You are sharing and opening the eyes, minds, and spirit of those that want to go deeper in wisdom, knowledge and discipline. Thank you and God make you live a long and full filled life in the Monestary.

Thank you ♥️ i love the talks over tea ❤

🙏🙏🙏 with gratitude for your selfless sharing of your wisdoms! ❤️

Shi Heng Yi 🙏🏼🕯️

Greetings "Shifu"! 😇 I am former Navy, now a retired Chaplain in GOD's Special Forces... I learned the wonderful art of Wah-Lum Kung Fu from a sixth generation Grand master who became my Sifu at a Wah-Lum Temple he built in Orlando Florida and it was like I was magically transformed to China. I haven't been practicing as actively as I would like to because of deteriorating arthritis in my hip joints and lower back, but I still practice Tai-Chi which is alot more lower impact on my joints...so I've been following your teachings and Tea Talks...very refreshing to experience the non-diluted sacred teachings of a true master and yet love the clarifying ways you explain your concepts of wisdom with such humility. Thank you so much...appreciate you and your teachings and getting much health benefits from practicing your breathing and strength exercises and stretches. Thank you and GOD bless you and keep utilizing you mightily. Will be praying for you...in 2022 and the monks and students at your sacred Shaolin Temple.

Dear Shi Heng Yi. If I may say so I think this talk is a perfect, and rare, example of true humility and the power of inner truth! Thank you for sharing. 🥰

I love the path of your view on life. I may not have agreed with aspects of my parents method of raising me but I never thought I had to forgive them. They were products of how they were raised and I’m thankful for what I learned from life with them.

Tea talk is so enlightening and calming. Thank you, Shifu.

Thank you shifu..listening to your voice is like listening to meditation music. Calming, yet full of deep teaching. Xie2🙏🙏🙏

Thenk you for being!

Good luck with your new journey. I will look forward to your return and shall practice, practice, practice with my dog by my side too.

Wow! I thought Shifu never laughed...this is the samsara should be, sipping tea with Shifu and receiving Dharma from Shifu...the land of Amitabha! 🙏 Detachment, equanimity, impermanence, begininglessness, endlessness. 🙏

We love you Sifu 🙏❤

Honor and Respect Shifu 💕🙏

Your voice and energy are calming.. beautiful experience

I thank my granparents for loving my brothers and i.🌞

I am Asian and I strongly agreed with you👍👍👍 we cannot disagree parents nor loose their faces specially in public,, as I was growing up we are not even allowed to talk back for reasoning by the time they're giving us lectures or when they're correcting us because it's a sign of disrespect.

Thank you Shi Fu for sharing your wisdom. Everything takes Commitment, discipline and respect🙏

Honour and respect are the fundamental principles of anyone who wishes to learn and grow. As you saw something in your new master, so we saw something in you and people here wanted to ask you to be our master in the same way. The ancestors had and do have wisdom and skills obtained over their lifetimes and similarly their ancestors imparted knowledge to them gained over many lifetimes - this is something that is invaluable to keep the martial art form pure and unadulterated. Any person who criticises the way something is being taught fails to grasp this concept. I am honoured to grow with you and in turn to watch you grow in the path of your master and ultimately my master also. Thank you 🙏 for this opportunity - I had just made some Matcha Tea as the notification came up of your video this evening, which was so perfectly timed. It is beautiful to share this peaceful time together and gain a deeper insight into the Shaolin way, many many blessings 🙏 Shifu Shi Heng Yi.

@sandrogenovese3774

2 жыл бұрын

I am honored to be able to learn Chinese martial arts philosophy from you. I hope to find myself again

@satnamo

2 жыл бұрын

@@sandrogenovese3774 me too

@sandrogenovese3774

2 жыл бұрын

@@heidiojala7978 thank you so much 🙏

@GaladRiel1512

2 жыл бұрын

true.

@Mihai9985

2 жыл бұрын

@@heidiojala7978 wise word

Dear Shifu Shi Heng Yi, I just wanted to let you know that every time I do the Qi Gong video I send you a lot of love and gratitude, hopefully you'll send me some of yours and peace! I live in a country with extreme chaos, your talks and videos are helping me to cope with it all and remain calm the best I can! Whenever I start to feel like it's getting to me I either watch your talks and lectures or practice Qi Gong. Many many thanks for all the good and all the people you are helping. Love from Lebanon, Sue.

@babinianna

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this comment Sue, so moving.. It does really make me understand even more that Qi Gong and all the philosophy and martial arts linked to it, are not just a practice for privileged new-age wealthy Western Europeans with lots of time in their hands... but rather a practice for inner strengh and peace for everyone on this Planet, despite of the circumstances they live in, and actually important in circumstances of fight, struggle and war. Thank you. Stray strong and peaceful.

@souadaccary1031

Жыл бұрын

Dear Anna, thank you for your kind words. Yes, I have found from my personal experience that it helps me to maintain some level of calm and peace in overwhelming situations. I hope it does the same for you as well. Stay strong and may the blessings be 🙏💙

A life full of anger and violence has changed with positive thinking, appreciating the smalls things, being grateful, surrounding myself around good people and watching videos and following people like this man. Thank you.

@susanafernandez2027

2 жыл бұрын

Pero justamente, porque enseña Chi Kung para La Salud, que armoniza holísticamente al ser humano, es increíble que elija como próximo maestro a ese advenedizo, violento y mercenario. Habla en sus videos de bondad, de paz, de no agresión, que considero todo muy sincero. Por eso su decisión es para mí, incomprensible. ¿Sinceramente? Continuaré únicamente con el profesor español Iván Trujillo, en Alquimia Interna. Y comenzaré con un profesor chino próximamente-en forma presencial, que ahora es posible-en mi ciudad. Saludos

This is my new thing... having tea with this man. Please never stop

Shifu, people with a sharp mind like yours are always challenging, that's a natural gift! Condolences for your beloved father, my dear, you carry with you a very honorable legacy. Respects!

U r my shifu & I listen 2 every detail u speak and I change ….I am deeply thankful 4 u ♥️🍒

Thank you! Master 🙏🏻🌱

I am grateful and appreciate the time you took to share these thoughts Shifu. Many thanks and look forward to more inspiring and reflective lessons. hope you are well.

I have so many things in my mind that I would like to say, but accept thank you as being enough said. I have been searching for a long time and now I have found.🙏

Dear Shifu, Thank you for this immeasurably beneficial and kind compassionate talk and teaching. I understand. I will honour your instructions and am infinitely grateful that you have accepted us as your students in this setting, and even more that you are taking such time and effort to lay out the rules and explain these core concepts and principles in a way that we can understand and follow. I will Practice More as you have instructed until you return. And also study the essence of Chan and Zen Buddhism as you have instructed. I feel the gravity of the master-student you have accepted and how seriously you take your responsibilities. I promise to respect and honour this blessing you have bestowed on us also. And I am filled with particular joy at having been accepted into this ancient and beautiful tradition by yourself, albeit in this unconventional online format . I look forward to the next Tea Talk and trainings. This change that you have instigated is what I have been searching for, for such a long time. I am so grateful to you, words are inadequate to express how much the teachings you share and your clear compassion and care for us all, mean to me and benefit me and my loved ones. May your training and retreat run impeccably well and may you know the joy of success as you immerse yourself further into new depths of mastery. With great respect and gratitude, Amituofo 🙏😌❤️💛💐

Bless you Shi Heng Yi 🙏🏻 thank you for your sharing …. So much of your story I relate to …. I lost my father age 13 to cancer and 6 weeks ago my mother passed away…. I had not seen her for 4 years and did not make it in time to go home … I’m devastated beyond words. I don’t know how to move past this. You are a beautiful soul.

I love you subtle sense of humour. Im very great full for you channel and teaching ShiFu

It is impossible to be more precise 🎯🏹❣️🙏✨

Thank you for this teaching. And thank you for these “tea” series and sharing your time and wisdom with me.

@ujjwal4620

2 жыл бұрын

With Us*

Once more.. thank you and all your ancestors 🙏

@BannerofSelene

2 жыл бұрын

❤

Your character, strength, talents and abilities will carry you through what ever destination you choose. Never put a limitation on your personal growth.

I never thought of the experiences with my parents (“good” and “bad”) as receiving education. In this new perspective, I will try to be grateful

Master Shi Heng Yi, thank you for the clarification of the term “Shifu". I would also say that the negative feedback on social media is why I removed myself from Facebook. So much hate and ignorance. Too much willingness to post things that you wouldn’t say to someone’s face. I didn’t need that negativity in my life anymore. This clarification of Shifu is not lost on me. 🙏

Thank you for these very inspiring tea talks, Shi Hengyi Shifu and for all the other videos. They are such a blessing to all of us who are looking for deeper meaning of our existence. Change is the only constant in our lives. When the inner call arises, nothing can stop it. We are all going through some kind of transitions at these times. Your guidance, experience, teachings, suggestions and thoughts you shared through different videos helped me personally go through the biggest change of this life and I can only send you blessings, love and peace in return. You're so ready for your new master. I wish you you to have a wonderful journey to your inner peace and already looking forward for the new sharings that shall come when the time is right. Until then, we shall practice, practice and practice. 😊🙏😊

Thank you for all that you have shared. May your days be long on this earth and may each day be filled with peace.

Thanks for your Talk. Respect and practices.....the change is here

Shi Heng Yi, I only got to know you a few months ago and since then I've been training online with your videos. I am very grateful for having found your youtube channel and being able to access the knowledge that you shared there. For me this talk is a gift where I can see your integrity and freedom. With the zen Buddhist teachings that I started to practice in the last 10 years, I was able to explore other horizons beyond the culture where I was born and raised. Today I feel deeply connected to the values you are referring to. I wish you much light on your path. See you soon.

What a warm moment of you with cat and dog ! Love it !

It is the honourable thing to do

Not only did I make tea (which is less than once a year, although I have over 5 teaboxes in my cupboard), but my attention was taken the entire time. I wish you the best in all you wish to achieve and manifest. I applaud you for taking this frontline approach in bringing more light to these topics via these platforms..Very new age we live in, and I support what you have begun. I appreciate you sharing all you have, about your family especially. Much love and respect 🙏

Very nice speech it’s absolutely my life motto you can only be good in something which you love second don’t do things you don’t like to do because you want to please people I am living already 26 years in Asia ( china, Malaysia, Vietnam) it changed my life. i don’t live to work I work to live. Thanks for Sharing Shi Heng Yi 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

It is May 2024, and as ever, there is change. I did not know this teachings nor its "patron" in 2021, or anything about what SHifu means at all. But I do now. There is and was a lot of clarity in this talk, though there is space for life, the unknown. There is the knowing beyond in all of this, I can clearly hear that beyond the words. - There is a higher force in all of this, and though the spirit may speak through the body and practicing it s balance, there is divinity here, loyalty and respect. Honor and Wisdom. May you be blessed.

🙏☘️🌻𝚃𝚑𝚊𝚗𝚔 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚜𝚘 𝚖𝚞𝚌𝚑 💚

❤ I really enjoy our tea talks.

Learning what that word means i couldn't call him father, maybe teacher. No disrespect but we were born the same year and he is too dreamy. Many blessings, love learning from you.

I love how present and calm you are in everything you do. It seems like a lot of things in this world are a stressor. To see this is a breath of fresh air 🌬🍵🙏🏻

@whiskeysavage2955

Жыл бұрын

The long pause before answering... actually thinking before speaking. So refreshing.

You truly are amazing your teachings are amazing I love listening to you. Thank you.

I’m grateful for all that you’ve contributed to my life. May you be fulfilled. May you be spiritually free❣️🙏

I respect your culture and you as a father in your teaching I don't have friends that are one with our universe and our mother earth so I sit and listen

still I will always have you as shifu in my mind

Great. You are one of my SHIFUs Thank you so much. Merci beaucoup.

I love these types of videos for a lot of reasons, and mostly because it makes me reflect on my own practice and my own life. I have to thank you very much, I feel that I learned several things from you at the perfect time, and I'm waiting for the future and the new path you have chosen :). (I love the subtle jokes in this too) Thanks again and greetings from Argentina 🙏

Yes, the practice videos are important. But, I find these “tea talk” episodes are far more important and required due to the explanation and understanding of the core for the teachings toward one’s self-mastery. Please don’t stop sharing your thoughts and teachings to help us better understand you and the essence, so that maybe these insights can help us became a better human being, especially as a whole. It has certainly forever opened up my mind and it wouldn’t have happened without you. And now I can even use the practices to better enhance and motivate myself. I am thankful for your decision to share and to promote awareness for all mankind. Bless you with much more strength and love! Glad you are relaxed! I feel you and must say that I believe you are heading in the right direction, even with complications on this journey. 😅👍

@satnamo

2 жыл бұрын

The obstacle is das way

Gratitude 🙏 Joy for sharing your wisdom

I Appreciate you. You’re a great man and your spirit has influenced thousands

I understand how horrible being stagnant can be. When life holds routine but no inspiration or purpose, it’s absolutely crippling. So, I understand your search. I’m new to this channel and have no idea what it means that you’ve received a new master and how that impacts what you do now, but I wish you peace and clarity on that journey. I just recently came out of a stagnant funk myself and am so full of joy at having a new motivation, even if it is something small.

It's a therapy to see You and hear You! Thank You according this tea time.

just out of words, thank you !!

I can listen to him for many hours on end. As an added bonus, He's an INTJ. 🙏🏽🔥

THANK YOU. This is wisdom. This was my last year teaching high school in the U.S. I retired and now I teach astrology and tarot. I had a student last year ask me, "are you fun?". I smiled and said no, I am not fun. I followed with but I do care about you and your learning, but I do not entertain :).

Thank you for your open lesson and al the video's of practise. It made me more balance and forget the trouble of life.

You just answered my query... I need to be thankful for my parents Instead of being angry with them....and trying to forgive them Even if they have caused pain.... In someway I've found peace....and acceptance... Thankyou

Im lerning and teaching my 6 years son, thank you very much master ...🙏😇

I think you are very gifted in many ways! Thank you for sharing.

Master Shi Hen Yi. Much gratitude for all that you give unconditionally. This to me is real universal love. So thank you so much from the bottom of my chiheart.🙏🏽☀️💖

"The change is here." Change brings new perspectives, new experiences, new understandings and a new "you", a new "me". Change removes stagnation and allows stimulation, inspiration and aspiration. Shi Heng Yi, you have been remarkably courageous in the way that you have lived your life - on your own terms. As our shifu, our teacher, our father, you have earned our deepest respect and oneness the moment we began to practice with your videos and listen to your talks and interviews. I love these tea talks as you express your inmost feelings, intentions and wisdom. May we, your students, continue to follow you in the way that you speak of, with our loving admiration and appreciation for who you are and who you are becoming. 🙏

Beautiful ! Honorable Shi Heng Yi ^_^

Good 🌄 morning, Shifu! In California, USA, it was Fathers' Day ♥️ Sunday, June 19 (unlike Germany, in May). Have a wonderful day!

Although I struggle on de road traveled by das masters; But above us, Glows 1 moon.