I love what your tryin to do i need this kind of channel to watch and listen to

@ToughLoveOracle

27 күн бұрын

I'm glad you're finding it helpful, thank you for watching, & I appreciate your kind feedback

Great reading ❤ resonated

@ToughLoveOracle

27 күн бұрын

Thank you, I'm happy that it did, thank you for watching!

I keep trying to be be sober I go detox center I finished then go to sober living house and I take off and used again I've been trying since April I feel so lost and confused in the world right now I send my 11 Year old daughter to stay with my cousin in CA for the summer so I can try to get my shit together but summer almost over and I'm not where close to being sober have a home for her to come back to or ever work.... Any advice out there universe soul family anyone 😢😢

@ToughLoveOracle

27 күн бұрын

Hi Tanya, my experience in addictions is limited. What I've found is that it can take many tries in order to find what works in order to quit. Having compassion and patience (hard when you feel you're on a tight schedule) towards yourself during this time is important. Removing any temptations and replacing them with a supportive option can be helpful. Recently, trying to find out why I feel the need or draw towards one of my toxic substances(screen time-not the same thing I know) I stopped and paused long enough to sit with myself and ask : "What void am I trying to fulfill with this item/substance?" "What do I actually need?" ie. nurturing, support, positive, attention, rest, justice, to be seen & heard "What uncomfortable emotion/feeling/reality am I trying to avoid or detach from? When I feel lost in life I focus on the things that I can change and control...me. My health & exercise to help with my energy levels, the people around me, gratitude because you're here another day to change your life for the better for you and your daughter, and nature and stillness to get clarity on new perspectives that can be helpful. Look to others who have been where you are to see what worked for them. Once again, I know our situations are very different, I'm unsure on what you've tried before but I hope this helps in some way. If you don't get it right on the first try, rest, reset, & retry. It may take longer then you first thought but you'll get there as long as you don't give up. Jennifer, TLO

@tanya3669

27 күн бұрын

@@ToughLoveOracle thank you so much I really needed to hear that.... It seems I used to be able to bounce back from everything and everyone that constantly trying to keep me down have a strong hold in my life and keep me in my addition, I know now even if I have to sleep in my car I'm walking away from all these evil toxic people that help me destroy my life and what I build for me and my child I was so blind by this devil man that never had any actual real love for me ever and now trying to have a whole story line going on why they trying to keep my child from me and better off in CA with his cousin but I see what I need to do and first it's to let go and let God take the lead in my life and I welcome his directions, bless thank you so much God bless you and your....🙏👍🫶