Talking About Your Exes On The First Date | {THE AND} Gianfranco & Stanton
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Gianfranco and Stanton, strangers on a blind date, are both wary of finding love again after some bad breakups. Gianfranco opens up about why jealousy inevitably creeps into his healing process, and Stanton gets very frank about the role his family’s approval plays in his romantic forays.
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Talking About Your Exes On The First Date | {THE AND} Gianfranco & Stanton
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Damn these boys have amazing skin and their teeth are so white what water are they drinking?
@duochannel256
6 жыл бұрын
They are also wearing make up lol
@TheKarmacola
5 жыл бұрын
lighting
@AgieboyzChannel
4 жыл бұрын
Cum
@Mycenaea
4 жыл бұрын
Gay juice.
@kevingeorge5871
4 жыл бұрын
@@Mycenaea Do you think straight guys drink the same?
The one on the right looks like a decent guy, but man, at times, the look in his eyes makes him seem so hurt and lonely. I just hope he’s stable and ready for a relationship
@benjaminlaw1819
5 жыл бұрын
v0calbeatzlaughs he looks like an asshole, but I'm probably judging too quick again😅
@ccdiez8326
4 жыл бұрын
I think hes just high
@jisooinyourarea6751
4 жыл бұрын
It’s the eyebrows. Straight eyebrows give people an innocent / worried look
@philanimthobisihadebe5574
4 жыл бұрын
I think it's not a good idea he's entering a new relationship already. He still hasn't dealt with his most recent one. He is extremely hurt
@czy.rus.bon13
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah. I also have that in mind. There are moments I am asking whether he's about to cry or holding back.
The bearded guy is still very vulnerable. He looks and sounds so fragile. I can literally feel him talk his soul out. Damn. He must be really in love.
@xthree7192
4 жыл бұрын
He's eyes are sad.
@rosscoetzee2127
4 жыл бұрын
That opening scene ! I felt it!
Something about this feels new. I like that they get personal beyond the preset questions. I say this everytime but I fucking love TSD. Finding it in 2015 changed my life.
@TheSkinDeep
6 жыл бұрын
Comments like this keep us going, thank you!! 💖
the right guy has such a beautiful soul, it's like there is light within him. such a calm and peaceful conversation. hope they're gonna date each other lol
@hsnyder1772
6 жыл бұрын
Girlllll yesss ughh he’s angelic
@christopherbolanos3751
6 жыл бұрын
Melody Black he has a really caring face
@isaacmwaura8244
6 жыл бұрын
They are both adorable as fuck. I am crying!!!
@melodyblack4979
6 жыл бұрын
Isaac Mwaura same here
@edendlc311
6 жыл бұрын
No. His eyes show a lot of hurt. He is not ready, but the way he talks shows hes grown
The guy in the left is really cute and has the most adorable ears.
@bruc3mdnaX
4 жыл бұрын
You low key called him Dumbo 😅
@ediapaff8858
4 жыл бұрын
I love the ears too X3
@brayan9645
4 жыл бұрын
I know his reaction was super cute with the first question 😂
We need more gay people videos
@loveinfruitfulplaces311
6 жыл бұрын
J88 S Yes, we do.
@marcusdorman8530
4 жыл бұрын
Yas!
@R88daniel
4 жыл бұрын
Still not enough
@alejmitra7483
4 жыл бұрын
pleasseeee
@romeshselvanayagam5698
Жыл бұрын
Amen to that ! Yasss slayyyy .
guy on the right has the most beautiful and expressive eyes :')
They seem to have really good conversation... not sure if there is a “spark” but if not romantically they could be great friends!
@Jana_7
6 жыл бұрын
That was my same thought. I don't think it could be a romantic connection. At some point it became more of a friends thing. They seem to have different view according to some important views like family. They would make really great friends with each other because each one can provide the other with knowledge the other doesn't have or didn't think about.
The guy in the right has this great aura around him, he seems like he has great energy
These two are so sweet. I love how they listen to each other, and they're so good at expressing themselves. That was a great blind date ! I hope they keep in touch, become friends or lovers. I think they would be good supporters for each other, in whatever relationship they end up.
asian guy is so charming
These two are so sweet. I love how they listen to each other, and they're so good at expressing themselves. That was a great blind date.
The one guy needs more time before he goes back into the dating world. He's not over his ex and you can clearly see that.
Sending love to everyone that makes TSD possible. I'll gladly keep donating and supporting. - Love from Trinidad.
@TheSkinDeep
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@tboyyy7141
4 жыл бұрын
Shanice Joseph Trinidad here also.
They articulate themselves so well! I love it!
Love this date. They're both so kind, easy going and thoughtful. I felt particularly connected to Stanton: questions about father relationships, trying not to be concerned bout "winning the break up", and wanting to push himself out his comfort zone to in order to work on himself and in search of good connections. Thanks for putting this out.
@TheSkinDeep
6 жыл бұрын
and thank you for watching and being a part of the conversation!
Oh and they are so handsome ! Both of them.
They are both very honest and I love that. I think they would make a beautiful couple & I hope they went on a date after this - their dynamic seems to work very well together. At the least I think as friends they could learn a lot from each others experiences
they both have SUCH AMAZING skin!!! I absolutely love this channel and the content! I'll ever get sick of these videos :)
@TheSkinDeep
6 жыл бұрын
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@romeshselvanayagam5698
Жыл бұрын
@@TheSkinDeep Soul stirring and enlightening vids ! One of the many spectacular episodes TSD as produced and i eagerly await to watch more contents such as these kinda vids . Majority of us feel joyous to witness happy ending with smiles of inexpressible ecstasy and blossoming love .🙂✌️🏳️🌈 #pride2023 #celebrateloveandlife #equality #Beyourself #Boyfriends #couples #unapologeticallygay #loveandromance #Newbeginnings .
I could watch these videos forever. I love seeing the different connections people make with each other, so beautiful. 💕
@TheSkinDeep
6 жыл бұрын
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This video was so special, the guy on the right was honestly mesmerizing, I definitely developed a crush on him. This conversation was so much deeper and so intense. I felt like they both are in such a hard process of working on themselves that it teared their souls in pieces. I felt like they are so broken.
@kendclife7913
6 жыл бұрын
Yeah, they are not yet ready for a relationship; they are like older teens who need to date more and discover who they are and what they want in life.
Stanton is so cute, I love his ears
Very powerful when he said the relationship felt like it ended months before it did, and that he was maintaining ownership rather than relationship.
Two beautiful souls
I don't like to talk about my last relationship on first dates. Ok, so tell me about your last relationship!
@amberx2274
6 жыл бұрын
so tell me about your last relationship me : it ended
They r so calm .
HOW THE HELL DID I NOT COME ACROSS THIS CHANNEL LONG AGO?! this is just so pure and refreshing to see in youtube ❤ it really opened my mind up about certain things and i love it. Hope to see more of these in the future 😊❤
Scrolling deep to check what are the social media handles of Stanton.
Guy on the right has beautiful eyes 👀
I loved their essences
Finally more LGBT couples its nice to see.
I love that they talked about the hard things in an open, forthcoming, and respectful manner: Stanton's potential struggle with his family accepting him being in an inter-racial relationship and Gianfranco owning up to his unhealthy feelings in regards to his ex when he was dating him.
I was shocked to scroll to the comments and see everyone compliment Gianfranco's looks when I specifically scrolled to see people talk about how hot Stanton is. I mean, I'm surprised but not surprised. Personally, Stanton's eyes, smile and mannerisms were more magnetic to me. Again, super interesting seeing people who look like Gianfranco point out features, such as his eyes, that I would have never paid any attention to.
@blackkguyga
4 жыл бұрын
@Carl John 😂😂😂😂😂😂
you two would be so cute together! and such good open communication already wow, truly mature, both of you
The left guy IS SO CUTE I CANNOTTTTTTTT, MAH HEART. Especially his wince @5:46 But love these videos that draw out the human in us.
I love Hans, he's so gorgeous.
This seems like it was so great for the both of them. I hope they find a friendship in one another after this experience.
Love these two! The one on the right looks so sad but the way he talks gives me healing vibes! Hope he's doing good. And 4 months post break up is really too soon to date!
That was so refreshing :)
These two seem like they've known each other for years. This is perfection
I love, LOVE that you ask such serious questions!! It takes the conversation to a whole other level!
These two guys should definitely go out on a few dates, talk and spend the day together. I think they both have there guards up especially the guy on the left. Guy on right seems like he's really been hurt and is still dealing with his breakup.They're both very attractive as well. They could learn and experience a lot from spending time together ☺.
They seem very comfortable with one another. Love it, i would like to see more from them 💓
They are cute asffff.
They’re so soft spoken
These guy are super real. Love their answers.
Wow...really deep for a first date. Love this channel. Love the depth and intensity. Did anyone else cringe when the guy on the right said he was possessive...I was like “this was going well why did you go there...” 🙀
Really like them both. I feel gianfranco is still pretty off the market since his break up, though.
the right guy is gorgeous, love his smile.
Rewatching because I now have a crush on Gianfranco...
I hate the sex question they have to ask each other. It's so dumb and not interesting or revealing to hear to answers to it. I'd suggest it be removed in the future.
@angelacanedit
6 жыл бұрын
yeah, they always feel the need to say nice things lol
@hatchibyebye
6 жыл бұрын
or at least save it for later in the interview
@TinkDoesMakeup
6 жыл бұрын
I think it knocks down some walls and creates vulnerability
@johnroinavarro5686
4 жыл бұрын
i agree..
@ajdoodoohead9700
4 жыл бұрын
Oh no you had to hear gay men talk about sex 😱
This was really nice and wholesome
I feel like watching the guy on the right is like watching a beautiful baby deer. He has such a beautiful and warm aura. I would hug him without any hesitation.
I love them both! 💕 We need more videos with them.
@fjordsi7404
6 жыл бұрын
The Marker You know what they say about homophobes...
I can see love and pain simultaneously in Stanton's eyes!
So so lovely!!!
That is Daddy on the left Period.
Really wanna be friends with Santon! we have so much in common
Hope it works out for the two of them. The gentleman at the end is absolutely adorable.
They both are cute af.
The chemistryyyy
Both are incredibly adorable.
This was super interesting to watch and not to be shady but ny reaction was the same as the guy in the right when he heard the other guy got back together with his ex after he cheated. They are both very pretty but the guy on the right has GORGEOUS eyes
They'd make good friends
I’m in love with these videos thank you for representation 💜💜
I really enjoyed this. love and greetings from #Germany
THEY'RE BOTH SO CUTE AND FINE
Love, from The Bahamas
Mesmerizing to watch such a beautiful conversation!
they look animated. I'm in love
They really have no romantic chemistry
OMG where is part 2, part 3, part 4....they seem like a great match. T_T I'm emotional...sorry. I need to go get tissues and coffee.
anyone know Stanton’s ig?👀
Lol I had a development training with Stenton so funny to just see him on le KZread.
I swear I've seen them both on dating apps in nyc haha
Wow they're so beautiful
Enfin des sous-titres en français 💪💪
Please READ “The Velvet Rage: Growing Up Gay in a Straight Man’s World” by Alan Downs, Ph.D. This may help with the feelings of “shame” you have about “disappointing” your father. Including: competition above gay men, obsessive, anxiety about love.
@dandotcom1989
4 жыл бұрын
T. N. L. Yes yes yes that book was life changing for me!
wow both of these guys are so cute
stanton is so cute i genuinely have a crush haha
They are soooooo adorable
They are both adorable.
I love their names
These men are so attractive that I'm nervous laughing, and I'm not even in the same room as them.
YOU GUYS ARE CUTEEEEEE
I have a huge crush on the guy on the left
The guy in the right look so similar like Kem in love island!! Anyone??
so intense for a first date
"NEW" JAJAJSAJAJSJAJ I CANT
Great to fellow People of Color LGBTQ+ individuals. Both young men I hope enjoyed the blind date. But honestly the man on the right needs to continue self-love and self-reflection before getting into another intimate relationship. The pain I see in his eyes from the baggage of his previous relationship is heavy. So I suggest that I hope both men agreed to have a platonic friendship, especially the man on the right needs a platonic friend. Thank you for posting. :)
What are their Instagrams?
those two men are sooo handsome!
Stanton ♥️
They are perfect
please bring sidra & ben back!
*The guy on the right has such beautiful facial expressions, he could be an actor*
I just think they are not compatible. There is no spark. They are fine just being friends but not lovers.
I can't figure out which one is gianfranco and which one is stanton... help
my partner becomes my lover and bestfriend so even parents will have supporting roles.