I'm fine with coming up with questions, it's just difficult when I'm supposed to say something interesting without turning it back on them.

@JohnDoe-qq8et

2 жыл бұрын

I heard to be interesting, talk about something they are interested in or talk about something they don't know about with enthusiasm and excitement.

@kriskquinn.68

2 ай бұрын

If its a woman, you really don't need to focus on being that witty, but more being attentive and making them feel heard. You might find it easier to keep asking them questions about a topic you sense that they enjoy doing or talking about.

THANK YOU FOR THIS! I'M AN INTROVERT AND THIS IS PURE GOLD FOR ME!!

@JoseFerreira-de7oe

2 жыл бұрын

BRO WTF I WAS COMPLETELY BLOWN AWAY BY THE SIMPLICITY OF IT

@mubtasim278

Жыл бұрын

I think you are not introvert you are shy

@781rcac

Жыл бұрын

How you doing now?

@zyrok5779

Жыл бұрын

@@mubtasim278 same thing

@macioz1760

9 ай бұрын

​@@781rcacwow man we are LATE

Good points here. One thing that also makes conversation difficult is "interest" by the people in the conversation. If one person is less interested in having the conversation, it's not going to go well. If your taking to someone that isn't really "into" taking to you, you are going to get a lot of one word answers and no questions back. If it turns into a straight up bad job interview kind of conversation, then the other person losses interest also. Maybe a video on how to spark "interest" amongst the 2 people would be helpful.

The best thing I like in this video is you're giving real-world examples

@deleted7164

2 жыл бұрын

Yea you dont get those too much anymore.

That makes so much sense, I often find it talking one on one, yet when I'm with friends, we stop and look at where a conversation started and where it ended up and you can see the spread from the jump off points.

1- Get the three main topics and do all over again. 2- Get curious

love this series helps my anxiety over public events thanks clark

Thank you, this helps a lot for an introvert like myself who is frustrated when conversations seem to just stop.

My philosophy is the opposite: don't talk unless you have something to say. I am fine with silence. Also, a very important skill to learn is listening skill. In order to be a good listener, last thing you want to do, is think of what you are going to say next while the other person is taking. Instead, try and understand what someone is trying to communicate and why. If someone tells you that Seattle is too crowded because of tech workers, why are they saying that? Maybe, for example, they are under a lot of stress, they ran into heavy traffic on their commute, and they blame it on overcrowding. Or maybe they can't afford the rent. As a listener, you are trying to get to this underlying reason of why someone is telling you something. And people really appreciate good listeners. Everybody wants an audience. Finally, when you listen, you receive information, and when you talk you give away information. Think about that for a second.

@timromley1871

7 жыл бұрын

Asking questions and 'getting curious' are excellent examples of effective listening

@slickcatricky7694

4 жыл бұрын

Tim Romley yeah so basically the tips in the video here are just guidelines and something you can use for practicing. But after that keep it in your back pocket and when you're already talking to someone, just listen and let your gut/emotions do the responding, the talking. Conversations are just vibing. Contributing to the vibe and expressing you're good vibration. And this naturally happens when you let your gut (our 2nd brain) do the talking. Now if you find yourself in a scenario where the other person said something that you cannot relate to that much, you don't have anything to say about it, that's the time you follow this tips. But actually unconsciously when you let your gut do the talking, you're actually doing all these tips here in the video. So the shortcut is really just to listen 👂 and then take any avenue where you would like to direct the conversation to. You're welcome 😊

@jimin3950

2 жыл бұрын

literally thank you

@picklepirate

2 жыл бұрын

This is great information. But, some people also don’t want to keep coming up with things to say. Some people want people to be the wheel to the spokes in a conversation. I have a CEO that guides the table through a variety of topics. Your comment is still very helpful.

@facundodamianborgesparins6592

2 жыл бұрын

I take what's mentioned in the video as a tool for people like me who are introverts and don't quite easily carry on a conversation. A tool for practicing elongating a conversation and then when that is mastered, being able to deliberately balance between listening and talking.

Really interesting way to see a conversation Clark. This is a great tips I really didn't think of that, thanks for sharing!

I like the way you break down the sentence and focus/highlight different parts that you could jump off from. Good examples !

An awesome strategy for helping with my social anxiety! I know I've always been told "just keep talking" but that obviously doesn't help. This is good, specific advice that I'll definitely be using

Omg I love Clark these tipps helped SO much!

This is the most brightest video i have ever came across thx for showing us out of all the vdeos i watched yours made me really get it.

❤ love it.

This was one of the most helpful and underrated videos ive ever seen. I just talked to my co-worker and “practiced” on him, it went really smooth. Thank you! Im curious to see how it goes with people i dont or barely know.

Really, really useful perspective. Thanks.

Great, simple advice. Really helpful!

thanks man! really helpful!!

Hi Clark! Just came across your channel today and I have enjoyed watching several of your videos while I work. Looking forward to seeing more! Thanks for the motivation! --K

I love you bro, thanks man.

It's funny cus we all already know how to socialize we just had something happen that caused us to be quiet and we're trying the escape good luck!!

@kingraiderr

10 ай бұрын

BS it's something you're born with you can't become someone else so accept it and move on 😂

@galacticinfochine4580

10 ай бұрын

@@kingraiderr we should be able to due to brain neuroplasticity it's just difficult crossing the thresholds we need to and maintaining the habits we need to which is why it's best to have guidance and someone helping you

NOW THIS IS WHAT TIPS AREE THANK YOU VERY MUCH

Best video about ‘never running out of things to say’ I’ve seen so far. This is a quick hack to get us more confident until we can do it without thinking. Thanks!!!

What an excellent video. Well done!

Wonderful how you provided examples!!

thank you for this! really simple yet really insightful :-)

Great video, with a tash like that the convo must never run out! Lol Thanks!

Really helpful... Thank you

Awsome tip bro!! Ive never heard that one before I have to be honest. Great job! keep it up!

great video mate! thanks a tonn! :)

Thank you my guy, this really helps !

Really helpful. Thank you

TYSM, you can't even believe how much this video helped me, I have so much more self confidence now and talking to girls really people in general has become a lot easier. I glad you could explain this and break it down so even someone as acoustic as me can understand it.

Great job Clark I rally liked it

The tips is very helpful. I am waiting your next video

great video! thanks

Bro thank you!

thank you so much

All people are different, some will just give a cold off answer, not because they don’t care but because they’re like that. Nothing wrong with silence. Had to drive and just asked a couple of questions. Have some friends that just talk a lot and make my life easier since I can listen for hours

Thank you bro

I spend 99% of the time listening to other people do all of the talking and I want to actually learn how to dominate a conversation and for a change, subject people to my incessant chatter for once. Being an introvert has its disadvantages.

@pereiraplaza222

Жыл бұрын

Me 2. My conversations consist of just asking questions.

Wow! that's what I needed

This is actually really nice advice

Love the tips yes so very helpful. .

again... love you 🙏

Really helpful made me think I have been in a room with twelve strangers and no one was talking it was so awkward. I tried a few conversation but didn't get much response from anyone I wish I hadn't bothered.

That's helpful ! But I don't enjoy endless conversations either, it's tiring for an introvert. Let's talk and then let me enjoy the silence or let's hang out comfortable in silence together. Doesn't have to be a 24h talk

thanks for the tips . really open minded 🎨😱💞

Thank you

That was simple and useful thank you for that ❤

thank you

Nice job brother.

I like kids How do u like kids? kids are kids how? Uhh there childish Why are they childish? THERE KIDS why are they kids?

Thanks

Thanks bro

Great topic, exactly what I needed. I'll put it to use from now on.

@clarkkegley

7 жыл бұрын

Great to see you as always, Marcel! Thanks for your long time support dude!

@CoDGoldenAge

7 жыл бұрын

Don't mention it. I'm the one who should say thank you, I'm just here learning.

@clarkkegley

7 жыл бұрын

Love you buddy! Stoked for 2017.

Great tip! Curious to know how you shoot your videos, just your face is visible! Thanks

Love this!

@KristianLindbjerg

7 жыл бұрын

Did you know your surname means 'beautiful' in danish? ;)

So listen and dissect the main points they say and branch of that.

Thanks 👌👌👍👍🙏🙏

Just what i needed and thanks man ooh and what do you think of your KZread Carrer? 😉

As a guy that's didn't talk friends for 3 years this is going to help xD

Thanks m8

wait wtf this was life changing. i did this technique and i was talking non stop .

what do you do if the convosation turns into an interview

@yannickngarambe2230

7 жыл бұрын

Two options: 1. If you suddenly feel like an interviewee: Give your answer and add a "what about you?" That way you get the control back and get new jump off points from the upcoming answer. 2. If you suddenly feel like an interviewer: Wait for them to finish their answer and then add a statement of your own like you were asked a "what about you?" If they don't pick up your answer, ask another question jumping off your statement Should give you two ways to balance out conversations if they get too one-sided while staying in control.

@davey5867

2 жыл бұрын

If you feel like you're interviewing someone, then use questions only rarely. Use statements more often in response Example : You ask : "what did u do, this summer." They say : "(their favourite thing to do)" You say "Well I can't help it but I just kept playing games at home" maybe you'll find someone who relates (and you can say in a playful tone "Oh, you're the same as me??" And high five them or whatever and then ask them what game they play) (If no one related) Then you can make a cold read about the thing they did in summer like "I bet it was fun" And so on and so forth

This is genius

okay but like i didnt expect this to be that smart lmao

The lesson was easy, but massively valuable. 😍👌🏻💯

I can talk a lot in person but it's hard to talk in a call can you make a video about that

Ok im a really bad listener that proves it thx 4 the tip.

Good tips, it'll sure help me improve my communication. What do you think about young entrepreneur and relationship? Because having a girlfriend takes too much time on your life and entrepreneurship = working on every free time.

i feel like i’m good at talking but it’s just those few moments with people i’ve known for years

I'm like 39% introvert so thanks man

basically just make things up if u want it simple

Me, an autistic introvert, feeling like an alien because i need to research how to talk to people:

I feel like trying to be human👍

is there a book on this topic? i'd like to read more about this

You should change the topic to "how to never run out of things to ask"

oh wow

@Clarkkegley, what happens if you don't mean listening to someone els Conversation

What if they said "k"?

I looked at the title of this video and thought: "There are two types of people in this world. One of those types already now how to talk forever since birth. We don't like those people. The other type are those that stay at home and go out every week or so. We stan those people."

I'm a better listener than a speaker, but those tips seem very usufull. I'm gonna get advantage of that, thanks bro.

Idk what i was expecting but these are for like totally socially challenged people or maybe someone with autism/aspergers. Otherwise they just sound goofy and simple. Qhat it does do for me though is to remember that there are people out there that may struggle really hard to find acceptance and are very critical of themselves, and so if I find myself in a situation where I get a vibe of this sort from a person, I find a way to disarm the person, giving them the possibility to speak without feeling judged. Hopefully we can all do this, as we never know how someone else may feel, or how we may be able to help them grow and/or feel more comfortable as themselves.

Ask how

Any advice for brain injured people with very bad memory problems

Reminder for me 1:40

@parkourandfreerunning4214

10 ай бұрын

I am your second reminder

Did anyone try this?

Asking question after question is not good either. You have to be able to make statement after statement

i fucking love you that helped a lot

YOOO YOU ARE RONALDOOOO TWIN!!

bro was with the stash and eye browse u tried to trim and fail I need to now browsing bro bro bro tell me :)

wow wow wow

❤

I thought this video will be about how i can talk alot not question a lot beacause all i do is questioning

hi man, pretty new subscriber. I would love to have that same video about public speaking. please tag me on it when you do it 😊

Superman

lmao me and my supervisor , we sit together but didnt talk a thing. the conversation ended too quick. i ask a he answer a. and boom 1hr min of silent.

**me with selective mutism** THIS GONNA WORK?