Take it easy - The importance of being lazy

Social pressures to be productive - not to mention a culture that prizes multitasking - make doing nothing hard to do, for fear of being accused of the dreaded sin of laziness. However, experts say there are rewards for not pushing yourself to the edge all the time. Correspondent Susan Spencer looks at how some of the most productive and innovative people in history allowed themselves to take time out, just to be.
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  • @55TeleMark
    @55TeleMark23 күн бұрын

    Lazy is the wrong term. It’s not being lazy, it’s rest. Allow your brain, your body, your soul time to rest.

  • @Avery_4272

    @Avery_4272

    23 күн бұрын

    Agree. And it's taking time to simply appreciate life.

  • @chrisfinch8637

    @chrisfinch8637

    22 күн бұрын

    Lazy is indeed a wrong term, but the question is why do some people still use it, when they’re all worked up and such, on other people, who don’t do anything at all?

  • @___beyondhorizon4664

    @___beyondhorizon4664

    22 күн бұрын

    It's about taking time to rest in between. Some people over commit to too many activities like this lady in the report. At home, we can do laundry and cook at the same time. I like watching documentary on my tablet while cooking. That's multi tasking in a relaxing way

  • @SaneCayne

    @SaneCayne

    22 күн бұрын

    Ha! Exactly the comment I was just gonna make. For productive folks, it's simply called "resting", or "relaxing", "decompressing", etc. For non-productive folks, well, that's just lazy.

  • @cd6104

    @cd6104

    22 күн бұрын

    I agree. It sounds like this woman did not rest. Rest is good. Laziness is not.

  • @arjun220
    @arjun22022 күн бұрын

    Always remember you are not the heir to the company.

  • @joannepackus5736

    @joannepackus5736

    19 күн бұрын

    My Aunt always said if I died tomorrow, killing myself for a company, I would be replaced.

  • @natashaz2431

    @natashaz2431

    16 күн бұрын

    I often say the same thing to my friends who pride themselves on always being available for any job task, any time. It's not your grandma's company, put yourself first.

  • @adamhuffman3354

    @adamhuffman3354

    16 күн бұрын

    I try not to “remember “!

  • @Essays4College

    @Essays4College

    16 күн бұрын

    EXACTLY .,......so many people don't realize that you are just a cog in the wheel. Some people are highly-paid employees but at the end of the day they are still cogs in the wheel.

  • @jgray4234

    @jgray4234

    14 күн бұрын

    Woah, just reading that hit hard and made me just realize how true!!!

  • @bebussound7991
    @bebussound799122 күн бұрын

    Our job should be to take care of ourselves. Not to spend our lives sweating and breaking our backs for corporations.

  • @joycemansfield1108

    @joycemansfield1108

    21 күн бұрын

    Amen!!! The dahli lama says we work so hard to make money then we have to spend the rest of our lives trying to fix our compromised health.

  • @Ravenelvenlady

    @Ravenelvenlady

    17 күн бұрын

    Amen to that!

  • @bebussound7991

    @bebussound7991

    16 күн бұрын

    Adding to this, we should be productive in regards to our OWN lives. Hobbies, research, and experiences are what make us human. To put it bluntly, the demands of American work culture make it nearly IMPOSSIBLE to live a full life.

  • @ivyvanderwall

    @ivyvanderwall

    15 күн бұрын

    Best comment on here 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🙌🏼

  • @simonenin71
    @simonenin7118 күн бұрын

    This has nothing to do with being lazy but getting some rest. We all have to recharge ourselves.

  • @Me97202
    @Me9720223 күн бұрын

    I remember my friends bragging about always being “crazy busy” with work all the time… like it’s a badge of honor.

  • @bloatedsodium7301

    @bloatedsodium7301

    23 күн бұрын

    Basically, they didn’t wanna hang out.

  • @n.d.7931

    @n.d.7931

    23 күн бұрын

    Those kind of ppl make me sick

  • @___beyondhorizon4664

    @___beyondhorizon4664

    22 күн бұрын

    Sometimes it's about survival. I'm about to start a new job, so much new information to learn, rearranging my schedule, so it's crazy busy. But if someone has been working on the same job, it's different, unless there's merger, reorganization within the Company

  • @rickhaydan3433

    @rickhaydan3433

    21 күн бұрын

    Yes, science has shown over and over again that we can't "multitask." The term "multitask" has been bastardized from its origin. The term "multitask" originated at Japanese factories in the 50s and 60s. It referred to training factory workers to cover the processes just before and just after the process they were responsible for performing. With this training, they could prevent or ease backups on the line. It was never intended to justify forcing workers to do three jobs at once.

  • @samryan7954

    @samryan7954

    20 күн бұрын

    They need the money. Simple.

  • @patcavasin5947
    @patcavasin594723 күн бұрын

    Since retirement, I have mastered doing nothing many days....I've been blessed.

  • @Lauren_1987

    @Lauren_1987

    23 күн бұрын

    Wonderful. I think it's important to have time to do whatever you want, whenever you want. Including nothing.

  • @allanhayden8737

    @allanhayden8737

    23 күн бұрын

    DITTO....!!!

  • @gram2977

    @gram2977

    22 күн бұрын

    Me too!

  • @gram2977

    @gram2977

    22 күн бұрын

    @@Lauren_1987 Exactly! I'm loving retirement!

  • @laraoneal7284

    @laraoneal7284

    22 күн бұрын

    Same.

  • @drbettyschueler3235
    @drbettyschueler323522 күн бұрын

    As someone who burnt their candle at every end, for 75 years, I now spend my time lounging around as much as I can. I wish I had had the sense to do that years ago.

  • @simonenin71

    @simonenin71

    18 күн бұрын

    Good for you 😍

  • @Happiness379

    @Happiness379

    16 күн бұрын

    So happy you are enjoying your retirement and realized it now!

  • @nellztheking2832
    @nellztheking283219 күн бұрын

    Jim Carry said it best. Being depressed is your body telling you that you need deep rest.

  • @CapnCody1622
    @CapnCody162223 күн бұрын

    Most of us, probably the vast majority, of people in this country can’t afford to be lazy. It’s sad.

  • @tiffr5016

    @tiffr5016

    21 күн бұрын

    stop being entitled to think you know a random person when you dont! just because you are lazy does not mean everyone else is like you, just stop, you are truly offensive. there are people who are active and energetic, just because you love being lazy does not mean everyone else loves it like you. there are people who love being active and dont have a problem with it, you just think people do but dont know what's best for others, stop being entitled to think you know a random person thats not in your life.

  • @mimim8532

    @mimim8532

    21 күн бұрын

    @@tiffr5016- are u ok?

  • @jalenwesley755

    @jalenwesley755

    20 күн бұрын

    @@tiffr5016I hope you’re ok

  • @KD1ME

    @KD1ME

    16 күн бұрын

    Right! With this economy, I NEED to work my minimum 40 hours a week (and not an hour short) to be able to afford paying bills! I would love time for myself, but LITERALLY can't afford to! I'm sure I'm not the only one!

  • @UGC4life

    @UGC4life

    16 күн бұрын

    @@tiffr5016what a nutcase

  • @CUMBICA1970
    @CUMBICA197023 күн бұрын

    Surely I'm not the only one thinking if only I could afford to do nothing...

  • @marytheresejacksonlutz2533

    @marytheresejacksonlutz2533

    23 күн бұрын

    I am retired but if I had had this attitude when I was working, going to school, then raising kids and working, nothing would have gotten accomplished. It would have been a bad example to set for my kids. And all 4 grew up to be hard working, responsible adults. Also, everything in moderation-work, play, etc.

  • @CapnCody1622

    @CapnCody1622

    23 күн бұрын

    @@marytheresejacksonlutz2533Found the boomer who missed the point and still doesn’t get it 👆🏻

  • @___beyondhorizon4664

    @___beyondhorizon4664

    22 күн бұрын

    Take a solid 1 hour lunch break away from work place

  • @flash-gz1hu

    @flash-gz1hu

    22 күн бұрын

    when you work a 8 hour day, and you have few hours to do everything you need to take care of your family, yourself, finances, housework, .... i guess i can be lazy in my sleep

  • @Okgeneric

    @Okgeneric

    22 күн бұрын

    @@CapnCody1622 lmao check back in 10 years

  • @user-wp5qo6qg7q
    @user-wp5qo6qg7q23 күн бұрын

    Today i went for a walk

  • @lucaspierre9305

    @lucaspierre9305

    17 күн бұрын

    Yes! allot time for walks.

  • @deeprose8598
    @deeprose859823 күн бұрын

    It took me 60 years to learn to chill!

  • @charlesdavis1080
    @charlesdavis108023 күн бұрын

    We are human beings, not human doings.

  • @jackiepowell7513

    @jackiepowell7513

    16 күн бұрын

    FSH frantic search for happiness- Bob Thieme ministries Houston tx. He coined that, very apt.

  • @monicarose2135
    @monicarose213518 күн бұрын

    Lazy is the wrong word. It’s rest and relaxation. What you do with that time is entirely your prerogative. It’s unstructured time.

  • @dsimon123
    @dsimon12323 күн бұрын

    Love this story. I retired last year and don’t feel guilty about just spacing out and relaxing when I want. Simple life.

  • @Novastar.SaberCombat

    @Novastar.SaberCombat

    23 күн бұрын

    Easy to say when you have the opportunity. But that's how it is for the fortunate 1%.

  • @lucaspierre9305

    @lucaspierre9305

    17 күн бұрын

    I do the same 😊 cheers!

  • @jakejake7289

    @jakejake7289

    16 күн бұрын

    Same here.

  • @sassyempress7916
    @sassyempress791621 күн бұрын

    Hard work in America equals to less pay and burn out quickly.

  • @PraveenSriram

    @PraveenSriram

    21 күн бұрын

    Unfortunately true especially in retail and fast food industries

  • @marlynarteagasolisrobinson
    @marlynarteagasolisrobinson19 күн бұрын

    Yep. That's exactly what I doing now. I suffered from PTSD after my husband died. I was his caregiver for years, worked, and saturated with stress. Almost killed myself twice by jumping in front of the train and drowning myself. Through therapy, I learned to listen to my body and not the noises of other people. Slow process but very rewarding.

  • @sharontabor7718
    @sharontabor771823 күн бұрын

    The worst name one could be called in our home was the word "Lazy". My parents were depression-era kids who grew up with "You don't work you don't eat". I learned to do "nothing" when I owned my own business (a B&B) and took time to sit on the porch swing and watch the birds and trees blossom. My parent would say "You are being Lazy" if I wasn't doing my task the hard/long way. My response was "I'm being efficient" - getting the same results using shorter/quicker methods.

  • @FGH9G

    @FGH9G

    23 күн бұрын

    As much as I think this saying is cringe and so cliched, it is indeed true. "Work smarter, not harder."

  • @dianegreyson8787

    @dianegreyson8787

    22 күн бұрын

    💯 agree. Also called organized, which is something many people are too lazy to do, so they remain crazy busy spinning their wheels.

  • @pgibbons72
    @pgibbons7220 күн бұрын

    im single, no kids, house paid off, work 3 days a week, quite a few hobbies, i STILL have tons of free time to be "lazy"

  • @cortneyrens

    @cortneyrens

    16 күн бұрын

    Same here, I work 0.8 so technically part time and since I’ve been single Saturday’s are my day to clean then relax/do art/work out and decompress its wonderful cause my batteries are charged for my non lazy week ahead

  • @Rom_Com99

    @Rom_Com99

    16 күн бұрын

    What type of work you do??

  • @susanjones6410

    @susanjones6410

    16 күн бұрын

    Can you say what you did to get there? Thank you.

  • @pgibbons72

    @pgibbons72

    16 күн бұрын

    @@susanjones6410 I'm a bartender and run a handyman business. I paid cash for a 900 sq ft fixer upper 6 years ago which has allowed me to save very fast only paying property taxes as rent.

  • @PrairieNightMoon

    @PrairieNightMoon

    15 күн бұрын

    @@susanjones6410 Since my situation is similar (I work two days a week, medical field) I will tell you "how I got here" while you wait for the original poster to reply. First off, I grew up very simple so I don't even want things that most people want. My kids are grown and gone and I'm widowed. I have a mobile home that was paid off in six years so no housing expense now except property taxes which is pretty low on mobile homes. Having lived here so long, I know my home inside and out and can do most repairs myself. I paid cash for my used vehicle which I've had for ten years. My bills are electricity, water, groceries, vehicle liability insurance, and a landline phone bundled with internet. That's it. I love simple country foods like beans, cornbread, potatoes, oatmeal, grits, eggs, milk and produce from my garden. I cut my own hair and don't spend money on manicures, pedicures, tv cable, movie channels or eating out. You Tube provides more than I can keep up with to watch, including concerts, movies, and news. Since I enjoy my backyard (mow it myself) and hardly ever go anywhere, I need very few clothes which I get at thrift stores and I spend about $8 a month on gasoline. My entertainment is birdwatching in my backyard, gardening, nature walks, camping, playing my piano, exercising, talking on the phone, reading, and You Tube. I save money so that when I need car repairs or an unexpected expense, I have the money. Also have occasionally taken trips to Alaska, NYC, and the Caribbean. The key is to pay off everything and know how to actually enjoy living on "nothing". I have so much time! I love my life. It's so uncomplicated and free!!

  • @RKOuttathebox
    @RKOuttathebox23 күн бұрын

    I often get my best solutions to a problem while sleeping. I love when I wake up with an idea.

  • @___beyondhorizon4664

    @___beyondhorizon4664

    22 күн бұрын

    I tend to have a clear mind when I swim for an hour 😊

  • @saudigold50

    @saudigold50

    20 күн бұрын

    Both of you got it right ✌🏼💛

  • @innerlocus
    @innerlocus23 күн бұрын

    Doing nothing takes up all my time.

  • @o._c.

    @o._c.

    17 күн бұрын

    😂 Beautiful

  • @1927su
    @1927su23 күн бұрын

    I remember a time when on Sunday, ALL stores except maybe one gas station , and the hospital, were the ONLY THING OPEN. It forced everyone into a day of rest/ family time . The term “ Sunday drive” came from that time period.

  • @BibleMythBusters

    @BibleMythBusters

    22 күн бұрын

    Sunday was the wrong day. The true Sabbath is on the 7th day of the week, Saturday. It's not too late to start doing the right thing!

  • @lucillejerome5511

    @lucillejerome5511

    21 күн бұрын

    I remember, and then the consumer culture was born. OOPS!

  • @LAVirgo67

    @LAVirgo67

    20 күн бұрын

    Germany is still closing down on Sundays. Everything is closed. There are no noise ordinances in place. All you can do is rest & take it easy. It's actually very refreshing.

  • @lucaspierre9305

    @lucaspierre9305

    17 күн бұрын

    @@LAVirgo67 majority of countries in Europe does.

  • @nicasia3867

    @nicasia3867

    17 күн бұрын

  • @KathySolorzano-qe4di
    @KathySolorzano-qe4di23 күн бұрын

    ..I never apologize for " Doing Nothing "..since Retiring..I worked MY WHOLE LIFE!...I've Earned My Peace...

  • @Trudloops

    @Trudloops

    22 күн бұрын

    I knew someone who believed this and lived happily for 25 years after he retired.

  • @lucillejerome5511

    @lucillejerome5511

    21 күн бұрын

    They aren't really talking about retired people with presume time to begin enjoying life. I think it's more of the wait until I retire to enjoy life, but we don't know tomorrow. Might never have the chance to retire or die soon after retirement. I just don't like the word lazy to describe what they're talking about.

  • @tarawhite4419
    @tarawhite441922 күн бұрын

    Being lazy is the opposite of people pleasing

  • @mililaniman
    @mililaniman23 күн бұрын

    The value of doing nothing gives a person a new perspective and a greater appreciation of life.

  • @flunkymunky1637
    @flunkymunky163723 күн бұрын

    I'm not lazy, I just really enjoy doin nuthin

  • @LearnFrommistakes-su2ir
    @LearnFrommistakes-su2ir23 күн бұрын

    Being lazy doesn't mean doing nothing physically but mentally. Allowing your mind to relax / to rest here and there more often definitely has a big help with your over all well-being ❤️🙏🏻🌸

  • @askew9976
    @askew997622 күн бұрын

    The worst part of doing nothing, is that you never know when you’re finished. 😁😑

  • @belessbutbetter
    @belessbutbetter23 күн бұрын

    True wealth is discretionary time, isn't it? 🙂

  • @saudigold50

    @saudigold50

    20 күн бұрын

    *Yes*

  • @steffibaker6121
    @steffibaker612122 күн бұрын

    "They say I"m lazy but it takes all my time, life's been good to me so far" Joe Walsh

  • @theck672
    @theck67221 күн бұрын

    It used to be called: Daydreaming

  • @HagiaFantasia
    @HagiaFantasia23 күн бұрын

    I'm so glad you guys are talking about this! I've had workaholic friends who shame me for sleeping in or relaxing on my couch. It's good for our health to chill😊

  • @nancy4980

    @nancy4980

    23 күн бұрын

    🙂❤

  • @slotrane8853

    @slotrane8853

    18 күн бұрын

    Your friends have it wrong. You are enjoying your life and time. Keep relaxing

  • @UGC4life

    @UGC4life

    16 күн бұрын

    They are jealous

  • @minkxz8037
    @minkxz803720 күн бұрын

    The full body zoom in when she said I’m a very healthy person was crazy !!😂

  • @paja7647

    @paja7647

    20 күн бұрын

    For her sake, hopefully she will soon realize she needs to work on that.

  • @sunnyday7843

    @sunnyday7843

    15 күн бұрын

    @@paja7647it’s our food - I had to finally give up all processed food - as it caused problems for me - losing weight effortlessly . Already didn’t eat gluten and dairy - soy - most grains - no way could I live on Amtrak food for 2 weeks as they don’t have allergy free menu - but her idea is a good start . Lions are carnivore - perhaps she’s getting to that in a roundabout way ? I can’t do carnivore but aim for keto low carb .

  • @ExpeditionNomadicAdventures
    @ExpeditionNomadicAdventures23 күн бұрын

    During the second chapter of my life I’ve begun to appreciate being lazy. It a process I’m still aspiring to perfect as a retiree.

  • @trishfillet4991
    @trishfillet499123 күн бұрын

    I’m too busy being crushed by the cost of living to be lazy but if you can do it good for you.

  • @TheCriticalChris

    @TheCriticalChris

    16 күн бұрын

    Yeah, it’s most definitely a thing of privilege.

  • @violetaturner4998
    @violetaturner499821 күн бұрын

    Well said! I’m a nurse and I require to multitask but there are times when my brain is overwhelmed. Now I understand very well why!

  • @subz424
    @subz42423 күн бұрын

    Balance is the key here, and in all areas of life. Work/relaxation, love for others/self, etc.

  • @laraoneal7284
    @laraoneal728422 күн бұрын

    Been quiet quitting my entire life and proud of it.

  • @1ACL

    @1ACL

    22 күн бұрын

    Me too.

  • @user-zl4rr1ic7w

    @user-zl4rr1ic7w

    15 күн бұрын

    God knows best. He commanded us to take one day off out of seven. It is known as the Sabbath or Shabbat. God also sets up feast days throughout the year to not work. God knows best. He loves you.

  • @circa1890
    @circa189023 күн бұрын

    For the last 10 years, I've scheduled a lazy time and/or day. It's great for mental health and focasing later..

  • @BitsyBee

    @BitsyBee

    16 күн бұрын

    So true. Sometimes when I can't get something to work, it's amazing how coming back to it after a break, it suddenly works fine.

  • @resonantstorm771
    @resonantstorm77123 күн бұрын

    Nobody's on their death bed wishing they had spent more time working. But many people regret not spending more time actually enjoying themselves and their loved ones. Hell, even God took a day off.

  • @isimonsez

    @isimonsez

    21 күн бұрын

    god… 😂 no such thing as

  • @bryanhuseboe539

    @bryanhuseboe539

    16 күн бұрын

    hell...who? What?

  • @Ashley-xu1lk
    @Ashley-xu1lk23 күн бұрын

    I think we need to stop using the word "lazy" and replace it to what some of us actually mean when we say "we're feeling lazy", and that's "burned out", "exhausted", and "tired". Lazy is when you refuse to do any work, the opposite of ambition, like you still have energy but you use that energy to goof off when you should be doing work.When you're burned out or just plain tired, you have no more energy to give. That's a sign of overwork and that you need to rest, however rest looks like to someone, e.g. sleeping, spa day, playing video games, watching sports, hanging out with friends and family, etc. The example with the lions, I wouldn't call them lazy. They are just efficient when it comes to energy management. Back when we were hunter gatherers, we only used a few hours of our day to do what we needed for survival, such as getting food, and had the rest of our day to do what we wanted. Then somewhere around 10-12 kya we settled down and got into an exhaustive subsistence system called agriculture. It takes so much work to grow crops, and if it's a bad harvest you starve. On top of agriculture, as our society grew more complex, we developed systems that kept us busy with the mindset that if you're not working then you're doing something wrong. Our society as a whole (at least in the US), needs to learn that resting is okay and necessary. And our govt can help with that by mandating that employers give their employees at least 3 weeks of PTO for the year. One week of PTO and 3 sick days for a whole year is so ridiculous!

  • @Meadow-qe9xd

    @Meadow-qe9xd

    22 күн бұрын

    Well said!! Totally agree!

  • @1ACL

    @1ACL

    22 күн бұрын

    Actually, farming, and storage of food, gave us a lot more free time. That's when art and music developed, for example.

  • @BlueSky-sf4rj

    @BlueSky-sf4rj

    20 күн бұрын

    Energy Management. I like that concept.

  • @Bobalicious
    @Bobalicious21 күн бұрын

    I leave my mobile phone home all the time and never give it a second thought.

  • @BrianLockett
    @BrianLockett23 күн бұрын

    A profound difference between down time and laziness.

  • @marytheresejacksonlutz2533

    @marytheresejacksonlutz2533

    23 күн бұрын

    Yes!!!!

  • @ricksantana1016

    @ricksantana1016

    20 күн бұрын

    Agreed…

  • @MAgaSUXX
    @MAgaSUXX16 күн бұрын

    Waking up every day and not having anything particular to have to do is bliss👀💕

  • @dianeyoung8068
    @dianeyoung806823 күн бұрын

    Exactly why I never went to a high school reunion. My be and do balance varies but leans toward being.

  • @bryanhuseboe539

    @bryanhuseboe539

    16 күн бұрын

    I strive to be a human being instead of a human doing

  • @djdollase
    @djdollase22 күн бұрын

    It’s a pretty acknowledged fact that a lot of creators - great accomplished ones - deliberately go for long walks, doodle, etc because they know the great ideas come slowly and only when invited obliquely.

  • @staciecampbell5078
    @staciecampbell507822 күн бұрын

    I retired early a few years ago. For the first year, I felt like I had to be productive but eventually I was able to slow down. Unfortunately, I slowed down too much and was spending a LOT of time doing nothing but watch KZread videos on things I wanted to try (but not much time actually doing it). I got so tired of sitting around doing nothing I actually went back to work to have something to do. But full time work made the pendulum swing too far so next month I will go part-time. I’m hoping to find the right balance with this move.

  • @sayconcepcion6387
    @sayconcepcion638717 күн бұрын

    I think balance is vital. When I chose not to do anything, and just be lazy; I feel this odd depression setting in.

  • @BitsyBee

    @BitsyBee

    16 күн бұрын

    It's called acedia. You discovered something ancient philosophers know, the dark side of inaction.

  • @janetstonerook4552
    @janetstonerook455215 күн бұрын

    As a single mom, I worked two jobs and put two kids through college. At age 60, I was sick and exhausted, and took early retirement and moved back to the old homeplace I had inherited way out in the country. That was 17 years ago and I still work physically pretty hard to maintain my life here. But I'm working for myself and it is actually often fun and challenging activities. And when I'm not working, I rest and enjoy myself. It all feels like a great adventure! 👍 😊

  • @elizabethpeterson56

    @elizabethpeterson56

    15 күн бұрын

    u might enjoy reading about helen and scott nearing. intheir 70s they slowly built a home with rocks on some land in vt i believe.

  • @annielee2172
    @annielee217217 күн бұрын

    Lazy is probably not a “ proper term” here. You can be active but enjoy what you do.

  • @scarpfish
    @scarpfish20 күн бұрын

    I'm able to work my best when I give my body and mind the time to decompress.

  • @chrisfinch8637
    @chrisfinch863723 күн бұрын

    Basically, I like the idea of doing something, rather than doing nothing. It always helps to pass the time, each day. “It is better to do something than to do nothing while waiting to do everything.” ~ Winston Churchill

  • @chrisfinch8637

    @chrisfinch8637

    22 күн бұрын

    @@lifesabeach5405My grandfather used to always tell me, that “even if you miss the point of something, you can always find a way to get back up on your feet, and try, try again.” That’s another way of having to do something, rather than nothing, to help pass the time, on a daily basis.

  • @TUBESTOOL
    @TUBESTOOL22 күн бұрын

    I like to sit by the pond with my guitar and improv some blues. No thoughts, just feeling the music.

  • @kathypariso6102
    @kathypariso610223 күн бұрын

    In our hurry up fast paced 16 hr work days (yes, there are companies that expect you to answer calls all the way to bedtime), we forget how much slower life used to be…horse and buggy, manual labor for most chores, hours spent on fine dining (and dressing elegantly for the wealthy) and TIME to enjoy simple things: a child’s laughter, a puppy playing, chatting with neighbors. Our digital always-turned-on world has robbed of us of so much joy. When was the last time you wrote a letter or sent a card instead of an email, text or emoji? When was the last time you made a phone call instead of texting? How often do you look at all your Facebook followers and ask yourself “who are these people?” We cheat ourselves of real and meaningful lives everyday.

  • @Pillionaire99
    @Pillionaire9915 күн бұрын

    I never took pride in busyness. I absolutely love treating myself.

  • @yaserchow
    @yaserchow19 күн бұрын

    Resting is not the same as being lazy. Laziness is never okay.

  • @Lauren_1987
    @Lauren_198723 күн бұрын

    One doesn't need to work 10, 12 hours per day. Work smarter. Not harder. It's ok to have "down" time or lazy days.

  • @rosariodeleon541
    @rosariodeleon54123 күн бұрын

    I always take time to tune out and do nothing ❤

  • @RyanD808
    @RyanD80823 күн бұрын

    It’s a good message. But we need to recommend a good balance rather than just being lazy. If only we could do nothing all day. I mean everyone wants to do that but we just can’t

  • @lenmessi27
    @lenmessi2717 күн бұрын

    In europe everything is closed on Sundays,people unplug and spend time together,be productive all week and rest on the seventh day.

  • @Observer100-cn7gv
    @Observer100-cn7gv19 күн бұрын

    That's what loving to work too much gets you. YOU HAVE 1 LIFE. ENJOY IT. STRESS WILL TAKE YOU OUT.

  • @nancyann1358
    @nancyann135816 күн бұрын

    “Besides the noble art of getting things done, there is the noble art of leaving things undone. The wisdom of life consists in the elimination of non-essentials.” ― Lin Yutang, The Importance of Living

  • @MyVlogTherapy
    @MyVlogTherapy23 күн бұрын

    1:50 idleness, leisure time is necessary for our wellbeing. Unfortunately idle time has gotten a bad wrap and high productivity is rewarded or like a badge of honor then you realize it meant little but warring yourself out. 5:27 we all need non intention activity, non intentional thought so we can recalibrate. 6:26 some of the most productive and prolific people of our time worked 4 hrs a day and were lazy the rest. 4:33 most people are really single minded not multi task minded. The best thoughts come to you when your mind is in silence and you let thoughts come out and form.

  • @Bobalicious
    @Bobalicious21 күн бұрын

    Hard work pays off later. Laziness pays off now.

  • @kchiker
    @kchiker20 күн бұрын

    I mastered the art of "just putzing around."

  • @IvanaGirl
    @IvanaGirl16 күн бұрын

    That lady is still aggressive and on edge. It will take her a looong time to finally learn to relax

  • @2Octoplus1
    @2Octoplus118 күн бұрын

    Ecclesiastes 4:6 “Better is a handful of rest than two handfuls of hard work and chasing after the wind.”

  • @WelcometoAshLand
    @WelcometoAshLand18 күн бұрын

    It took traveling out of the country to understand that a huge American value is hard work and staying busy till burn out.

  • @Clintsessentials

    @Clintsessentials

    18 күн бұрын

    💯

  • @maurawhelan3530
    @maurawhelan353019 күн бұрын

    There’s definitely a balance that is necessary. I like to be productive everyday doing a few things…I do have friends that do not know how to relax…and that is sad.

  • @cjdingojames3715
    @cjdingojames371519 күн бұрын

    Excellent segment w/deep human interest. Choosing to do nothing, when you can be doing Anything, is a luxury. After all, we are Human-Beings not Human-Doings

  • @maeleenhurley5858
    @maeleenhurley585816 күн бұрын

    I like the interviewer. People over 50 have a lot to give.

  • @swollencityfitness
    @swollencityfitness18 күн бұрын

    The art of doing nothing. It's called meditation

  • @eddieg6436
    @eddieg643622 күн бұрын

    My angry and mean, long dead grandfather always told me “don’t let the grass grow under you”. He died with a TON of money unspent in the bank, he picked out dented cans out of a barrel at the back of the grocery store (for poor people, for a discount), and he barely traveled, and died miserable. ……my inheritance has made MY LIFE a joy!! 🥂🤔😎👌

  • @justmejenny7986

    @justmejenny7986

    20 күн бұрын

    Did he live through the depression?

  • @eddieg6436

    @eddieg6436

    20 күн бұрын

    @@justmejenny7986 As they say, “only the good die young”, and “the meaner they are, the longer they live”. My HORRIBLE grandfather lived to an old 91……and completely MISERABLE to the end! 🤷🏼‍♂️👎🏻

  • @annabelle1471

    @annabelle1471

    16 күн бұрын

    yes people that age lived thru the depression

  • @sarahgiax
    @sarahgiax23 күн бұрын

    Unfortunately, in the American economy, a large percentage of people have to work themselves to death just to earn a “living,” and don’t simply have the choice of “being lazy.” Rent alone has increased exponentially while income has not. Like Bernie says: “It’s okay to Be Angry About Capitalism.”

  • @ljacobs357

    @ljacobs357

    21 күн бұрын

    It's because they buy expensive high tech cars they don't need.

  • @sarahleeblanc8274

    @sarahleeblanc8274

    18 күн бұрын

    They probably buying things to impress people they don’t even like.

  • @Happiness379

    @Happiness379

    16 күн бұрын

    How about starting a bookkeeping business? I will do this soon and replace my income in several months to quit my Walmart job. Then by next year, i will only be working 20 hours per week and making even more significant income. So I will reach the 4 hour work day per this video.

  • @jackiepowell7513

    @jackiepowell7513

    16 күн бұрын

    ​@@ljacobs357 so?

  • @jackiepowell7513

    @jackiepowell7513

    16 күн бұрын

    Ironically ameruca worked a 30 hr work week. 2 dem senators under fdr opted for 40 gross consunerism. Big big mistake.

  • @xelamercedes
    @xelamercedes21 күн бұрын

    I've been "lazy" my whole life. I'll be 70 my next birthday. In retrospect, I wish I'd left the country in my youth -- though I'm not sure where exactly I would have gone. America is a cult of "busy" and it's been hard to swim against that tide. Hard to maintain a sense of personal worth. Hard to explain myself to friends. Hard to get a job (as the segment mentions, employers want multi-taskers). But my oh my! What a life I've had, what I've learned about myself, what rich chance exchanges with humans and other life forms. Except for maybe giving myself a break by moving when I was in my 20s to a country that at least honors afternoon siestas, I have no regrets.

  • @justmejenny7986

    @justmejenny7986

    20 күн бұрын

    I really like how you write.

  • @xelamercedes

    @xelamercedes

    20 күн бұрын

    @@justmejenny7986 Thank you. My memoir manuscript is with a potential publisher. I hope they feel as you do.

  • @candyadams-frazier1759
    @candyadams-frazier175911 күн бұрын

    I’ve been retired since 2012 when I turned 55 years old. I have been “lazy” since then. There is no shame in my game. I worked hard for 33 years. No more!

  • @CA2SD
    @CA2SD21 күн бұрын

    Unpopular opinion...I never understood why some ppl force the phrase, ' the early bird gets the worm.' I rather use that time to rest, get more sleep. I owe my health to the fact I allow myself to rest;sleep when things get to hectic and I'm overworked during the week.

  • @dude4173

    @dude4173

    19 күн бұрын

    We just go to bed earlier so we can get more done when it’s quiet and everyone else is sleeping. That’s all it means. It doesn’t work for everyone.

  • @cardinal8268
    @cardinal826823 күн бұрын

    Dolce far niente. The sweetness of doing nothing.

  • @connie473
    @connie47323 күн бұрын

    This idea of lazy being bad is so old. There's an old book called 'The Protestant Ethic and the Spirit of Capitalism'

  • @caroldraper5017
    @caroldraper501717 күн бұрын

    I have been retired for fourteen years and people still ask me all the time what I do to keep busy! The answer is not much.

  • @UXtatic
    @UXtatic22 күн бұрын

    There's no socially constructed reward for not working. Our bodies thank us for it and we also process info best during down time.

  • @steveconn
    @steveconn23 күн бұрын

    Not sure in this economy you can afford to be lazy. My old heroes the Stones starting their tour tonight didn't get where they are being lazy. Rock til you drop!! 🎉🎉

  • @dude4173

    @dude4173

    19 күн бұрын

    This is by design. It’s the make the ultra rich even wealthier

  • @ebybeehoney
    @ebybeehoney23 күн бұрын

    I'm very good at doing nothing.

  • @kelsilulu
    @kelsilulu19 күн бұрын

    I have a friend who always has to be doing things and I’m like girl chill. I enjoy lounge and leisure, it’s my favorite hobby. It keeps you looking young and feeling your best when you’re in stressful situations

  • @LeeF945
    @LeeF94523 күн бұрын

    These are the stories sunday morning is best at. Do more

  • @cndns2
    @cndns223 күн бұрын

    Amen to this.

  • @caressamenow
    @caressamenow18 күн бұрын

    She is right, completely right about this. But what is unfortunate, is there is a huge swath of people in this country that cannot afford to take the time off they so desperately need. I wish we could all be like this, but in reality, we can't.

  • @JFDoering
    @JFDoering16 күн бұрын

    I have no idea how to "do nothing and be lazy." I love being busy and working.

  • @dalyna24
    @dalyna2418 күн бұрын

    With Universal Basic Income, we can all do this from time to time!

  • @Clintsessentials

    @Clintsessentials

    18 күн бұрын

    💯

  • @carolbenjamin1210
    @carolbenjamin121023 күн бұрын

    Excellent piece!

  • @jamesd6717
    @jamesd671722 күн бұрын

    Don't ever show this to a middle school student. They will take their current level of laziness and go 10x

  • @Spiritdove64
    @Spiritdove6423 күн бұрын

    I take a nap daily but I have to. Im disabled and body shuts down after 4 hrs up on my feet. Im losing weight and use to not be able to do 2 hrs. 220 now to 209.. Hope to be back to my 175 which is normal for me. I will do it.

  • @justmejenny7986

    @justmejenny7986

    22 күн бұрын

    You can do it! I don't know you but I'm proud of you. Keep going!

  • @gregsteve2634
    @gregsteve263421 күн бұрын

    I’m not lazy, I just don’t care.

  • @2910ria
    @2910ria20 күн бұрын

    Social media and wifi are main culprits stopping us from having a lazy time. We are unable to focus on our work even for an hour, and that makes us appear busy all the time becs we are dividing our time ... a distraction that Albert Einstein, Charles Dickens and others at that time did not have. Good lesson to follow

  • @dolphinbear661
    @dolphinbear6612 күн бұрын

    Surrounded with people who seem to be always running from something with busyness. I think its themselves they are running from, like they cant stand a moment of quiet reflection or their own company. Then they call you lazy if your schedules are not full like theirs. Bless their hearts

  • @kevinhanley3023
    @kevinhanley30232 күн бұрын

    I heard the lady say the cult mentality is that you must work hard to have value. Is “value” important? Value implies productivity. Stop trying to have value. After retirement, it is antithetical.

  • @desired117
    @desired11723 күн бұрын

    I think once people get perspective they will recognize what's important. I don't over work myself anymore because I'm not doing extra for my employer. I will put in extra for my family time and self care. I'm better for it

  • @BrentWigginsWords
    @BrentWigginsWords21 күн бұрын

    It's amazing how balanced your mind becomes when it isn't constantly being pushed and pulled by endless stimuli. Breathe and be present. The slower you are, the longer the moment lasts.

  • @SC.......
    @SC.......19 күн бұрын

    I love being lazy at home ❤ everyone tells me to get a life. I love my life as is. I'm a business owner and I spend my time between work and home. And I'm completely content.

  • @ramship59
    @ramship5916 күн бұрын

    Dont compare us with world wide successsful writers and painters, we have to work all day and they are most gifted people!!