My parents did this when we were small...they were really selfish and ruined our family and childhoods. Do not do this to your family, it is not sustainable.😢

@cindimahtaj6455

Ай бұрын

😟

@romyhernandez7811

Ай бұрын

Totally agree with you

@user-xe9wn2er9w

Ай бұрын

Her husband reminds me of a creeper & he was a Doctor, that's

@user-xe9wn2er9w

Ай бұрын

even worse. Would never want him to examine me!

@carolevandunn6101

Ай бұрын

Her husband is a creepy guy.

I know a family who did this . Then they swaped spouses ..divorced and married each others spouses ..the children as you can imagine from all of this are completely messed up. You want to do this ..don’t have kids.

@petdiariesstephanierogers2.0

Ай бұрын

I know someone who also did this, married for 20 years, three children, built a fortune together, just to end up beating on each other, doing drugs, getting a divorce, now remarried to other partners, it’s absolutely no boundaries and disgusting.

@patriciamulamba7069

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

@kayb2454

Ай бұрын

😮

@deathlarsen7502

Ай бұрын

agreed you will mess your kids up

@lynnebarrett9912

Ай бұрын

Their kids are adults. So...

It’s a very dangerous game. It’s too easy to grow attached to someone while having such an intimate relationship.

@julief2830

Ай бұрын

A very dangerous game indeed

@neverresign7248

Ай бұрын

Agreed, and yet it all depends on two people’s ability to communicate.

@Chantelle24

Ай бұрын

True! My neighbor did this and he fell in love with the other woman. Now they are a new couple and I can’t even look at them. 😢Sad and indeed dangerous in many ways.

@joanofarcxxi

Ай бұрын

@@neverresign7248 Not that alone. You can communicate to kingdom come, but if you can't trust, or if the trust is broken because the other person' crosses the line into feelings for someone else, all the talk is just talk. These scenarios don't end well in many ways. But for some people, very few, it works somehow. It's a lifestyle, there is so much energy and even money that goes into it. They live for it and constantly think about it. In my view, not healthy, but people should be free to do what they want privately with consent. The doctor and his wife are fake as hell. In many of the couples there is also a lot of coercive manipulation and grooming by one of the partners. This is not practiced by psychologically wholesome people. See the work of professor of psychology Sam Vaknin.

@kathleenlynch1961

Ай бұрын

⁠@@joanofarcxxiAgree. That doctor probably got up to mischief behind his nurse wife’s back. What well balanced woman would want to see her husband having s.. with another woman? For me, this is not normal behaviour. As mentioned in the video, the girl will be in charge in relationships and says what goes or doesn’t go. I’m a NO girl, period. These people are deeply deluded.

I wouldn't share my toothbrush much less a whole human! 😂

@Clintsessentials

Ай бұрын

💯

@minoltaaraya

Ай бұрын

My ex used to use my toothbrush when he forgot his bc we traveled a lot, even after years together- I HATED THAT SH*! He would definitely be the type to get into this lifestyle 🥹😭✋🏾

@dancingkay2604

Ай бұрын

Swapping is very unusual, but Being 👵🏻👴🏼older and swapping seems pointless 😖

@acya20

Ай бұрын

You own a human?

@vanessavega2665

Ай бұрын

@acya20 Who said anything about ownership?! I simply wouldn't stick a toothbrush in my mouth that someone just stuck in their own mouth. Similarly, and with more reason, I wouldn't stick a human inside me that someone just had inside themselves. To me this is gross. But if it's your cup of tea- keep👏doing👏it👏!!!✌️

Just stay single and date around. Wtf is the point of getting married and acting single?

@MikeyBee-

2 ай бұрын

Whoever said sexual exploration was only for single people?

@rudistout1086

2 ай бұрын

You need a partner to go to a swinger's party.

@ThatRealIsh

2 ай бұрын

Thank you!!!!

@JenessaAndKingston

Ай бұрын

Do you know how many married people are doing this stuff behind their partners back? At least they are honest. Do you know how many married men are sleeping with other men behind their wife’s back? And yes wives cheat too. Not everyone but probably a good percentage have cheated

@SJ-ni6iy

Ай бұрын

They think, they are getting the best of both worlds. I don’t think it’s possible to live like that and not lose part of yourself. It would be a shallow life.

This was all his idea and she went along with it. Notice she keeps looking at him for reassurance.

@MikeyBee-

2 ай бұрын

That’s Almost never the case! Women propose it more times than not

@Lucyinthskyy

2 ай бұрын

@@MikeyBee-😂😂😂

@user-ge8cg9pg6r

2 ай бұрын

You're projecting smh. Women love it believe me. I dooooo

@natalieholmes5313

2 ай бұрын

@@MikeyBee- a lot of people aren't aware of that.

@sassysavvy

2 ай бұрын

No one is forcing her. She didn’t have to participate

The comments section of this video gives me some faith in humanity

@edgarcayce2.02

Ай бұрын

The comments section of this video confirms that we live in a repressed society.

@desertsunset8025

Ай бұрын

Far from it . We just are blessed with God hiven commen sence . I would examine your comment and wonder if its god driven or Saten driven . ​@edgarcayce2.02

@HeyY.T.StopDeletingMyComments

Ай бұрын

​@@edgarcayce2.02 "go ahead, bite the big apple.... don't mind the maggots."

@defyned

Ай бұрын

These people haven't evolved beyond animals. They need to find Jesus.

@fabrikk60

Ай бұрын

I had the opposite reaction. Narrow-minded judgemental-ism run amok, with zero interest or ability to consider other viewpoints or lifestyles. I'm not a swinger, never would be, but if two people really want to live that way then I have no problem with it. There are literally *thousands of worse things* people can do, and it's dead certain that the all self-righteous hypocrites here have done them.

Let’s hear from their children

@alierem4266

Ай бұрын

Would they be so brave that they would declare their true escapsdes?

@davemurphy2774

Ай бұрын

@@alierem4266 Children.. Which ones...As a Doctor...Wonder how often when a Wife said she is ?? Doctor Doctor...Not getting pregnant with hubby.. What can you do for my situation...

@rickmiller6770

Ай бұрын

They are all now in counseling.😉

@michaeldes1800

Ай бұрын

@@derekdurham8829 Same

@donnabaardsen5372

Ай бұрын

​@@derekdurham8829 That is just pathetic.

Why would you trust condoms from the 99-Cent Store??? it's baffling to me

@caitlindpaul

2 ай бұрын

LOL THEY'RE SO RICH TOO 😂😅

@larhondah.2793

2 ай бұрын

I said the same.....😂😂😂😂

@dionnedunsmore9996

2 ай бұрын

They cant even trust their spouse--idk that a$1 rubber makes much difference. Could u do this in ur union? I left my husband after 22yrs of marriage due to infidelity --i couldnt participate in such a thing. Idk that these ppl do it for themselves either.... I think its for the spouse. What say u??

@titubamoon

2 ай бұрын

@@dionnedunsmore9996 I think you're right lol I know at least one of them doesn't even like swinging but who knows if they don't do it their partner might leave them maybe that's the motivation

@titubamoon

2 ай бұрын

@@caitlindpaul right ! 🤣🤣🤣

the 99 cent store condoms really threw me off

@natalieholmes5313

2 ай бұрын

They are probably close to expiration date.

@YesPlease-qj8nv

2 ай бұрын

Don't feel bad the entire chain has gone out of business last week

@amgleeson

2 ай бұрын

that was the only thing I objected to in that whole segment 🤣

@GodDutyHonorCountry

Ай бұрын

Why, it’s so fittingly appropriate for trash! 🤮

@livinhiswill525

Ай бұрын

And the dollar store lube 😖

I suddenly feel the need to take a shower.

@ericfitzpatrick5319

Ай бұрын

I feel like I need to be treated after watching this.

@Maggie-zr2ow

Ай бұрын

One of those de-contamination showers they give to people unexpectedly exposed to radiation.

@KellDLMCMLXXIX

Ай бұрын

​@@Maggie-zr2ow☢🚿💯💯💯‼️‼️

@janedoe1146

Ай бұрын

i need a sedative, feeling anxious after watching

@FestiFesti31

Ай бұрын

​@@janedoe1146 yeahhhh😉

So glad to see that this kind of lifestyle is not accepted/ preferred by most here in the comments. Its a great comfort that there's hope for good, healthy, meaningful and lasting monogamous marriages and preservation of the family unit❤

@JuanMoreno-wo5yb

Ай бұрын

Not all swinger couples are married; I don’t know if anyone here realizes that! ❤

@daisymiano925

Ай бұрын

@@JuanMoreno-wo5yb Yes. The focus is on the married couples. What's the point of marriage if they are going to adopt that kind of lifestyle?!

@timsmusic7349

Ай бұрын

Jesus Christ Daisy, your life style of marriage is an epic failure with only half surviving on a good day and the half that end up staying in a marriage

@WildandFree4

Ай бұрын

90% of college educated women are divorcing their husbands. 70-80% of non college educated women are divorcing their husbands. Men and women are incompatible for the most part.

@FERRARICWH69

Ай бұрын

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

So, Roxy’s husband wanted to cheat on her. Probably not the first time, I’m guessing.

@janecole44

Ай бұрын

OF COURSE HE DID, HE IS A NARCISSIST, HE LIKELY WAS MESSING BEHIND HER BACK, SHE PROLLY JUST WENT ALONG WITH THIS TO KEEP HIM./

@cindimahtaj6455

Ай бұрын

​@@janecole44yes

@davemurphy2774

Ай бұрын

When your a Doc you probably had lots of offers.... And I'm sure Roxy had to bend that chest over a few bed bound dudes... Um as her time as a nurse...

@theworldofjuniperthecat1307

Ай бұрын

Exactly

@ncavlleguy

Ай бұрын

What low-life SKANKS !

Every married couple that I’ve known about who swung loved it at first but later divorced.

@lindajackson2382

Ай бұрын

Not surprised at all!

@TheSmcdona731

Ай бұрын

Same.

@NerdyGirlLiveLove

Ай бұрын

Same

@garysmith5516

Ай бұрын

Ditto

@teabag1680

Ай бұрын

I know more married couples who haven’t tried this that divorced and never found out if this could’ve saved them.

I could see this as a private activity but I bet their kids are proud to know that almost half a million people are watching this

@GOTravelhannel

Ай бұрын

There children are probably swingers too

How to destroy a relationship 101

@lorettachampion4473

Ай бұрын

It's disgusting. How to destroy a family, too.

@Scorned405

Ай бұрын

You should evolve. This is not 1840

@ncavlleguy

Ай бұрын

And these dinosaurs Aren’t even sexy !! YUCK !

@groominator-magneticequato7195

Ай бұрын

Depends on independent thought, communication and boundaries. Monogamy is not a one size fits all. There must be a foundational secure attachment & trust.

@phileichinger1532

Ай бұрын

Simple. Perfect. Truthful comment.

Each to their own, personally it sounds exhausting!

@t.rubright5560

2 ай бұрын

I agree!

@SweetDreamz0223

2 ай бұрын

It sure does!!!

@ladylaois8184

Ай бұрын

I thought that to 😂

@bitokay147

Ай бұрын

Your profile celeb photo is ironic lol

@nataliesadler5902

Ай бұрын

😂

That’s disgusting’ I wouldn’t want to know if my parents were swingers.

@Serendipity-gj2me

2 ай бұрын

It's not only disgusting. It's dirty and sickening. Worse than animals!!!🤮

@louskunt9798

Ай бұрын

This is your father. We were never swingers. Rest easy. 🫡

@GaryFinch-ms7um

Ай бұрын

Exactly. One of my proudest boasts is that my parents were faithful.

@helenhines2712

Ай бұрын

I can't imagine my parents together with each other, much less with other people. 🤣😂

The most beautiful thing about a marriage is fidelity and trust, This undermines that because it undermines the beautiful and special intimacy between one man and one woman.

@Ann-op5kj

Ай бұрын

I think it's on purpose for exactly what you state which is sad. It creates chaos and sadness for all involved...

“Girls rule”. That’s how it was sold to her and she drank the cool aid. 🤦🏻‍♀️

@Jkaye13

Ай бұрын

Nailed it!! 🎯🎯

@sarah-seww-creative

Ай бұрын

My thoughts exactly. She thinks she is in charge. He just sits back and behaves with her, waiting for her to say go ahead with other women.

@theworldofjuniperthecat1307

Ай бұрын

Or lose him to someone else. Id just let him go.

@TexasDebBoomerBabe

Ай бұрын

She is self serving to him, he has groomed her well in their golden years!!

@janeenharrison1953

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

Their kids, parents, relatives must be so proud.

@dudeorduderorelduderino9087

Ай бұрын

go easy judging these people. Just because YOU don't doesn't mean they shouldn't.

@MariaRodriguez-if1dd

Ай бұрын

😂😂

As a Therapist, I can tell you of 20 couples and individuals that the “swinger” lifestyle obliterated.

@Clintsessentials

Ай бұрын

Fr.

@sharkboy6952

Ай бұрын

Who could have seen that coming? 🙄

@AcidicJO

Ай бұрын

Can you share what you found to be the common theme among them? Were they already the cheating type? Was it a misguided way of trying to salvage a rocky relationship? Or did the swinging alone destroy it?

@sharkboy6952

Ай бұрын

@@AcidicJO I think the common theme was that they were swingers.

@rocky2500

Ай бұрын

Probably because they decided to be swinger's for the wrong reasons. Most people don't stay married because they do it for the wrong reasons and dismissed the boundaries that should have been made

Goodness, I'd be so concerned about exchanging bacteria, even w/ protection. 😮

@patriciamulamba7069

Ай бұрын

They are definitely not concerned 😢LoL 🤣😂😂

@mzkittym.5450

Ай бұрын

@@patriciamulamba7069 Shame🤦🏽‍♀️

@JJ-mn8md

Ай бұрын

Everyone has oral herpes and all kinds of skin infections

@daisymiano925

Ай бұрын

Just bacteria?! 😂

@mzkittym.5450

Ай бұрын

@@daisymiano925 Skin2skin infections HPV, HSV etc.....

Roxy's expressions and body language speak volumes and she reminds me of a kidnap victim who has Stockholm Syndrome......sad.

@tracywest2065

Ай бұрын

I thought the exact same thing. "Shellshocked"

@janecole44

Ай бұрын

SHE IS CLINGY.

@Checkyourself99a

Ай бұрын

Is not, its sexuality, they get aroused even with other people and dont hide it

@rickmiller6770

Ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@kjara42

Ай бұрын

Way to infantilize her. What makes ypu think she isnt being honest?

Roxy isn't as empowered as she posits. She just is terrified of losing her husband.

@patland1762

Ай бұрын

Yup you can tell by her moans.

@janecole44

Ай бұрын

SHE IS CLINGY

@Jkaye13

Ай бұрын

Nailed it!! 🎯🎯 Her cheating husband 'convinced' her this is what SHE wanted 😂 everyone on here sees right through her facade and knows that she is only doing this because she's desperate to hang on to her husband..

@MegaBpop

Ай бұрын

I thought the same thing.

@3passionflower

Ай бұрын

​​@@Jkaye13not the husband the money the doc made or makes is what she wants shes not dropping down the line .these drs in my country would lose their right to practise bc how does he think of his female patients

The filthy rich like "Jeff & Roxy" can afford to play "filthy rich games." 😂 Meanwhile many of the rest of us are too busy just trying to survive to engage in such shenanigans.

@marimar2525

Ай бұрын

Exactly

After a while, that would have to be soul crushing. Only a shallow person could live like that.

@kendallevans4079

Ай бұрын

A while? Like one time and you're ruined for life!

@andreaeady8000

Ай бұрын

What???? Love a little dude

@SJ-ni6iy

Ай бұрын

@@andreaeady8000 did you mean “live a little” or are you suggesting to “love a little person”? 🤣

@jackiegarroutte8970

Ай бұрын

​@@SJ-ni6iyI agree...it would be soul crushing

@lesliemacmillan9932

Ай бұрын

The best you can say is it's a good place to be from.

Just imagine their kids finding out about this. How disgusting.

@samdoors5132

Ай бұрын

Yeah, these people are filthy. I’d rather do drugs than to allow my wife or push my wife into that lifestyle.

@davemurphy2774

Ай бұрын

"UP DATEing" watch here on youtube... the parents... Do the nasty with your older sister... 2024 seems like anything goes today!!!

@theworldofjuniperthecat1307

Ай бұрын

Well. They know now.

@neilcharles2520

Ай бұрын

Their kids might be swingers also..

I'm surprised Lisa didn't wear a biohazard suit going into their house.

@falconone7230

Ай бұрын

Lol😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

@esterhudson5104

Ай бұрын

🤣😁😆

@vonalbretsen2336

Ай бұрын

😂 good one

“Midlife crisis, party of two!”

Lisa’s face expression during the interview listening this guy saying how amazing their lives have been changed,is priceless

You can see that pasted smile on lisa ling’s face. I’d love to know what she’s thinking.

@jiemda3

Ай бұрын

She was getting excited.

@davidbusen545

Ай бұрын

​@@jiemda3you leave Lisa out of this. She's my hall pass.

@Denise-xq8qn

Ай бұрын

I'll tell you what she's thinking she's thinking these people are all out of their blanking minds I don't understand how they do it it's disgusting their pigs

@mikerivera7509

Ай бұрын

She might have been getting some information about it

Maybe I watch too much true crime but this looks like a good way to end up a victim of a violent crime.

@lindajackson2382

Ай бұрын

There actually HAVE been spouses murdered who did swinging! True!

Have lost a million brain cells watching these 😢

I really do not see the point in being married and sleeping with other people. If you want variety and excitement stay single and date as much as you want. There's a lack of coherence here.

@marcoprolo1488

Ай бұрын

What is the point going to the restaurant when you have a kitchen at home? Your comment is void of sense.

@blue8710

Ай бұрын

@@marcoprolo1488first the food is an object devoid of feelings and emotions and secondly you are not in a committed relationship with it. In your example you are objectifying people, so then you are justified in what you do.

@marcoprolo1488

Ай бұрын

@@blue8710 I personally don't practice swinging, but I have no problem with people that do it. It's more the smells and the diseases that would be a turn off for me. It looks like a lot of people here in the comments have their own emotional/religious issues that they project on others. If you don't want to be part of it just stay away as I do. Not everybody is wired the same emotionally.

@isadorabarrow594

Ай бұрын

What is wrong with two people who are devoted to each other and dedicated their lives to their marriage wanting a different consensual sexual experience with others? I swear yall just jealous they be having the time of their damn lives..

@thatswhatshesaid6326

Ай бұрын

Marriage to you might be different than marriage to me or to your neighbors next door. Some people married for money, some people marry for companion, some people married for stability, most marry for love or at least that’s what we tell ourselves. Those reasons can fluctuate and change overtime. This is definitely not something that I would be comfortable with my partner, but why do I care if two or four consenting adults choose a different lifestyle than I have? it affects me and no way in my life. Just like some of the things that you might in your home is not something that I would accept mine.

That room is gross. The human heart devoid of morals and character is truly depraved.

@patland1762

Ай бұрын

lol

@lifespanwellnessbeauty-60i64

Ай бұрын

Amen.

Not for me. I love my husband and I dont plan sharing him and vise versa. "Roxy " hangs on to his every word .

@Serenityfor1

2 ай бұрын

Yeah I think she’s doing it for him.

@louisemerriman1079

Ай бұрын

@@Serenityfor1 without a doubt

@janecole44

Ай бұрын

SHE IS MARRIED TO A NARCISSISIC ABUSER. HE WANTS EVERYTHING HIS WAY. ROXXYI S TRYING TO HANG ONTO HER MAN A ND LIFESTYLE.

@abhinashkumar3161

Ай бұрын

​@@louisemerriman1079 maybe after 5 years u or your husband want that?

@louisemerriman1079

Ай бұрын

@abhinashkumar3161 🤣🤣🤣no chance but good luck to them

I love how Lisa’s like “that’s so awesome” all the while gagging in the back of her throat lol😂

@AppleofhisEyel6551

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂 yes. My thoughts exactly

@waynejohnson2894

Ай бұрын

You know you wrong, griggle🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@JJ-jn7ei

Ай бұрын

Can we talk about how gross these folks look? No hot swingers here, just a bunch of wrinkled, board, middle aged folks 😂😂😂

She watches him like a trained dog 😅

I think Lisa's expressions weren't because of what they were saying, but because the rooms smelled like corned beef and armpits.

@D2047h

Ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣sounds like you've been to such a place😂😂😂

@stevemora7845

25 күн бұрын

Also catfish! 😉😂

I’m not convinced that Roxy enjoys this as much as she claims to , I think that she is afraid to lose her husband .

@GOTravelhannel

Ай бұрын

Yap

@rhondacrandall2119

Ай бұрын

And the 💵

@laplusbelle7982

13 күн бұрын

Yep she’s frontin’, she ain’t really feeling it. Comes across as a very weak minded woman. Don’t have anything against the lifestyle but can’t stand forcing yourself to do something because of a male…smh

@gwlgurley532

12 күн бұрын

I agree

I’m so pleased Geoff was not my General Practioner

@thatswhatshesaid6326

Ай бұрын

Because what he chooses to do in his free time? 😂 should I assume that you know what your GP does 24/7? Judge much?

@donnabaardsen5372

Ай бұрын

​@@thatswhatshesaid6326 You have a serious problem. Situational ethics are inappropriate and immoral. Period.

@minnietoot9704

Ай бұрын

@@thatswhatshesaid6326 it’s creepy

@Lisabug2659

Ай бұрын

Doesn’t keep vows has no boundaries but yet he takes an oath to do no harm? Irony.

Can you imagine if Roxie was your mom and Tom was your Dad? I’d be mortified. That’s an understatement,

@TheGrobe

Ай бұрын

I would definitely wonder why they were telling me in the first place. It’s a strange piece of information to share with one’s children.

I’d be interested to know when exactly Roxy changed her name in relation to when they entered the lifestyle. It feels like perhaps a Roxy could be a coping mechanism that allows her to compartmentalize swinging. She doesn’t seem as in to it as she claims. But I could be wrong.

@heyman2429

Ай бұрын

I thought this as well

@livingthedream923

Ай бұрын

Probably around the same time she purchased that ridiculous bosom.

@lifespanwellnessbeauty-60i64

Ай бұрын

Exactly 🎯!

@Sea-xr8zd

Ай бұрын

This is so well observed - her name change could very well be a coping/distancing mechanisms from this behaviour she must feel she needs to appear to love in order to keep her husband.

@louisecampbell2628

Ай бұрын

That's what i was thinking!!

I love people rationalizing straying from their partners.

@erinjaynes

Ай бұрын

Right?? So true!!

@351528

Ай бұрын

How is it straying if they're both participating?

@heatherh.197

Ай бұрын

​@@351528Right?

@LadyWolfeRyder

Ай бұрын

How is it straying if they are both consenting AND participating?

@Lily-cm3nj

Ай бұрын

I guess some will miss that valid point.

Just because you guys don’t crave monogamy , doesn’t mean everyone feels the same way and it has nothing to do with programming. I feel very deeply that I could only have a monogamous relationship and I am naturally monogamous. I don’t have to try. It is natural for me.

@JaydenJayden-mm2kr

2 ай бұрын

Me too. I dont try i just enjoy being mono

@jimthrowaway

Ай бұрын

@@JaydenJayden-mm2kr Well, truthfully, I can't say I just enjoy being mono, nor do I try or have to try, I just am. I just am. I don't always enjoy it, but similarly just because all my female partners weren't fantasy 10's doesn't mean I'm gonna try gay though, I'm still straight, I just move on...naturally.

The comments brought hope back after watching this 😅. Sounds like most of us are not down to live this way .

@abdul-kabiralegbe5660

Ай бұрын

We'll see about that [ominous cliffhanger music plays as I mysteriously slip away]. 😂😂😂😂

@rawnature8148

Ай бұрын

But all the judgy ones watched ever 46 minutes.

@thatswhatshesaid6326

Ай бұрын

Why do you care if other people are down to live like this or not? How does that affect you in anyway? Do you know how many spouses cheat on each other? They are at least being honest with their partner.

@thatswhatshesaid6326

Ай бұрын

@@rawnature8148 I was thinking the exact same thing. If so, many people are so grossed out and disgusted by this lifestyle per the comment section why take the time to watch it? Lol

@aceboogie6737

Ай бұрын

People are so judgmental. What does how the live affect yall? If it aint for you it aint for you.

Sad, how embarrassing to put this in public when they have kids and family members. Deviants.

Being secure in your relationship means you don’t sleep with anyone other than your spouse and that is enough

@saudigold50

Ай бұрын

^ Aptly stated.

@jimthrowaway

Ай бұрын

how about just being comfortable in ur own skin & secure with ur own hormones, instead of trying to keep up with the Jones'es who by the way are half your age, or more... the whole idea of middle-age and older couples, especially married, in that type of lifestyle, seems to me, has more to do with their insecurity about their libidos than anything else.... father time is undefeated. just accept it, gracefully....

@kjara42

Ай бұрын

Not for everyone. Dont pretend that everyone feels or thinks the same way.

@EVA-ki5vw

Ай бұрын

@@kjara42 If you don't feel secure in your marriage, talk to your spouse. Remember, communication is the key.

@lindajackson2382

Ай бұрын

EXACTLY!!

This is what happens when life is so boring , you have to change the vibe

Scottsdale AZ... wealthy (by the car they drive, her closet, etc) yet buy condoms at the 99 cent store? Price check on aisle 5!!!! LOL

@janecole44

Ай бұрын

VERY ODD, THAT DOCTOR GUY I SNT EVEN GOOD LOOKING.

@isabellathepinkpoodle639

Ай бұрын

@@janecole44 neither is Roxie and that name 😂

@Dogcatlover2432

Ай бұрын

LOL

@kristopherbearden590

Ай бұрын

Not everything at the .99 cent store is 99 cents. Just they’re buying from there doesn’t mean the quality is bad. I’m just saying…

@louskunt9798

Ай бұрын

@@janecole44​​⁠and his wife let herself go starting back in high school. She’s MASSIVE! At least the doctor takes care of himself physically. No quality man would ever even consider getting with a size 18+ woman like her. Unless it’s a weird fetish thing as a joke to laugh about later with his friends. Some guys do this just for fun so they can joke about it later and it’s nasty! Quality men don’t hook up with women that have such little self respect, who are 50+ pounds overweight and nasty. Yuck!

THEIR GROWN CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN MUST BE COMPLETELY EMBARRASSED 😮

@thatswhatshesaid6326

Ай бұрын

If their children are adults and have their own families and see their parents happy and still together then what’s the problem?

@lindajackson2382

Ай бұрын

​@@thatswhatshesaid6326It's IMMORAL

@LemonThyme1933

Ай бұрын

And parents.

Hey Lisa! Do a follow up on swingers & address how couples get black mailed, children get outed & law enforcement cant help.

@ThatRealIsh

2 ай бұрын

THIS!!!

@deecool6327

2 ай бұрын

Interesting. I'd watch!

@shethingsd

Ай бұрын

It would be interesting. It's 11-12 years ago when this originally aired.

@kathleenlynch1961

Ай бұрын

Perfect sane comment! Thank you!!

@Lily-cm3nj

Ай бұрын

Or how many divorce or cheat outside the swinger boundaries.

I believe their taste in clothing maches their ethics and morals in life.

@LaceCoveredSkies

Ай бұрын

And their taste in where they buy condoms 😅

@saudigold50

Ай бұрын

Aptly stated ^ *And the tattoo*

@maryseman7019

Ай бұрын

Very low class.

@cathyhamilton4718

Ай бұрын

Hence, the ultra personality. She really can’t be her authentic self in that setting.

Old folks gone wild!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@janecole44

Ай бұрын

AHHAHAHHHA!!!!

@cassieroser

Ай бұрын

Haha ❤ this!

@helenhines2712

Ай бұрын

Ya, have you noticed they're all middle-aged? They're probably bored with their marriage/relationship but too afraid to divorce . This is another option, to be with other people but still stay together. I guess whatever floats your boat.

@_theerealnono_7694

Ай бұрын

So pathetic!

Swing School? 😂 I can’t. 😂😂😂 This world is so Cray

When their family/friends/neighbors see this documentary I suspect that there will be a lot of people who avoid contact with them. When their children found out, I'll bet they were mortified (I would be).

@cobaltmidnightoilamp6748

Ай бұрын

@ShaninOhio-uu2ms, I even bet their kids will make informative decisions to opt to live with relatives.

@janecole44

Ай бұрын

AGREE

@ManoharDeka

Ай бұрын

​@@janecole44id you sin with a people you seen with people.people means all whole world

Ugh!! Between human jealousy and STD disease plus chance to meet unbalanced people. Ahh no thanks I ll stay alone or continue dating

@ericfitzpatrick5319

Ай бұрын

Disease can come with dating just as easy, js.

@groominator-magneticequato7195

Ай бұрын

Me too. I actually love going to Poly clubs and parties for the raw honesty and how clear and deep Communication can be. That said, it stops there. No interest beyond that.

Mostly a husbands idea after he's cheated , and now needs to smooth over his guilt and give himself a pardon while incourging the spouse to commit the same act and share his guilt.

@bluecollarnobody4217

Ай бұрын

The women seem just as into it as the men Get your head out of the 1950s women are just as promiscuous as men

@ernie5229

Ай бұрын

Or sane because a wife cheated. Wives cheat way more.

@NerdyGirlLiveLove

Ай бұрын

This

@BBlair-if8tj

Ай бұрын

Inaccurate assumption.

@ernie5229

Ай бұрын

@@NerdyGirlLiveLove Jus cuz it happened to you doesn't mean it happens everywhere.

Sick people. Rich people boredom!

@janecole44

Ай бұрын

TRAVEL THE WORLD IN RETIREMENT. GET DEEPLY ICOLVED IN CHURCH AND CHARITABLE WORK.

@bondalero0074

Ай бұрын

💯

@arlenedorego1277

Ай бұрын

I said the same exact thing. Travel ​@@janecole44

@ncavlleguy

Ай бұрын

They is just N A S T Y HOES !

So it's called jealousy when you make a vow to someone and then break it. Got it. Why get married?

@perpboredom

2 ай бұрын

For financial reasons

@tabathaterry2998

2 ай бұрын

Men get raises promotions and get close to their bosses when they get married

@patriciasprings5769

2 ай бұрын

How are they as couple breaking a vow? They are making a decision as a couple and nothing even in the Bible speaks against whatever happens in the bedroom. I can't do it but there nothing against it.

@MikeyBee-

2 ай бұрын

Jealousy? Huh

@user-ex3mx7hk4l

2 ай бұрын

@@patriciasprings5769 Do you remember the vow: ‘To forsake all others?’ Monogamy can be exciting even after 25+ years when you focus on each other and work at it. Any Psychiatrist / Psychologist in their right mind would not say swinging is a model for a healthy marriage. Grow up!

I have the real name 'adultery."

@351528

Ай бұрын

How is it adultery if they're participating in it together?🤔

@TheLionessjudah

Ай бұрын

@@351528 Doesn't matter if they both do it consentingly. It is still called adultery.

@desihay22

Ай бұрын

​@@TheLionessjudah🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

@lTandermthrust2001

Ай бұрын

Yes adultery in your religion , but no such thing as adultery in theirs and that is what matter to them.

@TheLionessjudah

Ай бұрын

@@lTandermthrust2001 Well there is a Judgement whether you believe that sinning is serious or not. Unfortunately people seem to skirt that fact but it is there. It is not about a religion it is about the fact that there is a higher power that offers a way out of sin, and many do not take it unfortunately.

Original air date 8/12/2012. Are any of them still together? Would love to know. All could think of is their children. If you are going to do this, know that you are affecting your children. Especially if you go on a national show and say it loud and proud. I found it sad and disturbing.

@Jkaye13

Ай бұрын

Nailed it! 🎯🎯 This totally erodes the foundation of marriage and the 'forsaking of all others" and is not sustainable; l would guess VERY few marriages would survive this abuse because at some point, one or both will find someone they like better than the spouse.

@louskunt9798

Ай бұрын

By the looks of those women, most of them are deceased from Type 2 Diabetes and obesity by now. 🤷‍♂️

I'd never share my husband with anyone. My husband and I get excited with each other and do not need others involved to improve what is already good. These people say they are secure in their relationship, I disagree. I think they want what they can't have.

@kenofken9458

Ай бұрын

If you have something that works, why worry about what other people are doing?

@rsh793

Ай бұрын

​@@kenofken9458haha it's always funny how it's the ones who have such an attitude to their marriage who end up divorced - yet swingers tend not to and have open communication and relaxed relationships and are happy - probably because they aren't in other people's business 😉

@kenofken9458

Ай бұрын

@@rsh793 I have no problem with people who say it just isn't for them. It's the people who have no direct knowledge of it who nevertheless "know" it can't work and tell you the 50 ways in which you must be emotionally damaged, unable to commit etc.

@ariamason9324

Ай бұрын

Most men cheat though

@davidbusen545

Ай бұрын

​@@ariamason9324 Interestingly enough with 50 years in relationships under my belt I have yet to cheat and yet I have been cheated upon by three different women.

This is very wrong.

@thatswhatshesaid6326

Ай бұрын

You mean this is very wrong for you??

Maceo seems like a very nice man. I can tell he does not seem comfortable with this type of activity, and unfortunately his wife is pushing him to do something that I truly feel she's going to regret later 😔

@samdoors5132

Ай бұрын

It’s worst for the woman because she has to open her legs and by the time they’re done with their orgy she has glue all over her and probably herpes TOO

@nbbim2012

Ай бұрын

Wouldn't be surprised if they got divorced? Why didn't she get with someone who was in or wants to be in the "lifestyle" already? Seems very foolish

@IntrovertA.F.

19 күн бұрын

Yea his energy was off

With all the diseases out there I can’t believe that a doctor and nurse can be ok with this. These couples are old.

the Prince of this world is really working

@cobaltmidnightoilamp6748

Ай бұрын

@charlesnwankwo7836, Satan is EXTREME hard @ work.

@anakrivak6739

Ай бұрын

Oh, yeah! But he is not the prince of this world. He is the prince of LIES! And these pathetic perverts lie to themselves - that it is OK to be so twisted.

@daisymiano925

Ай бұрын

@charles.... The fact that they even have a coach shows how relentless the devil is...

@duroxkilo

Ай бұрын

you guys are literally too obsessed w/ the devil. read some other chapters from your book, something less stressful. no disrespect intended.

@pamconlin-casarez7254

Ай бұрын

Agreed!

UPDATE THESE COUPLES PLEASE! Especially the 2nd one. I’d love to check in and see where they are now…

Although I don’t agree with this lifestyle, Lisa did an amazing job on this piece.

i love how Lisa looks at people in a way that she does not get what these people are doing. I have the same feeling as Lisa. Life is already complicated with one spouse, why look for trouble?

These people are out of their minds

WOW! WOW! Everyone has their morals and rule for life. I can't see me doing that to my body, sleeping around with different men. I have too much respect for my self and my health, even if I am single. These conservitive states surprise me.

@tarynmosakowski3512

2 ай бұрын

What do you mean everyone has their morals? That doesn't make any sense. You do realize there are only one specific set of morals, right? Like you can't just pick and choose or make up your own! No one has their specific morals. There are moral people and immoral people and there's morals and then there's immorality. Like this kind of stuff is immoral, all of it not just a little but all of it. Having a relationship with more than two people one man one woman is also immoral. Please figure out who you are and where you want to go after this life. You'll have to figure it out soon because the time is at hand, it's definitely upon us. There's no straddling the fence. You're either on one side or the other. And there is such a thing as too late.

@Laladowning

2 ай бұрын

I'm from Alabama and they pretend that they are conservative around here but I don't see anything conservative with the MAGA movement and those that support hate, violence, adultery and lies. If they also say that they are Christian then I would really have to question their sincerity. What really goes on is they are going to church and having this lifestyle and they have minor children in their family so I don't think that is conducive to a healthy and honest relationship while lying to everyone in your life, especially your own family. I have friends that I went to school with and I always heard that a few of their parents were "swingers" and they probably were but with very few people, usually only certain couples and not more than 4 or 5 couples that are interacting. Especially now with the Internet and the ability to record the interaction then blackmail the other people that are involved and that's how people get killed or so I have been told.

@Forbidden.knowledge.

Ай бұрын

@dtddwblack It’s a crazy world be careful or you’re going down with them, They will take everything you got.. The devil saying nothing is off limits, let’s do it all..

@tubechic71

Ай бұрын

Conservatives make me laugh. They want to regulate everyone else while doing the most in the dark.

@patriciamulamba7069

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

My parents did this in the 70s and 80s. It was disgusting and embarrassing, and I was constantly being hit on (as a child!) by all the creeps that hung around the house.

She got married in a hoodie 😂😂😂❤

@louskunt9798

Ай бұрын

She looks like she’s hiding a few high calorie cheeseburgers in the pockets of it. 🤣😂🤣

@MSUSPARTANS1973

27 күн бұрын

Yep. That couple was all class.

This is absolutely disgusting! Marriage is supposed to be sacred!!

@tenzinchoegyal4067

Ай бұрын

That’s what u think

@kjara42

Ай бұрын

People get to decide what is sacred for themselves. You do you and as long as that isnt hurting anyone else it isnt anyone elses business.

@3passionflower

Ай бұрын

No it is what u know ,marriage is sacred ,not to these people thpugh.​@@tenzinchoegyal4067

@desihay22

Ай бұрын

@@kjara42 NO GOD DOES!

@lisa408t

Ай бұрын

Well...most marriages end in divorce, moving on to multiple marriages for most....not exactly 'sacred'

The doctor probably cheated the entire marriage and then stuck in retirement with no escape he convinced her to swing...

This is sick on so many levels

@daisymiano925

Ай бұрын

@shelly... Wicked and evil too

@Lily-cm3nj

Ай бұрын

🎯 I'm so happy that I do not play well with others!...It all just sounds nasty and disgusting. I'm too much of a germaphobe. Lol

@patland1762

Ай бұрын

LOL to each their own.

@kor405

Ай бұрын

I agree !!!!!!!!! U have different peoples saliva and fluids around and in Ur Body 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 Its demonic!

@knunya4351

Ай бұрын

It really is disgusting 😢

The Devil is real.

@marcoprolo1488

Ай бұрын

Did they hurt you in any way? Seriously get some help.

you know that creep was Not monogamous for 29 years!!!

@marcoprolo1488

Ай бұрын

Why do you insult people? Because it is ok to insult men?

@mr.andmrs.valentine803

Ай бұрын

Right.... because they said she hadn't kissed another man in 29 years and said nothing about him....pahaha

@pearlperlitavenegas2023

Ай бұрын

@@marcoprolo1488 my bad...that nice man.....😆

@louskunt9798

Ай бұрын

⁠and his wife let herself go back in high school. She’s MASSIVE! At least the doctor takes care of himself physically. No quality man would ever even consider getting with a size 20+ woman like her. He can get so much better since he’s a “doctor.” Plenty of women do take care themselves and he can get one that’s 20 years younger, easily. Crazy world!

@doriangray7723

Ай бұрын

Judgment day is quickly approaching. This is a perversion of what God intended. Truth is truth whether we like it or not.

🗣️HOPE THEIR GETTING “TESTED “ BEFORE ENGAGING🤨😮🤦🏾‍♀️

@ethelstanley8322

2 ай бұрын

In this day and age ooo child

@moco3624

2 ай бұрын

Honey, at the hospital, we just got our new chlamydia and gonorrhea throat culture swabs. 😢 We've had so many STI exposures in the past few months. The age range happened to be 32-58. What is so funny about it is that the suburbanites won't get tested in the hospitals that are closer to their neighborhood. They will drive all the way to the hospital that demographically serves African-American and Latin citizens. 😢 SMH

@nellymatalanga5033

2 ай бұрын

@@moco3624 😬😬😥

@mellisaingram609

2 ай бұрын

I thought the saaaaaaame thing!

@clarkclarke

2 ай бұрын

@37:56

I haven’t read all the responses but does anyone see how Roxie puts Jeff first? Everything is about keeping him happy. My 1cent question!

So glad Lisa Ling finally got her show on KZread. She’s great

I feel disgusting with all this.......🤮

@patland1762

Ай бұрын

LOL then why did you watch?

@Will324

Ай бұрын

​Why do people watch anything? What a dumb question you asked @@patland1762

@josephforest7605

Ай бұрын

What is your opinion of homosexuals ?

@FestiFesti31

Ай бұрын

@danicakostic4999 why so🤔

@thatswhatshesaid6326

Ай бұрын

If you are so disgusted, why would you take the time to click on a KZread video that clearly states The topic and watch for 46 minutes? 😂

Does anyone sense that some are faking the excitement/approval of themselves participating in the life style? Seeing my husband sleep with another woman is bad but him kissing her is worse.

@Msfifisquarepantz

Ай бұрын

Sleep has nothing to do with it

@louskunt9798

Ай бұрын

Yup!💯

@janeenharrison1953

Ай бұрын

Interesting..the kissing is worse than the intercourse?

@kimmiller4105

Ай бұрын

@@janeenharrison1953 yeah, maybe you're right.

Roxy and the dr kiss like distant relatives.. that marriage is a joke and she's not really into it like he is

so glad i live alone on a yacht with my dog . i’ve had enough heartbreak . this will end in tears . none of those women are beautiful

@janecole44

Ай бұрын

YES THEY ARE ALL UGLY OUT OF SHAPE AND OLD.

@thatswhatshesaid6326

Ай бұрын

Well, my personal thought on your life as you just described it would be lonely and sad.

@kathejohnson4241

Ай бұрын

Sounds nice.

@kathejohnson4241

Ай бұрын

​@@thatswhatshesaid6326You're deluloo

@jelenntkatigbac7446

Ай бұрын

😅

People should do what they want. I find it nauseating but to each their own. If these were my parents I’d be mortified.

@samdoors5132

Ай бұрын

That’s basically what it’s about I mean this whole planet is full of every kind of filthy stuff that exist just the same as thousands of years ago

I know from experience that this is what you do when you see your relationship is near the end.

My husband found his calling in "the lifestyle" but forgot to tell me 😂😂 🗑 We're getting divorced 😊

Absolutely revolting!

The "Paris Room" cracked me up......the name sounds classy, but the room looked so cheap. 😄

@janecole44

Ай бұрын

WELL DALE AMD DENISE ARE CHEAP NASTY PEOPLE.

@isabellathepinkpoodle639

Ай бұрын

This whole thing is cheap

@jimthrowaway

Ай бұрын

​@@isabellathepinkpoodle639 I know. the whole thing is a whitewash fraud IMHO... too cheap to host at a nice upscale venue

@HeyY.T.StopDeletingMyComments

Ай бұрын

Hilton?

@thebelissima64

Ай бұрын

@wildtymes2429 It reminds me of a phrase by Dolly Parton : it takes a lot of effort to look this cheap 😂

The second couple seem like they have communication , discuss boundaries, safety and ensure each other s comfort level s … It’s not for me the vanilla … but they were good subjects in this documentary .

Gross. GROSS. GROSS.

This is so nasty on every level. Ew!

Going to side eye all my neighbors after this!

I also see quite a bit of narcissistic behavior with one person in every couple featured.

@janecole44

Ай бұрын

YES ESPCIALLY THE DOCTOR.

@wildtymes2429

Ай бұрын

@@chromosomexy8327 Definitely the impression I got......the non-narc partner doing whatever it takes in order to hang on to the other person. I hope that the non-narc eventually cares enough about themselves to start a new life either by themselves and/or with someone who truly values them.

@doriangray7723

Ай бұрын

​@@chromosomexy8327In the last days perilous times will come. People will be lovers of themselves and lovers of pleasure more than GOD. People will be ungrateful, unthankful, unholy, ungodly, despisers of good. Children will be disobedient to parents. People will be incontinent (having no self-control), it goes on. Might want to Google this Bible verse or consult a Bible. Consider. This is an absolute perversion of what God intended for the marriage covenant ( symbolic of Christ (bridegroom) and his church (bride). Furthermore, reproductive organs were for the begeting of children. We are supposed to be image bearers of God/Christ. Bible also talks about how mankind would worship creation over creator. Sad days indeed. The world is continually waxing worse as the Bible said it would.

@doriangray7723

Ай бұрын

@chromosomexy8327 That comment is for anyone who reads it. Don't take it personally. I hope you have taken the time to read God's Word.

The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down. Proverbs 14:1

@daisymiano925

Ай бұрын

@adriana.... 💯True Rom 1: 24& 26a 24 Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves 26 For this reason God gave them up to vile passions.

@adrianablessed718

Ай бұрын

@@daisymiano925 amen

@ericmead299

Ай бұрын

A wise man builds his house with God's help and let's NO ONE else enter.

@WildandFree4

Ай бұрын

Christianity is a cult. Look up the BITE model by Steven Hassan the worlds top cult expert. It's the cult checklist. From an ex Christian of 20yrs 👍

@kjara42

Ай бұрын

Leviticus 19:27 you shall not round off the side growth of your head nor harm the edges of your beard. So no haircuts either? Stop quoting your work of fiction or quote and live by all of it. I cant stand christians that cherry pick.

Imagine the aroma in that house after the freak-show. 🤢

@Will324

Ай бұрын

You mean the stench.

@abhinashkumar3161

Ай бұрын

😂

@thebelissima64

Ай бұрын

It must smell really funky 😂😂😂

@margo3367

Ай бұрын

Imagine washing all those sheets. The yuk factor is beyond…

@jesusislord9758

Ай бұрын

Like "brimstone."