Surviving the odds of Domestic Violence

On today’s episode of Healing With Maria we have our courageous guest Ramatu Muhammad , a mother who chose herself and children over the norms of the society to break break away from a toxic abusive marriage.
In this mind awakening interview she shared her journey through domestic abuse in a marriage she fought so hard to work for the sake of her children. But when her life was constantly in danger, she knew she had to save herself to one day be alive for her children. A big welcome to Ramatu as we hear her inspiring yet tragic life journey in her marriage.
Also on this interview with us today is our celebrity guest Deyemi Okanlawon who gives our guest all the encouragement and support on her bravery. Thank you for gracing us with your presence.
#domesticviolence
#abuserecovery
#hope
#empowerment
#hwm

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  • @ramatumuhammad-ye8vt
    @ramatumuhammad-ye8vt Жыл бұрын

    God bless you ma for sharing in my story.I am honored.

  • @rashidayakubukhalid5926

    @rashidayakubukhalid5926

    Жыл бұрын

    😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @__emsu

    @__emsu

    Жыл бұрын

    Everything will be fine habibty ,Allah is there for you❤️

  • @fauziyahassan4236

    @fauziyahassan4236

    Жыл бұрын

    U will be fine sis🥰

  • @Okeosisi1

    @Okeosisi1

    Жыл бұрын

    May Allah bless and restore all that you've lost. You deserve happiness ❤❤❤

  • @ndeylisa9424

    @ndeylisa9424

    Жыл бұрын

    Please try collect your kids ASAP..🤲🏾🤲🏾 I pray comfort, love and light your way.. Allah’s richest blessings sis❤

  • @chinenyeeze5280
    @chinenyeeze5280 Жыл бұрын

    Oh Ramah.. She was my classmate. Very calm 😢… Be strong my darling

  • @ebunnimaryann4071
    @ebunnimaryann4071 Жыл бұрын

    Ramatu, you're still as beautiful as ever.😘 Stay strong darling, God is with you.

  • @comfortebiereozagha360
    @comfortebiereozagha360 Жыл бұрын

    Education is indeed necessary. For the kind of moves she made and is still planning to take and the thoughts she has shows she's a woman of great wisdom. I pray the Lord sends you a helper 🙏

  • @hadizadanladi5113
    @hadizadanladi5113 Жыл бұрын

    Allah sarki. We attended BUK with Ramatu. She is a very calm and lovely person. We even do chat once a while on social Media but I could never guess you were going through such. May Allah comfort you. Love you sis.

  • @ramatumuhammad-ye8vt

    @ramatumuhammad-ye8vt

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Sis

  • @sanusinabee
    @sanusinabee Жыл бұрын

    There are so many women going through the same in the North,Hopefully,they get the platform to speak up one day!

  • @queen_Yaks
    @queen_Yaks Жыл бұрын

    Things like this just keeps changing my mind and narrative about marriage..This thing is scary,the way this men change after marriage!

  • @lindaossom4181
    @lindaossom4181 Жыл бұрын

    Maria,.congratulations., I am from Ghana, I am so proud of you, you treating topics close to home,.....best wishes to you....

  • @aaleeyahwc5664
    @aaleeyahwc5664 Жыл бұрын

    Such a beautiful and strong woman, that recognizes her power! We are rooting for you❤

  • @mz_AchisibaPharmacy-Lifestyle
    @mz_AchisibaPharmacy-Lifestyle Жыл бұрын

    You are a brave woman, Hajia Rahmatu . God bless you

  • @khizztelma4642
    @khizztelma4642 Жыл бұрын

    God bless you Maria,,thank you for all you do😍🥰

  • @olufunkeolasodetv
    @olufunkeolasodetv Жыл бұрын

    I salute your courage to walk out, that’s a huge one! I hope you get your kids out quickly. Love to you Ramat ❤

  • @bijoudelouest2507
    @bijoudelouest2507 Жыл бұрын

    This woman is so articulate. May God come through for her and bless her with a job, prosperity and some form of stability in her life and those of her children

  • @blessingakhivbareme7153
    @blessingakhivbareme7153 Жыл бұрын

    I hope they can help her pull some strings to get her a job. It’ll be good for her to heal and move on. And a thank you for sharing her message.

  • @nayahdoris8472
    @nayahdoris8472 Жыл бұрын

    Maria is such a great host.. Courage bb

  • @mowaotun23
    @mowaotun23 Жыл бұрын

    Ohh well done !!!! I'm in Love with this show ❤ its so educative and enlightening

  • @zainaboyebamiji5913
    @zainaboyebamiji5913 Жыл бұрын

    So amazing Like seriously I'm impressed

  • @ibrahimoluwakemi1484
    @ibrahimoluwakemi1484 Жыл бұрын

    Some fools would still not believe her, they'd say "it's a one sided story"

  • @asmaumuhammad-im6og
    @asmaumuhammad-im6og Жыл бұрын

    Tears are just rolling down my chick, may Allah comfort you 😢

  • @Aisha-ub6oc
    @Aisha-ub6oc Жыл бұрын

    I hope you can get a job so that you can get your kids out of that polygamous home. May you have the resources to care for them. He is such an evil man. I love that you have the courage to fight this battle. You have a right to divorce as a Muslim woman. Well done Ramat, God is with you.

  • @ramatumuhammad-ye8vt

    @ramatumuhammad-ye8vt

    Жыл бұрын

    Ameen.thank you

  • @chinonye283
    @chinonye283 Жыл бұрын

    Well-done maria

  • @user-eg4pn6pb4j
    @user-eg4pn6pb4j Жыл бұрын

    You are a strong woman ma,God bless you

  • @ramatumuhammad-ye8vt

    @ramatumuhammad-ye8vt

    Жыл бұрын

    Ameen.thank you

  • @uzohokelechi4910
    @uzohokelechi4910 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful Lady

  • @owunaribob-manuel6697
    @owunaribob-manuel669711 ай бұрын

    She's so pretty with beautiful eyes

  • @NaigaMariam2015
    @NaigaMariam2015 Жыл бұрын

    Well done Ria

  • @__emsu
    @__emsu Жыл бұрын

    Muslim women need to know their islamic rights before marriage honestly😢 this is so sad…Maria is doing good ,i hope she finds all the help she deserves and i hope he does not use the kids against her to pin her down

  • @Aakhifahlifestyle

    @Aakhifahlifestyle

    Жыл бұрын

    Hopefully……

  • @ramatumuhammad-ye8vt

    @ramatumuhammad-ye8vt

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @ramatumuhammad-ye8vt

    @ramatumuhammad-ye8vt

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm no longer with him.Thank you

  • @JessicaNekky-tr2vd
    @JessicaNekky-tr2vd Жыл бұрын

    Well done Maria ❤👏👏👏

  • @mrjared158
    @mrjared158 Жыл бұрын

    But wait we in naija delta where made to believe that Muslims take good care of their wife's am chock about this God strengthen you

  • @hadizamohammedaliyu6002

    @hadizamohammedaliyu6002

    Жыл бұрын

    Good and bad poeple everywhere!

  • @ibrahimolamilekan604
    @ibrahimolamilekan604 Жыл бұрын

    Lol , Islam permits u to marry more than 1 wife on the condition that u can love and treat them equally (which isn’t possible ) , so basically u should marry just 1 . But these men that claims they know the Quran so well , would use it stupidly to their favor 🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️. They’re just out there disgracing men

  • @CatherineMoriella
    @CatherineMoriella11 ай бұрын

    My marriage of 8yrs is about to crash. I am so much depressed right now and wish I never used the money I and my husband have been saving to buy our first family home. I used the money to trade in the market and everything is gone. Now he wants to divorce me. I love my husband sO much and I don't want him to leave me.I feel like killing myself right noW

  • @VictoriaIsaac-wl8ht
    @VictoriaIsaac-wl8ht Жыл бұрын

    👏👏👏👏

  • @judithjohnson13
    @judithjohnson13 Жыл бұрын

    Oh Dear Ramatu...Be strong.

  • @ramatumuhammad-ye8vt

    @ramatumuhammad-ye8vt

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you dear

  • @munirathussainiabubakar9258
    @munirathussainiabubakar9258 Жыл бұрын

    May Allah perfect all that concerns you my darling ❤stay strong

  • @Mraleeyu00
    @Mraleeyu00 Жыл бұрын

    Allah y xama gatanki mamma❤❤❤

  • @zainy_pearls7035
    @zainy_pearls7035 Жыл бұрын

    🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @kuraaseeya4937
    @kuraaseeya4937 Жыл бұрын

    Pls how can I get interviewed? I have so many things to say, my heart is heavy

  • @nafisatuumar7535

    @nafisatuumar7535

    Жыл бұрын

    Chei😢

  • @user-cy6sx2yr9v

    @user-cy6sx2yr9v

    Жыл бұрын

    Omo sorry 😢

  • @finiteconsult6181
    @finiteconsult6181 Жыл бұрын

    Quite sad Ramat. May Allah heal you

  • @comfortebiereozagha360
    @comfortebiereozagha360 Жыл бұрын

    Nawa o... No money no money e dey marry dey go

  • @ijeomaayomide9450
    @ijeomaayomide9450 Жыл бұрын

    Imagine this men cheating freely and been stupid all in the name of my religion allows so…how do u intend to love 4 women equally

  • @pameliasirleaf2185
    @pameliasirleaf2185 Жыл бұрын

    This is so sad

  • @ifennaoruche4264
    @ifennaoruche4264 Жыл бұрын

    🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🥺🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @saudatuibrahimtahir6640
    @saudatuibrahimtahir6640 Жыл бұрын

    Innalillahi Sorry Anty Rahma

  • @ibrahimoluwakemi1484
    @ibrahimoluwakemi1484 Жыл бұрын

    He's an animal,and that's on periodt

  • @anneyrolake9219
    @anneyrolake9219 Жыл бұрын

    Nigeria’S legal system is a failed one 😢

  • @comfortebiereozagha360
    @comfortebiereozagha360 Жыл бұрын

    This country is just f up... Which one be superior officer again, no one is above the law mehn

  • @Okeosisi1
    @Okeosisi1 Жыл бұрын

    Mariaaaa 👏👏👏❤

  • @mutonikalisa9239
    @mutonikalisa9239 Жыл бұрын

    I hate how ppl say “they are muslim”,and that it’s a acceptable 😒 First of all he needs to get the consent from the first wife,he can’t marry another wife without the wife’s knowledge,secondly if he can’t treat the two of them equally,can’t provide and protect then he has no right whatsoever to marry another one. May Allah make it easier for this sister thoo. Muslim women needs to know their rights before marriage

  • @ramatumuhammad-ye8vt

    @ramatumuhammad-ye8vt

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @aaleeyahwc5664

    @aaleeyahwc5664

    Жыл бұрын

    Like do you get, I hear that all the time! There are conditions attached to the marriages, and it is forbidden for one who can’t fulfill them

  • @Chiso2019
    @Chiso2019 Жыл бұрын

    I can't left my children in the hands of that monster regardless what...your kids are suffering there

  • @fatimabello8110

    @fatimabello8110

    Жыл бұрын

    I know it’s hard but sometimes it better to leave and set yourself up before going to get them.Should she go back home with kids that she can’t take care of.The misery she will face will b worst than what she faced in her husband’s house especially if her parent’s house is also polygamous

  • @ginaokeke9649

    @ginaokeke9649

    Жыл бұрын

    You can’t stay die fight .leave to re-enforce

  • @estomempire
    @estomempire Жыл бұрын

    Police na your mate for where bully dey

  • @agihmargaret1676
    @agihmargaret1676 Жыл бұрын

    Too short

  • @Modupe2009
    @Modupe2009 Жыл бұрын

    All these our parents, what if if she kill her. God will judge

  • @sylviasmith4559
    @sylviasmith4559 Жыл бұрын

    2023 violence continues

  • @steveveron251
    @steveveron251 Жыл бұрын

    Maria please try and be keeping quiet and allow your guests speak. This your constant interjecting can be annoying and tiring please.

  • @hannahquansah1468

    @hannahquansah1468

    Жыл бұрын

    She will get better ❤! It’s her first hosting show

  • @udehchika964

    @udehchika964

    Жыл бұрын

    You should know that people are different, some are good in telling stories while others are not. Watch very well, you will notice that without Maria's questions she doesn't know what else to talk about. Maria is helping her with the questions to know what to say, she is not like Mr David and others that are bold in telling their stories. So watch with understanding, love you Maria ♥️♥️💯

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