Surviving a Wild One Year Old

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Tips to Help 1-Year-Old Behavior, Discipline, and Development: This is a video about tips and tricks to help you survive the wild 1-year-old stage. We go over some things that help one-year-old behavior, discipline, and development. We also talk about ways to keep perspective while trying to wrangle an active little one. Thanks for watching!
TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Surviving a Wild One Year Old
01:24 Establish Routines
01:46 Sleep Train Your Baby
03:30 Establish a Healthy Diet
04:38 Please, Thank You, and Sorry
07:53 Technique #1: Channel the Energy
09:31 Technique #2: Offer Choice
10:32 Technique #3: Positive Reinforcement
11:32 Perspective #1: Activity is Good
12:07 Perspective #2: Point of View
13:00 Perspective #3: Model the Behavior
13:30 Embrace the Chaos!
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  • @msvalereful
    @msvalereful Жыл бұрын

    I was having a hard day with my one year old this video made me smile and learn that I’m not the only one with a wild one. Thank you !! I will embrace the chaos lol

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    Жыл бұрын

    Haha. You are not alone! I hope you have a great day.

  • @mamasarah8018
    @mamasarah80183 жыл бұрын

    Wow thank you for sharing! Soooo glad I found your channel. Looking forward to the sleep training vlog. :) my little guy is 14 months old and cannot sleep on his own yet. :)

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    3 жыл бұрын

    We are so glad you found our Channel too! Thanks for watching. Sleep training is a game changer. Everyone is happier when they get good sleep. Video coming!

  • @eveleenchan588
    @eveleenchan5883 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for all the tips. I need to hear this coz I'm going crazy with my own 19mth old. "embrace the chaos"

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    3 жыл бұрын

    You got this! Thanks Eveleen!

  • @richellebuehner1154
    @richellebuehner11543 жыл бұрын

    We LOVE Isaac!!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @Angela-rp8ib
    @Angela-rp8ib Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, so excited I’ve found you

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    Жыл бұрын

    Welcome! I hope you found something helpful.

  • @indiat.7242
    @indiat.72422 жыл бұрын

    Omg I thought I did something wrong lol I’m so thankful I found your videos! My baby has no signs of autism so I was getting frustrated when that was the only thing I was finding! This was soooo HELPFUL! 😩💙💙 (Just to clarify I was not meaning that parents with children on the spectrum did anything wrong that was just the only thing coming up until I found this video I meant zero disrespect to any of you amazing parents or your children)

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    2 жыл бұрын

    Glad you could relate to the video. Being 1 is a fun stage of life but a crazy one for sure.

  • @rosestewart1697
    @rosestewart16973 жыл бұрын

    Great video!

  • @bigguys45s29
    @bigguys45s293 жыл бұрын

    Great tips! Nice video as always. “He’s a real wild child.”- Iggy Pop

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    3 жыл бұрын

    That is really funny! Thank @Big Guy’s 45’s!

  • @hamidacherqaoui6257
    @hamidacherqaoui62573 жыл бұрын

    So helpful thank you 😊

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very kind of you. Thank you Hamida!

  • @sarahmay4861
    @sarahmay4861 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video! My boy is a lot to handle and this helps. Did you happen to post that sleep training video? I can’t find it

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    Жыл бұрын

    Not yet.

  • @MizzTuss
    @MizzTuss Жыл бұрын

    Love this. 🤣 Informative and refreshing. Thanks

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @betterwithbri9215
    @betterwithbri92159 ай бұрын

    This video was extremely helpful!

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    9 ай бұрын

    Glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching.

  • @anadelcastillo7101
    @anadelcastillo7101 Жыл бұрын

    Wow amazing !!

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks!!

  • @anthonyjames2345
    @anthonyjames23456 ай бұрын

    Really great video! What sleep training technique did you use?

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    5 ай бұрын

    Babywise

  • @ThivsLife
    @ThivsLife2 жыл бұрын

    Very Important video. thank you so much and you have a very smart baby boy...

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! We think he is a genius. 😉

  • @rebeccas7366
    @rebeccas73663 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much for this video. Looking forward to your sleep training video, my one year old son isn't able to self soothe and wakes up at least a couple of times a night and I have to hold him until he falls back asleep 😬

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for watching Rebecca. In the sleep training video I will go over how to help your baby self sooth and put themselves to sleep. Be sure to check back- video coming soon!

  • @rebeccas7366

    @rebeccas7366

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ActivelyFamily Thank you ❤️

  • @msmerike6739

    @msmerike6739

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ActivelyFamily Also looking forward! I would like my 7 month old to be as happy, when going to sleep :)

  • @ivanagrbesa8592
    @ivanagrbesa85923 жыл бұрын

    Could you please make a video about sleep training. Thank you so much!

  • @RedJMac51
    @RedJMac51 Жыл бұрын

    Love him !!!!!!!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @achatwithdaron
    @achatwithdaron3 жыл бұрын

    I really love your videos. I am definitely going to share with my wife and extended family, so they can practice some of these really helpful tips. Our 16 months old son is slapping when he doesn't gets his way or throwing things away such as his binky. What can we do to correct this? We do not hit our child, so we are uncertain of how this came about. -Daron (Jamaica)

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi Daron! Thank you for watching and for sharing. We feel your pain -- our little guy did the same thing. Kids this age don't always have the words to express what they want and they don't understand reason. I wish there was a quick-fix solution, but our experience has been that it takes time and consistent teaching. For our little guy, we use a time-out method. When he does an undesirable behavior, we put him in time out, explain in simple terms why the behavior is wrong (i.e., "it is not nice to hit"), have him say sorry, and then have him do something to make amends (e.g., have him pick up the binky or give a hug to the person he hit). Hope this helps. All the best!

  • @jubuschmann
    @jubuschmann2 жыл бұрын

    Great vídeo! Did you have the chance of doing the sleep training one?

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes. It’s coming. 😁

  • @HarshSethia
    @HarshSethia3 жыл бұрын

    You are so amazing! KUDOS!!

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much!!

  • @FamiliaHorota
    @FamiliaHorota3 жыл бұрын

    I used a few tips when our arthur was little... now I need to rewatch to prepare for the next one that may come this year😂

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    3 жыл бұрын

    Fingers crossed for you!

  • @HappyDayWorld
    @HappyDayWorld4 ай бұрын

    I'm watching the beginning of this with 1 year old twin boys just laughing because man........i need this😂😂😂😂

  • @Rubri.C
    @Rubri.C Жыл бұрын

    I do this often with my daughter she is three and she can do so many things

  • @siddhantghatge4769
    @siddhantghatge47693 жыл бұрын

    Love the perspective part. My 14 month drives us absolutely nuts. Now I know that's cuz she must be very intelligent 😃 BTW, how old was Isaac when you filmed this?

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    3 жыл бұрын

    When we filmed this video we had just “survived” the wild 1 year old phase. In the intro scene with he & I he had just turned 2. Most clips in this video were filmed when he was 12-18 months old. Thanks for your comment.

  • @donnadonaii3001

    @donnadonaii3001

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ActivelyFamily really need help with getting baby to eat solids. He is 14 months now a d still eats purees...any videos to help?

  • @az-zahraagomaa6006
    @az-zahraagomaa60063 жыл бұрын

    Sleep training please? Thank you from Egypt ❤️

  • @amanfatima9807
    @amanfatima98073 жыл бұрын

    my baby is one year old and still not able to stand. can you please make a video to help us.

  • @nissiadelusi
    @nissiadelusi Жыл бұрын

    Introduce routines 1. Sleep train your baby 2. Establish a healthy diet 3. Baby sign language -Please -Thank you -Sorry 4. Teaching Technique -Turn my baby into my helper -Offer choice -Positive reinforcement 5. Keep things in perspective -Seeing things from babies point of view -Model the appropriate behavior

  • @nissiadelusi

    @nissiadelusi

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video! I'm coming back with my testimony

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @smrutirekhasahoo2677
    @smrutirekhasahoo26772 жыл бұрын

    Pls Post a video, how I teach them all of these activity

  • @minimalishhh
    @minimalishhh Жыл бұрын

    hey! did you end up finishing the sleep training video?

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi. Thanks for remembering. It’s coming, I promise.

  • @ivymama3500
    @ivymama35002 жыл бұрын

    For offering choice, what if my son and daughter has the opposite decisions. How should i make them to go for the same way?

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    2 жыл бұрын

    That makes it tricky. The key with choice is making sure that the 2 choices offered are both acceptable and reasonable to you.

  • @rashabnayyat8970
    @rashabnayyat89702 жыл бұрын

    Hello, Thank you very much for this Video.my little one is 17 Months now. He learns very quickly and plays happily by himself. But my question is,he does not play with his toys and i can not let him sit to build a tower calmly for exampel, nevertheless i showed him many times how to make it wenn he was younger but he is not intressted of his toys.instead of it he takes a piece of the toy and run happily at home.Is it a problem?did i make something worng ?i hope you would ansewer my question. Thank you 🌸

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi. You don’t need to be worried that your wok doesn’t play with his toys as they were intended. The fact that he plays by himself and is happily playing with whatever he finds is wonderful. At this stage, children’s play is very exploratory. You are doing great.

  • @rashabnayyat8970

    @rashabnayyat8970

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ActivelyFamily thank you very much for the quick answer. I appreciate it🌸

  • @tammyrena1214
    @tammyrena12148 ай бұрын

    Are you still gonna do a sleep training video?

  • @creationsbykaf3221
    @creationsbykaf32212 жыл бұрын

    My baby is about to be one.. But he is not able to do any of the things you showed around the house he just makes a mess out of everything. I dont know what to do.. Its difficult.. I feel like i am a horrible mother

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi Kainat. Your baby is extremely lucky to have you as his mom. Please take note that when we filmed this video our guy was 1 year old but he was definitely over 12 months. And us making a video of his craziness was our way of getting through a difficult stage in his development.

  • @shahinabeegum.s.k242
    @shahinabeegum.s.k2422 жыл бұрын

    My baby is 13 years old showing very high level seperation anxiety. How to get rid of it and how u sleep trained your baby. Pls explain

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    2 жыл бұрын

    Separation anxiety is hard. It is a part of every baby’s development. To help with the separation, I made an effort to give my baby to multiple people to hold. Give your baby to grandparents, friends, spouse, etc. to be held. You can stay near if that helps or even leave the room for short periods of time. Sometimes it helps to distract your baby with a toy or activity while you slip away. But eventually time is what solves the separation issue and your baby will get more comfortable seeing you leave and come back.

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    2 жыл бұрын

    For sleep training I used the Babywise method. I am making a video on this very topic. Stay tuned. 😀

  • @jenniglamyall
    @jenniglamyall3 жыл бұрын

    my 19 month old is the cutest little terror, he terrorizes our dogs i am trying to teach him to be gentle.

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi @Zen. We completely understand. You should see how Isaac can make his older sisters scatter. As far as teaching your son to be gentle around pets...one thing we did is bought a board book about dogs that had soft fur (fake fur) in its illustrations so that we could help our daughter practice “petting” gently.

  • @peacefulmind7385
    @peacefulmind73852 жыл бұрын

    Is he 12 months?

  • @Lizzifer7
    @Lizzifer72 жыл бұрын

    With a sleep routine my baby knows I'm about to put her to bed and can throw a tantrum appropriately in response

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    2 жыл бұрын

    Smart baby. 😂

  • @creationsbykaf3221
    @creationsbykaf32212 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for making this videos.. now i know i am not alone.. i thought something was wrong with my baby

  • @chrispleasantable
    @chrispleasantable Жыл бұрын

    When I saw this, I was thinking “just you wait until Isaac gets into the terrible twos stage”

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    Жыл бұрын

    Good thing he is getting older- definitely not as crazy.

  • @chrispleasantable

    @chrispleasantable

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ActivelyFamilySo you survived the terrible twos and then the threenager stage. Now you’re currently wrapping up the fournado stage

  • @redrose2905
    @redrose29053 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful yes you are plz leave everything else and tell me how you are so slim after having 5 kids I put on so much weight after my 4rth baby 🙈

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are too kind.

  • @TinZarWinHtut
    @TinZarWinHtut Жыл бұрын

    How to train to sleep baby themself.

  • @fashionfub6992
    @fashionfub69923 жыл бұрын

    Please speak slowly...we Indians also follow u....so that we should also learn from u❤️❤️...love from india 🙏🏽

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for watching. Yes I need to slow down my speech. Always been a fast talker.

  • @jenflores4123

    @jenflores4123

    3 жыл бұрын

    You can change your playback speed to 0.75, 0.5 or 0.25 to make it slower if you want.

  • @TheLydiaCrow
    @TheLydiaCrow Жыл бұрын

    😅 cant say a wild one in my fam. We are ALL artistic 💛 our dogs get the best of the creativity 😊

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the comment.

  • @remotenetwork5034
    @remotenetwork50343 жыл бұрын

    I love that you keep this little monster in the closet 😂

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    3 жыл бұрын

    That is really funny. Whoever said monsters don’t live in closets has never been to our house! Thanks for giving us a laugh!

  • @letssee2384
    @letssee2384 Жыл бұрын

    My 13 month old is wildest 😢

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    Жыл бұрын

    I can only imagine. I hope you record the craziness because they will only be little for so long.

  • @letssee2384

    @letssee2384

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ActivelyFamily ofcourse. I record his all the moments 😉

  • @onuryilmaz1822
    @onuryilmaz18223 ай бұрын

    shes giving mad suggestions... cant believe i just wasted 14 minutes

  • @tsionmeskelu2163
    @tsionmeskelu21633 жыл бұрын

    IS your child only 1 yr old?

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi Tsion. We filmed this just after we "survived" our little guy being a 1 year old. So he just turned 2 when he is sitting with me in the intro. Most of the clips in the video are of him between 12 months and 18 months. Good luck with your wild one year old!

  • @creationsbykaf3221
    @creationsbykaf32212 жыл бұрын

    He is not walking or even talking yet

  • @armilynpundan5843
    @armilynpundan58432 жыл бұрын

    How can my baby help when she's always putting all in her mouth😭

  • @mrmagdypool3184
    @mrmagdypool31843 жыл бұрын

    The 3 Day Potty Training Buy

  • @JC-ik4zb
    @JC-ik4zb Жыл бұрын

    frankly speaking, your house is too big, especially your kitchen.

  • @ActivelyFamily

    @ActivelyFamily

    Жыл бұрын

    We use that room the most for sure.

  • @JC-ik4zb

    @JC-ik4zb

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ActivelyFamily super rich, lol.

  • @DarlingMissDarling

    @DarlingMissDarling

    Жыл бұрын

    Uh, it's definitely not an uncommonly large kitchen (or house for that matter) for a suburban home of a large family. But _frankly speaking_ , I must say it's impressive how you were able to communicate just how pitifully desperate for attention you are in so few words by saying that weird shit to a complete stranger, though. Congratulations, I guess? Lol God damn, some of ya'll just can't help but show off that you've got absolutely no home training.

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