SUCKS TO BE A TALL GIRL IN CHINA💔😭 | TOO TALL FOR BOYS?
In this video I hang out with a bunch of 13/14 year old kids and ended up having a very important conversation about height and being “too tall” as a girl. It really touched me because I am tall as well and sometimes people try to rub their insecurity on you, saying different things.
Please watch this video and let me know your thoughts. ❤️❤️
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You handled it well Uche. You reassured her - I'm sure she felt better about herself afterwards.
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
I hope she believed and remembers always 🥹❤️
@EagleEyeReporters
6 ай бұрын
One Ibo man wants you !
For those who are bothered by their height, it gets better. When you're younger, all the attention, and sometimes negative comments will get to you, but as you get older you realise a lot of that negativity was envy.
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
Indeed. Short or tall at the end of the day self love and self confidence helps us accept and love ourselves wholly and fully.
Hello Uche, I am an African-American living in the good old USA. I just wanted you to know that I absolutely love your vlogs, your energy and your phenomenal personality! Keep up the good work and stay well, keep safe and as always, be blessed! ❤♥🙏🙏
Uche...thank you for being a Nigeria ambassador. You spread the cultures, musical and traditions. Well done
You look very beautiful, Uche.
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
You did well in speaking to the young girl. I'm a short person, 5'2" and I used to want to be taller in High School and after I left High School. However, I "grew" 😊 to love my height as is. If I can't reach something, I will ask for help or use a step stool! 😂
Being Tall is a blessing😍 Am very Tall 6"4 feet... I get laughed at alot of times but I don't care.. as long as am cool wit myself.
@RoseHunt-li7df
Ай бұрын
What's wrong for a girl to be tall? Just inform the guy, that she is a mountain and he is a mountain climber and oh what a climb.
It's funny how they just brought out their phones to Google Nigeria😂. At least they learned something.
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
Yes 😂 so proactive!!
Such a delightful video. I really really like your personality and the way you interacting with Chinese students. Southern China is so green and beautiful.
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
Indeed it’s my favorite part of china 😁😁
Uche that was very good of you to encourage that young girl. The rigours of schooling in the Far East are at another level and is impacting their society positively. You also did nicely at the dance session. Uche China should be paying you for nicely packaging their country o! Nice content 👍👍👍
@ucheobuekwe
6 ай бұрын
Glad I was able to say some positive words to her. I just hope she remembers and believes it. 🥹
Uche! Love your content. Those conversations were priceless. You were a great big sister to those kids for the day. I am barely 5'7", but I look taller. I love being tall and even do stretches to keep my height at its maximum.
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
I’m really so happy I was able to be a big sis to them, because at this age they need alot of encouragement and words of affirmation. 🥹 5’7? I love tall girls 😉
@broyale7
7 ай бұрын
@@ucheobuekwe 😍
Miss Uche. You are such a wonderful example of a beautiful young woman (Lady).You are delightful.
Well done. You're doing a great job. Yes, indeed, culture differs.
I'm 5 foot 8, but when I walk in the street I always feel like the tallest person in the street, unless someone points out that I'm not. I don't know why that is. Perhaps I'm a bit crazy :))) Fantastic stuff. Peace and love
When you are a tall lady folks would try to project their envy and insecurities onto you. Just stand in your height
Nigerian 🇳🇬 ladie who speaks mandarin very well like this. Congratulations. Good video and thank you for sharing 😁 👍🏽
My Uche, i love all the interviews.i just love what you are doing with these kids... wish you the best and do not stop giving us the wonders of China.
The Brother from Sierra Leone is „Carlton“ from „Fresh Prince of Bel-Air“ 😂😂😂
These middle schoolers were so cute, so joyful and respectful
Hi my people! Happy Sunday! ❤️ This was a very special video to me. 🥲🥹 Please watch to understand why and let me know your thoughts about your height and height differences in the comments. 👌
@NwadikeChinenyeGold
7 ай бұрын
I love you so much, please post regularly. Thanks
@femiome
4 ай бұрын
Hi Uche! What version of Ayra Star's Sability beat did you use for your KZread video. It's very dope 👌🏾
Sooooo true!!! Children are too much on social media.
This is a beautiful dialogue between Chinese kids and you as an African. We need more dialogue like this in the world because they’re a good people there in China and lots of good people in Africa as well. We have to stop this negative stigma of people all over the world.
You were so lovely to the 13 year old. Yes it is good to be tall.
I just came across your content today and I must say I am already in love. ❤. Keep up the good work this a guy from your sister country Ghana 🇬🇭
_Uche!_ We as humans are diverse. No one should be ashamed of their heights because short & tall have both similar _and_ different abilities. When I was in middle school, I was pretty average! Focus on school, videogames at home and sometimes bowling leagues on the weekend. In elementary 6th grade, though, I actually mentored a few 1st graders. Keep it up, you're such a positive role model for these kids. Greetings from Seattle, WA, US 🙂 PS: what city do you live? Are there good vegetarian & vegan options for eating there?
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! I appreciate your insight 😁😁 I live in Guiyang, Guizhou and yes I believe they’re good options for vegetarians here as vegetables are a huge part of Chinese dishes
@Daren_PNW
7 ай бұрын
@@ucheobuekwe Good to hear! Other parts of China are full of controversies these days so your content is a bright spot :)
@mpumemtebeni979
6 ай бұрын
Chinese put a lot of pressure on their kids😮
@fatimalobi6382
6 ай бұрын
True, one's height should not be a big deal. I used to tease my son about his height when he wanted me to to fetch him bread from a higher shelf. When he became a teenager, I became the shorter one 😊. Love my God given height.
Missed u for awhile. Tq for coming back. As always i enjoy your video very much. M abit short but its ok -5' 2" . The average height of Malaysian girls now adays is about 5' 5 " or so. If u can remember m going 70 next yr so i just hope i won't shrink. 😢😢😢 Hope after u finish yr studied , you'll go home n takeup politics some day. I can feel u are very passionate in communicating with people. Every country needs intelligent leaders who cares n are giving.
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
Oh wow you’ll be 70 years next year? That’s amazing. Thank God for your health and live. And yes I do love communication and good conversation😁❤️
I'm tall and l like it.😊 I still keep in touch with my friends of over 3decades. ❤❤ Keep doing what you do!❤❤❤
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
Tall and loving it? Yes that’s what we need to preach!!! 💃🏽 Happy to hear you still keep in touch with your friends, good friendships are very crucial to our quality of life. ❤️
Your energy and videos are amazing, keep making more. It is always fun to watch your videos after a long day
Well done Uche, you did a wonderful content in this video and of course in all your videos so far, keep it up tall and naturally beautiful lady ! The sky is your stepping stone !! I think the best part of this video was where you encourage that tall girl that she is tall and beautiful, I bet you she will never forget you, those words of encouragement and that moment !!! More grease to your elbows 💯💪👍👏
yes keep meeting more young people and teach them more how to love Nigeria and the world.
I had the same experience when I was younger and your right to be tall it's a beautiful thing...well done ❤
Tall ladies have the best legs and melanin makes women look younger longer. You can find beauty everywhere!
You have done well Uche!
Another great video...💜
The way you speak Chinese is so interesting I love it, and I love you Uche, P.S she needs to meet your big sister anyways
Great job my sister 👏
***In USA, they already have instagram and Facebook while still in the womb.
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
Haha
Not all teapots are the same, depends on the material used. This looks like premium quality. Enjoy your tea. Yum cha.
She is definitely going to be a spec... it's rare to find tall Asian girls. Nonetheless, everyone should be confident in their inage. I was in SSS at 13, still in contact with some people.
@baiyun7810
6 ай бұрын
你可能忘了这些孩子是初中生,13岁左右,高中生都很高1.7cm以上的女孩很多。还有一点,这是中国身高最低的省份之一属于南方,北方的中国年轻人在亚洲最高。北方19-22岁男生平均身高178cm,女生平均身高167cm。你在北京或者东北的学校很容易看到170cm或者175以上的女孩。这个处于发展中国家,包括身高也在增长,相对于发达国家日本。中国的篮球运动员和模特也很多来自于北方。
@SAMUELBELA
6 ай бұрын
@baiyun7810 such an interesting thing to know
I wish those children get to enjoy their childhood omg coz it comes once in life
Embrace and love yourself. We are not designed to be other people.
Teach them, our daughter!👏🏽
You are doing very well baby girl. Keep it up.
@ucheobuekwe
16 күн бұрын
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I'm 5'7, I'm not considering myself as tall, I'd just say taller than a lot of women. I'd say it's my thinness that have been a issue, I guess that's a cultural thing. I have a question, do living abroad changed a bit your personality or were you always this outgoing and confident?
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
I’m slim as well. I was even slimmer in high school and university days.. people would tell me to eat more because I looked “sick” 😡 To answer your question, being abroad didn’t change my personality 😂 this is how I’ve always been. I’m a bit extroverted and typically a very energetic and excited person 😂
Keep on keeping on
Love your videos. ❤
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
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Growing up, I didnt really like my height cos of the bullying and name calling. But now........... baby girl things. Love love it. Funny when people especially kids see me and then look at my feet to see the heels I have and then they see none. 😂 shocked faces
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
Yes the name calling can really be annoying 😫 it’s even worse in China😭. So happy you love your height now ❤️💃🏽💃🏽 Tall people rock 🥳🥳
You are so awesome.
Uche, I’m 5’10” and even taller with heels 👠 and I absolutely love it! 🥰
Most man are looking for a tall lady because they believe they will also have tall children 🤷🏾♂️it not a bad thing
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
Hmm I don’t know about “most men” oh. Some men can’t handle being with a woman taller than them. They feel insecure 😩
@SAMUELBELA
7 ай бұрын
@@ucheobuekweI'm just seeing and hearing this for the first time. It's crazy how people can never be satisfied
I kinda of feel like exposing them to tech helps them to become innovative on time. But you have to have a sort of control over them
😂😂😂😂 I love the way u said the heeeyyy when he said his country is the best tourist destination 😂. He never see anything sha. How Lesotho 🇱🇸 man wan whine naija babe. He no never hear am
One day i will come to china to look for you uche...i will ask you out 🙈❤
Here! Love you girl. Have fun!!!🎉❤
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
😁💃🏽
@Shawndie99
7 ай бұрын
@@ucheobuekwe I feel so bad that their school is soooo long.. 😢
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
@@Shawndie99 omg me too 🥲😭
Ladies shared me male friends felt insecure about their height in heels when going out. I’d say do you he should be happy having a lady Liberty. NYC ❤❤tall ladies I’m 6”1 n enjoy looking up the higher the better.
Nwanyi Awka, you're doing well. Ooin❤😂
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
Ayee Dalu so❤️
Love it when you post a video ❤❤
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
I love it when you watch 🥹❤️
i'm 6'4, very closing to 6'5. i wish i'm 6'7/6'8 at times
There is a young South African lady who got bitten by her boss in China . She is a teacher in China and they refused to pay her when she asked for her pay they locked her in the office and punched her face and took her belongings . I always wonder how safe is China when it comes to Africans .
@addictedtochocolateandcoff9582
7 ай бұрын
it is safer as student than working there
Amazing 💕💕💕 I was once worried about my height, too. But not anymore 😊😊
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
Interesting. Why were you worried? And what’s your height if you don’t mind 😁
I always say I want to be tall 😅 so it's good thing to be tall noting wrong with that
I love tall ladies ehh. Dating one has always been one of my biggest fantasies. I like unique features. Being average, like everybody else is boring.
Nne what are you doing their in China, do take care and be watchful
Mine was wake up by 6 am get to school by 7:30 the school morning Assembly finishes by 8am and classes commence by that same 8am unfailingly... So from 8am to 4pm then school is over except on sports days when we close by 3pm but on extension days we finish by 5:30 to 6pm then those in hostel have night class lesson teachers coming to the hostels so they go for that instead of the normal night prep you do on your own.
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
Wow! Sounds similar to mine! We would finish school by 2pm ish and then during extension, we would stay till 5/6pm 😁, were you a boarder?
@chinazomdominionstellaokaf2240
7 ай бұрын
@@ucheobuekwe yess ohh but I was an off and on border😆😆😆. I honestly wanna follow in your footsteps and come to China but omo, there is really not much exposure to China than there is for other European countries esp US Canada and UK
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
@@chinazomdominionstellaokaf2240 you’re right. The west is definitely more open compared to China, and the fact that you can become a citizen over there is a huge BONUS! You can consider china for a visit for short term stay though, the experience will be worth it.
You are so beautiful fan from Morocco 🇲🇦
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Good job sis I’m 1.93m and i was an attraction everytime when i was in china 😂😂😂
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
1.93m?? Ah! That must have been something
These young people are getting 5 hours of sleep time if that much!😢
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
😫😫 I was really saddened by the time frame they have to be in school and study
I am tall and I know what that kid is saying I also felt the same at some point I wished I was shorter 🤠
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
Oh shoot 😩😩 I’m sorry and I hope you’ve come to love and accept yourself now.❤️
6am to 6pm .that the china school systems and makes them perform greatly
这些孩子是初中生,13岁左右,高中生应该比较高。还有一点,这是中国身高相对较低省份之一,因为属于南方,北方的中国年轻人现在在亚洲最高。北方19-22岁男生平均身高178cm,女生平均身高167cm。跟俄罗斯等国家相似。你在北京或者东北的学校很容易看到170cm或者175以上的女孩。这个处于发展中国家,包括身高也在增长,相对于发达国家日本。中国的篮球运动员和模特也很多来自于北方。
I don't know why I teared up when those middle schoolers said they went to school from 6am-6pm, home by 11pm and in bed by 12am! 😢 I felt like their poor bodies and minds must be so stressed and tired 😫. Poor babies! I know the culture prizes education and that's great but surely some more balance can be brought in so they can rest, play and develop their social skills.
Just like the new Hallie Bailey song says …. Sun kissed skin and blessed like a Angel 💡.
Chinese school systems are 6am to 6pm . for 6 days.they are in bordering school
I wear heels and I was 5ft8 by the time I was was 12 I'm now 6ft only flats I wear are sneakers and flip flops ..
***The tea pot looks like something made for "Aki and Paupau"...Lol.
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
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I love tall women, im 5"9
I got my first phone at 7, i grew up with older people so I was a bit smarter than my peers.. my lil bro around 6 knows everyone password we still don't know how
One way to avoid ww3 is for ppl to get to know ppl from other countries. When ppl make friends the whole world would be better. Lol I am tall and beautiful. Ppl normally have low esteem are short ppl. The slogan should go iam short and I am beautiful
The guy is blue is a vibes
I'm tall, 6'1 and very fine with my height. Absolutely love it, I'm just learning to have better carriage and posture.
@ucheobuekwe
6 ай бұрын
6’1? Wow girl. Do you model?
@azalor3223
6 ай бұрын
@@ucheobuekwe Nah, i ran from castings and audition then because of my size. I am not fat but not exactly skinny either, i felt i was fat model wise so i didn't bother.
Interesting video. Amazed at the hours they spend in school every day. 6am and one is at school? Sounds like punishment. In secondary school I'd still be sleeping then.
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
I was amazed but not surprised. Secondary school students in china are known to go through lots of rigorous learning hours..
@johnnyquest4287
7 ай бұрын
@@ucheobuekwe can't imagine spending all that time in school sha. Unssec was not a place to spend that much time biko.
Im tall and happy
Am more than happy with my height.
They know Egypt and south Africa?!
jeez, those kids are in school like it’s a full time job. if they go 5 days a week with one hour for lunch a day, that’s 55 hours a week. the average american work week is 40-50 hours !!! wow
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The dance😂
@ucheobuekwe
6 ай бұрын
😂😂
Back then no cell phone or social media. All we know was sport, Olympics especially football.. all we do in school was playing football 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
How did you learn to speak Chinese so fluently?
Education in Uganda hits differently 😂😂😂
Chinese women are tall too and so thin too
That's why they are successfully coz they dont get sleep as optional, africa likes to sleep
Uhhh now wait when you find out the test they hv to do to get to uni Man those kids go through a lot during their school life
That's why Chinese 15 year olds rank first in the world in PISA tests (science, mathematics and reading) conducted by UNICEF, ahead of all Western nations.
Chinese is not a language it’s mandarin and many parts of China speak different dialect.
@ucheobuekwe
6 ай бұрын
Chinese is a language. Mandarin is ALSO referred to as chinese. Google it ma/sir
That's the kind of school that would make me quit.
I heard Chinese children go to school to from Monday to Saturday is it true
@ucheobuekwe
7 ай бұрын
Hmm I don’t know but I have seen kids coming back from school during the weekend. Maybe for those who’re in exam class