This is definitely a culture shock for me being a very monogamous person and having been in a monogamous relationship for 8.5 years. It's funny to really analyse how and why it makes me feel uncomfortable to think about it... and then simultaneously feeling a lot of respect and love seeing you two being so free with your relationship to each other and being able to share that with other people. Maybe some day I will understand it. No matter what I feel nothing but love for you two.

@resilience4477

2 жыл бұрын

Awww that’s beautiful Theresa. It’s all about freedom for each person to evolve without the expectations of the status quo. It takes some work to let go and 99.99999% will stick to the script but there is something comforting about creating a new form of relating and I hope that we shed light on that creating process. How ever uncomfortable it can be for most. ❤️❤️

@SaltSandandSmoothies

2 жыл бұрын

Hey Theresa! Thank you so much for your comment and taking the time to watch / share your thoughts and feedback. We love hearing other people’s views and ideas. I love that you’re actually taking to the time to THINK / FEEL / BE AWARE of where the uncomfortable-ness comes from! That’s a big step ahead of most people, in my opinion. We’re so happy that you’re happy and in love in your 8.5 year relationship! That’s incredible! I hope we get to enjoy a happy and healthy 8 years together! And then many more, if it’s meant to be! Again, we appreciate you being here Theresa! 🤍

@ericfreshcorn3590

Жыл бұрын

If You Want To Spice Things Up I Am A Bull

@joemerlongcob9492

Жыл бұрын

@theresa Just try it who knows u like it too

@floresmusic2

10 ай бұрын

I completely understand what you mean by uncomfortable. I think part of it may simply be that you have that feeling because these behaviors aren’t actually healthy for a loving relationship. Why have any sex with strangers when you could have a meaningful sexual experience with someone that you love and who loves you back? These types of relationships are actually really depressing 0:04

She’s cute as a button. Lucky guy, the way she looks at you when you’re talking with the big, genuine smile.

A question: You said a close friend. But how do find someone that isn't. A stranger , someone new? How do you go about finding one

@jessicabertram7610

Жыл бұрын

Feeld. It’s legit.

@dominoplay3712

Жыл бұрын

in a club. at least for us in Berlin is actually really easy

@bunnbe7732

11 ай бұрын

online dating profile with you and your partner

@Sonicxis4ever

10 ай бұрын

@@jessicabertram7610I’ve used feeld for months and I’ve never met anyone on it! The dynamic is very different for couples vs single women vs single men (be it straight/gay/bi etc)

@1Whitetail

5 ай бұрын

We got on a couple of swinger sites, checked out a few that we may be interested in, like our wants and likes . Contacted him for a MFM wife's picking and she had the say on everything sex wise and what she wad comfortable with. Needless to say we had a good time. That was our first time.

I sense an incongruity. Amelia is clearly deeply in love with an exceptionally open mind for giving Matt the grace to explore his desires... Emphasizing “his” here because a lot of the unconventional relationship dynamics seem to be initiated by him- you both even express he’s the dominant one (though I do think Amelia does enjoy them). I wonder if Matt is more so happy that he found someone who will accept his ways. Just observing this difference. Men and women have different sexual needs which aren’t necessarily rooted in societal programming but are biological. Human evolution and natural selection imbued a sense of competition in women and fierce jealousy to compete for healthy men. I hope that you two are aware that jealousy or hurt feelings after sexual experiences with others isn’t a behavioral flaw that grew out of religion or societal brainwashing, but is part of the human experience written in genetic coding. Asking someone to rewire this fabric is a neurophysical challenge. Also, too much emphasis on being “different” or against the norm (ex: rejection of monogamy) might become your new idol/ a goal. There’s a subtle line between accepting what is v repainting the lived experience to give a veneer of uniqueness. True novelty isn’t contrived. After all, long term goal-setting is a relic of hierarchal western society you claim to avoid.

@SaltSandandSmoothies

2 жыл бұрын

Hi R Ramirez! What a great comment ! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and opinions here. It’s so interesting for me to read and consider. I appreciate you taking the time to watch the entire video and share how you feel. If you’re open to discussing it further, I’m so curious to know which differing biological needs / genetic coding you believe men and woman have? Thanks for having the discussion!

@Apbt-rv7zw

2 жыл бұрын

I think you underestimate Amelia's ability to choose as a conscious uninhibited female to make decisions openly and honestly. The genetic coding you speak of doesn't exist, in fact the need for a woman to choose several men ensures survival for the woman and her children. The ultimate act of love is to love your wife/husband/partner and realise that love begins and ends only where you as a couple agree to.

@kbanghart

Жыл бұрын

@@Apbt-rv7zw I agree, I find these comments very strange when people start going off about what women in general need in bed from other partners or men, etc, I don't buy that much at all.

I already left a comment here last week, but I really wanted to write another one. Because in the meanwhile I also got the opportunity to connect with my partner and another person in this special way and it was amazing. Before I couldn't believe that it was possible to feel so connected, so safe and so myself when there's a person involved I only met a few weeks ago. It was an amazing experience and I feel like there are more to come! :) Thank you for the video, now it feels like I just needed this tiny hint to actually connect to someone like this, and it was the best decision ever! :)

@SaltSandandSmoothies

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Katharina! wow! what a beautiful comment and thank you SO MUCH coming back to share your beautiful and EXCITING experience with your partner and another friend

@rajshavanpall8094

2 жыл бұрын

I'm interested

@ericfreshcorn3590

Жыл бұрын

I Am Interested I Am Dominate

@1Whitetail

5 ай бұрын

Hi just wondering if it was a mfm or ffm ? Our first 3som was a mfm and my wife loved it so much wanted another one soon. It was easier to find a mfm than a ffm but we figured it out. Good luck in the future.

Very brave of you to show your faces, and be so transparent. Subs +1

People who don’t get it just haven’t explored their own depths. Thank you for sharing and being bold about your story. I met Matt in 2016 in Bali when we were Airbnb’ing in the same hotel.. With the little we have interacted, Matt has always been so inclusive and love the journey he has been on. It’s so nice to see how the two of you interact. Most couples dream of having a line of communication like the two of you have. Keep putting up those videos and if we are ever in Bali would love to say hi!

@SaltSandandSmoothies

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Anirudh! What a beautiful comment. And thank you so much for your loving message and words of encouragement. I will make sure to relay this message to Matt incase he does not see it on his own. I too believe we are incredibly lucky to have the relationship and communication that we share. It’s not often I come across other “couples” who appear to be as open and truthful with one another as we are. I do think that’s special, even if it’s not the norm. Appreciate you for watching and sharing your thoughts Anirudh.

Life is short. Enjoy your life. Before you know it you will be too old for anything. Love you guys.

@tomfazio2965

11 ай бұрын

Repent

Very happy for them. Their smile says it all

Beautifully shared and communicated. Thanks for bridging the gap and speaking into what many are already doing just not talking about openly. Thanks

@ab-jc8nv

11 ай бұрын

Yes, it create diseases?

@1Whitetail

2 ай бұрын

We are a couple that swap and love to do 3soms. It's very exciting for both of us to be there watching and joining in knowing how much the other is being satisfied. Set your limits if any and do and feel what a lot of people dream of.

My favorite part is watching Amelia anticipate what Matts about to say 😂🤍 love yall

@resilience4477

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Clare! 💋 Sometimes I don’t even know what’s about to come out of my mouth. 👅

@clareforchrist

2 жыл бұрын

I also do have a question for either or both of you! Since you guys are engaged but also have mentioned the space to leave if it is not aligned or exciting anymore, why did you feel called to propose or be married? Just curious your feelings on this cause we all three know our worldviews are opposites haha 😂🤍 all love

@resilience4477

2 жыл бұрын

@@clareforchrist I won’t answer for Amelia 🙈, but I do believe in a union of sorts or marriage under our terms only, representing love, bearing witness to each other’s journeys without the aspects of any conditional contract formed, which of course, won’t be representative of religious dogma , nor societal. It will be a celebration of course and you gotta come too. 💕 We haven’t sent invites out yet though but we will let you know when we do.

@clareforchrist

2 жыл бұрын

@@resilience4477 beautiful. I am happy for you guys getting married. I’d be honored!! Any dates/ location yet?

@resilience4477

2 жыл бұрын

@@clareforchrist yep we have the location in Uluwatu. No confirmed date but sometime in September. We will keep you posted x

Beautiful energy in between the two of you! 😊

Thanks again guys for being open + authentic- much appreciated.

@resilience4477

2 жыл бұрын

Thankyou for watching once again Kelsey. 🙏🏼🌸

As someone seeking advice before my first 3-fest, I found this a bit helpful. While the Kangaroo might be a bit nonchalant, the roo offered alot of really useful advice. I hope yall are are both happy and healthy!

'Had three...two were good, one was kinda not-so-good. I was always the third person. You two seem cool...lucky is your guest. As you said, it could be really good with communication and chemistry. With any level of jealousy or poor performance by the other guy (husband, bf, whatever), I found it best to step back a bit (up to a point). Ironically, the better it got for me, the worse it seemed to get for him (particularly if he's not "performing" and is insecure). The good vibe became bad in minutes. Nothing can spoil a good time like resentment. ))

@Autonomous_Don

7 ай бұрын

Did you ever get std tested before doing one?

Nice couple. She is adorable, always smiling with happy energy and an open heart. I am single and love life everyday, always wake up smiling with energy for today's life adventure. You are spot on with your suggestions for just a sensual touching time together. I found those to sometimes be the best threesome. This often raises arousal and curiosity for even a more amazing interaction next time. I watched your other videos, you offer very good information and advice. keep up the good job.

@SaltSandandSmoothies

2 жыл бұрын

Hey John! Thank you so much for sharing this perspective. We’re so glad you resonate with some of the topics we discussed and are appreciative of you sharing what’s working for you in your alternative lifestyle too! :) 🤍 be well xo

Ugh i know this video is 2 years old but myself and my partner are considering exploring this. The problme is we are parents and kiand of scared that somthing like this will get to our kids . How can we go about this if we do decide to go forth with this?

@captainhighbury1806

Ай бұрын

Don't have anymore children. Also try to give your children for adoption. They will be much better off without parents like you.

@Alez_cortez

15 күн бұрын

Hit me up I went through the same thing

Great vid love your chemistry. Me and my wife actually never talked about a threesome it was never a thing for us. We have always veen very open to most stuff and always communicated. We were at a air bnb and in another country. We met a nice german guy who clicked with us well. And we ended up bringing him back to our room and having a few drinks and my wife wanted to call it a night and have some fun and maybe it was the drinks but i just said maybe this is a good moment to have a threesome lol. My wife was a little reluctant but she thinks similat to me and knew this could ve some fun . She set boundaries and only wanted to give him oral and i said deal. Then we had ro ask him which was kind of scary. But he was great and jumoed right in and respected our boundaries and we had an amazing nignt. We havent had any threesome since but it was a good experience and didn't hurt our relationship in fact made it better in many ways. 😊

@cindyayala8937

6 ай бұрын

I want to try but scared my relationship will mess up

@Matbiel

6 ай бұрын

@@cindyayala8937 Its always possible and that's the reality imo. But I do think finding someone who isn't to attached and maybe even in another area is better. We got lucky cause it was traveling we didn't exchange numbers or anything we will never see them again. But me and my wife communicated on it and knew we were both in on it and trusted each other. We set healthy boundaries. But the honest truth is it is impossible to truly control our significant others and if they develop feelings cheat run off we don't have a ton of control. I wasn't jealous I was happily giving doing my wife from behind while she gave our new friend oral it was a wild moment cause I knew what he was feeling and enjoying while I was enjoying what I was doing. My wife I believe felt the most awkward in the end. We didn't say we won't do it anymore but we haven't done it since that experience. But I comes down to you and what you are comfortable with and explain your feelings and worries and maybe it works out maybe it doesnt. I hope everything goes well.for ya!

So interesting and helpful! Realized my partner and I already took the first steps exactly in that order. I will keep that video in my mind for our future sexual experiences for sure. :) Great video! ✨

@resilience4477

2 жыл бұрын

Thankyou for watching Katherine. Stoked to see others expanding in creative ways too. We are all individually on such unique journeys. To share them positively with another is so beautiful and accepting.

@SaltSandandSmoothies

2 жыл бұрын

Hey Katharina! Awesome! Some of the best experiences of our lives (so far) have been spent enjoying + connecting with other people in new and exciting ways! Love that your “order” has happened to look like ours as well. It’s empowering and UPLIFTING to sit with yourself and get to know your TRUE self (and true desires, passions, purpose, etc.) rather than just copy and paste what so many around us are doing at all times. Good on you both! Keep us posted with how you two go - or if you have any other Qs along the way!

@katharinaberger9743

2 жыл бұрын

@@SaltSandandSmoothies Yes, I agree, it's so so important! I am really looking forward to all the future connections we are going to have! And I hope your channel grows and is able to inform and inspire others the same we you inspire me! Very stoked to be there from the beginning and to be able to grow with you! :)

@user-dh1rw2vv4k

5 ай бұрын

I have been in three sums

Most important is the Respect between the Couple and the 3th, could be friend or not

Even though it was mentioned in passing afterwords the first thing that should be discuss is what kind of threesome. MMF FMF, and all other combinations.

@ajdrums8075

Жыл бұрын

What other combinations are there for a threesome? Learn maths

This was a very interesting topic to learn more about! Thanks for sharing. Out of curiosity, when you have children and they are young (under 8 years old for example), do you plan to introduce them to other partners you both have or do you think you’ll only keep it exclusive to both of you? I think I’m most curious about how couples in open relationships make decisions when they have kids!

@resilience4477

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Mia thankyou for you question and watching the video. I can only talk from my own experiences. I think as an adult you will only let kind, compassionate, loving people into your life. I think we connect to many people, hoping to make life long friendships whether the connection is physical or not. So you become the gauge for who you allow your children to be exposed to, will these connections diversify your children in positive ways, will they learn from these people and so on. Of course, you wouldn’t explain the physical aspects of your connections to your children until they are at an age where they are completely competent in understanding sex and sexual connection. Children exposed to love and interaction in any form (non sexual of course) will develop appreciation and acceptance of love and varieties of love not just the abrasive monogamist one way street. Most children are exposed to argument’s within the family dynamic, it’s inevitable within monogamy because nobody is free. From my experience, children exposed to love and a non confrontation atmosphere environment blossom into beautiful adults versus children exposed to two parents at each other’s throats daily. So yes, expose your kids to many of your connections. If your kids turn out loving and caring and compassionate, you attracted the right sorts of people to influence. If your kids turned out to be assholes then it’s a great time for some self reflection, because ultimately our own gauge was off and we attracted a likeness. Like society is cruel. Full of expectation. Full of competitiveness. Religion places judgment on freedoms. So find people that are of a gentle nature. ✨🌸

Hi :) I would love to hear your feedback on how to maintain emotional boundaries. For example: when you chatted about inviting the third person back over for lunch or to communicate after the event. My partner and I have been talking about opening our sacred space for a sexual experience, but do not desire to prolong the emotional connection that may arise. How do you create that boundary, in love and kindness?

@1Whitetail

5 ай бұрын

My wife and I decided not to get into a relationship to often with the same person, keep some distance between them and us. Now we do have a couple of couples that we are close friends with now that we hot tub with and dinner but not always sexual.

We talked about a 15 years and we finally did it. She was 40 years old. It was amazing like you said it was messy. He was kissing Erin. I never touch myself exploded then our friend exploded and we left her hanging but we still talk about that night she 72 now, it was 30 years ago and it was tremendous that’s our story

@1Whitetail

2 ай бұрын

We are glad you had that experience, its very exciting to have a 3som for all involved, congrats

Weird. I'd never share my woman. What the hell.

@annavasadze8936

11 ай бұрын

Lol let them live their fucked up lives 😂😂😂😂 we aren't cool enough for them. If my man wanted another woman to add or me being f**ked by some guy, I would literally vomit on him. What else's left ? Animals ? 😂

@elenaolszewski871

7 ай бұрын

😅 its entertaining at least deff cult vibes for sure but yeah he cant be that into her in reality

@raytreherne26

6 ай бұрын

Don't knock it until you've tried it

@markreynolds4176

6 ай бұрын

@@elenaolszewski871monogamy is a cult if anything. Read Sex at Dawn.

@elenaolszewski871

6 ай бұрын

@@raytreherne26 lol ok just tried it i was wrong

Yeah, I can’t get the vibe that you didn’t think this through 2:24

The only way to know your partner is cheating, a good way to lose your partner, eventually they will cheat .

Hello i really like your video. I have always bin interested in this topic. But never have tryed i wish there was people like you both around . Thank you for sharing this video i have subscribed your channel and hello from Toronto Canada

I have loved every one of your videos and look forward to and wait for new ones! I love human stories and gaining perspective on lives that are so different than mine, especially when it is given with such insight, maturity and grace. Thank you for giving us a little view into your amazing lives, your both so beautiful in your openness and honesty.♥️

@resilience4477

2 жыл бұрын

Aww thankyou Alicia that’s a beautiful messages. We keep trying to push the limits of our beliefs.

I'm really tired here in Brazil it's never been very easy to get a relationship of affection and respect and they still put these values ​​into question. I like to date but beyond the great feminine demands. I already had a girlfriend who proposed menage, what? people lost track, how far it falls I don't know

Great video! Thanks for sharing. Could I ask where you purchased the beautiful artwork behind you? x

I couldn't imagine sharing my woman with anyone 💯

so your bored with each other ?

So was it MFM or FMF ? Have you done both ?

My late wife did it with it with two former boyfriends of hers. She always wanted to do it but she told me that the presence of her husband would prevent her to perform. She told me that she needed my full moral support to do it. She did it just once. She was delighted. She told me that it was a wonderful experience for a woman. She felt like a queen or a goddess being served by two men at the same time. What do you think of this Amelia and Matt?

@michaelmclean2363

2 жыл бұрын

HOT!!!

@gmicg

Жыл бұрын

@@michaelmclean2363 Thanks!

@rdvansk

Жыл бұрын

bro she just cheated on you with your permission damn if you are not added in than it is cheating for me bud

This was truly amazing. Let me ask something to you guys . What you prefer to do. MFM or FMF?

Thanks for sharing your experiences with us :) I'm going to binge watch all the other episodes now haha

@SaltSandandSmoothies

2 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed Sinja! We’re just here to share our personal experiences, with hope that it may help or comfort someone along their own journey - we’re ALL unique and individual. And should be celebrated as such!!

So pathetic. Such a weak bond. You smile sitting there. You couldn't be further apart...ew

This guide should be seen by more people

Great episode, really like your podcast! are you on audea?

@ab-jc8nv

11 ай бұрын

It is tried? And what will impact?

No Disrespect, you live life how you want to, but she is Beautiful. If I were many years younger and she was waiting in BED at home, I guarantee you that I would not be looking to bring someone else into that bed. Good Luck and Happy Hunting

@elenaolszewski871

7 ай бұрын

Lol right this guy will get left soon but ovbiously wont mind lol

This is all fun and games until one of the two gets emotional and stats falling for the 3rd wheel. Once he/she finds out, they will react a different way and feel betrayed. They eventually separate afterwards and never again have threesomes...

If there is once. There will be more !

Great video guys!

I think I have to try it

Love you guys ❤

@ab-jc8nv

11 ай бұрын

It tried?

Sounds like you both have it figured out ❤ good and have fun, life is short 😊

15:25 he is hurt. When she speaks he freezes up. When whe speaks he feels more in control and she smiles. Disgusting. Scroll thru with no audio to see.

This guys a freaking genius

My question is…how can a single guy go about setting up a threesome? I downloaded feeld and usually match with guys or couples but I find that couples are really picky and want guys to be fit. I really just want to meet easy going people

What are you really saying, that you haven't gone on to that subject but you feel qualified to tell someone else about it????

Ironically the concept of “love and compassion” is also societal programming so…

Are you guys coming to Calgary anytime soon?

The only thing uncomfortable about this video is that picture over the bed! 😧

@marjory62

Жыл бұрын

Why exactly?

You might lose your partner for the third person.

Where is the picture or video

How often does that work?

What apps would you use to find a person to join?

@1Whitetail

2 ай бұрын

We had more luck using AFF . We used SLS some but it seemed just to many playing games. There are some newer ones but not sure about them, good luck.

Do you know that the girl on the photo behind you was possible circumsized and still suffers the consequences of that mutilation.

Thank you for sharing.

Dont think i could do this but u never know. But it would be 2 guys

Do you prefer MFM's or FFM's ??? or both ????? 😊

@stiggiestigwood3310

5 ай бұрын

I think a younger man’s fantasy of this would always be with two women, but doesn’t it seem like MFM must be more common in real life?

I have been a swinger for most of my life and I know how to do it and how not to do it

End of the world soon..

It's really all about being trash tho isn't it? I guess also not having the self control an adult should have.

I'm too jealous and possessive for this , but maybe after 20 years of marriage I might ask for a 4 some he can be with another girl and I can be with another guy and it can be in the same room and afterwards they can leave. Although sometimes these things can be dangerous for healthy relationships not every person is ok with things like this.

@ericfreshcorn3590

Жыл бұрын

Are you from or near Ohio?

@balajirajendran1438

Жыл бұрын

Excellent thought

God bless you and your family

I think its interesting that most threesomes include 1 man & 2 women. Just from what ive heard. I can understand it though.

@dwightmagnuson4298

10 ай бұрын

Men are more insecure than most women.

With male or female?

Rubber gloves and eye goggles 😂

here's my choice -the third person is too close to you as a friend that you cant invite them -the third person is not close enough and you're afraid to ask 'cause you'll look like a sexual weirdo It's so difficult to find a partner. Also you both have to like the person, and the person has to like both of you. Hope i'll do it one day.

@kbanghart

Жыл бұрын

One option that me and my ex almost explored, she had a female friend whom she knew loved threesomes that we almost arranged, that would have been no problem for any of us bc the mutual friend was not jealous about it and didn't mind sharing.

@somnvm37

Жыл бұрын

@@kbanghart well i need to find a dude. I know one, but hes in another city

@kbanghart

Жыл бұрын

@@somnvm37 so you're a straight woman?

@somnvm37

Жыл бұрын

@@kbanghart a bi guy. thats what makes it harder, I need to fond another bi guy me and my gf would like, and this person cant be a very close friend or a complete stranger.

Your wife looks more like a decent person If I were you I wouldn't allow that to happen.

hmm

You dont..

You two are not sick....?

Awesome

Yeah.picture perfect seemingly human behaviors!! As such !! Runs toos & fros. Only time wills tells how it really goes. Cause humans are emotional animals. Highs & lows .

Super cute girl. Thanks for the insight.

Make sure everyone feelings included….. LOL

I’m a Tantra Practitioner in Miami and love to connect w you both as a resource 🙏

Foolish people It's over And neither of them know it

This is part and parcel what is wrong with America right now. Promiscuity.

Are we talking another girl or a another guy.

Who would want to sleep with him looks like such a wimp.

Love your chemistry

Both of you love each other. Is time to have Kids.

But you are promoting

Wow she is totally awesome 👌.. would love to share that..

Spitroast with the local bbc 😂😂😂

Lol be good for video

Let me join with you dear

I can see this is becoming a normal thing with couples. I thought me and my wife were just different, we are both on our 2nd marriage. I never did this in my past relationships and never has she, so this is both new 2 us and we really enjoy it. We have our rules and we dont play without each other, always wear a condoms and no kissing the other guest and never in our bedroom always a hotel or motel. Wife enjoys females more then males i have offered to get her a male and she has declined multiple times and would rather have another woman or a couple swap. Just remember communication is key in relationships like this and if jealousy occurs and it will you need to speak about it dont hold it in remember you also agreed to the terms as well.

I like you guys very much and I wish one day I can have a 3some with you. I have learnt that, its very enjoying and it reduces a lot of envy when you conduct with someone both of you are not familiar and doesn't stay in the neighbourhood. Big up guys!!!!

And discuss what you are going to say to God when he ask you, “why you went down this road when I specifically warned you not to?” … nobody else has a right to judge you, but… the consequences of this is like playing with fire. Let’s be honest. Nothing good can come from this kind of kinky behavior. Yeah, for a second if feels great, but for the rest of your life you come to regret dabbling in the flesh, which is weak.

😜🤗😝 ????

Have some shame

I am surprised with how angry this makes me. Thinking that Amelia is totally taken advantage of financially and now also sexually. I really am trying hard to watch your videos with love and a free heart but your relationships triggers so so so much in me. I hope I am wrong, I hope I need to just unlearn conditioning from the past and maybe past trauma.

@SaltSandandSmoothies

2 жыл бұрын

Oh wow! What a thought to have. I can assure you I’m not being taken advantage of sexually or financially. Thank you for your concern but I don’t believe it comes from a place of knowledge or truth, only assumptions and guessing? I wouldn’t be in any type of relationship that I wouldn’t want to be in, I can assure you. I enjoy our open relationship just as much as Matt does .. in different ways … with different people .. and would very much so leave a partnership completely if it felt it wasn’t serving me or my heart, growth, happiness and expansion. I am completely comfortable and sovereign on my own, which leaves me in a very fortunate and privileged situation where I don’t need to rely on a partner or relationship for safety or financial security. I’ve been in monogamous relationships in the past that never lasted more than 6 months because we both knew it didn’t make sense to “be tied down” to one person in life at such a young and exciting age. As for your comment on being taken advantage of financially, I have no idea where this came from, but I can assure you Matt and I are both very well taken care of by our businesses and personal assets. It’s OKAY if our relationship/ ideas / beliefs / lifestyle triggers or annoys you, we’re not here to persuade or manipulate or convince anyone. I too am exposed to MANY relationships that don’t impress, inspire or excite me. It’s all part of everyone having their own life experience and creating a reality that serves THEM the best, as an individual. Thank you for your concern, but in the future I kindly ask that you resort to sharing your thoughts with us privately, rather than on such a large public platform as your assumptions / judgements about may cause us and our family more harm then they do good. Thank you 🤍🤍 Again, we’re just two people living our lives in a way that excites us and inspires us. We love all sentient beings, rescue animals, surf, spend time in nature and have the occasional threesome (or foursome!) with open minded, creative, lovely, respectful and beautiful people. We’re safe. We’re happy. And we treat each over very, very well. I promise you!

@resilience4477

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for your reply Yasmin. I am glad that you have that awareness to unlearn. I am also happy to see such judgment of someone that you don’t know, which also allows us to work through judgments. I am sorry that I am responsible for triggering your past traumas. Women in relationships must be given total freedom, absolute equality, otherwise there will be no possibility to relate. I cannot reiterate this enough. Up to now, man has exploited woman, woman has exploited man; there has not been any real relationships. I feel that sometimes that I am the advocate for freedom within our relating. It’s easy for one of us to fall into the toxicity or traps of monogamy/ownership of another person/human being and want that secure feeling of being owned by the other. In other words to live in a constant state of bondage. I want to be me. I want Amelia to be herself. Monogamy is up for grabs if either of us want that, but we love being individual. Within a monogamous relationship you lose equality and we are showing people, viewers that equality exists when you see your partner as an individual not just to have someone that adheres to a conditional contract or another’s wants or needs and if those needs including self happiness and evolution are not met then we discard that person and repeat that pattern with someone else. I have 15 years experience in monogamy so I speak from experience from both sides. 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️

@yasminanyalechi6514

2 жыл бұрын

@@resilience4477 thank you both so much for this very elaborate and friendly answer. I come from a 9 year marriage where I was both financially and also sexually and maybe seeing a very unconventional relationship makes me want to protect myself and all other women from this very hurtful experience. I am sorry for making assumption with a large audience seeing them, I really didn't think about it tbh. Thank you both for expanding my mind. I am however in a very happy monogamous marriage now for 4 years and fel incredily held and free, but obviously there is still so much in me I need to work on.

@resilience4477

2 жыл бұрын

@@yasminanyalechi6514 Awww that’s a sweet message to receive Yasmin. Thank you. ❤️

@kelseyharte4839

2 жыл бұрын

Yasmin - Yeah hunny definitely seems like your own trauma is coming through. Usually if we are triggered by others' actions it comes from an imbalance deep within ourself. It's good to have awareness of it so it can be healed and transmuted, which is what the purpose of this interaction must've been for.

You guys are wac. I'm not down with watching my husband enjoy another women.. Girl get some self respect. Why did you get married? Wake up girl.

@SaltSandandSmoothies

Жыл бұрын

Hi Victoria! Thanks for watching our video and sharing your comment. All good - to each their own! I have nothing but love towards all others and their beliefs / views / desires in relationships. In my opinion everyone is different and no love or lifestyle should ever look identical to anyone else’s. That’s the beauty of this incredible human experience ! We all get to do things uniquely with our own twist and style! Just because someone prefers something different than you do doesn’t mean its wrong or “wack” ! Xx

@victoriaqueal3266

Жыл бұрын

Is it you that desires a threesome, or is it your husband. I would encourage you to watch RC Blake's you tube videos. He talks a lot about our culture and media promoting what he calls female slave conditioning. I'm sorry women are not built to be non monogamous. Why don't you get a guy that just wants to be with you. Don't understand you. Either you know deep down inside that this is not making you feel good, or you don't care about your husband maybe you don't really live him derp down.

@ericfreshcorn3590

Жыл бұрын

Need A Bull ?

There are no non-binaries. There are only men and women. You're welcome.

@fastasashark6988

Жыл бұрын

There are non-binaries. They have chromosomal defects. Trisomy 21 is a non-binary condition. The people claiming to be non-binary have no idea how horrible it is to really be non-binary.

@kbanghart

Жыл бұрын

Only men and women? What are you talking about, sex and gender?

@hmmlemeeshink

Жыл бұрын

@@kbanghart they’re the same thing bro

@kbanghart

Жыл бұрын

@@hmmlemeeshink um no. You can literally search the definitions, they're not the same.

@hmmlemeeshink

Жыл бұрын

@@kbanghart um no, you can literally search for the original definition, they are the same.

You want my number lol