Never let a man tell you more than once that he don't want you

@EMM1908

Жыл бұрын

‼️‼️‼️

@israelcoleman7876

Жыл бұрын

My grandfather told me this when I was younger. Always stayed with me

@deloresevans4235

Жыл бұрын

Period

@kazb4496

Жыл бұрын

Run 🏃‍♀️

@Callherlele

Жыл бұрын

He never said that he didn’t want her

He said he didn’t want her 20 times and she still didn’t hear it 🤦🏾‍♀️😩

@bianca2011d

Жыл бұрын

Because he didn't say I don't want to be with you. She will not see it

@teresa_chosen

Жыл бұрын

1 🚩 isn’t enough sometimes they need 40 🤷🏽‍♀️

@barbaracarley3601

Жыл бұрын

She made me so exhausted. Wake up Girl!!!!! Geesh!

@nikkiallday8167

Жыл бұрын

She can’t hear cuz she never be quiet

@akbasg

Жыл бұрын

@@bianca2011d you seem like you will be in this type of situation... Clarification is not only saying word by word "I dont want you"... He made it very clear that does not want her and the child is the reason why he is around ... He has the door open for new realtionships... Please don't be in such a situation

She see all the red flags but still want prove 🤦🏾‍♀️

@betterwithwinebetterwithwi2359

Жыл бұрын

(Proof)

@dianalogan6185

Жыл бұрын

@@betterwithwinebetterwithwi2359 thanks for the correction

@jeanmiller1925

Жыл бұрын

Her sister wants prove her sister called karamo

The saddest part is him saying he stays with her so his daughter doesn't have a broken home. A broken home is any dynamic that is toxic and untrustworthy. Two people “staying” together for the sake of a child but abusing another in the process is broken. IMO

@snigglestraggletheatre1749

Жыл бұрын

Cheating is not abuse as long as they're not physical you do whatever to be in the same house with your kids fool !

@sarcastic_truth

Жыл бұрын

@@snigglestraggletheatre1749 cheating on someone is not emotional abuse? What would you call it, since you seem to be an expert on abuse?

@snigglestraggletheatre1749

Жыл бұрын

@@sarcastic_truth look victim bich it's not abuse.Dont have kids and stay single ! Keep it pushing

@sarcastic_truth

Жыл бұрын

@@snigglestraggletheatre1749 Oh wow! I've never suffered from abuse but based on your level of anger toward a stranger shows that you may have. Be blessed.

@snigglestraggletheatre1749

Жыл бұрын

@@sarcastic_truth thank you ! Now keep it pushing

He literally is screaming that he don’t want you.

He done called her annoying one too many times

@kiera6288

Жыл бұрын

@@bfields112 he's weak

@wandumazgabu7252

Жыл бұрын

She’s annoying af….. the way she comes off

@Samanthas1

Жыл бұрын

@@bfields112 her annoyingness is in response to his lies… maybe?

@kiera6288

Жыл бұрын

@@Samanthas1 don't mind him. That's the same dude who said he would have punched her in the throat because she's too masculine

@NELL_SCORPIO

Жыл бұрын

​@@bfields112 ding ding ding ding 👏👏👏

She knows exactly what's going on. She just refuses to see it!! Both of them need to walk away from each other.

@tamiko_8369

Жыл бұрын

For real!! Man 🙄

I spent 20 years in a relationship with a man like this... When I finally left and started to heal I had to hold myself accountable for completely ignoring the facts, signs and disrespect that was right in front of me... I was fighting for a man who was only fighting for himself.

@petersonkimani1195

Жыл бұрын

The guy is telling you, I don't want you, at all. Make your choices.

She's gaslighting herself point blank period

@ilikepickles9568

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@sipstea9794

5 ай бұрын

No he’s gaslighting her she just feeding into it and holding onto false hope

@latonyafunches9991

19 күн бұрын

@@sipstea9794baby HE TOLD HER.

…….I’ve never seen someone be so in denial about the person they’re “engaged” to. He’s been acting single this whole time, she’s SEEN proof and she still wants clarity??!???!! I really hope she wakes up and leaves him. Sis if you’re reading this, there is a MAN out there that will never have you crying yourself to sleep. I promise once you wake up, you’ll be so glad you chose yourself and your child. You wouldn’t want your daughter being treated that way.

@deidramanson444

Жыл бұрын

I’m reading ❤

@ebonyjones2246

Жыл бұрын

@@deidramanson444 I wish I could talk to you ❤️❤️❤️

@jasminegreene8159

Жыл бұрын

@@deidramanson444 sis, stand tf up!!! 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

That man is living his best life tearing you down!

@jamesgibson3716

Жыл бұрын

Sad to see....

@Vdub481

Жыл бұрын

Sad ain’t no way to explain but u said it right

@alexjones28

Жыл бұрын

She's tearing her damn self down.

@innikkac

Жыл бұрын

@@alexjones28 😂 yea.....you right!

@period8705

Жыл бұрын

She's allowing it

I hope when she gets home she watches this episode and it finally wakes her up because right now, her blinders are screwed on tight!

People spend so much time shaming single moms and not enough time shaming men who emotionally and physically abuse their partners and children. This is what that kind of societal shaming does. It forces women and children to stay in toxic, potentially dangerous situations.

@agray7474

Жыл бұрын

He’s definitely a grade A LOSER…HOWEVER, she’s choosing to be with a LOSER which means she values a LOSER over herself and her CHILD! Maybe she needs to be shamed in order to WAKE UP! That child could be damaged as a result of their relationship. I’m sorry, I’m all in favor of shaming her because this child is involved. His low class character goes without saying…

@tremonsprings8920

Жыл бұрын

How did he abuse the kids?

@jeanp1323

Жыл бұрын

@@tremonsprings8920 this relationship will affect the kids in the long run. I'm sure the little girl sees her parents fighting, her mother crying and when she gets older she'll probably understand the lies her father tells. Eventually, when it'll be time for her to find herself a partner, she might end up with someone as distrustful as her father...

@uwilberforce4628

Жыл бұрын

Truth

@babieatiti7259

Жыл бұрын

@@tremonsprings8920 by not being faithful and appreciating there mother,that takes a toll on the mother's emotionally, physically and mentally and hence she can't take care of the kids properly,because she is also human,that's how.

Girl respects yourself. You shouldn’t allow anyone to disrespect you like that. Love yourself sis. Please and thank you!

she thinks by exposing all his bs that he looks bad, not realizing that she looks silly knowing all these sneaky things. she seems like a smart girl, leave him in the dust. No man should be able to tell you he’s “ leaving the door open b/c you’re annoying “ .. absolutely NOT. take off the rose colored glasses babes

@vernissiegaines6589

Жыл бұрын

Lord Jesus, you can't make men do right or make them treat you right. Learn to love and respect yourself put God first everything will fall in place.

she kinda annoying me too, but she didn’t deserve to be lied to & cheated on 😭

@jazzyjennshighway

Жыл бұрын

Lmbo 😂I said same thing… she overtalks everyone & just plain annoying , her voice got on my nerves … I saw what he was talking about . Jesus take her mouth

@GIRLY4293

Жыл бұрын

Like she never shuts up. Like girl hush.

@jazzyjennshighway

Жыл бұрын

@@GIRLY4293 she kept talking more than Karamo 😩

@DONTASKMYNEIGHBORCUMMEIGOTTHET

Жыл бұрын

Girl she aggravated me too 😂😂😂😂

@erica-5198

Жыл бұрын

Is it really a lie at this point?? He has pretty much said he doesn’t want her.

She’s definitely an “As long as he comes back home to me”type. I DO NOT FEEL SORRY for this foolery. He is blatantly telling her that their time is up, and she’s indirectly begging him to reset the timer. Self Esteem can not be purchased. After a while, she’s not the victim, she’s the fool.

@shereelewis2251

Жыл бұрын

🎯

@jazzyjae8777

Жыл бұрын

👏🏽

@latonyafunches9991

19 күн бұрын

That was very ignorant of you self esteem is a mental issue just bc yall might see it she doesn’t u can’t wake up one morning and have high self esteem

“The biggest lesson I have for you is to figure out why 1 red flag isn’t enough. Why do you need 40?” -Karamo Geesh! He nailed that in that whole statement.

@nneoma6106

7 ай бұрын

Period! 👏🏽

This dude is cold 🥶. He's gaslighting her, so bad.

@kiera6288

Жыл бұрын

from jump he was gaslighting her

I just can't feel sorry for her because she saw all the signs & he straight up told her he doesn't want her! She can do better!

She needs to love (and chose) herself, the signs are so clear

Honeymoon phase was his love bombing you, he’s a narcissist and does not have the capacity to love you. Chose yourself and move on.

@childofgod8365

Жыл бұрын

The woman is stupid to wait on him

no mother chooses to be a single parent, but some mothers need to start choosing their kids over and themselves over their men

Wait... she caught him cheating numerous times,she doesn’t trust him, she knows it’s not going past engagement, he admitted he wants to sleep with his ex, he’s very open to his cheating scandals to her -it’s time to leave💔 And the crowd’s just clapping at the weirdest moments💀

She’s not gonna leave. She already has her answers, but she doesn’t want to leave. Hopefully she finds the strength or gets fed up enough to walk away.

"Figure out why 1 red flag isn't enough and why u need 40" Powerful!!

@laura4495

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, that comment was deep

@roselandebazelais8236

9 ай бұрын

She had more than 1. She just pretending she wants to see more,so she could secure her sister. She could find a million red flags,she ain't going nowhere.

His behavior has literally driven her crazy, hence the reason for her behavior. She’s annoying??? However, she speaks to him like he’s her son. She doesn’t know what to do? She wants him to love her?? This is so sad.

@georgia1191

Жыл бұрын

Good point !

Man… I remember when I used to sit up and argue with dudes like this. Right, wrong, or indifferent. I would see alllll the signs and still ignore it. Everything was their fault. I thank God for growth. Ain’t shit worth arguing and exuding this much energy over. Crying and fighting does not make them love you… and going through their phone only to see what you already know only creates a new unhealthy habit. Glad I grew up

This was a waste of airtime and resources! She said if his phone is squeaky clean, he cleaned it before they got there so why did they come! Also, he will never find peace of mind lying about having a child and otherwise!

@TewasaSonko

Жыл бұрын

HIS OWN BLOOD DAUGHTER‼️ That’s just WICKED‼️

Everyday quarrelling in front of your daughter is more terrible than a broken home

Self love is so important. When you know God's love and self love you can never settle.

She is not his type. He is holding on for the convenience and benefits, but he does not feel like her, much less love her. He knows she has self-esteem/confidence issues, and he breaks her down. She needs an awakening YESTERDAY.

You say you not insecure, you smart, sis. The smartest thing you can do is RUN!!!! 🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️💨 The narcissistic personality is heavy with this one!

The fact that he’s trying to explain how he feels and she only cares about if he’s cheating is enough for me… like yes girl he’s cheating he’s doing him and if I was her and I didn’t leave I’d def give this relationship some space and do me

No one deserves to be cheated or lied to. The truth is so transparent; however she wants to continue this relationship. Her constant going on irritated and triggered me. I found myself telling her to shut up as I watched. I wouldn’t want to live in that home.

She got her answer when he scrubbed his phone. She just don’t want to leave him alone. Most times you know the truth before you come to a talk show

I know someone’s going to comment “ Don’t let a man tell you twice he done want ya “

@opulence_prime

Жыл бұрын

😅😅 girl. I’m tired of seeing it too.

@2ndedition766

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

I swear the audience will clap for anything

@Yo-ey4ue

Жыл бұрын

😂😂

@brown27407

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

@georgia1191

Жыл бұрын

Lollll 😂

@LaricolaHD

Жыл бұрын

LMFAOOO

@Armelleee

Жыл бұрын

Its a show...im sure there are rules and they have too. If they were just quiet it would be awkward no 🤷🏾‍♀️

Coming from a person who’s ex is just like him, sis for your health, please leave him. He’s the type that’ll want you to have 3sumns and still cheat. You can’t change him. Believe people when they show you who they are.

This man is driving this woman crazy, literally. He clearly doesn't want to be with her but she doesn't want to hear it.

@tanyadunn3767

Жыл бұрын

She’s driving herself crazy

I saw and heard him say that he didn't want to be with her multiple times, but she was not looking or listening. He's not even trying to hide it at this point. IMO, if it gets to the point where you feel you need to follow someone or have their phone unlocked, the relationship is already over because the trust is gone.

She didn't even have to come to the karamo show to get the answers that she needed, because it was already there in plain sight. Karamo was right about telling her to take the blinders off.

She’s known him for so long that she is Comfortable and we don’t know what she has been through in life. Alot of times when a man seems good outside people like family pushes you to stay with him especially if you have children together.

@kiera6288

Жыл бұрын

very true especially the older generation will tell you a piece of a man is better than no man. I disagree

She keep saying the home is his peace - BABY - no it’s not! If you acting like this on TV, I can only imagine behind closed doors. Not saying he’s innocent, but good LORDT!

@deidramanson444

Жыл бұрын

Right because you seen 15 mins of me so you got it all figured out. Makes sense.

@shawnda8317

Жыл бұрын

@@deidramanson444 Exactly, and that’s ALL I needed to see.

@Lunaparshae

Жыл бұрын

@@deidramanson444 look up what feminine characteristics are and ask yourself do you have them cause you’re very masculine.

@Lunaparshae

Жыл бұрын

@@deidramanson444 I’m sorry you’ve been with a narcissist, you need to heal and get therapy so that you don’t attract more narcissistic men.

@itsallaboutjayy1012

15 күн бұрын

@@deidramanson444you need healing god bless you

He doesn't want to be with you anymore babe, and he's most certainly cheating. There will be no confusion when someone really loves and want to be with you. You will know without a doubt.

I’m learning not to allow a man to have full control of my life

Don’t let him tell you more than once that he don’t want you

She's hurt...I feel sorry for her and pray she finds the strength to leave him!

he loves her but I can see why he's annoyed. but the bickering is annoying she ain't let him talk once.

He’s so checked out. He’s only there for his child and that is more damaging than leaving. Go and still be active but showing the child toxicity isn’t worth it

@ddoubleu170

Жыл бұрын

He was never checked in

When they say “im with you all the time how can i cheat” means he cheating lmao.. all that social media and texting calling whatever is emotional cheating.. smh

Gurl he's just not that into you.

You are staying with such a man because you don't want your daughter to grow up in a broken home. Sis you know damn well you ain't staying for that child, you are using the child as an excuse to justify your insecurities. Your child is better off coming from a broken home than living inside one. Move on with your life ,he ain't changing today or tomorrow. You have to look yourself in the mirror and tell yourself you deserve better.

Sis doesnt want to believe what it is .Shes not gonna leave him shes fina put up with his mess.. But sis if u stay u can’t continue to play the victim…Your stronger and smarter than that….

Sis he don’t want you . There is no clarification you need. He is showing you daily YOU ARE NOT THE ONE. You are the problem here , he’s telling you , you’re not listening !! And all that I caught you l, your lying, I have receipts talk is truly just noise. Leave or let him cheat in peace ❤️ I pray for your healing

She has all the proof she needs. She just doesn't want to leave this man. She will endure this hurt until SHE'S tired. She has to get fed up before she'll leave.

He doesn’t like her at all and clearly doesn’t want her. Never let a man tell you twice he doesn’t want you.

That man told her in so many words he is done and over the relationship. And she to aggressive for me she's like a tom boy. I wouldn't wanna be around that masculinity either

He couldn’t even keep a straight face😂😂😂😂

He doesnt want you lady ... He is just there because he feels like you the type to punish him with his children

Girl you need to run🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀Please don't look back....

She don’t deserve this ! She is gorgeous ! He don’t respect her. She is a queen. She does not need this stress. You are beautiful and you deserve to be treated well. This man don’t want you. And you don’t need him. There is another man out there that will love her the way she needs. I just can’t get over how beautiful she is 😍😍😍😍😍

This is sad....He dont want you honey.....Too much energy wasted on nothing..... Love yourself lady!!!

I don't understand why people go on these shows knowing the truth and to ”find out” the truth just to stay... It's weird

She doesn't own him and sis can't stop a man from cheating

how honest you want him to be dang....she crazy

The crazy thing is she knows she’s being gaslighted but she still stays in hopes it’ll stop. It won’t stop! I guess her hopes on this show was to get him to stop and stop cheating. He’s not going to change. For her or anyone that’s who he is and he’s going to stay and keep doing it cause she allows it. Her fussing at him is just a minor inconvenience to him.

@aadyahmelton3653

Жыл бұрын

That what I can’t understand! You knew all this why even be on that show

If she doesn’t know her own worth, it sounds like they need an open relationship. She’ll learn it then. He’s operating as if he’s in an open relationship 😮

He’s right she is annoying. The man saying he don’t want you. He’s coward to say it! She’s to weak to accept it. Let it go!

@liljuice9223

Жыл бұрын

I agree

Leave this man alone. You are smart, intelligent and hardworking. A child cannot make you be in this toxic relationship. Jamar bye 👋

You can tell he messed her up and when she gets angry he smirks he loves hurting her. She needs to know the love she can give herself is enough. Love yourself.

What Judge Lynn Say…. Something Like Umm “Never Let A Man Tell You More Than Once He Don’t Want You”. This So Sad Man.

@barbaracarley3601

Жыл бұрын

The TRUTH. Wake up lady.

This is classic Narcissistic Personality psychological Abuse and gaslighting, I pray she finds her strength to leave, it is not probable he will never change, the beginning was the Love bomb web he used to get her hooked, this is a hard relationship to leave because the psychological trauma changes to the physiology of the brain as well as the hormonal changes (effects dopamine, serotonin, Oxytocin [trauma bonding} cortisol norepinephrine fight or flight) , not to mention it affects the self esteem and self worth, because they need a energy source to feed their esteem and that is the host or person they are in the relationship, they sick their energy dry (energy vampires).

She’s annoying but it’s because she doesn’t feel safe and that’s his fault. He’s embarrassing.

In the beginning, he said he never had any thoughts of cheating on her and then he just couldn't keep lying after that. 😂😂😂😂😂

Honestly he's a narcissist and she's his victim at the moment, I hope she gets the healing she deserves 💯💪❣️

@kiamia20

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

He dropped off the D to the hotel

@MrsDymples76

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 first thing I said! And was compensated well! Where they do that though?

“Your not a tour guide” took me out a haha WOOOOOO😭🏃🏽‍♀️

I don't even see the need for opening the phone, she has says it all

THIS IS WHY FATHERS ARE SO IMPORTANT! WOMEN NEED AN EXAMPLE BUT MOST FATHERS ARE NOT PRESENT

Gas light at its best !!!

He told you that he don’t want you how much more clarity do you need.

“I’m smart…” chileeee

She said she was smart. Honestly, she’s young, naive, and she’s trying to save this toxic relationship. The honey moon stage only last like two years, you will never get that back. She’s not ready to let him go. He will continue to cheat and lie about it until she chooses herself.

It's amazing how so many women know the red flag and still put on blinders.😋 You can tell she the type that only listens to respond and only listens to herself

When he said “I feel like I’m getting gaslighted” I died 🤣 boy bye

His body language says everything. Lady.. He Does Not Want To Be With You!!!!

People hating on him...why? Listen to this woman please? Nobody is making her stay but yet she is here loud ...and all crazy. He tells her, I wanted to sleep with the ex...she tells her tell me the truth....lol she should watch this....

@Mixmasala218

Жыл бұрын

100% the man is tired,i think he needs to move in.

I really hope she left him 😔 and found someone that deserved her

1st time someone tells you they don't want you best believe them! Never make excuses for their behaviour

" I just want clarity ", how much more clarity does she need when the truth revealed itself multiple times.

Exactly, why does she need to collect 40 red flags

I really hope she watches this, he told her she's not listening

@deidramanson444

Жыл бұрын

I did like 3 times

@corneisharatcliffe8053

Жыл бұрын

@@deidramanson444 don't let anyone make your decision not even your sister although she has your best interest at heart and not even me, but co-parenting isn't as bad as you think. I wish you the best!

@deidramanson444

Жыл бұрын

Thank you❤

The fact he said you annoying so he leaves the door open in so many ways he just said the right person come he gone

What's crazy is I'm not sure if thinks we believe him or if he actually believes himself 😮

SMH that’s sad she just doesn’t get it

Engaged for three years...😗

I see why he feels the way he does. She is too much....he doesn't want her and she refuses to believe it

I just don't understand how she knows all the answers that she wants to know but still wants to be with him...smh!!

@howardking8015

Жыл бұрын

Cognitive dissonance

She not leaving right now. She in denial and wants him to love her the way she love him. He won’t leave for convenience. She has to be the one to leave this bozo for good regardless of the child. Just co-parent in a healthy space and leave dude TF ALONE. The nagging is just a tip of the ice berg. I don’t believe he wanted the relationship at all. Ever.