STOP CHASING & Enter Your Bad B*tch Era In 70 Minutes Instead! | Sabrina Zohar

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Today we're shedding light on a rampant issue - the overflowing, toxic dating advice online. In a sea of 950 million search results on relationship advice, almost 99.9% of it is misleading and might be holding you back from the love and romance you're looking for.
If you're tired of chasing men who simply aren't serious and ready to step into your Bad B*tch Era, we’ve got you covered! No more watered-down versions of yourself, and no more tip-toeing around what you really want in a relationship.
My guest is none other than the dynamic Sabrina Zohar - a dating expert and relationship hero who's been there, done that, and broken the cycle. She's debunking the overused, underwhelming dating tips that are great for online quotes but terrible for your love life.
Before you strut your stuff in those "bad bitch" boots, you need to get crystal clear on what you want and how you want it, and that’s what we’re about to get into!
Chapter Markers:
[00:00] Introduction to Toxic Advice ⚡
[09:36] Bumper Sticker Love Tips 🚘
[18:32] No-Text Trigger Healing 🤳
[25:29] First Date Romance 💋
[31:32] Put Out Situationship Fire ❤️‍🔥
[39:42] Are You The Red Flag? 😜
[48:57] Not Everyone Is Ghosting You 👻
[56:48] Change Your Dating Style 💅
[1:03:27] When You Can’t Avoid Triggers 🫠
Power Insights from Sabrina Zohar:
“If you’re dating somebody and who you are isn’t working for them, consider this a blessing and walk the f*ck away.”
“The pinch doesn’t match the ouch.”
“A girl knows she wants to date but not if she wants to f*ck you. A guy knows if he wants to f*ck you but not if he wants to date you.”
‘I didn’t ask for the anxious attachment style, but I’ll sure as f*ck heal through it.”
“A trigger is my problem, not yours.”
“Meet yourself with compassion or meet yourself with blame. You get to choose.”
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  • @LisaBilyeu
    @LisaBilyeu4 ай бұрын

    WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!

  • @The_Mim

    @The_Mim

    4 ай бұрын

    Thank you Lisa 😊 💓 🎉

  • @laureldell7377

    @laureldell7377

    4 ай бұрын

    Lmmfao.....too true

  • @high8health

    @high8health

    4 ай бұрын

    @LisaBilyeu can You ask Tom if he can have Dinah Jane on his show as well. Thank you for supporting Dinah and having her.

  • @Portia620

    @Portia620

    3 ай бұрын

    I’m a Big personality too!!! 😂😂. I hear you girl

  • @kimgordon3695

    @kimgordon3695

    3 ай бұрын

    2:30 💜 permission granted!

  • @AnyaSul
    @AnyaSul4 ай бұрын

    My heart is so ready for relationship, but my childhood trauma is not 🙄

  • @Kathryn-cw6mv

    @Kathryn-cw6mv

    3 ай бұрын

    I hear you. I hope you’re working on healing so you can take your power back.❤

  • @latoyamalone1423

    @latoyamalone1423

    3 ай бұрын

    I hear you, now rewind, look yourself in the mirror and press record: “I am enough and I embrace my childhood trauma because I’m ready for a relationship.” You deserve all the good life has to offer. Peace and love on your journey. ❤

  • @hecallsmetiana

    @hecallsmetiana

    3 ай бұрын

    Yo, this struck a nerve… So relatable

  • @enhanceyourfeatures

    @enhanceyourfeatures

    2 ай бұрын

    😂love this comment

  • @esrablogger7797

    @esrablogger7797

    2 ай бұрын

    Best comment ever

  • @-._.-KRiS-._.-
    @-._.-KRiS-._.-2 ай бұрын

    I find that matching his effort, not his energy, works pretty well. If I just responded to a deep conversation we were having and he doesn't respond back for a while, I don't keep trying to continue the conversation until he replies back. If he never replies back, that's an answer, and I don't have to feel bad about walking away. I can be secure enough with myself that it was a nice experience to open up with someone and connect vulnerably without being attached to the outcome. If he does reply back, with effort to what I said, then I know he's still interested in connecting. But I don't have to prioritize my response back knowing he hasn't been prioritizing his. I'm not trying to play a game (and I hope this isn't one), and I want to be respectful and understanding of his busy life, but matching effort feels right.

  • @laritafrancois2184

    @laritafrancois2184

    2 ай бұрын

    I agree with you

  • @andriavinithalobo5813

    @andriavinithalobo5813

    2 ай бұрын

    Damnn sooo rightly said.

  • @brooklyn3299

    @brooklyn3299

    Ай бұрын

    Stop texting 💬 paragraphs is the answer

  • @nohmyclaire

    @nohmyclaire

    Ай бұрын

    Yesssss

  • @unkn0wnr0ckstar

    @unkn0wnr0ckstar

    Ай бұрын

    thank you for this!

  • @theresaparks4883
    @theresaparks4883Ай бұрын

    He was ignoring my calls and texts intermittently. I got tired of it and Blocked him. I’m not chasing nobody! He’s a Coward and Disrespectful! Why would I continue to support that behavior because he always comes back when he’s ready! Well I’m not ready indefinitely ! So BLOCK AND GOOD RIDDANCE!

  • @kre8504

    @kre8504

    19 күн бұрын

    I ended up blocking a guy who was playing me. He wasn’t listening to me & expecting me to brainlessly, follow. I may be blond, but I’m not dumb, nor am I going to suck up to him to have a relationship. It’s rather stupid, of him to expect me to blindly follow. I’ve been around the block & not going to play along with his game!!

  • @kingdom_manifestations

    @kingdom_manifestations

    18 күн бұрын

    The words I see that stand out about your post: "brainless" "I may be blonde" "Im not dumb" "stupid" "blindly follow"-- as the lady said in the video--- "what's the real trigger here? What memory in your subconscious memory bank has brought you to this conclusion about him." What do u feel? Sit with it.... get to the root cause. I'm also doing this sane exercise myself going forward so just know there's no judgement at all.

  • @kre8504

    @kre8504

    18 күн бұрын

    @@kingdom_manifestations I think In getting to the root of it, was that he wasn’t listening. I finally had to cut him off. I think his ego got hurt, because it wasn’t long B4, I realized texting him was a waist of my time.

  • @vaska1999

    @vaska1999

    16 күн бұрын

    ​@@kingdom_manifestations There's the root experience and then there's your current experience of being ignored and disrespected. The current one you can step out of by walking away from the person who's belittling you .

  • @flyandshy00

    @flyandshy00

    14 күн бұрын

    Why you call a man? First mistake, if he's not connecting with you for 5 days and you have been to like 2-3 dates - block.

  • @weightlosshacks00
    @weightlosshacks002 ай бұрын

    The only part I disagree with is that hookup culture is at all healthy, it's pretty damaging. I had one hookup turn into a stalker that lasted years. Please be careful ladies.

  • @CatalinaFOIA

    @CatalinaFOIA

    2 ай бұрын

    Agreed. Hook up culture is extremely dangerous on a multitude of levels from stalking, to diseases, including STI's... it is NOT worth it.

  • @risdaaprilia7021

    @risdaaprilia7021

    29 күн бұрын

    i do agree. and also everytime you hook up and give your body to somebody its damaging your soul. your energy is shared to so many people and will left you souless.. you will feel empty..

  • @springfauna1465

    @springfauna1465

    24 күн бұрын

    ​@@risdaaprilia7021I wish more people knew this because it's more important than they realize!!

  • @AutisticBarbie

    @AutisticBarbie

    19 күн бұрын

  • @sunflowerroark5170

    @sunflowerroark5170

    13 күн бұрын

    I wouldn't hook up quickly.

  • @spyroluver0951
    @spyroluver0951Ай бұрын

    trust your womanly instinct ladies. Keep safe while dating, no matter the age, meaning: 1. Tell family and friends close to you where you are going, who you are with and his car rego. 2. Get yourself to the date and back yourself. 3. Don't unload all your trauma, negative experiences from family and friends and exes. They can use that against you. You are valuable and deserve to be treated well. You're saftey comes first Queens 👑

  • @tanyasharadamba1264
    @tanyasharadamba12643 ай бұрын

    "Choose something ... do something every day for yourself." ❤

  • @enhanceyourfeatures

    @enhanceyourfeatures

    2 ай бұрын

    Exactly ❤

  • @Portia620
    @Portia6203 ай бұрын

    Now I don’t care if they abandon me and I’m like whatever. I am so healed. 😂😂. I got this now!

  • @july7578

    @july7578

    2 ай бұрын

    You have a point

  • @AdrienneAliciaGodsDaughter

    @AdrienneAliciaGodsDaughter

    Ай бұрын

    Riiight 💯💯💯

  • @Portia620

    @Portia620

    29 күн бұрын

    It’s funny when they go. You can’t bring up your act. You can’t compare me to your ex and I’m like how am I pissed to not repeat the past I expect you to compare me to your ex cause I’m sure you don’t want your ex do you?😂😂🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️. Wow double wow Somebody comes to me and says that I’m the one they just know and they got butterflies and God told them in the first few minutes. I’m quite concerned because there’s nothing wrong with saying all this person beautiful whatever but that’s not what is it about my ex-husband did the same thing and he left me because he said he didn’t like who I was like the inside in the outside guess what the outside is gonna deteriorate !!!!

  • @Portia620

    @Portia620

    29 күн бұрын

    The same guy gaslit me by telling me. I don’t think you’re ready for a relationship. I’m like OK therapist but last time I checked, I hired a therapist to help me with dating and she told me to date you.😂😂. I think we should see the therapist about what I did.😂 is Mr. GQ too good to be true right by saying I shouldn’t bring up my ex-husband last time. I brought my ex-husband. There was like a little argument. I’m like there’s two arguments. We made it to the f… date and you got to be kidding me! This feels exactully like my last just wrapped up in a prettier package. My ex didn’t have any money at all. A big reason I avoid these guys. I think they’re better off with the sugar babies. There of the ones that tell them exactly what they wanna hear and they’re perfect for them and they perform all kinds of tricks for money but it’s a shallow relationship go get that I’m far from shallow. I’m real and I’m gonna tell the truth.! 🙏🥂

  • @Transform_with_Tea
    @Transform_with_Tea2 ай бұрын

    Awareness is the first step but changed behavior is actual growth 🌶️

  • @Jacquelinerenees
    @Jacquelinerenees2 ай бұрын

    Accepting yourself is 100% the key

  • @FeminineLogos
    @FeminineLogos2 ай бұрын

    “Stop waiting for his text” - time to block him.

  • @Tratamientos44

    @Tratamientos44

    Ай бұрын

    Yes block Him prevents that he back only for ego

  • @FeminineLogos

    @FeminineLogos

    15 күн бұрын

    @@Tratamientos44 They are always bored, have a roster, and when their top 3 or 5 females are unresponsive they start thinking where they can get their dopamine fix. Then they remember the good women, knowing the good ones have genuine emotions and empathy and won’t let them on read. Wrong. We are not dumb anymore. So just block him. As I used to say as a teenager, my door was open all the time for you, and yet, you chose to leave. Now I don’t discuss, when I feel something is off I block him immediately, let him go back to his league, focus on my work and wellbeing and new men are there in minutes (when you detach, completely).

  • @FeminineLogos

    @FeminineLogos

    15 күн бұрын

    Dear ladies: • breadcrumbing - time to block him • manipulative - time to block him • financially unstable - time to block him • not loyal - time to block him • aggressive - time to block him • love bombing - time to block him • devaluation phase - time to block him • stealing money from you - time to block him • hiding his phone - time to block him • watches red pill content - time to block him • no small gifts - time to block him • bad in bed - time to block him • not completely compatible - time to block him • calls you after 10pm - time to block him • has no friends - time to block him • stalking you - time to block him • forcing you to do anything - time to block him • weird way of thinking eg satan!st - time to block him • lazy af - time to block him • thinks men are superior - time to block him • spends more time doing his makeup and hair than you do 😁 - time to block him

  • @bonniejones7919
    @bonniejones79194 ай бұрын

    Great wisdom. I'm 66 and widowed and started dating. Knowing this information is priceless. I'm much calmer and empowered and at peace. Thanks young ladies! You're awesome. 😊

  • @BetterTogether300

    @BetterTogether300

    4 ай бұрын

    @bonniejones79..dont forget condoms...avoid stds get tested

  • @BetterTogether300

    @BetterTogether300

    4 ай бұрын

    More seniors r getting stds cuz of dating in these years. Be careful...get vaccinated against .etc..guardisil.....

  • @heartonic5309

    @heartonic5309

    4 ай бұрын

    Wow ! You're brave. I'm done with dating..at 45 ...it's no longer worth it.

  • @chriskahlson

    @chriskahlson

    4 ай бұрын

    Open, trusted, shared with each others digital devices, I have nothing to hide, how many women are uncomfortable sharing because they are concealing digital deception ?

  • @martharosario1657

    @martharosario1657

    3 ай бұрын

    I'm 62 and out of a relationship for 7 yrs. Thanks to this advice, I know how to ask questions but also how to answer them. It was a struggle, but worth the experience journey. Thanks ❤

  • @flolacandola9396
    @flolacandola93963 ай бұрын

    I have anxious attachment style relationship the more I listens to other podcasts the more I get depressed, when listened to this lady Zohar I understand myself more. I love this lady so much I feel set free.

  • @Portia620

    @Portia620

    3 ай бұрын

    So if they don’t text that freaks you out? I do that with my kids and drive them nuts!!! In realionships I’m like they are busy. My poor kids

  • @enhanceyourfeatures

    @enhanceyourfeatures

    2 ай бұрын

    From what she said…You just need more activities. Go have fun and find yourself

  • @annealcantara6952

    @annealcantara6952

    2 ай бұрын

    I feel you so much! I'm going to start changing!

  • @heidicarlson1740

    @heidicarlson1740

    Ай бұрын

    She is the only one that makes sense and helps you reach your authentic self which is where you need to be!

  • @birdysing
    @birdysing3 ай бұрын

    20.50 The 3 steps:super profound 1. What was my trigger? What disregulated you? 2. Feel the physical sensation in your body for 90 seconds, identify what the sensations are. Focus on the feelings. 3. What is the narrative? Do you have the facts to support this narrative, what are contrary? Try to reframe it. When did you feel it for the first time? Don’t self-abandon. Be there for yourself when it’s uneasy, discomfort. Don’t project your past to the other person you are seeing

  • @tinyelephant77

    @tinyelephant77

    3 ай бұрын

    Thank you

  • @kimgordon3695

    @kimgordon3695

    3 ай бұрын

  • @Jacquelinerenees
    @Jacquelinerenees2 ай бұрын

    I dont know who this woman is, but shes VERY intelligent and real. What she’s saying is 100% legit

  • @helendavies5252

    @helendavies5252

    22 күн бұрын

    Yes!! I wish I'd heard this this time last year, which would have helped me with a situation I've allowed myself to be in. I've bought dating advice from men (online). Listening to the woman and with the help of a therapist and I'm going to brave up this weekend and ask what the hell it is he wants from me and I'm going to tell him what I want .

  • @Tania_888
    @Tania_88821 күн бұрын

    This came at a perfect time. When the student is ready, the teacher appears. ❤

  • @katelynbrown3404
    @katelynbrown3404Ай бұрын

    I love this so much. I keep a baby picture of me, at 1yr old, beside my bed. It’s one of my favorite photos in life because of my sweet face and expression. I tell little baby me that I love her and she’s safe when I feel like garbage juice. I really do imagine a lil baby me on my hip and it humbles me real quick. Instant softee. 💘✨

  • @thereallinnz9407

    @thereallinnz9407

    Күн бұрын

    That's the sweetest thing and it made me tear up🥹♥️ I love that.

  • @Jacquelinerenees
    @Jacquelinerenees2 ай бұрын

    You mentioned that we are afraid to feel the uncomfortable feelings because it reminds us of the most painful experience we’ve ever had. 100%

  • @risdaaprilia7021

    @risdaaprilia7021

    29 күн бұрын

    oMG!!!! That is absolutely true. thats why i dont like to be single and afraid to be with myself because it reminds me during my childhood im all alone at home and i hate it. i hate to be alone

  • @LaughingLead
    @LaughingLead2 ай бұрын

    I am currently in this process, she is exactly right, walk away from people who criticize, want you to be different, those are most likely narcs, abusers,etc. I don’t care who doesn’t like me, I appreciate those who do!

  • @Aisha_babii
    @Aisha_babii4 ай бұрын

    The point she made about not asking certain questions because we don’t want to answer them is very true for me. I don’t ask because I don’t want to have to answer them myself 😩

  • @CatalinaFOIA
    @CatalinaFOIA2 ай бұрын

    This information is coming out so fast... I put the speed on 0.75x and it is perfect! 🙌

  • @Lea-pj5em

    @Lea-pj5em

    24 күн бұрын

    Thanks for the tip! 💪🏼

  • @yvettem.holland5072

    @yvettem.holland5072

    Күн бұрын

    Thanks

  • @TheIloveme9
    @TheIloveme92 ай бұрын

    Digging DEEP with my therapist, breathwork and ending with visualization and meditation, self forgiveness has helped me finally allow myself to succeed and accept and love myself. I’m 52, raised 3 daughters on my own, completed nursing school, and overcame addiction & an abusive childhood of sexual abuse & a mom that hides from everything. NOW I love the bad ass I’ve become- I’m strong and deeply loving & emotional. If a man I meet doesn’t like that- NEXT! ❤ Thank you for your content Lisa!

  • @ashleyalba2193
    @ashleyalba2193Ай бұрын

    This is the FIRST time I don’t have to play a video xfaster and actually slower.

  • @OTF-nv1bw

    @OTF-nv1bw

    Ай бұрын

    Thaaaaank you! Sabrina talks so fast!

  • @sp4rkle81

    @sp4rkle81

    20 күн бұрын

    @@OTF-nv1bwshe does

  • @amaliahettinger3485

    @amaliahettinger3485

    13 күн бұрын

    Haha I’ve had to rewind so many times bc she talks so fast!

  • @zhuifeng

    @zhuifeng

    3 күн бұрын

    i put 0.75 speed😂

  • @alwaysandi5867
    @alwaysandi58674 ай бұрын

    This is mic drop, mind blowing. Helping me reframe sooo much. Things I've felt deep down......validation.

  • @cheeewio
    @cheeewio4 ай бұрын

    Omg this is absolute GOLD. I wish I watched it before I made the decision to stop seeing someone I really liked. Things I could’ve said if I wasn’t operating out of fear / anxiety. I wish I had said, “I really like you and developed feelings over time.” Initially I wasn’t too interested nor did I feel a “spark.” As a result, I couldn’t be myself around him because I had my guard up and I held back. I wish I would have been more open and let my walls down and allowed him to get to know the real me. Instead, that wall drove him away as a result he didn’t put in the effort I desired. Oh well, a learning lesson and I will def need to work on myself and my growth. Tbh we barely dated but I feel kind of heart broken that I let that go 😭.

  • @Amazingme17

    @Amazingme17

    4 ай бұрын

    Don't beat yourself up. You'll have plenty of times to practice this tactic.

  • @Darima2

    @Darima2

    3 ай бұрын

    I do that too. I just found out I have a fearful avoidant attachement style so now Im learning about it to become more aware of how it manifests. I took 2 tests online so I suggest you do that. One is on Personal developemnt schoool website which is also a youtube channel here. Really eye opening.

  • @kimgordon3695

    @kimgordon3695

    3 ай бұрын

    View it as your heart opening 💕

  • @lunarsann5499

    @lunarsann5499

    26 күн бұрын

    dont give up, and explain dont ignore the feeling tell him the feeling.

  • @helendavies5252

    @helendavies5252

    22 күн бұрын

    Yes!!! This is me. At first he showed lots of interest, and I wasn't too sure about him. Then as time went on, the more I found out about him, the more I began to like about him. I was afraid of showing my true self in case he didn't like me. There were many things I wanted to say and didn't. We weren't in a relationship where we were dating, it was an online and phone relationship. We met up several times. Then he told me he'd met someone and I was heartbroken and hurt. A could of weeks ago he contacted me, I braved up and asked about the other woman, he said they'd seen each other for a couple of weeks. I am now going to be brave this weekend and ask what it is he wants from me and why he actually contacted me, as he hasn't replied to a few of my messages. I'm not going to put up with being messed around any longer!

  • @Amazingme17
    @Amazingme174 ай бұрын

    44:58 So true I've had a lot of men get upset because I don't text back fast enough. I'm a FT worker, single mom of 3. Sir, you're not my current priority. Accept that I'm busy & I'll respond back once I slow down for the day. It's a major turn off rather than them simply asking my next availability for a lunch date, etc.

  • @justacoginthefkery
    @justacoginthefkery4 ай бұрын

    This was such a good episode! I know I've come a long way since my abusive LTR, 5 yrs of singledom & entering a new healthy relationship. It was nice to hear confirmation that I have been on the right tracks, but also how I can improve in areas where I've felt confused or unsure moving forward. 💗🤘💋

  • @SheRahMusic
    @SheRahMusic4 ай бұрын

    I left my marriage not because I didn’t love/d my partner. He’s very narcissistic and always blamed others. When I broke up he said to me that I’m the one breaking up and what he’s doing on dating apps 2-3 Days after our break up is non of my concern because I was the one breaking it. Throughout the whole relationship he lacked understanding and empathy Communication about my feelings never been important and always blamed back to me. That at the End he said he regretted me because I never respected him as a man while I put up to his bs for years. Started my own career after staying home with kids for 8 years and now I’m the bad one, just like all the other exes !!! This break up been very very hard I saw how much I need to heal…I wasn’t the perfect one either but emotional and physical neglect hurt her very much. You are married but still alone…that’s not a life I’m 26

  • @brandirobinson8430

    @brandirobinson8430

    3 ай бұрын

    I understand. 24 years off, and on with my narcissist . They'll find another victim. Have pitty for the next one.

  • @kimgordon3695

    @kimgordon3695

    3 ай бұрын

    Be sure to heal b4 dating again. For me it took 5 years. Otherwise you' ll attract theSAME

  • @cc1k435

    @cc1k435

    2 ай бұрын

    I'm there, too, in my 40s. He's the one who's never going to learn a thing. Be glad you are capable of it. Find a support group for trauma and/or domestic violence, online if you have to. It can help a LOT to get feedback from people who have been there, for sure. ❤

  • @vaska1999

    @vaska1999

    16 күн бұрын

    He said things just to hurt you because a narcissist can never be wrong, you know. Start a new hobby, join a group that shares an interest you have, fill your life with activities so you don't sit around replaying endlessly the nasty things that man said to you. And when the memories come, imagine a huge big mirror in front of you, facing his way, so everything he said reflects back on him, without even reaching you. Try this a few times -- it really does help.

  • @marlenehaigler6603
    @marlenehaigler660329 күн бұрын

    I will always be straight, genuine, transparent, and real and loving if that's not what someone else wants they're not right for me. Thank you so much. This is how I've been feeling.

  • @HoneybeeHearts52
    @HoneybeeHearts523 ай бұрын

    I'm not even 10mins in, and this is so damn good and spot on! I love how real this woman is! Speaking the truth!

  • @enhanceyourfeatures

    @enhanceyourfeatures

    2 ай бұрын

    So real

  • @SRHisntSilent
    @SRHisntSilent3 ай бұрын

    Absolutely love how she spoke about this topic

  • @Sherry1092
    @Sherry1092Ай бұрын

    I love that I don’t relate to any of this anymore. I’ve done so much work to heal my trauma and lack of self worth. It’s soooo possible!

  • @nikhat779

    @nikhat779

    Ай бұрын

    Hey, could you guide how you did it?

  • @Genxmom
    @Genxmom4 ай бұрын

    This is pure gold. Thanks you for explaining this so well. ❤

  • @lynnewint3112
    @lynnewint31123 ай бұрын

    I don't like texting either, unless you reach out I won't either, and I'm completely fine

  • @JessforR
    @JessforR2 ай бұрын

    I'm excited to finding this channel. I have been dating, and I don't have time for the games that so many people recommend. Boundaries, healthy attachment, yes, but I'm not chasing and not maintaining interest in people who aren't good for me.

  • @lelaslipgloss1728
    @lelaslipgloss17282 ай бұрын

    This has been the best podcast in years! Sabrina killed it Lisa I am so grateful for your platform and what you do for us ladies! This was the reminder and validation I needed!!!!

  • @alcudiababe1
    @alcudiababe14 ай бұрын

    I agree fully with the woman's opening advice about the anxious attachment if you try and become what you feel the other partner needs like if they didn't like it when their expartner didn't talk about their feelings and shut them out and your naturally a private person - then you'd be abandoning your true self to meet their needs when a simple conversation could be had where it is communicated that you don't talk about your feelings because you deal with yours differently but if you don't do that and have that conversation you are altering your personality for another person. I was actually thinking about the relationship between me and my husband recently but here's the thing, I don't feel self conscious around him like I have to live my life by rules. For example not to swear just because he wants a lady like woman, or to pretend to be okay when things are bothering me because he doesn't want drama - you know things like that - I'm literally my full self around him and I feel comfortable. I don't feel shamed, or embarrassed or like I should have tried to gain his favour - we bicker over things we disagree with. It's healthier to argue in a relationship because people who really don't there's a problem because I don't work to appease him and therefore I'm not stressed with that burden of needing to be self conscious over what I say, how I say what I say (I am that way with my parents but that's just how the dynamic is between us) but because I'm not that way with my husband I'm happier and healthier because I'm not in an anxious state of needing to please him and because the anxiety isn't there mentally I'm free. I don't have to think I have to meet all of his needs for him to like me but if I know he appreciates it when I run a bath for him using my bath bombs I'll do it because I want to make him feel like I care for him..

  • @kimgordon3695

    @kimgordon3695

    3 ай бұрын

    What does saying "NO" ~MEAN

  • @TheCakediva08
    @TheCakediva083 ай бұрын

    I really needed this. I came across this by accident. It is a sign that I need to be more patient and not self sabotage and loose the best man ever.

  • @Jacquelinerenees
    @Jacquelinerenees2 ай бұрын

    Thank you for also stating that this shit IS GOING TO COME UP in relationship. Ive had ppl tell me how much work theyve done alone and that they are solid and ive watched them crumble in relationship.

  • @vvbanx5760
    @vvbanx57602 ай бұрын

    Omg...this is one of the REALEST podcasts I've heard. It's exactly what I needed, in this phase of my personal journey!!!🎉

  • @risdaaprilia7021
    @risdaaprilia702129 күн бұрын

    i dont need playback speed 1.5 times, sabrina zohar talk already so fast. but i always love her! seems like she is my sister and always telling me the truth about real life dating. i know its not fake because its from her experience. i literally follow her anywhere

  • @Khem3
    @Khem33 ай бұрын

    I haven’t checked in with myself with how I’m feeling, when someone does something that I find painful.

  • @chanbriajackson4679
    @chanbriajackson46793 ай бұрын

    I needed this video. I realize the more i heak the less tolerant I am of bad behavior and I take inconsistencies as a no and not take it personally

  • @mzunipeg67
    @mzunipeg67Ай бұрын

    This by far was the most riveting interview I have seen with you. I can so relate to Sabrina and she gives me hope for healing even though I'm still on my forever journey. Oh my so much relatable to her and the examples are so wonderful. Just beyond an awesome episode.

  • @astrogirllll
    @astrogirllll3 ай бұрын

    Love the section on the first date romance. Sooooo insightful

  • @angelalucero64
    @angelalucero642 ай бұрын

    This woman is phenomenal! I feel so much better after watching this video. I have been feeling more confident in my current mindset and life and this confirmed everything for me. Thank you

  • @donna3252
    @donna3252Ай бұрын

    Two of the most powerful women talking I’ve heard to date … so informative. I never wanted you both to stop talking ❤ thank you 😘

  • @purplefler4579
    @purplefler45792 ай бұрын

    This is the best interview so far!! 😎 Eye-opening, really ❤️ Keep talking this fast, love it!! 🌸🌷💐

  • @robyn.lavender
    @robyn.lavender3 ай бұрын

    THE best podcast I've seen. Thank you for helping me take accountability 👏

  • @IAMBRITTNEYLASHA
    @IAMBRITTNEYLASHAАй бұрын

    This was so good! Sabrina your perspective is so needed - especially the probing questions. Thanks.

  • @jegedeoluwanisola7883
    @jegedeoluwanisola78832 ай бұрын

    This session is healing... thank you.

  • @MiZShortiiE
    @MiZShortiiE4 ай бұрын

    This is such a good episode! Thank you so much! ❤ I love that I'm able to see and u derstand more about myself and others

  • @artismagical
    @artismagical3 ай бұрын

    Thank you for your authenticity!

  • @juliesaville9241
    @juliesaville92413 ай бұрын

    I agree with the mirroring is fabulous! Being the one who chases as a women is devaluing yourself I’ve done it. It’s like the natural process was reversed. Not right. Wonderfully honest podcast /interview xx

  • @Portia620

    @Portia620

    3 ай бұрын

    Did that in my marriage and never again! I don’t even get excited anymore. Dating is strange. I’m like sure now let us See how long this last. 😂😂. I just have fun with it and don’t sleep with them or kiss them. Not holding my breath

  • @woboznz

    @woboznz

    29 күн бұрын

    I agree, i have to let the man come towards me and if they don't, i don't chase them. It's not the man for me then. It's just human biology I'll never chase a man again...

  • @batyahjones5763
    @batyahjones57633 ай бұрын

    Absolutely love this I needed this video this morning ❤

  • @siditazzzzzz1925
    @siditazzzzzz19252 ай бұрын

    This was such a great episode! Thank you both for the lovely ideas

  • @andrewc.2952
    @andrewc.29524 ай бұрын

    Oh. My. Gosh. This is literally the moment for me this week. Wowwwww

  • @RoseMoke
    @RoseMoke2 ай бұрын

    What ever words goes out will come back .. becareful of what you said...

  • @quynhvu2381
    @quynhvu23813 ай бұрын

    My experience if a guy really is interested he would text next day and show consistent pursuing behaviors in planning for dates. Good advice for not taking rejection personally. Thank you.

  • @Amazingme17
    @Amazingme174 ай бұрын

    I enjoyed this and loved hearing her self reflection and then how it's best to handle situations 🎉❤

  • @marediththaele1076
    @marediththaele10762 ай бұрын

    This is really good getting a lot of insight from this interview

  • @BK22-2Fish
    @BK22-2Fish2 ай бұрын

    Absolutely loved this interview. Thank you both so much! 👌🫶👸

  • @nicolewilson283
    @nicolewilson2832 ай бұрын

    Lisa, your facial reactions are adorable and funny. So much enthusiasm. ❤

  • @vickig6080
    @vickig60802 ай бұрын

    Such a fantastic conversation. Still a work in progress for me. Thank you

  • @vallyhigh
    @vallyhigh2 ай бұрын

    This was a damn great convo! Such authentic insight, thank you both!🙏🏽

  • @zmazzyhtx
    @zmazzyhtx2 ай бұрын

    Holy shit I could not agree with the intro more. I always thought the dating advice like that is so manipulative and I never understood how it would get me a relationship I actually wanted. Being authentic is absolutely key. That’s why dating is such a nightmare these days, no one is who they are, they’re all playing games. So over it. Excited to listen to the rest of this.

  • @tk28001
    @tk280012 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much I really needed to hear it!!

  • @lalottila4243
    @lalottila4243Ай бұрын

    this interview is so wholesome 🫶🏼 thank you so much for sharing this ❤ greetings from Germany! 🥰

  • @chrisefloyd5905
    @chrisefloyd590517 күн бұрын

    I so needed to hear all this today! It really helped me with all these thoughts going through my head! Thank you ladies!!!

  • @elkak6830
    @elkak68302 ай бұрын

    Love this conversation-so real thank you 🙏

  • @jessicalong6011
    @jessicalong60113 ай бұрын

    This was wonderful. Thank you ❤

  • @trudiegordon6327
    @trudiegordon6327Ай бұрын

    Sabrina is excellent and gave me peace of mind with her explanations - brilliant.

  • @andreaberkovic8029
    @andreaberkovic8029Ай бұрын

    This was one of the best eye-opening podcasts ever, thank you for this interview! Love Sabrina's energy

  • @CanLatinchick
    @CanLatinchick16 күн бұрын

    This is by far the best channel I have watched on this sort of thing. I will be unsubscribing to the other stuff I have been watching and subscribing to yours, it's so real and eye opening. I did the highs and lows for 20 years with my ex. I am in a new relationship now and get those thoughts of wow this is too constant, too steady, no drama but it's because I don't feel I deserve a healthy relationship. I need to work on myself and my own abandonment issues so I can stay in this healthy relationship where my boyfriend shows up for me and my daughter every single day. I cannot thank you enough for making me see this part of me today. God bless you both :)

  • @denizcelestin7700
    @denizcelestin77004 ай бұрын

    Whoa!! Amazing discussion!! 🤯🔥❤️

  • @Passiyona
    @PassiyonaАй бұрын

    I fell in love with this episode, thank you

  • @sonnita1209
    @sonnita120923 күн бұрын

    Oh my goodness… I so needed this! Thank you!🙏

  • @glamdoll7523
    @glamdoll75232 ай бұрын

    This was so good!

  • @lisasmith8202
    @lisasmith820217 күн бұрын

    This is an excellent interview. I definitely have learned something!!❤ Great insights and loved the discussion on validation and traumas affecting the way we perceive things and interact in dating and relationships.❤❤

  • @angelm6497
    @angelm649725 күн бұрын

    Less than 2 minutes in and I have total respect for this woman. I like her and totally agree with her. I think these fake ass apps are building a very rocky foundation for decades to come.

  • @amystefko5484
    @amystefko54844 күн бұрын

    Sabrina, you have all my answers girl. I'm gonna turn this around. I finally get me. Understanding myself is huge. Thank you for being real!!! ❤ Nearly word for word has been my life. The anxiety- so much control. Now I can see it, I can take my life back! 🥰

  • @oh2258
    @oh2258Ай бұрын

    Absolutely amazing ive learnt so much thank you😊

  • @lorrainecurry2501
    @lorrainecurry2501Ай бұрын

    There’s a great book. Never Chase Men Again is the title. Every woman should read this. It’s also on audible.❤❤❤

  • @SarahWeber
    @SarahWeber2 ай бұрын

    This is gold. Thank you ❤

  • @Braveheart0803
    @Braveheart08033 ай бұрын

    Thank you Lisa for this video. ❤

  • @selopibani3220
    @selopibani3220Ай бұрын

    Gosh that part where you talked about your “little me”… really got me 😭

  • @LaceyWhite
    @LaceyWhite3 ай бұрын

    This is so good.

  • @sitasingh7519
    @sitasingh7519Ай бұрын

    Really great discussion. Interesting. It resonated with so many things ❤ 👍 loved it.

  • @Skyscraper111
    @Skyscraper111Ай бұрын

    I loved this one!!!!!! Thanks for enlightening ❤❤❤

  • @handria87
    @handria879 күн бұрын

    I love this interview thank you so much for sharing so much knowledge ❤

  • @ri6653
    @ri66539 күн бұрын

    loved loved loved this video … thank you guys for showing this kind of self love ❤

  • @andreac.6779
    @andreac.6779Ай бұрын

    “If you are not having the conversation bc is detrimental, imagine if you don’t “!!!! Yay

  • @helendavies5252

    @helendavies5252

    22 күн бұрын

    Yes!!! I wish I'd heard this late last year when I wanted to ask someone about what was happening between us. I am doing that this weekend.

  • @agamdc
    @agamdc5 күн бұрын

    I love this woman. So much wisdom and down to earth info.

  • @federicagarciacarrero6513
    @federicagarciacarrero65133 ай бұрын

    So, in defence of younger folks: I’m 23, and I’ve spent the past 5 years working on myself, on all the childhood trauma, cellular memory, family karma, perspective on relationships... I’ve done lots of different types of healing sessions from psychotherapy, hypnosis, coaching, family constellations, numerology, tarot reading, you name it. I do think people from my generation (aka gen Z) are more open to therapy and to understand where our behaviour comes from. I’m not saying we have it figured out, but we do are opening ourselves to make things differently from an earlier age :)

  • @profilingmanipulation

    @profilingmanipulation

    2 ай бұрын

    Thats epic, I'm gen X, 44, I did it all in my 30s & obviously still check in & stay interested in this kind of self work & learning. I think it's amazing what you've done, I only hope my teens are as healthy & I've done a good job & all this pain & self work has been worth it & I've broken the cycle. All the very best to you going forward, never forget to never accept less than YOU deserve, dont settle.. 🥰

  • @valeanualecsandra6233

    @valeanualecsandra6233

    2 ай бұрын

    Good job you started so early

  • @cc1k435

    @cc1k435

    2 ай бұрын

    I admire several things about gen z, actually, and a lot of them come down to their open minds. I feel like my generation (x) has been transitional in some ways, maybe not enough to benefit ourselves all the time, but I hope we leave something better emotionally than we got. ❤

  • @MiaCaraAnna

    @MiaCaraAnna

    2 ай бұрын

    Gen Z just have access to more information at a earlier age

  • @emilyw9818

    @emilyw9818

    2 ай бұрын

    Gen Z is the best!!! I have 3 children that are gen z and their emotional intelligence blows me away!! I have hope for the future of this planet because I know the souls coming in are so evolved! Thank you for doing your part to do ‘the work’. As someone who has also spent over the last five years healing, I know it’s not always easy. 😘🥰

  • @jd606
    @jd60621 күн бұрын

    I BLOODY LOVE you two....best interview ever❤

  • @flying_like_a_heroine
    @flying_like_a_heroineАй бұрын

    Loved her tips on how to emotionally regulate ❤🎉❤ brilliant. 80% of the healing happens in the body. 20% intellectual - feeling is the secret to healing 🎉

  • @rokcsatr
    @rokcsatr5 күн бұрын

    I love how she talks i learned so much

  • @elle88263
    @elle882633 ай бұрын

    Great insight! She speaks very fast.

  • @trudymccann3671
    @trudymccann3671Ай бұрын

    What a fantastic Program! Thank You, THank YOu, THANK YOU!!!

  • @Destinee_Ocean
    @Destinee_Ocean2 ай бұрын

    Great Video! Very Informative!

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