Four things: 1. The whole Steven Crowder vs Daily Wire thing did a number on Steven's credibility. His initial claim/reasoning as to why he was doing this as opposed to how it seem later on into the conflict made Crowder come off as disingenuous. Because of this, because of Crowder's "I chose wrong" and this uploaded video, people are using this clip to solidify their confirmation bias on Crowder being disingenuous and shady. And maybe that's fair. 2. This clip is clearly the middle of a conversation, not the beginning. Naturally, I question why Hilary's family would release part of the conversation and not the entire thing. Context does matter. Additionally, I've seen articles where apparently Hilary's family claim Steven intentionally chose not to be with Hilary when she gave birth to their children. But from what I remember, media outlets reported Steven missed their birth due to him getting elective surgery at the time. Which is true? Not trying to dismiss Hilary entirely, but if you guys are going to bring this out to public light, we need transparency. Not slanted narratives and clips. 3. A lot of people are saying she set Steven up with the Ring camera, talking about she knew it was there. No shit. That's their house. Steven knows it's there too. Besides, if a spouse is allegedly abused and divorce their abusive spouse, typically what they do is try to gather evidence showing that they were being abused. This is a nothing burger statement "She got em". 4. Regardless of the fact that this clip does not show full context of the conversation, in my opinion, Steven Crowder is eating a whole ass L for his behavior. He's way out of pocket. First starters, who the fuck actually speaks like that in real life? Men this, man that, wife this wifely things that. A sociopolitical discussion is one thing, but speaking like that in real life is weird. Especially when we're talking about people married for a decade. You want your 8 month pregnant wife to walk the dogs? You're a multimillionaire. Hire a temporary dog walker. Even if your marriage is on the rocks, is telling your 8 month pregnant wife you don't love her really the best idea given that she's 8 months pregnant and shouldn't be stressed out in any way? Watch it. Fucking watch it. Bruh. Who the fuck talks like that to their spouse. That shit is weird. Steven released a clip on Twitter saying he will be releasing sealed legal documents next week so we have to see where this goes. Not taking Hilary's side per say, but Steven acted like a fucking lame in that clip. If nothing else, he's a chump for that.

@billywashere6965

Жыл бұрын

Yeah he came off as completely unreasonable in this clip HARD. However, I will say, he was 100% correct aobut the Daily Wire, and what happened to Matt Walsh literally proved Crowder's point about WHY he was warning others away from them.

@a.r.mproductions5616

Жыл бұрын

This this this this

@za_sNse

Жыл бұрын

Based

@rabd3721

Жыл бұрын

Also, if it truly was an elective surgery, that means he CHOSE to have dangerous invasive surgery for cosmetic reasons. Or at the very least, he could've scheduled it later. That means his surgery put him in a position to miss the birth of his children. That's on HIM.

@macdaddy1376

Жыл бұрын

common pin of shame L

Is it just me, or is letting your pregnant wife go to the grocery store alone while you’re on the outside patio smoking a cigar fucking insane?

@katet_33

Жыл бұрын

it's not just you.

@alexsandermc9794

Жыл бұрын

What insane about that? just normal dude

@tmerchead1

Жыл бұрын

Trying to stop her can be seen as controlling and abusive nothing you can do than just let her go.

@Haylla2008

Жыл бұрын

It's just you. There's nothing wrong with a pregnant woman going to the store alone while her (probably tired) husband relaxes at home. What's "insane" is the rest of his behavior. Edit: It seems half the population is too stupid to tell the difference between someone talking in general and talking about someone specifically. I'll make it clear for those morons here: I'm not talking about Crowder specifically as neither was the OP. I was talking about his behavior which could apply to anyone else.

@relaxingrain8395

Жыл бұрын

The most sane behavior I've ever seen

The way he said “I don’t love you” and she grabbed her stomach just breaks my heart

@marley606

Жыл бұрын

Does he not realize that causing your wife stress can cause miscarriage? Or brain damage to babies. Did you know that maternal stress can cause autism or other developmental problems?

@Can-rd2ft

Жыл бұрын

Yeah 😔 she covers herself at those words

@GalaletsangSeema

Жыл бұрын

And he doesn’t even flinch when she does that😢

@leeofdoom4452

Жыл бұрын

Marraige ending leads to 2 people saying bad things to each other shocker...

@Katarina23

Жыл бұрын

@@leeofdoom4452 oh look, an incel has arrived. Two people you say? When did she say anything bad to him? What exactly are you defending him for?

You know what actually happened here... he wanted her to put medication on the dogs that was dangerous to pregnant women and to walk the dogs. When she said she was concerned about doing that for the health of the babies (she's 8 months pregnant with twins)... he said to use gloves. When she still refused, he punished her by not allowing her to use the car until she became a "worthy wife" but submitting to his "authority" and use gloves, then walk the dogs.... 8 month pregnant with twins

@pricklycats

26 күн бұрын

Religion is a disease. My dad was quite a bit worse than this guy but they both say very similar phrases. They cherry pick all the parts of the bible that benefit them but ignore the parts that benefit other people.

Anyone who defends this is insane. If nothing else how do you justify telling your very pregnant wife with twins that you don’t love her 😭 I can’t even fathom that terrible gut wrenching feeling of hearing that while carrying his children.

@paulorivera1569

Жыл бұрын

maybe the wife was very verbally abusive before and the camera didnt just show that?? and that Steven just swallowed his pride and waited for this moment??🤷‍♂🤷‍♂

@troypasulka1368

Жыл бұрын

That is your problem? That he expressed his true feelings? This comment is indicative of the real problem...

@alicecoffey1823

Жыл бұрын

And then in his video he says he didn't want the divorce acting like he's the victim. So a man who doesn't love his wife didn't want the divorce? Meanwhile she's telling him "I love you" looks like he drove her to leave him.

@qxtoi

Жыл бұрын

@@troypasulka1368 what exactly is the "real" problem troy? That a man can't simultaneously say he doesn't love his wife, AND won't let her leave his presence? She should have to stay and take it while he expresses his "true" feelings? What's the real problem? I'm dying to know Troy

@troypasulka1368

Жыл бұрын

@@qxtoi Not sure. Technically, there's probably more than one. But the idea that a guy cannot express deep dissatisfaction is definitely part of whatever real problems exist. He did NOT force her not to leave his presence (that is, there was no clear indication that that actually occurred.)

He sounds abusive af and she sounds scared to make him mad.

@lt.2992

Жыл бұрын

That and fed up. Like its not even worth it at that point because he’s a pos!

@leeofdoom4452

Жыл бұрын

Petty arguments are abuse in 2023

@bozzy7946

Жыл бұрын

@@leeofdoom4452 when you are telling her you don't love her and don't intend on letting her use the car, and she's saying I love you over and over that's probably abuse.

@leeofdoom4452

Жыл бұрын

@@bozzy7946 he also references how she uses words and not actions. He literally says 'you keep saying you love me, put on the gloves, walk the dogs but no' So nice words and no actions. And that would be the first time in history a woman used language to get the upper hand.

@bozzy7946

Жыл бұрын

@@leeofdoom4452 lolol that seems inconsequential compared to "I gotta discipline you" type of nuttiness. He got her pregnant so maybe he shouldn't be stressing her out unless there is a more heinous goal in mind for him.

'You want to use the car to get groceries, then I CAN'T HANG OUT WITH MY FRIENDS' isn't that what all full grown men say to their pregnant wives?

@D_McGeezacks

Жыл бұрын

He demands she performs chores and errands that are risky to her health, but whines like a toddler when it might impede on his leisure. Like gtfo of here

@emmycaty4670

Жыл бұрын

All about himself.

@ashleigh9659

Жыл бұрын

He said he can't call his friends like somehow taking the car means his phone won't work

@mikeansley5306

Жыл бұрын

Crowder doesn't even have friends he has sycophants. Guaranteed he is that guy.

@vazanere

Жыл бұрын

@@D_McGeezacks Putting dishes in the dishwasher isn't risky.

The fact that the pregnant wife was trying reassure him verbally and he could even do the same…instead he did the opposite and continued to fuel the argument.

@troypasulka1368

Жыл бұрын

He is obligated to say he loves her but she can file for divorce... Stop and think a little...

@SparkleMc777

Жыл бұрын

@@troypasulka1368 Are you slow? Read the comment again and watch the video NPC.

@prizethought

Жыл бұрын

Nothing you say to narcs or abusive men matter man, they just want control/power over you, their idea of having a relationship is controlling people. Their idea of loving women is possessing & taking advantage of them.

@troypasulka1368

Жыл бұрын

@@prizethought he literally said everything was fine when she simply agreeed, temporarily, to walk the dog… then she divorced him… he was not in control, and just wanted basic cooperation, it appeared

@coffeebean4356

Жыл бұрын

@@troypasulka1368 don’t get married

If the dozens of people who've work with you / live with you & arent connected to each other all say you got a bad temper, you engage in snaky business & you're controlling... Maybe you're the problem. The common denominator in all of these accusations is crowder & there are too many to count. If we add your wife to that list, it looks exponentially worse. But who knows, maybe crowder will drop information that will change his public perception.

@ItsJJECC

Жыл бұрын

Incoming incels with the “it’s none of our business” or “we don’t know the full story” comments

@tedjones1021

Жыл бұрын

@NBA CryptoBoy Common cryptobaby L

@OMAR-vk9pi

Жыл бұрын

@@ItsJJECC they already started lmao like at least don’t make it so obvious bias mfs

@chamezme

Жыл бұрын

I always got bully vibes from him. He seems to be someone who's filled with anger. Tbh, at some point, I believed he was gay and couldn't express himself.

@blankblank2924

Жыл бұрын

@NBA CryptoBoy why come watch then? You obviously don’t agree and don’t like them why keep coming back?

NEVER idolize a person you dont know, you can support their message and adopt it for yourself, but never idolize someone you dont know. Just cause theyre on our screens, doesnt mean we know who they really are.

@noone2706

Жыл бұрын

He makes some good points but I dont think hes a family man anymore...

@houseofhas9355

Жыл бұрын

My policy online people don't exist. They're Bots, so don't believe or look up to them lol I don't know these people how do I prove they are not bots.

@justagoose7741

Жыл бұрын

or just dont idolize anyone.

@ptolemeeselenion1542

Жыл бұрын

He already was an uppity piece of work prior having his video surveillance footage leaked-- Aba & Preach made it a point to remind us about it, a couple times over. You already have some low standards, if you put such type of person over a pedestal, to begin with.

@robertmyers6488

Жыл бұрын

It's not about him or her. It's about casting judgement and believing what you see is the whole story, and then believing you would never be tempted to go off the deep end. Pride is dangerous.

I was in a relationship very similar to this. The reason (I think) he doesn't want a friend to pick her up is because it would make him look bad. Getting an uber is basically having a stranger drive her. He can't risk having his image ruined. Because any normal person would ask her why her husband wouldn't let her drive their own car, and if she told the truth, it would threaten how he wants others to perceive him. It's all about control. Another thing he does is tells her that she doesn't really love him. That she has to prove her love to him by doing certain tasks. Like giving the dog a medication that is potentially harmful to her babies. So instead of doing it himself to protect the babies, he wants her to potentially cause damage in order for her to prove her love. Its honestly sick. He's a pathetic excuse of a man.

@troypasulka1368

Жыл бұрын

"Like giving the dog a medication that is potentially harmful to her babies." - What does this mean? Did he ask her to give the medicine to the baby...??

@olympiadreamer6992

Жыл бұрын

​@@troypasulka1368 are you serious? He says put on glove bc obviously the dog medicine can be absorbed through the skin?

@olympiadreamer6992

Жыл бұрын

@@troypasulka1368 why are you giving me the fourth degree for tryna answer your question dude? If you don't trust others information find out for yourself damn lol

@theautohabit6062

3 ай бұрын

@@olympiadreamer6992 for real LoL

@caryg4638

3 ай бұрын

I understand your perspective and points. However, a woman who is 8-months pregnant should not be driving behind a wheel that could deploy an airbag at 200 mph towards her belly.

Yeah stress is really bad for pregnant women. My mom was pregnant when she was going through a divorce and her family was also not helping at all and were all up in arms saying it’s not the Christian thing to do, and it was a lot for her. Her baby ended up dying right before birth. She’s no longer a Christian. As a kid I didn’t really know how to understand what was going on and how to feel about it.

@irene-hv4gt

Жыл бұрын

So sad for what happened to your mum😢😢 and so sad that the behavior of her family that are sinners like everyone else in this world, stopped her from being a christian - which means a follower of Jesus Christ, that loved us and paid the price for our sinners, in order to reconcile us to God. I looked at people from church and I was disappointed and I left church and God…. But after many years I realized that my salvation is personal and I have to look at what Jesus did for me. The church is like a hospital, full of people that need help and a change ( of heart). We are never meant to put our trust in man 100%, because they will surely disappoint us 100%. Only God can be our idol, our perfect model that will never let us down…. otherwise we are not perfect none of us, but we have a life that the spirit of God is trying to change us, to make us better and better …. till we’ll die . Be blessed!!

He treats his wife like an employee and himself like a manager. He thinks he's still in the studio even at home. Cruel and sad to see

@TheAlexSmith17

Жыл бұрын

You only see 2 mins into their life, not enough time to raise an accurate conclusion on their home life

@jurgenkuka7962

Жыл бұрын

@@TheAlexSmith17 In this case it was just like that. If you have a pregnant wife and act in that way, you are shit human being. She tells him several times she loves him and doesn't engage and he has the gall to say he doesn't love her unless she "picks up the gloves" and does errands, while at the same time carrying and developing his LITERAL CHILD.

@TheAlexSmith17

Жыл бұрын

@@jurgenkuka7962 what I previously said I'll say again, can't raise an accurate perspective on their everyday home life out of a 2 min clip on a cam that she knew was rolling

@TheAlexSmith17

Жыл бұрын

@user-et2ng1qb2m for all we know she could've been acting in such way because of the camera and he might not of been thinking camera and oh maybe I should act different here. Don't know

@jhordyjimenez6283

Жыл бұрын

@@TheAlexSmith17 ill give you a freebie. When people say things like "that's shitty" "He's shit" "its a shitty thing to do" They're using infantile language, which is common among the progressives that view politics as a religion and lgbtq (emphasis on. The T) community. I believe it's use to avoid "problematic" insults. The person is not trying to be rational.

"the only way ...is discipline and respect" she's not your child???? ugh my blood is BOILING.

It is almost like Steven thinks obedience/compliance = love/loyalty.

@Gchild2k6

Жыл бұрын

It is for a man. We are not females, well you can't really tell these day with some guys acting like they are.

@alayhaferron1972

27 күн бұрын

@@Gchild2k6so if a man says jump off a bridge and I don’t I don’t love him and I’m disloyal

Huge red flag for me was when she said Ill have someone come pick me up and she then says... who would you like me to ask? Asking him who SHE can call as to not piss him off with WHO she calls and then the best part of that...he is taking it as a threat. Good for her getting out!!!

@missinterpretation4984

Жыл бұрын

That stuck out to me too. Who would you like me to call? That’s how controlling she’s used to him being.

@jeffjones7108

Жыл бұрын

Give someone 10 years of marriage and they'll show you who they really are. And sometimes it's really really ugly.

@procastination_is_my_passi4182

Жыл бұрын

That's a good point! I didn't even catch that

“I am committed to you.I love you.” “I don’t love you,that’s the problem.” That shit hurt me too when he said it lol

@Gchild2k6

Жыл бұрын

Before you go into your weak feelings ask yourself why he said that. She is just talking aimless words. She does not love him as she does not show any actions to prove it. So out of hurt aka him actually loving her and doing everything for her aka providing her a nice life etc and not getting it back he said that. If she loved him, she would follow discipline and show him respect. She does not. If she loved him and was committed, she would not walk out. NOTICE THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SAYING SOMETHING V ACTIONS TO PROVE IT? Females are the greates liars, deceitful narcissists. Do not follow what they say, WATCH AND TREATE THEM BASED ON WHAT THEY DO.

@ThinkAboutElephantss

Жыл бұрын

Ikr, like I’m not even in the relationship and I felt that.

@Gchild2k6

Жыл бұрын

@@ThinkAboutElephantss luckily the world does not operate based off your delusional feelings. Try operating on facts if you know the difference

@johnlennon6790

Жыл бұрын

Divorce was already in the works. It's weird to act like they were supposed to be a loving couple here - they were not, they were ending their marriage before this exchange. That definitely matters.

@darkhorse381

Жыл бұрын

@@johnlennon6790 She was loving, he was not. He wasn't acting like this is out of the ordinary for him or that there's something fundamentally wrong. He's talking as if this is just a normal expectation for a pregnant wife

Preach sniffs out the shady people and has extremely accurate moral and emotional judgements and awareness. He sees the abusive people and mentally ill people much more clearly.

And this is why women initiate most divorces...

I have a pregnant wife and I couldn't imagine putting her through this much mental labor. The way she cradled her belly after he said I DON'T love you, man that shit made me cry

@jule3480

Жыл бұрын

That was beautifully written and bought a tear to my eye. You and your wife are lucky to have each other.

@llewylnmoss

Жыл бұрын

lol go on softy

@charliecostella

Жыл бұрын

She hasn't had to work in 15 years all she has to do is take care of the house and dogs😮 so she has to make sure she's there when the maid gets there😮 put gloves on to put flea medicine on a dog oh no that's too much to ask😅

@veronicagrave159

Жыл бұрын

It’s incredibly hurtful. I remember how sensitive I was when I was pregnant. It would’ve crushed me if my husband told me he didn’t love me, and I was carrying our child. It’s definitely harsh.

@phantom6014

Жыл бұрын

@@charliecostella So that's excusing his dogshit behavior in the video or something? :^)

How she's just trying to de-escalate the situation and not even fighting back yet he just wants to pick a bone, makes me think this isn't the first time this has happened. That alone was alarming. Just yikes.

@brbsnortingcatnip

Жыл бұрын

@@thevoid7765 Oh did she? Show us that she was yelling at him.

@Lina-lq7jm

Жыл бұрын

And Jonny and Amber story also seemed one way at first. It's clear that this is the middle of the conversation. Who can tell what happened before that? She leaked the video. That means she made sure that this portion was shown, and not others. If she really was the victim, she would have shown the whole thing.

@theinvisiblewoman5709

Жыл бұрын

Weird because he could of released the footage of what happened before in his response to this leak. He didn’t. What he did do is double down being the victim. Some men are kind when you first meet them and then turn evil after you commit to them (some wait for exclusivity, some for marriage, some for kids). It’s weird how when you see this in action you deny it. Cognitive dissonance much?

@iamkd7212

Жыл бұрын

Yes, he definitely has been bullying this poor lady for some time…

@elenabob4953

Жыл бұрын

Do you know how hard is for a woman to restrain herself in that situation and just "play it for the camera"? What see acts come as natural so I would put it on the top 5% when it comes to deescalation among women.

It's a control thing. It's not that he needs the car he just needs to feel in control. It's a narcissistic thing to do for him to throw his own insecurities and project them onto his wife. It's crazy, I actually thought I liked Steven crowder but seeing this just reminds me of the way my dad treated myself, my siblings and my mom. His name is also Steve funny enough lol

@terrencemoldern2756

Жыл бұрын

Hope you are doing well now

@MistyEry

Жыл бұрын

Yes I have to wonder. It seems like he had a very spoiled upbringing. It’s a family business and it seems he doesn’t speak to his mother always kindly when I have seen clips of her. You have to wonder how he became this way.

@Zach-sg5uu

9 ай бұрын

He probably paid for the car. Why does it matter if she takes an Uber if he pays for it?

@heyhey439

6 ай бұрын

@@Zach-sg5uu Missing the point. Just don't get involved with women if this is confusing to you.

@caryg4638

3 ай бұрын

A pregnant woman should not be behind the wheel of a car with a belly that big.

This isn't about a car. It's 100% about control.

He had the nerve to weaponize scripture about a wife being worthy... Which is what a lot of wolves in sheep’s clothing do.

Things my husband wouldn’t let me do while pregnant: 1. Get into a car with a stranger. 2. Walk or even pet a dog. 3. Go grocery shopping in my 8th month. This woman was 8 months pregnant with twins! She was already exhausted just standing. Yet he wants her to show him respect by walking their big azz dog. Exactly how easy does he think it is for her to bend over and pick up anything off the ground, let alone dog sh-t? 🤬

@mememachine5244

Жыл бұрын

Nah, you dont get to litearlly do nothing just becase youre pregnant, youre in fantasy land. Many women work up until their due date. If shes okay enough to go driving and go places shes good enought to pick up grocceries.

@ShxpxRok

Жыл бұрын

I agree isn't a man supposed to take care of his wife? Then again you are going off an out of context situation maybe before this she said she was going to do these things walk the dog or take an uber etx and then changed her mind last min we just do not have enough info to make a informed statement and again your relationship is not their relationship.

@scourge8097

Жыл бұрын

@@mememachine5244 Many women work up until their due date? Are those women usually wealthy women? This is such a weak and cowardly move dude. I thought real Men take CARE of their women? Provide, protect...? Now, I don't give a shit if you touch your dog and you can go Grocery shopping(it'd be weird if you literally meant he wouldn't LET you)...but a women shouldn't be working up until their due date. That's not healthy for anyone.

@scourge8097

Жыл бұрын

@@ShxpxRok Seems pretty unlikely as he brings up over and over that she "won't even put on gloves," and that's not part of the discussion until he just starts bringing it up. Sounds like you're REALLY stretching for excuses here...

@jonniehickson5599

Жыл бұрын

​@@avastone5539 She should not be driving at 8 months pregnant what if she goes into labor behind the wheel . Why couldn't he just go with her? It's obvious that he is doing nothing but running his mouth.

The fact that they only have one car is such a red flag. It’s a huge mechanism of control.

So she can’t take the car because she is “putting him in a box”?? That seemed like total emotional abuse

“You’re not doing your wifely duties, we have no groceries.” “Okay, I’ll go get the groceries.” “No, you can’t take the car then I can’t go anywhere, why are you trying to box me in?” That’s abuse, no matter what she does he’ll belittle and berate her.

@LethalByChoice

Жыл бұрын

He's being INCREDIBLY unreasonable.

@onemorescout

Жыл бұрын

I bet he never planned on leaving that couch either, talking about “boxing him in.” SMH

@ND-dd5sp

Жыл бұрын

Definitely control and manipulation! He should be ashamed of himself so embarrassing

@blessingike7004

Жыл бұрын

Seriously. He kept flip flopping his arguments to give himself the upperhand on her

@xposetruth5681

Жыл бұрын

That’s not abuse dummy.

1. Telling her to handle dog medicine toxic to pregnant woman. 2. Telling her to walk the dog whilst she is 8 months pregnant with twins. 3. Also she only applied for divorce AFTER he started contacting divorce attorneys.

yo him saying “i picked wrong” about his wife after she left him implies that he expects his wife to put up with that kind of behavior from him. absolutely no accountability

"I can have someone pick me up" "Is that a threat?" What?

I went through horrible stress in my pregnancy. My husband’s uncle stole from us and screamed in my face every day. Awful. My son came 6 1/2 weeks early bc of the stress. My son is perfectly healthy but had to spend 11 days in nicu. Now he’s 4 1/2 in preschool and doing really well. My husband’s uncle is cut off completely from me and my child. You DONT stress out a Pregnant woman like this. Poor girl. It’s probably best they’re divorcing

@luciferhasfallen3381

Жыл бұрын

I'm happy that everything is sorted out now, wish you the best of luck.

@hahahaaha7208

Жыл бұрын

This makes me wonder. If a woman cant have an abortion because roe fell, will the extreme stress she will be in harm the baby? I am also guessing she will engage in risky behaviour and substance abuse. Welp, this is what pro lifers wanted I guess...

@NurmaBP

Жыл бұрын

@@hahahaaha7208 So being abuser or a killer, or both? Still not the baby's fault. We are the who failed the innocent soul.

@iwillgowiththatcat8667

Жыл бұрын

@@NurmaBP can’t be a killer if the baby is dead and needs to be aborted from the mothers womb.I swear you dead head pro lifers don’t get what abortions is and why it’s needed

@aram8458

Жыл бұрын

Why is his surgery not taken into account. Whatever it may be extracting money in millions from him shows who is abuser.

"i don't love you" To his 8-month pregnant wife of 10 years? Damn.

@tak2ulata

Жыл бұрын

So he’s not allowed to tell the truth clearly, he is tired of the situation

@ihanakaunotar2741

Жыл бұрын

@@tak2ulata lmao, he’s asking her if she’s committed but then he’s not committed. That’s fucked up to tell a pregnant woman, that amount of stress can literally cause issues for the his kid.

@RedNinja0070

Жыл бұрын

@@tak2ulata I hope someone treats you like this like you want her to get

When my wife was pregnant. Much to her annoyance i insisted on doing everything. Not because i had to. But because i wanted to.

@jmlorenzo3639

10 ай бұрын

❤

When he said "Is That A Threat?" Thats when I knew what he was doin had malicious intent... Why the fuck would her asking for a ride from somebody after u said she couldnt take the car, be a threat?! Lmao smh He dont want nobody outside to know how manipulative he's being towards her smh 🤦🏾‍♂️

Her saying "I love you" is to soothe herself, and him at the same time & de-escalate the situation. It is very sad. 😔

@joanna0988

Жыл бұрын

Yes, it's called fawning.

@11kabula

Жыл бұрын

@@joanna0988 Thanks for the proper term

@Splexsychiick

Жыл бұрын

Depressing. And soon after he says he doesn't love her. He's sick. Very sick.

@atbender89

Жыл бұрын

Totally agree. It seemed like she had to calm herself down and tell herself that she loved him. The word is affirmation. Saying the same thing over and over, and willing it into existence. Almost like she had to trick herself into staying with him.

@cmoore421

Жыл бұрын

Yeah and his response “i dont love you because you’ve never shown me love” shows why it cant be deescalated so easily because these are clearly deep seeded issues that have existed for a while.

I recall many conversations like this with my ex fiancé. Complaining about me not doing my “duties” and what not I was just hospitalized for 2 weeks at 26 weeks pregnant and was diagnosed with multiple stress related complications. Ultimately I gave birth and survived but unfortunately my son didn’t survive. That experience was a wake up call to finally leave his abuse. Despite the pain and grief, somehow I have the most peace I’ve had in years.

@Samira87333

Жыл бұрын

That's horrible. I pray you find your peace and not blame yourself.

@ihanakaunotar2741

Жыл бұрын

Men like that should never have kids, because they lack empathy and ultimately aren’t even men, but boys.

@bobithasmitherson

Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry

@Ryv05

Жыл бұрын

Do you think the stress from the relationship had anything to do with your miscarriage of your son? I’m not sure how it works. Sorry for your loss. ❤

@missp498

Жыл бұрын

OMG thats heart breaking.

I used to work in upper middle class neighborhoods as a behavioral therapist. Some of these people have the most interesting family dynamics. They just master how to hide it. Having money is nice not going to lie but at what cost? He definitely has a control issue based on how he spoke to her. He uses his money as leverage against her. He’s an abusive narcissist.

How could he miss his children being born? Was he serving overseas in Iraq? That was one of the greatest moments in my life. I almost passed out on the first baby. And that's just because I looked over the curtain and all that blood. Looked like nevermind c section but I heard their first breath I was crying like a bitch. My kids are the greatest gifts in my life. Precious cargo . If we only had one car I'd be the one taking the bus or whatever. I've never taking a Uber before. I've taken a taxi before similar but it's not the same. I've rented a limo and that's definitely not the same.

I attempted to walk my 2 70lb dogs while I was 6 months pregnant when my husband was at work and he sternly advised me not to do that again because he was so scared for me and our sons safety and reminded me that they're dogs and can wait for when he gets home. Ironically that month in 2018 I introduced my husband to Louder with Crowder. We are very disturbed by his actions.

@Unclejamsarmy

Жыл бұрын

In retrospect do you think this is a red flag in your own thinking? To me Steven has obviously been a dishonest POS the whole time, and while I’m on the left I don’t think that shapiro or many others are this dishonest and cruel but I always thought he was. He seemed clearly like a closeted bi or gay, narcissistic, delusional, grifting scumbag w daddy issues. Not to mention a Canadian 😅

@Freya1412

Жыл бұрын

Same. My husband specifically walked MY dog when I was pregnant. He didn't want me taking chances even though Hiro was well trained. He also cleaned up after the dog and took over grooming when I couldn't manage it anymore. He hates doing that stuff but he did it. I didn't even ask him to do it.

@JWSoul

Жыл бұрын

Yeah i said this outload to myself that's a big dog! I work with mainly women they pull their weight even when pregnant but a big dog waling it ! No if my partner insisted i would walk with her! That wa s 50KG dog at i would guess! She wouldn't weigh much more.

@Unclejamsarmy

Жыл бұрын

@@Freya1412 this woman was a Steven crowder fan since 2018 how is that not the most obvious problem here??? Even most conservative women aren’t Steven crowder fans!!

@Unclejamsarmy

Жыл бұрын

@@JWSoul this woman was a Steven crowder fan since 2018 how is that not the most obvious problem here??? Even most conservative women aren’t Steven crowder fans!!

I feel so bad for the wife. Glad she is done taking that kinda verbal and mental abuse. He’s a straight up narcissist by the way he was acting in that video. She deserves so much better.

@ezrahinkley6132

Жыл бұрын

Not only narcissistic but obsessive, possessive, and psychotically controlling.

@opticalraven1935

Жыл бұрын

And you have assholes saying "muh context". Poor girl tried to decompress the situation and he wouldn't let it go.

@siobhanrose1680

Жыл бұрын

@@opticalraven1935 Exactly, she was 100% trying to decompress the situation, he is 100% abusive.

@prizethought

Жыл бұрын

Yeah being with controlling, abusive, neglectful or possessive men is suffocating, years of your life can fly by in emotional & psychological prison

@caryg4638

3 ай бұрын

She should not be driving with an 8-month pregnant belly.

That was an ego fight with a 8 months pregnant woman. I’m pregnant right now and I can’t even imagine how she felt, my husband would never talk to me like that.

@mysticstrikeforce5957

Жыл бұрын

Yha but man are always taught the issues women go through when being pregnant so I don't think he's in the wrong. As if my wife who's is pregnant has to go somewhere ill go with her even if she doesn't want me to as anything can happen when she leaves the house

@MrBuns-yi2hk

Жыл бұрын

Congratulations on the baby!

@ahsoka6807

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, but no offense man your projecting your personal feelings onto the situation especially so since you're pregnant so there is a lot of bias there.

@Macheako

Жыл бұрын

@@ahsoka6807 and you’re not? So ONLY the pregnant woman can be emotional???! Bruh 😂😂 y’all wild ❤

@jaffamaalin

Жыл бұрын

you better not use the car, preggy😂😂😂😂

I would say he’s a narcissist. He definitely has control issues. And you never can win. Any kind of argument or conversation with a narcissist. I can feel this woman’s fatigue. He actually needs her personality for fuel. Watching this clip. It’s almost PTSD for me. I lived it for 30 years. This type of person will actually kill you, because you will become sick.

@fruitytarian

Жыл бұрын

How did you survive? I have a family member who is a narcissist and I am constantly on edge when I'm at home 😢 I hate it..

@AbbyEllie69

Жыл бұрын

@@fruitytarian Narcissism is a mental illness so to say. You have to separate yourself from the person. You will never win an argument with a narcissist, your point will never come out on top.. narcissist don’t take responsibility, and they live in their own alternate reality. . That’s not sustainable for any …I divorced my narcissist, being out of his space my health got better, my mental state of being got better. I’m still healing, and it will take time, but healing was never going to be an option as long as I stayed with my narcissistic husband. You are not bound by blood ties or even family ties. At some point you have to put yourself first. And you need to separate yourself from the narcissist, that’s the only chance of survival. Otherwise, you are gaslighting yourself. I had a doctor, a neurologist. Tell me she could help me, but she needed me to consider that my primary relationship was making me sick. And that unless I changed or considered that, I would stay sick. She was right, but it took me eight years to pull the plug after she said that. Thank you for your comment, and God bless you, may you find the courage to put yourself first above the narcissistic relationship, and keep on moving forward, don’t look back. You are worth it.❤️

@jessp8238

Жыл бұрын

@@fruitytarianThe only way is to get out ASAP and go no contact.

@fruitytarian

Жыл бұрын

@@jessp8238 I'm working on it..

My heart absolutely breaks for her, im happy shes safe and away from him now. But im not even 1% surprised he is abusive behind closed doors.

"The only way out of this is discipline and respect" What is he talking about? and he's speaking to her like a child! I'm glad she got out of that.

@jdeux3677

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like manosphere ish...always asking for submission

@Puriantartica

Жыл бұрын

He talks to her like she's a dog that has to be trained or something. It's disgusting

@forgetaboutitwillya.2981

Жыл бұрын

​@@PuriantarticaYou ever think she might act like one in the past? Hence, why he is checking her? We don't know these peoples full history to judge either based on one leaked argument. For all we know she can be a piece of shit too. Just not in this video.

@Aaron-kj8dv

Жыл бұрын

He sounds like a prison warden "the beatings will stop when morale improves"

@gsuandre5579

Жыл бұрын

But it looks like she does not have a job because that is the only way you can financially cut a person, basic shore is the only thing she does, i have few coworkers pregnant till 2 weeks before labor, again we dont know in a 10 year marriage what is happening ussually the argument is about something else that is been happening for a long time, the dog is just a excuses to have the argument or a tipping point, we dont know their couple dynamic. But if in a week you just have to walk the dog, do groceries 2 times and cook, clean 2 times a week, while tne other person runs a bussines thT is ussually 12 hours work day, he might have a reason to be mad. He might be crazy too, we dont know

He doesn’t believe in abortion but he’s all for his wife doing activities that will cause harm to their unborn child. The irony.

@Gchild2k6

Жыл бұрын

So her going out alone pregnant during covid is of less threat than walking a dog in the safety of their home which is better for a pregnant female?? Can you engage your brain.

@AB-bc9tf

Жыл бұрын

@@Gchild2k6 they mentioned on this channel and others that the issue was the dog was taking a medication that is harmful to pregnant women.

@Gchild2k6

Жыл бұрын

@@AB-bc9tf dont fall that bs. If that was so why would he have the dog in the video around her? Use your brain. Stop falling for these lying females. Remember Amber Turd.

@dagm1498

Жыл бұрын

@@Gchild2k6 given how he was all for her Ubering to the grocery store by her fully pregnant self without any company, I’d say he wasn’t too worried about the pandemic either

@Gchild2k6

Жыл бұрын

@@dagm1498 the uber bit was a sarcastic response to her rudeness and disrespect. She was the was insisting of going out during the pandemic whilst pregnant to endanger her life and his child. Typical of females who dont think of anyone but their feelings.

Even coming into the conversation midway, while it can lose some context, Steven's obvious arrogance towards this pregnant wife, his entire demeanor (sitting on the lounge smoking a cigar) and belittling her so viciously, is just disgusting. It's amazing the lies that someone can start seeding when they have a captive audience, glorified echo chamber, where Steven can pretend that he is the victim in all of this. I hope she takes him for all she is worth.

After watching many of Crowders "Change My Mind" episodes, I was so under the impression that Steven was genuinely level-headed, rational, patient and not at ALL like the monster he's proven himself to be. My intuition about people isn't usually this wrong, but this time - I was DEAD wrong. Very disappointed in Crowder, and I hope and pray his ex-wife is able to find the peace and healing that she deserves.

@LuisMiguel-on5oe

Жыл бұрын

You're truly retarded

@js2188

Жыл бұрын

The change my mind stuff is completely one sided and setup. They are constructed unfairly to make him seem intelligent

@ravemachin

Жыл бұрын

Yeah because a guy wearing a holstered gun in his garage to do a show on KZread is surely level headed

@troypasulka1368

Жыл бұрын

And you're calling him a monster based on a distorted three-minute not-even-complete video that the wife leaked?

@ravemachin

Жыл бұрын

@@troypasulka1368 who knew incels would defend this scumbag

he's the reason why we want our daughters to be educated and have their own money... she did not have her own car, he talked to her like a dog...

@smileyface1956

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! For guys like him feminism was a thing

@ihanakaunotar2741

Жыл бұрын

@@smileyface1956 yep, men forget what created feminism from the start, controlling men who were abusive. Over time feminist have become that too now, so then red pill movement, which is turning toxic as well. But everything is created by something.

@watamutha

Жыл бұрын

Well abuse doenst stop just bc you have money

@gabrielchin4161

Жыл бұрын

​@@watamutha but it will be easier to leave the abuse right?

@AngryReptileKeeper

Жыл бұрын

@@watamutha No, it doesn't. But it's a hell of a lot easier to leave when you're not financially dependent on the person abusing you.

My husband would NEVER let me go out the house without him (besides seeing my family) when I was pregnant out of concern for someone might see me as a target and try something or in case I went into labor. He would pick things up for me that I asked for but if I wasn’t going somewhere he already knew was safe, he was going with me. The thought of me getting anything like an Uber (which is getting in a strangers car, even if you’re paying them) would’ve been OUT OF THE QUESTION. His family wouldn’t even let me do that. They’d take me places too bc they wanted to make sure I was safe. The lack of love in this BLOWS MY MIND

@mysticstrikeforce5957

Жыл бұрын

So are u on crowder side or the wife as im crowder side even if I do t know the dude. The fact he cares about her safety shows people don't know the struggle pregnant women go through. I have lot of women in my life get pregnant and yha they need help just to get up from the couch. Plus what if her water broke then what specially when she's driving. It's best if she just bring crowder along as he said he'll come and help

@jolandafrijlink6103

Жыл бұрын

That was what i was thinking too, pregnant with twins at 8 months still driving..HELL NO. My husband would take me anywhere i need to be.

@ZedoBlack

Жыл бұрын

​@@mysticstrikeforce5957 did we watch the same video? It doesn't look like he gives a single shit about his wife. He was only worried about himself and how he felt being left at home, meanwhile she's stressed tf out.

@Macheako

Жыл бұрын

@@ZedoBlackshould he be worried about the wife or the unborn child?

@tiramisu7544

Жыл бұрын

@@Macheako The simple answer is that he should be equally worried about everyone in his family. This includes his wife, his 2 kids, and the unborn child she is carrying to full term. This clip shows the EXACT opposite of that.

This is so scary to me bc I've been this woman my whole life I was raised traditional and did whatever it took to make my husband happy but soon I realized everything that made him happy was destroying me from the inside out. However I don't know if our story is excatly the same bc I'm not in their marriage it could be a completely different set up but steven behaviour comes off very similar to my ex husbands best day of my life is when my ex husband told me he wanted a wife that he didnt have to be married to I would have never left on my own. (I have a good partner now that puts me 1st just as I do him)

Abusive men hiding under conservative value of life style are foul. You can tell she's terrorized.

She gave birth and he bought a townhouse, moved out, cut his family off financially and hired a divorce attorney. He abandoned his family. And he knew if his fans found out they’d dump him because they care about family values. So he lied to them and said he didn’t want the divorce. He even tried to act like he is so against divorce and believes so much in family values that he would force his wife to stay if he could. But the reality is he abandoned his family, lied about it, and some of his fans fell for it.

@akilahbrooklyn8236

Жыл бұрын

Best Response! 👋👋👋 This is what I have been trying to tell people all along. Do I think he's an abuser? No. But he's definitely a manipulative, narcissistic, habitual lying fraud who wanted 'out' of his marriage, but tried to paint a different story to the public. Steven was trying to protect his 'conservative' brand. Plain and simple.

@joshfly210

Жыл бұрын

I wish there was more information to prove he went to a divorce attorney instead of the word of his wife’s family. Context and proof would be nice to make an informed decision.

@amilcarballantyne

Жыл бұрын

Where's the proof of this, people keep saying this information is public but I can't find it. Can you link the evidence?

@lustrazor44

Жыл бұрын

@@joshfly210 that’s the lovely thing about it now being public. The attorneys gonna need to be making statements.

@gilgameshkingofheroes5903

Жыл бұрын

Is this true though? Like, I don't know. I got no clue about Crowder.

I think it’s hilarious that Dave Landau leaked the contract Crowder wanted him to sign was going to force him to move his entire family to a different state, had a 5 minute late policy, wanted him to do a whole other show for no extra money and only would give him 1 Saturday off every 6 weeks.. The audacity of Crowder calling that DW term sheet a “slave contract” while pulling this shit with his employees is crazy

@theslimeylimey

Жыл бұрын

He's clearly a major control freak. One incident can be explained away but there's a pattern of behavior from multiple sources all painting the same picture. That his wife doesn't even have her own car to come and go as she needs when they can can clearly afford multiple vehicles is a statement in itself. He's burning down his own empire for no good reason.

@Shlogger

Жыл бұрын

yeah. lol. When I heard Dave describing all of that I was kind of amazed. The hypocrisy and lack of self awareness is so over the top I almost had to respect it. lol.

@kevincooper5656

Жыл бұрын

YOOOO! So THAT'S why Landau is no longer on the show?? I had no idea it went down like that....this whole thing sucks ass. (smh)

@Liquid-Ben

Жыл бұрын

Yea the divorce shit is bad but it's his own shit. Bitching over contracts is the real hypocrisy.

@aweshumandy

Жыл бұрын

peak entitlement

He was probably consulting with a divorce lawyer because he knew she would leave him, and he’s paranoid like that. Personally I think he’s bipolar or has another personality disorder in addition to his self-admitted ADHD. He’s always been very controlling, even publicly live on his show. If he’s like this all the time then I’m glad for her to get out of that situation. The one thing I will say though is that she knows the cameras are there and recording, and that’s a good environment to try to catch someone at their worst.

imagine carrying this man's baby and he says i don't love you right after she says i love you so many times

She has her belly exposed and she is telling him she loves him and then he says well I don't love you and you see her shoulders sink, she takes a breath and pulls her shirt down and puts her arms protectively around her belly. Her body language is telling. So freaking sad her and her babies had to experience that.

@cindychelsea784

Жыл бұрын

I cried at that part honestly…a woman should never hear those words especially from a man whose kid u are carrying😭

@jrich5682

Жыл бұрын

@@cindychelsea784 Never? Even if its true?

@cindychelsea784

Жыл бұрын

@@jrich5682 some things are better left unsaid.. can’t he wait and communicate with her in a respectable manner?

@dallysinghson5569

Жыл бұрын

He says this with the knowlesge she's high risk for miscarriage and after her having miscarriage prior

@user-lp2he1md6i

Жыл бұрын

At 8:16 he says “listen to me” in this condescending way. Right before that you can tell she tries to turn to walk away and she catches herself. Almost as if she KNEW she could not walk away from that conversation without repercussions. 😳 He wants her to endure this abuse. I’m sick to my stomach

Tbh even if we take away the pregnancy, chasing after your wife when she asked for space is crazy

@leeofdoom4452

Жыл бұрын

Crazy? This is all very typical behaviour lol

@TrustNJesusChrist

Жыл бұрын

What the fck are you talking about. He didn't chase her. You people are insane.

@myme8208

Жыл бұрын

​@@leeofdoom4452 your outing yourself. Be careful ☠️

@leeofdoom4452

Жыл бұрын

@@myme8208 outing myself as someone who has seen evidence of a couple arguing, and saying this is a couple arguing. Wow

@JamesPain1203

Жыл бұрын

You making your own situation up now. You can't take away the fact that's she pregnant if she's pregnant. Have you ever dealt with a pregnant woman? They are very emotional and unreasonable/unstable alot of the time. Thier hormones are all over the place. The body is changing constantly. Thier blood levels, energy levels, and brain function drop dramatically. How can he keep his pregnant wife safe if she saying ill be back when ill be back. It don't work that way and is unfair. If something happens to her and the baby then everybody is looking at him like why didn't you prevent it. Having a baby on the way is extremely stressful for men also! Idk these people and can't judge either from a 3min clip with no context. From this clip they both are in the wrong and extremely stressed. Him telling her to take an uber is CRAZY! Him telling her he don't love her while she has your baby in her stomach is CRAZY! Asking her walk the dogs is CRAZY! Her being unreasonable saying I'll be back when I'll back is CRAZY! Her trying to use this 3 min clip with no context that starts in the middle of the conversation is 100% manipulative and CRAZY! This whole situation should of been kept private! I'm not taking any sides because idk these people or what is even happening here. They are both childish is all I took from this.

Getting an Uber is literally the same as someone picking her up so why does he care how she gets to where she's going. He really wants to be in control so bad. That he rather for her to get in a stranger's car then someone she actually knows.

I was married to a guy like this. They absolutely break you down especially when you're weaker. She is nearly full term with twins and look at him. She needs to never be with

@aspiknf

Жыл бұрын

I'm sorry that you went through this. I wish you all the best :-)

@femdivinemind7777

Жыл бұрын

Twins ?! Omfg 🤦🏾‍♀️

This why I never call anyone my idol because you never know how their life really is off social media

@Thiago_Alves_Souza

Жыл бұрын

You're one of the sane ones. Cult followers online don't care how much a POS their idol is revealed to be, they continue to defend their idols even harder.

@goreysins

Жыл бұрын

Same

@ItsJJECC

Жыл бұрын

@@Thiago_Alves_Souza Bingo 🎯

@PoliMaster64

Жыл бұрын

If you ever thought of him as an idol that’s on you bro lmao

@FishWhiskey

Жыл бұрын

14 year old me would be embarasing himself defending steven. Me now is used to Thais cr@p.

He screwed himself by publicly talking poorly about choosing her and playing victim. Had he kept it private his sketchy ways would've also been kept private.

Kids suffer immensly from being raised in an household with an abusive dad. Even if your parents are divorced, having to deal with an unhinged parent like that can set kids up for complex mental health issues.

Someone pointed out that it's already suspect and controlling for a man as rich as him to only have one car for his household. It's odd. Especially knowing his wife is pregnant and they already have kids, how can a pregnant mother, possibly a stay at home mom, not have access to a vehicle? It's actually kind of dangerous.

@kristinccha

Жыл бұрын

Yes seems intentional as use of control in this case

@cheesemuffin8129

Жыл бұрын

I wouldn't say dangerous considering that's how most people on this planet live, but yes it is weird to be that rich and not get another car for your wife.

@Tiggaknock

Жыл бұрын

@@cheesemuffin8129 I don't know a single person with kids that doesn't have a second car. That's just me tho. I don't even know a couple without kids who share a car. I'd think if you're pregnant or have kids it's dangerous to not have the ability to get supplies or go from a to b without help or permission. Just my opinion.

@DavidGarcia-je8hl

Жыл бұрын

Yup! It’s also a sign of his control. He only has one car because he controls where she goes.

@rationalcynic8416

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, that is weird. I grew up middle class and we always had at least 2 cars at all times. There are people in my neighborhood that have so many cars you would think their driveway is a freaking parking lot and I know couples who are broke af but both partners have descent used vehicles for commuting to work. A married millionaire father with only one car? Nope, that is super sus.

I was married to a man like this. He was cruel and controlling. He wanted to fight with her. It was never about the car. Notice how he didn't even want her to call a ride. No. He wanted to punish her with the Uber. Then when she didn't want to engage and instead chose to deescalate and walk away, he got more animated. His language got more cruel. He began to taunt her and try to provoke her into reacting. He then gets up and blocks her path. That is extremely confrontational. He boxed her onto that patio and when she chose to walk past him, he threatened her. Then he's talking about how women shouldn't be allowed to divorce, smh. Pos.

@crimsonhawk4912

Жыл бұрын

My ex was like that. I miss her crazy ass.

@slick73nova

Жыл бұрын

Something tells me that kid ain't his. Bet money she cheated.

@slick73nova

Жыл бұрын

Hence why when she said "u want me to call for a ride? Who you want me to call and he said "is that a threat?". Bet money he's too prideful to let it get out that his wife got pregnant by another man. Maybe they were going to work it out and he's too disgusted with her to even care.

@Cerberus984

Жыл бұрын

Between Instacart and the many other grocery delivery services why did she need to goto the grocery store herself? She could have alternatively gotten a rental and either option they should theoretically make enough money but IIRC they live in Dallas which is rather expensive place to live. It's not Austin, TX expensive but it's getting up there. I absolutely agree his reaction was improper but she didn't propose an alternative as far as my attention span was actually listening to be honest. 😅

@claratipton8970

Жыл бұрын

@@Cerberus984 She did propose an alternative...to call someone to pick her up. Also, I believe going to the grocery store was her way of getting away from him

Who tf thinks that once you get married divorce should be illegal unless both parties agree? That is crazy 😅

I love Preach's strong reaction to this. 100% on point.

“I picked wrong” He literally abused her mentally and emotionally, he didn’t pick wrong, she picked wrong

@zuriyel5368

Жыл бұрын

He made it sound like he chose a pet that went astray. I would that the normal way to talk about it would be "These things happen and unfortunately it didn't work out between us."

@Jeansy1290

Жыл бұрын

And now she is suffering for it.. as she should.. his character is well documented and she still decided to align herself to him.. not sorry for her

@nailinthefashion

Жыл бұрын

No he did. He should have looked for someone who respects themself less and is more traditionally submissive and breedable

@kezzykizzy5386

Жыл бұрын

​@@Jeansy1290 has it been well documented for over 10 years?

@dev_ilmoon

Жыл бұрын

@@kezzykizzy5386 yes, maybe going to college as a grown ass man to try and "verbally destroy" college kids should have been her first sign lol. But i still don’t blame her, he’s just an irredeemable pos.

When he says "I don't love you. That's the problem." And she sucks in air, shocked, and immediately covers her stomach with her shirt and holds on, just like instinctively shielding her unborn babies from his contempt and anger... honestly I felt that through my screen. He cuts her off constantly, controls his narrative by not allowing her to call someone even HE knows for a ride, blocks her from walking away to cool down. This is not how a man treats his wife and mother of their children. This is not love. *I'm editing to add that when I said, "This is not love," of course I know he's just said he doesn't love her. I was speaking more on the line of if anyone is currently in a relationship that sounds like this, just know that there's something and someone better out there who will treat you well. And love you. It just struck me as sort of odd how often she needed to reassure him that she loves him, but how quickly he jumps to cutting her with "I don't love you." It's not a snapshot of a healthy relationship, even if they're having an occasional argument like this. And just like anything we ever consume on the internet, of course we don't have full context. That's the nature of the internet. Anyway, thanks for reading! :)

@MilahanPhilosophersCorner

Жыл бұрын

A monster.

@d0giem

Жыл бұрын

We need to know if this was a common thing or a one time occurence, sometimes people get frusterated and illogical

@8thhousemoonrabbit205

Жыл бұрын

​@@d0giem no 'we' don't. He's unhinged with his desire to berate and control, that woman- he's not even making sense, just babbling while, she tries, to capitulate.

@StrigidaeStrigiformes-sv6mj

Жыл бұрын

So you mean to tell me that steven crowder is an asshole. Colour me shocked.

@Last.Stand.1111

Жыл бұрын

he wont let her speak, he knows her words have power and he is afraid of that

It cements for me seeing this described as abuse how severe my situation was with the guy I ran from. He was extreme. It was day after day for hours at a time, then he'd play "nice" then flip out over nothing, then once I confronted him about it he started telling his incel(actual self proclaimed incels) friends I was abusing him. He got 3 different women hating pieces of garbage to stalk and harass me. He took all my money then told me if I left it would be with nothing and he wanted me homeless. Then he'd go back to saying he loved me- then he tracked my ovulation and coerced me into sleeping with him. Then after that he threatened me to get an abortion. I ran, and he told people I was mean to him for no reason and all this absolute trash. He can't tell the truth to save his life. Phil is his name, and his handle is "OffGrid Prosperity" on KZread. He wants to be one of the Andrew Tate grifters. He is a total liar and abusive hypocrite, the worst person I've ever met. He lied about who he was and got me to move over to California from Massachusetts. I was alone. Made so many promises. Still cannot believe what happened happened.

That's a full on narcissist, gaslighting, controlling, trying to upset her more, and threatening ? Come on, she must leave asap

I heard someone say that when he kept saying “put on some gloves”- Apparently their dogs get medication, and his pregnant wife’s doctor told her that she shouldn’t handle the medicine because it’s toxic to their unborn child. Steven thought it was part of her “wifely duties” so rather than do it himself, he told her to put on gloves and do it anyway. That’s what the story is anyways. Yikes, who would want to be married to THAT.

@leehalloway8787

Жыл бұрын

Wow, I didn't know that the doctor told her not to handle that medication. That makes the story more wild.

@Bdakkon

Жыл бұрын

Vet tech here, yes there are indeed medications that pregnant women shouldn't handle gloves or no gloves. Shouldn't even handle the box. I have been around people who have been thru stress over and over but try to deescalate the way she did. You can hear it in her voice. This isn't the first time and it's breaking her heart.

@fandangofanful

Жыл бұрын

Unborn children. I believe she was pregnant with twins at the time.

@ousontmeslunettes9891

Жыл бұрын

That's sad he doesn't give a ish about is own unborn baby safety 😢

@ng4logic

Жыл бұрын

Why didn't she tell that?

She said, you want me to have someone pick me up and he said, is that a threat...it's really not about a car

I suffered constant stress with my last pregnancy, and my water broke suddenly a month early. I was very lucky and happy that my son was perfectly fine. A woman should not go through this kind of crap normally, let alone pregnant. He’s scum, and I legit hope someone hands him his ass someday

Discipline? Who is he talking too? His child or wife? He's nuts!

Steven in his yt video: I care so much about my family ESPECIALLY my children and only want the best for them Also Steven: puts immense mental pressure on his pregnant wife : smokes cigars in her presence while she's pregnant : tells her he doesn't love her : throws a hissy fit over something that he could have easily done himself using the time he spent on arguing : doesn't listen to his wife's concern over the chemical that's toxic to her and her babies

@TheFaro2011

Жыл бұрын

Deep down he resents her for being pregnant. Didn't want the financial burden and now has to behave Christian at home

@Superbatmanbro

Жыл бұрын

I’m Religious Christian myself but I don’t believe being a tyrant controlling asshat and being abusive dick is never good

@rabd3721

Жыл бұрын

@@TheFaro2011 He's just mad he's obligated to larp as a heterosexual husband/father for the sake of his rightwing Christian grift.

@Death-999

Жыл бұрын

@@rabd3721 Just because you're gay doesn't mean straight people don't exist. Stop projecting your homosexuality on everyone else.

@Windwalker88

Жыл бұрын

@@rabd3721 i swear you can find him skulking around public restrooms where alot of men meet

Hearing Crowder say “Watch it. Fucking watch it.” Told me everything I needed to know

@AngryReptileKeeper

Жыл бұрын

There is no possible way here in which that was not meant as a threat of physical violence. It's literally the only logical conclusion. He sure as hell wasn't threatening to ground her or take away her electronics. I know that if my partner said that to me during an argument, I would be worried for my safety.

@Voltroc

Жыл бұрын

@@AngryReptileKeeper The only logical conclusion, eh? There are zero other logical ways to read that? It's not a good look, but don't be hyperbolic.

He was about to put up the "Change my mind" sign to his wife.. Narcissistic personality disorder. Run girl .. run!!!

Holy shit that "watch it, fucking watch it!" and what he said afterwards holy shit. He sounds like a fucking monster behind them closed doors. That poor woman sounds like shes been having this abuse for a long long time, fucking wow.

He says kids should have both parents but according to the wife's family he literally dropped her at the hospital to give birth then left and bought a townhouse to move into, and got a divorce lawyer to cut her off financially.

@Captain_Insano_nomercy

Жыл бұрын

I mean smart move at least, not honorable tho

@alexzanderroberts995

Жыл бұрын

idk, I want to see some receipts. People say stuff all the time.

@amilcarballantyne

Жыл бұрын

I'm pretty sure he had surgery at the time the kids were born, and people elective surgery doesn't mean cosmetic or unnecessary

@Na_bruh

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, look at how she was treating him

@lustrazor44

Жыл бұрын

@@Captain_Insano_nomercy if it’s true, that ain’t smart. It shows he doesn’t care about being a father so hinor the marriage but lies about it online. Not gonna fly in a marriage court.

Not only he puts his wife under bad stress but hes smoking while she's there?? How much worse can this get

@ilcarcerieredimauri79

Жыл бұрын

Technically he's sitting smoking outside his own home. She's the 1 who went to him to ask to take the car, personally I don't particularly care about who's needs the car more but is it really worth her arguing about refusing to just get an Uber to the store & back? If he needs the car then i don't see any difference between her getting the Uber or getting picked up by someone else 🤷 It's pretty easy not to like Crowder but at least be fair to the guy 😂

@gregviews

Жыл бұрын

How much u wanna bet his wife smokes too while the baby is In her 😂

@cececox6399

Жыл бұрын

How dare a grown ass man enjoy a cigar on his own property he worked his ass off for. She’s nothing but a succubus. I’ve been pregnant and I used Ubers constantly. If she wants a car why doesn’t she just go buy her own. I’m sure she must have saved a fortune from never having to pay for a single thing for a decade. And you do remember that this is days before or immediately after he had major surgery. Much more stressful much more painful and much more dangerous than giving birth. Which she didn’t even bother doing anyway she went with the elective C-section. She should have been worried about him. I’ve been with my partner since I was 19 and yea it’s obviously assumed that if you leave the relationship you don’t get the perks or free access to his money anymore. She knew that before she left. So why’s she delusional enough to think she has any right to his money. Time to get off her lazy crazy ass and get a job. She thought she was going to get half that 50mil and now she’s going to be left with nothing. Exactly as she deserves.

@owusuaampomah9278

Жыл бұрын

Yall didn't read the article. She says the fight started because she didn't want to give the dogs their meds because she wasn't sure if it was toxic for pregnant women...that's why he says just put on gloves and she isn't doing her duties. That's the backdrop. Honestly to even talk to your pregnant highly emotional wife like that is crazy

@owusuaampomah9278

Жыл бұрын

That's why she said okay I'm taking the car to basically get some space. That is why he says she isn't committed and all.... male or female conversative or liberal I don't think these are any values any one should have. 8 months pregnant is not a joke a good number of women even have to stay in bed most of the time , you can't even tell them serious things for fear that their blood pressure might skyrocket and you are berating her and she's crying infant of you

When he was saying that “watch it….WATCH IT” un that low tone, its like a veiled threat

This is simple. The camara caught a liar in the act of being a foul human being.

He is absolutely pathetic. A grown ass man is telling his wife she’s making him feel boxed in if she takes the car, so he’s crying about being a victim and making her the oppressor in a situation he constructed bc he probably doesn’t allow her to have a car. He’s super manipulative and blind to how unreasonable he is. He doesn’t love that woman and it’s a damn shame how he treats her here.

@ZeeRR717

Жыл бұрын

His PREGNANT wife at that You can clearly see how she must walk on eggshells constantly I yawn at these hypocrites that scream out family values and how women deserve it.

@baronwolfgang9368

Жыл бұрын

You don’t know the inner working of their marriage. Maybe he’s pissed that she never does anything. Maybe She should have already gone to the grocery store. Maybe her car is in the shop. Maybe he’s sick of supporting a wife that does absolutely nothing. You don’t know, what’s going on in that marriage but you sure are quick to have an opinion.

@x.x208

Жыл бұрын

@@baronwolfgang9368 1-she’s 8 months pregnant 2- there is a better way to confront those “problems” 3- defending a pos is sad

@ericapaquette9624

Жыл бұрын

​@@baronwolfgang9368 because a 8 month pregnant wife is extremely vulnerable, THAT ALONE he should of control his temper, hey after the kids are born divorce her if he thinks she's useless 🙄 😒

@Rclrs5

Жыл бұрын

@@baronwolfgang9368 my response is based off of the scenario depicted from this video. Obviously I don’t know these people. This video is evidence he is unreasonable, manipulative, controlling, and abusive. To your point, I don’t know what happens before this or after it so it’s not logical to say what if this or that. It’s unknown what happened so I can’t have an opinion on the unknown. It’s also not logical to assume she mistreated him. Maybe she did, maybe she didn’t. But I would argue that just bc someone wrongs you, does not justify wronging then what kind of childhood logic would that be. I have an opinion on the known quantity here and that’s the video and he’s shown himself to be pathetic.

Crowder only having 1 car seems like a way for him to exert control over her

@TheAlexSmith17

Жыл бұрын

He was the only one out if the 2 of them that could afford one. Why should he buy her a car?

@jdeux3677

Жыл бұрын

​​@Check The OR because he has the money and is a husband, you subhuman

@BaronOfHeid

Жыл бұрын

@@TheAlexSmith17 because otherwise his schedule would keep her trapped at home or Ubering everywhere, and I think it's safe to say they were happily married at some point if not then I'm even more inclined to say he kept her car-less to exert control over her.

When he told her "I don't love you " that shit hurt me like he was saying it to me

3:44 THIS MADE ME SUBSCRIBE, you two rock and I'm glad you see the truth like this

Steven treats his wife with contempt, exactly how my ex treated me before we divorced. I’m so happy we’re both out of these miserable marriages now.

@MikeBarbarossa

Жыл бұрын

The fault with the red pill community. As soon as this came out, (just the divorce) the take was " Bruvs! doesn't matter how goo lookin' or rich you are, she will pulll the rip chord and die-vorce rape you!" The missing point- sometimes men are real douchbags in a marraige, and women just have to get out. The evidence AFTER the divorce news here shows that. Many comments on red pill response videos post divorce " That traitor btch!" " Yeah this is how the modern woman screws us men". The whole story, and all sides argument is always important

@bisiilki

Жыл бұрын

My exhusband told me "you are unattractive and undesirable, and I don't respect you, but I love and trust you and we have to be together for the rest of our life". I cheated on him because I knew he wouldn't give up if I just left. Mind you he had the year earlier had an (allegedly one sided) romantic obsession with a woman and told me that he loved her and "didn't do anything because of his marriage vows". Why I didn't leave his sorry arse when he was laying on our marital bed crying hyperventilating that he would "miss her so much" because she moved back to Italy is a testament to 12y of emotional abuse !

@ilikecommenting6849

Жыл бұрын

@@bisiilki sounds like you deserved your worthless husband. "I cheated on him because he made me" really? You sound extremely toxic yourself. Even more given that you see no problem posting that on the internet

@Death-999

Жыл бұрын

Your ex probably treated you with contempt because you were worthless. Ever think about that?

@impposter560

Жыл бұрын

@@Death-999 Ah, someone getting their jollies the only way they can. Hope the high lasts for more than a millisecond; must be hard work to scrounge so deep in the muck for a fleeting moment of faux superiority

Only context saying "I will fuck you up" to your partner is when you're playing Mario Kart and one of you just tossed the blue shell.

@LipSyncLover

Жыл бұрын

Lol me and my husband. Outside of that? Neither of us would ever utter something so ugly in a serious tone

look at the dog though. lmfao. "This shit again".

The way he said to his pregnant wife “watch it” after hearing the truth about himself makes me want to gag…

As a husband and a Father this is sickening and I really feel for people who are in relationships like this. This is a sad.

@Ninavelli

Жыл бұрын

For real man ! I can’t imagine so sad

@savagegtalks5912

Жыл бұрын

this is nothing... was even better a 100 years ago. Steven goes mild. His wife is pregnant, she needs to stay home and safe.

@user-yh3cy8tj1d

Жыл бұрын

@@savagegtalks5912 He seems to have a temper and gets mad when she wants to distance herself from him for a moment so he can cool off that's controlling behavior.

@fucker661

Жыл бұрын

​@savagegtalks5912 it sure isn't nothing if she left. Continue coping

@AmbeanWambulance

Жыл бұрын

​@@savagegtalks5912 bruh he's a man child, a man is supposed to know restraint. Acting like a bickering child to ur pregnant wife isn't manly or appealing.

He claims she needs to respect him then proceeds to say that at 8 months pregnant her not doing 1 chore means she’s not worthy of being a wife and then when she says I love you and I’m committed to you says… “I don’t love you” , then restricts her from even using their car to pick up groceries , all this because she thought the dog medication could be toxic to pregnant women, he not only is disrespecting his wife , he is manipulating her , and on top of all of it his 8 month pregnant wife (pregnant with twins) is way more emotionally mature than he is. Notice she never escalates once. He even sent her messages about splitting up the day before his kids were born Edit : AND HE HIRED THE DIVORCE LAWYER A MONTH BEFORE SHE DID Dude has serious anger/ control issues and needs help.

@ruka939

Жыл бұрын

So basically, he believes only men should have the right to divorce. If women want to divorce cause a man is abusive the that's a problem but a man can abuse his wife and still want a divorce and it's okay, woww

@Real_Name_Jim

Жыл бұрын

From an edited video?

@ruka939

Жыл бұрын

@@Real_Name_Jim what explanation can à man possibly have that would make him look good and validate how that man treated a pregnant woman, his wife. That vidéo can't be made to make the man look good

@i_am_thebatman

Жыл бұрын

@@Real_Name_Jim where’s the split dude ? Where’s the cut ? It’s 3 and a half minutes long

@TheDarkGBJ

Жыл бұрын

​@@i_am_thebatman it starts in the middle of the argument

He said something about being "wifely".. which i thought meant getting a lil sumn sumn.. but no. He wants her to put gloves on and take the dogs for a walk and do chores?? OH My daysssss

He doesn't want someone to pick her up because then they might find out that he wasn't letting her use the car. That is why he took it as a threat.

He said “I don’t love you”…..That should have settled this entire thing Get a divorce and marry someone you would never say those words to

@katelady1370

Жыл бұрын

This argument happened after she filed for divorce. Why would you say I love you to someone who didn’t take their vows seriously.

The whine when he said “that doesn’t work either” - that’s a child in the costume of a man 👀

@kathear15

Жыл бұрын

I'm glad you mentioned it. Omg what a baby.

@D_McGeezacks

Жыл бұрын

Yep. He's a toddler with guns and muscles. In other words, extremely dangerous.

As someone who has been in the middle of my parent's rough patches, I can actually kind of piece together what they're saying. So here's my personal summary, feel free to input. Wife: Hey I want to shop groceries, can I take the car? Hubby: No, I don't even know when you'll be back. You just gonna leave me in the house alone? What if I need it? Wife: But we need groceries, you can come with me if you want. Hubby: No I just want to relax at home, but I might need the car later to go to my parents or friends if I want to so it needs to stay here Wife: Okay but we still need groceries, should I get someone to pick me up? Hubby: No, get an uber or something Wife: You're making this difficult, I'm just gonna take the car okay? I'll be back quick Hubby: No forget it, just go do something else! Do chores around the house or walk the dog or something Wife: Okay this is a lot, at first I wanted to go outside for errands but now I need to go outside to distance myself Hubby: Well now I'm pissed off, so now I'm gonna demand you to do something completely different

I’m sorry, no one’s talking to me like that ever. I hope she finds peace

Abusive partners can become more aggressive and abusive when the other is pregnant. The pregnant partner has to think more about themself and the baby, routines change and the abusive partner is expected to take on a more responsibilities to help out and might also get less attention/not be the main focus anymore for the pregnant partner. I’ve even heard cases were some men will even be jealous of the baby.

@AngryReptileKeeper

Жыл бұрын

"Abusive partners can become more aggressive and abusive when the other is pregnant." There's a reason why a woman's risk of being murdered by her partner gets significantly higher when she's pregnant.

@beewest5704

Жыл бұрын

There is a reason pregnancy is the most dangerous period for a women. That is when many get killed by the partners.

@NerdyMichii96

Жыл бұрын

​@@AngryReptileKeeper why is that? I've read that the abuse becomes more violent if the woman in the relationship is either sick or pregnant.

@pamelapamper

Жыл бұрын

​@@NerdyMichii96 bc vile ppl become more vile the weaker their victim gets. True evil.