Hurting people hurt people. Thanks to Lori for digging deeper to find out why the bride was behaving so badly.

@cyflym11

Жыл бұрын

The bride realised they'd brought in the big guns and she'd pushed it too far so she turned it into a sob story. I'm sorry, I don't think that being cross with your mum would make you turn on everyone else. I think she was still harbouring a grudge about the floral bridesmaids dress!

@lysem4392

Жыл бұрын

@@cyflym11 I completely agree. I too am skeptical of the sob story. But I think the bride would have behaved the same way even if she had been thrilled with the floral dress.

@Justicia007

Жыл бұрын

I think the male consultant should have said something before that to the bride. You have to have a gentle but firm touch when you do it though. She was just plain rude and mean

@justjaein

Жыл бұрын

@@cyflym11 sure, but u also have to understand people aren’t so black and white. She’s not a serial killer on the stand trying to manipulate the jury with a sob story. She’s just a girl trying to get married and gets frustrated with her friends. She wasn’t even the one to bring up the story herself.

@skyshae8916

Жыл бұрын

@@justjaein I agree. At the end of the day this is still a reality show, and they need a source of entertainment. In every episode there’s drama of some sort, somewhere. It’s how you get viewership. As much as I love this show I do have to remind myself that a lot of the drama is probably exacerbated by the producers.

So glad Lori got to the root of the problem. So glad the bridesmaids were understanding. I couldn’t imagine going through my wedding without my mother’s help.

@lovelyletter7460

Жыл бұрын

Well, imagine it. It happens and you pull through it. I had to do all the deciding and planning myself. Even my bridesmaids were just there as friends in dresses. I guess I’ve just had to be very independent.

@yukimasahiko

Жыл бұрын

I lost both parents only one I have left in my entire family is my older brother. I am 39 and chose to stay single with just me, My doberman and best friend... I lost my best friends 5 months ago and just lost my dog about a week ago... So I am surprised I am still thriving...

@karenjohnson1523

Жыл бұрын

@@lovelyletter7460 Same here. I didn't even think she would help. I even checked that she was fine not being involved. She was.

@nicolewilliams403

Жыл бұрын

I'd want my Mom there with me throughout the whole dress shopping process, but I lost her as a little girl. Im gonna ask my spiritual Mom to step in.

@brianna-reneejeanjordan9160

11 ай бұрын

I agree. It would hurt not having my mom be apart of planning my wedding.

Bride: My bridesmaids don't support me Bridesmaids: we love this one Bride: you look ugly

@EditsWithElla132

Жыл бұрын

🥹🥹🖐🏻

@Rubyaaz

Жыл бұрын

Yea I was confused 😂 then I rewatch it and understood wtf .

@virgoyogini5377

Жыл бұрын

Ugh it was horrible

@mahalasincere

8 ай бұрын

the dresses were ugly tho look ones before and after lori came

No excuse for her rudeness. So many people have sad life stories and they don’t behave this way.

@Ruby-yn5fp

8 ай бұрын

edfinitely she owes the rest an apology and needs to own up to how she behaved, agree with you. then we can all be like no we understand, but you can never hide behind hurt and be like "oop well you know I was hurt and that is why i am being an a**hole to you, ok?" lol

@_someone_somewhere

5 ай бұрын

Tbh she's not even that traumatized she's just a bully and so immature

@nutellajizz9459

2 ай бұрын

Exactly

@oceanbaby2191

2 ай бұрын

Agreed!💯

@cylong4341

Ай бұрын

Indeed. She's an adult, not a small child. My own mother not only didn't help me do any planning but continuously verbally abused me whenever I did something she didn't agree with. She would even get her friends to threaten me at my workplace and even harass my inlaws. Made the whole wedding planning process heavily traumatic for me. At no point did it ever occur to me to start being unpleasant to my bridesmaids - would have pushed away the people who really kept me going throughout the process.

Lorri is so intelligent, she is very smart. She should work as a therapist instead 🤣

@beloveddaughter7336

Жыл бұрын

She's a retail therapist! 😂

@rmsiq148isstruggling3

Жыл бұрын

She's such a successful woman and knows how to handle various kinds of people. She has so much experience and amazing personality

@lovinavargas-carriedo2698

Жыл бұрын

Retail and really any human-facing profession is always part therapist :)

@elisemiller13

Жыл бұрын

@Gloria there are many jobs which require a level of understanding/communication to be truly good at

@tammychapman3150

8 ай бұрын

I know,I love Lori

In my opinion there’s really no excuse to act this way. My mom isn’t here and we never had a healthy relationship. I still can’t imagine talking to people, especially my own friends this way. It’s just unacceptable.

@caligirllala1267

10 ай бұрын

I agree. There’s really no excuse for this nasty behavior.

@YourGraceMyLady

8 ай бұрын

@@caligirllala1267she’s a brat.

@bettysstars8515

7 ай бұрын

or maybe you guys are 2 different people that handle emotions differently

@a.evelyn5498

6 ай бұрын

@bettysstars8515 You can handle emotions differently but still attempt to be kind. There’s no excuse to be so mean, especially to be you supposedly care about. We all falter, but it’s important to take responsibility for your actions & treat those you love WITH LOVE.

@deniseandrews113

5 ай бұрын

​@@a.evelyn5498Well said!

Weddings can really bring out the worst in a bride especially when shes insecure or overwhelmed.

@amydoran9987

Жыл бұрын

Yes esp. when the bridesmaids are jealous it makes things worse.

@itzjasmine4974

Жыл бұрын

@@amydoran9987 But they weren’t jealous of her at all. She acted more jealous of them.

@njmoonfrost6145

Жыл бұрын

@@itzjasmine4974one of them kept bringing up her own wedding and making the bride feel worse

@HeMo-hd4hy

Жыл бұрын

All the stress

@Tracymmo

Жыл бұрын

Especially when she's got the maturity of a four year old

My mom was N E V E R there for me AT ALL!! I grew up in and out of foster care, bounced from home to home, school to school,, and STILL I wouldn't DREAM of treating a friend this way!!

@peterparker01676

Жыл бұрын

Hello How are you doing today?

@L4dyShadow320

Жыл бұрын

I agree with you, but everyone reacts in different ways to pain and trauma. It doesn't make it okay, but if they're willing to grow and change and not stay stuck in the victim-mentality, then I would consider them redeemable and worthy of forgiveness.

@collettchaney120

6 ай бұрын

And worst of all, they love her. She is taking out all her frustration out on her best friends. Not nice

@deniseandrews113

5 ай бұрын

​@collettchaney120 It's a weird quirk of human nature how we hurt the ones closest to us 💔

The printed blue dress Laura picked out for her wedding has aged way better than the dress this bride picked. Very 2008.

@Ephyne

Жыл бұрын

Who cares? The weddings are over!

@justjaein

Жыл бұрын

@lydsmartin23 no the main commenter is literally saying the exact opposite. They’re saying they prefer timelessness over trends.

@princessjada3808

Жыл бұрын

She did not hate the dress.. She hated that the friend had a better relationship with her Mom. Mostly the Mom choice the dress and the experience was magical

@lorettaclifford406

Жыл бұрын

@@lydsmartin23 thank you. It needed saying.

@pamelamckenzie2685

Жыл бұрын

I loved the blue flower print dresses

When the bridesmaid said " I don't wanna look like big bird up there " I was laughing so much I couldn't breath lol😂😂😂

@isay207

Жыл бұрын

Yellow ewe

@marylawrence4724

Жыл бұрын

@@isay207 Yellow YUCK

@JK-sh8rc

Жыл бұрын

Of all the colors in the rainbow, yellow is the WORST on me. Not flattering to my coloring at all. I was a bridesmaid in my sister's wedding and she ended up choosing yellow bridesmaid dresses. So I sucked it up, didn't say a word about the color & used a lot of makeup on the wedding day. It was HER wedding after all, not mine. My best friend (who was also a bridesmaid) looked fabulous, the color was wonderful on her. When my oldest son got married, my DIL also chose yellow bridesmaid dresses and everyone looked great. I think yellow (depending on the shade) is very pretty for a spring wedding.

She told us her bridesmaids were unsupportive… that was a lie. Now her mom is being “neglectful” of the wedding planning hmmm something tells me that isn’t the full truth either.

@SD-ip2wb

Жыл бұрын

Lies and perception are two different things!! Just because bridesmaids SAY they are supportive, doesn’t mean they have been. They committed to try harder.

@cyflym11

Жыл бұрын

@@SD-ip2wb They did a very good job of biting their tongues while she was being very cruel to them. If they weren't trying hard to be supportive they'd have told her where she could stick her bridesmaid dresses! They clearly didn't want to make a scene and of course they were going to carry on in the same vein after she 'apologised'.

@EH23831

Жыл бұрын

It was easier for the bride to say her friends weren’t being supportive than admit her mother wasn’t there for her. She just knew she felt unsupported ❤

@kateyare4708

4 ай бұрын

The bride probably learned her rude behavior from her mother; and when the two of them try to wedding plan together, it becomes a contest of insults. So the mother bows out because she cannot get her way.

the whole “my mom isn’t giving me support” thing was such a cop out. like her friends didn’t deserve to be treated like that and just the way she said it was so mean girly

That bride never apologized to her friends. Rude.

@Tracymmo

Жыл бұрын

I hope it happened off camera

@Golddusttwin1

8 ай бұрын

exactly. I really hope she dis off camera cause she was so rude!

I’m glad she finally realized how special her friends are!! There are some people that not only don’t have family support but don’t have the friendship that this girl has!!

The Bride's attitude was just God Awful.

@AngelicaSolis94

Жыл бұрын

So was her pain 😢

@Stefaniaddison

Жыл бұрын

Yep agreed, but she is human. I'm glad she got called out, she was acting out of control, like a hurt child. We all can be kinda nasty, I'm glad Lori set her straight.

@TieyaJ

Жыл бұрын

@@Stefaniaddison True.

@maltal8352

Жыл бұрын

@@AngelicaSolis94I guess you think it’s okay to take it out on people who have Jack shit to do with it ???? Inexcusable , she’s a grown ass woman .

@lisanyugenhascancer6332

Жыл бұрын

@@maltal8352 no she said, people have issues and they need to help

The Maid of Honor is super special. I wish I had a friend like her.

The bride is lacking in her communication skills.🤦‍♀️

@lysem4392

Жыл бұрын

And her empathy skills.

@tawanahawkins7855

Жыл бұрын

HORRIBLY LACKING.

@amydoran9987

Ай бұрын

Insensitive

This beautiful maid of honour needed to add, 'But do not abuse me again!' to her sweet speech of support to this bride...regardless of her situation, this bride was as is said, nasty...I hope she apologized to each and every one of her bridesmaids.

The bride is her own enemy, yukkk

@Lucaangelo252

Жыл бұрын

Hello Patricia how are you doing, where are you from?

@Islamzindabad-z7g

14 күн бұрын

@@Lucaangelo252bro is trying to get some

Behaving like that is not an excuse sorry not sorry

@lissaC.W.

9 ай бұрын

True, many people have hardships and what makes a person god hearted and exceptional is never taking out your personal frustrations onto others. Especially your best friends. Behaving that way is just going to inevitably drive people away from her.

Feel bad for the brides future husband..she's allowed to have opinions..but has no class taking her pain out on her closest friends

Laurie is more than meets the eye, she’s one amazing lady.

@ClinicalCounselingWithTselane

8 ай бұрын

I 💙💙💙💙 her

I hope the bride sees this episode, I was devastated for her friends

@BasicYTHandle

Жыл бұрын

Why not just say that she didn't like a dress without nasty, cutting comments? Staged much?

Lori is a cut above for sure. What a wonderful human being. Glad the brides heart was relieved and super happy all the women just offered her love and support.

Envy is the key word she is envious of Laura 's relationship with her mom

I think we should also give props to Brandon for being the one to notice that this was more than just about dresses. Sometimes we can tell what is wrong but we don't have the tools or knowledge to get to the complete bottom of it and that is why we rely on our elders to give us that guidance. It's also why this bride is so hurt by her mom not being there, cause she was looking to have her opinion too cause she values it.

How does the Bride keep friends, with such a nasty disposition????

@josephhetherington7318

Ай бұрын

Makes me wonder if she treats her mom like this.

I do think yellow is a very BOLD choice in any dress. However, there is usually always a compromise and the bride did not go about it the right way.

@maxiwina

Жыл бұрын

Certainly not a color that suits everyone

@OnLifeandLove

Жыл бұрын

the yellow dresses in this show are all too bright. A soft pastel yellow color would be lovely especially for spring or fall weddings.

@user-op6gd7sp5m

Жыл бұрын

@@OnLifeandLove this !!

Lori is our hero! So glad the bride realized that she has a loyal group of friends!

I wore a yellow dress as my sister's matron of honor. I loved that dress so much! It was a creamy buttery yellow that looked beautiful on all of the bridesmaids.

I truly feel for this bride. When my mom got married she did a destination wedding in las Vegas and didn't even invite me. Then when i attempted to plan my own wedding she wanted no part of it. I ended up eloping with my husband because the stress of family not wanting to have any part on ether side was really starting to get too both of us. Eloping was so much easier and stress free. Do I wish I had that special day with my mom and both families? Yes, of course I do. Do I wish I had that moment or that dress? Yes! But I would rather sacrifice one day in order to have many more peaceful future ones with the love of my life and less strife between loved ones.

@caz3502

Жыл бұрын

It's no excuse to take her anger out on her bridesmaids. She should grow up, and fast

@lmichelle80sbaby

Жыл бұрын

I hate that you went through that but I'm so glad you didn't let it hold you back

@jessicajamesspeaks

10 ай бұрын

Some mothers can be c**ts

I'm not surprised her mum doesn't want to get involved. She's probably been shopping with Little Miss Spiteful before and knows how it will go.

Yellow. Seriously passive-aggressive. Almost no one looks good in bright yellow. She's lucky all these women haven't bailed on her. Sorry about the mom thing, so seat her at the back of the church, but this is not how you handle issues, by turning on your friends. Good luck, groom.

@asenisdigital

19 күн бұрын

Imo yellow represents joy

She's now been married for about 11 years, and they're pregnant. She seems to have lots of friends and a good relationship with her mom. I'd like to hear more from her about this drama.

@Anna-Rose-

Жыл бұрын

Oh wow, I didn't realize this show was that old. I don't watch TV though.

@emilylamb3629

Жыл бұрын

Bride here… it’s all scripted. Me and my friends are closer than ever still and I’ve been married 11 years tomorrow with a beautiful baby girl. Trust me, none of this was real. The dresses were planted and things I said were out of fun with laughs from my bridesmaids but we’re turned into something hateful. Reality TV is anything but real.

@lawtraf8008

Жыл бұрын

@@emilylamb3629 Are you really the bride ?

@emilylamb3629

Жыл бұрын

@@lawtraf8008 yes, I am. Sadly they made me look like a terrible human, but you live and learn 🤷🏻‍♀️

@_nichi_2270

Жыл бұрын

​@@emilylamb3629Instagram?

That bride shouldn't even have those bridesmaids if they have caused so much "stress" for her!!!!!!

Comparisons and expectations are the thieves of joy.

@Britpop938

3 ай бұрын

That is so true and insightful. I’m gonna remember this when I see myself doing that. Thanks

So the bride doesn't like when the girls nicely say they don't like yellow, but is allowed to attack the dress she wore in her friends wedding? Smells like hypocrisy to me.

Laura, girl your bridesmaids dresses were so pretty and cheerful. Your wedding, it looked like you guys had a blast.

Wouldn't it be better to work this out before shopping.

@oksanarose6879

Жыл бұрын

my thoughts exactly lmao

Yellow is a tough color for a lot of people to pull off. I’m fair and yellow just makes me look monochromatic.

Her best friend especially is so sweet omg 🥺🥺

If the bride had so much nasty words to say about her bridesmaid then it's best she cancelled the wedding until her mom support her decision to get married because it's not her bridesmaids fault

@AmberBottoms

4 ай бұрын

She would die single then.

My mom did nothing for my wedding. Thankful for my MIL. But I did it all myself.

@L.Spencer

Жыл бұрын

My mom had schizophrenia and agoraphobia, she attended my wedding by listening on the phone. And I was so happy she could do that!

Lori just waltzed in there and shot to the heart of the issue in about 2 seconds!! Does she have a Masters in psychology or something???!!! Wow

I get it. I have a really unsupportive mother who put a stink on every aspect of my wedding. But I'd never think to treat my friends like this. This bride is very lucky to have these ladies as her friends.

The red dress was stunning and classy!!!

Yet again Lori and Brian save the day cuz that bride was on garbage mode

Not the music change when bridesmaids enter and when the bride opens her mouth XD 💀

That bridezilla is quite the narcissist. I'd nope out of this wedding...and "friendship" too. She's projecting all her mommy issue anger towards her bridesmaids. Real friends don't do that.

@seriliaykilel

Жыл бұрын

People lash out when they are hurting - real friends break through that. These ladies did -- I don't excuse her attitude, and she definitely should apologize for some of those comments (likely made more dramatic due to editing), but to suggest that a life-long friend lashes out once and you drop them? Disagree

@AFAskygoddess

Жыл бұрын

@@seriliaykilel They weren't "lifelong" friends. They met as teenagers in high school. They look 20ish now. And listening to this video, it sure didn't sound like this was the FIRST time she's acted this way. She didn't get the perfect mother. Neither did I, but I NEVER hurt people who cared about me because of it.

@SD-ip2wb

Жыл бұрын

She doesn’t have much choice - it’s called trauma.

@SD-ip2wb

Жыл бұрын

How dare she be human. She’s not a narcissist, she’s human. I’ve got an empathic nature so I can see when she’s simply feeling hurt and suffering and projecting yes projecting but she’s not projecting on anything other than choice of dress. You just sound cruel

@jujujupiter

Жыл бұрын

@@SD-ip2wb How dare someone expression opinion that you don’t agree with! How dare they!!

I want friends like that

Even if you're sad cause of your mother, doesn't mean you can be mean to others.

"Who cares, your wedding's over" was classic!!

Friends and family only know what you till them! If you don't tell they can't help with what you need! Lori you do a great job with your brides and the folks you work with...

Again, as I've said before, if I was there and had someone behaving that way, I'd just walk.

Lori handled that beautifully.

She has the sweetest friends. Good and sweet ☺️

Amazed she still has bridesmaids!!

Bride is jelly of her bridesmaids

@SD-ip2wb

Жыл бұрын

And? That’s human

I don't see how a man can marry her. She's mean.

@ma3alena

Жыл бұрын

birds of a feather flock together, he probably loves her like this

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

Жыл бұрын

Maybe he is mean just like her.

@Pipppo

Жыл бұрын

Clearly you didn't watch the whole episode 🤨🤨

@lysem4392

Жыл бұрын

@@Pipppo What if this is the way she always behaves when under stress? Would that make her okay? Would it make it okay to Lash out and wound those who care about her? Personally, I don't think so.

@Didenne

Жыл бұрын

@@lysem4392 watch the full episode.

I wanted all of my bridesmaids in thr same dress, same color, but I *made sure* they all felt good in the dress. The dress we all picked everyone cried over bc they all looked so gorgeous. We were blessed to find a dress that complimented everyone's body type and a color that looked good on everyone. It was important to me that they felt good in the dress

She is so ungrestful and rude. This bride is horrible.

I hope that Lori is doing ok after she had that fall. Is SYTTD Atlanta still on? Always loved the crew ❤

These poor girls, if you need to rent a mom, I'm available 💛💛💛

My best friend would NEVER take that kind of abuse from me. We are like sisters…. No excuses I’m sorry.

These girls all needed this, this appointment was about far more than finding a bridesmaid dress. Lori should be a psychologist, she’s so amazing! If I ever get the chance to get married, my dream is to find my dress at this store, even though it would mean flying to the other side of the world to do it! ♥️♥️

They all should've bailed on her. I don't think I've ever seen a bride to b as rude as she was

@SD-ip2wb

Жыл бұрын

Why because she’s a Human Being? How is criticising dresses the same as being nasty & rude and a B

@lysem4392

Жыл бұрын

@@SD-ip2wb She did not si much criticize the dresses as disparage her friends' looks. What's wrong with just saying "This is not what i had in mind"? Even "This is not the best look for you" would have been less vicious.

@nishukadayarathne915

Жыл бұрын

@@SD-ip2wb there are ways to criticise a dress without calling names

That bride was so manipulative

She has the sweetest group of friends.

These friends are way too good for her… she is jealous and toxic

The best decision I made for my wedding was sending my bridesmaids and maid of honour (all sisters who live out of town) the basic colours of the wedding and telling them to each find a dress that that particular person could re-wear. There were five dresses on five women, all of them different, and it was perfect! They looked stunning, everyone, and none of them looked out of place. They also, as it was around Christmas, carried simple hurricane candle holders with one candle each. It was like a fairytale.

These are AWESOME bridesmaids. I had two bridesmaids and one of them is the sweetest person you’d ever meet and the other… she was my maid of honor. She insulted my ring calling it cheap, didn’t give a speech (the other one did), always tried to make everything about her, and just wasn’t a good friend to begin with. I regret making her my maid of honor. She never deserved it.

@grenade8572

Жыл бұрын

True question : why did you choosed her as bride of honor in the first place ? You didn't know how she really was ?

@saylorc4647

Жыл бұрын

@@grenade8572 well, I THOUGHT I knew who she was when I asked her, but the more I got to know her the worse I realized she was. And the other girl, I knew her about just as much as I did the other girl (just a little less) and the more I got to know her the more I adored her. I didn’t think my husband and I would have groomsmen or bridesmaids until he asked his best friend. So I chose the girl I knew a bit more. What I should’ve done was wait until closer to time.

@grenade8572

Жыл бұрын

@@saylorc4647 It's insane how bad people can look nice when we don't know them very well. Props to the nice girl who was a good maid. :)

@saylorc4647

Жыл бұрын

@@grenade8572 I’ve already met more since then... There’s a lot of people like that sadly. And yeah! She’s still a good friend of mine today!

I lost my dad in 2012 and ive never treated anyone bad due to his passing and my pain. If she talked to me like that, im out of the wedding

I do feel bad for these bridesmaids, as much pain she may be feeling towards her mom she can not project it like this to her friends. She has an incredibly supportive group of friends there that are willing to give her their all and she throws it back in their faces and it must have been incredibly embarrassing for them. Hoping this is just a very stressed out bride and she is nicer to them outside of the wedding planning

She was so receptive to the dresses as soon as she expressed what was in her heart.

her maid of honors wedding looked beautiful and i adored her dresses 4:07

@ashlita90210

Жыл бұрын

omg right

I soon changed my mind about this group once Lori stepped in smoothed things over and built a bridge. I hope the bride has an outstanding wedding day and her marriage is a long and happy one.

If I was a bridesmaid, I would wear WHATEVER the bride wanted me to wear, I wouldn’t give any feedback, I’d just do it because it’s HER wedding.

I remember this episode and I felt bad for her! I don’t think she’s as bad as people were saying, there was more to allll of it

she wasn’t terrible for the first like 2 minutes and then BAM she just flipped on her matron of honor

@MNcoquicoqui

Ай бұрын

She was just envious of her and how her mother was with her friend. Then making fun of the bridesmaid dresses???? Come on now. She's bitter and didn't deserve sympathy.

PEOPLE WHO R HURTING/HAVE BEEN HURT OFTEN R FORCED TO KEEP IT ALL CLOSED UP UNTIL UNFORTUNATELY THEY EXPLODED + OTHER PEOPLE/ SOME 1 ELSE ENDS UP UNHAPPY+EVEN SHOCKED.

aw her best friend really said i would give you my house… she cried when the bride cried. she realy cares

There is simply no excuse for hurling abuse at people. Whatever the reason you're hurting, you can't treat people like that. There's no guarantee people will continue to give you chances and opportunities tp repeat the offenses.

You have the best group of friends and bridesmaids. I am so sorry about your mom not being that involved with planning your wedding. And that dress will look amazing on your bridesmaids.

Whats wrong if you buy from local wallmart. She is doing as if she is royal.

Poor girl. She wants comfort.

@ThatVirgoChickk

Жыл бұрын

F**k her! she had no right being rude to her bridesmaids and taking her personal problems out on them

I really don't think she meant to attack them, but in the moment she was projecting a lot of her anger and frustration at them because they didn't look like her idea of perfect, so she felt out of control. She's human, but I am glad she was called out. I hope her day went well and she felt supported, she seems to have great friends that support her.

@isay207

Жыл бұрын

Of course she ment to do it

@b1k2q34

Жыл бұрын

This is all scripted. For TV drama. You people read way too much into it.

If I was a brides maid I would be so mad and head for the door

Lmao well those dresses were hideous 🤣🤣🤣🤣

My brides maids dresses were hand made. I told them go find a pattern you like, keeping in mind my 8 yr old niece (Jr. brides maid) would be wearing the same dress and that's what we'll go with. They were happy with them. We did the same when my maid of honor got married. The only difference between the MOH and Bridemaid were the flowers.

Yellow is an appallingly hard color to wear. It takes a particular complexion to carry off yellow, and not many people have it. My mother wasn't really interested in helping me plan anything. She was still processing the grief of my dad passing away, so I pretty much did it by myself. I wish she had been more supportive, but in the end, I paid for my dress, so I picked what I wanted, even though she wasn't crazy about it. I looked at a lot of bridesmaids dresses to find one I felt would be flattering to both my bridesmaids, and that they could wear again. My sister wore her dress later for several voice recitals, and received many compliments on it. Lori's been doing this job long enough to know when something's up.

Most wedding stylists and shop owners are truly Shamanic healers. Gok, Jo, Al, Randy, Lori, Monte. It's not about a dress. It's about HEALING THE ISSUES.

I completely understand the Bride with the whole Mother thing. That's exactly how it is with me. It really hurts too. But of course that's no excuse to be nasty to those there to support you. Prayers for her though. It's definitely a VERY HARD place to be in. And hurts VERY MUCH.

The bride was like a toddler having a temper tantrum. Using such harsh language against her best friends is inexcusable. Yet, they forgave her. She should kearn from them. One hopes she communicates better with her future husband, or they are in for a rough ride.

Someone agreed to marry that?

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And she's still married, about to have a kid. It seems married since 2011. I call fake drama.

Why would anyone put up with this? If someone talk to me this way I would just turn around and leave. If you have issues go to a psychologist, nothing excuses bullying your friends like this.

I can’t imagine not having been involved in my daughter’s wedding. Something else must be going on. The mom doesn’t like the fiancé, or has medical issues, or maybe the bride just doesn’t get along with her mom. If she had that attitude with her mom, I can see why. Or, maybe the bride learned that attitude from her mom.

Seems like the bride needs to take some time to reflect on herself because she is not ready to get married.

So she purposefully chooses a color that she knows is difficult to work with and that all the bridesmaids collectively hate, and then proceeds to call every yellow dress awful and makes fun of the color...? Something seems fishy. Especially when she said "That's why you stuck me in that horrible dress" she was DEFINITELY projecting. She is just a rude person. No excuses.

She's so lucky to have such good friends. I literally don't have any friends. If I get married I'm on my own, won't have any bridesmaids or help

Such a great bunch of friends!