Oh my word! I smiled so hard while watching this, my face hurts 😅 Thanks ×10000000 for making this, for being so kind and supportive, for being respectful, for asking people to like and subscribe, and for gassing me uppppp! I'm just wowed! And your people definitely helped me get to 2k so thankssss everyone. God bless and keep you, wishing you all the best life has to offer! 🤗🤗🤗

@stunnameluleki9441

10 ай бұрын

You're not only an awesome human being but you're beautiful as well. I always tell people that not all Nigerians are bad people I so wish our paths may cross someday coz I got the feeling there's a lot I could learn from you and conversely

@ThatFireLA

10 ай бұрын

Im so happy I could help! I understand the struggles of being a KZreadR its not easy at all. But I want to say again Thank you for helping me and others learn about Africa.

@lungiswamatshaba

10 ай бұрын

Just subscribed! You're both gorgeous & intelligent, and seem like a great person. I'm a South African who's obsessed with Naija people & culture - can't wait to go to your country! P.S: since you're now officially my friend in my head, I'll be inviting you to my wedding when I marry my Igbo King 😄🥰💓.

@oyinkanhoney

10 ай бұрын

@@stunnameluleki9441 this is so kind! Thank you 🤗

@oyinkanhoney

10 ай бұрын

@@ThatFireLA 😊🤗

The problem is that nobody will ever understand SAs, we are frank, transparent and very friendly. We even share about our stories in a public transport. Sometimes you will find someone talking with a phone in a public transport, and when that person is done talking the person sitting next to him/her will not mind asking questions about what you were discussing on the phone if may be there is anything they find interesting in the conversation that you had😂😂 that is us. South African people talk in public places with strangers and talk as if they have known you for years😅 We are peculiar people we are so care free, unfortunately we are misunderstood by our own African countries because of the upbringing. That is why we joke about everything because we are not a serious country. Well we will try to learn as we are now having a lot of our African brothers and sisters coming into this country😂😂😂 We call our country a movie country because we so busy producing contents everyday, we joke about serious problems of this country to take the stress away, that is why we do not like to travel or migrate we love our country and different contents we create for our own fun. We sing and dance about every problem and laugh it and move on. We mind our own Bussiness 😂😂😂 Shout out to Mzansi People❤😂

@khem127

11 ай бұрын

We African Americans are familiar, we have the same response, we laugh and joke, even about things that others may think of as serious. I would love to come to SA. Love from America.

@Rhenadhis

10 ай бұрын

Kenya is similar in the joke about everything department; we as quick with the memes, jokes and comedic skits about 30 minutes after something catastrophic happens because we love to laugh

@basetsanamokoka5462

9 ай бұрын

That's how we deal with our problems and learn how to deal with them. One day I was taking my meds in a taxi and someone asked me if am ok. We ended up talking for the whole trip. After that me and you are family. Next time I see you I am going to ask you about how you are doing and how is your family. That's some form of networking. Next time my company had a vacancy and I know your sister is looking for a job, now I put a word in and already she is my sister.

As South Africans, we have no filter!

Because most South Africans don't travel much. It's only natural for us to be so inquisitive 😅 but it's all in good spirit

@lozi4163

11 ай бұрын

Most South Africans dont travel much? why do you guys believe this belittling notion and going around with it? most South Africans don't migrate a lot but when it comes to travelling, we are the biggest travellers in Africa simply because we have the largest middle class.

@peterairl102

11 ай бұрын

You talking nonsense, and which South African is inquisitive about a fucking Nigeria?

@matomemalatsi3559

11 ай бұрын

​@lozi4163 no need to get deep. By proportion compared to other African countries we travel less

@YETI_312

11 ай бұрын

​@@lozi4163Fair point. It makes sense.

@loveamber3976

11 ай бұрын

@@lozi4163SouthAfrica don’t travel. Stop lying. Only few does

They should not be offended by the question nor are they trying to offend you. It's friendly, innocent and it's how you will see an immediate spark of a person. We love love and family.

@Aaska2.0

10 ай бұрын

Offended ...yes .... because of culture differences...but after living in south africa we happen to understand and accept it as part the norm.. i am from the congo and i thought it was only my impression. its just cultural difference ..not much. but it feels weird ...like personal space invasion.

@thokomalangcobo1824

3 ай бұрын

​@@Aaska2.0understood but that is how we were living and talking way before yall came here

South African we are frank we are direct and don't beat about the bush and it is all in good intention to get to know u.. we. Are an open society and surely it is a normal thing here .

I get what she's saying, but South Africans don't do this. She might have met few individuals who do this, but those individuals don't represent all South Africans, keep that mind.

Lol that last point is our answer to the most asked question from other African people with regards to us not traveling. At my big age I'm still discovering new gems about this country & I've been here my whole life. 😭😍🇿🇦

It's NOT all of us. I'm South African but I respect people and need to be respected as well. The intrusiveness is a No-no. We're not all the same. I also hate it when people generalize. Just NO! Don't do that.

@thokomalangcobo1824

3 ай бұрын

You can't just avoid all those

The things we learn everyday about other countries; Kenya also has a very robust doemstic tourism culture, we travel within the country and there is beautiful places to visit just within

She's not really lying about the first point😄, as South Africans we can be very inquisitive however on the same end South Africans are over sharers so they will also openly tell you about their lives even if you didn't ask. The personal questions that they are asking are usually the same information they would volunteer for free 😂😂

Only 2 words that defines our country Bro "IT'S LIT" 🔥🔥 S/O to her and S/O to you Bro

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The issue on boundaries is so true. Unfortunately for SAns they're trying to be friendly especially in your case they're your classmates that means they've accepted you as one of them. But those questions wont be asked someone they just met in the street. But because they were going to spend a year or tears with you theyll ask you such questions so that you too can ask them about theirs even if you don't they can tell you about their love life. Usually we refer to those type of people as "Bayaphapha" or "Bayaspeeda abanamaBriki" the forward ones who dont have a filter who just shoot from the hip, in most cases its in their nature. We too have learned early on how to deal with them. But they're everywhere nje in our families, Communities, schools, churches, in public spaces ie taxis and ja they're there and we've gotten used to them that we don't see anything odd about it until you highlighted it.

@bongiwemhlongo3108

11 ай бұрын

I’m South African but I really hate it when people ask me personal questions especially if we just met.

@nokweyisangqungwana3103

11 ай бұрын

@@bongiwemhlongo3108 I know it is irritating and I hope sure you put them in their place. They rather know you as someone ophoxanayo or you give them that look uyayazi mos, the one that says don't girl stay in your lane. Do you know when you do that they look at you and only respond with a "Shhhoh!". If you don't have it please practice it, that look will save you girl.

@bongiwemhlongo3108

11 ай бұрын

@@nokweyisangqungwana3103 I'm that girl who gives the "don't mess with me look" 😅

In south africa you'd meet some one in a taxi(mini Bus) for the first time ever ,and they'll completely tell you their life strory ask you for life advice ,thank you and then jump of the next stop ,and you'll never see them again

I like this type of content so I subbed to her a while back, but I still don't understand her first point...Last time I checked we be minding our own business as South Africans😄

Majority of what she's talking about is very common to Nigerian guys to ask girls.

I'm one of her subs. Great points.

We mind our own business.

Awe, bro your hat collection is dope, is this all football 🏈🏈 team hats

I agree. My people will ask you very intrusive questions. Even men who may be interested in you will ask you deep questions at the get go. I am South African and I also have that experience with my people. Too inquisitive

We are just being friendly. To us we are trying to get to know you and learn from you. We are interested in your background and we love when you ask back.

That is I can't find myself talking to Nigerians

It's true what she's saying, but what I can say to our south African ppl, let's respect privacy of other ppl.

😂😂😂😂 we ask everything 😂😂 anything

@ThatfireLA u are always lit bro i like that u are never grumpy or lacking energy keep it up...i always have a good laugh💪🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

We are inquisitive 😂 sfunukwazi

@phumlamagaqa5954

11 ай бұрын

Dankie Mtase😂😂😂sifunukwazi and we not taking this info anywhere, siqhuba usuku😂😂

@thelmatonny

11 ай бұрын

I can’t with this comment…. Cos it actually happens to us as well, and there’s always that one aunt that you avoid cos you just know 😂😂😂

Come to South Africa, go out for Just one drink... They come back and tell me about spending money on things that make money. Don't worry I'll wait

Great

15:09 you got me crackin up bro...lol😅

Some people think as long as you accept to be their friend their is no boundaries

I grew up in South Africa and live in Saudi Arabia…. I just kept marveling at who are these people cos they live like they came out of Kwa-Zulu. Needless to say I’ve been here for 13 years now and it’s like being in KZN!!

That's why they call South Africa rainbow 🌈 national

We are very open and honest and we are genuinely curious and we care, hence the strange questions. If you answer it short and cold then we know that you're not interested in being friends or that you have something to hide. If you answer it honestly and openly then we know we can trust you. Why would you be ashamed or shy to speak your mind on having/not having kids/ planning to have kids later or never? We respect whatever your answer is..but why would you not want to answer such a basic human question.

Hayi bo we are trying to be friendly sinje

I totally agree with her, one should have boundaries, not everyone ask you those type of questions with good motives. On the other hand though, like you said, we ask to know early what type of person you are so that we eliminate the element of surprise🤭🤭🤭

You're a decent brother in promoting and encouraging other channels bro

We jokes about each others religion and nationality in the office. Its normal to have a hindu guy come in on a monday morning quoting a bible verse just to spark a debate and we laugh about it

"She glew" 😂😅

Bro you need to come to South Africa on Vacation. Come during USA winter time. The seasons are opposite.

Bro just listen to your fellow American's experience of South Africans.

Shes mostly talking about people in Jo'burg or Gauteng province. Most people will xan a joburg experience a South African experience.

No remember history they want to find out if u are worth there time. If u lie for no reason if u full of sh%t or about what u say u are. They are a giving people and why waste your time on someone trying to use u for what ever reason. The people of South Africa understand there value and that they are fighters of whats right.

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@frankoretro

11 ай бұрын

Some underground Amapiano that we only get to listen to when we use taxi

Well it's not like we're disrespectful, however the level of acceptance we give is that of family, like if I see you as a brother, I'll ask you questions a brother would ask. ::: Especially if You're from another country, we're always interested to know what we can learn from you. However self expression is acceptable.

What software do you use to remove the background from your video?

@CoolTebza-eh7ig

11 ай бұрын

Just use a projector 📽️ there called wall TV if you use a green sheet at the back it will improve it, just don't wear green stuff or reflective stuff boom you got a background with you in it. 😂😅 This was there for decades don't know where on earth would you ask a software, the iphone or latest expensive android phones do this. With a video at the back

Yes we just met but we gotta know something about you; we can’t just hangout with someone we don’t know anything about. We gotta know something

Yeah that's how woman talk , men that's different we don't talk like that. I ask male Nigerian.

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@godsbabeborn-again5945

11 ай бұрын

My fave. Yes!!! ❤️

@CliffordMoraleSavage

11 ай бұрын

@@godsbabeborn-again5945 best song ever

We just trying to learn more from you how is your country and how you live

I am a South African and I know it will be invasive to ask what car a stranger’s partner is driving. I my is not true that such can be a culture in South Africa. It maybe that you met someone who ask too much.

L❤😊😊😊

We are very personal, and ask alot of questions...however if you open up and we find you have a problem or need info we as strangers will offer you help. Its funny because at the end did you feel cared for. I think she is actually very snooty...we are not rude we are very friendly. So i dont get what you on about.

They sizing up your boyfriend to see if you into high value man or he just an ordinary dude

Am a South African🇿🇦. But I love Nigeria more. They vibe more. They are more sensible, happy and smart on anything.

@roblucci2366

11 ай бұрын

You love them more?

@benhannah3595

11 ай бұрын

True facts. We Nigerians always make sure everyone around us progress along with us despite wherever origin you came from. We spread love❤️

@ichoosegodfromnowon847

11 ай бұрын

Consider moving to Nigeria so u don't explain yourself, they smartness will rub of u

@1HourOf.

11 ай бұрын

🤔🤔

@thabangtladi8057

11 ай бұрын

@@roblucci2366 drug money for that matter

But to label an entire country of 62 million with people you met down the street doesn't add up. Not all South Africans a like that cpme on...

Ppl are not the same so the narrative you are pushing sister?????

@jpaultelchannel1702

10 ай бұрын

Listen to her again.... Listen to the entire video. She is actually saying very good things about SA. Don't be too fragile. 10 to 11 minute marks; 12 to 15 min.. That is a total of 4 minutes.

It's more like wanting to know about you rather than getting to know you. Not giving the friendship a chance and the level of comfort that allows you to share with them personal stuff. I am south african but I dislike that.