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If they totally disregard the conversation of we cannot afford that right now, it's a very clear sign of disrespect and disregard for the family. Fuck that. That's a huge slap in the face

I wouldn't call that petty. Those are just natural consequences.

Man, this hits home. My ex-husband would go to the ATM on pay day and withdraw a few hundred dollars and justify it by saying that if the money is there, it must be okay. I could not get him to understand that all the bills had not been paid. This was a 24-year argument. Notice he is my "ex".

@OffTheWagons

Жыл бұрын

Oh he understood, he just cared more about his wants and let you worry about the needs.

@jharris7

Жыл бұрын

I had to hide money at my mom's house from my ex. He would spend it all on video game stuff and music equipment, leaving nothing for groceries or bills. I'm so glad I got out!

@RobBarrettgolfs

Жыл бұрын

😂

@RobBarrettgolfs

Жыл бұрын

I’m sure you spent just as much

@OffTheWagons

Жыл бұрын

@@RobBarrettgolfs Aww, are you one of the toddlers who want to hate on women and blame them for everything? Cute. It's sad how little guys like you understand about people and the world because you allowed yourselves to be brainwashed by grifters online who are actual sociopaths. Some men are the problem in the relationship. Some men steal money from their girlfriend or wife and use it for whatever they want which is usually a vice and only benefits them and harms the woman. Some men straight up live off of their girlfriend or wife and use them for money. I know that goes against all what the sociopathic grifters say about women, but it's the actual truth. And some of these types of men come online to whine about women and blame them for things they don't do. It happens way more often than most guys would ever admit or if they are stable- will know about. Hope you realize all this so you can come back to Earth.

This is a lesson most people need to learn at some point in their lives. Play stupid games win stupid prizes. There are always consequences for your actions.

I agree 10000%

I remember when my ex-husband would blow all his money and blame it on the job for making mistakes with his hours in the computer so i was paying all the bills for at least 2 years ended up having to get a second job and one day i found meth in his pocket and the rest is history.. nobody deserves to be broke because of a spouse its unfair

@OffTheWagons

Жыл бұрын

Mine was an alcoholic and did the same. I woke up to him taking a 100 bill out of my purse, literally opened my eyes to his hand pulling it out. He would steal from me to go drink and buy cigarettes while I had a young child and hardly enough for the bills and food. He refused to watch him so I could work too, and would be too tired on the days he was supposed to have him, then told other guys I KEPT THE CHILD FROM HIM!! I still cannot believe he lied about me like that, it hurts me so deeply. I knew he had all these issues, but just didn't expect him to be lying about me and making people think I was this awful person. Now, will not trust another person again that way. That was the last straw, the last time I put trust into another person. He would be so honest about certain things, I assumed he was honest all around but he wasn't. Only for manipulative purposes. Oh and he did much worse, I can't even go into details about it but he made sure before he died he got my son taken from me. He did this because I wouldn't go back to him, and started dating. Saw his chance to look like the good parent when he wasn't a parent AT ALL, I was the only one taking care of that child and to have my family die and have him be able to make people think whatever about me regardless of the actual evidence - I'm still in shock. I loved him too, loved him so so much. That hurt me beyond what words could convey.

Yup., if you aren’t able to hold each other accountable in a relationship in a respectful way then it’s not going to work.. in the beginning of my marriage, I was horrible with money.. I was always spending money today, trying to make it up tomorrow.. I never stopped working to make it up.. it was a constant struggle for me even though I was a hard worker and all that.. i told my husband that I really needed help, and we got a joint account so that I had no choice but to be held accountable for my spending. He is amazing with money.. and if I couldn’t explain it I didn’t buy it. Bills first, fun later..

Off topic, but I want her glasses chain 😅

Think again bro.. If they shur your powe off for 400 its gonna be amost 1000 to get it back on cause u gotta pay xtra fees.

100% and actually I have done this - I save all my checks to pay bills - and homie over there 👉 buying McDonald’s everyday for lunch after I make badass home lunches - and I find out he’s giving the stuff he asked me to make him for lunch to his homeboy ! I mean let me know so homie won’t get a nice note that ain’t for him 😂😂😂😂

Some people just want babysitters not a partner. Cause basic necessities should always come first!

Dude that shirt is dope

Abso-fucking-lutely

I don't understand how people choose themselves to be in a less than basic life. Basic life meaning: having a house, having power, gas, warm water. We are blessed to have these things made available to us and you're going to ruin it by buying things that you like the first 10 minutes you buy it and then the new is off? 😅

@prissylovejoy702

Жыл бұрын

I put things in my cart and walk around with them while I’m the store. 9 times out of 10 by the time I reach the check out the impulse has worn off and I put them back. Works pretty good.

Ladies always have the means to make your own money. This is why.

Love this very good idea they will be shocked u did that it would be a wake up call

I don't think that's petty. Thats how immature ppl learn.

I would change the password on the Internet when my roommate would my pay her share. She ended up being a serial squatter.

My sister in law I like that. My wife's husband makes the money and hands it over to her thinking she's spending it on bills. Last month he received a pay or quit for the last 3 months. They have 3 kids and are now going to be homeless cause that B---- needed squishmellos.

@xijaxxijax6072

Жыл бұрын

Ur wife's "brother"?

20 years ago my ex did that to his roommate who wasn’t paying on time, and he only stopped the petty parade (of no air, no lights, no power) for his roommates 3rd or 4th child visitation weekend.. I had strong moral objections but no authority, so I left him and found out it doesn’t have to be that hard 🤷🏻‍♀️

Preach brother! Once you’ve bounced back from homelessness your a king amount mice!

Love love love your content! ❤ Glad I found you guys!

He's right though

Preach!

Exactly what is do to

I've actually factually done this.. she wasn't impressed and left banged some dude for money.. turned power on but i already knew and when the lights came on, poof i was gone. And have never been happier.

Gumby

I'm loving your Gumbie shirt

Seriously. Y’all are the best. Respectfully, I appreciate the conversations you have publicly to better other’s relationships ❤️ I look at things from different angles watching you and have a whole new respect for my husband.

So instead of sitting down with that person/spouse and being transparent about the financial situation and understanding why we need to budget better we should skip to an extreme? If you do that and your partner is still irresponsible how about giving them an allowance (not matter if they work or not) and it still solves the problem.

That might be a dude...

I like him!

What if u have kids . You gonna jave them sleep in the car too? There's gotta be a better way

Yeeeeessss!!!

What episode is this

Amen

100000%

The man in this scenario is giving access to finances, to a woman who can't handle that type of responsibility. That's poor leadership. He's at fault. Don't be a damn victim how about that?

@allysaurus96

Жыл бұрын

they're speaking hypothetically, to determine how they would react and respond to a situation in the future if it ever presents itself. my bf and I talk about hypotheticals because we want to learn more about each other's preferences and morals so that if certain events happen, we're more equipped to dealing with issues. I don't think this couple is actually dealing with one sided financial irresponsibility. hope that cleared things up a lil

@joenino3

Жыл бұрын

@@allysaurus96 I am also speaking hypothetically. I said the man in this scenario, not the man in the video. People should earn access to any part of your life is what I'm saying. Hypothetically, would you let someone borrow your car knowing that they've totalled multiple vehicles? I wouldn't. In real life, I wouldn't allow another person to stop me from paying my bill and then blame them for it. That would be my own fault. That's accountability. I'm not saying the question is dumb, I'm saying that the answer is unproductive and irresponsible.