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@nadineelizabeth195

2 ай бұрын

Do you have any donation pages that i can use for sadaqah

Allaah says in His Book: we made some of you a trial for you, will you be patient?

@inspiringmuslim

3 ай бұрын

SubhanAllah

@GiveUpYourSins-to9sn

3 ай бұрын

AllahuAkbar.

@dariyabadra9804

3 ай бұрын

*Some of you, my dear 😇😇😇

@sapphireemerald6882

3 ай бұрын

It's in Surah Furqan

@aie007

3 ай бұрын

​@@sapphireemerald6882jazaak Allah

Some people are tests and some are rewards . Alhamdulillah for everything may Allah keep us close to the people who bring us close to Allah swt

@kehfilwara1692

3 ай бұрын

Aameen May Allah make us from those people who bring others close to Allah and bless us with such people.

@Havin270

3 ай бұрын

​@@kehfilwara1692Ameen

@Havin270

3 ай бұрын

Ameen

@djelalniyazi4090

Ай бұрын

Amin

@petergreen5337

Ай бұрын

Aameen

This video pops up on my recommendations the same day I pray like a madman as I was very anxious about my emotional being because of how terrible my feeling towards my parents. Feels like Allah immediately answer my du'a and I'm not even a good servant of Him. He's The Most Merciful, indeed.

I get mentally frustrated every time I'm talking with my mom. Despite that, never behaved badly to my parents. Unfortunately I'm still living with them so it's taking a mental toll on me. I hope Allah make it easy

@Sarah-pj4vo

3 ай бұрын

Don't worry, and please don't feel guilty. insha'Allah you can reach out to new support networks just to find a more supportive space

@baidarmh7015

3 ай бұрын

I feel you sister ): I have the same situation with my mom. I know I’m a bad daughter by isolating myself from her and remaining quiet and not talking to her, but I found that’s the only way we can co-exist and not be disobedient or raise my voice when she breaks my spirit or implies that I’m a bad person. My self-esteem and social skills have become a joke now. She doesn’t see how as an adult I struggle at my workplace because of the lack of healthy communication, safety, and nurturing at home. I’m always on my own and on survival mode.

@marigold9736

3 ай бұрын

​@@baidarmh7015 Sometimes parents are difficult, they might be narcissistic or have psychological or psychopathic traits , or ADHD or autism traits, often showing up in behaviour issues emotional disregulation, unable to process emotions in an emphatic manner , but you can buy a baby kitten cat 🐈 for companionship and stress relief. May Allah help you.😊😊

@Mrsphotography2023

3 ай бұрын

@@baidarmh7015please don’t feel that way Allah doesn’t test a soul more than it can take after hardship comes ease believe that Allah is only planning for you the best ❤

@Sarah-pj4vo

3 ай бұрын

@@baidarmh7015 As-salamu aleikum. You are not a 'bad daughter'. Of course, I don't know your circumstances or situation, but please don't carry this view point of yourself. From what you've mentioned, the best you can do is keep yourself at a safe, healthy distance so as to protect yourself and your overall wellbeing and Iman. Allah asked us to treat our parents well ( with that being reciprocated back to us with their kindness to us too, not entitlement, poor boundaries and dictatorial orders) and Not be blind obedient slaves without any independent thinking of our own. Just do what your can Insha'Allah. And please stay away from anyone who starts to send you on a guilt trip - it's not about the 'deen' but more wanting to see another Muslim slip and trip because of their own narcissism. I don't mean to 'give out' unsolicited advice, as I personally don't like it myself, but so many of us young and working age adults are in this situation because of our upbringing in Muslim households, that usually use and weaponise Islam for their own gain and benefit.

"I will test you by means of each other."

Subhanallah, just came to me at the right time! I just can't have my focus correctly when there are people that I don't like around . I feel really bad for having such feelings but couldn't help them get out of my mind as well. May Allah(swt) help us get through this ameen

@PelicanFeathers

Ай бұрын

That is the test. Tawuz.. Muwazzatain.. I think they help us dominate out feelings.. They give us strength to root out negativity. They help us clearly differentiate reason and feelings in any situation ..and help us see which feelings should be ignored when it comes to behavior Tawuz ..three times on left side Muwazzatain

Its like staying professional in the job even you dislike clients or even your colleges.you just act right without feelings included

@shaziakhan-yd9cc

5 күн бұрын

But the problem is we supress our feelings in case of a client but in personal relationship we let feelings to get upper hand

Feeling is temporary,so we have to understand this😊

@sameerarauf5110

3 ай бұрын

Well said !!!

@JanPieters-wz2vn

3 ай бұрын

Yes an emotion mostly only lasts 90 seconds!

@abdulmuqtadar6172

2 ай бұрын

It happens with almost everyone

@user-vg8qo6uv5o

27 күн бұрын

But memory is permanent

@Sumaima183

27 күн бұрын

@@user-vg8qo6uv5o no.

I used to hate myself because I thought I shouldn't have any negative feelings towards others, I feel like not liking someone's behaviour means I'm not good enough as a Muslim as I was taught to be nice to everyone even if they were not very nice. Alhamdulillah, after watching this video, I feel more relieved and accept the fact that it is impossible to force yourself into liking or loving someone and it is ok to have such feelings towards others as long as your emotions doesn't lead to hurtful actions toward that person.

@Mika-eelHoven

2 ай бұрын

Don't let anybody manipulate you by using the "muslim" phrase, we can't handle everyone's nonsense, just ignore them if you can.

@gale7a

Ай бұрын

​@@Mika-eelHovenyou're right, people be using manipulation to guilt trip

@Mika-eelHoven

Ай бұрын

@@gale7a true that, once your figure them out they'll be mad at you for not falling for their tricks like you once did before. A lot of us want to live in peace with one another But you'll get those people that like to disrupt peace. Be brave, actions speak louder than words.

But my parents are too much toxic. They just don't want to understand me. Always blame me for everything. Seems like It's a competition. May Allah help me to out of this nd give me a better place, better ppl n better life. Plz guys pray for me 😊💔

@Chuckruu

2 ай бұрын

Counselling will help you separate feelings from behaviour.

Feels like 30 years of wisdom summed up in minutes.

Without Allah in mind its impossible ❤❤❤

Allah had gifted us with emotional intelligence, wherein we use our feelongs and emotions mindfully to bring out appropriate behaviour according to situations.

Wallahi ❤ I needed this 🕋☝️

It’s thought provoking. At least to feel the way a situation is, give some sort of relief. Recognising a feeling is important to address it.

Ohhhh. I was in need of this. You made it easy for me. My life is already a mess but this video came as a blessing

Wow... I needed this. Thank you for posting this reminder. ❤😊

@ServantOfAllaahu-1163

3 ай бұрын

Any Uply May Any Uply Any Love Any Of Allaahu Any Uply Be Upon Allaahu,Any Uply Be Upon Any Prophet Any Uply Any Nonstop Any Uply Any No Any Matter Together.

It was a tough day today. I needed this

Some of the most intolerant people I met were religious. They picked verses which ordered hatred and applied it indiscriminately. I have not seen people be so passionate about spreading love as they are on spreading hatred

Subhanallah, Subhanallah, Subhanallah! Came at the right time. Allahuakbar!

Subhan Allah this came to me at the moment I needed it the most. I have been praying to Allah to guide me and it's utmost clear to me what I have been doing wrong. I have been letting my emotions and feelings overpower me ultimately dictating my behaviour 😢 I asked Allah for strength and he's provided me the best solution to overcome my issues alhamdulillah ❤

My behavior really has been dictated by Allah SWT... I was so ready to take justice for myself but my hands have been tied by the Almighty everytime... Alhamdulillah for everything... He is showing me justice towards someone who people call Iblees... I have never met a worst human in my life... May Allah SWT safeguard and protect us all Aameen...

I'm feeling like this there are some people whom i don't like but then i remember Allah and think it doesn't matter what i feel but I've to give my best to please Allah , because whenever i act in the wrong way i immediately feel guilty thinking He is watching and He will be disappointed in me. May Allah ease my situations.Ameen

That's human for you! We have our own traits and that's what make us unique. He means stay RESPECT and behaved well to people that you might not fond of. Because we will never know what other people thinking about us, they might not like you too but they still have a normal conversation with you too. But don't let those bad people to influence you!

Very much needed this ❤

SubhanALLAH ALLAH HAS GIVEN ANSWER OF EVERYTHING YA ALLAH FORGIVE US

I needed those words of guidance today 😢

Subhanallah, i am struggling with this a lot. I feel like a sinner, i feel bad, i get depressed because of my feelings... I tell myself everytime, im human, I cant love everything.. I found this video after my prayer, and elhamdullilah just what I needed. Allah always guides 😢❤❤

masyaAllah, this video came right after I cried because I feel mentally frustated with my situation right now and my parents just like blaming me for the whole situation. I never feel this sad before, but alhamdulillah, this video came to me right away. may Allah help me through this time aamiin🥺💗

I had lots of difficulties in my life especially in my family .I asked Allh for several times to help me to skip all of these difficulties and I was so surprised why all of these things had happened to me .i am kind and I usually help people.I didn't hurt any one but all people who i had helped .all of them were devils all of them wanted to hurt me .all of them were my family .all these difficulties had helped me to be better and I am now with Allah.l am more patient than the past I had made abig space between them and I .i am still trying to protect my self .

Alhamdulillah ❤ Allahu Akbar ❤ La illaha illa Allah ❤ SubhanAllah ❤Astagfirullah ❤ How Patient and Kind and Merciful Allah has been with me ! ❤

May Allah bless ustadh abundantly in both the worlds iam his student n he is an excellent teacher Barak Allah

Subhanallah I very much needed this !! Going through a very difficult time dealing with my own family members and this came . Ya allah alhamdulillah for showing me this . May he swt make it easy for me ameen .

man, i really needed this for the longest time😭❤️

Jazakallah khair ❤

That’s awesome love it!

Ya Allah I needed this.. 🙌💚

Jazakah Allahu khairan

Allahumma barik Really needed this Thank you

Allah.. i needed it so much.

Jazak Allah khair for guiding.

Alhamdulillah❤ i need to hear this

Thank you. Needed to hear this.

I needed this today

Alhamdoulellah. I needed to hear this so much tonight

Thanks for guiding

Much needed reminder

Thank you so much for sharing this.😢

Jazak Allahu khairan for mentioning the full video in description

Ma sha Allah ❤ needed to hear this

Thank you dor sharing

Jazakallah KHAIR

Alhamdulliah May Allah reward u brother for explaining this

MASHALLAH TABARAKA ALLAH MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU

SubhanAllah BarakAllah feekum

It amazes hearing this beautiful message this morning

Thank you for this

Jazakallah khair

Mone hosse ei lecture amar jonnoi dea hoese. SukurAlhumdulillah.

MashAllah amazing explanation

May Allah grant you the best of all things

Opened my eyes, thankyou

Thank you so much for this video

Thank you so much needed this ❤❤ Alhumdulillah 💖🫶🏻

Much needed

Alhamdulillah.. Eye opening word....❤

Jazaq Allahukum khairan shaikh💐💐💐

Thank you

Thank you sir thank you, I just found it at the right time when I needed it the most. Thanks ❤

Just what I needed at this moment.. Jazakallah khair

A very important and good message. Thanks for sharing

Jazakallahu khairan

Beautifully explained ma sha Allah ❤

Thank you, I learned a lot today, Alhamdulillah.

Sub-haan-ALLAAH. This is really Nice perspective. JazakALLAAH, many thanks for such an amazing explanation.

Jazakallah

I need to listen to this more cause the world is so lost!!!!!!!

MAA sha Allah I have just watched this on Facebook n finding it here mean alot to m,, Alhamdulillah I will work on it bi idhnillaah

Shukriya 😢

Thank Allah for our teachers like brother Nouman! Alhamdulillah. 🌻

This changed my angle of thinking about reactions i give . A therapy indeed !!! May allah reward you the best ❤❤❤

Thankyou for Sharing This @HaveSabr I think I Needed to hear this!!

So well explained. Taqwa is everything. Thank you ✨️

I truly need these words. As someone who studied sociology and psychology, these words give more catalyst of my confidence in the knowledge that Allah has given to me. Subhanallahiwabihamdih. Subhanallahilazim. Thankyou Allah Ya Rahman Ya Rahim Ya A’ziz Ya Hakim

Thanks for the advice ustad.. you are the Best...

Even without tiktok some people from the older generations have still followed their emotions, whether it was anger, hate, or any kind of negative emotion to justify hostility towards others

MasyaaAllah. Beautifully spoken. May Allah guide us in our every step and decision.

Subhan Allah! I needed to hear this and indeed my Creator knows I needed to hear this. Alhamdulillahi Rabbil A'alameen. To Allah belongs all praise and glory. May Allah SWT bless, guide, make ease and keep us all on the straight path. Ameen

Most beautiful lecturer Mashallah

Much needed advice

It's just for me.jajakallah saikh

Pure words of wisdom ❤

Thanks a lot Sir May Allah help us to keep our feelings and behaviour distinct AMEEN

Allhamduillah for hearing after doing my dua which I did at Tahajud time....❤

SubhanAllah ❤

Beautiful.

Masha Allah Subhan Allah Ameen Summa Ameen Ya Rabbul Alameen

Thanks

This actually puts you in a very powerful mindset.