Somebody Call HR | Two Cents Ep. 4

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  • @kbkb1237
    @kbkb1237 Жыл бұрын

    I love Tori on this!! Please keep her as a regular. You ladies are an amazing duo and the tea is REAL!!! Love these episodes and keep them coming. ❤

  • @LeaToshiye

    @LeaToshiye

    Жыл бұрын

    Aw thank you sm!! New episode coming on Sunday! 💕

  • @jalynnroberts-lewis4871
    @jalynnroberts-lewis4871 Жыл бұрын

    Love the longer videos! The wedding story….. those friends gotta go tf

  • @LeaToshiye

    @LeaToshiye

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh good!! I wasn’t sure if it was too long 🙊 omg riiight?! Couldn’t be me lol she’s a lot nicer than me 😂

  • @queentahlia9492
    @queentahlia9492 Жыл бұрын

    The scenario about the fiancés “friends” not liking the soon-to be bride/new girlfriend: 1. I’m wondering what the fiancé is saying to his “friends”when they complain about the new girlfriend 2. I’m questioning the fiancé at this point because why does he feel so comfortable letting his “friends” talk shit about her to him AND why did he let this go on for so long?! 🤔 3. They’re clearly not his “friends” if they can’t respect the new girlfriend or him, ESPECIALLY since they still hang out with the ex 4. I wonder if the fiancés parents feel the same way as his “friends” or feel the total opposite and are happy they’re getting married 5. Give him an ultimatum: choose either her or his “friends” (at the same time, if he wants to marry her then she shouldn’t even be an option-no woman should come second to a man if she’s going to his wife) 6. She should reevaluate this relationship and soon-to be marriage because if this is going on now, imagine how bad it’ll get once they’re actually married 🤦🏾‍♀️ 7. I’m wondering why the ex is still in the picture, why he still has her number, AND why he still sees her from time to time…it’s looking real suspect 👀

  • @isabellemayaliwa246
    @isabellemayaliwa246 Жыл бұрын

    Petition to have Tori in all videos!

  • @shehasastory

    @shehasastory

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree!

  • @LeaToshiye

    @LeaToshiye

    Жыл бұрын

    Noted!! I love doing these with her!

  • @xmzjanix
    @xmzjanix Жыл бұрын

    You read my entry! I will definitely give you an update! You guys got me thinking and I have a lot to think about! Love you guys and thank you for the advice! ❤🎉

  • @LeaToshiye

    @LeaToshiye

    Жыл бұрын

    Pls do, we would love an update! Thank YOU for writing in and allowing us to share your entry 💗💗💗

  • @RR-mv1vr
    @RR-mv1vr Жыл бұрын

    You should keep it to the two of you ❤❤both look gorgeous! What highlight have you got on?xx

  • @LeaToshiye

    @LeaToshiye

    Жыл бұрын

    Aw thank you! We’re so glad us as a duo! ☺️ I’m wearing Mac mineralized Skin Finish in Soft N Gentle 💗

  • @queentahlia9492
    @queentahlia9492 Жыл бұрын

    Round 2 with Tori was another success. She’s becoming such a natural in front of the camera now 🤗…I would LOVE if you guys become partners in this series and change the name 🙏🏾💯👏🏾😍 Name Suggestions: Two Cents With TT/T&T TT’s Two Cents What’s Tea w/ T&T/TT Kitchen Talk w/ TT/T&T Behind The Mask What Would TT Do? (WWTTD) Tea Time w/ TT TT’s Honesty Hour Truth Time w/ TT Kickin’ It With TT T&T Series TT’s Journal Down Time w/ TT I hope these help! 🤗

  • @LeaToshiye

    @LeaToshiye

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for all these suggestions!! And we’re so glad u like Tori in the videos it’s so much fun with her! ☺️

  • @WillaMorton
    @WillaMorton Жыл бұрын

    Yayyyyyy, a long one plus Tori. 🥰🥰🥰

  • @LeaToshiye

    @LeaToshiye

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes! I was worried it was too long but I’m glad ur excited about it! lol

  • @WillaMorton

    @WillaMorton

    Жыл бұрын

    @@LeaToshiye Ngl pre-panny, I rarely watched super long videos but now I love them because I’m home a lot more due to teleworking. 😚 Now, as far as you not inviting your brother over your bestie I have thoughts, LOL!!! I think the key thing for me is your bestie saying don’t invite him because she doesn’t like him. If you start uninviting or not inviting him than that sets the tone for the future and then your (potentially temporary) friend is essentially dictating something she shouldn’t. I established at a young age that I’m inviting whomever I want (within reason) to MY sh*t and it’s up to the individuals if they wanna come. If not, where’s the line??? What if you were having a life changing event (marriage/college graduation) and the bestie is still saying your brother can’t come? She’s gonna expect that same energy and essentially you’ve given her that power. Hope that makes sense because I’m like I get that your brother wouldn’t care, but in this instance it’s a little deeper because the best friend doesn’t like your sibling. 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @LeaToshiye

    @LeaToshiye

    Жыл бұрын

    @@WillaMorton I love long videos too! Especially when I’m doing stuff like cleaning or getting ready lol Oh no, I wouldn’t let any of my friends dictate what I do ever lol but if it was a lil party, my brother wouldn’t care if I invited him or not. Important things, my friend would have to get over it 😂 everyone that knows me, friends or family, know that no one can tell me what to do and I feel like if you’re an adult, u can not like someone and still be respectful. If there’s an room full of adults and not everyone gets along, everyone should know how to act lol

  • @WillaMorton

    @WillaMorton

    Жыл бұрын

    Okay, I figured that’s what you meant because I’m like if they’re both standing at the door and I choose my bestie every time, Thanksgiving is gonna be real awkward! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I also understand that everyone can’t be invited to everything because it’s not always appropriate and it definitely changes the experience if your brother’s there. And the amount of times I’ve shared space with people I don’t like….whew! I’m just glad I’m mature now. Lol Last thing, would your answer change if your brother did care? In the scenario in the video, everyone cared which is why it was an issue. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Nikkii18
    @Nikkii18 Жыл бұрын

    I would be friends with my sister if we weren’t siblings but my brother…hell no he’s a bully I’d be fighting him 😂 I have such a crazy messed up work situation that I might write and send over, bc honestly I don’t know what to do about it and I love your guys perspectives so maybe it’ll help me 😂

  • @LeaToshiye

    @LeaToshiye

    Жыл бұрын

    Not fighting your brother 😂😂😂💀 girl write innn! We would love to give u our advice and hopefully help!

  • @queentahlia9492
    @queentahlia9492 Жыл бұрын

    My man and I met at work and we’re going on eight years….BUT we were mature enough to keep our relationship separate/private from work so NO ONE knew (and NVR found out either). We made a pack that if we worked the same shift, we would act like we didn’t know each other and keep it cordial like normal coworkers and it clearly worked 💯…we’re no longer at that job but some romantic relationships can work, just depends on the person and circumstances. You have to be smart and play your cards right with the right person. 😜Of course BOTH parties have to be mutually into one another, not a one way street smh 🤦🏾‍♀️ However, in my opinion, the supervisor/director has to be pillow talking home girl for her to be acting like that at work. No female (regardless of age) is going to be head over heels for a guy for no reason (unless she’s blatantly crazy/psycho 😂👀). He’s clearly treating her differently outside of work and acts professional in the office. Think about it…he has a higher up position at the office.. he’s going to play his cards right and cover his tracks to make sure whatever he does with another employee (a romance), no one will ever find out, he can keep his position, and it’ll just be her word against his which is why he clearly doesn’t respond to her text messages because that’s traceable. OR he’s probably married and doesn’t want to get caught. If this is the case, home girl is just not being smart and wants to get fired. 😂 OR he probably has his own motives and is setting home girl up to get terminated because she’s just a bad employee and doesn’t know how to do the job correctly. Higher up staff can’t just let an employee go for no reason. He’s probably going to let this build up into a case against her so that this can be his ticket/receipt to fire her 👀 These companies are slick and will wait awhile until they have a case against you and never say anything to you at work until termination day comes. Sorry for the long rant, but needless to say, that scenario was just too juicy and it could be a variety of different things. Lastly, the woman that wrote in should just play it cool and watch how everything unfolds. I’m dying to hear a update soon on what happened 😬🤔

  • @perlitahammond2604
    @perlitahammond2604 Жыл бұрын

    @ woman with BD issues… tell him to fuck off. I dealt with a crazy, narcissistic BD who though he could have a say when I started dating. Brought my kid around only one man and that man is now my husband. Do what’s BEST FOR YOU. Court will laugh at him if he thinks this is justifiable for ANYTHING

  • @LeaToshiye

    @LeaToshiye

    Жыл бұрын

    😂💀 u are me and I am u lol and I agree - u can’t love your life according to what they say. They’re just tryna control. And that’s amazing that u found ur husband and didn’t let ur BD stop u! 🙌🏽

  • @perlitahammond2604

    @perlitahammond2604

    Жыл бұрын

    @@LeaToshiye I moved for him too 😂🥰

  • @DrkNlvely
    @DrkNlvely Жыл бұрын

    🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @LeaToshiye

    @LeaToshiye

    Жыл бұрын

    🥰🥰🥰

  • @perlitahammond2604
    @perlitahammond2604 Жыл бұрын

    Funny I am glad I work with all men cuz no drama lol 😂 and they all old 😂 so no affairs for me

  • @perlitahammond2604

    @perlitahammond2604

    Жыл бұрын

    Also, I love seeing both of your prospectives! Sorry for multiple comments. I’ve been watching at work and have had to stop 😂

  • @LeaToshiye

    @LeaToshiye

    Жыл бұрын

    Lol that’s so much easier 😂 not they’re all old 💀😭

  • @perlitahammond2604
    @perlitahammond2604 Жыл бұрын

    Tbh I would not be friends with one of my sisters 😂 she has some conservative type of views 😅

  • @LeaToshiye

    @LeaToshiye

    Жыл бұрын

    Oof.. that’s rough lol

  • @perlitahammond2604

    @perlitahammond2604

    Жыл бұрын

    @@LeaToshiye girl yes, we be HELLA arguing😂😭

  • @portialewisgray
    @portialewisgray Жыл бұрын

    - Another great episode. I would love it if Tori joined you for each episode. I enjoy hearing both of your perspectives. 🤎🤎

  • @LeaToshiye

    @LeaToshiye

    Жыл бұрын

    She’s great isn’t she?! We’re so glad u like the series with both of us! 🫶🏽

  • @portialewisgray

    @portialewisgray

    Жыл бұрын

    @@LeaToshiye She really is, you’re both great! Absolutely - and thank you for always responding back to my comments. I really appreciate you. 🤎🤎

  • @jamisylvestre2759
    @jamisylvestre2759 Жыл бұрын

    Okay I seriously need to stop procrastinating my entry because I got 🫖🫖🫖🫖. Another good episode Lea! It’s so nice hearing advice from other women who have a good head on their shoulders. You both are amazing 🫶🏼🥹

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