To the teenage official I say, Bravo!

Listen to the trashy parents cheer for the coach and say they have his back. They're everything that is wrong with youth sports.

@Joemight13

Жыл бұрын

I mean, can you blame the coach he didn’t even attack him that sports

@demonthesweaty

11 ай бұрын

@@Joemight13no,the centre ref was right, to question the refs decision is a red card, as it means you are downgrading the refs control of the field, if a player just says oh cmon ref quietly it’s not a ref as it’s not to the ref and it’s would play on, don’t just agree with side liners, refs have to go through hours of hard training, trust there knowledge

@armandoroman6644

9 ай бұрын

​@@demonthesweatyI get what you're saying, but it should have been a yellow and not a straight red. Thats bs lol

@demonthesweaty

9 ай бұрын

@@armandoroman6644 have you gone through around 24 hours of red training and have had multiple reminders about questioning the refs decisions and all of that, I have gone through that as a proper ref but believe what you want I guess 🤷‍♂️

@ronaldmartinez6732

8 ай бұрын

Everything that is right with youth sports. The big leagues ain't no daycare. Ain't no friendly environment.

Dude walks across the field too to delay the game even further

@TDMFAN

7 күн бұрын

Ref should've called the game for that and given it to the other team. Red means off the field, not walking across it.

Respect to him for having the bravery and confidence to throw em off. Can’t say how many times I’ve played and wanted parents to go away because they’re talking trash

@chessbricks2134

8 ай бұрын

Yo BC what are you doing here!? I love your videos! (I'm a friend of Christopher Connelly.)

@BCStrikeProductions

8 ай бұрын

@@chessbricks2134 sup bro🤙🏻😎

@chessbricks2134

8 ай бұрын

Good to see you @@BCStrikeProductions 👍

Good job Ref. These coaches want to keep talking... time to go

We need to adopt a zero tolerance attitude against adults like this or we will lose youth sports forever

@totalsportsstudio

Жыл бұрын

Definitely need some better policies

@jasonwhat5597

7 ай бұрын

You must not have been around sports.

@SirPatrickBossington

2 ай бұрын

Youth sports has been lost for years and years.

@kt-ru4hq

2 ай бұрын

And lose officials. There is a referee and umpire shortage for a reason.

@rustybeachwood4613

24 күн бұрын

​@kt-ru4hq oh No Skippy, better call the Authorities! We have to do something 🤡

I love how the ref was straight back to business even while the coach is still screaming on his way off the field. No need for that crap even if the refs are imperfect. Good handling of the situation there.

This teenage ref deserves a commendation. Standing up for respectful play and conduct. Good for him. 🏅🏅

@forzajuve4845

Ай бұрын

the AR could have done more before it got to that point to try to keep the coach calm ..not all parents and coaches are wrong because they don't have the whistle ..I wish I was there to see the whole game

Imagine being a full grown adult acting like a child at a kids soccer game smh

@advcs1792

Жыл бұрын

I’m a referee and I see that every Sunday when I ref their games. It happened yesterday in two games, I got cops called on me by them lol everything was okay tho the couple got kicked out 😅

@Joemight13

Жыл бұрын

As a athletic I’d prefer players referees in coaches, communicating with each other I got my first technical foul because I was falling around. I said that’s bullshit. 😂

@thameekstaninjahman8337

Жыл бұрын

Theres a right and a wrong way of teaching kids this guy clearly showed himself who he was 😂

@Weekly_Toronto_Sports_Talk

11 ай бұрын

I am a teenage ref myself, who does a lot of adult games, and trust me I see it ALL THE TIME!!

Bro soccer moms these days are just way to overprotective of their children

@totalsportsstudio

Жыл бұрын

They feel very entitled.

@ronaldmartinez6732

8 ай бұрын

That's what I'm saying. Sports are sports man. Not pedicures

@billwindsor4224

Ай бұрын

@@ronaldmartinez6732 Excellent 😂😂

Hey kid, you're doing great, there's so many adult center refs who don't have the spine to put unruly staff or parents in their place. Keep it up. That's exactly what you should do

@totalsportsstudio

Жыл бұрын

Totally agree

@forzajuve4845

Ай бұрын

it's not that they don't have the spine..they are lazy and don't want the extra paperwork, don't want the assignor seeing he can't handle that age group..I was an AR for a game with the Philadelphia union academy team. The ref was a younger ref ..the Philly keeper was yelling the F word from the net at players and the ref..I was telling the keeper to stop cursing and the center ref just ignored the whole thing..I told the ref at half time that he needs to clamp down on that..he said, "I'll never be invited back if I start cracking down on stuff like that.,.smh..it's a huge problem when the clubs have that much power all because of money

Those kids don't even look 13. Great call by the ref, stop this behavior before it gets worse. It really is a shame when parents think any behavior like this is remotely acceptable. Coach learned a good lesson.

he showed them, walking across the pitch like the hero he is.

The unhinged coach should not coach in any league. Referee was awesome and managed this situation perfectly. The coach, on the other hand was a bad representation for his team. He even trounced across the field after ejection- a sure sign that he respects nothing about this sport.

This video alone is enough to get that coach banned from coaching for multi-season cycles in our association

@toddwright662

2 ай бұрын

In our association, abuse of the referee is taken very seriously; by a coach even more so. God help you if you abuse a teenage ref (that you know by definition has limited experience and is likely to make more errors); this generally results in a permanent ban. I say generally as if I'm aware of it happening in the 8 years I've coached, but at the coaches' meeting every preseason, the association states in no uncertain terms that a permanent ban is the result of this behavior.

What a cheeseburger coach.

Grown man trying to bully a teenager at a child’s game. Classy. Quite a role model.

Proud of the referee. 🎉🎉🎉

@totalsportsstudio

10 ай бұрын

Agree

"I walked away from you!" Ref: "Yeah, you walked away from me after you stepped on the pitch to verbally harangue me. That's what the red card is for, bonehead!"

Tossed😂😂

my older brother was a soccer referee at 14, that was his first job. so many parents would argue with him but he was little and was scared. when he got older he spoke back and took control of situations where coaches were almost gonna fight each other. mind you my brother has played soccer his entire life so he knew what he was doing. he also took a class to make sure he was great. when i turn 14, i’m gonna have to do the same but mind you, i have a little bit of an attitude so with my attitude i’d probably scare the parents and get them to shut up before i cancel the game. mind you, you can do that. i’ve learned so much from my brother and i can’t wait to work. hopefully parents now a days are no longer vicious animals

@totalsportsstudio

10 ай бұрын

For the most part, the sidelines are decent, it’s a few that ruin it for others.

These kids are like U7 why is bro getting heated, like it’s not like a scout or some shit to see this and he is going to become the next man united coach or one of the players will get signed to Chelsea

Parents and coach are a damn joke.

And the loser walks directly across the field. No shame, no understanding. I own my own club, indoor facility and leagues - in 8 years I have reffed nearly 7000 games, and am ruthlessly strict with parents. I do not use cards.. minor fouls are incidentals (free kick), anything malicious/dangerous is a strike. After 1 strike, the next foul is an automatic goal for the other team and a free kick.. In this span there has not been 1 injury (due to a foul). Ive only had to permanently ban 4 families, and 1 entire team during a tourney. Does it work? There is now a 9 month waiting list (35 pre-paid families) for each and every program from u5 to Mens and womens leagues being held in escrow.. I decided to do it myself.. and now the national program is coming by.. they are actually considering what I am doing..

Yes I remember what happened there I played there for soccer once 🤦

another dad (coach) that thinks his kid is going to play for team USA 🙄

I seriously wonder if the American coach even knows what is offside and there are positions in football?

its a twofold problem, parents and coaches that do not understand the game, and then frustrated parents and coaches with refs that are horrible. Its a kids game but its also safety concerns, hours of volunteer hours poured into a team, both sides need better training

@forzajuve4845

Ай бұрын

the coaches anger is coming from week after week seeing poor officiating ..I've assessed refs and believe me, there are refs that should be doing something else. there's not enough info shown unfortunately

@mdfutbol

Ай бұрын

@@forzajuve4845 yes but you have to start some where. Young refs need a place to start, and there are not enough refs to go around. They need to be trained more frequently, especially as they are being paid. I as well have assessed refs, coaches and clubs.

It's children playing.. Relax man 😂

This is why I love Parent coaches vs the real thing. Total disregard for the game

i can’t even tell you how many times i’ve wanted a parents or a coach off the field. sm respect to that referee

That coach couldn’t run the length of the field - so there is no way he could do the job of the ref. So, let him ref the game. Best thing for the kids - kick those who aren’t a positive influence on the game and the players out.

@totalsportsstudio

Жыл бұрын

Agree

Dipsick walked across the pitch to spoil the game even longer...

And then he walks across the pitch.

Lead by example and teach your kids that sometimes things don't go the way you want. Learn to deal with adversity.

Parents getting in mob mentality against teenagers is insane..

1. This is a kids game, not the World Cup final. This is where they are having fun and getting a workout. 2. If by some chance there is a referee that is making bad calls, as long as it’s consistent in both ends of the teams then it’s just a coin flip for the decisions, and a review of the arbiter post-match so he can learn from those mistakes. 3. We are human, people make mistakes. If you think you can do a better job, put on the uniform. Otherwise you’re just a spectator with zero say in what goes on the match regarding rules

As a 14 year old ref, while the ref made the right decision to eject the parent, you are supposed to ask the coach to remove the parent and if they or the parent do not comply the coach can get a red or the game can be abandoned. You are never supposed to give a red card to a spectator even if they did deserve it.

@totalsportsstudio

2 ай бұрын

Each league and tournament has their own policies for spectator removals. You are correct that there isn’t a Soccer Law about Red carding a spectator for ejection unless they step foot on the pitch…even then it’s a straight ejection

This is a grown man arguing with college/hs kids (refs) over 8 year olds playing a game

@victrum8620

Ай бұрын

at least it adds heat to the game. No parent actually likes watching a trashy 8 year old game. If stuff like this happens at least it gets a little interesting 😂

Dang this is why I will never volunteer for youth soccer reffing, I remembered when I was playing lmao!!! HELLLLNAAHH I don’t want any part of it!!

"At the end of the day you gotta be consistent " ... How does this warrant a red card ??

That coach never ran a day in his life

Instead of giving the muppet a red card, the ref should give him a ball and he can demonstrate all the skills and techniques that he passes onto his U11 D grade (??) players. Its usually these guys with the biggest mouths that think they're coaching in the big time that are the most inept !!

Great lesson for the kids coach...walking disrespectfully across the field...

The kids look like they are about 9 years old. After being tossed, he had to walk across the field instead of walking around.

i tossed an ex nfl player who was coach from a little league game when i was umpire at 12

Once the man walked through the field & Ref had to stop the game he'd ended the game.

Hey "Coach" - here's a thought: Why don't you give up coaching (since you set a piss poor example for the kids anyway), and put on the stripes since you obviously know so much about being a Ref!!

There is a ref shortage.. I wonder why?

@QemeH

20 күн бұрын

It's not just the parents and coaches. It's the leagues, too. Obviously this isn't universal, but a lot of leagues don't protect their refs by backing up their ejection decisions with bans, so the refs are thrown under the bus constantly.

I see dad brought his soccer dad body to face off with a 16 yr old. Why don't you ref then dad if it's so easy. Way to handle it ref, the league has your back.

Hats off to that ref. Amazing situation handling with a coach that acts more like a kid then the teenage ref himself

And we wonder why our kids have no respect for authority

To be fair the coach didn’t continue talking. It was the cameraman he heard saying something about consistency😂

@Subangelis

8 ай бұрын

You're deaf

@josephburns6591

7 ай бұрын

The coach didn’t exactly do anything to stop him. At the end of the day to use his words, it is his side line and his responsibility.

It should be required for any parent or coach to take anger management course before being allowed back.

Good job to that kid ref. Parents are a joke.

We don’t have the context of the disagreement. The ref may very well have been making bad or one sided calls. Bad officiating, along with bad coaching, are both ruining youth sports.

Bad by the ref. Refs gotta go to the coach before the spectators.

This coach shouldn’t be coaching kids

Walk of shame. 😂

I swear adults, whether they are watching their kid or playing in a rec league, who suck ass just go to blow off steam. They just show up and are already pissy looking for drama. It’s pathetic

Typical suspect

Tossed for saying we have to be consistent. I thought only MLB umps were that soft.

@vanhollebekebenefitauction704

10 күн бұрын

Saying "we have to be consistent" is code for "I'm going to be a jerk, but use weasel words like "consistent" to make myself seem fair-minded.

im not a fan of this ref's handling of this situation..he has a lot to learn ..he will lose control in many games if he thinks the solution is yellow and red cards..there are many ways to handle this without tossing the coach . as a ref since 1981 this ref should be taught other methods

nice of him to invade the pitch after being sent off

So what exactly happened? I might be able to help if you don't understand

Lol the fuck coach walks off…. While every kid on the field just wants to go home and play video games..

I was a ref as a teen. Job sucked

the ref doesn't know what he's doing ..unless there was more that happened before, that is not a red card ..he also should have pulled the coach aside and had a stern talk with him..when there's an audience, it escalates ..when the coach said he needs to be consistent he should have said "not another word"..then if he continues you can toss him

So strange that volunteer officials are hard to find these days

AHO coach

Acting like it's the world cup lol Lame O

Sad stuff to see in kids sports.

I did this referee nonsense for ten years.

Don't let your kids play soccer, its whack

"I walked away from you!!!" (And you kept mouthing off, while you were walking away) Do you think the Ref gave you the red card for the direction of your walk?

But the problem is I heard what your parents said. U have to control your parents or its on you.

8 year olds dude.

I didn't hear the dad trash talk. Just saying refs need to be consistent. Witch is true. The problem is the young ref power tripping.

I played at that field

@forzajuve4845

Ай бұрын

where is that field?

Lol... I get it. But league rules tell you Not to argue with the refs....especially a teen....come on. U know they are learning

I think the red overrated a bit but thats sports for you.

Funny....the coach is supposed to Lead the way, not be the head jackass...

Reported for thieving content

@totalsportsstudio

2 ай бұрын

Thieving? From who?

That’s my soccer team strikers

That wasn't that bad.

But my kid is 8 years old and is going pro

SoCcEr not FoOtBaLl

🌻🇺🇦🇺🇲

Doesn’t happen often enough

why are kids reffing games

@ptv8113

10 ай бұрын

because adults won't do it

@ptv8113

10 ай бұрын

because the parents are a nightmare and $15 a game isn't worth it.

@toddwright662

2 ай бұрын

Because refs have to be developed. Our association opens refereeing up at 13. They generally ref games played by players at least a couple of year younger than they are (just like this game) until they get some experience (and most serve as ARs), but expecting refs to start only once they become adults is unrealistic if you want referees at every game so as not to have to have coaches try to ref. One of the best refs I saw was a "kid" that was maybe 19, and he had the experience to seemingly be in the right position and manage the game of a U19 boys select game because he had been doing it for years already. It was his youth job during the season(s).

Dude parents are going to be parents

@alexreader9377

Жыл бұрын

No parents need to be quiet and enjoy the game.

Del mar sports fields In San Diego

You should see what happens in 🇬🇧…..this ref would not survive 🤣

@michaelgrimes5588

Жыл бұрын

That isnt a fair representation of American refs...throwing him out was way out of line...we tougher than that ..

@forzajuve4845

Ай бұрын

@@michaelgrimes5588 exactly..there is a huge problem with young refs being pushed through the ranks too fast..we don't need refs, we need AR's..I would ref every game in a one man system all day long ,every weekend because refs have different styles. many young refs have an ego that they are always right. they don't want to learn from experienced ref's. they just look at them as old and shouldn't be reffing anymore ..refs can't even agree on the same calls in training classes. the instructor will say it should be called this way and the ref at the table is putting under his breath that I'm not calling it that way ..handball rule is the biggest problem

Soccer is the softest sport out there

@markusvienna231

11 ай бұрын

obviously you never played it.

@totalsportsstudio

10 ай бұрын

Go play then tell us your thoughts.

@ptv8113

10 ай бұрын

in what sense? All the pads they wear? All the timeouts? The coaches telling the players exactly what to do for every play? All the sitting on the bench eating peanuts and chewing tobacco for most of the game? Be specific.

@gitgudnerdz3294

10 ай бұрын

@@ptv8113 they are mentally soft. Worse flopping than any other sport and apparently refs are babies too

@gitgudnerdz3294

10 ай бұрын

@@markusvienna231 i have played and i know its tough. Use your context skills you learned in second grade and realize im talking about refs being soft also flopping is a soft thing too

Toss him when he’s on the field. Tossing him after he leaves is garbage.

No reason for a red card on this one

@troy8485

10 ай бұрын

1) Unsportsmanlike Conduct. 2) Stepping in field during play. 3) Leaving the coach's box. 4) violation of all those league rules. Ejection is the least of his problems. He should not coach a sport he does not respect.

@forzajuve4845

Ай бұрын

entering and leaving the field of play is a yellow ..but a respectful stern talk would have solved the problem ..this coach is a nothing compared to what some coaches are like

Refs gotta have thicker skin...he didn't say anything threatening, he didn't raise his voice...whether someone likes it or thinks it is low class is irrelevant, a coach has every right to obiect to calls in a peaceful manner which he did... There are plenty of instances of out if control coaches/parents, but this is not one of them.. Kudos to the coach for diffusing the situation and walking away..

@wearewon

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like you have minimal experience refereeing ... dissent is not allowed. Period. Protesting or objecting to the referees decisions is unacceptable. Some is, of course, manageable depending on the refs style and ability. Law 5 says the refs decisions are final. The ref is the judge of his courtroom which is the field. No contempt of court is allowed. Nobody asked the coach or the parents to give their opinion on refs decisions. Their role is only to cheer on their players, never to talk to the ref. Is the coach's tone informative and not derogatory, calm and not exasperated?

@DLGMusic

Жыл бұрын

Its dissent

@jonathanplona1756

Жыл бұрын

This is wrong. Dissent on its own is punishable by a caution (yellow card), and entering the field of play to confront a match official is a sending-off (red card). And we wonder why there's a referee shortage.

@bigbluegpr

Жыл бұрын

You must be related to, or a friend of the "coach"!! He didn't diffuse anything. He kept running his ignorant mouth all the way a Ross the field during his walk of shame! Asshole needs to be banned from coaching for life. Imagine how he would react if his kid started to officiate when he was a teenage, and some caveman talked to him that way!!! What an assclown!

@josearodriguez9904

11 ай бұрын

He enter de field is red card ..referee is the main authority in the field so is a red card shut your mouth and keep walking 😂😂😂😂

Someone: *speaks* Referee: "How dare you disrespect my aw-thor-i-tay!"

Actually I think young people deserve grace, but I think the ref had a very short leash here.

@jonathanplona1756

Жыл бұрын

He had every right to send him off. From the Laws of the Game, Law 12.3: “Sending-off offences include…entering the field of play to: • confront a match official”

@totalsportsstudio

Жыл бұрын

The ref had plenty of leash.

@bighomiemac3472

Жыл бұрын

@@jonathanplona1756 As a coach I wouldn't have went onto the field myself but to each their own.

@jonathanplona1756

Жыл бұрын

@@bighomiemac3472 Point is, this coach did, and he was deservingly sent off.

@forzajuve4845

Ай бұрын

@@jonathanplona1756 not on my field ..verbal warning comes first..he didn't storm the field ..all coaches drift from their technical area ..the AR needs to control the bench ..this ref crew is too green

Uh he was tossed for saying be consistent ? Lol millennial ref

@jonathanplona1756

Жыл бұрын

This is why there's a referee shortage... He was likely sent off for entering the field of play to confront a match official.

@forzajuve4845

Ай бұрын

this kid will not survive high school soccer