So I used to be a model…. Let’s talk about it

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  • @Itz_yourstyle
    @Itz_yourstyle4 ай бұрын

    You should make this the “let’s talk about it” series lol i honestly love this videos, plus you’re kinda regaining my trust again lmao

  • @h00Lia

    @h00Lia

    4 ай бұрын

    😆

  • @NeuvilletteTheOtterlette

    @NeuvilletteTheOtterlette

    4 ай бұрын

    Yes!

  • @KeroppiKid

    @KeroppiKid

    4 ай бұрын

    wdym regaining her trust

  • @NeuvilletteTheOtterlette

    @NeuvilletteTheOtterlette

    4 ай бұрын

    @@KeroppiKid Oh, wait, I just realized they said that. Yeah what do they mean regaining trust?

  • @antoinettegordon8578

    @antoinettegordon8578

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@NeuvilletteTheOtterlette Because she's always trolling

  • @maz-yz3xf
    @maz-yz3xf4 ай бұрын

    Haley being a model never surprised me litterally the most goergous queen ever

  • @stephen9302

    @stephen9302

    4 ай бұрын

    No kidding. Absolute STUNNER ❤

  • @graceheap8211

    @graceheap8211

    4 ай бұрын

    👏👏👏👏👏👏she slaysss👏👏👏

  • @stephen9302

    @stephen9302

    4 ай бұрын

    @@graceheap8211 100% FLAWLESSLY BEAUTIFUL 😍

  • @StubbyWubbyz

    @StubbyWubbyz

    4 ай бұрын

    I thought everyone knew that

  • @skyyyuhh

    @skyyyuhh

    4 ай бұрын

    same lol

  • @NebulaNorris
    @NebulaNorris4 ай бұрын

    That sounds horrible and it’s disgusting models get treated like this. I’m so sorry- no one deserves this.

  • @1w598

    @1w598

    4 ай бұрын

    Not really. When you model, all that that matters is what you look like. It's a great when expectations are that clear.

  • @liilahh5226

    @liilahh5226

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@1w598 that's completely fair, but even so everyone is still humans, like even if that is the standard when it comes to modelling, and don't get me wrong I understand that looks is quite literally everything when it comes to modelling (like it's literally a job based on your looks) every single person is human and they all deserve to feel like they are worth more than your looks (bc you are!!, like she said in the video we will all end up looking like raisins 🤣) at the end of the day a job is just to get money so we can thrive, there's honestly no point in existing on this earth if you aren't happy and enjoying it (why put yourself through the pain and hardship of living through life (bc let's be honest it sucks ass) if you aren't enjoying it.) I love y'all and hope you find a way to be happy on this earth ❤

  • @lisa_wistfulone7957

    @lisa_wistfulone7957

    4 ай бұрын

    @@1w598 “Clear expectations” sounds enviable until you look at what’s expected- constant judgment and criticism, frequent rejection that’s given with demeaning “feedback”, no emotional support, no concern for your mental health, and no other fun or interests allowed in your life. Actually, that sounds like an abusive relationship… When those things are normal expectations, the healthy move is to leave.

  • @MisterKazoo

    @MisterKazoo

    4 ай бұрын

    if you want to be a model, thats what it takes. otherwise dont be a model

  • @dr.bartfratze9354

    @dr.bartfratze9354

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@MisterKazoo ignorant bullshit. Working in a superficial industry doesn't give people the right to treat others like garbage 🤮

  • @MsTemperTantrum739
    @MsTemperTantrum7394 ай бұрын

    In the modeling industry, even if you are the "perfect model", people will still treat you like an object. So even if a girl is lucky to be "pretty enough" in the industry, she will not have a better time than the rest of the models. Which is very interesting.

  • @MysticOceanDollies

    @MysticOceanDollies

    4 ай бұрын

    Yep. Haley is one of the most gorgeous people I’ve ever seen, yet they’ve said that stuff to her.

  • @oliviamayumi

    @oliviamayumi

    4 ай бұрын

    met someone who was a modeling agent. they said models were just "human hangers", so yeah. even if you look perfect by their standards they'll probably give you the same amount of respect they give to an inanimate object

  • @senorita-qh6bm

    @senorita-qh6bm

    4 ай бұрын

    “In the modeling industry “ no that’s just how the world treats all women . That’s why it’s important to prioritize your self before what men like or think.

  • @angrybitchanimationssucks3501

    @angrybitchanimationssucks3501

    4 ай бұрын

    @@MysticOceanDollies shes mid lmfao I see prettier girls at the grocery store. But Im European. americans could never compare

  • @nahbirdie4773

    @nahbirdie4773

    4 ай бұрын

    Its how they break you to control you

  • @LunaBloomASMR
    @LunaBloomASMR4 ай бұрын

    This warmed my heart, I’m so happy for you. Thank you for talking about this

  • @stupidspinach421

    @stupidspinach421

    4 ай бұрын

    well well well

  • @Emmeline0302

    @Emmeline0302

    2 ай бұрын

    LUNA?? E WHAT?

  • @peanut_flie
    @peanut_flie4 ай бұрын

    Good for you for making the choice to quit the modeling industry! By leaving the modeling industry, you are prioritizing your own well-being and happiness over external validation and societal pressures. It's important to remember that there are many paths to fulfillment and success, and the modeling industry is just one of them. Your decision to leave opens up new opportunities for personal growth and exploration, allowing you to find a path that truly aligns with your values and passions. Keep going, and don't be afraid to forge your own unique path in life.

  • @ilovetacobell777
    @ilovetacobell7774 ай бұрын

    you’re perfect how you are hailey, i’m sorry you went through that.

  • @HaileyClarkson
    @HaileyClarkson4 ай бұрын

    “We are going to look like raisins” BAHAHA 😂😂😂

  • @thisisai
    @thisisai4 ай бұрын

    "Personal connection w/ other people is so much more important than your reflection in the mirror." -Haley ❤ 100% true!

  • @reddogredemption425
    @reddogredemption4254 ай бұрын

    I’m soooo happy you were able to get away from that toxic lifestyle and hope you and everyone reading this is doing well ❤❤

  • @MelyssaCaravantes
    @MelyssaCaravantes4 ай бұрын

    I cant believe they told her she was "too ugly" like she is absolutely gorgeous 🫶🏻

  • @snigdhasaikia5737
    @snigdhasaikia57373 ай бұрын

    I have never ever seen such a happy soul like her. I mean she was describing the most distressing journey of her life without actually abusing someone and with a smile.

  • @valeriabonaccorso6902
    @valeriabonaccorso69024 ай бұрын

    Calling YOU "not pretty enough" is crazy tbh

  • @forestsprite11
    @forestsprite114 ай бұрын

    May I correct you, Haley. Yes, you were born to be a model. A ROLE MODEL! You rock, girl!!!

  • @strawbbtarte
    @strawbbtarte4 ай бұрын

    I've only ever randomly seen you on my feed, but after years of insecurity, along with a particularly difficult insecure few months, "in the end we're all going to look like raisins" was really comforting. 😭💜

  • @birb.of.fatness
    @birb.of.fatness4 ай бұрын

    I’m so proud of you for making that decision that day Hailey. we soo support you❤️❤️ also those modeling agencies are LITERALLY SILLY for making you feel like you’re ugly. Actually what?? I can’t believe it girl you’re so gorgeous😭 but I’m so proud of you for making your life what it’s meant to be. You were meant to make people laugh , not get judged for your looks

  • @Taggedz1
    @Taggedz14 ай бұрын

    When they said that she wasnt pretty enough- literally she is the prettiest person i know ❤

  • @AliceRose413
    @AliceRose4134 ай бұрын

    That was actually really wholesome. Thanks for sharing your journey.. I wasn’t ever a model but I was a dancer for 12 years, basically most of my childhood till I was 18.. it wasn’t quite to that extreme, but the pressure of being a ballet dancer and having a very specific “image” was always in the back of my mind and definitely did have some correlation to insecurities I developed later on that I didn’t even realize were there until the last year or so of my performing. I’m glad you got out and are healthier!

  • @Emperorvalse
    @Emperorvalse4 ай бұрын

    Thank you for putting this put into the world. You are such a wonderful person and we are all lucky that you walked away and gave us the gift of your videos.

  • @Heyswifties
    @Heyswifties4 ай бұрын

    Knowing Haley was a model is crazy she would be the most beautiful model ❤❤

  • @Healingwith.hollyy
    @Healingwith.hollyy4 ай бұрын

    this made me tear up! you have a wonderful soul haley and are spreading a beautiful message. everyone loves and appreciates your authenticity ❤

  • @PreppySlayperiod
    @PreppySlayperiod4 ай бұрын

    I like how Haley is very open about her life and past experiences 🙂💞💗💗

  • @bellhel227
    @bellhel2274 ай бұрын

    And look where you are now!! It’s so crazy to think that each step happens for a reason, because without them, you wouldn’t be where you are now! ❤

  • @sarainglis5886
    @sarainglis58864 ай бұрын

    Crying in the club 😂 from the message toward the end - really hit me since finding my own wonderful place to be me on the internet. Thanks for the amazing content, Haylee - so glad we have you here!

  • @evaussie
    @evaussie4 ай бұрын

    Haley is literally so gorgeous

  • @h00Lia
    @h00Lia4 ай бұрын

    You used to be a model 😎 Now you're a role model❣️

  • @jeanteil
    @jeanteil4 ай бұрын

    Every little girl (and boy) needs to hear these words! Thank you for this. ❤

  • @taylorontoppppp
    @taylorontoppppp4 ай бұрын

    im actually living for these videos of her talking about things recently

  • @brixoxo12
    @brixoxo124 ай бұрын

    Haley, you are beautiful and perfect just the way you are. Inside and out, you're such a wonderful person. You inspire and motivate me a lot.

  • @MarcosCaiquedeDeusAlmeida
    @MarcosCaiquedeDeusAlmeida3 ай бұрын

    It's so good to hear stories like this. We're all thankfull that you're not THERE anymore.

  • @daisymay8834
    @daisymay88344 ай бұрын

    Hey I know this has nothing to do with it, but here’s a chocolate chip cookie recipe: Butter-1 cup (cold cubed) Brown Sugar- 1 cup Sugar- 3/4 cup Eggs- 2 large Vanilla- 2 teaspoons Flour- 2 3/4 cups Cornstarch- 1 teaspoon Baking soda- 3/4 teaspoon Salt- 3/4 teaspoon Choc. Chips- 2 1/2 cups 1) Preheat oven to 400 degrees 2) In a large mixing bowl, cream butter, brown sugar, and sugar for 4 minutes until light and fluffy. 3) Add eggs and vanilla. Mix for 1 minute longer. 4) Stir in flour, cornstarch, baking soda, and salt. 5) Mix just until combined. Fold in chocolate chips. 6) scoop cookie dough onto baking sheets. 7)Bake for 8-11 minutes or until the edges just begin to turn a light golden color. Try it!!!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @pumkitdrawz

    @pumkitdrawz

    4 ай бұрын

    this is just annoying

  • @toylover5478

    @toylover5478

    4 ай бұрын

    super random lol

  • @tahurahossain6012

    @tahurahossain6012

    4 ай бұрын

    This is so random😂😂

  • @daisymay8834

    @daisymay8834

    4 ай бұрын

    @@tahurahossain6012ik 😂😂

  • @susansmyth8028
    @susansmyth80284 ай бұрын

    😊 Really enjoy your uploads as they make me smile! This has opened my eyes even more to how the modelling agency treat people! Every person who goes for modelling auditions & are treated as though they're not good enough, must be so disheartening! Anyhoo, glad you escaped & are focusing on your health & mental self care 🫶🏼 x

  • @toomuchcoffeesendhelp5431
    @toomuchcoffeesendhelp54314 ай бұрын

    under 5 minutes but such an impactful video. thanks haylee! your shorts are a great source of entertainment for me, it brought me out of blue days more than i can count

  • @SaraGalal-
    @SaraGalal-4 ай бұрын

    Thank you haley for those kind of videos. We appreciate it 🙏❤️

  • @sandhyajoshi4105
    @sandhyajoshi41054 ай бұрын

    Thanks so much for sharing your story. I'm so glad you are in a better place now. Your joy is infectious! You literally give us a moment to smile with each of your videos.

  • @sleepyracoonz
    @sleepyracoonz4 ай бұрын

    Haley truly the most intelligent, inspirational, and kindhearted person on this platform. ❤ She always knows how to cheer me up when I’m in a bad mood and I always love coming home from school and watching her vids! Thank you Haley, we genuinely appreciate you!! ❤❤❤

  • @haniawaliyah
    @haniawaliyah4 ай бұрын

    This is so inspiring haley!! You have gone through so much!!

  • @lanoosaurusrex
    @lanoosaurusrex4 ай бұрын

    I’m so glad you chose this path Haylee! Your videos make so many people laugh and smile ❤ happy that you got out of that toxic industry and that you’re doing better. 😊

  • @alissavision2284
    @alissavision22844 ай бұрын

    God bless you for your beautifully authentic soul. 🙌🏻 You shine from the inside out, gorgeous. Thank you for inspiring and empowering so many souls to live more authentically and to believe that ANYTHING is possible BECAUSE you choose to live authentically. As a former stand up comic, it's pretty awesome living through you vicariously. Keep on letting it glow.. you truly are Haley's comet! Lol 🌟 🤩 ⭐️ 🌠 💫 ❤

  • @josephroman8568
    @josephroman85684 ай бұрын

    Amazing testimony Beautiful Sweet Funny Haley! You definitely deserve a sitcom!

  • @sophielabandter3813
    @sophielabandter38134 ай бұрын

    I love how authentic and down to earth you are. You’re doing amazing. Keep it up❤

  • @user-qm5cg3qk8k
    @user-qm5cg3qk8k4 ай бұрын

    Not surprised that you were a model because you are gorgeous sorry you went through that

  • @reverrage
    @reverrage4 ай бұрын

    Always enjoyed your funny videos...i think it does good to see someone as beautiful as you not take themselves to seriously... thanks for the giggles & gaffaws!

  • @clairevinet3557
    @clairevinet35574 ай бұрын

    I loved this ! Thank you so much for reaching out to us all. love and blessings to you. Haley.👏🏼💖🌹🙏🏼🥰💧

  • @victoriaoquendo77
    @victoriaoquendo774 ай бұрын

    ur gorgeous obviously, but your mind and personality is what i love about you hay, it’s so refreshing to see someone as beautiful as you also have such an impactful persona, keep it up i am so extremely proud of you ❤

  • @evelienbijldoelgerichtecoa2775
    @evelienbijldoelgerichtecoa27754 ай бұрын

    So good to hear about this. It's easy to look at your videos and to think: 'wow, her life must be amazing. I would be so happy if I looked like that'. Hearing this puts everything in perspective. You're an amazingly talented, smart and funny creator and I can't wait to keep following you on your journey!

  • @MayIhaveaCOOKIEplz
    @MayIhaveaCOOKIEplz2 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much!!! Everyday I wake up worried about my appearance, but what you just said inspired me... a lot. Thank you, and you did the right thing

  • @miri6056
    @miri60564 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing !!! Such a gorgeous personality you have

  • @JenMPersonal
    @JenMPersonal4 ай бұрын

    I adore you 💗. I’m so glad you loved yourself enough to walk away. The world is a happier place for it!

  • @jarveyjaguar4395
    @jarveyjaguar43954 ай бұрын

    This actually sad and I'm sorry you went through all that. It's good to hear that you're doing better now doing the things that make you happy.

  • @afroditieleftheriou2432
    @afroditieleftheriou24326 күн бұрын

    I am very happy for you for taking action to feel good again! You are so smart, grounded, empathetic and beautiful! You are in inspiration! I wish you all the best for whatever you set your mind to :)

  • @lilycarone5116
    @lilycarone51164 ай бұрын

    I’m sorry you went through that🥺 You’re beautiful❤️

  • @TheRoadrunz
    @TheRoadrunz4 ай бұрын

    So happy for you… what an inspiring story of resilience ❤

  • @loopperson8836
    @loopperson88364 ай бұрын

    God. So true about the getting old one day. Love this. Thanks for the post and honesty!!❤

  • @itsmarlyofficial
    @itsmarlyofficialАй бұрын

    I love your videos so much and I'm so happy you quit being a model because I love this. I'm here for this. Thank you for being so wholesome and so so sooo down to earth!

  • @judyannlubiano8493
    @judyannlubiano849320 күн бұрын

    I love you so much for sharing this. I hope it reaches a lot of young women.

  • @LaBelleOgram
    @LaBelleOgram4 ай бұрын

    “Bc one day we’re all gonna look like raisins anyway” had me dying 🤣 😂

  • @memecentral8361

    @memecentral8361

    10 күн бұрын

    Lmao sameeee!

  • @yourteacher_anna
    @yourteacher_anna4 ай бұрын

    You’re such an inspiration!!!! Smart! Smart! Smart cookie!!

  • @aliensuperstar5134
    @aliensuperstar51344 ай бұрын

    You are drop dead gorgeous! Wisest decision you ever made🥰

  • @Avamoneta
    @Avamoneta4 ай бұрын

    I love you as an individual Haley because you are as human w humanity! And it’s true here! You are so much more of an individual! Keep going luv!!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @NS-fz1im
    @NS-fz1im4 ай бұрын

    Awww thank you for sharing your story! You are so beautiful, but you sparkle and shine that beauty from the inside out and that’s what makes you so special! You’re so right, we are so much more than our measurements and outward appearance! ❤️🤩

  • @aislinn1991_
    @aislinn1991_4 ай бұрын

    Thank you Haley for being honest even when it can be embarrassing, shameful or upsetting ❤

  • @glowfishin1
    @glowfishin14 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story ❤

  • @BebbaDubbs
    @BebbaDubbs4 ай бұрын

    I have OCPD to mask my ADHD, and this would have killed me. I was scouted young. My mom was so against me doing it and I hated her for it... But I'm so glad now. At 40.

  • @that_one_kid26
    @that_one_kid264 ай бұрын

    PLEASE make this a series! I love this so much!

  • @Himmiefan
    @Himmiefan4 ай бұрын

    We're all going to look like raisins one day, so true! We enter looking like raisins, and we exit looking like raisins if we live long enough.

  • @dohlia9356
    @dohlia93564 ай бұрын

    Thank you. I really needed this. This was literally an answer to a prayer 😢

  • @crispyfriedchiken
    @crispyfriedchiken4 ай бұрын

    You're so pretty!!! I feel so bad for models, no one should get treated like that.

  • @einabq
    @einabq4 ай бұрын

    We are so happy you are here entertaining us. Thanks for sharing!!!

  • @Qiswhattheycallme
    @Qiswhattheycallme4 ай бұрын

    We are all so grateful you made the decision to keep posting! You are such an amazing human being! ❤️

  • @ceciliaJohanne
    @ceciliaJohanne4 ай бұрын

    I love this! I would love to see a "Lets talk about it" about how you could effort that beautiful appartement. Did you save up, or was it the modelling earnings before tiktok? Maybe a weird topic but i just find budgetting and saving strategies very motivating 😊

  • @ella13-butitdoesnthaveahead
    @ella13-butitdoesnthaveahead4 ай бұрын

    🥺gurl i could literally listen to this all day ilysm im sorry you had to go thru that

  • @3as1
    @3as14 ай бұрын

    Oh, Haley, God bless you for posting this message. It is vital for young girls who watch your platform.

  • @yellowberrio
    @yellowberrio4 ай бұрын

    Ughh, since when did you become a philosopher, Haley?? So intelligent, inspirational, and insightful 🤩 Love you even moreeee now!!

  • @arielhemingway8899
    @arielhemingway88994 ай бұрын

    “Looks don’t matter” - a drop dead gorgeous woman

  • @amybethlikesmusic
    @amybethlikesmusic28 күн бұрын

    YAAAAAAS As always your "let's talk about it" feels like a breath of fresh air out of an oven that's baking fresh chocolate chip cookies. Literally stumbled upon your YT in the last 24hrs and I ❤ you and your journey to being happier being you ❤ actual inspiration, not just bland influence 😘 ty

  • @sassyest8292
    @sassyest82923 ай бұрын

    You are as beautiful inside as you are outside. What I like most about you is your silliness and weird sense of humor lol no one can compare

  • @14749
    @147493 ай бұрын

    Hailey u are like pure angel middle of this social media! Thank you for everything you do, just a role model for all of us

  • @DazeBoheme
    @DazeBoheme3 ай бұрын

    Wow, well I'm happy for you that you chose to do smthn healthier than that modeling trauma & glad you shared this. I needed to hear esp part of this!! Glad I watched this ❤

  • @1Jenii
    @1Jenii4 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing ❤ love your videos and so glad you are happy and healthy 😊

  • @andreahoard9484
    @andreahoard94844 ай бұрын

    You are very entertaining! Thank you for always making me laugh out loud!

  • @userkskdjjjdjjshdhd
    @userkskdjjjdjjshdhd4 ай бұрын

    it's sooo relaxing listening and watching her tell her stories

  • @FeyhaTejani
    @FeyhaTejani4 ай бұрын

    Haley every time I watch your videos, I wonder how someone can be so smart! You're so talented, so funny, so nice! Keep it up❤ I'm so glad you left modelling. They didn't deserve you🥺

  • @EmmaW-N-ni6xb
    @EmmaW-N-ni6xb4 ай бұрын

    You are amazing and so inspiring❤❤❤

  • @MariePriss
    @MariePriss2 ай бұрын

    Thank you sm for being transparent and real. ❤

  • @alissa6994
    @alissa69944 ай бұрын

    I’m so happy u talked about this, I’m so insecure of models and now I get why, they do set unrealistic standards, and also congrats on 5Mil ❤

  • @justAbigailsinging
    @justAbigailsinging4 ай бұрын

    Thank you Haley, I feel like I needed that ❤🥹

  • @cookieism.
    @cookieism.3 ай бұрын

    AINT NO WAY you’d get turned down for modelling gigs you’re SO GORGEOUS!! ✨❤

  • @GabaDabbaDoo
    @GabaDabbaDoo4 ай бұрын

    dude my respect for her just went even higher

  • @natalielang6209
    @natalielang62094 ай бұрын

    I really love you for this. I think it's so important for young people to know what the industry is like. Your humour is fantastic and I'm so pleased you got out and got healthy. X

  • @pawpatrolonaroll
    @pawpatrolonaroll4 ай бұрын

    So glad you're doing much better now! ❤

  • @kindheartkindsoul
    @kindheartkindsoul4 ай бұрын

    Haley you are such an amazing role model for all girls and women in the world! We love you girl! ❤️❤️

  • @deborah3709
    @deborah37094 ай бұрын

    You are so funny and the videos are fantastic. You quickly became a favorite of mine.

  • @user-el6uw4ic2y
    @user-el6uw4ic2y4 ай бұрын

    So well articulated and uplifting.

  • @mountain85
    @mountain854 ай бұрын

    You are beautiful ❤️ and no matter how beautiful a model is , no one remembers any of the faces ! We remember what they were like and what legacy they left !

  • @charlottee212
    @charlottee2123 ай бұрын

    What a great vid! Such an important point of view - hearing from someone most of us only dream we can look like who turns out to be someone most of us should try to be like.

  • @blazelazin5752
    @blazelazin57524 ай бұрын

    How could they not see how beautiful you are😂😂😂 Well, all in all glad you were able to be free from a toxic place and became who you are now😊

  • @simplyemily8251
    @simplyemily82514 ай бұрын

    omg i cant believe how strong you are to survive that trauma. you made me cry you are my inspiration

  • @Jazzy_040
    @Jazzy_0404 ай бұрын

    I am LOVING the let's talk about videos! ❤❤❤

  • @realbeckini
    @realbeckini3 ай бұрын

    Preach girl. I pissed off a bunch of idiots with a tweet recently and the amount of people who were making fun of my looks, as if it's the only thing that matters. You're absolutely gorgeous. But you're also funny, fun, entertaining, and personable. That'll continue to take you far