I'm so over rich people trying to compete with who has had the hardest life. If you hustled and worked hard and all that that's great and good for you but tearing down other people's experiences and comparing them to your own to prove that you had a harder time is just in such bad taste. It's a shame.

@Elle-vm3ge

10 ай бұрын

Couldn’t agree more. Sai clearly intended to come across as relatable and instead it’s just tacky and pick me.

@honeybdream

10 ай бұрын

@@Elle-vm3ge @honeybdream 1 minute ago Saiobiyah Aaliah is supper annoying with her poverty Olympics!

@divadream

10 ай бұрын

Completely get it. There are so many vital components to growing up in a healthy environment that have lasting impacts... in my own childhood, I was severely abused and tortured by my father and experienced several family tragedies, but I also grew up on the Upper East Side going to prep school and financial privilege certainly made other aspects much easier than others. It's not a competition. The world needs more empathy and learning why we are who we are.

@YourGraceMyLady

9 ай бұрын

@@honeybdreamright? Erin’s take that she wants the same story is off. She just wants to try to be friends and relate

@andydietrich3689

9 ай бұрын

@@YourGraceMyLadyI don’t think so. I’ve met people like her - they hear someone’s story, and then co-opt it as part of their own because they have no real sense of self or real identity, so they’re borrowing someone else’s until they’re onto the next.

“He didn’t give me one single cent…… yeah like they paid for my college and all that” LOL WHAT. Jessel clearly means well, just is out of touch

@rsingh9900

10 ай бұрын

Indian parents are big on education They will pay for college over anything else. You have to study hard and be a doctor or an engineer. I know that is my parents. All their children are pushed . So Jessel is not lying about that.

@Mkay999

10 ай бұрын

There’s a huge difference of your college being paid for and then getting out to a new city and having no job and no help. You just don’t have one monthly payment going to your loans. It’s equivalent to someone being kicked out at 18, they don’t have a debt or monthly payment and have to figure it out, only difference is you do have a degree but everything still applies to those fears.

@georgia8592

10 ай бұрын

​@@Mkay999👏👏👏👏

@cameronhunter8699

10 ай бұрын

It’s also worth noting that Jessels university being paid for is a lot more affordable in Britain than in the US.

@avbroooo

10 ай бұрын

😢😂😂😂😂 oblivious is the word !!!

Sai, it's not a competition... if Jessel feels like she had some hard times then she should be allowed to freely say that without them deciding whether or not it's a big deal...they're just so nasty.

@Truthteller978

10 ай бұрын

No,Jessel is out of touch yet she wants to talk. Reminds of Meghan Markle telling South African single mothers about the struggles of being a mother while she is married a prince.

@AR36-45

10 ай бұрын

​@@Truthteller978Wow, bringing in Meghan Markle 🙄 The point is that someone mentioning their life story does not mean they're trying to compete with you, nor is it a personal attack. This is a discussion, not the hardship Olympics.

@Preah3

10 ай бұрын

@@AR36-45 thank you. exactly!

@sourajkrishnan3791

10 ай бұрын

@@Truthteller978stfu she was asked about her childhood, take your fake woke leftist bs elsewhere

@rsingh9900

10 ай бұрын

Jessel probably had tough times . The Indians who live in Africa were Asked to leave everything they own behind. I am sure her parent had a hard time starting over. Let her tell her story.. Meghan Markle is one of a kind.

There are people who had a harder life than Sai and were literally homeless or dealt with abuse. All these women need to be quiet and realize everyone has had struggles, and not jump down someone’s throat when they share!

@missd2657

10 ай бұрын

I agree. It's seems like Sai was just working class. I'm aware her mother became an alcoholic when Sai was 16 which is sad. But other then that it seems she grew up with a loving mother who just didn't have a lot money.

@Swameh

10 ай бұрын

​@missd2657 Sai literally says she was homeless for a while. Just cuz she's rich (& bougie) now doesn't mean she hasn't suffered. Really not gonna pretend I know these people's actual history from 20-second clips.

@Mkay999

10 ай бұрын

Swameh you’re completely missing the point. Someone will have always had it harder. Some people are homeless but never slept on the streets, never dealt with freezing temperatures. Someone will always have had it worse. When someone confessed moments of their struggle it’s soooo self involved to play who has had it harder.

@missd2657

10 ай бұрын

@@Swameh but she doesn’t lend that grace to Jessel.

@melize7035

10 ай бұрын

Sai is annoying asf cause she’s probably tell a refugee who escaped genocide that her life was harder. I cannot stand her!

This is a very judgmental cast. Sai and Erin have been quite unlikable these last episodes. Bryn is smarter than she pretends to be. Jenna and Jessel deserved more respect, Bryn deserved more empathy for her story about freezing eggs.

@skontheroad

10 ай бұрын

Out of curiosity, why give a girl "more credit" for being smart enough to freeze her eggs "just in case..."??

@joralemonvirgincreche

10 ай бұрын

@@skontheroad What girl? You mean a woman?

@discardme222

10 ай бұрын

@@skontheroadno one said “credit” they said empathy. And Brynn smarter than she pretends. She acts like she’s this ditsy and flirty person but she knows exactly what she’s doing on the show

@Brandtfer12

10 ай бұрын

I disagree with you

@Estrellitawilliams

10 ай бұрын

Imagine having empathy for a woman who thinks it’s okay to flirt with a friends husband and gets mad when you try to hold her accountable and her other weirdo behavior. So nope, I have no sympathy for her

I'm sorry but I strongly dislike Sai. Like this isn't the struggle Olympics!! Is she ever not a mean girl?

I am here for this reboot 🥰 "Play it in a glass so it's louder" 😂

Sai! Do you want a prize? What is this? The childhood struggle olympics? What a mean group.

They ask ppl to share and then this is what happens when you share lmao

@KA-eu9sy

10 ай бұрын

There is sharing. And, there is embellishing.

Brynn gives me mean girl vibes - I love Jenna, I feel for her that she is so insecure about her skin but of course I understand her Ubah is cute too

@crystalobaseki

10 ай бұрын

Brynn, Erin, and Sai give me mean girl vibes.

@jaanders1983

10 ай бұрын

😂 more like that older brother hazing or the stereotype that new Yorkers are rude😂😂😂 maybe second season those three will click better.... poor jessel and Judith

@rsingh9900

10 ай бұрын

Indian parents do that for their children . Education is priority.

Erin , why are you so bothered by Jessel childhood. You are so Jealous of her . Her parents were kicked out of Kenya they had to leave all their wealth. Many people have rough childhood espically if you were poor..why is this So shocking to a privileged hater.

They all hate Jessel so much lol and Jessel wants to be liked so bad.. :( Sai is mean. Erin is mean and sensitive.

@alla.e

10 ай бұрын

How is Erin mean….

@Mkay999

10 ай бұрын

Erin is mean bc she makes fun of Jessel at a dinner with her husband with another couple and brings up how Jessel hasn’t slept with her husband. She also loves to talk negatively about Jessel’s experience and pretend she knows better that Jessel got help from her parents being in NYC. She’s mean and a hater

@lanavandutch5591

10 ай бұрын

Erin and Jessel just don’t vibe, nothing wrong with that. You can’t be everyone’s best friend.

@Mkay999

10 ай бұрын

Erin doesn’t get along with anyone. She is in a fight with every member of this cast.

Imagine if Ubah told Sai she didn’t really struggle because she didn’t experience fleeing a war-torn nation, becoming a refugee, being separated from her family when coming to Canada only to end up homeless with her family for a year… I wonder how invalidated Sai would feel. Thankfully, Utah had the class and grace Sai clearly lacks to realize it’s pointless to play “trauma Olympics” because everyone’s experience is valid. Yes some are worse than others but it gives you no right to invalidate or disrespect someone else’s human experience. Let’s also remember this is the same Sai who did the trauma Olympics thing with her own daughter and admitted she is jealous of her kids. Baby girl needs therapy and needs to stop weaponizing her upbringing against people (including her own child 🙄). It’s not cute!

Her Dad paid for her college as well as her very expensive private school education. Please be guided Jessel!

@vbelleepoque

10 ай бұрын

Exactly!

@missd2657

10 ай бұрын

Jessel went to college in 2001 to 2005, so her college fees would have been between £1000 - £1500 per year, so for a 4 year BA her dad would have paid maximum £6,000 in total. So it's not an obscene amount of money like an American college would have been. Also private schools in the UK, especially the 1990's which is when she went would have been even less. Thankfully in the UK working class people have access to colleges and private schools. So what she is saying could be very true.

@rsingh9900

10 ай бұрын

All Indian daddy’s will pay for education that is a fact . They value education above everything thing else.

@yc7371

10 ай бұрын

@@missd2657 sorry it was not that low. also living costs in the heart of london?

@missd2657

10 ай бұрын

@@yc7371 She grew up in London, so probably continued living at home, so her living cost would have been minimal. I've worked for a London University for the past 25 years and fees from 1998 - 2004 fees were £1000 per year, then in 2004 they increased to £3,000 per year, then in 2010 they increased by £9,000 per year. Each year has a minimal increase of £50, so Jessel would not have paid more then £1,150 for a years tuition during her time in University.

ONLY Jenna is actually likable and fun....then Uba

Sai is a hater and so unlikable. I only like Ubah and Jenna out of the whole cast. Oh, Jessel is ok.

@Truthteller978

10 ай бұрын

How is she a hater for being real! Gtfo

@skontheroad

10 ай бұрын

Gonna have to agree to you! So far, they are ALL so unlikable! They make me embarrassed for having grown up in NYC! AND knowing what the expression "we summered in FI/The Hamptons...." actually means! And I get it, it's gross. But there's a difference between that...and THIS!!

@Thatcunt_logan

10 ай бұрын

10000% agree with this statement

@pdw9475

10 ай бұрын

I don't know her name but I like that white girl who had the party with her husband. She is forgiving kind and kinda gangsta.

@victorialove3463

10 ай бұрын

Thank You Sai Is Fake And Phony, Don't Like Her At All.

Jessel is likeable. Her story of "struggle" is identical to a large section of the U.S. who claim they made themselves. Those were challenging times for her. I doubt that she was trying to equate her "struggle" to Sai's. Anyway, compared to her peers at King's College (and all the schools she attended before that), Jessel very well could have been one of the kids with "nothing." It's not that serious unless someone is looking for reasons. The apparent satisfaction that Erin takes in trash-talking Jessel is off-putting.

@malissakpadeh8951

10 ай бұрын

THANK YOU!!!!

Just because you had it worse does not mean that another person’s struggle is invalid or their not allowed to voice it. They want everyone to open up but once they do it’s shut down with judgement. Damn I wouldn’t tell these women shit about me.

@noonecares200

10 ай бұрын

But the person didn’t struggle … that’s the point

@Salma-yo6ns

9 ай бұрын

@@noonecares200 so if Ubah told Sai she didn’t really struggle because she didn’t experience fleeing a war-torn nation, becoming a refugee, being separated from her family when coming to Canada only to end up homeless with her family for a year would Sai’s experience of struggles be invalidated? As someone who has a similar story of being a refugee, growing up in a free nation in itself is privilege. Thankfully, Utah had the class and grace Sai clearly lacks to realize it’s pointless to play trauma Olympics because everyone’s experience is valid. Yes some are worse than others but it gives you no right to invalidate or disrespect someone else’s human experience.

@noonecares200

9 ай бұрын

@@Salma-yo6ns there is a big difference between the two , if you notice Ubah relates to sai which is why she didn’t attack sai, the difference is trying to pretend that you struggled . That’s the point here. Also btw Ubah comes from a wealthy family , you’re assuming she struggled when she didn’t but nice try with that.

Except why does Sai feel the need to compete all the time? How insecure is she to not listen to other people's stories and just accept it

They all talk about they past difficulties like a competition. And now they live a life of foolishness, and forgot about it all only bring the subject for history line 🥴

I'm confused why Sai feels like Jessel's personal story discredits her own??

@samc2612

10 ай бұрын

I can understand why Sai would be irritated. Achieving her level of success from humble beginnings is surely not easy. Jessel's story gives the impression that she had to overcome the same adversities to get where she is today, yet her beginnings are seemingly not so humble.

Damn Jessel snores like a grown man. Lmfaoooooooooooooo

Jessel is great for TV because i react to her. It's an allergic reaction but she evokes an emotional response. People like her are clueless and dangerous in leadership positions.

@rsingh9900

10 ай бұрын

You got to be kidding. Dangerous! Clueless that is harshL

@andydietrich3689

9 ай бұрын

Yes!!! That’s such an accurate description. I’ve worked with people like her in bureaucratic, county level positions that create policy on a local level, and their cluelessness contributes to making unnecessarily complicated regulations that are bloated, confusing, and impact everyday lives. She is EXACTLY that type of person.

Who is Sai, the struggle police ? Jessel never said she had it harder than you she just said it wzs hard for her.

I’m obsessed with Brynn. She can do no wrong as far as I’m concerned.

Okay Jessel's struggles may not be up to their standards but that does not give them the right to invalidate it. Our gage for difficulties is subjective. What may be hard for me is okay for you.

Jessel is sooooo out of touch and doesn’t like to face the truth and makes things looks better than they are, but I like her, I think she means no harm

Erin's fingers are so thick and stubby. She would be a wonderful brick layer or construction worker.

@marianna12377

10 ай бұрын

Is she not already., Though. Lol.

@marykay7878

10 ай бұрын

she is sooo androgynous and i feel maybe thats why she constantly puts other women down. like her voice, ears, jawline. her husband seemed more feminine than her, and also quite submissive, if i may add

@rabbit-uy2hk

10 ай бұрын

@@marykay7878 androgynous? I think she looks very obviously feminine and she is arguably one of the prettier girls of the group next to ubah and brynn.

@marykay7878

10 ай бұрын

i just dont see it that way....she has no waist, very small breasts, not much booty or thighs, rather thin lips, a VERY strong jawline, hooded eyes, a rather large nose and very large ears, and her voice is extremly deep@@rabbit-uy2hk

@Truthteller978

10 ай бұрын

@@rabbit-uy2hkshe really is

All these comments defending Jessel’s delusional lies smh you lie, you get called out.

Apparently having nothing these days is your family paying for at least 60k in tuition. I love aMeRiCa where everyone wants to have a struggle competition.

Jessel is growing on me a lot. Why does Sai and Brynn annoy me now?

Sai is jealous of Ubah. Each and everytime Ubah comes into the room Sai's entire vibe changes.

So they are arguing on who had the worse/poorest upbringing?! This show has gone to 💩🚽

@wandagreene3062

10 ай бұрын

No it hasn't, everyone is feeling each other out.

Just so you know it was debunked by Jessel via a blogger that she attended St. Paul’s school for girls .

Jessel… gurllll….. you better be proud of your family that provided you with a foundation and the ladder for you to climb your way to success. There is NO shame in that. It’s something to celebrate. And let’s be clear, no one is judging her upbringing, but it’s clear she is very out of touch. Like she’s not lying, she honestly believes she was less fortunate lol.

@rsingh9900

10 ай бұрын

Living with a family member is not a privilege it can be a nightmare.

All you hear Sai saying is what's gor breakfast, lunch and dinner. And if its not to her liking OMG!!!!

Erin says mean shit then immediately apologizes. Don't say mean shit then u don't have to apologize.

I understand where both ladies are coming from, especially Sai. Your privileged behind is not about to gaslight us. You may have had struggles but you are privileged. Do you know what privilege means? It means that you may have problems but your life is easier than most people. You can talk about them, yes but don’t be out of touch and Jessel is the definition of out of touch. I would say Ubah and Sai are the only women on this cast who knows what it feels like to have nothing and really work fifty times harder than anyone around you. They don’t want to live like that hence you see her reaction. I like Jessel but Sai isn’t the person to tell about your lightweight struggles of not being able to go to New York and the manner in which she said it. She wants to seem as if she knows humility and is in touch with her emotions but all she does is make things worse for herself. Anyway, I love these petty arguments.

@skinbytat7305

10 ай бұрын

Notice how everyone thinks Sai is mean

minus Jenna, this cast is quite unlikable. Notice the other ladies did not complain to Sai about all that fried food at breakfast on her trip! Sai is that friend who points out your acne in front of your crush. She just loves to embarrass other women.

The ladies of RHONY are all vying for the Oliver Twist award.

@honeybdream

10 ай бұрын

🤣

Heavy breathing LMFAOOOO I feel her I hate that I snore 😂😂 idc if I’m on camera that’s not me!!

Erin and Sai are just trying to give Jessel perspective. They see the way she is catered to by Pavit and her parents, and the way she speaks and treats them. So they take that all in and take it out on her by “diminishing” her experience because she isn’t grateful for what she has. She should be confident but she’s insecure. I love this cast :)

I get that Sai kinda playing the oppression Olympics of Jessel's moment is not cute. But like how would Jessel actually learn about a rough early life. Maybe she hasn't really interacted with a person who built themselves from the ground up like Sai. Maybe her only reference is her own struggles and other people of her economic circumstance. Like yeah she's 100% entitled to feel and think she struggled but having a different frame of reference wouldn't hurt.

I love this new cast. Erin and Sai, specifically! But Ubah hardly seems to be a part of the show. I mean, in terms of personal story. Was she originally a "friend of" and then turned into a housewife, last minute?

It’s the fact that a lot of Americans in here think university is overpriced everywhere in the world but you call Jessel out of touch and clueless. Y’all are so ridiculous!

Jessel is my fav , sai and Erin are very much unlikable

Sai needs to work on her issues, she is constantly triggered by the dumbest things.

Ubah and Jenna Thats it! No. To the rest atm

Dad might have paid for college she might have had to pay for everything else. Let's be honest Sai criticizes everything, food, toilet tissue, hyper-pigmentation. Also, Jessel's and Erin's situation is different, Erin's family made her from start to finish, only in real estate because of them, Jessel is in fashion because of her own choices. Most Indian families only mess around with business, medical, law or IT.

❤ that they casted all new people. Wouldn’t ask back Sai, Brynn and Erin. Wish they would recast everyone on RHONJ too. NYC at least is different then previous seasons. Jersey is the entire old cast with 1/2 a new cast that seems loyal only to marge. Every season of jersey is always new people being loyal to one cast member. It’s just more yelling and 2 separate groups that ignore each other 😢.

@luisafrance1635

10 ай бұрын

Ok. The campaign is staring already. That is why those franchises go down hill. They all need to come back next season.

this show is so great ❤️

They are judging her cause she’s a damn liar. Like girl you were slightly inconvenienced every now and then- NOT in the constant struggle. And that’s ok.

@sourajkrishnan3791

10 ай бұрын

So what? They asked her about her upbringing only to throw it in her face? These ladies are a bunch of bullies.

Sai need to stop using that hungry excuse for everything...girl you not that damn hungry...shes like a size 2...4 maybe...and shes a vegetarian too...like gtfoh😂

What was crazy is some ladies were talking about some tragic stories but Jassel is talking about her normal young struggles but not even struggles. Jessel $20 vs homeless. Jessel just needs to be ok with normal childhood and the ladies should not Harris her by calling her a princess.

@KA-eu9sy

10 ай бұрын

harass

Two sneak peeks. 11 mins + 5 mins. That's almost 1/3 of an episode.

These micro aggressions build up and up - we see you - walk in our shoes and then speak !

I like everyone in the cast and I think Bravo did an excellent job of casting a group that gels together yet clashes in a way that isn’t mean spirited. I think Jessel has the best intentions and all her weird comments can be boiled down to how British she is. Not being an aristocrat in London is considered a struggle there, but for New Yorkers who made it out the mud, hustling and developing a strong work ethic is apart of the city’s soul. It’s a cultural difference.

@Ennui83

10 ай бұрын

I agree with the spirit, but it's odd to try to frame Jessel's perspective as a cultural difference. It's just an ordinary individual difference. The United Kingdom has mud that people "make it out of" too; London has mud (i.e. estates, council flats, and high-crime-under-resourced boroughs and neighborhoods). Many Blue blood American families also are native New Yorkers. Socioeconomic class is not a geographic cultural difference. Jessel being English or a Londoner does not explain her perspective. Her actual lived experience likely does. 😶‍🌫

Gotta say, SAI not everybody has an agenda, gofts of collaborations are a way to introduce someone to a product, unless she asked you to promote her GIFTS, then you can promote them, otherwise just look at a gift from someone richer than you, as a gift. Number 2 someone who thinks this way comes off as a snob, drinking their own kool aid, the implication is that SAI thinks everyone needs her to promote their stuff, best bet when in new relationships, before making more enemies, just assume the better and not the worst. Stay HUMBLE, try not to think too much of yourself and relax, together with her food obsession and her generosity is using me mentality will get her hated on this show. As much as I like her and the new cast, I hate SNOBS and snobs who espouse shallow, vapid, patriarchal, white supremacist tools in offer to distinguish us from THEM. It's gross, antiquaited, obvious, boring, and it's not a good look. She needs to just be authentic and stop being verbose with idiotic storylines.

I wish they would stop comparing one anothers stories and sh**ing on each other :( ..

Sai is disgusting! So is Erin ! Lots of us us had Jessel story and it defines us - we faced racism all our lives and it’s still going on in RHONY - sorry we were not so poor but does not mean we did not suffer. Live in London and then speak !!!!’

idk who Erin is to judge given her upbringing though...

Sai is a player. She had a hard life ..understood. But she is not kind to other who may have suffer similar fate but choose to be quiet. Sai .. my story is better for empathy. You are now copying my life. Girl stop playing. I was brought up in the poorest third world country so stop comparing.

@eyhrsh

10 ай бұрын

You want a cookie? Literally no one cares sweetie

Some gots have real jobs others live off sugar daddies

These last few episodes feel like the struggle Olympics. I wish they all would just respect each others backgrounds and not feel like they need to compete with one another. Who cares if Jessel had $20 and Sai had $-400 in the bank. At the end of the day you both didn’t have money and know you do.

Ssi other ppl struggle too she's a hater

Yeah there you go Sai Imitating Jessel’s accent Sai wishes she had her accent

@honeybdream

10 ай бұрын

Yup, Sai even named her kid London!

@sidrahzubair1605

10 ай бұрын

@@honeybdream no way I didn’t even know that

@honeybdream

10 ай бұрын

Also, she said years ago her fav city is London. LoL@@sidrahzubair1605

Are we competing on who had it worst?

If Jessel feels that she had a difficult time than that’s valid. I don’t think she’s comparing herself. I think she’s stating that for HER it was a difficult time. What is difficult for one person my not be difficult for another. I think it’s annoying for someone to constantly bring up how poor they were. We understand you went through a lot but so does everyone in this world. Sai is very full of herself and I think she’s trying to place herself as the leader of this group.

I like eveyrone except sai .

Jessel. Socially inept.

Not nearly as good as the OGs

@tied2you

10 ай бұрын

its only the first season

Is Sai annoying - yes. Is Jessel trying to compete in the Oppression Olympics with her silver spoon - of course.

Brynn is the star and my least favoite is Erin and Jenn. Why is Jenn there she is boring . Is Jenn there because she worked for J Crews?♑️

Sai is such an embarrassment to her very own self she leaves no chance to imitate Jessel’s fancy accent

I like Jessel and Jenna. Everyone else is kinda mean.

I love me some Sai she’s misunderstood

Jessel just laugh with them. Get the carrot out of your a……

I have a new love for Sai. I most def know what it's like to be overdrawn in life. Starting with negative zero. Preach sis.

SAI is my absolute favorite. She’s so fabulous I can’t stand it. But she felt for the privilege trauma trap. When privilege ppl talk about how rough they had it all you have to say is sorry that happened to you then change the subject 😂 Appease then deflect 😂

I like brynn and jenna

I do feel sorry for Sai. They pick on her. She needs to stand up for herself.

@rsingh9900

10 ай бұрын

Sai is doing a good job beating her drums of poor me . Thank god you are in a better place and how about some kindness.

I have been enjoying this season but I think this was the first episode I felt it wasn't working. Everyone sits down and reveals their backstory .. but it didn't land because I don't feel I know any of them .. and the 2 boring ones are running the scene. I don't care if you're hungry and that you have along line of people making boring speeches. I think if there was a legacy character introducing us to these housewives, it would land better.

@strwbrybabyg245

10 ай бұрын

you don't know them? they're telling you personal details about this lives every episode. you didn't know the old housewives either. please be quiet 😂

uh ok?

Sai is very rude

Bryan wins.

I just can't get into this show. I think I'm over rich people whining and fighting.

Can't stand Jessel. Trying so hard to be something she is not.

Sai is the one who is the victim . Ok no money but you were living in a American not a third world country ..Sai is mean as hell. Don’t take my shine it is victimhood .

@Preah3

10 ай бұрын

agreed! Sai needs someone to actually challenge her and stand up to her.

Sorry this group is🙄

Horrible cast

This new cast sucks