Slob vs Neat Freak // Which one are you?
Do you live with a slob? Or a helicopter Neat-Freak? Leave a comment!
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Beer, chicken, taking off my pants in the middle of the kitchen, whooooo marrriagggge!! 😂😂😂😂😂
@potatoesareyummy981
4 жыл бұрын
Kierney Manson lol
@craftingrainbows1827
4 жыл бұрын
Kierney Manson LOL
@laurastuber7664
4 жыл бұрын
omg, thats soo tru
@miaquattromani5748
4 жыл бұрын
Haha
@edwardkirkwood4822
3 жыл бұрын
Lollll
Lmao, Penn acting out Kim's amazing narrative is pure oscar gold!!! Love it!!!
Her face when he said he does most of the dishes was priceless. I am right handed but play sports left handed so I feel your pain Penn.
Penn, why don’t you just move the ring to your right hand when you play tennis. Then you move it back after?
@theholdernessfamily
6 жыл бұрын
Great question. My right knuckle is like 7 times the size of my left knuckle. I tried it and got it stuck. Had to sit in a cold room with dish soap to get it off.
@velvetfrogg2273
6 жыл бұрын
What if you just get it sized for that finger (the right hand) and keep it there?
@rojaiwla
4 жыл бұрын
Kim Napoleone I think the tattoo solution saves all. 👍😊
@angelarrivas
4 жыл бұрын
@@theholdernessfamily try Windex to remove rings. Works like a charm and it cleans them at the same time!
@lindsaymorrison7519
2 жыл бұрын
@@theholdernessfamily did you try putting it on a different finger?
Lola’s face as a burglar!!! Hahaha
@theholdernessfamily
6 жыл бұрын
She's getting to be pretty funny isn't she?
@blubee2289
5 жыл бұрын
The Holderness Family I know I’m late but yes she is haha
@amandawatkins1076
4 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@beverlyswanson9614
3 жыл бұрын
Lola is awesome!
If I have to take my ring off my finger (and since I was much thinner when I got married, I actually don’t wear my ring very often), I always put my ring in one of two places: either with my engagement ring in the house or in the zippered coin purse in my wallet. That way I always know where it is. Then again...my husband is also on wedding ring #3 (or is it 4, I’ve kind of lost track). The first replacement we got at (believe it or not) a turnpike service area in Ohio for $15 - and he got more compliments about that ring than he did about his original wedding ring. When that one wore out (as truck stop rings do), we splurged on the latest replacement - and bought a $20 ring from the Italy pavilion at Epcot. So the moral of the story is: either put your ring where you won’t lose it or buy one that you can easily replace if it gets lost. :-)
Fun fact, I lost my (family heirloom) wedding ring for 4 YEARS. Then we got a new fridge. Guess what was safely stashed on top of the old fridge? 😵
It almost sounded like penn was trying to convince himself that he does most of the dishes.
OMG this was hilarious!!! Love it when you do each others voices & the whole "fake news" had me nearly spitting out my breakfast! Love u guys, so you are so fun!
Many many years ago I told my husband I was only going to clean the clothes that were in the hamper. One morning he got up and asked where his clean underwire was. I replied were they in the hamper? He looked on the bedroom floor on his side of the bed. All his underwire was dirty and on the floor beside the bed. I told him to put his dirty clothes in the hamper and I would clean them. For most of the time since then he has put his dirty clothes in the hamper.
@SarahLizDoan
4 жыл бұрын
Pam Murphy 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
@HisWordisLife4U
4 жыл бұрын
Nicely done.
This is the family I always wanted to have. You guys have been such a lifeline for me during the pandemic, I am so thankful for your videos.
Penn should get a ring tattooed, he’ll never loose it
@thecreativeweirdos3633
4 жыл бұрын
globldygloop _ he does
@sophiabrooks4001
3 жыл бұрын
@@thecreativeweirdos3633 no its kim’s name not a ring
Kim, I feel ya girl! We just talked about the laundry thing this morning. A hamper next to the bed...on his side...dirty boxers and shorts on the floor NEXT to the hamper.
Totally LOVE this! I'm the neat freak and while my Love isn't a slob he like takes 4 mos to put something away. Ex: He took down the ceiling fan in the living room and put up a really cool light fixture that I bought. No lie: the ladder, the 8' ORANGE ladder, stayed in the living room for a week following the project. After I couldn't take it in there anymore, he moved it out to the porch. Where it's still living. Upright. In all it's orangeness. Leaning. Totally destroying the view of our beautiful farm with out cute beyond belief goats. I, on the other hand VACUUM the porch. I'd vac the barn if possible but I do rake it 3x/day and make sure it smells pretty and I hang little cutesy things from the barn ceiling so the goats have some nice decor to look at. That's just a small example. :) But I love this man beyond belief and couldn't imagine spending my life with anyone but him. He's my husband and my Love and my Sweetheart and ... I'm an OCD nut job and he's my slob.
The pants!!! Why do men have to leave their pants everywhere??? It's bad enough I have a nudist for a toddler. I don't need my hubs leaving his pants in the middle of the dining room floor!!
@apurvabhure3376
4 жыл бұрын
Men have the liberty to take off thier clothes and they happen to use it a lot😂😂
@frozennorthwoods4401
4 жыл бұрын
SOCKS..my husband wears only black crew 🧦 socks..they are like 🐍 snakes..a sock hanging on the stair rail, socks on the kitchen floor..in the hallway..creeping out from in between the couch cushions..ick..they just multiply and show up everywhere..even our sons room!! I hate those socks..they're evil😉
@HisWordisLife4U
4 жыл бұрын
@@frozennorthwoods4401 I don't understand it; does he throw them as he is taking them off? Does he fling them? My Husband can't ever seem to get his stinky socks or his under ware into the hamper either. Why? Is it like a fireman thing that is they get woke up in the middle of the night, they want their under ware and socks available in a pinch if there is a fire? I think they are all doing it. Must be a man thing.
Kim, I so feel your pain. I'm like you and my husband and all 3 kids are like Penn. My son thinks the whole house is his room and just starts something somewhere and then just leaves it behind to start something else. At any given time there are 3 books at least one computer and probably some dishes lying around in the livingroom, diningroom and outside. My husband and I share an electric toothbrush and everytime I use it, I put "my" brush back on it's holder. My husband just leaves his "brush" on the base so before I can use it, I have to remove his brush and replace with mine. I may be a "helecopter neat-freak" but honestly, I think I'm just normal and my family are just slobs. LOL!
Haha and this video perfectly illustrates why I love your family! Perfect balance. :) My problem is I am both people. I just get these spurts where nothing is in order enough! then there are times when I am just "meh, these socks will find their way to the hamper eventually." Past me and future me never see eye to eye.
I love how these topics are like real life matters... And yet they are so playful with their communication! ...While the rest of us vent and complain and nit pick about our lives. Such a simple thing! Communication!! Lets hope this continues behind closed doors! 😁
One day I am slob and then the next I am like WHY IS MY ROOM SO DIRTY!!!!!
@petekellogg1614
6 жыл бұрын
Same ! U just earned ur self a sub
@Lisatolsma
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@maggie5783
6 жыл бұрын
Littlecat 5 that’s me! Like rn my room is a wreck but tomorrow I’ll be reorganizing my bookshelf and such. Also I’m your 9 or 10th sub!
@bonniepetterson3299
3 жыл бұрын
Saaaame!
Have you seen those new rubber rings? Their for busy people. This was hilarious by the way!
@katethomas4896
6 жыл бұрын
YES! I was just going to post this same thing.
@kristiroeowen
6 жыл бұрын
What are these
@Domino_0604
3 жыл бұрын
And he can order like 30 of them at a time
@Nofretari
3 жыл бұрын
Tattoo ring
@charlottebellaire9444
3 жыл бұрын
Groove Rings
Everyone should be blessed with a family like the Holderness family. Y'all are awesome.
My husband gets so upset with me for not wearing my wedding set! He says I'm not a normal girl! But the struggle is real with being left handed! I don't own a hand held can opener ! I use an electric one! You guys should do a clip on the struggles of being left handed! It is a right handed world. We've had to adapt. I think it would be hilarious to watch the world have to do things with their left hand for 24 hrs on things that left handers do on a daily basis. Reverse everything! Don't even get me started when it comes to writing in pencil! (All that silver led smearing all over the side of my hand up to my wrist) Everything is made for a right handed world! Left handers learned to adapt, it would be a nice (and quite funny) change!
My husband’s skinny fingers lost the first ring on our wedding day. He is on about the fourth ring and this one is a $30, Tibetan OM Mane Padme Hung one that is not a complete circle. We literally clamped it on him with pliers. Thanks for all the laughs!
Omg I watched this video laughing hysterically, feeling like I was watching the story of my life . My hubby has lost his rings to the point I purchase several at a time now ( cheaper ones because I know he's just going to lose it ) so I have backup already on hand. I'm the helicopter cleaner and he's the delusional dish cleaner all the way . Lol thanks guys I loved this video
I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE EVERY VIDEO FROM THE HOLDERNESS FAMILY... Penn is SO TALENTED , I know, layering the music for each joxan and music parts and making the final sound AMAZING !!.. Have A Terrific Day dear Holderness Family ! I 'll be anxiously waiting to see more .
I just laughed and laughed! I think this is the ever present issue in a family cause usually one kid and one parent are also very different in this need for neatness! Just admire your teamwork so much!
From a neat freak about a slob. My fiancee refuses to use a napkin while she eats. It drives me CRAZY! She has literally said "Why wipe my face? It'll just get more messy, so there's no point!" and she tried to use the scenario of "You wouldn't vacuum the floor when you know that there will be kids coming in with dirty shoes, right?", to which I responded with "If you're eating a messy breakfast and don't catch the stuff that's going to drip on your clothes, you'd have to either change your clothes THAT YOU JUST PUT ON, or go the whole day with gross stains on your shirt"....she said that it's not that big of a deal to just put on new clothes -_-
@alexandermcmullen9830
4 жыл бұрын
I'm the fiancee in this story... Yes I am a slob and it irritates her very much lol. But I think all the slobs will side with me on this, you can't tell a slob to clean up while they're eating or making the food, but she insists on telling me to wipe my face while I'm eating.
This family seem so down to earth I love it. My hubby is totally a helicopter neat freak
Ha ha ha ha OMG I'm dying! "I do most of the dishes." And Kim's face!! That would be the same face I'd have if my husband said that!
@HisWordisLife4U
4 жыл бұрын
If husbands do ANY of anything they always say it's most. There is no basis for this idea in fact. Ever. And they really believe it, and they are quiet when they see the eye roll, but then go back to there assertions anyway.
@maryannajackson8238
4 жыл бұрын
My dear husband finally changed the lock on our front door...only took a year. He was so proud that he told me about it three times in about 30 minutes. I finally asked him if he wanted a parade thrown in his honor...even he had to laugh 😂
@HisWordisLife4U
4 жыл бұрын
@@maryannajackson8238 and he took a minute to imagine the parade and wanted to tell you yes, honey I do want a parade. Maybe this is why men tend to have more confidence than women generally. Maybe we should all start doing less, lolling about like a male lion and announcing our daily chore list, waiting for accolades and confetti. Nah...men would just retreat to the garage confused or go for a walk. :)
@maryannajackson8238
4 жыл бұрын
1234constantine Yep 🤣
@billfreeman5914
4 жыл бұрын
Mary Anna Jackson If he isn’t very “handy” he may have been mostly pleased/surprised at his success 😉👍
I'm both
I want to love this over and over, love it!!! Keep the laughs coming 😄😄😄
This was hilarious 🤣 and I agree with Penn, bieng left-handed is hard.
Thx guys for looking at those time stamps! Plz leave a like! That will tell me that you would like me to do more holderness time stamps! Alright bye!
My husband keeps rearranging the refrigerator. He likes to put the tall items in the back and the shorter ones up front. This sounds good, but the things I use most often are always in the back and I can't quite reach them. I have to get a stool if he is not home. Just when I get them all back to normal, he does it again. He, too, is cute, sweet, funny and loving. That's how he survives. You guys crack me up. Love your vlogs.
My goodness, I hope my husband and I can be like you two for a long time
Hahaha the first bit was sooo funny btw i love you guys
No lie: My husband thought "doing the dishes" meant putting them in the dishwasher just like Penn. That's it. Then I told him "doing the dishes" means cleaning the kitchen, scraping the dishes, rinsing the dishes, putting the dishes in the dishwasher, putting away the leftovers and cleaning the pans....and cleaning the counters...so resetting the kitchen completely. Then when the dishes in the dishwasher are finished--put them away. It includes everything except the cooking. sometimes even taking out the trash and sweeping/mopping the floors....a reset to a clean kitchen. reset. (I am getting mad just writing it. This must be a standard husband/ wife argument, in which case you may have to let it go. Just fighting against nature is an uphill battle.
@mangot589
3 жыл бұрын
I’d be overjoyed if my husband would even put his OWN dishes into the washer. I will say, when I worked and our kids were little, he did half. But now? I’m a personal valet.😒
@HisWordisLife4U
3 жыл бұрын
@@mangot589 Make a chart of all the things that need to be done around the house and give them a time value. Average the time it takes. My husband would take twice as long to do any chore than me. Go back and forth with things you most like doing. Like if you hate doing the dishes and he likes it, give him the chore. All chores must be done before bed if they are daily ones. Then when he doesn't do them, just let it go and write it down on the chore list on the refrigerator. Let the dishes pile up, let the laundry pile up, let the garbage pile up----not your problem. Tell him it is not fair that you both work full time and you do all the work in the house alone. Men will let women do all of it. Mostly I think it's cause they have no idea how much work it really is...so, show him If he refuses to help after living in a pig pen for awhile, time to go to counseling. :)
LOL, this is what I say when I see anyone but me in the kitchen: "What are you doing in my kitchen?" lol. Meaning, don't dirty anything up. GET OUT! I'm terrible, lol.
Love the shuttle shrug when Penn said "You are obviously going to win this fight."
Every time Penn said he does dishes, Kim’s mouth opened wider and wider in shock and outrage lol … I love it when I get my bride stirred up like that
During holiday dinners, mom used to grab my plate while In was still eating it. I would stop her if she did it while the fork was on the way to my mouth, but it I had gone to the bathroom my plate would be gone. I always asked, "have you ever known me to leave food on my plate, especially all of these yummy veggies? " She has OCD and would start taking plates away as soon as she could. I also would say " why do you bother with the plates when you know very well, I will be the only one who will be cleaning the dishes even with there being 6 people in this house. "
My hubby is a hoarder. I’m disabled and have bad OCD when it comes to cleanliness. Nobody gets how we manage to stay together but we do. Needless to say, we’ve gone though counselling lol. But I WILL say that now that the kids are all grown and gone and I no longer have their help to keep the house clean and stay on top of Chris’s hoarding, it’s been a bit of a challenge. End of the day...we love each other. And he’s really trying to keep it in check. Just be glad if Penn does do the occasional load of dishes - trust me, it could be worse! 😉❤️
I'm a slob at home, and a neat freak at school.
My wife and I share same things and both of us tell each other what we did wrong, then we talk about it which turns into a funny ass argument 🤣🤣🤣🤣
" I can't be trusted with such things! " 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This was so funny! I was laughing with you guys for the whole last part of the video!
They need to do a diss track on each other and the kids should too 😂
Love you guys! You both are hilarious! This is sssooooo my husband and me! We have known each other since we were eighteen. My Honey had a nightmare of a messy room. I would help him clean and organize it at times. Nothing has changed to date. He is messy and I still clean and organize.
I so love y’all!! Y’all are us!! 100%! 💕
Penn, Penn, Penn. Kim is a saint.
OMGosh...y’all are like us!! I’m introvert and want things clean...he’s extravert and OMGosh you can’t even get in his car lol! I needed him to pick our daughter up from school and he’s like...I don’t have any room.......he’s driving a crown Vic, alone!! His trunk, back seat/floor, as well as front seat/floor is FULL!! There’s just enough room for him to sit in, lol! Stuff goes in the car never to return....ever!! Hahaha!
So funny haven't laugh this much long time thanks I love to watch like everyday laughter good medicine
My husband works very hard outside the home so that I can stay home. So I keep the house cleaned up. Couple weeks ago hubby was sweeping the floors and uttered these words: why do I always end up with the floors. I know that you do everything else but why... nevermind."
My car? They’d have to clean it to steal it. Lol!
I never understood how my ex could forget his cereal bowl in the shower every morning. I finally posted a picture of it on Facebook and he stopped after that.
Let’s just remember the song my wife comes home in an hour. Best song ever besides I never stretch out.
Too funny..my husband says….”you’re cleaning up before me”. As he’s cooking!
So, y'all are cracking me up about the rings. My husband's ring got cracked in half at work. So now, my husband has his good ring (the real one) and his Qalo ring that he wears to work, and it can get broken because I only paid $15 for it! Best investment ever. And the Qalo comes with a zipper pouch that I use to store the good ring until we have a date night or some other event where he wants to look fancy. But when he's working, or coaching, or anything that isn't sitting there looking pretty - its the Qalo.
1:04 and 2:44 are soooo funny 🤣🤣🤣
My car is like him. My house is like her. My kids hate my car and my house haha. So can't win
@lmo459
4 жыл бұрын
Me, too! Our car is bad, but I have to keep the house really clean or it gets to me
Love your family so so much!
I'm not married, but I'm Penn. I had a para-educator who realized that I piled stuff. She could organize my piles by making sure they were straight, and I never lost a paper. She never understood my system, but she trusted that I remembered which pile I used. I loved her because she knew my weakness was, and she was "I've got that covered, you do you." Kim seems to do that well with Penn
Lol soooooooooooooooooooo funny thank you for making me laugh like in every vid
Daily you give me so much joy and laughter watching your videos! Thank you!
This video had me laughing so loud my 5 yr old daughter was asking what was so funny! I love this! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I absolutely love when penn voices Lola
Thanks for the cute confrontation. I have a theory about men- they subconsciously have a need to mark their territory. It goes back millions of years in their DNA. My father used to hang his jacket on the chair he would sit at in the dining room when he got back from work, even though the closet was eight feet away. But he was saying "Ok I want everyone to know I am home." My mother would silently move it to the hall closet before we sat down to eat. It was like a ritual. I don't think she was aware that she was always doing that either. Women want to create order so they can notice enemies approaching, without too much distracting clutter. Just some theories lol.
I can totally relate to the helicopter neat freak part!!! There are socks all over the house!!!! ...but I tend to be more of a slob. :) You guys are fantastic! Keep it coming!
His ring is still not on, I think she won that round!
I absolutely enjoyed your introvert Vs extrovert video,it was like describing us as a couple...and this one too
I can relate to her. My husband lost a ring flinging a fishing pole into the lake. I'm the neat freak and take off those shoes and not leave them in random places around the house. We do have coat racks too. Nothing like having to vacuum more and suck up shoelaces.
This is so my husband and I......🤣 Except he has never lost his wedding ring.
He needs a groove ring🤣
I am a helicopter cleaner in the kitchen. My family call me the white tornado because I will put their dishes in the dishwasher even before they've finished eating. Turn your back for 10 seconds and that plate is GONE!
My wife and I see you both as our marriage twins! Great video!
I am DEFINITELY a neat freak 😂 great video! Love you!
ROFL - Loved the Eye Roll take at the end : - keep me laughing thanks
That's me... Useless, but fun to be around. I don't know if I like being called out like this.
I'm a neat freak, but I have to be! If I don't clean up right away, a little mouse will visit me... 😂
I could not live with a neat freak, it would be sooo very stressful. I like neat, and clean, but wow. That is a lot.
This is adorable and makes me smile...also makes me feel so much better about losing my wedding ring years ago at the gym. I don't wear my cheaper ones inside the gym anymore, but am now thinking a tattoo on my ring finger sounds like a great idea!
I'm watching old videos. We had been married just a little over a year, and one of my summer jobs was coaching my old neighborhood swim team. One night I went home and told my husband I lost my ring in the pool. Luckily it wasn't too terribly expensive and he bought me a new one.
Penn: I don't see the dishes I do most of the dishes I did most of the dishes Me: AAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAHAAAAAAAÀAA
Putting dishes in the dishwasher is not doing the dishes 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Invisaline on a coffee table with a dog near by….say buy buy. I repair dental appliances and Dog V Denture is my favorite challenge.
This battle has been raging for centuries....trust me.
Kim reminds me of a Disney princess 👸 😂 Also we have a lot of car robbers in our neighborhood too. My dad literally leaves his really really nice Apple computer and iPad in the car and they don’t take it!!!! They take like 2$!!!! He also hates his car so he just wants them to take the whole car cause he also leaves his keys in there
It’s the end of the day. What would make me happy? Beer ,chicken ( TAKING OF MY PANTS IN THE MIDDLE OF THE KITCHEN!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😆😄🙂
I’m surprised you both survived till the end of the video 😂
If we find ourselves fighting about who does a particular house chore the most, that's a sign that we've been doing it for so long that the kids are now old enough to do it for us. Conflict solved.
Im the slob and my husband is the hovering cleaner! He will start putting the lego away WHILE the kids are still all sitting down playing with it!
So glad you stay together. You're a beautiful couple.
Feel for ya Kim. I’m right there with you.
Same as us, my hubby lost his ring when we went to snorkeling in Mexico!!!! . I ask why you bring your wedding ring?!?!? Jajajajaja
Almost all the cars in my complex was broken into. Mine, the glove box was open. I had nothing to steal back then and actually I was looking for a note saying "oh gosh, your life probably sucks more then ours!"
4:52 In Europe they do it (wearing a wedding ring) on the right hand Me, an European "we do? Wait, WHAT? Since when, what is this stereotype, have I missed something?"
Somehow I feel like these vlogs would have saved my marriage, lol. Naaahhhh!! 😂
My husband lost his ring 3 times too many years ago! Glad to know he is not alone!
My partner will put laundry on wash and just keep washing until he remembers that DRYING IS ALSO NEEDED! Our clothes are washed like 8 times then dried 3x because he is too lazy to flip laundry over. Or 20 loads of his laundry pile up till he asks me to pick up socks at wally world and I'm like no. Do laundry. Boom. 50 pairs of socks.
this is def. me, my car being filthy and my clothes removal in random places is probably what im known for that and being a spaz.