simple home, peaceful mind - a year of frugality and intentional living

Ok, so… this video is a bit all over the place, but it’s the beginning of a big project: a few weeks go my husband and I started a huge and in-depth journey of going through every item in our home to decide how to simplify, minimize our items (while prioritizing our art hobbies and baby supplies, of course) and embrace a new era of living more intentionally, with a focus on slowness, simplicity, and frugality - to prepare for times ahead when we take time away to be parents and both experience some drastic shifts in our careers in the near future. We’ve always been people that just putter about at home and don’t go out much or even travel often, we stay put for the most part and continue on quietly, but we wanted to use this year and encouragement to be just a bit more mindful each day, and build up our resources for unknown future times ahead. I hope this inspires you to spend some time working on projects you’ve been putting off, or just decluttering or simplifying. Next week will be an in-depth look at the process on our end, with hopes of inspiring any of you seeking to do the same in 2024 ❤️
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  • @TheCottageFairy
    @TheCottageFairy4 ай бұрын

    Ok, so… this video is a bit all over the place, but it’s the beginning of a big project: a few weeks go my husband and I started a huge and in-depth journey of going through every item in our home to decide how to simplify, minimize our items (while prioritizing our art hobbies and baby supplies, of course) and embrace a new era of living more intentionally, with a focus on slowness, simplicity, and frugality - to prepare for times ahead when we take time away to be parents and both experience some drastic shifts in our careers in the near future. We’ve always been people that just putter about at home and don’t go out much or even travel often, we stay put for the most part and continue on quietly, but we wanted to use this year to be just a bit more mindful each day, and build up our resources for unknown future times ahead. I hope this inspires you to spend some time working on projects you’ve been putting off, or just decluttering or simplifying. Next week will be an in-depth look at the process on our end, with hopes of inspiring any of you seeking to do the same in 2024 ❤️ 🕯Due to popular request, the candle Pixie Whispers is from Mythologie Candle Company: mythologiecandles.com/?ref=uBhiQtNDKFqsC4 I am making orange cranberry muffins in this video: sallysbakingaddiction.com/cranberry-orange-muffins/

  • @asouthernmrs.3714

    @asouthernmrs.3714

    4 ай бұрын

    We did this very thing when pregnant with our first child. I am not exaggerating when I say we must have given away or sold 75% of our belongings! I couldn’t believe how much I conformed to the consumer culture before becoming a mother, and I am so very grateful to my daughter for coming along and opening my eyes to it. Enjoy your simplicity journey. It feels so good to let the nonessential things go.

  • @user-kn4ju1td2q

    @user-kn4ju1td2q

    4 ай бұрын

    @TheCottageFairy DEAR thank you very much for your channel. perfect and beautiful!!!!!!thank you

  • @deborahavary5185

    @deborahavary5185

    4 ай бұрын

    Good Morning Sweetheart ❤️ This is An Awesome video as usual!!! I Think you were brought up in A Wonderful Loving family!!!💜🤗💜 I was brought up the same way!!!💜🤗💜 I wouldn't change A Thing!!!💗🤗💗 The Simple Life is The Best Life!!!💛🤗💛 You are SUCH A BEAUTIFUL PREGNANT LADY!!!💕🤗💕 Those muffins Look SO Yummy Delicious 😋 We Love y'all so very much sweetheart ❤️ Have A JOYFUL FUN FILLED DAY!!!💚💐💚 GOD IS SO AMAZING!!!🙏💙🙏💙

  • @naturegirl8944

    @naturegirl8944

    4 ай бұрын

    You really don’t know what love is until you have a baby. Your urge to protect this new life becomes all encompassing. A wonderful experience although a little scary due to the unknown will be the most joyful thing you both will have done…

  • @sumitales3701

    @sumitales3701

    4 ай бұрын

    Was waiting for you eagerly...nd here u are...and when the baby arrives I will be away for a while...dis is what u said in ur last video if m nt wrong...I was just recalling those lines bt anyway happy to see u ...take care paola❤❤❤.when is ur d day???

  • @maryb.6755
    @maryb.67554 ай бұрын

    I am a young-ish widow, and live alone in a nice, but modest rental home. I had a big clean out during 2023. For a full year I went through my home. Every room, every closet, every drawer, every cupboard. I got rid of 1,123 items in my home. I was very pleased with my effort. I donated everything that was still in good condition and had to throw away very little. It was ridiculous that I owned so much stuff.

  • @rachelarroyo6050

    @rachelarroyo6050

    4 ай бұрын

    It would look so cool if you painted the door to look like wood planks. Lord knows you have the talent!

  • @czarina7786

    @czarina7786

    4 ай бұрын

    I’m 64 1/2 divorced. Doing the same in second round since selling the house and having my own townhouse. It’s very rewarding to get rid of stuff. Paying down a bit of debt before Soc Security at 67.

  • @livinginthealgarveportugal3357

    @livinginthealgarveportugal3357

    4 ай бұрын

    Lovely vlog gives me inspiration…love from Portugal 🇵🇹

  • @cuppatea4466

    @cuppatea4466

    4 ай бұрын

    @@rachelarroyo6050 or maybe even just strip the door down to its wood and stain it to match the other wood. Because the house is a sort of homey cottage with lots of plants and wood around. I think that would look beautiful if the door was just in natural wood.

  • @Catlily5

    @Catlily5

    4 ай бұрын

    Good job! I wish I could do that.

  • @alexlamia9946
    @alexlamia99464 ай бұрын

    I’m in my 20s and live with my parents. I’ve lived in this house and had the same bedroom since I was a small child. My aunt, who is disabled, moved in with us. She’s been staying in our living room for now. And I’ve been working hard, going through all of my belongings and moving them (what I’m keeping) upstairs to a bedroom. It’s technically the attic, but it’s nice. And I’m excited about moving up there. My aunt will take my old bedroom, which is on the main floor. She’s a sweet person, and I don’t mind doing this for her.

  • @dragonfly9209

    @dragonfly9209

    4 ай бұрын

    Sounds wonderful that you will have the attic for yourself. If I was young and still at home with my parents---I would prefer it. It would be more private, and you can make it your own little sanctuary. There's so many things you can do to make it a very cute and cozy space. Keep watching creative channels like this one, to come up with some good ideas.

  • @quinn-wf3kk

    @quinn-wf3kk

    4 ай бұрын

    What a wonderful thing to do for a beloved aunt. Bless your heart and I hope your attic room will be cozy.

  • @annalaren

    @annalaren

    4 ай бұрын

    bless u for your generosity & kindness ❤

  • @roxybennett3964

    @roxybennett3964

    4 ай бұрын

    This is the right thing. I can’t imagine how terrible she must feel being sick and perhaps a burden but people love her and don’t mind. I’m sure. You are amazing you will be very blessed for being unselfish and doing this sacrifice. You will be taken care when I’ll or old age. Karma. ❤ God bless you.

  • @Natalia-pc7fm

    @Natalia-pc7fm

    4 ай бұрын

    You will never regret such a lovely gesture, an act of love to someone in need.

  • @rubyrein588
    @rubyrein5884 ай бұрын

    I want to admit sth...whenever i feel down and depressed i watch your videos they're literally my therapy:)

  • @MindfulMe-vg8xh

    @MindfulMe-vg8xh

    4 ай бұрын

    Same

  • @loripringle1018

    @loripringle1018

    4 ай бұрын

    That is the reason i tuned in today as well.

  • @VillageGirlss

    @VillageGirlss

    Ай бұрын

    😊😊

  • @evanagib9462
    @evanagib94624 ай бұрын

    I went through hard times when i lost my parents in 4 months 😢and i have 1 disabled sister need to look after her with no support because she is not Citizen and i can't get any support from the government. Have a husband doesn't care about me and teenager boy don't expect too much from him. I went through all this hard times by myself. The only support was God gives me strength & peace. When i am really feeling down watching your videos made me feel up and keep me moving on. Thank u so much for sharing. God Bless U forever ❤❤Love u

  • @LinorMilan

    @LinorMilan

    4 ай бұрын

    Wow virtual hug!! Stay strong my dear.

  • @roseg1333

    @roseg1333

    2 ай бұрын

    Wow that’s amazing! Keep going you got this and God’s got you never fear he is always by your side till the end of days peace be with you 🙏🏼❤️🕊️✝️💕

  • @VillageGirlss

    @VillageGirlss

    Ай бұрын

    😊😊

  • @carrad123456

    @carrad123456

    Ай бұрын

    Strength and love ❤

  • @SeaTurtle515
    @SeaTurtle5154 ай бұрын

    Paola, you are even more beautiful and glowing with your pregnancy. And yes, pregnancy and children do cause us to change in many ways, it’s a whole new magical experience. Bravo to you guys for pursuing a frugal, simple lifestyle, like restoring your door instead of it going to a landfill. I am 68 and I love my simple life, it’s where all the true blessings are found; family, nature, good books and good food! Thank you for another peaceful, inspiring and visually beautiful video. 🌿

  • @JenFlutterby

    @JenFlutterby

    4 ай бұрын

    Simple life is so lovely. ❤

  • @TheCottageFairy

    @TheCottageFairy

    4 ай бұрын

    Aw ❤ Thank you so much!! I appreciate the lovely message

  • @LinorMilan

    @LinorMilan

    4 ай бұрын

    I just need to stop spending too much time on my phone (but I am too addicted) and it would be the perfect simple calm life I imagined

  • @sharonseal9150
    @sharonseal91504 ай бұрын

    Motherhood is a great gift, one that is life changing. Your love for your child will transform you without you even trying. It is already beginning. I love that you are working on finishing little details of your "nest" - as soon as you began talking about the door I immediately saw it with hand painted pine boughs and pine cones and a squirrel perched in one corner. Looking forward to seeing what you settle on.

  • @roblebby3765
    @roblebby37654 ай бұрын

    I am retired and live alone. I have been in my house for 10 years now and I have become painfully aware of how I have collected and accumulated things - things that I no longer want or need. So, yes, I am in a major spring cleaning of my own. I can honestly say it is such a freeing feeling to experience the transformation. On another note, I am very intrigued by your husband's crystal collection. I live near the Great Smoky Mountains in East Tennessee and I don't believe we have those here, but it is certainly a good place to keep an eye out for other unique finds from nature! Thank you for the vlog and I hope that rest of your pregnancy goes well for you, your husband, and your child. I enjoy watching your videos from week to week.

  • @peggyduncanbaggenstoss5380

    @peggyduncanbaggenstoss5380

    4 ай бұрын

    In north Arkansas mountains there are crystals. The ones I have I picked up walking on trails. East Tennessee probably have crystals.

  • @jayneanderson8057
    @jayneanderson80574 ай бұрын

    After a long day of watching my twin grandchildren, I came home to a package I was so looking forward to. My Cottage Fairy Book I have treated myself to. I too have spent my life living carefully,,,choosing how I most want to spend my time and money. I was blessed to be able to stay home with my children and raise them and now to help with my grandchildren. We live in a simple home on the shores of Lake Michigan and we feel so blessed. Thank you for sharing all you do. I can't wait to sit down and enjoy my new book.

  • @sheilavanduynfote5539
    @sheilavanduynfote55394 ай бұрын

    Being a mother is the greatest gift you will ever receive❤️. Just when you think you have found love, the love you will feel the moment you hold this precious baby it hits you like a ton of bricks. You will remember everything that involved the birth. My daughter is 47 and my son is 39 I still remember that first look, touch and first cry. I really enjoy every video. May you have a Blessed day❤️❤️❤️

  • @annettemills3067
    @annettemills30674 ай бұрын

    It's so nice Paola what your saying about your lovely plans is just what I read from the Bible this morning " The plans of the diligent one surely lead to sucess" (Proverbs 21:5) ❤❤

  • @vickigunnpermaculture1976
    @vickigunnpermaculture19764 ай бұрын

    While I was watching your lovely video, I had a sudden thought - you could create an amazing and beautiful children's book! Your video is so gentle and calming, it cheered me up. And yes, it inspired me.

  • @hughdfukairs1768
    @hughdfukairs17684 ай бұрын

    Every moment to come is unknown, but within each moment is the truth of simply being.

  • @lauramonahan9343
    @lauramonahan93434 ай бұрын

    Lovely video. Simplicity and frugality bring so much freedom, bravo to you! Newborns need very little in the way of "stuff", too, but it's quite easy to get caught up in thinking they do. Best wishes, I know in my heart you'll do well.

  • @user-ex9cs9up8b
    @user-ex9cs9up8b2 ай бұрын

    Thank you. Your videos are like meditation for me. It's quiet time, nature, reflection. 🌸

  • @Woodsgal59
    @Woodsgal594 ай бұрын

    "... they just keep growing, putting what energy they have into life, because for them there is no point to existing if you can't grow. It's an absolute must". That's life in a nutshell, isn't it? Love it! Thanks as always lovely Paola for sharing with us! Love and hugs!!

  • @sophiaisabelle0227
    @sophiaisabelle02274 ай бұрын

    You look absolutely stunning. Rest assured you'll always have our support no matter what.

  • @24Jeeya
    @24Jeeya4 ай бұрын

    When you simplify... box the things you may pass down to your daughter. Now that mine is 17, it's a joy to see her in my old things. Of course, she doesn't favour my favourites and wears stuff differently. But O, the joy!

  • @coletteg.4548
    @coletteg.45484 ай бұрын

    Motherhood is the most beautiful gift God gives us , I think. You’ll never love anyone like you will your child. It’s a love like no other.

  • @tedpreston4155

    @tedpreston4155

    4 ай бұрын

    Just admiring Paola's baby bump is enough to convey some of the joy of motherhood to those of us who will never know it firsthand! Paola seems to convey joy in everything she does!

  • @connieboylan9159

    @connieboylan9159

    4 ай бұрын

    Motherhood is not for everyone

  • @tedpreston4155

    @tedpreston4155

    4 ай бұрын

    @@connieboylan9159 Nope. It's not for my my household. My wife didn't want to bear children, and I didn't want to pass my genes. Match made in heaven! 🙂 But Paola wears her motherhood magically, and I'm glad she's passing on her genes!

  • @CherylAnderson0

    @CherylAnderson0

    4 ай бұрын

    It is a gift from God. A miracle of God.

  • @dragonfly9209

    @dragonfly9209

    4 ай бұрын

    @@connieboylan9159 In my opinion--every woman is a "mother", whether she's borne children--or not. It's a loving, nurturing spirit that is part of being female. My childless, middle-aged daughter is one of the greatest mothers I've ever known. Her tender, devoted care that she has always exhibited toward her nieces and nephews, her pets, even plants---every living thing...is the universal mothering spirit that is inherent in the female nature.

  • @mairishkar
    @mairishkar4 ай бұрын

    Only keep the things that bring you joy!

  • @Sue-np9fp
    @Sue-np9fp4 ай бұрын

    Paola Your videos are absolutely breathtaking, I love them. You are so beautiful, natural, and true in your philosophy of simple living and 'treading gently, on the earth'. You are an inspiration! Love the bunnies, love your dog and little cat! Thank you for the joy you bring! love sue xxx

  • @user-qh8nh7oe6d

    @user-qh8nh7oe6d

    3 ай бұрын

    'Trading gently on the earth' The world needs millions more Paolas.

  • @islanding-salishsea
    @islanding-salishsea4 ай бұрын

    Yes, spring is in the air! You look radiant! I am also going through a decluttering phase. For years neighbors in my small island community have been giving me lovely cast off items from their homes which I’ve squirreled away for potential use in my own home build. Now I’m finally working on the interior, and can accurately assess each item and whether it will actually work in my new space. Next month we’ll have a community flea market, so all my unused items will be able to go to other homes in the community to be recycled yet again.

  • @thekindmystic
    @thekindmystic4 ай бұрын

    The frolicking spring fairy is now a fairy mother🥺❤

  • @jannybranciforte9295
    @jannybranciforte92954 ай бұрын

    So beautiful, Paola, your home with the lace curtains and beautiful colors, your soul, Luke’s Chrystal’s, it’s all magical. Thank you always for every episode. 🙏💜🕊

  • @joanhenschel3511
    @joanhenschel35114 ай бұрын

    Ah, you're so radiant and beautiful, Paola! So good to see the sign of a little human snuggled against his mommy's heart. Enjoy this time of change, dear one. Looking forward to your next video. Hugs and best wishes from Mossel Bay in South Africa 🇿🇦

  • @jackiegagne2625
    @jackiegagne26254 ай бұрын

    I have been undergoing phases of 'decluttering' over the past 6 years. Following a big move (drastic) and the deaths of my mother and brother it made me realize (finally) that decluttering is not just about 'stuff'. For me, it is about myself, my value, and prioritizing the physical stuff and needs in and into my life. My next stage is drastic decluttering. I am not moving, but want to create more 'space' in my home. I am not going to refill it. I need a space for my new art passion (no need to buy, have it all) however and this process will enable it. 2024 for me is a mindful journey as well. One day at a time.

  • @christymason8253
    @christymason82534 ай бұрын

    How fortunate you are to have realized at your age that "less is more". I'm 70 now, and decluttering is a much greater task, what with all the years of gathering. But I'm working on it! A good book that inspired me is "The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning". (It's not morbid as the title might suggest, parts are very humorous! 😊)

  • @GloryBe123
    @GloryBe1234 ай бұрын

    I would suggest that you switch to beeswax candles that actually clean the air as other waxes emit particulates that go deep down into the lungs.

  • @Sharsung
    @Sharsung4 ай бұрын

    You’re nesting, how lovely and precious. Brings back happy memories. Thank you!

  • @theprimitiveblackhatsociet8274
    @theprimitiveblackhatsociet82744 ай бұрын

    I understand what you are doing and how you want to live. In the past I had the big life, big job, big house, big car, even lived in a big city. With all I had the one thing I was not...was happy. My husband and I had grown apart and were no longer on the same page. We went our separate ways. 10 years later at age 50 I met my now husband; we have been together for 15 years. We live a simple life in a 4-room house in the mountains of NC. I retired early and spend my time in my art studio. I have been living a frugal life and want to make it even more so. I have been spending the past month looking at my home and seeing where I can simplify it even more.

  • @brendastratton1306
    @brendastratton13064 ай бұрын

    I am downsizing my home in a big way. My husband passed away in September 2022. For several years prior to his passing, I was his sole caregiver. At the same time, I was also ill, so all of my effort went to taking care of him. In the time since, I have been focused on getting myself healthy, including several surgeries. All that to say that it has been several years since I had the ability to go through my home and rid myself of the things that are no longer needed. It is going to take some time, but I look forward to clearing things out. Most of what I clear out will be donated.

  • @KENTUCKYUSA1

    @KENTUCKYUSA1

    4 ай бұрын

    You have been through so much. As a 76 year old, I feel for you. Life is a journey and some of the paths are very difficult. i wish you well.

  • @user-lx4bz1xc7j
    @user-lx4bz1xc7j4 ай бұрын

    You could do a painted stain glass on the door window I've done a few projects like that in my home and it's fun and turns out beautiful

  • @viccimauldin9786
    @viccimauldin97864 ай бұрын

    I always love your videos. I love the simplicity and mindful life that you live. Thank you for sharing with us your thoughts and feelings. They help a lot. You look radiant pregnant Paola. You are on the right track. Hopefully you will share you child with us, but keeping in mind that he needs to be kept safe. Love to you and your family. ❤

  • @rhondabeaman1
    @rhondabeaman14 ай бұрын

    I appreciate your journey to simplify and declutter things no longer needed. Holding onto things can often indicate holding onto the past in a nonproductive way that can block growth. I am trying to do that too and your video softly supports me❤ Sending 💕love

  • @Englishroserebecca
    @Englishroserebecca4 ай бұрын

    Love your hairstyle Paola and the inside of your lovely home always calms me. ❤

  • @bryonmacpherson1470
    @bryonmacpherson14704 ай бұрын

    Thx Paola. You have a baby bump! Cheering you on from here. Let us know when you start feeling little kicks!

  • @gladysperez8156
    @gladysperez81564 ай бұрын

    I’m just doing spring cleaning and it’s helping me declutter the small closets I have in my two bedroom apartment in the city I’m located. I’ve listened to Mrs. Sylvia Ahora, and she indicated to me that washing the dishes right after I used it became so simple and less tedious than when I piled them up. Living intentionally and frugality is the ways to go in this fast paced world. Enjoy your beautiful motherhood. When I was pregnant almost forty years ago, I had treasure every moment ( almost , not the morning sickness). Blessed 🙏

  • @kathylibby3676
    @kathylibby36764 ай бұрын

    When I saw the purple door, my reaction was that it was a delightful color! If it were mine, I wouldn't change it.

  • @user-cd8dk3gd7v
    @user-cd8dk3gd7v3 ай бұрын

    It's the kindest blog I have ever seen. Can't stop admiring it! You are going to be an excellent mother! Lots of love from Russia ❤

  • @debiebrumley3104
    @debiebrumley31044 ай бұрын

    I have just retired and finally decluttered my entire home and the feeling of relief is wonderful !

  • @dianamarie1652
    @dianamarie16524 ай бұрын

    I love how you have transformed your home into a beautiful, warm, lovely cottage 🏠 the eggs are beautiful! I have been decluttering as well. It’s amazing how quickly we consume things! Thanks for sharing with me 💖💐🌹🧁

  • @leannehendrickson376
    @leannehendrickson3764 ай бұрын

    ..... Meaning...you ARE Authentic... You be who you are.... I Love that about you...

  • @DianEnglish56
    @DianEnglish564 ай бұрын

    Enjoy your videos so much. I will also be simplifying this spring as I am feeling overwhelmed with the clutter around me.

  • @Cindy-bee
    @Cindy-bee4 ай бұрын

    You can paint the glass window in your door. There are product that look like lead but are easy to mold. With your artistic talent it could be simple but beautiful. The best part is you can remove it if you get tired of it. Even glue will give you a frosted look when it dries.

  • @phinesdaughter1737
    @phinesdaughter17374 ай бұрын

    Watching your videos always makes me feel so relaxed and settled - thank you ❤️

  • @thecottagewitch
    @thecottagewitch4 ай бұрын

    I’ve been cleaning for the past two days. My son is at school. But I have yet to work on my closet… Thank you for the inspiration, and the reminder to get to that closet!

  • @marciamellow1211
    @marciamellow12114 ай бұрын

    I am 72 yrs old, and my thinking is opposite of yours.I am a artist, in many ways..my home is filled with beautiful things, I love collecting, very chosen items... no clutter, not sure That word is used in a right way sometimes..my home in very clean balanced and Interesting. Even at my age, I am interested in discovering beautiful items for my yard and home.. I hope I have many years of collecting, staying healthy and enjoying my life.I am very grateful and blessed..❤

  • @TheCottageFairy

    @TheCottageFairy

    4 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing - my intention as well is to be thoughtful about the items I have in my home, for me it’s not about getting rid of everything, instead valuing and keeping what I love and enjoy ❤

  • @junejunejuniejune

    @junejunejuniejune

    4 ай бұрын

    its all about intention! Whats right for one, may not be right for another. My dad is also a collector of things, but its overwhelming, and he often does not know what he has, because he has too much. I am now at the age where I find myself very happy with what I have, but want to edit down these things, because I couldn't possibly use it all, and it can be better loved elsewhere. I also find that by editing down what I have, I can better enjoy and treasure what really brings me joy.

  • @shannonodell6207
    @shannonodell62074 ай бұрын

    I so enjoy your videos. They bring memories of the life we had as a couple preparing ourselves and our home for first baby. We lived for many years in rural, forested, hilly upstate NY. Lots of concerns by our generation of preserving history and nature. Loved taking our babes in arms for hikes and attending bluegrass festivals. My first born is nearly 40 now. Thank you for this sweet, tender egg gathering, muffin making and eating moment. You are loved by many, including me! ❤️

  • @merryfergie
    @merryfergie4 ай бұрын

    7:58 I appreciate what you said here. Even as an older person, I do my best to check in within self authenticity

  • @darviecampbell2763
    @darviecampbell27634 ай бұрын

    March first starts my Spring cleaning yearly. It's a renewal of sorts, a refreshing in the heart and soul as well as the home!

  • @jeanmullins3284
    @jeanmullins32844 ай бұрын

    ❤❤ The muffins look so yummy. Love your husband's crystal collection. Your hanging herbs and flowers brought back fond memories for me of picking herbs and flowers most everywhere I went as a young adult. I would stick them over my visors in my VW bug. It was so full ......I loved it!! You make a beautiful expecting lady. May many blessings come your way.❤❤

  • @itsmewende
    @itsmewende4 ай бұрын

    After your video telling how you all were raised, there's no doubt in my mind, you are going to be the most wonderful of mom's. Speaking of your artwork, curious if the nursery will have some nature mural. I can see the baby being looked after by bunnies, fox, deer & birds.

  • @user-zh5zy2gr2j
    @user-zh5zy2gr2j4 ай бұрын

    You look lovely, Paola. Thank you for the new insparing video! ❤

  • @Mountain_Climb
    @Mountain_Climb4 ай бұрын

    Yes to spring cleaning. I had not stepped into my pottery studio (basement of my home) since November. It was a mess! I spent the last couple of weeks, making it a space that I enjoy working in.

  • @francescawollaston2227
    @francescawollaston22274 ай бұрын

    Dear Paola, you look radiant and at peace with yourself and the world ❤ just want you to know how much we all love and appreciate the beautiful person you are. A fabulous journey awaits when the birth of the fairy prince graces your lives. Xx sending love from Australia. Francesca

  • @ladyquinn2559
    @ladyquinn25594 ай бұрын

    You are so lovely in that pink!! I am also changing inwardly and outwardly, making my home and finances more supportive. There is a Taoist saying “The root’s stability makes possible the leaf’s communion with the air.” (Waterway,translated by Crispin Sartwell), so I am calling this phase “tending the roots”.

  • @kimberlystone3987
    @kimberlystone39874 ай бұрын

    Helllo Paola.. Your voice it self is so refreshing, restoring, And of course calming ❤❤

  • @elutkapestka8533
    @elutkapestka85334 ай бұрын

    All the best to you and your family Paola, I soooo enjoy your videos, they are breath of tranquility and peace!!❤

  • @dona62851
    @dona628514 ай бұрын

    I just LOVE your channel! Wishing you love, hope, and positive energy for the new baby! You are going to be a great mommy!!

  • @mariaisabelmunoz1655
    @mariaisabelmunoz16554 ай бұрын

    Hermoso hogar! Hermosos cristales🎉 Cuidese y cuide a su guawuita (bebe) 🎉 Un abrazo desde Chile😊❤

  • @lisamurray7086
    @lisamurray70864 ай бұрын

    After the first of the year I began going through our historical bungalow to clean and declutter. It’s amazing how many things you can easily let go. I find I have to do it in stages because decision fatigue sets in if I try to do too much in a session. I feel so much freedom and it reminds me how much I have to be thankful for! I have found if I have to spend too much time justifying why I should keep something it usually means it should go. Happy decluttering! ❤

  • @sheryldelind2628
    @sheryldelind26284 ай бұрын

    I, too, am purging as I have accumulated so much over 64 years. We have downsized homes a couple of times over the past decade and have found that the purging has not kept in step with the loss of square footage. You inspire me in so many ways and love the happy and motivated way I feel each time I watch your lovely videos. You are so beautiful and radiant as you grow your precious baby boy. Best wishes to you in the months ahead and I will think of you very fondly as I gather my goods for the Mission and Goodwill. 🙏✨💛

  • @Colorado617
    @Colorado6174 ай бұрын

    Perfect timing! Synchronicity! At 76 and partially disabled I’m learning it’s quite alright to take things slower and to take frequent breaks! I live in a small Victorian that was built in 1907 and I have lived here over 35 years and have accumulated quite a lot. Things I used to love no longer evoke the same feelings within me or are no longer useful to me. I’ve been decluttering on and off since the first of the year, took a bit of a break and am now ready to continue on! I’ll look forward to your next video in hopes of being inspired and encouraged. Do take good care as you navigate these new waters! 😊

  • @alanmralphsralphs7434
    @alanmralphsralphs74344 ай бұрын

    Lovely reminder to slow things down and simplify as we cross these big thresholds. And what better way to elevate the senses (within and without) than those freshly baked cranberry muffins 😍

  • @zoy8779
    @zoy87794 ай бұрын

    your voice makes me feel relaxed .be simple be true be here are the most meaningful goals at all . with u i can feel that so well .thank you for your simplicity ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @kimulm0619
    @kimulm061920 күн бұрын

    Frugality is a very good thing.Luv all your videos Paola,you have a knack for doing it well.❤

  • @amandajohns1299
    @amandajohns12994 ай бұрын

    I too have been simplifying. I finally went through my closet going through all clothes and things. I too had many clothes that brought back memories of a time in my life that was not happy. And so I let them go to a local charity where someone would find them anew and bring happier memories for them. It was very freeing and to go through our apartment and have only things that are of importance is fun too. I too am an artist and book lover so my whimsy and books have stayed with me as well. I hope you enjoy your going through like I did and I look forward to seeing your video. P.S. The small amount of childhood sentimental things I have, I kept. I hope you keep yours too....❤

  • @annapugh2222
    @annapugh22224 ай бұрын

    You are even more lovely these days! I love the clothes and colors. Motherhood is a lovely time. Thank you for including us as you bake and live each day to the best of heart. Anna

  • @teresaplew7714
    @teresaplew77144 ай бұрын

    Yes I am doing spring cleaning little by little. My little dog companion of 15 years just passed away and I feel that it's a time to let go. Much love to you and yours Peola

  • @janetclaireSays
    @janetclaireSays4 ай бұрын

    (I'm wondering if my comments are visible here, can anyone tell me? I seem to be having some trouble with KZread.) Instead of simplifying for Spring I seem to be drawn to buying new crystals!` I wish I could find them around where I live. I think a terra cotta paint will look great on your door. Paint can make such a difference and you're inspiring me to do some painting. You're muffins looked delicious!

  • @dragonfly9209

    @dragonfly9209

    4 ай бұрын

    Your comment is visible Janet. I too, have gotten a sudden interest in finding some beautiful crystals.

  • @Joanneofarc360
    @Joanneofarc3604 ай бұрын

    Thank you for your sweet spirit. I really enjoy watching and listening as I do my own chores. I feel that as I work alone, I am accompanied. I love you life perspectives. They help to ground me as well.

  • @molinajoseph7315
    @molinajoseph73152 ай бұрын

    You have a very creative mind. Can't wait to see the things you create for the baby. God bless you. 🙏🥰

  • @lindawoltz6058
    @lindawoltz60584 ай бұрын

    My husband and I both have started cleaning out/reorganizing things and it always feels good to do so. A suggestion for “dressing up” the window in your front door, or any window, is faux stained glass. I purchased several kits nearly 30 years ago and had great success with them. You essentially use a pattern and paint on the glass, with light still coming through but also giving you privacy. The paint dries like a thin film of plastic, so peels right off if you decide at some point you don’t want it. Doesn’t harm the glass at all. There is usually faux leading included as well. Wishing you and your family the best year ever😊

  • @mch12311969
    @mch123119694 ай бұрын

    In anticipation of the future relocation, I have started doing a clean out of my apartment. The last time I did this was ten years ago after my wife passed away. One would be amazed at how much stuff one accumulates in ten years' time even without trying. Relocation aside, I am trying to focus on decorating in a style that reflects my present self.

  • @metislamestiza3708
    @metislamestiza37084 ай бұрын

    the terracotta color for the door is a wonderful choice with regard to your green walls. i appreciate you sharing links to treats that you make also! you are glowing with motherhood, and i remember that cleaning/organizing realm too. we were selling our old house and i put in new kitchen flooring close to my due date! your videos are such a treat always Paola. thank you for your honesty and sharing

  • @moonstone-mama
    @moonstone-mama4 ай бұрын

    I too have gone through rapid change and big challenges this winter. I barely recognize myself, coming out at the other end. Amplified by spring fever, I felt a good wardrobe clean out was in order. Donated a big bag of it to charity, and I don't regret a single thing. Simplifying feels like coming back to base with our core values and desires. That's how I experience it.

  • @evangeline3152
    @evangeline31524 ай бұрын

    I think the terracotta paint will be lovely. You are absolutely glowing. I hope this means you are over morning sickness. You look healthy and beautiful.

  • @grandmad3823
    @grandmad38234 ай бұрын

    Your baby is so blessed to have you as a mama. It's going to have an incredble childhood! Love watching your nesting.

  • @ninazapalaENTP
    @ninazapalaENTP4 ай бұрын

    Love the terracotta color for the door. Maybe a cool color from the inner window frame...turquoise? Just an idea! As I tell a super creative soul, but I could not help myself. 🕊

  • @OaksEdwin
    @OaksEdwin4 ай бұрын

    wow Paola your artwork is SO BEAUTIFUL!!! I wish you and your baby the best! And your hubby too! Enjoy because they grow up so fast!

  • @user-dz7yc5fn4i
    @user-dz7yc5fn4i3 ай бұрын

    I like to follow your way of living . Simple and content . No worry of what's going on outside the world .

  • @sandracolombani9411
    @sandracolombani94114 ай бұрын

    Paola i always enjoy your videos they so beautiful & relaxing, i love when you show your little animal s & nature also Luke Chrystal rocks ect ect Paola take care of yourself my blessings to you and your family. 🏡🥚🐔💐❤️🙏

  • @lindagilmore2378
    @lindagilmore23784 ай бұрын

    Good for you for taking time off during this precious time. I worked all the way through both of my pregnancies, my youngest is your age. I wish I would’ve taken time off and enjoyed it. ❤

  • @andeechristian9436
    @andeechristian94364 ай бұрын

    These words I needed to hear exactly right now at a transitional time in my life. I am a minimalist, making things harder for myself than they need to be. I sense a turning point. Btw you are simply glowing, look very healthy and well. Nice to see you

  • @Ck-hp8zq
    @Ck-hp8zq4 ай бұрын

    When I see your house it feels like I’m watching a scene of warm spring nature ❤

  • @forrest_life23
    @forrest_life234 ай бұрын

    Hello beautiful soul Love your video as I am also like cleaning all my falt, reajusting, gibving a new life to some old furniture I don't throw away but still wanna use. One of my cupboard look so nice now that I custom it way more bettet than it was. Next step will be my kitchen. Bought so many little stuff to reorganise all my cupboards. Will even build a new shell so it will be neat and clean Spring is here now, way too much in advance, as I already picked my first wild garlic and I could see already so many wild primroses 😳 I hope spring will arrive soon for you too and take advantage of these last few weeks you still have for yourself. Love

  • @amberhawke
    @amberhawke4 ай бұрын

    Decluttering is important and necessary, but my observation is that it needs to be mindfully done with good communication. My wife and I decluttered years ago, and we used to have "discussions" regarding what to keep and what to get rid of. There were items of mine that I valued, yet bowing to pressure, it was decided to get rid of them. Years later, I still think about some of the items and wish that I still had them, they may be inconsequential to others, but to me they were important. We are going to be decluttering again soon, but with age and maturity have decided to move slower on getting rid of stuff and truly listening to each other. It helps that we have been doing mini cleaning/decluttering sessions, this has brought understanding between us. So, the short version is, don't rush the decluttering, take your time and communicate with each other when deciding what should leave.

  • @TheCottageFairy

    @TheCottageFairy

    4 ай бұрын

    That is great advice ❤️ thank you so much!

  • @Payton7904
    @Payton79044 ай бұрын

    I’ve been spring cleaning & declutter & organizing too. I’ve started with my kitchen island & donating a bag of pots & pans . It feels great to do it, have to finish my kitchen then move to my bedroom.

  • @Cynthia_CynnCytii
    @Cynthia_CynnCytii4 ай бұрын

    You are truly inspiring, I need to de clutter my mind so that I can de clutter my home, thank you for your videos ❤️❤️🥰🥰

  • @giulianasani8448
    @giulianasani84484 ай бұрын

    Thanks dear Paula!you are so precious! I appreciate your videos solo muchi!❤

  • @carolgregg5714
    @carolgregg57144 ай бұрын

    Paola…thank you 🙏🏼you truly are a wonderful young woman…and an old soul❣️

  • @AxleMoxly1511
    @AxleMoxly15114 ай бұрын

    I'm amazed by the effect your videos have on my mind. It's a peace that fills my day, it's incredible!

  • @kizzymulcaster6057
    @kizzymulcaster60574 ай бұрын

    I love your whimsical decorations art 🎭🎨 and wisdom. ❤ Hope your getting enough rest your a busy pregnant bee by the sounds of everything your doing 🐝 Make sure you rest and enjoy your pregnancy sending well wishes and lots of good luck and happiness for yours and your families future all the way from the lake District uk ❤🌍

  • @KatinkaPonders
    @KatinkaPonders4 ай бұрын

    My life is up in the air, and this hit home. Looking at what I no longer need and not to hold on just because of the story it represents. I am so excited for your new chapter.

  • @ny2phillyholloway592
    @ny2phillyholloway5924 ай бұрын

    That glow is everything it's so beautiful. I too ill begin my spring cleaning soon. I love your husband's crystals in their natural state. Que Dios te bendiga mija💖💯

  • @Yeodoongiiie
    @Yeodoongiiie4 ай бұрын

    you look SO ADORABLE 🥺 in your pink shirt/dress and your growing belly 💕 it looks so good on you dear.

  • @miltongurl28
    @miltongurl284 ай бұрын

    You look so beautiful! That blush tunic top is just gorgeous on you. Simplifying is a great idea right now - that teeny little person will take up a lot of space in your home. It’s quite surprising! Lol! You’re nesting! How exciting! 🤗☺️🪹

  • @Lydarose63
    @Lydarose634 ай бұрын

    Our inexpensive front door is painted a terra cotta color-we love it! Yours will be beautiful whichever color you choose!

  • @tammylee6342
    @tammylee63424 ай бұрын

    I have spent the last several months paring down and getting rid of things that no longer serve me and my life now. It feels so good to minimize and move toward having more open spaces while eliminating the clutter!

  • @alexisrowan9948
    @alexisrowan99484 ай бұрын

    I watch your videos every morning getting ready for work. I love watching your life and hope to create mine like yours. Thank you so much for being so such an inspiration to me. It is my favorite part of the morning!