Simple 3 Step Formula for Setting Goals I ACTUALLY Do

This is the first time I've ever put true effort into setting goals and it's taken me at least 6 months to get the basics down. In this video I share the most underrated parts of setting goals with good values that have slowly shown me endless possibilities 🌈
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For the skip aheaders or referencers:
Intro 0:00 - 0:23
Seasoned 0:24 - 1:00
Choosing values 1:01 - 2:29
Good vs bad values 2:30 - 3:06
Defining values 3:07 - 4:11
Writing goals 4:12 - 6:42
Smarter goals 6:43 - 8:10
Considering capacity 8:11 - 9:41
Share a goal! 9:42 - 10:19
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  • @risepandora
    @risepandora10 ай бұрын

    I have no idea how I found your channel, but I LOVE your content! Thank you for simple and effective ways to approach planning ❤

  • @isirlasplace91
    @isirlasplace9110 ай бұрын

    I'm working on earning my bachelors degree in computer science while still working full time and being middle aged and having health issues. Setting Goals and I have never gotten along but I think it's because I never defined them specifically. And never made them match up to my values. So I'm willing to give your tips a try! Catch you in other videos to let you know how it's going!❤

  • @imarianafong
    @imarianafong9 ай бұрын

    Ok, a few thoughts on this. First, the youtube algorithm is failing me because I only found your (amazing!) channel yesterday! Second, this was THE BEST goal setting video I've ever watched. I love how you started with the values and shared some practical tools to clearly define them. Lastly, you editing is amazing and you are really funny! The real last one, I'm so glad you ship your stickers to Portugal, already bought a few 😁

  • @SimieIriarte

    @SimieIriarte

    9 ай бұрын

    glad we found each other! welcome to the clerb and thanks for your support!!

  • @guzelbsk
    @guzelbsk3 ай бұрын

    Your videos are so fun but they are also full of great information. Thank you so much, this is very inspiring 🤩

  • @vivienecost
    @vivienecost10 ай бұрын

    This video is AMAZING! I´ve being watching a lot of videos about planning and is usually a white dude in front of a white wall and stock footage. And its ok, dont get me wrong, but the level of creativity in this video is really special. Of course the content as well! I´m 35 and just 'went with the flow' ´til now, you know, surviving. But I´m getting off the autopilot and looking for a future working with things related to my values. Thanks for the video! XOXO from Brazil!

  • @SimieIriarte

    @SimieIriarte

    9 ай бұрын

    Welcome!! 🇧🇷

  • @claireburk3801
    @claireburk38015 ай бұрын

    The idea of analyzing values first has lead to me to rethink my 2024 goals. It's an interesting self review journey. I'm nowhere near finished, but I'm creating my daily task list from a different perspective already. Thank you for creating this videos. I really appreciate your unique vision & love your playfulness.

  • @shocol
    @shocol2 ай бұрын

    This is the best thing I’ve ever watched or read on goal achievement.

  • @elisabasta
    @elisabasta10 ай бұрын

    Challenge: every time you do not eat out, you put that money into the debt. 👀 I got a sort of special-treatment-for-broke-students with my (Chilean) college in which I could pay whatever money I had whenever I had it. I spent a lot of time working as a waitress back then. Every night I'd come home and pay whatever amount I had gotten that day in tips. It was _so_ rewarding. A bizillion tiny payments that meant less interest at the end.

  • @user-hr1wf7md6i
    @user-hr1wf7md6i9 ай бұрын

    nice background music

  • @Your_Lifestyle_Business
    @Your_Lifestyle_Business10 ай бұрын

    Hi Simie, totally with you about the importance of good values, which are realistic, purposeful, and within one's control, is highlighted. We should all review these before trying to set goals :)

  • @nerd26373
    @nerd2637310 ай бұрын

    We appreciate your effort and hard work. Keep working hard.

  • @mohsinakhalid
    @mohsinakhalid8 ай бұрын

    im so grateful to find people like you on this platform

  • @SimieIriarte

    @SimieIriarte

    8 ай бұрын

    🥹

  • @sofiaoliveira799
    @sofiaoliveira7999 ай бұрын

    Just discovered your channel and LOVED the video! I sometimes get an ick for creators talking about "self improvement" or ambicious goals, because most of the time they sound fake or unattainable. This video was very realistic and relatable for me! I already suspected, but now it's clear for me that I HAVE to have defined values. I've always had a hard time prioritizing things, and it's been negatively impacting my life, since I can't make choices, and get paralyzed. Defining top 3 values is def something i've been putting off for a long time, and now I think I'll be able to do so. Thank you!

  • @jirsadcassam
    @jirsadcassam7 ай бұрын

    hey, I’ve been struggling with setting and pursuing goals consistently because I always set them because they “seemed cool”. I just did the exercise you explained about defining my values, and was somewhat surprised by the results. this is the third video of yours that I watch since I just discovered your channel today. thank you so much for the practical, actionnable tips you give. it’s so much better to have an actual exercise about defining your values than a “find your why” statement lol. I hope on a later day I can comment again that I reached some goals thanks to you :) have a gay day 🌈

  • @SimieIriarte

    @SimieIriarte

    7 ай бұрын

    ✨🌈✨

  • @psychedianic
    @psychedianic10 ай бұрын

    excellent video! That background music is PERFECTION.

  • @andreafelipe2564
    @andreafelipe2564Ай бұрын

    Damn I'm so glad I found you, your humor is just priceless.

  • @ashleighgriffiths5102
    @ashleighgriffiths51023 ай бұрын

    Thank you for the tips and nice breakdown of steps! Really makes me put thought into goals. There is science behind not telling people your goals in advance, as it triggers the good feels that you'd get from achieving a goal - but before the goal has perhaps started, and thus potentially setting ourselves up for failure. Love how creative you are, in all videos! 🎉

  • @quentinjackson3778
    @quentinjackson37789 ай бұрын

    I would like to start off with saying thank you for your channel it help me so much. After watching your channel I went to Amazon and got one of those notebooks that you can scan and download then save to a flash drive and now my life seems a little bit easier 🎉 again I must say Thank you and God bless you for all you have taught me 😊

  • @fishsticks-McGee
    @fishsticks-McGee10 ай бұрын

    Just the video I was looking for. Been struggling with goal setting & I knew something was missing. That something is values! Would watch a whole vid on identifying values. Great stuff as usual ❤

  • @hellojennysan
    @hellojennysan10 ай бұрын

    I need to try this! Never thought about the values. I usually establish a lot of goals and most of them I still have not make them.

  • @Marci2110
    @Marci21106 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much! I always struggle with setting goals because I somehow don't know where I want to end up. Maybe it's because not being aware of my values. Definitely will give it a try!

  • @biglu823
    @biglu82310 ай бұрын

    Love your channel. Keep up the amazing work, can't wait for the next upload.

  • @davidjb4421
    @davidjb442110 ай бұрын

    Love your videos!!

  • @nataliecampbell-reid2340
    @nataliecampbell-reid23403 ай бұрын

    Not the pole 😂😂😂😂 informative and entertaining we love it

  • @carmenmuller901
    @carmenmuller90110 ай бұрын

    just what I needed 😊

  • @nelesnotes
    @nelesnotes10 ай бұрын

    This was really helpful (and fun!). Thanks for sharing 😊

  • @CH-sk7jr
    @CH-sk7jr10 ай бұрын

    Love the content as always-to the point, challenging, realistic, and delivered with humor. Can’t wait to see the next in the series!

  • @SimieIriarte

    @SimieIriarte

    10 ай бұрын

    More to come! 👀

  • @MegShinagawa
    @MegShinagawa10 ай бұрын

    EXACTLY what I needed. Thank you. Took notes, time to actually do it 💪

  • @CheeseTheMelting
    @CheeseTheMelting10 ай бұрын

    Great video as always! It was a bit of a revelation to list values before goals, though now it seems obvious, heh. It never occurred to me before now to narrow values down first to make goals more achievable, but it makes perfect sense.

  • @catalinavajiac2181
    @catalinavajiac218110 ай бұрын

    I got so excited to see a new video! I love the idea of ranking values, I’d never thought of it that way before. Keep it up ❤

  • @amydillardGypsySoul
    @amydillardGypsySoulАй бұрын

    Simie- I love your vids! Not only wise and concise, but hilarious! Thanks for the inspiration. I bet you can find a way out of that student debt without the pole lol! (Maybe posing for photos with tourists in the Spiderman costume?)

  • @SimieIriarte

    @SimieIriarte

    Ай бұрын

    thanks! I'm workin on it! (*not* the pole tho lol)

  • @agodfrey775
    @agodfrey77510 ай бұрын

    Awesome video! And timely for me. Setting some new goals for myself and you reminded of the basics, such as “SMART” goals and giving yourself permission to adjust your goals.😊Thank you!!

  • @alessandrajj8950
    @alessandrajj895010 ай бұрын

    Loving your vídeos! Hugs from Brazil! ❤

  • @crissol4628
    @crissol462810 ай бұрын

    Your content is so inspiring and I also have fun watching it, thank you!!!

  • @ClearBlueSky1
    @ClearBlueSky110 ай бұрын

    This was such a relevant video , thank you Simie ❤ ! Currently am working towards some external short term goals so I have to wait to try your goal setting exercise once I finish those !! But I'd absolutely love to see your videos on actually executing and achieving those goals ❤. I feel like this is a huge struggle for a lot of us , especially scheduling working towards these goals on a regular basis while also gauging our time and energy levels

  • @Dortiz8925
    @Dortiz892510 ай бұрын

    Another great video! 😂😂 the spidy outfit moment!

  • @amandaarnold560
    @amandaarnold56010 ай бұрын

    Love the content you post, and your voice is very soothing. ☺️

  • @catboy_official
    @catboy_official4 ай бұрын

    Your videos are really relaxing, thank you 🥺♥️

  • @Tradewindsvintagehi
    @Tradewindsvintagehi10 ай бұрын

    Your voice is so soothing❤️

  • @ishadee
    @ishadee6 ай бұрын

    Awesome video! Keep up the good work, appreciate you!

  • @anniemao-gonzalez8315
    @anniemao-gonzalez831510 ай бұрын

    Defining values works. I did this random values exercise yyyyyears ago and I wasn’t confident in my 3 values initially but the values I picked from a list of like 50 I chose because I assigned a personal meaning to them. I base so many decisions off my values. I’ll take this weekend to revisit and maybe add two more.

  • @nicoleburt4739
    @nicoleburt47398 ай бұрын

    I love your videos! You crack me go every time

  • @cg11687
    @cg116876 ай бұрын

    You're a lifesaver ♥️

  • @Katrose1293
    @Katrose12938 ай бұрын

    Another amazing and easy to understand video and I loved your editing in the video. It was so easy to follow along. And I definitely will try the method you explained for myself. Thanks :)

  • @jennbutterfly4448
    @jennbutterfly4448Ай бұрын

    I subscribed to help you get a little closer to your student loan elimination goal. Thanks for the inspiration 😊

  • @la6136
    @la61368 ай бұрын

    Girl you are hilarious I love your personality 😂

  • @koko.journal21
    @koko.journal2110 ай бұрын

    Love your diction! The music was a bit loud but I had no problem understanding your message 😊

  • @bloom4096
    @bloom409610 ай бұрын

    So happy the algorithm aliens guided me to your channel. Quirky, insightful and FUN! And….I bet that you can make $150.000 with a fun side hustle over the course of 4 years. POOF, student loans be gone! 😌🤓

  • @SimieIriarte

    @SimieIriarte

    10 ай бұрын

    woooo thanks for betting on me! I agree with you. POOF 💨

  • @borntwobeealive
    @borntwobeealive10 ай бұрын

    How can you be so serious and reasonable yet funny and entertaining at the same time?? Your videos are truly unique. What does TTYL mean?

  • @barbaravaltere2432

    @barbaravaltere2432

    9 ай бұрын

    TTYL - Talk To You Later - I guess

  • @SimieIriarte

    @SimieIriarte

    9 ай бұрын

    Talk to you later! Used to text that on t9 back in the day on my Nokia 😂

  • @user-te7zz8mv3x
    @user-te7zz8mv3x8 ай бұрын

    throughout my working life, i have never set realistic goals, let alone smarter goals! it’s probably the major factor that nudged me to take early retirement 😉 work was no longer aligned to my personal values. it’s funny i’m not learning to set smarter goals to make my retirement more creative 🤣

  • @Plookiss
    @Plookiss6 ай бұрын

    Love your videos. I'm going to start investigating in what my values are to me, to help with goal setting. What is the "secret source" you mentioned please, that the internet provides a list of values? I have seen your PDF you uploaded, are you referring to that please? Thank you so much.

  • @Plookiss

    @Plookiss

    6 ай бұрын

    1.08 timestamp.

  • @SimieIriarte

    @SimieIriarte

    6 ай бұрын

    ahhh this is going to be a video for later unfortunately. I'm glad you want to know tho!

  • @Plookiss

    @Plookiss

    6 ай бұрын

    @@SimieIriarte looking forward to it being released. Thank you

  • @Plookiss

    @Plookiss

    6 ай бұрын

    @@SimieIriarte looking forward to it being released. Thank you

  • @Consumer2
    @Consumer23 ай бұрын

    i watch a lot of goals setting video and read articles but I cant find the way of writing my goals and make a plan or system

  • @DAClub-uf3br
    @DAClub-uf3br10 ай бұрын

    I have tried this with my therapist. I am not been able to determines my values as everything seems to have the same importance.

  • @JRDInterno
    @JRDInterno8 ай бұрын

    I should listen to you more.

  • @Consumer2
    @Consumer23 ай бұрын

    still don't understand the value game

  • @philghammond
    @philghammond2 ай бұрын

    Always a good day when I stumble across a creator that I click with. Watched a couple of your videos this morning and love your brand of humour and outlook in general. G'day and best wishes from Canberra, Australia 🦘

  • @SimieIriarte

    @SimieIriarte

    2 ай бұрын

    why thank you! 🤠