Signs That Your Marriage Will Have Crisis | Kingsley Okonkwo

Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares 'Signs That Your Marriage Will Have Crisis '
Chapters
0:00 - 1:01 They prioritize the wedding over the marriage
1:01 - 4:04 They prioritize the union and not the relationship
4:04 - 6:13 They Prioritize Love over Learning
6:13 l- 8:46 They prioritize Speed over success
8:46 - 10:22 They prioritize autonomy over Authority
10:22 - 12:42 They Prioritize the externals over the internals
12:42 - 15:42 They prioritize Me over We
15:42 - 18:41 They prioritize intercourse over interview
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  • @akyemtabitha6951
    @akyemtabitha69512 жыл бұрын

    I've listened to your messages so much that I'm so confident that God won't let me fail in marriage.

  • @oyinkansolaola4598

    @oyinkansolaola4598

    2 жыл бұрын

    Honestly

  • @nanaesikweba8224

    @nanaesikweba8224

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen 🙏🏾

  • @Missp99

    @Missp99

    2 жыл бұрын

    He won’t. He got you in the palms of his hand

  • @ceciliatembo3790

    @ceciliatembo3790

    2 жыл бұрын

    For some reasons, I feel the same way too. The Lord should help us...

  • @EliasGenz

    @EliasGenz

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen. Praise God Me too

  • @balogunopeyemi788
    @balogunopeyemi7882 жыл бұрын

    Listening to you and reading your books has made me a better person in terms of dealing with relationships infact i have turned to a relationship counselor 🤣

  • @marvellousegunubi4470

    @marvellousegunubi4470

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same here😁

  • @mrokoro7237

    @mrokoro7237

    2 жыл бұрын

    When you marry you will understand better. Marriage will test your knowledge

  • @BrownSugarGirl80
    @BrownSugarGirl802 жыл бұрын

    A premarital workbook by pastor K and pastor M would be awesome 🔥

  • @bestofmylovewhoahwhoah3239

    @bestofmylovewhoahwhoah3239

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes pls pastor! 🙏🏽

  • @israelolorundare6140

    @israelolorundare6140

    2 жыл бұрын

    That would be awesome, something like a 30 day workbook

  • @accolyrobinson5913
    @accolyrobinson59132 жыл бұрын

    Exactly PK, a lot of people don't see the need for counselling. The level of neglect to learning these things is worrisome. Marriage matters are very delicate and sacred it'd be unwise to indulge with rushing emotions

  • @mbolebridget2565
    @mbolebridget25652 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Pastor.

  • @joyedeh3101
    @joyedeh31012 жыл бұрын

    God bless you so much Sir!

  • @esthermichael3119
    @esthermichael31192 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much pastor

  • @liz9664
    @liz96642 жыл бұрын

    Great teaching! Thank you #PastorK!

  • @GloriaSalasi
    @GloriaSalasi2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you pastor K

  • @bolanleajayi4757
    @bolanleajayi47572 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Sir, this was a real eye opener

  • @maxineagina
    @maxineagina2 жыл бұрын

    I am so glad I’m watching this before the season commences

  • @lovelynglory7319
    @lovelynglory73192 жыл бұрын

    I can't but thank God for all this knowledge. thank you sir and God bless you greatly.

  • @jenniferpfeffer3131
    @jenniferpfeffer31312 жыл бұрын

    EYE Opener!!! more Grace Man of God

  • @jasintamumba3738
    @jasintamumba37382 жыл бұрын

    Watching this now...so insightful ❤️❤️❤️

  • @idim9248
    @idim92482 жыл бұрын

    thank you sir, God bless you

  • @nnenniaifepe5073
    @nnenniaifepe50732 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Pastor Kingsley

  • @canadianlife5832
    @canadianlife58322 жыл бұрын

    God bless you Pastor Kingsley

  • @StanleyChibu
    @StanleyChibu2 жыл бұрын

    Powerful relationship message

  • @eseemasodje1485
    @eseemasodje14852 жыл бұрын

    I've garnered so much knowledge on relationship. Thanks sir!

  • @israelkenny1268
    @israelkenny12682 жыл бұрын

    God bless you so much for this sir! It's simply the best. And I must say you look great sir.

  • @spiritlife20
    @spiritlife202 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video Sir

  • @millicentubong5127
    @millicentubong51272 жыл бұрын

    God bless you Sir, I was really blessed and I learnt alot of which I'd implement in my relationship.

  • @trudywoody6584
    @trudywoody65842 жыл бұрын

    God bless you Pastor🙏 So much wisdom

  • @helenahelen8687
    @helenahelen86872 жыл бұрын

    God bless you papa. Was very insightful ‼️‼️‼️🙏🏾❤️

  • @hloniphilengcobo8967
    @hloniphilengcobo89672 жыл бұрын

    God bless u Pastor K...🙏❤

  • @munaikelvin2391
    @munaikelvin23912 жыл бұрын

    Wow. It's the wisdom I am getting. Blessings to you sir

  • @parfaitfurnishing4007
    @parfaitfurnishing40072 жыл бұрын

    God bless you so much sir. Thank you for this vidoe, more wisdom and grace to you and Pastor Mildred.

  • @favouredglow6275
    @favouredglow62752 жыл бұрын

    Learnt so much from this video. Thank you Papa

  • @harvesttimechannel3376
    @harvesttimechannel33762 жыл бұрын

    God bless you brother

  • @beattyalara7462
    @beattyalara74622 жыл бұрын

    God bless you paster for true teachings

  • @rosemaryumeh599
    @rosemaryumeh5992 жыл бұрын

    Lessons of life for a whole relationship. Thank you for these teachings Pastor K

  • @oyinkansolaola4598
    @oyinkansolaola45982 жыл бұрын

    How are you a huge blessing like this.Always opening our eyes to things we didn't even see.God bless you so much Sir and increase you.You continue to be relevant in Jesus Name

  • @nganjibelty5368
    @nganjibelty53682 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir

  • @deborahnkereuwem6165
    @deborahnkereuwem61652 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Pastor K. This is really a deal breaker. God bless you always

  • @mohrennie7921
    @mohrennie79212 жыл бұрын

    Always happy to watch your videos sir

  • @fitnesshub6769
    @fitnesshub67692 жыл бұрын

    God bless you pastor

  • @758mountainpeaks2
    @758mountainpeaks22 жыл бұрын

    thanks for this

  • @omolarapaul-shotunde6061
    @omolarapaul-shotunde60612 жыл бұрын

    God bless you and your wife in this great work that you are doing. You are a couple fulfilling God's destiny for your assignment in life and you will always have my prayers and support. Great man with great vision👍.

  • @estherchigonum4989
    @estherchigonum49892 жыл бұрын

    God bless you Pst K🙏

  • @joanneclarke4226
    @joanneclarke42262 жыл бұрын

    Talk talk talk talk get to know each other properly and ask plenty questions about each other....

  • @gloriambura1812
    @gloriambura18122 жыл бұрын

    This is one of my favorite conversation. God bless you pastor.

  • @okparammesoma1853
    @okparammesoma18532 жыл бұрын

    I learn alot from u sir.. More Grace

  • @Snqobss547
    @Snqobss5472 жыл бұрын

    Powerful man of God

  • @a_d_a_e_z_e
    @a_d_a_e_z_e2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Pastor K for always teaching us. Your teachings have actually helped someone like me who almost has no one to learn from. More grace sir!

  • @theupliftinghubwithtshegofatso
    @theupliftinghubwithtshegofatso2 жыл бұрын

    I thoroughly enjoyed this very much. It was so relatable. Thank you Pastor :)

  • @tataprecelakongnyuy9191
    @tataprecelakongnyuy91912 жыл бұрын

    Listening to your teaching has made me to improved move in building myself esteem before marriage.. Thank you Sir🙏

  • @emperor3355
    @emperor33552 жыл бұрын

    very helpful

  • @ericasewornu6041
    @ericasewornu60412 жыл бұрын

    Wow. That's so true. I too have always thought wrong on the blood-is-thinker-than-water saying. In fact the baby blood and the mother's blood do not mix. They only pick the traits. But in marriage like you said it there is that peculiar exchange. God bless you Pastor. I'm better dly for listening to you.

  • @Temitopelere
    @Temitopelere2 жыл бұрын

    That research on spending for the wedding and how long it will last is interesting 🤓🤓🤓

  • @MVPMoe4ever
    @MVPMoe4ever2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much sir for your constant teachings on relationships and marriages. I have learnt alot. I pray God continues to guide you and bless you and your family in Jesus name. Amen. Thank you sir.

  • @jessetanko1973
    @jessetanko19732 жыл бұрын

    Learn new stuff today

  • @eddycalyo8009
    @eddycalyo80092 жыл бұрын

    Well, believe in physical qualities ooo......in fact, it should be the first thing to look for in order to want to marry someone

  • @dorasamacquah6016
    @dorasamacquah60162 жыл бұрын

    Wow🙌🙌

  • @theodorasolomon6971
    @theodorasolomon69712 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir, you have really inspired me ever since i started watching your messages.

  • @ekomobongisemin
    @ekomobongisemin2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Pastor K, Pls sir, I have one question; can the things you listed in this video be worked on?

  • @noksify
    @noksify2 жыл бұрын

    My grandma asked me to not rush after getting engaged and believe me it gave me that chance to see who I was with and save my life (he wasn’t beating me, but I felt it In my spirit that it was a dead end) and future. And was he not trying to rush me?! I started to ask why? Why the rush? And the reasons changed every time and all of the reasons were transactional. This guy just wanted to look good (publicly) by marrying 😅

  • @judahlawani7057
    @judahlawani70572 жыл бұрын

    Good morning sir. In cases of matchmaking where the couple doesn't have the time to build the relationship due to the marriage, what can be done to make up for it?

  • @musondanguni3188
    @musondanguni31882 жыл бұрын

    Thats the mistake we usually tend to forget to look at to ask those questions

  • @franklin_chukwunenye7201
    @franklin_chukwunenye72012 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @TheOyeniya_Vlog
    @TheOyeniya_Vlog2 жыл бұрын

    Hello sir! Would you advise pairs of the same age range to get married or be in a relationship?

  • @rossynextv71
    @rossynextv712 жыл бұрын

    Pls how do we buy the course on proper pre marital cancelling? For both of us or how do we book the cancelling sessions with PK?

  • @judithsidi1087
    @judithsidi10872 жыл бұрын

    I have a question to ask bt I don’t how to do so that u wil see my question direct

  • @elishashappinesscampaign1597
    @elishashappinesscampaign15972 жыл бұрын

    Ps K,living in Sierra Leone,how can I get yr book.

  • @eddycalyo8009
    @eddycalyo80092 жыл бұрын

    Thanks sir......but are they supposed to the Holy Ghost or to men (mentors)?

  • @graceibelegbu189
    @graceibelegbu1892 жыл бұрын

    How can one enroll in your paid Counseling Sir? For married people.

  • @elishashappinesscampaign1597
    @elishashappinesscampaign15972 жыл бұрын

    Any way out to get them?

  • @osahonpride6653
    @osahonpride66532 жыл бұрын

    How do we book for a session

  • @jamesumoh23
    @jamesumoh232 жыл бұрын

    But lots of couple’s do start pre-marriage counseling after agreeing to get married and agreed/fixed dates

  • @graceibelegbu189

    @graceibelegbu189

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly. Some churches don't book you for counselling except you have a date.

  • @nnenniaifepe5073

    @nnenniaifepe5073

    2 жыл бұрын

    @James Umoh, I have learnt that it is better a broken engagement than a broken marriage. We need to learn to stop doing things to please people

  • @jamesumoh23

    @jamesumoh23

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@nnenniaifepe5073 I 100% agreed with you. However, my point was that most couples only start pre-marriage counseling after agreeing to get married and dates have been fixed. Secondly, most church counselors are not trained counselors except that they are married, pre-marriage classes are just prerequisites to this already 'fixed date wedding' without the REAL RELATIONSHIP counseling but ask them to pray out the issues. Please, also consider/read Grace Ibelegbu's point above.

  • @kojoaddai-frimping8581
    @kojoaddai-frimping85812 жыл бұрын

    “Hips, lips and fingertips” 😂😂

  • @janet3313

    @janet3313

    2 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams47582 жыл бұрын

    Do something. I can't hear

  • @ojobusayo4592

    @ojobusayo4592

    2 жыл бұрын

    I can't hear too

  • @joskyshams4758

    @joskyshams4758

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ojobusayo4592 They need to do something

  • @nalinibisnauth8491
    @nalinibisnauth84912 жыл бұрын

    My definition of a marriage: A union between one man and one woman, giving birth to boys and girls, to make the earth a paradise". Meaning no adultery nor fornicaters.

  • @radhiyamwaugali7175
    @radhiyamwaugali71752 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so.much pastor

  • @juliethelen172
    @juliethelen1722 жыл бұрын

    Thank you pastor K

  • @esthermatthew69
    @esthermatthew692 жыл бұрын

    Tnx alot sir