I wish Chidera was credited in the title or at least links to her socials tagged in the description bar!

I literally love you both so much! You have both been reminders of how dope I am as a black woman and to keep standing up for myself ❤❤❤❤ Excited to see!

It’s not bitterness, it’s wellness. ❤❤❤

I couldn’t love this conversation more. Mad respect and love for both of these brilliant women

Omg worlds colliding!!! Christmas came early!!! the way these two Black women have been FORMATIVE in my growth and understanding of myself, what it means to be a woman in the world, the different ways women experience the world, and how the world receives or rejects us and why. Ugh. Obsessed with you both. Thank you for everything you do- it’s not lost on me!!

I love her book what a time to be alone !!!! She’s amazing

@lady_icarus

7 ай бұрын

Same!!! This book and Amanda’s book are both I love!

@aeivivi

7 ай бұрын

On my nightstand! Loll

So true. One of the few consistently speaking up👏👏👏👏👏

I love this so conversation much! Please please do a part 2, and 3, and 4. Just do a whole other podcast together! It is sooo real during the process of elevation it feel isolating because very few talk this talk and walk this walk. Thank you for confirming and reminding that there is a community of leveled up women.

These two are what's called, "a meeting of the minds."❤❤

the importance of a filtration system analogy really got me! she kept hitting us with gems! x

OMG YES!!! Two faves together!!! Such fans of both and their insights! I have their books, listen to their podcasts, even watched Chidera’s Skillshare class. Both Amanda and Chidera are very empowering and inspiring. 💕

You two dropped GEMS today. GEMS. So much love to both of you and so much respect. Ya'll kept it REAL!

Amanda you and Ms. Chidera Eggerue dropped so many gems 💎 in this episode I was able to make a necklace, a brace, a rings, and a brooch. This episode was so yummy and good! Thanks for introducing me to Ms. Chidera Eggrue. She is so awesome!

This episode could not be more timely, especially in the wake of recent high-profile cases of DV & SA. Patriarchy harms us all. Period. It is incumbent on us to create new frameworks and ways of being and engaging where everyone feels seen, heard, understood, and loved in the way we desire. Excellent conversation, ladies! Please make a part two!

Can’t wait for part two!!! Loved this conversation. 💜🙏🏾

This is such a great conversation! In terms of the question "how do women contribute to patriarchy" I would like to take it a step further. Often times we hear the saying "mothers love their sons and raise their daughters". I've heard plenty of mothers go into great detail on how their expectations and rearing are different depending on the sex of the child. A girl, especially a little Black girl, is often unprotected and raised to be a nurturer as well as self sufficient. Meanwhile, the son learns very quickly if he steps out of line, the women in his family will cover him. They will make excuses or bail him out (literally and figuratively). Fast forward, these sons grow up to be abusive and disrespectful towards women. Instead of addressing the harm he caused or the abuse he perpetrated, other women begin to victim blame. They immediately question what could you have done better as a woman to prevent a man from lashing out. If the man that caused you harm is a family member, sometimes the women in the family get mad at you for speaking out against him. Women who contribute to patriarchy are often more upset with another woman standing up and speaking out than they are angry at the man for putting innocent women in danger. All of these behaviors teach men they will not be held accountable for their actions and they will be supported even in their wrongdoings. Thus the cycle of abuse and patriachy continue.

I love this. Women need to love themselves first. It's okay to be selfish and have standards. If anyone judges you, it says a lot about them and not you.

My bookshelf in physical form = this interview

This was so goooood! I know I'm late to this particualr upload, but it is TIMELY in my universe... thank you God for sending me here now!

I’m loving this conversation so much!! 🎉 cheers to both of y’all

Loved this conversation so much! Love both!! Part two soon pls 😊❤

Screaming!!!!! Epic!!!! Y’all make woman who says no to patriarchy breath!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

"Standards are a filtration system. If you don't have a Flitration system everything is gonna fall in." Could not be loud enough!!!

Such truth spoken; not male hatred at all! Simply, elevation of self as a woman!

This whole conversation was a yes yes yes my two favs giving giving giving, my mind searched for female minds that are superduper supernatural just constant growth & constantly growing. Thank you both for creating your platforms 💜🥳

What??? Amanda x Chidera im finished!!! Thank you ladies I love the both of you..😍❤❤

I respect them both and l love and appreciate this conversation.

Woke up on a Wednesday and was baffled that two of my favourite women podcasters collided and collaborated on an ep. Love love love you both, thanks for putting a battery in my back🔋❤

Yall were spittin on this one!

Sometimes i wish some people could see in person good relationship. It will change your mind and also your perspective in life

What does it say when a single woman is happier as she aged, compare to a man, he is happier with a woman. Ya’ll straight women, Protect Your Peace, Protect Your Space and Protect Your Time. - from a gay woman to straight women.

So much power in this conversation. PART TWO POR FAVOR

so happy for this today... one creator i like posted a video saying they dont believe the patriarchy exists and it made me sad lol

I absolutely loved everything about this episode.

I ❤ it! This was a very, very good conversation. Keep elevating yourselves and the community. ✌🏾

My old fav song my new fav love this!!! Amanda you really do ALWAYS be knowinggggg

I've been waiting for this episode since I got to hear a snippet on instagram live. Thanks!!!!!

“It’s in writings and readings of people who have disconnected from that” lThat being this present time. Love this Amanda.

That 501(c)3 need to be in THE NEXT SET!

I absolutely loved this conversation. 👏🏼❤️🙌🏼

Top 5 episodes!!! Thank you ladies. I enjoyed every minute.

Once again thank you Amanda for another great conversation.

Thank you so much for your Great gift ❤ You are Awesome and Outstanding before your time ❤ Thank you ❤GIDRON

Ive been going thru Slumflower withdrawl since the end of the season. 😂 This is a blessing. ❤

Such a dynamic conversation! Always admired Amanda but now I can take a deep dive in Chidera’s content!

This episode is literally a balm. So many gems 💎 Thank you 🙏🏾

What an Episode Awesome work Ladies

Waiting for part two!!! and heading to patreon right now!

Powerful Convo! loved it thank you

This was sooooo good. Please keep going this podcast is needed❤❤

THIIIIISSSS was Aaaammmaaazziiinngg to watch and listen to👏🏾👏🏾 well done ladies!

this rocks!!! my two faves!!!

Feeding a man's ego is Exhausting!

@kole3737

6 ай бұрын

Giving a woman attention fulfilling her long list of needs even more. It goes both ways grow up

@THEbeautifuLIE

2 ай бұрын

Imagine wanting to be seen as “equals” & treated like a queen. . . . . .but complimenting your man is just too *_”🥴eXhAsTiNg🥴”_* for you🤣 #faiL

@Tee-Star

2 ай бұрын

Oh God....😖​@@kole3737

Yes, it's all making sense here!!!

Dang I don’t have a good filtration system and it shows😢

Amanda, Princella Clark The Queen maker is what they call her, is an intellectual and also has interesting takes on patriarchy, men and female and male dynamics. She uses a lot of scientific data to back up her theories. She's a bit controversial but interesting nevertheless. I would love to hear your thoughts on her philosophies. Great Show tonight.

PLEASE do a part 2! This might be my favorite episode!

Where do I send my invoice?? Because the way I’m throwing EVERYTHING in my house at my damn tv screen!!! Lawwwdddd I feel SEEN 🫶🏾🥹🙏🏾

Everything about this conversation was yes! I really feel like no realizes the sisterhood that can come from a Sag and Cancer conversation. We really are more similar than people think.

@MsMakeba

7 ай бұрын

Me & my sis 🦀♐

Love this content !!!

The crossover we needed! 😍

I need “Too much” 👏🏾

Thank you so much for your Great gift ❤ I'm a Virgo it's a wonderful image of GOD Design we're on the same page ❤

this episode!!!!!!!

❤❤❤❤Love you two!

My best friend from University is a Virgo sun Cancer moon Pisces rising and he calls it the mental illness combo 🤣😭🫠

This is the whole gospel🎉chidera x amanda. I love love😊

14:30 yesss Sagittarius!!!

There’s a part of patriarchy that is so abusive and devoid of love, that you need to separate yourself from the men and women that are blind to it’s abuses, to experience love again.

@kole3737

6 ай бұрын

Matriarch is just as bad in the blk community always pushing blk men under the bus with lies that can be proven false. Having kids out of wedlock by a small percent of men same men. Abuse in the household always crying about how hard you have with never looking at the man your same color going thru it to all while majority of yall problems are self made from bad decisions. Divorce court child custody raising kids not his by the mass. 30% paternity test come back negative. Imagine of every blk man got one. Yet make up fake oppression of a patriarch that built literally everything both these ladies are using. And yes because you a girl men and women not the same. This a dumb topic getting old.

I can relate.

But seriously though….part 2 please. Please.

The meeting of these two great minds is a marriage made in heaven. Thank you, universe, for connecting this dream team.

You need to check out Voodoo Bae!! U would love her

I love this ❤️‍🩹

I don’t know who this woman is but I’m so glad you made an introduction lol! She’s speaking the gospel!

Soooo damn good 🔥🔥🔥🔥

OOOOUUUUWWEEEEE!!!!! What an episode! Since last year I have been in this mindset of living with and within the mantra that "self-preservation is NOT selfish." Thank you both so much for all you do for Black Women! 🥰🥰🥰💮🌻💮🌻✨

can we get book from you both, causeeee baby!!

36:27 Just rest and be loved

❤❤❤❤!!!

Phenomenon Truth spoken here re our higher self and self-control surrounding sex.

Team Ravenclaw and Virgo...whew

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11:17 😂❤😂❤😂❤😂❤😂❤

We need more of this in the world !!

An amazing interview we desperately need especially in 2024 when conscious persons feel as if they are " drowning, suffocating" in the foolishness that abounds.

🐍 I’m Slytherin…and I approve of this message😊

this podcast is quite different from the rest soley based on the fact that the interviewer & interviewee has S U B S T A N C E. AND ACTUALLY TALK ABOUT THE ISSUES. i honestly, was not a fan of tiffany, but i LOVE AMANDA .

I'm also not soft. And I'm okay with that. 13:22

OMG I’ve had someone say they couldn’t be with me bc of feelings and being too intelligent basically.

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In previous retrospect it seems apoligies cannot attain competitive levels.

Amen

Yooo, not Edward Blum

I was with you until you said the requirement of a greeting at the beginning of a phone call is tantamount to the exercise of dominion. 😂

@MsMakeba

7 ай бұрын

🎤👂🏿🧠 29:10

I reject the notion of misogynoir.

ravenclawssss >>>>>>