Should You Kiss Before Marriage?

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  • @frogpaste
    @frogpaste Жыл бұрын

    My sister-in-law and her husband didn't kiss until their wedding day. They've now been happily married for over 15 years!

  • @jarbear7000

    @jarbear7000

    Жыл бұрын

    You mean your brother and his wife?

  • @frogpaste

    @frogpaste

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jarbear7000 no, my wife's sister and her husband.

  • @dansaber4427

    @dansaber4427

    Жыл бұрын

    It's better if they marry without knowing each other first. That way they won't be tempted

  • @FinHammer

    @FinHammer

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@dansaber4427 🤣

  • @Swiftninjatrev

    @Swiftninjatrev

    Жыл бұрын

    @@dansaber4427 knowing? Breh 😂

  • @darrenmiller6927
    @darrenmiller6927 Жыл бұрын

    Love this guy. He's a national treasure. Wise words, informative and responsible.

  • @aurora571000
    @aurora571000 Жыл бұрын

    No, you shouldn’t. I told my fiancée I did not want to kiss while engaged. Well, one evening we were sitting on a bluff overlooking the Pacific…in the moonlight…. So much for that commitment. The trouble was that whenever we took walks together after that (70s) and we had no car, we would kiss…4hours worth. We also had no money to go do something else than take a walk in the woods. Even though we did not “go too far” we lost out on months of communication. When we did get married we had SO MANY arguments, because we had not learned to understand each other. We both had difficult, dysfunctional home lives… maybe it would have been that way anyway. But, many times I have wished we used our dating/engagement time learning to know each other better.

  • @gabriellameattray9778
    @gabriellameattray9778 Жыл бұрын

    Been wondering this! Personally I think it would lead to lust for me. Not sure if I could handle it.

  • @erikk2687

    @erikk2687

    Жыл бұрын

    Gabriella, what are your thoughts on marriage?

  • @rissroo4325
    @rissroo4325 Жыл бұрын

    other questions we should ask: Does kissing awaken love before it is time? Where are my thoughts going when I kiss?

  • @dirty-deeds-done-dirty-cheap

    @dirty-deeds-done-dirty-cheap

    Жыл бұрын

    NO KIZZ BEFORE MARRAIGE

  • @qwertz666

    @qwertz666

    6 күн бұрын

    @@dirty-deeds-done-dirty-cheap Bro mind your own business

  • @Swiftninjatrev
    @Swiftninjatrev Жыл бұрын

    I thought it was okay, then I asked myself what's the justification for it? That kinda just led me down the road to where I am now. I think physical-sexual intimacy outside of marriage is wrong. You also have to remember that just a little over a hundred years ago any touching between unmarried people was considered immoral. The more you know...

  • @M.....................
    @M..................... Жыл бұрын

    It's the "necessarily" for me lol but I'm still gonna show my teenagers this video!😅

  • @furretchannel.9607
    @furretchannel.96079 ай бұрын

    NO KISSING BEFORE MARRIAGE -Haram

  • @kimalonzo3363
    @kimalonzo3363 Жыл бұрын

    My first 💋 was when I was 15. I am now 60 and never been married. I now kiss my cat. Lol

  • @bbj8745

    @bbj8745

    6 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @Chlobo88

    @Chlobo88

    6 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @johndoe9200

    @johndoe9200

    6 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @PATRIOT-nt5ub
    @PATRIOT-nt5ub Жыл бұрын

    America's modern dating culture is perverted.

  • @Jontefrmdatone
    @Jontefrmdatone8 ай бұрын

    Please pray for my purity and soundness of my mind in Jesus name I’m gonna kiss her one time and if I at all feel any lustful desire awake in me I’m gonna tell her we can’t do that anymore Until marriage

  • @hannojacobs8823
    @hannojacobs8823 Жыл бұрын

    Typo in the title

  • @gamingskullvr
    @gamingskullvr11 ай бұрын

    answer: N O

  • @roundtableapologetics
    @roundtableapologetics Жыл бұрын

    Typo in the question brother. Should*

  • @I_made_a_baby_with_your_mum
    @I_made_a_baby_with_your_mum3 ай бұрын

    NO KISS BEFORE MARRIAGE

  • @edwardtbabinski
    @edwardtbabinski Жыл бұрын

    While there are several mentions of wedding feasts in the Bible, nowhere is a “religious marriage ceremony” set forth; it was a business contract between the father and bridegroom, a simple exchange of property. -Perry Deane Young, God’s Bullies

  • @lrajic8281
    @lrajic8281 Жыл бұрын

    A kiss on the cheek for relatives. Suitable and chaste. Paul says great women like sisters. My family doesn't kiss, but once or twice in my lifetime did my brother's kiss my cheek. Very respectful, even if not kissed.

  • @MrWaySal
    @MrWaySal9 ай бұрын

    What verse is he quoting?

  • @bunnyboonot4u
    @bunnyboonot4u3 ай бұрын

    These days a kiss is not a sign of commitment. Hold off until there is at least a verbal commitment

  • @Neptune5111.1
    @Neptune5111.111 ай бұрын

    no kiss before marriage

  • @angelastemmer584
    @angelastemmer5847 ай бұрын

    So can I ask.... is it a sin or not just asking for a friend❤❤😅

  • @tlhaifa1404
    @tlhaifa1404 Жыл бұрын

    Kissing with tongue is gross, not necessary and kind of ridiculous if you think about it. I would bet anybody a 100 bucks that if you are in a marriage If you refrain from kissing with the tongue that It will bring you closer together believe it or not.

  • @ErynQuentery

    @ErynQuentery

    Жыл бұрын

    Maybe for you. It's amazing my wife and I.

  • @dirty-deeds-done-dirty-cheap
    @dirty-deeds-done-dirty-cheap Жыл бұрын

    NO KIZZ BEFORE MARRAIGE

  • @krizilloo2538
    @krizilloo2538 Жыл бұрын

    No ‘spin the bottle’ then?

  • @LucidizedZuhaib
    @LucidizedZuhaib11 ай бұрын

    NO KISS BEFORE MARRIAGE STAY HALAL

  • @Xel0526

    @Xel0526

    7 ай бұрын

    OH ALLAH THE ALMIGHTY!

  • @user-yt9hn7rq8h
    @user-yt9hn7rq8h9 күн бұрын

    stay halal

  • @markwarne5049
    @markwarne5049 Жыл бұрын

    Kissing can lead to lust so best to wait till marriage.

  • @mikedev69

    @mikedev69

    5 ай бұрын

    just the kiss is ok but if it then gets way more intimate before marriage then no

  • @markwarne5049

    @markwarne5049

    5 ай бұрын

    @@mikedev69 your playing with fire temptation if kiss or hug

  • @mikedev69

    @mikedev69

    5 ай бұрын

    @@markwarne5049 broo fr?? isnt it a sign of affection?

  • @mikedev69

    @mikedev69

    5 ай бұрын

    @@markwarne5049 i js searched bro its not sin its a sign of affection, only sex is sin before marriage

  • @CardfightCasual

    @CardfightCasual

    5 ай бұрын

    By that logic, looking at someone on the train can lead to lust so you shouldn't take the train. Not against boundaries, just not for unbiblical hyper-purity

  • @mayat3912
    @mayat3912 Жыл бұрын

    Is it fine if i’m 13 years old? And it wouldn’t lead to any lust or anything, but like of course i can’t get married with him yet.

  • @dirty-deeds-done-dirty-cheap

    @dirty-deeds-done-dirty-cheap

    Жыл бұрын

    NO KIZZ BEFORE MARRAIGE

  • @vmicro.
    @vmicro. Жыл бұрын

    no kiss before marriage, stay halal guys.

  • @TheKingRoUs548
    @TheKingRoUs5489 ай бұрын

    NO KISS BEFORE MARIGE HARAM🚫⛔️🔞🙅‍♂️😱

  • @dansaber4427
    @dansaber4427 Жыл бұрын

    You shouldn't even think about kissing if you're after the reward of eternal life

  • @Becca_Lynn

    @Becca_Lynn

    Жыл бұрын

    What lol 😂

  • @dansaber4427

    @dansaber4427

    Жыл бұрын

    @Anna Olson that's about a married couple

  • @Wyatt98919

    @Wyatt98919

    Жыл бұрын

    Calm down bud lol

  • @dansaber4427

    @dansaber4427

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Wyatt98919 the man of God takes every thought captive

  • @beanbrewer

    @beanbrewer

    Жыл бұрын

    Too bad that "reward" has never been shown to exist.

  • @EnergeiaRhythmos
    @EnergeiaRhythmos10 ай бұрын

    Stay halal bros

  • @nespakcountyofficial
    @nespakcountyofficial10 ай бұрын

    stay halal bros

  • @beanbrewer
    @beanbrewer Жыл бұрын

    Always remember the biblical model of marriage: one man and as many women as he can financially support

  • @Nicx2306-tp7tp
    @Nicx2306-tp7tp Жыл бұрын

    Haram!!!

  • @mikedev69

    @mikedev69

    5 ай бұрын

    dude stop forcing your beliefs

  • @chrismoore7365
    @chrismoore7365 Жыл бұрын

    Kids, just enroll yourselves in a credible Sex-Ed and Planned Parenthood classes to spare you future headaches; and avoid counsel from Organized Religion on this one, you'd be better off...