The man that explained “It depends on the temperament of the husband and the feelings of the wife.” That was the most correct answer I ever heard.

@lw3559

4 жыл бұрын

yes, loved that one too

@hyrunnisa997

4 жыл бұрын

I feel like if a man cant handle seeing it then he should reconsider his decision to have kids. Its painful for her, she needs emotional support and the best support is from the husband

@myotiswii

4 жыл бұрын

@@hyrunnisa997 Not necessarily. Some people faint at the sight of blood. They can still be great fathers, but when they faint during the birth this is just stressful for everyone.

@happyjohn1656

4 жыл бұрын

I got to that part exactly after I started reading your comment! Aye! 10:57:47 PM 5/27/2020

@lw3559

4 жыл бұрын

Gustav 123 I think it‘s in the hand of both. Neither the woman, nor the man should be forced.

That lady who said no but then thought about it and said "maybe they would have less children if they saw the process." I like her she's funny.

@Cassxowary

4 жыл бұрын

And even less if THEY had to give birth tbh!

@laobok

4 жыл бұрын

@@Cassxowary Don't hate us cause you ain't us.

@hshaizkcgahaj1916

4 жыл бұрын

@@laobok don't hate us cause u don't compare to us

@sherine9033

4 жыл бұрын

@@laobok nah we don't hate you. We just want you to feel how hard it is to have a woman's physiology so you don't act all inconsiderate towards your spouse and women in general because "wOmEn hAVe tHinGs eAsyYyy"

@cheeseinballs

4 жыл бұрын

@@sherine9033 who said women have things easy?

“Well as far as I’m concerned, mate, it’s got nothing to do with me. I’m not Married”. That hit Me hard

@tosheacollier2039

3 жыл бұрын

🤣

@beecod3.mp492

3 жыл бұрын

@IHave ToBuy I’m lonely

@lmor3309

3 жыл бұрын

Dude was probably mad he's single.. lol

@leaha888

Жыл бұрын

mans been rejected

@manumudgal4988

11 ай бұрын

He has that 'Im single' energy

I like how for that one woman after she said no they slowly zoomed in on her baby as she walked away as if they were making some meta joke😂

@TazHall

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@revathinagarajann763

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@Jack-sd1ug

3 ай бұрын

In the video about the white Australia policy they zoom in some Chinese kids in the background whilst some women is talking about how Australia should remain 99% white

"You're married, you become one, and you should participate in all the ups and downs of everything". Such a simple truth, yet so lost among so many.

@elizabethbox4464

4 жыл бұрын

His answer melted my heart...a true man.

@magpie913

4 жыл бұрын

Who said they had to be married XD

@karinaontiveros7096

4 жыл бұрын

👏🏻

@Katwoman4318

4 жыл бұрын

Snuggles McSquishbottom very true

@wajahadkhan1244

4 жыл бұрын

Looks like men had more of a sense of unity than women did. But then again in those times women were taught to be private, reserved, never talk about themselves and always look beautiful. I understand that they could feel uncomfortable when seen so "imperfect" in such tremendous situation. My wife said "you were present while making, you're present when waters breaking" 😄 bit scary for the man but it is unity indeed and such a beautiful moment when a man can ease the pain of his wife bringing their child to the world by being with her.

The first guy: yes, absolutely, all problems in a married life should be shared the woman in the background: good evening, are you single

@umarakbar_

4 жыл бұрын

Ikr, that woman was so invested 😂

@hennahaavisto6058

4 жыл бұрын

I think she's the wife actually. She was going ahead and the husband decided to stop for the interview after all, or something like that.

@mattwodziak1750

4 жыл бұрын

I like this idea. I’m going to go tell errr I mean ask my wife to mow the lawn tomorrow.

@Carlie_flower

4 жыл бұрын

@@mattwodziak1750 😂😂😂

@ashlovesjungkook5152

4 жыл бұрын

Ruby literally what I thought

I just love love love how they are dressed. Wow. And how humble so many of them are. Beautiful.

@1w598

3 жыл бұрын

I love this 50's housewife, Mad Men vibe. I like how they spoke. People sounded like they had accents back then. Edit: this was in Australia (duh). Lol

@cody7342

3 жыл бұрын

Most of them are racist

@cody7342

3 жыл бұрын

Jk

@Ayann999

3 жыл бұрын

ikrrrrr

@olyag8072

3 жыл бұрын

@@cody7342 hm, but sounds like your level of racism, ignorance and bias is way way higher so far

I think the doctor was looking for nicest possible way to say they don't like to deal with nervous husbands in the delivery room with all going on there already.

@farmvetsph

3 жыл бұрын

He did say that it is an unnecessary worry, or something to that effect.

@LM-fn6qb

4 ай бұрын

My brother-in-law fainted seeing his baby born and needed his own team of medicos as he hit his head on something.

@yash1152

Ай бұрын

2:35

The first man said we should share the burden equally, ahead of his time.

@madisonbaker7056

4 жыл бұрын

I thought he had the best response as well.

@kathleenpang7138

4 жыл бұрын

Except... that’s not possible. The baby grows in, and needs to get out of, mommy.

@panerican4life

4 жыл бұрын

I thought the first guy had a beautiful answer. I mean it's not a guys fault that biology doesn't allow them to birth children.

@khalil7011

4 жыл бұрын

Feminist moment

@lilytyler80

4 жыл бұрын

Someone bring that first man back from the dead so I can marry him.

Don’t let this distract you from the fact that both of Heinz Doofenshmirtz’s parents weren’t there for his birth.

@blank_line

3 жыл бұрын

What 😂

@maya-sh4su

3 жыл бұрын

F

@Snobviously

3 жыл бұрын

Who's Heinz doofus? 🤔

@nawa2396

3 жыл бұрын

@@Snobviously the villain from phineas and ferb

@raymonddean6211

3 жыл бұрын

And he’s a supervillain.

Love how everyone is able to express their personal opinions without shaming one another for them.

@yorukaadams940

3 жыл бұрын

I mean, it definitely still happened, especially since the 60’s were a Red Scare utopia.

@davethomas5603

3 жыл бұрын

Well they're not debating, they're sharing their opinion, they don't get to hear the other's opinion, they're not even talking to each other, its just one person talking to the host. This was the age of segregation, these racists clowns had no problem putting others down.

@keykey7646

3 жыл бұрын

You have something you want to get off your chest?

@sumkindacheeto

3 жыл бұрын

sounds like a stretch to assume a correlation between freedom of expression and political ongoings. There were taboos then and there will be today. Much like bad actors or your "racist clowns" that give a lot of 'muricans a bad look.

@davethomas5603

3 жыл бұрын

@@sumkindacheeto I was actually making commentary on the original comment, OP trying to be woke and spread faux positivity by saying "they expressed their opinions without shaming one another for them." When in fact, they didn't hear anyone's opinion, they just expressed their own to the host. It's more of a stretch to assume they would not shame each others opinions.

The THIRD old man with a hat reminds me of the Aparently kid💖

@dannyfromchicago3736

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe he's his grandpa lol

@epiccringe5235

3 жыл бұрын

Which one? There is a lot of old men in hats in this video

@dannyfromchicago3736

3 жыл бұрын

I think she's talking about the 3rd video/second dude

@Skelyboss

3 жыл бұрын

There's like 95 old men with hats in the video...

@dannyfromchicago3736

3 жыл бұрын

@@Skelyboss I think she's talking about the 3rd video/second dude

first bloke was woke

@albertschoise8091

5 жыл бұрын

lickle sossij roll yeah... he was hot too

@albertschoise8091

5 жыл бұрын

Sitti Inastasia So?

@Oksa_L

5 жыл бұрын

@@sittiinastasia5430 So this was 57 years ago. If you think he is in his 70s now, that means he was a 13 year old teenager in the video? :D

@realsugar7056

5 жыл бұрын

@@sittiinastasia5430 70? The dude was in his 30s in 1962, 56 years ago hes probably dead or close to 90 years old.

@Oksa_L

5 жыл бұрын

@@realsugar7056 looks more like in his 40s or 50s. As a 33 yo dude, believe me, we aint that old :P

"When you're married, you become one. And you should participate in all the ups and downs and everything." God bless.

@noaharmstrong861

4 жыл бұрын

Kenzi ! Then he shouldnt be in the room. But the meaning of the quote is that the husband should voluntarily want to be in the room with his wife. Unless, of course, the wife diagrees.

@shirleydeebonilla6712

4 жыл бұрын

Kenzi ! Why wouldn’t she want him there? His child is being born.

@loki6253

4 жыл бұрын

I wouldn't. My husband has a terrible bedside manner when I am sick can't imagine when I'm birthing...

@rvpstudioscanada3991

4 жыл бұрын

I think women are *a lot more* open now, then they were back then.

@rvpstudioscanada3991

4 жыл бұрын

@@shirleydeebonilla6712 Well.. it *IS* very graphic to watch.. and gruesome too.

As a father, I was delighted to bring my children into the world with my wife. We both got to hold our children, welcome them, hear their little cries. A man should witness his children being born. I felt like a father that day.

@Tired_Coffee

3 жыл бұрын

@@neotsz3286 lmao

@paulsmith3994

Жыл бұрын

That's beautiful. Can't understand a man who wouldn't want to welcome his child into the world.

@billf7062

4 ай бұрын

You wouldn’t feel like a father in the waiting room?

@yoshita4140

5 күн бұрын

@@billf7062 its not even close to being the same as actually witnessing your child enter this world. my father was present for my birth and was unfortunately travelling for work purposes for my brother's birth and to this day he says his number one regret in life is not being there to see my brother take his first breath. he's also much closer to me

Can't imagine going through childbirth without my husband. While he absolutely admits that it was way more graphic than he expected it would be (he didnt really take any time to mentally prepare), he also said he can't imagine NOT being there!

The first guy was a sweetheart, whoever married him must’ve been a lucky woman lmao

@citcatz

4 жыл бұрын

Right

@lili11.11

4 жыл бұрын

Dude the first guy reminded me of Neil Patrick Harrison 😂😂😂

@jcronin3155

4 жыл бұрын

Except a woman is going through the experience primarily for herself.

@tinkerbelle6936

4 жыл бұрын

John Cronin ... do you mean other than for the child as well?

@redred346

4 жыл бұрын

When he said share the responsibilities and problem I- 🥺🥺🥺

“It depends on the temperament of the husband and on the feelings of the wife.” This guy’s got the biggest brain of all of them!

@BUFU1610

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! I thought the exact same thing! It all depends on both parents making the decision together. And I couldn't imagine a couple deciding against him being present today. I certainly wanted to be there and my now-wife wanted it, too.

@lucasmachain

3 жыл бұрын

Yea this one was the real ahead of his time of all

@xSwordLilyx

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah if he's afraid of blood or not going to be supportive why have him there? Also many women went them out in response to pain or lack of privacy and also the opposite. But I do really think it helps many men engage with their children. Whether they see the birth part or not certainly they should be with them for the day.

@AbsolXGuardian

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah. Like the real problem was all the marriages of dubious consent in that era and the fact that men often weren't allowed in the birthing room if they wanted to.

@Eleidig007

3 жыл бұрын

Ameen best answer

Watched all three of mine. Was great. One born in Canada and two in Japan. Quite different experiences. Will never forget the look on my coworkers faces in Japan when the call came that the birth of my son was imminent and I told them I was leaving. They were utterly shocked. “You can’t leave, you have classes to teach!!” My son is about to be born!! I am outta here. Men in Japan would not ever leave work for that reason for the most part.

Hearing the development of the Australian accent is so fascinating.

@amytaketwo2578

3 жыл бұрын

I can’t believe that this is not what every comment is about. It’s so interesting

@nervnicht9870

3 жыл бұрын

I think people thought this is the UK, that’s what I thought too until I read your comment.

@TheKillahKyla

3 жыл бұрын

Yassssss I was wondering big-time where this was filmed! I did think UK at first but there was too much twang

@hectorp.c6955

3 жыл бұрын

فتاة مصريه it doesnt sound british at all!

@dylancope

3 жыл бұрын

It's remarkable! Even as a English person I was thrown off at first thinking that they were British. The interviewer in particular.

“Should a husband watch the birth of the children?” “ No, I’m a doctor “

@rebcol4926

4 жыл бұрын

That one cracked me up!

@Liuhuayue

4 жыл бұрын

He's probably seen enough for a lifetime.

@Gofraudme

4 жыл бұрын

He was 1000% sure of his answer too. Offended even that the interviewer would ask something so ludicrous lol

@sylph8005

4 жыл бұрын

I imagine at the "family bonds" question, he thought "I've seen plenty of births and I've never gotten bonds to any of those women"

@MsTinkerbelle87

4 жыл бұрын

As he’s pushing the buggy that cracked me up lol

“It depends on the wives feeling, if she wants him there or not” CEO OF TAKING WOMENS FEELINGS INTO CONSIDERATION

@alicefaitdescarabistouille924

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, incredible that men these times seem more considerate than men today.

@monke980

4 жыл бұрын

@@alicefaitdescarabistouille924 dude... that's so mean, and a tad sexist.

@pavelh756

4 жыл бұрын

@@alicefaitdescarabistouille924 keyword "seem". We take in consideration everyone's feelings

@kyled3235

4 жыл бұрын

Alice fait des carabistouilles probably, the family unit was still strong then, and good values were passed on... now less so. When it comes to culture, we should not only look back to the 50’s for the bad (restrictive for women) but also the many goods.

@BltchErica

4 жыл бұрын

Alice fait des carabistouilles Well, before watching this, I thought about it and came to the conclusion that the wife should be the one who chooses if she wants him there first and then the husband should decide wether or not he wants to be there if she allows him. It's only fair, I mean, women could either feel embarrassed or more comfortable with their husband there, so they should be the ones to make the choice. I don't think there's a video of men in 2020 answering this question, so there's no knowing if they'd think about the women first or not.

There's just charm that I find from vintage stuff: recordings, clothes people used to wear and their speech.

The man at 2:02 has my respect because he took into account of the wife’s feelings.

@musiccer7446

2 жыл бұрын

its not like showing empathy didn't exist back then

@imagirl688

2 жыл бұрын

@@musiccer7446 empathy for women, not so much…

@musiccer7446

2 жыл бұрын

@@imagirl688 thats honestly ridiculous. What arguments could there possibly be to support such a claim? Political landscape doesn’t equate to behaviour among people. Despite what you might think, even back than husbands usually loved their wives and vice versa. Just because there were more traditional roles doesn’t mean empathy didn’t exist. Our picture of the past is very wrong. Painting a negative image of the past is in positive interest of the modern progressive movements. Saying that men regularly beat their wives and that women had no say at all in the family is so wrong if you look at such recordings. It’s like calling your grandfather a wife beater simply for being born in that generation. Well, I’m sorry to disappoint you, men back then weren’t just machines trying to beat their wife at any possible instance and women were in many ways privileged at the time. You just don’t want to see it. We are not better today, In many ways were worse, things changed, but not everything for the better. I have the feeling open mindedness is much less prevalent today as it was back then. Social media has ruined this generation. And I am not even old. I am 18

@imagirl688

2 жыл бұрын

@@musiccer7446 in general women weren’t as privileged as men. Simple as that. They weren’t paid as high, they got mistreated, and beaten for little things (most of the time by their husbands.) so don’t go around saying women had it good because when you get down to it, it wasn’t. And I’d like to point out that I know not all men were like that. It’s just refreshing because throughout the whole video, nobody seems to acknowledge the wife in the situation. Stop making such grand accusations based on one comment. Stay in school, kid.

@musiccer7446

2 жыл бұрын

@@imagirl688 grand accusations? I don’t know what you’re talking about. Apart from that as I said, the roles were more traditional and the political landscape was fairly one sided. About just as one sided as our modern view of the past. No, husbands didn’t beat their wives for every little thing. Violence is in all species rarely used among intimate partners especially in social species. In fact studies show that what contributes most to domestic abuse is how the person was raised. Talking about abusers isn’t what will stop abusers from abusing. Our talking won’t change domestic abuse statistics. The only thing that awareness does is help victims after it already happened. The average man was not and never was abusive. Some cultural norms surely seem abusive, but then one could argue from our modern perspective that most women back then were gold diggers because money was a much bigger factor back then. Apart from that, human decency is imbedded in our nature as a social species. If you actually believe that husbands did regularly or even wanted to beat their wives than you are wrong because you clearly don’t understand the human psyche. Talking about roles. Yes, from our modern priorities women had it pretty bad. But you need to look at it from their perspective. Many women didn’t want the right to vote because usually that right came with the work of the husband. Men usually worked themselves to death in Cole mines and industry to provide for their family. Death by various diseases or accidents was common. Whereas women may have had less political and economical power they usually had a fairly comfortable life style. Autonomy was revoked for obedience but under better living conditions. Men had full freedom, but freedom can lead you down into the darkest corners of life. Just as much as you can rise you can fall. And unlike women, men were and are still forced to go to war. I personally would rather stay home and care than be send to the battle field to die or be traumatised for the rest of my life. Besides, Mutual respect on appreciation are the foundation of any relationship. If you want to tell me that healthy relationships were less common or didn’t exist at all compared today you are naive. A short look at divorce statistics should disprove you. It might be that people were more confined to their roles and that cost many individuals freedoms purely based on irrelevant factors such as sex. But it can’t be said that there wasn’t an appreciation for each other’s roles. And to say that women had it only bad and men only good is far too one sided. Women enjoyed many privileges men didn’t have that cost them many freedoms men did have. The pressure alone on men to provide and protect and be strong alone is much more psychological torture in case you are failing than for women. Women had less pressure for achievement. They had other pressures. Fact is, you can’t see this as one sided. Apart from that. Imagine a scenario where people are asked these exact questions on the street today. Do you really believe the answers would be that much different?

I appreciate the people not complaining about living without colors

@wolfie1703

4 жыл бұрын

9AIMEr BAHHAHAHAHA

@xxpandapotatoxx9766

4 жыл бұрын

I smell a woosh

@extrafriedBob

4 жыл бұрын

it was just the cameras that couldnt record color.. the world looked the same

@baalsagol346

4 жыл бұрын

@@xxpandapotatoxx9766 8 hours

@Seeker0fTruth

4 жыл бұрын

Ju Mei Ohhhhhhhhhhh I get it now!

I need a guy like the first guy 😭 “All problems in a married life should be shared equally therefore the husband should be there”

@njules6428

4 жыл бұрын

❤

@shadowweaver3693

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah but childbirth isnt a problem 🤣🤣🤣

@avocado3-in-182

4 жыл бұрын

Adrian Barbuio sorry, i don’t speak ancient

@scaramouchelover

4 жыл бұрын

@@shadowweaver3693 Of course it isn't a problem, to the MAN. It's a big problem to the woman who has to go through a lot of pain and shouldn't go through it by herself

@oceanfoamcenter7126

4 жыл бұрын

@@avocado3-in-182 it means th

Gentleman at 2:02 is the middle man of reason. As long as she says it’s ok then yes. It’s incredible by the way.

Just knowing most of these people are already dead is so wierd...

@apple-de8tx

3 жыл бұрын

Im certain less than two people in this video is alive

@PrisonBecky

3 жыл бұрын

Well damn ☠️

@onetruthmediacompany

3 жыл бұрын

You could not be more wrong, people from the 1962 are still around today ! Do you not understand math ? My parents were born in 1938 & 1941 and are still alive today (they would have been around 21 & 24 yrs old in 1962)

@johnhoyng4628

3 жыл бұрын

@samantha id say around 25% of these people are still alive

@southmoreconlin3757

3 жыл бұрын

One Truth Media Company eh I don’t think I’m wrong... I wrote “most of these people” not all of them. And a lot of those people which they interviewed looked of middle age.

Interesting that most of the men thought it was okay and the women didn’t

@samaraisnt

4 жыл бұрын

women were ashamed of their bodies a lot more then. this question was pretty much like "Do you want to have a close-up look at your wife's vagina giving birth?" Women say no and the men say sure it's fine, or they're also a little bit grossed out by it. That's a big part of the debate no one spells out. Men weren't that opposed to it, they were mostly not physically allowed into the room.

@jfm14

4 жыл бұрын

Makes perfect sense, given the prevailing gender roles and social norms of Western societies back then.

@HopeKing

4 жыл бұрын

I mean who could blame them really? If you really think about it it us really a private and embarrassing moment for a lady. I will have my husband and those who are delivering and that is it.

@chaosnoelle

4 жыл бұрын

i mean I wouldn't really want anyone watching me shitting myself while ripping my body open to plop out a blood covered little human while sweating and screaming like a maniac. Awful enough the nurses have to be there

@Shay45

4 жыл бұрын

Noelle Most of the time the husband is away from the “business side” unless they want to see what is going on

I love how they’re not attacking people just politely responding

@mittenzpurrez8235

4 жыл бұрын

BLACK CAT LIVES MATTER TOO!!!

@VedantMishra55

4 жыл бұрын

@@mittenzpurrez8235 was this joke necessary here?

@BooksToAshes

4 жыл бұрын

That's how people were back then. Now everyone's used to defending themselves because of the internet, so they jump to conclusions and aren't as level headed sadly

@shoshishoshi127

4 жыл бұрын

The formality and politeness of people in the past is something I miss even though I didn't experience it.

@marenquaranta2134

4 жыл бұрын

@@shoshishoshi127 I get that feeling. 😂 Although I feel like the new generation is bringing that back.

When my grandma had her kids the only reason my grandpa wasn't there is because he didn't realize he was allowed to be, by the time he learned he could they were done having kids and wished he could have seen it at least once.

@vipr1142

3 жыл бұрын

I believe that is right. If a female wants to keep her partner and want him to be attracted to her. He should not witness childbirth lol. I mean, some guys can handle it, but some guys get turned off by their partners after seeing their va-jay-jay shit out a kid

@Czarwinters3313

3 жыл бұрын

@@vipr1142 or they need to grow up

@manuelrivera7101

3 жыл бұрын

@@vipr1142 if the only think in a marriage is how turned on the man is by his wife then that marriage is not going to be happy

@beansmggee9948

3 жыл бұрын

@@vipr1142 Or they can man up

@hauntgarden

3 жыл бұрын

@@vipr1142 Lack of attraction caused by childbirth signifies that the couple is unprepared to start a family, not that one partner should just excuse themselves from the situation while the other cannot. If a couple chooses to have kids, they had better be 100% in because any less is a recipe for disaster.

The guy at 1:50 was the rudest and he was still nicer than a lot of people I know

@ezratehzib2168

3 жыл бұрын

I don't believe he was rude he just haven't been in that circumstance in his life so he shy's away. If anything, for me the doctor is the one I cought having a sour way of behaving.

@belowxero3071

3 жыл бұрын

@@ezratehzib2168 Yeah, I guess that’s true. Not saying he was rude, he just seemed to be the least nice to me, which is still fairly nice.

@ezratehzib2168

3 жыл бұрын

@@belowxero3071 I see 👍🏻

@basedostrich

3 жыл бұрын

He was probably busy and wanted to just give a quick answer before he got asked another

Damn that one lady that was like “Having the husband in the delivery room would destroy the bonds of the marriage” needs to chill lol

@midgelionhart

4 жыл бұрын

I can understand why she says that..😂😂😂 "its like seeing your fav restaurant burn downs"

@humaninterface7153

4 жыл бұрын

She was also pretty old which means she might have been Born around 1890

@sittingonceilings6805

4 жыл бұрын

Victorian Era Sexual repression, woooo!

@bipo819

4 жыл бұрын

Probably doesn’t like her husband

@tinyairplane

4 жыл бұрын

@@sittingonceilings6805 Booo you're no fun

„Do you think husbands should watch the birth of their children?“ „No I am German“

@Skazellino

4 жыл бұрын

Underrated comment. Aliens!

@BelieveUnited

4 жыл бұрын

Nibogen Cupcake Not all heroes wear capes

@_melodyx

4 жыл бұрын

*vegetable*

@amritapritam2891

4 жыл бұрын

I remember from last video 😂😂👏👏

@blacklight310

4 жыл бұрын

lmao u remember that video 🤣🤣🤣

"Well as far as I'm concerned, mate, it's got nothing to do withme. I'm not married" this guy's just tired of hearing in every familiy reunion the question, when he will get a girlfriend lol

“Yea, for sure” sounds lost within all this polite and proper talk

@PajamCam

3 жыл бұрын

Guy was a bit ahead

@evanhughes1510

5 ай бұрын

@@PajamCamno he just didn’t care about being formal for the camera. Has nothing to do with being “ahead”

This guy was a KZreadr ahead of his time.

@ComedyLoverGirl

5 жыл бұрын

Otherwise known as a journalist.

@lemurianchick

5 жыл бұрын

@Josh: OMG, that comment made me cringe so hard! 😂 "Man on the Street" interviews are the standard. It's like someone mentioning a disposable pop group from this period of time and saying the Beatles sound like them instead of the other way around. You must be really young!

@JoshBortolotti

5 жыл бұрын

@@lemurianchick Wow. It was a joke.

@fellowcitizen

5 жыл бұрын

@@ComedyLoverGirl Ah, yes, "journalist": a primitive precursor to our glorious lockstep propaganda machine. Thank Rupert we evolved from such vulgar practices. Hail Ignorance! Hail Arrogance!

@user-tz7zr4fr4j

5 жыл бұрын

Lmao

What a disgrace. He didn’t give anyone an ig shoutout

@a.k-6903

4 жыл бұрын

they are probably too poor to afford a smartphone😔😫

@blueheartbells

4 жыл бұрын

maybe he wasn't allowed😤✋

@user-mj4or8sh3g

4 жыл бұрын

are you all dumb they want privacy!!

@prathyushadasari5832

4 жыл бұрын

Haha.

@georgewbush7

4 жыл бұрын

Bruh he didn’t want fake racist fans 😂

Woah their manners and attitude is so delightful to see, I’m taking notes

As a father, watching my daughter being born was the best moment in my entire life.

@fishbrownconnect7927

3 жыл бұрын

@Sarah A we were never married

Love the old guy who actually thinks about asking his wife if SHE would be comfortable with him there and then says he would prefer it if he could. Now that's applaudable.

@StoneOfMoon

4 жыл бұрын

Renu Thakur I’m a woman, and I was waiting for someone to feel the day way as I do hahaha I’m comfortable with it, but definitely depends on the partner as well (some may not like to see blood)

@nataliagarciahess3749

4 жыл бұрын

Yes! He's the only one who gives any consideration to the wife's wishes. Everyone else is focused on the husband.

@killerkitten7534

4 жыл бұрын

I like the woman in the back who’s just looking and smiling like “this guy’s got it”

@peepycat

4 жыл бұрын

King shit 👑

@cozzyscreatures9198

4 жыл бұрын

@@killerkitten7534 shes probably more excited to see a camera and mic. Back then people were really wow'd by this kind of stuff because of how new it was

“Depends on the temperament of the husband and feelings of the woman” periodt 💅🏼💅🏼

@MrKoyama2004

4 жыл бұрын

It's weird how he was considerate of women's feelings, I wonder how they photoshopped that in...

@sarahdaniel9912

4 жыл бұрын

@@MrKoyama2004 not all people of the older generations were so oppressive to women. Many loved their wives dearly and cared for their feelings

@evelynphore7635

4 жыл бұрын

i cringed reading this

@allwordzaremadeup-voidz6229

4 жыл бұрын

@@MrKoyama2004 i wonder who photoshoped this skewed image of people in your brain. They must have done a splendid job sadly

@peepingtom9342

4 жыл бұрын

@@allwordzaremadeup-voidz6229 You know, women back then were chained to ovens in their kitchens, and the 50's and 60's were basically Gilead from Handmaid's Tale, they told me that in my social studies classes.

"As far as I'm concerned, mate, it's got nothing to do with me. I'm not married". Mood

That fox at the end says, "I'm not a married woman" and then gets lost in the interviewers eyes when he mentions strengthening family bonds! I hope he got her number and now they're living together in an old folks home with lots of grand children to visit them!

@Soeia.ElliotClark

3 жыл бұрын

He said, "Not for long, I'm sure." Haha it was definitely an old time flirt.

@basedostrich

3 жыл бұрын

Did you actually just day "got her number"? Lmao starngely I dont think that's how they did things back then

@andrewwurth8998

3 жыл бұрын

I don't know, when were the first phones widely available? 1950s? I think this video could have been made when phones were a thing

@MrAnperm

3 жыл бұрын

@@basedostrich Of course they had phones in the 1960s!

@nielszindel1151

2 ай бұрын

@@basedostrich ..it was the main means of communicating with boyfriends. Oh dear. We are not in the ark times. Delia Morris

if this was me i would say "husbands were present in the making, they should also be present in the outcome"

@ladydivic1045

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you u said this in the most graceful way possible

@Kath7120

3 жыл бұрын

best comment here lol

@salut4396

3 жыл бұрын

They should be present if the female wants him present

@BucephalusHume

3 жыл бұрын

100% should also apply to the money. Maybe in better times.

@Miss_Nina.

3 жыл бұрын

Yepp couldn't say it any better myself!

The man who said consider the temperament of the husband and and feelings of the wife. Spot on. Its not a one size fits all. Respect both.

@cowpokeone

4 жыл бұрын

Rain Blooms I thought his answer was perfect. Personal preference. My husband was present for the births of our children but he remained fixed at my head. I was happy to have a hand to squeeze and shirt collar to grab! 😂

@displaychicken

4 жыл бұрын

No the dad is the boss. If he wants to watch he watches, if he wants to go get a steak it’s up to him. Women obey

@hereisahuman5977

4 жыл бұрын

@@displaychicken Your just sad, Hun

@tarataratara4901

4 жыл бұрын

Eric Schick I can’t tell if your being facetious or not lol I think/hope/pray you are. Dads are the boss? Lol 😆 you’re super funny if it’s sarcasm!!

@displaychicken

4 жыл бұрын

tara tara tara I’m just old fashioned. Back when people were burning CD’s, I was still burning books.

Husbands need to protect their wives in their most vulnerable moments. The criminal mistreatment of labouring mothers has improved with the presence of their husbands who subsequently brought charges against the medical authorities.

My dad wasn't there when I was born, he was in a different town buying a cow ☺

I get the feeling that many of the older men are positive about the idea because they regret not being able to see their own children born.

@meco3215

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao

@lifeiswhatyoumakeit5027

3 жыл бұрын

I did not go in for my first child, but did for my second, It was amazing, unfortunately 30 years later I lost him in January 2021 to suicide.

@Erin-ho8qu

3 жыл бұрын

:(

@Erin-ho8qu

3 жыл бұрын

@@lifeiswhatyoumakeit5027 im so sorry

@brainloading5543

3 жыл бұрын

@@lifeiswhatyoumakeit5027 I'm really sorry for your loss😢, and wish you the best, no one should ever have to lose his own child😔

I love this little old man with the hearing aid who’s like, “I think it’s okay!”

@paige6306

4 жыл бұрын

I just had a dumb moment 🤣 I thought it was an earbud

@gabriellameattray9778

4 жыл бұрын

@@paige6306 airpod😭

@nirvanaprincess9989

4 жыл бұрын

Literally thought the same thing. So cute 😍

@patrick__swayze

4 жыл бұрын

Paige me too lol

@silklavender

4 жыл бұрын

*i think it’s AWH-KEH*

2:03 he clearly is the husband we should look forward to being sounds like a great example of a man

I like the man who said it depends how both partners feel about it. It really does! Not everyone wants the experience to be the same and that's okay.

You have to remember the old ladies would have been born in the 1800s.

@cheepes3d

5 жыл бұрын

And the old men

@jeremywood7250

5 жыл бұрын

Damn it's true

@xavier9480

5 жыл бұрын

god thats old

@valhalla1240

5 жыл бұрын

and back then you didn't really marry for love and even if you did, it was still common to beat and rape your wife... some of them probably weren't that fond of their husband.

@jeremymullins1294

5 жыл бұрын

so? In the 1800's the husband was probably *more* present than in the 1960s!

It’s so wild that many woman were like, “absolutely not!” and many men were like, “absolutely, we’re partners”.

@TheNaexis

3 жыл бұрын

A lot of women back then wanted privacy.

@glykera

3 жыл бұрын

The women were brought up with the idea that all that 'wimin's business' (menstruation, childbirth, possibly even nursing) is something shameful that should never be shown to the husband because he'd be grossed out by it.

@SuperAdnan117

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheNaexis The real answer.

@_tripalong

3 жыл бұрын

I personally think couples didn't have enough intimacy for these kind of moments back then... which is really sad. Women feeling uncomfortable in front of their husbands when giving birth and men not wanting to be with their wives in such a raw and vulnerable moment bc it would "traumatize" them. It's just sad.

@TheNaexis

3 жыл бұрын

@@_tripalong It was, and even now, a lot more of an issue where women do not want their partner present because childbirth is a time when they're very much physically exposed. To be seen bleeding, or with urine or feces present, while a baby is on delivery is physically traumatic to the body and moee often then none a man was just anxious or insecure and had nothing to do in such a way that many just did not (and still don't) want them present. Privacy was and is a preferred option; but it's not always the case. Some people do want partners present and that's not a measure of intimacy. It's more to the nature of how private someone is.

The guy that said "it got nothing to do with me I ain't married" Lol me

Did anyone notice ..all the women who says "yes the husband should be there" are single n without children but the women who have already had a child and married says "no the husband should not be there" ..idk I found that interesting 🤔

Being present at birth, does not mean, you have to stare into the wormhole while it is doing its magic, or does it? Just stand beside your woman and hold her hand, ffs.

@mable90shaynne

4 жыл бұрын

My husband saw more than I did. The doctor asked if we wanted a mirror to see and we both said yes but I didn't have my contacts or glasses so I really didn't see much.

@Anona_Meows

4 жыл бұрын

Wormhole?! Lol 🤣.. I mean if you are already there, why miss out on watching your own kid being born with the woman you are about to raise a kid with. If she can push a human out of her after growing it for 9 months, the dude can watch. It is just birth, a totally natural thing.. it is not scary lol. If he can't watch birth how is he going to handle projectile shit and vomit from a baby monster lol.

@hoppeklinka

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah but he still can see all the blood and mucus and placenta coming out anyway. He will also be asked if he wants to cut the umbilical cord, which, according to my husband, feels like trying to cut a thick, slimy rubber band. But that’s ok too. He thought that at that moment “everything felt natural”.

@CassidyStarke

4 жыл бұрын

Anona Meows It’s not really about if the man can handle it or not. It’s about the woman, giving birth is already hard enough without your man looking at it. Just hold her hand if thats what she wants.

@JonatasAdoM

4 жыл бұрын

"Wormhole" What a choice of words. Imagining babies coming out of stark trek wormhole now. We all know it's a blackhole, it sucks happiness and gives debt.

Absolutely nobody:................................ KZread algorithm: should men watch the birth of their children circa 1962

@RainyRunningRiver

4 жыл бұрын

If this came out today it would be called homophobic for only asking straight couples and transphobic for stating that only the woman have children.

@TXejas19

4 жыл бұрын

@@RainyRunningRiver they have surrogates tho sooo

@IAMBENNYBLANCO.

4 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@candie1230

4 жыл бұрын

TXejas19 TXejas19 which are also women. Men and Trans-women cannot give birth. It’s basic biology. Only people who were born with a uterus can give birth.

@finalbossoftheinternet6002

4 жыл бұрын

candie1230 ironically, although leftists attack heterosexual relationships, if it weren’t for heterosexual relationships those vary people would in fact not exist.

„It shouldn‘t be too far.“ 😶 That‘s always nice to hear.

I love the way they all talk. Their voices are very different from how people talk now and they have a beat with every word they say it’s truly wonderful

I liked the one guy who basically said it's up to the husband and wife. That's how it should be.

@tiredera

3 жыл бұрын

Time stamp - 2:01 2:02

@flannel2699

3 жыл бұрын

Wise man in fedora :) 2:01 ish

@puuhamato6294

3 жыл бұрын

Well ofcp

@davideldred.campingwilder6481

3 жыл бұрын

Although I agree with you in part. Why is it such an issue? I mean. Some things should be sacred between and in opposition of a man and wife, no?

@bigsmall246

3 жыл бұрын

Those were indeed wise words from an elder

Shout out to the man at 2:02 who was the only guy who considered the feelings of the woman giving birth!

@KonstruktiveKritik

5 жыл бұрын

Suzan Y Yeah, he’s a good guy.

@0000song0000

5 жыл бұрын

@@KonstruktiveKritik he was born in the 1800s yet he had the brains to say it (notice his nervous laugh, he knows there was women "against" it)

@msmunkietime

5 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! His answer was most considerate of everyone involved and each unique situation.

@warmccl

5 жыл бұрын

The first dude was considerate too.

@AliceinJapanaland

5 жыл бұрын

I doubt I'd want him there, either. All these doctors and nurses staring between your legs and your body in agony, but please honey why don't you watch? Think I'd prefer what little privacy I'm able to at that moment.

3:39 the way shes looking at him looks like theyre in one of those old romance movies oml

@realm1369

3 жыл бұрын

Well that's how people where :)

@user-xb3cy2tg1w

3 жыл бұрын

@@realm1369 its literally so cute nowadays people just look at each other in sexual ways its disgusting like is this too much to ask for

My father watched the birth of my sister. After that my mother didn't want him to watch my and my brothers birth, because he made everyone nervous.

I love how well dressed everyone is.

@delirmaryland

4 жыл бұрын

That's because this interview shows only one side of society, the rich suburban one.

@keyboardcockatoo4567

4 жыл бұрын

Davide Vandelli true but i really just like the rich 50s look lol

@delirmaryland

4 жыл бұрын

@@keyboardcockatoo4567 mood

@hdtaylor1977

4 жыл бұрын

Davide Vandelli during that time most people left the house well dressed no matter their economic circumstances.

@Snakecrossing

4 жыл бұрын

@@hdtaylor1977 this is my understanding as well. Maybe the materials were a bit cheaper more used and maybe you just had one dress or one suit but they definitely wore them out and took care of their clothes.

“Well I’m married to the woman I should know everything that goes on” lol 😂 deeaaaddd!

@littleripper312

4 жыл бұрын

I'm hoping what he meant is that they are one person and that goes both ways... lmao

@trynatural23

4 жыл бұрын

I mean, he's right tho!😂

@aderiancreature8464

4 жыл бұрын

Just read this when he was saying it😅

@spritemon98

4 жыл бұрын

It's still funny

@spritemon98

4 жыл бұрын

@@aderiancreature8464 I did too

It should be the couple’s decision. Personally, I was present at my second child’s birth. I wanted so much to experience it with my partner and I am so glad I did. It turned out to be long and traumatic for my wife. Her waters broke at eleven in the morning and they ended up inducing her a few hours later, then we expected the baby would be born imminently. Time dragged on, with my wife pushing and pushing beyond her threshold of endurance. I started to worry, but as the doctors didn’t seem the same, so I thought it must be okay. Half past eleven pm arrived and a doctor mention “forceps” which made me freeze. I seen what forceps can do to the baby’s head so I whispered into my wife’s ear “push! push, baby, PUSH! Twenty to twelve on New Year’s Eve our precious boy entered this world; he was placed on mummy’s tummy while we admired his little being with tears in our eyes. It was phenomenal! It made me see just exactly what women REALLY go through and I was so proud of her, and somewhat worried. After the the whole experience my wife’s eye was blood red, which I put down to the extreme pushing: burst blood vessels. Months later wife suffered frequent depression and excruciating headaches which had her cuddled in a corner in crying with unbearable pain which began to subside after forty five minutes. At that time she said she felt as if something was released into her brain. Her eyes would look dopey and the trauma would start to ease. She has suffered this for years and takes medication which helps a bit, but if she experiences any stress in her life this can trigger one of these crushing headaches. She often says -“What did I do to suffer so?” And, I feel hopeless that I can’t help her. As anyone ever experienced similar in their life, mainly the Headaches? I would like to know how you cope or know of a better medication. Please write if you come across this. Thank you.

@nielszindel1151

2 ай бұрын

Ask the GP if she can see a neurologist they have better meds all. the time and a neurologist can tell her what is wrong hopefully. I am wondering if raised blood pressure affected her brain during. the birth which does sound traumatic. Hope this helps I am a retired RN. Delia Morris

0:40 the way he says it is cute lol

The guy that said, "depends on the temperament of the husband and the preferences of the wife" hit it straight on. I was there for all 3 of mine. If she wants you there, you comfort your wife, give encouragement, realize that together you brought a beautiful life into this world, and immediately bond with your child, hopefully making you a better husband and father for the rest of your life.

@Jaysaflame

3 жыл бұрын

"If she wants you there" If not Im marrying someone else 😂 gotta have these conversations before getting married 🤷🏾

@Halfbloodprincesss8

3 жыл бұрын

I totally agree with this. Some husbands are just too controlling/hyper/cause more stress/think they should be the center of attention. I told my husband that it is my hospital room. I am the patient. If he hindered the experience, he can gladly wait outside. Some men just aren’t mature enough to handle it even though they may be okay in everyday life

@happygamer3395

3 жыл бұрын

@@Halfbloodprincesss8 Call me immature if you want, but if my future wife didn't let me see the birth of my own child then I'm walking out of the marriage. I would sooner shave my beard then miss the birth of my child

@Halfbloodprincesss8

3 жыл бұрын

@@happygamer3395 I agree with you. The agreement between a husband and wife is to support each other through times like having a baby and creating a family. The people who have no right to be there for the birth of their kids are men who think they can alpha their way around the birth of their child by telling the wife that she can’t get an epidural or medication for the birth, or by sitting around complaining they are tired or hungry or playing video games instead of catering to the wife who is in labor for hours if not days. If the father of the child/husband is a supportive part of the process even if they have no clue what they’re doing (let’s face it most moms don’t either), then those are the guys who have every right to be there for their family. My husband knew the rules and he was respectful, brought me ice chips and popsicles, and knew when I just needed a quiet environment to focus. Not all men are like that in a stressful situation.

@Weltall8000

3 жыл бұрын

I couldn't imagine not being there for the birth of my child. Right now, I am in the hospital with my wife, waiting for our first child to be born. I am extremely excited!

Sweet lord, that first dude so woke. Made him even more attractive.

@malorie8557

5 жыл бұрын

Right?

@everydaycringeeverydaycrin846

5 жыл бұрын

“Woke” fuck that stupid word

@BLAKDANGER

5 жыл бұрын

Lol you women are so weird

@rochellepaws

4 жыл бұрын

What a catch he must have been! He was only thinking of being there for his wife and not what he personally had to gain or lose from the situation like the others.

@MeadeSkeltonMusic

4 жыл бұрын

No he wasn't

I not only watched, but literally 'caught' both of my children bare-handed. No experience will ever match the feeling of that moment. Life changing.

To give her privacy. We'll was privacy given when making the baby?😂

It's fascinating how the accent was so different back then, especially considering it hasn't been that long.

@lillianmonet5952

3 жыл бұрын

It was done in Sydney, unless you meant an Australian accent :)

@shaunmcfarlane9657

3 жыл бұрын

@@lillianmonet5952 i think he means with proper pronunciation of the words and the education to the words not like " oh yea na i reckon it be alright if man where there you know what I mean "

@TheLeatheryman

3 жыл бұрын

@@shaunmcfarlane9657 truth is people had a different way of speaking when the occasion called for it. It's just posh phone manner and mostly for show.

@mattybrunolucaszeneresalas9072

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao the egocentric nature of America can be so cute. Just what if Mulan 121 was an Australian! And he might be bewildered and question where the heck YOU are from to ask such a thing!

@blank1505

3 жыл бұрын

@Mulan 121 I always think about that!

The guy who said 'it depends on the temperament of the man and the feelings of the woman' hits it on the head.

@LB0206

3 жыл бұрын

2:03

@umarb7325

3 жыл бұрын

I hate how men who dont have the temperament to witness it are vilified. Future fathers can learn from both sets of experiences. It's not going to be a pretty sight, if you go in ready you might be able to withstand the sight even if you have a very weak constitution.

@umarb7325

3 жыл бұрын

to future fathers there will be afterbirth, there will be blood, there might even be faeces. Dont go in without educating yourself

@bakubb8659

3 жыл бұрын

@@umarb7325 some men just can’t handle it

@yoshita4140

5 күн бұрын

@@umarb7325 to be very honest if you're not ready to witness the childbirth, then you're not ready to be a parent. that is the moment you will feel the most connected to your new baby and the mother of your child. nothing else in life or your relationship will ever be close to that.

My husband was at the birth of my daughter and (not to brag) but he said he had a new outlook on life and a great amount of respect after nearly 60 hours of labor, 3.5 hours of pushing, induction, and an emergency c section. It's a special moment for the father to be there for the birth of their child when the mother and father bond together watching their baby's entrance into the world.

@ladydeath.x

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao not my babydad he fell asleep 👍

This video popped up on my feed this morning and made me subscribe. Now I'm down a rabbit hole watching all these old videos. Really interesting

“Perhaps they wouldn’t have so many children if they could watch the birth” 😂😂

@garnet1223

4 жыл бұрын

thats a good thing though

@jesusflores2121

4 жыл бұрын

AJ wins best comment and Marky Mark wins for best reply.

@thegreatwhitenorth8754

4 жыл бұрын

For some it would be like watching your favorite restaurant burn down

@daisyfields1

4 жыл бұрын

@Yes Sir! really? Wow :o sounds like youre traumatized!

@sallylara1102

4 жыл бұрын

Marky Mark soooooo true 💯

The men are all: it would be admirable to attend. The women: get away from me youll only stress me out.

@seangust9025

3 жыл бұрын

“I don’t want my husband to know I tore my V to my A” I wish that was a response

@LilMissTravelPants

3 жыл бұрын

@@seangust9025 Tearing doesn't necessarily happen. Shitting happens often though, and all shits should be done with as much privacy as possible.

@seangust9025

3 жыл бұрын

@@LilMissTravelPants that’s kind of graphic lol somehow more so than my less than realistic idea

@L1am21

3 жыл бұрын

@@LilMissTravelPants I had to clean my girlfriends shit off the floor lol.

@MsRizz100

3 жыл бұрын

@@LilMissTravelPants yeah child birth is a very stressful and not nice situation at all to put it lightly lmao, anyways yeah tearing happens all the time and if not natural tearing they cut you from your v to a if the baby is to big and then have to stitch you up all that happening right and the mothers choose at times to not have pain medicine my mother did that for all 4 of my siblings and now going on 5th. So imagine that without pain medication and giving birth in general without that is the worst pain one can manage without blacking out it’s like 51-52 and last from a few hours to 2days.

I feel like a father feels like he misses something - he has lost them with a relationship. They should be there at all times. Many fathers and children feel like that children are closer to their mother as been with them since birth.

I knew a man, already father, who helped his Nextdoor neighbour giving birth to her first child. He was experienced, she was not, help was on the way, but she was still alone, and scared as hell. He happened to be at home that day. She begged him to help her. All went well. Some men are wonderful.

"They're married to the woman, they should know everything that's going on." That's either really endearing or absolutely appalling.

@sr2971

3 жыл бұрын

the latter

@josephgruwell2315

3 жыл бұрын

The former

@kamilagorczyca9939

3 жыл бұрын

both

@endlessstudent3512

3 жыл бұрын

Appalling. Sounded like a control freak.

@michael-ni5bc

3 жыл бұрын

I think they mean for the situation of childbirth they should know everything idk

Love the guy who said it’s a nice thing for a man to see his child come into the world.

@patsyhodge9071

3 жыл бұрын

The bloody Doctor though. Didnt want a bar of it.

@cynthiapereira8403

3 жыл бұрын

@@patsyhodge9071 that’s where it all started.

@ddawg3230

3 жыл бұрын

@@patsyhodge9071 he probably seen too many to think much of it ..also probably doesn't want the guy hyperventilating and giving them an extra person to take care of 😛

@lotusshona6367

3 жыл бұрын

Once he see the vagina stretch it never leaves his mind

@william_afton8398

3 жыл бұрын

I would like to say that all of these 4 replys before me was very amusing. What a nice talk

For my first child I said I wanted my husband to stand at my head the whole time so he didn't see anything shocking. For our third he assisted me solo on our bedroom floor and it was amazing.

@NellenelleForSure

2 ай бұрын

❤💕

Best experience of my life, holding my son as he popped into my arms and into the world, he yelled his lungs out and I chatted to him. We BONDED. He grew up very close to me and knows I will always be there for him.

“No, I think a woman should have privacy at that point” Privacy? Has she forgotten how the baby was conceived in the first place?

@kehbab

4 жыл бұрын

Missionary in the dark under the blankets. Different times, less to none sexy times

@leaf111

4 жыл бұрын

to be fair if i ever give birth i wouldn't want my partner around lol most people shit during childbirth that's not something i want them to see

@VieraXXII

4 жыл бұрын

I do agree with her. 80% of women defecate and another large percentage tear their vaginas or perineum. Soooo yeah. It is up to the individuals, like if they choose a c-section, maybe not so bad. But I would like Privacy.

@kurlozmakara4194

4 жыл бұрын

@@VieraXXII yea everyone's different, but I have to laf omg, my mum told me it's cause the doctors tell you too push, and it's very hard to distinguish what your pushing when your cervix has dilated to the width of a human head 😶

@user-yh8li2tm8g

4 жыл бұрын

if you had sex with someone would you also like them to watch you take a shit? childbirth is probably even more personal than to have someone watch you on the toilet

Crazy to think 90% of the people talking are now dead.

@mpalmer7800

4 жыл бұрын

Shows how fleeting life is, we are temporary beings having a physical experience!!

@kristineakana7771

4 жыл бұрын

True! Life is short. We must be certain of our eternity! Jesus came to give us life, if we turn from our sin and put our trust in Him, we will be saved. If we reject our savior and creator, we will suffer eternally in the lake of fire where there is utter darkness, weeping, and gnashing of teeth. Repent, put your trust in Jesus. And then grow in the knowledge of God. Read His Word, the Bible, every day. Jesus loves you! ❤️ He did not come into the world to condemn the world but to save the world.

@cigdemekinci7891

4 жыл бұрын

This is what i think when i watch this video too😂😂

@phin6843

4 жыл бұрын

skunkii exactly, they sound dumb

@eatthis6227

4 жыл бұрын

@@lurji there is a chance that life continues to exist after death. We have souls. Reincarnation is very possible too. I'm not a christian, I do not believe in religion, but for some reason I'm almost sure that there's something after death. If you really wish to survive. Why it is so delusional? I bet you didn't even experience something paranormal to be so sure about your theory. The only delusional people are those who say that there's no other kind of life after the death of the body. How can you be so sure? Having an opinion is fine, but don't make it public and offend someone with a different point of view than yours.

I love how every respondent answered the question respectfully even if some of them seem to be in a hurry

It’s so interesting listening to them talk and how different they talk from us now.

@evanhughes1510

5 ай бұрын

It’s because they’re British!

Men who never watched a birth: Yes. Single women without children: Yes. Married women with children: Hell No!

@chrisyo4461

4 жыл бұрын

Why is that

@drkatbun8566

4 жыл бұрын

@@chrisyo4461 giving birth can be quite traumatic (your in pain from an hour up to 20hrs constantly (depending on the woman) some women like to have their significant other supporting them, others don't, it's personal preference, I guess that the women who don't want someone in the room with them, don't want people to see them scream bloody murder or be all sweaty and covered in blood. It's personal preference at most.

@noinfoneeded1838

4 жыл бұрын

Stylomagic in my culture men aren’t allowed to see the birth and they don’t come too see her until the baby 1week is. :(

@Stylomagic

4 жыл бұрын

@@noinfoneeded1838 That's horrible, why?! I mean the mother decides that, should be that way in every culture.

@Wayniesgirl

4 жыл бұрын

@@drkatbun8566 "Doctor" 😂

I think most of the women who said no were scared their husbands wouldn't be attracted to them if they saw them in that state. Which is quite sad honestly

@asteroid152jes

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, if you're from a time where marriage was a requirement and the man you married wasn't necessarily one you wanted to, the societies were very separate. Women did Women Things and men did Men Things, and men encroaching on women's spaces/activities was so much more upsetting and privacy-destroying back then. A lot has changed in a relatively short time (for the better), but those older women were probably very much stuck in the "men have better things to do, and this is a Woman's Thing" idea.

@alohatigers1199

3 жыл бұрын

@@asteroid152jes For the better? The society today is a lot worse. The divorce rates, marriages rates, how many men are becoming single (for the better) and look at how they view females and you can’t blame them for which feminism is the leading cause. No men would date a feminist. You know exactly why. Look at the single females and you notice they are one of them and once they are 30 and wish to seek to marry, settle down, & have kids, notice these men choose to ignore them. Why is that? It’s not that hard. You often hear single females saying “where are the good men gone?” You know exactly why.

@silvie5524

3 жыл бұрын

@@alohatigers1199 Can you explain why you think feminism is causing a negative view on women? Feminism is literally the belief that women and men should have equal rights and opportunities. Nothing more. From my perspective that seems quite fair. And why are you saying men and you’re calling women females? A “female” could be anything, not necessarily a human. Could be be a dog. Not a crime to use the word female in this way but just wondering why. Oh and as a feminist myself I can happily say that men actually do want to date me and there are actually quite a lot of good men out there. Have a good day!

@trollingmermaids

3 жыл бұрын

@@alohatigers1199 lmao you sound very sexist. Also the divorce rates are high because people actually feel comfortable getting divorced now. Back then there was so much stigma attached people frequently stayed married to people they didn't love or even people who were abusive or cheaters because they felt they had to. I'm glad the divorce rate is so high today. It means more people are choosing to be happy and move on. That's a good thing. If only people would stop getting married to begin with lol. Marriage is not for everyone. In fact I think the divorce rates prove that. But society still pressures people to get married. I predict another 50-100 years from now there will be less marriages.

@Charlie-pu9bx

3 жыл бұрын

@@alohatigers1199 "no men would date a feminist" First of all, it's "man" not "men" in this sentence. Secondly, I'm a feminist who has been with my boyfriend for nearly 9 years. I know LOADS of feminists who are in happy relationships with men. Just admit you're a sexist bellend.

I'll put it this way, husband's help make the baby so they should be involved in the pregnancy and birth process as much as humanly possible. Being responsible for the life you helped make starts by being there as it enters the world. Seeing your wife give birth to your baby is a beautiful thing and something no man should miss out on.

I dont have kids yet but my dad was in the room for both me and my brothers birth, and he says it was the most beautiful and life changing moments of his whole life

I’m laughing at the woman who said it’s “private”... um... did you get pregnant alone?

@Riosgirl98

4 жыл бұрын

@Rie Ta well said

@Taco_Burrito39

4 жыл бұрын

No objections but shouldnt your husband be the person to talk to about personal stuff and like its his child too right

@Izzy-jj5ev

4 жыл бұрын

personally i’d prefer to give birth on my own, i don’t speak for everyone but i just wouldn’t want a guy staring into my hoo hah 😎

@juwellwaller2505

4 жыл бұрын

Izzy you’re acting like men aren’t eating the hoo hah beforehand

@meganrotunno4322

4 жыл бұрын

Izzy it’s not a “guy” it’s your close partner plus he has probably already seen it if there is a baby

The number of men who said yes and that they should be there was actually surprising 🔥

@alan4657

3 жыл бұрын

And to think that most of them probably never did get a chance to see their children born assuming that the women of their same age held their beliefs during their child rearing times.

@cz180p

3 жыл бұрын

Not surprising. Men are great people

@stop--

3 жыл бұрын

@@cz180p Neither gender can be called "great people". That's crazy vague. Lol.

@friis5855

3 жыл бұрын

It's a great reminder that women can be sexist too and that men could benefit from feminism as well (because of toxic masculinity)

@Mallenaudrix

3 жыл бұрын

@The Monster Under Your Bed Or she has just had some not so great experiences. A dog flinches when you go to pet it if its hit enough by that same hand.

Nah, witnessing a childbirth it's like watching your favourite pub getting burned down

@ina43431

2 жыл бұрын

weird

As a young person who’s grown up in today’s society, it’s very difficult for me to ignore how beautifully dressed everyone was, and how they all carried themselves with such class and elegance! And they all spoke so eloquently, respectfully, and reasonably despite their differing opinions on the topic at hand. Long gone are the days of those standards, it seems... It’s difficult to put into words how much I admire the mid 20th century generations, because so many people would go against me today, giving me a reason to believe otherwise, and though I do agree that society has moved forward in many ways, I also see that it has taken some very terribly backwards strides... that we have lost a lot of what was timelessly good in the process. I do wish the importance of formal dress, class, sound rationality, and the standard of being polite that existed in those days, for example, could return to our modern society... :(

@jaijai5250

Жыл бұрын

You don’t have to follow the crowd. You can dress how you like. The last time I went to a West End theatre (2022), I dressed up. Most people looked like they were running an errand, or doing housework. Do what makes you feel good!

The first man is a rare kind of husband. Such loving and understanding perception

@baumber1919

3 жыл бұрын

Especially for the time period

@solitaire5856

3 жыл бұрын

@@baumber1919 what makes you think husbands were not loving and understanding as a rule during that time period?

@baumber1919

3 жыл бұрын

@@solitaire5856 considering there was more domestic abuse back then; toxicity and oppression towards both male and females obviously would cause a lot of problems that were bound to arise but I'm not denying that it wasn't all like that just more prominent in older times

@peteaxe2067

3 жыл бұрын

@@baumber1919 I honestly don't know if there was more domestic abuse back then. I feel like the scale is similar to nowadays. It still happens alot. There's always good n bad people

@nicoguapo584

3 жыл бұрын

@@baumber1919 You’re exaggerating this

I thought more men would say no considering the time.

@dbzayan

4 жыл бұрын

I expected this. Marriage was a lot more sacred and traditional back then. Plus, the 1960's were a relatively progressive time anyways lol.

@_trixieburg26

4 жыл бұрын

@@dbzayan yea that is true, but with the way feminism and stuff is going it almost seemed as if men didn't do much of anything.

@jellybutterpeanut1

4 жыл бұрын

@@_trixieburg26 modern feminism is bs

@AlysonJackson

4 жыл бұрын

Patricia Burgess modern feminism is different from back then. Many things were very sacred, esp to a married couple who was about to start a family

@_trixieburg26

4 жыл бұрын

@@AlysonJackson yea I'm starting to see that now lol😂😂

It’s crazy how different it is now. I had a baby right before covid hit and they let my husband deliver her (with the midwife and nurse there to guide him). It was an amazing experience for both of us and we were the first ones to hold her

It's the mother's right to choose if she wants her husband there or not, since she's the one giving birth. Whatever she decides, it's part of his responsibility as a husband to respect those wishes, however much he may (understandably) want to witness his baby's birth.

@olg06

3 жыл бұрын

@Josh C Most couples now a days are not religious...